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I Am Confused About What Really Happened

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    At the Beginning of the Year

    me and my boyfriend of two a half years split up. I feel that I'm over him now, I no longer want to be with him and although I miss him it's being close to someone in a relationship that I miss rather than him. Despite all of this, I am confused as to what happened. We were...
    juniper juniper 21-25, F 5 Responses Dec 31, 2007

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    What Happened?

    me and my fiance were in a relationship for almost 3 years. we had been engaged for almost a year and a half. we had plans to get married and everything and things were well, or so i thought. he even suggested to move the wedding date up, but b/c of school, i couldn't add that...
    kkstorm04 kkstorm04 21-25, F 3 Responses Nov 16, 2007

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    When I was in kindergarden my dads best friend

    was staying with my family. He had just gotten through a serious accident which resulted in a traumatic brain injury, and a shift in personalities. In recent years when i've seen him i've always felt nervous around him, or extremely uncomfortable unless i'm with a parent. I...
    obliviousthinker obliviousthinker 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 16

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    Why Did He Have To Go?

    I first saw him when I was 13 years old.  He walked into the Mosque and it was as if a glow was around him.  I had a strange feeling in my heart that he was the one.. I had no idea what his name was or how old he was, all I knew was that this was the man I was suppose to marry...
    TaraRani TaraRani 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 24, 2011

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    Loving A Narcissistic Psychopath

    I will always be confused about what happened and I will never get answers.
    BPBitch BPBitch 41-45, F Feb 2, 2013

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    10 Years of Fate? Or 9 Years of Silly Fantasies?

    I suppose it seems silly to dwell on a relationship that never happened or could never happen. But my heart was given away -at least, I'm convinced it was given away, since I'd never been in love before and what I was feeling was something new I was experiencing- Oh, I'd had...
    fatedheart fatedheart 21-25, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2007

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    well in the city i was born in and i live in and grew up in has many memories and there have been people i have hurt there... i still live there yes but i applied for a college...
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    I don't know what to do about loving and really hating my boyfriend at the same time. We are both very impulsive people who often rush into things but don't do anything half...
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    Really haven't told anyone this so I really need some advice , long story short I think I am starting to like my best friend the problem is , is that she is a girl (obviously so am...
    mixedbreeddd mixedbreeddd 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    Well again, I am inexperienced in love. I have been married before, but I don't think it was love. As for what qualities are the best in a man, another person put it nicely on here...
    stargirl84 stargirl84 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    Hello, I just want to have a piece of advise 'cause I'm really confused about my problem now. I'm a girl and I'm straight, I love boys, men but I've never had a boyfriend. I have a...
    ishi0000 ishi0000 18-21, F Jul 27

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    Ah, the age old question...at least in my case. My whole life I have struggled with this. I've been confused about my gender since I was little girl. Back then, I wanted to be...
    conflictedismymiddlename conflictedismymiddlename 16-17 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I am really confused about my studies, should I carry on , I dont know, I will have next semester soon but the thing is the fees, I dont know , It just too much and still two...
    rockfordseagull rockfordseagull 22-25, M Aug 4

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    I'm so confused about my relationship ,or shall I say my past relationship..we have had our share of ups n downs ...like all couples..however here's where I'm lost at I have tried...
    crissyred33 crissyred33 31-35, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    i am out as a lesbian for many years. but i'm really not that comfortable if someone tell me or make names that i'm a lesbian.. i always thought what it would be like a man... it's...
    tearyEyesko tearyEyesko 22-25 Aug 4

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    I used to be super confused about my sexual orientation. As a teen I feared I might be a lesbian. As a stronger supporter of the LGBT community I couldn't figure out why this...
    megmeg526 megmeg526 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    I am confused about where I am right now in my relationship , I know i gave it my all, but things have taken a sour turn and I know he loves me and I do love him, very much, the...
    OchreCurl OchreCurl 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    For the past year maybe, I've been learning more about my gender and sexuality and learning about those in general. I'm a confirmed pansexual, but I'm wary and confused about my...
    galaxyclockwork galaxyclockwork 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 25

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    Not True. I was never Confused about my any Relationship. My Heart is Clean as Crystal. I could see through the other persons. My Soul as Pure as it could be as a humble Allah's...
    PathologicalLair PathologicalLair 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    Everyday... Watching the news about Gaza, it never fail to disappoint me. Over 500 innocent lives been taken just like that. You don't have to be a Muslim to care about what's...
    EnigmaSings EnigmaSings 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    Today was freshman orientation for school and I went really confident. I thought I looked great and I thought I was gonna make lots of friends and maybe even meet a cute boy or two...
    Fishy2k14 Fishy2k14 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    You know what really grinds my gears? Many things do! But one of the prime things that grinds my gears is the fact that all teenagers are thought to do stupid stuff (e.g, drugs...
    ConcealedWildheart ConcealedWildheart 13-15 6 Responses a week ago

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    I wanna harm for no reason at all, I could be having and amazing day then suddenly I need to cut. Im so confused, why does this happen?
    MatchIntoWater MatchIntoWater 16-17, F 10 hrs ago

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    It's not really a relationship, you just keep coming and going as you please, selfish bastard but I still welcome you back
    Mka1989 Mka1989 22-25, F 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Hi guys:) I am definitely sure that you people out there will be able to assist me in the dilemma that I am currently experiencing!! So there is this guy he is really sweet we met...
    Qila02 Qila02 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    My dad just called me hot, I'm so weirded out :/ I showed him a video of me doing the ice bucket challenge and my mom was like "you look so cute" and I was like "thanks I was...
    Planetoi Planetoi 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    General information about my situation. I met this girl at a mutual friends birthday party. Her presence striked me because she was the only person in attendance I had not met...
    HalfGate HalfGate 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 6

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    So this guy Is my cousin. In India if he is your dad's nephew meaning dad's sisters son, ur allowed to marry him and he's not considered ur brother. So he loves this girl that...
    nchikkala nchikkala 16-17, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    it has been awhile since I have been on here but right now I really do feel like I need this site because I am so confused and keep praying about it but don't know the answers
    traci1212 traci1212 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 27

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    I want to know if I'm a bad person. My parents say that I'm a mean one.. I don't know why. My brothers sometimes agree with them (I don't have any sisters). They say that I don't...
    mjh1234 mjh1234 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 27

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    Dear Self, I think I have really ****** everything up. I continuously destroy anything good that comes to my life, even when I know what I am doing is wrong. Funny thing is that...
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    I'm 21 and I "came out" (I don't know for sure what to classify myself as) a few days ago and have been feeling lost/depressed/alone/suicidal to a point, ever since. I was with my...
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    So there's this girl. And we just connected like I've never connected to anyone before. We both have a passion for music. And I don't know. We just hit it off. And I'm afraid of...
    pudgeblue pudgeblue 13-15, M Aug 4

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    I don't even know if we're even in a relationship. He's never asked me out yet he asks me what is say if he did and I keep saying that I'd say yes but I have no clue as to why he...
    XxbixtchybellaxX XxbixtchybellaxX 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I'm a separated Mom of two kids..I have a boyfriend now, I'm a filipina and his Taiwanese.. he meet all my standards so I fall for him..only this one thing that still make me...
    mspokwang mspokwang 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 25

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    I'm dating the girl I've always wanted throughout high school. We've been together for 3 months. We've been best friends on and off since freshman year. Were about to be seniors...
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    I really do love my boyfriend (see my post in- I want a lover who is also my best friend). He is depressed sometimes, and has it ruff at home. I know he takes depression meds and...
    Jamielr13 Jamielr13 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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