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I Am Confused About What Really Happened

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    When I was in kindergarden my dads best friend

    was staying with my family. He had just gotten through a serious accident which resulted in a traumatic brain injury, and a shift in personalities. In recent years when i've seen him i've always felt nervous around him, or extremely uncomfortable unless i'm with a parent. I...
    obliviousthinker obliviousthinker 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 16

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    At the Beginning of the Year

    me and my boyfriend of two a half years split up. I feel that I'm over him now, I no longer want to be with him and although I miss him it's being close to someone in a relationship that I miss rather than him. Despite all of this, I am confused as to what happened. We were...
    juniper juniper 21-25, F 5 Responses Dec 31, 2007

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    Loving A Narcissistic Psychopath

    I will always be confused about what happened and I will never get answers.
    BPBitch BPBitch 41-45, F Feb 2, 2013

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    What Happened?

    me and my fiance were in a relationship for almost 3 years. we had been engaged for almost a year and a half. we had plans to get married and everything and things were well, or so i thought. he even suggested to move the wedding date up, but b/c of school, i couldn't add that...
    kkstorm04 kkstorm04 21-25, F 3 Responses Nov 16, 2007

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    Why Did He Have To Go?

    I first saw him when I was 13 years old.  He walked into the Mosque and it was as if a glow was around him.  I had a strange feeling in my heart that he was the one.. I had no idea what his name was or how old he was, all I knew was that this was the man I was suppose to marry...
    TaraRani TaraRani 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 24, 2011

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    10 Years of Fate? Or 9 Years of Silly Fantasies?

    I suppose it seems silly to dwell on a relationship that never happened or could never happen. But my heart was given away -at least, I'm convinced it was given away, since I'd never been in love before and what I was feeling was something new I was experiencing- Oh, I'd had...
    fatedheart fatedheart 21-25, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2007

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    Is it wrong and selfish to leave a long term relationship because you have grown unhappy? My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years, he stuggles with depression so he never...
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    bethanyscott99 bethanyscott99 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have always cared about what people thought about me. Even when I was a kid. I wanted to please everyone, be what everyone wanted me to be. It brought my self-esteem way down...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 15 hrs ago

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    Uncertainty...this is the one thing that I don't know how to cope with. I've been living with my boyfriend for the past 3 years and I must say I have never seen more unstable...
    LorelaiSky LorelaiSky 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 1

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    I guess this is where I should start.... I'm 19 and I was born male, I've been dressing up since I was at least 8 possibly younger. When I was little dressing up was something I...
    ACuriousCrossdresser ACuriousCrossdresser 18-21, T 2 Responses Oct 31

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    So despite of what my fears say I'm starting to get feeling for the most sweetest gentleman in my school. I thought my school had zero percentage of men but I'm wrong. Thing is...
    DeijiDaze DeijiDaze 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    My love life just getting weirder and weirder. So long story short I met this guy a few months back. We totally hit it off, hang out lots together, kiss, make out even though he...
    YongTauFoo YongTauFoo 18-21, F 20 Responses Oct 26

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    Not certain if being in a relationship has a particular mode for that. But I'm positive that every couples surely have their own mode of relationship. Not that we ve to tell each...
    JonDanny JonDanny 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    anthony and i have been dating for a year and a half. we get along mostly but a few things that bothered me about him now make me want space more than ever. in fact, it makes me...
    iridescenteyes iridescenteyes 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 24

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    I know how lucky I am, I have great, no absolutely fricking amazing friends, and an awesome, loving family, I have safety, education, nutrition, and medical help available. But for...
    loveyourselfalwaysxx loveyourselfalwaysxx 13-15, F 5 Responses Nov 4

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    I'm 16, and lately I've been feeling different to those around me. When thoughts that I may be interested in girls occur, I just tell myself that it's because I am lonely, and that...
    lucyjaynesymons lucyjaynesymons 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 4

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    I'm really confused. I don't know what to do. I think I'm starting to like girls too (as well as boys) , but even if I was Bi or Lesbian, I could never tell me family :( Any advice...
    JustThatNobody JustThatNobody 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 9

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    Okay. so a month and a half back I asked this girl out who I knew had a crush on me for a long time..I really started to like her and after 20 days of being away from one another I...
    niggamanmanmanman niggamanmanmanman 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 30

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    So he texted me again after ignored me for 3 days.. Telling bout his internship and stuffs innocently.. And I was nicely responding to him and wish him a very good luck with his...
    paupaw paupaw 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 3

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    I am so confused. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months he is 18 and I'm 26. He recently told me he's not ready for a relationship right now. He wants me to wait for...
    Casspper Casspper 26-30, M 3 Responses Nov 3

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    Well my recent experience was very painful and sad thing. I met this lady online. We dated for a short time. We like each other and fell in love. We all wanted the same thing. The...
    maru1 maru1 31-35, M 3 Responses Nov 8

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    I would love some feedback everyone. so I have recently been in a relationship for 6 months. recently he has decided that we werent meant to be together...the blame started with me...
    schepab schepab 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 13

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    I look around, and see all these people I'm surrounded by, they think I'm normal.But none of them really know me. I feel disconnected with even some of my best friends. Because I...
    ZachTheGreat1 ZachTheGreat1 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 13

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    I dated this lady for about two months and we shared everything about our lives and each other with one another. Then she drove 3 hours down to my home on 11-14-14 to spend the...
    wjk1849 wjk1849 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 15

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    Idontknowwhomiam Idontknowwhomiam 22-25 6 Responses Nov 11

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    It's conflicting right now honestly...I've just been told by my dad's secretary that I'll have to move to stay at a temple next month for 3 - 6 months. They hope it'll cleanse my...
    SwanNual SwanNual 22-25, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    Do you ever think "why am i still with this person"?? Like all he does is nitpick about the little things i do that **** him off and all he seems to want to do is ****. Hes either...
    undoing321 undoing321 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    i have never ever felt comfortable with being a girl! like, uh-huh, i act really girly, and dress really girly, i guess. but i dont give a f^*%. . A. there is something which feels...
    kousatsu kousatsu 13-15 1 Response Oct 29

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    I know that I like women. I love everything about women. Their more gentle nature (not all, but most) their curves, features, etc. But, I also find men very attractive. I am...
    AMillionReasons AMillionReasons 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 9

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    I'm having a really bad day. I broke up with my now ex two weeks ago, he broke up with me. He was very abusive etc. I can't stop thinking of things I can do to win him back. I know...
    Kerry1304 Kerry1304 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 24

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    I guess its just all been a blur. From the very beginning it was pretty much all arguments. Yet here we are after 1 1/2 years. There have been great times, then there have been...
    SiriusJT SiriusJT 18-21, M 4 Responses Oct 26

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    I'm in one thing currently. It's not a bad thing, but it is not giving me any benefits. I wish to change to another thing, but their results are in waiting. I'm not sure that I get...
    Solutionist Solutionist 18-21, M 3 Responses Oct 31

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    The guy I have been dating for the last couple of months sent a text message to me. It said "something to share" together with a picture of a concert he is in. So I'm confused...
    prettymaria prettymaria 26-30, F Nov 7

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    I got really mad at my mom the other day I went into the boys section of a store and she said she's tired of buying boys stuff I almost cried because well most days I feel like a...
    snowlilly53 snowlilly53 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    So me and my ex got back together the other day.. I'm confused because I'm still having the same nightmares every night. We had a nice day together yesterday, but I couldn't sleep...
    DesiredUsername23 DesiredUsername23 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I don't know what to think right now. my girlfriend of 2 years said that she needs to be single for a while so that she can grow and become more independent. So even though we are...
    ShyGuy90 ShyGuy90 18-21, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. I love him and I care about his feelings but I feel like our relationship needs to come to an end. We never talk about the future. He...
    MissMakaylaCakes MissMakaylaCakes 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 24

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    I've been with the same girl since I was sixteen (twenty now) - she's awesome, and she's absolutely my best friend... but I've been struggling with same-sex attraction and I don't...
    catachresis catachresis 18-21, M 4 Responses Oct 26