Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I Am Confused About What Really Happened

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 101 People

    10 Years of Fate? Or 9 Years of Silly Fantasies?

    I suppose it seems silly to dwell on a relationship that never happened or could never happen. But my heart was given away -at least, I'm convinced it was given away, since I'd never been in love before and what I was feeling was something new I was experiencing- Oh, I'd had...
    fatedheart fatedheart 21-25, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Loving A Narcissistic Psychopath

    I will always be confused about what happened and I will never get answers.
    BPBitch BPBitch 41-45, F Feb 2, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    When I was in kindergarden my dads best friend

    was staying with my family. He had just gotten through a serious accident which resulted in a traumatic brain injury, and a shift in personalities. In recent years when i've seen him i've always felt nervous around him, or extremely uncomfortable unless i'm with a parent. I...
    obliviousthinker obliviousthinker 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 16

    Your Response

    Cancel

    At the Beginning of the Year

    me and my boyfriend of two a half years split up. I feel that I'm over him now, I no longer want to be with him and although I miss him it's being close to someone in a relationship that I miss rather than him. Despite all of this, I am confused as to what happened. We were...
    juniper juniper 21-25, F 5 Responses Dec 31, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    What Happened?

    me and my fiance were in a relationship for almost 3 years. we had been engaged for almost a year and a half. we had plans to get married and everything and things were well, or so i thought. he even suggested to move the wedding date up, but b/c of school, i couldn't add that...
    kkstorm04 kkstorm04 21-25, F 3 Responses Nov 16, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Why Did He Have To Go?

    I first saw him when I was 13 years old.  He walked into the Mosque and it was as if a glow was around him.  I had a strange feeling in my heart that he was the one.. I had no idea what his name was or how old he was, all I knew was that this was the man I was suppose to marry...
    TaraRani TaraRani 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 24, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    I was with my boyfriend for four years, we broke up less than a month ago because he said he had feelings for someone else. About two weeks ago he came back to me saying he wants...
    Itslisa Itslisa 22-25, F 6 Responses Sep 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    For any further info on this look at my other posts, and for those who already know this is just an update! I'm in love with my step brother...here are the details of whats...
    OtakuGirl911 OtakuGirl911 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 1

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My bf talks about our future kids, business, and life. Monday through Friday he is so relaxed and lazy which I know that's one of men's many favorite things to do :) I'm fine with...
    vonbender2010 vonbender2010 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    On the outside my marriage appears to be wonderful. I got married at 16 and over 6 years later I truly do love my husband and I know he truly loves me. The problem that keeps...
    Redneckmom1992 Redneckmom1992 22-25, F 15 Responses Sep 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Earlier today after school, my best friend/ex boyfriend/current crush and I were waiting for his bus to arrive and went to talk to one of our friends. She also had a few others...
    LoveIsAConfusingThing LoveIsAConfusingThing 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I need someone to talk to about what I'm feeling
    fiestychica fiestychica 22-25, F 2 Responses 22 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Everyone wants acceptance and approval. I worry too much about what others perceive me as that I get self-conscious about anything that I do. It's hard to obtain a careless...
    anitamigna anitamigna 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'd like to start off by saying I met my boyfriend 6 years ago before he had any kids, him and I were just friends at the time. In that time he was seeing someone although he...
    SeniaV SeniaV 22-25, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've been in a relationship with my guy for almost 2 years. He's 42, I'm 23. We live together in his apartment. We get along pretty good. We like a lot of the same things. I guess...
    justmoe justmoe 22-25, F 3 Responses 18 mins ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've been feeling confused lately. I've been single for 3 years now, before that I was dating my best friend of the last 11 years. I had moved back to his home town back in 2011...
    misspaperwait misspaperwait 22-25, F 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Hey this is my first time writing any experience on here, but I guess I'm going to give it a try. I guess you can say everything started in sixth grade? Since this point in my life...
    ThisKidd ThisKidd 13-15, M Sep 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I recently started dating this guy who was persistent about having me around. He used to call me every morning and night. We both work so we see each other 2-3 times a wk. However...
    missyluvslilies missyluvslilies 26-30, F 9 Responses Sep 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Ok so this is going to be very long but if you are willing to help then that would mean the world to me:) I have told this to some people but I want others opinions on this as well...
    Candice321 Candice321 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Confused- unable to think clearly; bewildered. Confused because I'm treading in the unknown. Confused because I don't know what the future holds. Confused because the one place I...
    lavioletta lavioletta 31-35, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    You see, this may sound stupid because I'm very young but I feel like if I don't say this I will keep thinking it over and over and just get more stressed. I am fourteen and I...
    ValeriyaIvanov ValeriyaIvanov 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a year and a half now. I love her to death. I always had a thing for girls and I knew that from an early age. The thing is, where...
    NouraRN NouraRN 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    One thing that is constantly on my mind right now is about my relationship. Straight to the point; We met a year ago, and it was the 3rd month of my foundation year. Honestly I had...
    bellatrixeslove bellatrixeslove 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 1

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Sometimes, I really don't understand my bf. Let me give a recount of what happened last night. It made me really angry. And I mean REALLY angry. Honestly I can say that he acted...
    pensivepaws pensivepaws 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am 21 years old while he's 28. I am single, he has a girlfriend. I think they were together for a long time and they already have a plan to marry this 2016. I know this because...
    august01 august01 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Long story short I am married and got caught texting another man... **** hit the fan since my H knows the guy and now life is upside down. I knew what I was doing was wrong but I...
    hbgirl24 hbgirl24 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'll be the first to admit that I mocked long distance relationships, I genuinely believed that they couldn't possibly exist and be real. Now I feel more confused than ever before...
    RebeccaLouise9541 RebeccaLouise9541 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I really need help and I don't know what to do with this relationship anymore. I have been with my boyfriend for more than a year now. He is in medical school and I'm working...
    TiffyQ723 TiffyQ723 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    i've been dating this guy for two months and still i am confuse if he really likes me and want to be in a relationship with me,we barely talk on the phone, sometimes we're not...
    tzfanya tzfanya 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've been in a relationship for about six months now. I honestly believe he doesn't care about me at all, though all of his friends swear otherwise. I really do like him but I feel...
    blueoracle blueoracle 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 1

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My boyfriend of 9 months cuts himself when I try to end it with him. I know he's not right for me and it has nothing to do with his depression and cutting. I am feeling really...
    hanna135 hanna135 41-45, F 5 Responses Sep 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I know this is weird but I like reading **** between two men and that really turns me on yet I like watching **** between two women and idk what i like in real life what does this...
    gigglesounds gigglesounds 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't know where is my life headed:( I really don't know what I want to dooo I'm stuck. I'm 21. I get irritated by everyone, to the point where I just want to yell at them and...
    bar206 bar206 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I allow my bf to go out with his friends but he didnt told me that he is together with all girls.. i only see their picture on fb and when i askhim thats the only time he told me...
    mspokwang mspokwang 36-40, F 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Not exactly confused but rather worried about him. I am proud to let the world know my boyfriend is a United States Marine but sometimes it feels like he doesn't let people know I...
    luisaacosta luisaacosta 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 18

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't know where to start.... I have been with my boyfriend now for 2 years. We have problems, we aren't perfect....we fight and we have different interests. We use to talk about...
    Thetroubledperfectionist Thetroubledperfectionist 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My wife has completely transformed into a person I do not know nor want to know. Everything is different, but not for the better. Do I try to find out what's really going on...
    uncertaintime99 uncertaintime99 41-45, M 3 Responses a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Sorry babe.. I really dont know if she truly love me. I hope she tell me honestly what she feels in me.. Wait.. I think i'm just paranoid ..
    emily036 emily036 18-21, F 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I dont know if my marriage will last. My husband unknowly made me pick between him & my parents. I feel like my father who I was really close with has pretty much disowned me. My...
    TriniLove TriniLove 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am so confused I love my Husband but I know he is toxic for me and he lies and sleeps with other people. I have proof of one person but not others. I feel it with all my being...
    mb1973 mb1973 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm love my bf and it's only been a month and a half. We connect on different levels. He makes me smile even when I don't want to. He makes me forget about all the people that are...
    cjohnson1983 cjohnson1983 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    The worst feeling in the world is to find out the feelings aren't really mutual, due to past relationships. I've always been the amazing person that finishes last. So tired of...
    cjohnson1983 cjohnson1983 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Ughhhh. SOS. Help me figure this one out. Got stories? Advice? Help out a confused 16 year-old girl. You'll earn good karma.
    IvyEstelle IvyEstelle 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I haven't really actively looked for love. I usually just experience it through others peoples stories. I am curious and know that it will change my perspective on things, but I've...
    bec413 bec413 18-21, F Aug 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Do you go on hitting on a girl after multiple rejections because you don't like the feeling of rejection/try to change her mind or because you really like her?
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 31

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Morality is one of the recurring themes in my life at this point. I desperately want to be good. I live a life filled with guilt. I see evil in every single one of my actions. I...
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm all better now. He was really bold and I wasn't ready for it. Were okay now. But I told him I will not hesitate to end it, if he decides to ask for THAT again... You think I'm...
    KittyKatLuvsYhu KittyKatLuvsYhu 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 19

    Your Response

    Cancel