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I Am Confused About Who I Really Am

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    Really Confused And Need Some Help.

    Recently, I don't know why, but I've been asking questions like "Am I a lesbian?" I researched it a lot and I don't know if I'm going through a phase or whatever, but I just want to know who I am. I've had boyfriends in the past, and have felt kind of awkward and nervous around...
    lacrossegal lacrossegal 16-17, F Jun 12, 2013

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    I Have No Idea Who I Am

    Sometimes I'm so sweet and innocent. The type of person who raises for charity and champions for the needy. I have a sweet smile and a heart of gold!! Yet other times I can be so fiery and strong; championing for change for myself and others!  Sometimes I am such a hopeless...
    lagatta lagatta 41-45, F 6 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    Sometimes I have no idea

    who I am or what I am going to become. I'm an elite athlete but sometimes it get so hard and I want to give up but without my sport I feel so lost its like without it I no longer have an identity. I've had so many knocks the last few years and each time it gets harder and harder...
    ReganHawthorn ReganHawthorn 18-21, F May 11

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    Who Am I?

    I never really fit in much. When I am with my friends I feel like I am a broken mirror. I reflect what they do, but not quite right. They all know who they are...and they are firm in their beliefs. I feel like I don't know who I am, what I like, not even what I'm good at! It's...
    LadyRose LadyRose 16-18, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2007

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    2nd Wife Issues

    My husband was married for 31 years his Ex. Wanted a divorce. When I came into the picture he was in the last stages of getting his Divorced finalized. He kept our dating a secret(I felt this was wrong, but I respected his decision) when I finally met his 30 year old twin sons we...
    Jan 12, 2013

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    I'm Confused

    The more life goes on,The more I'm confused,Used to know my way,Now,Don't even know,Who I am!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Jan 28, 2012

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    Lost In Ego

    Recently i have realized that my self image doesnt line up with who i really am. I think the solution is I am. I think. Thats what im confused about, It seems I have fossils in my mind that are twisted truths. That is my biases or interpretations of...
    jonnyvautour jonnyvautour 18-21 Nov 5, 2008

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    I Am Confused With Who I Really Am..

    i Dont kno anymore..i use to have everything going great...but now years pass and changes start..i dont know who i am anymore..and i dont want to be something im not...this really sucks because i dont know Where i fit in anymore.... im just so depressed lately with the fact that...
    SourLove SourLove 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 28, 2007

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    Who I Really Am...

    Who am I you may well ask I really wish I knew If I am not myself at all Then maybe I am you To discover who I really am Is really quite a task Maybe I am someone else Who wears a funny mask I strive so hard to know myself To discover the “real me” My thoughts and feelings...
    nivanvc nivanvc 36-40, M Jul 20, 2013

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    I Don't Know Anymore.

    I used to think I knew exactly who I was and what I was going to do, how my life is going to turn out. But I'm so confused now. I'm not sure how I feel about my religion, and I have so many controversial views. I've been having all sorts of problems in my life, from family...
    l3luel3abe l3luel3abe 16-18, F 1 Response Nov 1, 2007

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    Can't Figure It Out

    Who am I? I wish i could answer that question. I really don't know. I don't really have a personality in the real world. I tend to take on a personality similar to whoever i am hanging out with at the time. I have a bit of a personality on here which leaves me wondering if I am...
    ihaveanameitsrick ihaveanameitsrick 46-50, M May 19, 2008

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    Two People In One?

    I'm so confused about myself. I feel as though I have two sides of me, & this really confuses me about my identity. Sometimes I can be a strong-willed, non self-conscious, directly honest, hard-shelled person, saying whatever's on my mind & being somewhat mean, cold, or proud...
    ConcealedChivalrousHeart ConcealedChivalrousHeart 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 16, 2010

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    What Do I Like? I Have No Idea.

    I am so busy with life. With school, work, responsibilities. I am so busy with so much that everything I do is half way. Instead of doing a few things spectacular, I am doing many things mediocre. When I do have a spare moment, and they are few and far between, I am lost. I...
    elizabeth1618 elizabeth1618 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 2, 2009

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    What Has Happened to Me?

     About 16 months ago I got a job that I have wanted to do all my life. I love my colleagues, and even though the job is not all it was cracked up to be, I still loved it. Obsessed with it, even. I worked unpaid overtime, thought about the job at all times. I was my job...
    personadesignata personadesignata 26-30, F Jan 12, 2008

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    Was It A Waste Of My Life

    were to start,have the last 15 years been real,going through every day ,working ,kids trying to be happy,not really knowing what the next day will bring,but you keep going for everyone else,without ever really  being yourself, then again who is yourself,are you the same...
    lionsroar lionsroar 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 16, 2010

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    My Past Is Conflicting My Future...

    i think because of my past and the way that i may talk to someone that i may get mis understood. I say this because lately people have been responding to me and i have made several friends. Some who i can relate to, others who want to get in my pants, and others who i have a lot...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 22, 2012

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    Save Me From Myself Plz

    i am most times confused my bestfriend has said i act like i have slip personalities and i did the online test and it proofs i have boaderline personality disorder. an i am starting to believe every day i am a different person, one day i am nice,  the next i am emo, the next...
    kikio kikio 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 29, 2009

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    Unseen Pain

    Hi I am thirteen and my name is Georgia. When I was younger I got hit by belts, wooden spoons etc. I have depression and anxiety; I go to 3 different counsellors and have flash back of what I do, did and had done to me when I was younger and now. I am catholic and love god, but I...
    gmtg1 gmtg1 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2012

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    Coming Out Story

    H i! You may find this interesting.    Please pass this on too... it can be helpful to someone http://www.amazon.com/Figuring-Out-N-S-B/dp/0979216303 http://www.myspace.com/figuringitoutbook Figuring IT Out by NSB - A Coming Out Story. This books has been rated...
    grehyzz grehyzz 26-30 Dec 3, 2008

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    Unseen Pain

    Hi I am thirteen and my name is Georgia. When I was younger I got hit by belts, wooden spoons etc. I have depression and anxiety; I go to 3 different counsellors and have flash back of what I do, did and had done to me when I was younger and now. I am catholic and love god, but I...
    gmtg gmtg 13-15, F Nov 25, 2012

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    And It Suddenly Hit Me..

    .. that I have no idea who and what I am anymore. After a big bereavement I plucked up the courage to quit my job which I hated, and am now planning to move to another city, go to University again. Now, when the moving date is looming closer, it's suddenly...
    personadesignata personadesignata 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 18, 2008

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    Bipolar And Its Toll On Me!

    My name is John. I was diagnosed with Bipolar 1 disorder in 1998. I want to tell anyone who reads this that I am being consumed by my disorder. I was at one time an aggressive young man that didn't take any crap period. Had friends went everywhere did everything with my kids. My...
    jhargra70 jhargra70 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 16, 2012

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    I'm Confused About Who I Am

    I can honestly tell you that I really don't know who I am.
    Chubby411 Chubby411 26-30, F Jul 10, 2013

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    Im Lost And Need The Right Guidance

    I dont know much about me besides my favorite color (greean and blue) and for a while I really wanted to know what I had cause its driving me crazy (my thoughts of thinking I have adhd/add, personality disorder etc..) I know I have anxiety. but I need to move on and discover the...
    theunspoken97 theunspoken97 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 21, 2013

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    ThatAwkwardOne ThatAwkwardOne 16-17, M Jul 7

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    I'm so confused about my gender and have been for a long time. I started putting my mom's stuff around 4 or 5, I battle the desire to dress all the time . Then growing up I liked...
    DawnR59 DawnR59 51-55, T 1 Response Jul 11

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    I'm not confused about whether I'm in a relationship, I am, but I'm confused about where things will go. In 2 months he'll be moving out of the country, going abroad to study with...
    LastBusHome LastBusHome 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    Hello, I just want to have a piece of advise 'cause I'm really confused about my problem now. I'm a girl and I'm straight, I love boys, men but I've never had a boyfriend. I have a...
    ishi0000 ishi0000 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I'm 16, a senior in my high school. I'm gay. And I have feelings for my straight friend but sometimes I am ignoring her. Because maybe i love her. Sometimes I hate her. After a few...
    RionWolf RionWolf 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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      Can a marriage truely be repaired after one party has cheated? Has anyone been through or going through this now a? My husband and I have been married for 6 years, we have...
    sammieejai123 sammieejai123 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 6

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    I'm am so very confused about my gender. I was born in a male body. Grew up male, but started to crossdress at a young age 5ish, I'm now married 21 years to kids, I love my wife...
    DawnR59 DawnR59 51-55, T 2 Responses Jul 13

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    I remember in high school I fell so hard for boy who messed with my head. We had some kind of connection for two years. No we didn't date but I know what we did have was special...
    Idreamtowaketofindthefate Idreamtowaketofindthefate 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    For the past year maybe, I've been learning more about my gender and sexuality and learning about those in general. I'm a confirmed pansexual, but I'm wary and confused about my...
    galaxyclockwork galaxyclockwork 13-15, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Background: I am married, we just celebrated our two-year wedding anniversary last week (have been together for almost 7 years though, and living together almost all of that time...
    peachy127 peachy127 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    This is sort of getting out of hand. I can't control it any longer. It seems that my efforts to appear as normal and okay as can be are... failing. Never in my entire life have I...
    minecrafter4343 minecrafter4343 13-15, T Jul 17

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    i feel like im ion my head im tired and worn out and feeling afraid everything is too much i have to cope buy the computer i think i feel confused dont feel like a human being i...
    hannahabbie hannahabbie 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    In may I broke up with who I believed was my soulmate. He was perfect in every way, although we had some bad fights which really hurt me. Despite that, the good times were amazing...
    lesha17x lesha17x 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    7/9/2014 I guess I'm just going to start by saying I want happiness in life and I feel like I might never get it… I don’t know why I feel this way but it's kind of bumming me...
    elias617 elias617 16-17, M Jul 9

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    I am a 17 year old guy, i am gay but nobody knows about it. I have a really close friend, he is the best friend i have ever had in my life. We have a awesome friendship, we tell...
    ConfusedOT ConfusedOT 18-21, M 4 Responses Jul 12

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    I really wish I didn't have to keep posting about topics like this, but oh well, I guess. So I pretty much just want to know why on earth I'm having such intense emotions whenever...
    jahein137 jahein137 18-21, F Jul 17

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    I'm a separated Mom of two kids..I have a boyfriend now, I'm a filipina and his Taiwanese.. he meet all my standards so I fall for him..only this one thing that still make me...
    mspokwang mspokwang 36-40, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    it has been awhile since I have been on here but right now I really do feel like I need this site because I am so confused and keep praying about it but don't know the answers
    traci1212 traci1212 31-35, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I want to know if I'm a bad person. My parents say that I'm a mean one.. I don't know why. My brothers sometimes agree with them (I don't have any sisters). They say that I don't...
    mjh1234 mjh1234 16-17, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I cheated on my husband. I am pregnant, but doubt is completely his. I just couldn't keep lying to him, so I came clean tonight. I told him about the other man, and how the baby...
    justagreeing justagreeing 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 11

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    This isn't an experience, it's more like a question cus there's no word limit here so yeah. I have these two best friends and I am in a different class than those two. Since they...
    isla22 isla22 13-15, F Jul 16

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    I'm so confused and I wanna scream because I swear yesterday I was second guessing our relationship and now I don't second guess it at all but now I'm second guessing not second...
    catherineeac catherineeac 13-15, F Jul 5

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    When he asked me out, he did it in the cutest way; "Would you date a wrestler?" As silly as it was, it was still what I'd always wanted to hear. But I didn't realize what exactly I...
    Mj13ahestrella Mj13ahestrella 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    I have a boyfriend. Sometimes I think he is freaking awesome and then I remember all the bad he has done to me and I get sad and confused. There is this guy who supposedly likes me...
    annieannana annieannana 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 16

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