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I Am Confused About What Really Happened

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 105 People

    At the Beginning of the Year

    me and my boyfriend of two a half years split up. I feel that I'm over him now, I no longer want to be with him and although I miss him it's being close to someone in a relationship that I miss rather than him. Despite all of this, I am confused as to what happened. We were...
    juniper juniper 21-25, F 5 Responses Dec 31, 2007

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    When I was in kindergarden my dads best friend

    was staying with my family. He had just gotten through a serious accident which resulted in a traumatic brain injury, and a shift in personalities. In recent years when i've seen him i've always felt nervous around him, or extremely uncomfortable unless i'm with a parent. I...
    obliviousthinker obliviousthinker 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 16, 2014

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    Loving A Narcissistic Psychopath

    I will always be confused about what happened and I will never get answers.
    BPBitch BPBitch 41-45, F Feb 2, 2013

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    What Happened?

    me and my fiance were in a relationship for almost 3 years. we had been engaged for almost a year and a half. we had plans to get married and everything and things were well, or so i thought. he even suggested to move the wedding date up, but b/c of school, i couldn't add that...
    kkstorm04 kkstorm04 21-25, F 3 Responses Nov 16, 2007

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    Why Did He Have To Go?

    I first saw him when I was 13 years old.  He walked into the Mosque and it was as if a glow was around him.  I had a strange feeling in my heart that he was the one.. I had no idea what his name was or how old he was, all I knew was that this was the man I was suppose to marry...
    TaraRani TaraRani 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 24, 2011

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    10 Years of Fate? Or 9 Years of Silly Fantasies?

    I suppose it seems silly to dwell on a relationship that never happened or could never happen. But my heart was given away -at least, I'm convinced it was given away, since I'd never been in love before and what I was feeling was something new I was experiencing- Oh, I'd had...
    fatedheart fatedheart 21-25, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2007

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    This is pretty deep for a first time post but I really need a way to vent about how I'm feeling about my husband. We had a bit of a fall out last June. Our daughter was living with...
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    Hi, so I was born in a female body, but throughout my life I've never especially thought of myself as a girl. I've grown used to the idea of being a girl because that's what I've...
    ThunderMuffin ThunderMuffin 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    i am very confused about my relationship with my boyfriend. i know that i shouldn't post about men too much but this is bothering me. i been on this dating site called plenty of...
    db174 db174 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 15

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    I've talked to my husband a lot lately and we've spent a great deal of time together given that we've been separated 7 months... I know it'll never work, I can't trust him and he...
    WhiteRaven13 WhiteRaven13 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 3

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    I spent most of my life changing the way I am to suit others. I get labelled as emo. I will always care too much about what other people think of me. people in my class throw rocks...
    KillingCake KillingCake 13-15, F Dec 29, 2014

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    Why do we care so much about what others think about us? We are all imperfect creatures who are all beautiful. Why not just be original? The world is filled with so much wannabes...
    lovelinessbathes lovelinessbathes 31-35, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Hi, this is my very first post. I just would like to share what i have been going through for the last month or so. First, backstory: I met this girl 4 years ago. She was 15, i...
    roobs108 roobs108 22-25, M Jan 3

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    I had always assumed that I was straight. I went to church and listened to my preacher on the issue, like a "good boy", as my mother once put it. I had been taught sexuality was a...
    super563 super563 13-15, M Jan 18

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    So if you've read stuff on my profile then you know I've been through seriously bad stuff. My friend asked, have you ever just sat down and cried? No I have not. I have added...
    mslvr01 mslvr01 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 12

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    I like a boy in my class he didn't he hurted me to the core , he made everone to tease me. I am trying hard to forget him. after making me to cry for a month now again he started...
    ineedsome12bewithme ineedsome12bewithme 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 5 years and we have been very happy. he is my best friend and frankly the kindest person i have ever dated . I know he will...
    Evolution7 Evolution7 26-30 1 Response Jan 16

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    I'm really confused and no one knows it except my therapist who I just revealed this to. I've kept things a secret for so long and have been afraid to say anything. I feel so...
    ces588 ces588 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I will try to keep this as short as possible. There's probably no way to really start this so I'll just jump into it. I've been with this guy for 4 years. We bought a house...
    lilsunshine1129 lilsunshine1129 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 18

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    I think i am about to hurt the sweetest man i've ever met, we been together for 8 months now and he is just great and on top of that he a great father to his daughter too ( he have...
    InTheJungle InTheJungle 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    UGH, where to begin. I've come to the conclusion that I should probably join an emotions anonymous group the way my emotions roller coaster. Lets see, problem 1. I could possibly...
    moobly1 moobly1 18-21, F 13 hrs ago

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    The break up with the girl I was dating made me realized how confused I am, and I really don't know what to do with my life. I'm in college, pretty close to graduating, but I'm not...
    clixt clixt 22-25, M Dec 29, 2014

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    I need some advise from all my friends I really like this man I started talking to he lives far from where I live we talk all the time on the phone but most of the time he makes me...
    monica0215 monica0215 51-55, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Okay, so I was recently in a relationship with a girl,"Mickey" (nickname). We go to the same high school and she's two years older than me . We stayed together for about two weeks...
    CurvyFrance CurvyFrance 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 8

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    I just got into this new relationship.. And I don't know how to handle it.. He's the same age as me which is weird because I like older guys better.. He doesn't have a job.. He has...
    LovingTheNewMe LovingTheNewMe 16-17, F 9 Responses Jan 18

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    I don't know whether to laugh or cry. I received this text message this morning: Hi...happy Australia Day & happy birthday. I want to laugh because it's not my birthday today...
    Viviq66 Viviq66 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Ever since middle school I felt like I wasn't just attracted to guys but girls as well. I also lack sexual desire unless I've developed close romantic relations with them. But on...
    KimmiNinja KimmiNinja 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    Or lack of for that matter. (This is pretty long, I'll summarize at the end) You see, I think I may be asexual or something of a similar variant. I have never once felt sexual...
    NimbusNimpy NimbusNimpy 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    Is my boyfriend allowed to ask me to stop talking to a friend. Well I used to consider him a friend. He was till I realized he made me feel so inadequate around him and I'm sick of...
    CatLory CatLory 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 9

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    I have a big friend. A huge one! I have never had a friend who's not a girl like him, and that's why I wonder if I am really in love or if he's just a friend. I really like and...
    mosbyy mosbyy 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    Hi everyone, I just want to share what I'm feeling right now. Actually this past few months, I became confuse about my gender. I used to have a guy crush before but I don't know...
    confusePLLady confusePLLady 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    I have thought about transitioning from a girl to a guy,but i dont know,im not sure if i really even want to or if i want to stay a girl,or what would happen.I want to but at the...
    heyilikeyour heyilikeyour 13-15, F Dec 30, 2014

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    so where do I begin ? uhm I was in a relationship for almost 4 years together on our third year of being together he decided to propose being the happiest girl I could ever...
    alexmorales123 alexmorales123 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    I am happier alone. Thinking about taking a break or being done completely with him. I want him to find what he really wants and not be with me because I'm a sweet person.
    earthlysoul earthlysoul 18-21, F Jan 16

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    I just revealed this to my therapist today and she's the only one who knows. I have always wished I was a boy and have hated being a girl my whole life. When I was 9 I got my hair...
    ces588 ces588 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Looking back at when I was younger, I remember kissing a few girls & it never felt wrong to me but I never had a crush on a girl. I remember this one time where this boy and I were...
    MJay087 MJay087 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2014

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    I feel unhappy in my marriage. We've been together since age 18. Mostly happy until a few years ago things started coming to a head. I feel as though I fell out of love. Although...
    sally7 sally7 36-40, F 8 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    We're together for a month now and he really loves me but I don't think I feel the same way .. I always feel like this like I feel like our relationship don't have the spark and I...
    ensumague05 ensumague05 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    I'm a 14 year old teen, I'm in a long distance relationship with a girl who self-harms, is depressed ect. We've been together for 3 months and I helped her get through stuff. I...
    duckydomas duckydomas 13-15, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    hi everyone. i'm a 22 years old cisgender female. first of all, i apologyze for my english. lately i've been questioning my gender a lot. When i was a child (actually until I was14...
    finnien finnien 22-25, T 1 Response Jan 6

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    I'm a cisgender female. But I keep wishing I was born a guy lately. I hate my boobs. I hate my hips and waist. I keep cutting my hair hoping to look more boyish, but I have a...
    r0ck3r6 r0ck3r6 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 5

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    am not confused i love girlsss bcuz they eat me good
    sexyloveles sexyloveles 18-21, F Jan 5

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    So confused. Why does it have to be that way
    Dotcom2 Dotcom2 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 10

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    So I mean we broke up. A while ago. And I've been ok. He keeps on giving lot's of things and he let me keep the laptop and just a couple of days ago he gave me a gameboy advanced...
    mkmoore mkmoore 16-17, F Jan 11

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    I have no idea what I want. I've been with this great guy for about a month now. Theoretically he's a great boyfriend, for the most part. But I don't know what's wrong with me, I'm...
    danii92 danii92 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 11

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