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I Am Confused About Who I Really Am

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    Really Confused And Need Some Help.

    Recently, I don't know why, but I've been asking questions like "Am I a lesbian?" I researched it a lot and I don't know if I'm going through a phase or whatever, but I just want to know who I am. I've had boyfriends in the past, and have felt kind of awkward and nervous around...
    lacrossegal lacrossegal 18-21, F Jun 12, 2013

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    Unseen Pain

    Hi I am thirteen and my name is Georgia. When I was younger I got hit by belts, wooden spoons etc. I have depression and anxiety; I go to 3 different counsellors and have flash back of what I do, did and had done to me when I was younger and now. I am catholic and love god, but I...
    gmtg1 gmtg1 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2012

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    What Has Happened to Me?

     About 16 months ago I got a job that I have wanted to do all my life. I love my colleagues, and even though the job is not all it was cracked up to be, I still loved it. Obsessed with it, even. I worked unpaid overtime, thought about the job at all times. I was my job...
    personadesignata personadesignata 26-30, F Jan 12, 2008

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    I Am Confused With Who I Really Am..

    i Dont kno anymore..i use to have everything going great...but now years pass and changes start..i dont know who i am anymore..and i dont want to be something im not...this really sucks because i dont know Where i fit in anymore.... im just so depressed lately with the fact that...
    SourLove SourLove 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 28, 2007

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    I'm Confused

    The more life goes on,The more I'm confused,Used to know my way,Now,Don't even know,Who I am!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Jan 28, 2012

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    Sometimes I have no idea

    who I am or what I am going to become. I'm an elite athlete but sometimes it get so hard and I want to give up but without my sport I feel so lost its like without it I no longer have an identity. I've had so many knocks the last few years and each time it gets harder and harder...
    ReganHawthorn ReganHawthorn 18-21, F May 11

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    I Don't Know Anymore.

    I used to think I knew exactly who I was and what I was going to do, how my life is going to turn out. But I'm so confused now. I'm not sure how I feel about my religion, and I have so many controversial views. I've been having all sorts of problems in my life, from family...
    l3luel3abe l3luel3abe 16-18, F 1 Response Nov 1, 2007

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    Save Me From Myself Plz

    i am most times confused my bestfriend has said i act like i have slip personalities and i did the online test and it proofs i have boaderline personality disorder. an i am starting to believe every day i am a different person, one day i am nice,  the next i am emo, the next...
    kikio kikio 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 29, 2009

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    Was It A Waste Of My Life

    were to start,have the last 15 years been real,going through every day ,working ,kids trying to be happy,not really knowing what the next day will bring,but you keep going for everyone else,without ever really  being yourself, then again who is yourself,are you the same...
    lionsroar lionsroar 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 16, 2010

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    Two People In One?

    I'm so confused about myself. I feel as though I have two sides of me, & this really confuses me about my identity. Sometimes I can be a strong-willed, non self-conscious, directly honest, hard-shelled person, saying whatever's on my mind & being somewhat mean, cold, or proud...
    ConcealedChivalrousHeart ConcealedChivalrousHeart 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 16, 2010

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    What Do I Like? I Have No Idea.

    I am so busy with life. With school, work, responsibilities. I am so busy with so much that everything I do is half way. Instead of doing a few things spectacular, I am doing many things mediocre. When I do have a spare moment, and they are few and far between, I am lost. I...
    elizabeth1618 elizabeth1618 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 2, 2009

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    Coming Out Story

    H i! You may find this interesting.    Please pass this on too... it can be helpful to someone http://www.amazon.com/Figuring-Out-N-S-B/dp/0979216303 http://www.myspace.com/figuringitoutbook Figuring IT Out by NSB - A Coming Out Story. This books has been rated...
    grehyzz grehyzz 26-30 Dec 3, 2008

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    Lost In Ego

    Recently i have realized that my self image doesnt line up with who i really am. I think the solution is I am. I think. Thats what im confused about, It seems I have fossils in my mind that are twisted truths. That is my biases or interpretations of...
    jonnyvautour jonnyvautour 18-21 Nov 5, 2008

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    My Past Is Conflicting My Future...

    i think because of my past and the way that i may talk to someone that i may get mis understood. I say this because lately people have been responding to me and i have made several friends. Some who i can relate to, others who want to get in my pants, and others who i have a lot...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 22, 2012

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    Bipolar And Its Toll On Me!

    My name is John. I was diagnosed with Bipolar 1 disorder in 1998. I want to tell anyone who reads this that I am being consumed by my disorder. I was at one time an aggressive young man that didn't take any crap period. Had friends went everywhere did everything with my kids. My...
    jhargra70 jhargra70 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 16, 2012

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    Can't Figure It Out

    Who am I? I wish i could answer that question. I really don't know. I don't really have a personality in the real world. I tend to take on a personality similar to whoever i am hanging out with at the time. I have a bit of a personality on here which leaves me wondering if I am...
    ihaveanameitsrick ihaveanameitsrick 46-50, M May 19, 2008

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    Who I Really Am...

    Who am I you may well ask I really wish I knew If I am not myself at all Then maybe I am you To discover who I really am Is really quite a task Maybe I am someone else Who wears a funny mask I strive so hard to know myself To discover the “real me” My thoughts and feelings...
    nivanvc nivanvc 36-40, M Jul 20, 2013

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    Who Am I?

    I never really fit in much. When I am with my friends I feel like I am a broken mirror. I reflect what they do, but not quite right. They all know who they are...and they are firm in their beliefs. I feel like I don't know who I am, what I like, not even what I'm good at! It's...
    LadyRose LadyRose 16-18, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2007

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    I Have No Idea Who I Am

    Sometimes I'm so sweet and innocent. The type of person who raises for charity and champions for the needy. I have a sweet smile and a heart of gold!! Yet other times I can be so fiery and strong; championing for change for myself and others!  Sometimes I am such a hopeless...
    lagatta lagatta 41-45, F 6 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    And It Suddenly Hit Me..

    .. that I have no idea who and what I am anymore. After a big bereavement I plucked up the courage to quit my job which I hated, and am now planning to move to another city, go to University again. Now, when the moving date is looming closer, it's suddenly...
    personadesignata personadesignata 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 18, 2008

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    Unseen Pain

    Hi I am thirteen and my name is Georgia. When I was younger I got hit by belts, wooden spoons etc. I have depression and anxiety; I go to 3 different counsellors and have flash back of what I do, did and had done to me when I was younger and now. I am catholic and love god, but I...
    gmtg gmtg 13-15, F Nov 25, 2012

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    Im Lost And Need The Right Guidance

    I dont know much about me besides my favorite color (greean and blue) and for a while I really wanted to know what I had cause its driving me crazy (my thoughts of thinking I have adhd/add, personality disorder etc..) I know I have anxiety. but I need to move on and discover the...
    theunspoken97 theunspoken97 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 21, 2013

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    I'm Confused About Who I Am

    I can honestly tell you that I really don't know who I am.
    Chubby411 Chubby411 26-30, F Jul 10, 2013

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    My best friend, Tim is gay. But lately I have been confused about our relationship. He and I have recently started having sex and sharing parts of each other we never did with...
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    i have a friend tim and since meeting him i have had an array of changing feelings. it started off with me not caring about him either way and having no opinons about him, really...
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    I am confused about my relationship. I split with my boyfriend of a year for 3 months and flitted between getting back togeather. I have stayed at his house every night for the...
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    I had a situation today with a person and I am confused about my feelings. This person happened to be my father. He has never thought I did anything right. He constantly fault...
    sml4 sml4 46-50, F 4 Responses Oct 25

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    I'm so confused about my feelings, about my thoughts, I know what u want, but to get it I must hurt people who care about me, one who may not care as much as he pretends to, but I...
    FoxyRose FoxyRose 18-21, F Nov 6

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    I've been with the same girl since I was sixteen (twenty now) - she's awesome, and she's absolutely my best friend... but I've been struggling with same-sex attraction and I don't...
    catachresis catachresis 18-21, M 4 Responses Oct 26

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    Ok so here is the thing she is my best best friend and she is easy to talk to i mean conversations follows simply , she is goofy and a little wired kinda like me , she got bullied...
    comlpicatedguy comlpicatedguy 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 20

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    I used to be a believer but now consider myself agnostic. I'm confused about life itself and my purpose or if I even have one. There is so much conflict with religion that I just...
    bethanyscott99 bethanyscott99 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    So me and my ex got back together the other day.. I'm confused because I'm still having the same nightmares every night. We had a nice day together yesterday, but I couldn't sleep...
    DesiredUsername23 DesiredUsername23 22-25, F 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    My dad unexpectedly passed away from a cardiac arrest 8 months ago and I feel a little lost. I think maybe I tried to move on too quickly, but at the cost of remembering him. Life...
    shannzzy shannzzy 22-25, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    Hey. I just wanted to share my story...I´m 14 years old girl from czech republic. I´ve a lesbian sister and a lots of homosexual friends, altough they are mostly older...
    ASunny111 ASunny111 13-15, F 8 hrs ago

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    I guess this is where I should start.... I'm 19 and I was born male, I've been dressing up since I was at least 8 possibly younger. When I was little dressing up was something I...
    ACuriousCrossdresser ACuriousCrossdresser 18-21, T 2 Responses Oct 31

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    Okay so it happened the other day I was laying with my boyfriend and all of a sudden all of my feelings for him just went away and I got this weird pain in my heart.. Like you know...
    Inspiredbydepression Inspiredbydepression 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 21

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    I'm 16, and lately I've been feeling different to those around me. When thoughts that I may be interested in girls occur, I just tell myself that it's because I am lonely, and that...
    lucyjaynesymons lucyjaynesymons 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 4

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    Not certain if being in a relationship has a particular mode for that. But I'm positive that every couples surely have their own mode of relationship. Not that we ve to tell each...
    JonDanny JonDanny 18-21, F 22 hrs ago

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    Okay. so a month and a half back I asked this girl out who I knew had a crush on me for a long time..I really started to like her and after 20 days of being away from one another I...
    niggamanmanmanman niggamanmanmanman 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 30

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    Uncertainty...this is the one thing that I don't know how to cope with. I've been living with my boyfriend for the past 3 years and I must say I have never seen more unstable...
    LorelaiSky LorelaiSky 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 1

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    I look around, and see all these people I'm surrounded by, they think I'm normal.But none of them really know me. I feel disconnected with even some of my best friends. Because I...
    ZachTheGreat1 ZachTheGreat1 16-17, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm really confused. I don't know what to do. I think I'm starting to like girls too (as well as boys) , but even if I was Bi or Lesbian, I could never tell me family :( Any advice...
    JustThatNobody JustThatNobody 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 9

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    I am confused! I like dressing up like a girl and would want to try! but have all male organs and i love women! so i dont know really understand myself :/ So i cant understand how...
    Idontknowwhomiam Idontknowwhomiam 22-25 6 Responses Nov 11

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    I've been with my fiance for almost two years. I thought he was the one but lately I'm not so sure. When we met, I thought we were both introverts but over the past several months...
    ediskrad ediskrad 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    My love life just getting weirder and weirder. So long story short I met this guy a few months back. We totally hit it off, hang out lots together, kiss, make out even though he...
    YongTauFoo YongTauFoo 18-21, F 20 Responses Oct 26

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    I'm not sure anymore... I'm never gonna be able to trust him but I don't want anyone else. I just need a job then I won't really give a **** cuz I can be independent then. Then I...
    DesiredUsername23 DesiredUsername23 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 27

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    I know that I like women. I love everything about women. Their more gentle nature (not all, but most) their curves, features, etc. But, I also find men very attractive. I am...
    AMillionReasons AMillionReasons 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 9

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    Been dating this guy for about 4 months. I love him a lot and he's good to me. But I feel like I'm not really apart of his life. I have met his family and they're pretty awesome...
    Luvmykids83 Luvmykids83 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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