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I Am Confused About What Really Happened

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    When I was in kindergarden my dads best friend

    was staying with my family. He had just gotten through a serious accident which resulted in a traumatic brain injury, and a shift in personalities. In recent years when i've seen him i've always felt nervous around him, or extremely uncomfortable unless i'm with a parent. I...
    obliviousthinker obliviousthinker 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 16

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    10 Years of Fate? Or 9 Years of Silly Fantasies?

    I suppose it seems silly to dwell on a relationship that never happened or could never happen. But my heart was given away -at least, I'm convinced it was given away, since I'd never been in love before and what I was feeling was something new I was experiencing- Oh, I'd had...
    fatedheart fatedheart 21-25, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2007

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    What Happened?

    me and my fiance were in a relationship for almost 3 years. we had been engaged for almost a year and a half. we had plans to get married and everything and things were well, or so i thought. he even suggested to move the wedding date up, but b/c of school, i couldn't add that...
    kkstorm04 kkstorm04 21-25, F 3 Responses Nov 16, 2007

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    Loving A Narcissistic Psychopath

    I will always be confused about what happened and I will never get answers.
    BPBitch BPBitch 41-45, F Feb 2, 2013

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    At the Beginning of the Year

    me and my boyfriend of two a half years split up. I feel that I'm over him now, I no longer want to be with him and although I miss him it's being close to someone in a relationship that I miss rather than him. Despite all of this, I am confused as to what happened. We were...
    juniper juniper 21-25, F 5 Responses Dec 31, 2007

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    Why Did He Have To Go?

    I first saw him when I was 13 years old.  He walked into the Mosque and it was as if a glow was around him.  I had a strange feeling in my heart that he was the one.. I had no idea what his name was or how old he was, all I knew was that this was the man I was suppose to marry...
    TaraRani TaraRani 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 24, 2011

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    DrackenP DrackenP 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 23

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    I don't know what to do about loving and really hating my boyfriend at the same time. We are both very impulsive people who often rush into things but don't do anything half...
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    I was with my boyfriend for four years, we broke up less than a month ago because he said he had feelings for someone else. About two weeks ago he came back to me saying he wants...
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    For any further info on this look at my other posts, and for those who already know this is just an update! I'm in love with my step brother...here are the details of whats...
    OtakuGirl911 OtakuGirl911 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    My bf talks about our future kids, business, and life. Monday through Friday he is so relaxed and lazy which I know that's one of men's many favorite things to do :) I'm fine with...
    vonbender2010 vonbender2010 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 2

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    Maybe he's a beard... Maybe he's not. That's not what I'm confused about though. I love spending time with him, being close, sharing the closeness between us, kissing him, touching...
    cantlovealone cantlovealone 18-21, F Aug 23

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    Right I need to rant. So you all have heard of the Ebola Outbreak at the moment? Right ofcourse you have anyway, What really really grinds my gears is that people are stupid...
    GalaxyJumper GalaxyJumper 16-17, M Aug 25

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    Im a girl who has feelings towards my bestfriend who is a girl too. Im inlove with her for a long time yet still not have gotten over it. We went different ways after I graduated...
    iFuckenLoveYou iFuckenLoveYou 18-21, F Aug 22

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    Hey this is my first time writing any experience on here, but I guess I'm going to give it a try. I guess you can say everything started in sixth grade? Since this point in my life...
    ThisKidd ThisKidd 13-15, M Sep 4

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    I recently started dating this guy who was persistent about having me around. He used to call me every morning and night. We both work so we see each other 2-3 times a wk. However...
    missyluvslilies missyluvslilies 26-30, F 11 Responses 3 days ago

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    You see, this may sound stupid because I'm very young but I feel like if I don't say this I will keep thinking it over and over and just get more stressed. I am fourteen and I...
    ValeriyaIvanov ValeriyaIvanov 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 4

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    I am feeling confused with my emotions towards my boyfriend. I'm very tired, and don't feel like typing a ton tonight, so long story short- I don't trust him. We haven't been...
    KrisMiss KrisMiss 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    One thing that is constantly on my mind right now is about my relationship. Straight to the point; We met a year ago, and it was the 3rd month of my foundation year. Honestly I had...
    bellatrixeslove bellatrixeslove 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    So i know a guy and we really like each other. But he lives 1houre away from me but i don't mind and he said he didn't mind too. But after a week he says: yeah i don't know maybe...
    Vietta Vietta 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    But i need to share my life experience . My parents got divorced when i had 14 , i moved with my mom and sister out of our house . i had few relationships when i had 17 till 18...
    agirlouthere agirlouthere 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 25

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    So, there's this guy in my class and it feels like I have a crush on him. I don't know what I like about him tho. He's funny. That's all. I don't know why my heart is choosing to...
    imsounknown imsounknown 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    I am 21 years old while he's 28. I am single, he has a girlfriend. I think they were together for a long time and they already have a plan to marry this 2016. I know this because...
    august01 august01 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    Long story short I am married and got caught texting another man... **** hit the fan since my H knows the guy and now life is upside down. I knew what I was doing was wrong but I...
    hbgirl24 hbgirl24 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    I'll be the first to admit that I mocked long distance relationships, I genuinely believed that they couldn't possibly exist and be real. Now I feel more confused than ever before...
    RebeccaLouise9541 RebeccaLouise9541 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    I really need help and I don't know what to do with this relationship anymore. I have been with my boyfriend for more than a year now. He is in medical school and I'm working...
    TiffyQ723 TiffyQ723 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 6

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    I've been in a relationship for about six months now. I honestly believe he doesn't care about me at all, though all of his friends swear otherwise. I really do like him but I feel...
    blueoracle blueoracle 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    My boyfriend of 9 months cuts himself when I try to end it with him. I know he's not right for me and it has nothing to do with his depression and cutting. I am feeling really...
    hanna135 hanna135 41-45, F 5 Responses Sep 11

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    I know this is weird but I like reading **** between two men and that really turns me on yet I like watching **** between two women and idk what i like in real life what does this...
    gigglesounds gigglesounds 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I don't know where is my life headed:( I really don't know what I want to dooo I'm stuck. I'm 21. I get irritated by everyone, to the point where I just want to yell at them and...
    bar206 bar206 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Not exactly confused but rather worried about him. I am proud to let the world know my boyfriend is a United States Marine but sometimes it feels like he doesn't let people know I...
    luisaacosta luisaacosta 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I don't know where to start.... I have been with my boyfriend now for 2 years. We have problems, we aren't perfect....we fight and we have different interests. We use to talk about...
    Thetroubledperfectionist Thetroubledperfectionist 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I wanna harm for no reason at all, I could be having and amazing day then suddenly I need to cut. Im so confused, why does this happen?
    MatchIntoWater MatchIntoWater 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    I am so confused I love my Husband but I know he is toxic for me and he lies and sleeps with other people. I have proof of one person but not others. I feel it with all my being...
    mb1973 mb1973 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    I'm love my bf and it's only been a month and a half. We connect on different levels. He makes me smile even when I don't want to. He makes me forget about all the people that are...
    cjohnson1983 cjohnson1983 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    The worst feeling in the world is to find out the feelings aren't really mutual, due to past relationships. I've always been the amazing person that finishes last. So tired of...
    cjohnson1983 cjohnson1983 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    Ughhhh. SOS. Help me figure this one out. Got stories? Advice? Help out a confused 16 year-old girl. You'll earn good karma.
    IvyEstelle IvyEstelle 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    It's not really a relationship, you just keep coming and going as you please, selfish bastard but I still welcome you back
    Mka1989 Mka1989 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 20

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    I don't know that I've ever really been loved by a partner. Sure, they said they wanted me, couldn't live without me, but they didn't value me. They wanted me, and it didn't matter...
    teawithharry teawithharry 18-21, T Aug 21

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    I haven't really actively looked for love. I usually just experience it through others peoples stories. I am curious and know that it will change my perspective on things, but I've...
    bec413 bec413 18-21, F Aug 30

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    Do you go on hitting on a girl after multiple rejections because you don't like the feeling of rejection/try to change her mind or because you really like her?
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 31

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    Morality is one of the recurring themes in my life at this point. I desperately want to be good. I live a life filled with guilt. I see evil in every single one of my actions. I...
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 5

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    I'm all better now. He was really bold and I wasn't ready for it. Were okay now. But I told him I will not hesitate to end it, if he decides to ask for THAT again... You think I'm...
    KittyKatLuvsYhu KittyKatLuvsYhu 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I've been dating this guy for almost 4 years, I am 29 years old and gave my virginity to my boyfriend at 28 - as I wanted to give it to the person I'm going to spend the rest of my...
    charlenekleyn1 charlenekleyn1 26-30, F 3 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    About my life, my identity, my career route, the direction to take, my relationships etc. I just feel like Life is rushing for me to make a decision, but I don't know what I want...
    melcheezesticks melcheezesticks 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    My feeling and my thoughts are clashing. I'm thinking to whether I should stay with the multinational company that I'm with or leave it and look for what I think I'd love to do...
    born2bwild89 born2bwild89 22-25, M Aug 27

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    Please, take the time to read my last post. I am in serious need of some wise advice. Regardless of the ex, just on my current situation alone, I spend every minute of the day...
    Beth0888 Beth0888 26-30, F 6 Responses Sep 5

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