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I Am Confused About Who I Really Am

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 311 People

    Two People In One?

    I'm so confused about myself. I feel as though I have two sides of me, & this really confuses me about my identity. Sometimes I can be a strong-willed, non self-conscious, directly honest, hard-shelled person, saying whatever's on my mind & being somewhat mean, cold, or proud...
    ConcealedChivalrousHeart ConcealedChivalrousHeart 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 16, 2010

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    What Do I Like? I Have No Idea.

    I am so busy with life. With school, work, responsibilities. I am so busy with so much that everything I do is half way. Instead of doing a few things spectacular, I am doing many things mediocre. When I do have a spare moment, and they are few and far between, I am lost. I...
    elizabeth1618 elizabeth1618 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 2, 2009

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    I'm Confused About Who I Am

    I can honestly tell you that I really don't know who I am.
    Chubby411 Chubby411 26-30, F Jul 10, 2013

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    I Have No Idea Who I Am

    Sometimes I'm so sweet and innocent. The type of person who raises for charity and champions for the needy. I have a sweet smile and a heart of gold!! Yet other times I can be so fiery and strong; championing for change for myself and others!  Sometimes I am such a hopeless...
    lagatta lagatta 41-45, F 6 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    I'm Confused

    The more life goes on,The more I'm confused,Used to know my way,Now,Don't even know,Who I am!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Jan 28, 2012

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    Im Lost And Need The Right Guidance

    I dont know much about me besides my favorite color (greean and blue) and for a while I really wanted to know what I had cause its driving me crazy (my thoughts of thinking I have adhd/add, personality disorder etc..) I know I have anxiety. but I need to move on and discover the...
    theunspoken97 theunspoken97 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 21, 2013

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    Was It A Waste Of My Life

    were to start,have the last 15 years been real,going through every day ,working ,kids trying to be happy,not really knowing what the next day will bring,but you keep going for everyone else,without ever really  being yourself, then again who is yourself,are you the same...
    lionsroar lionsroar 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 16, 2010

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    My Past Is Conflicting My Future...

    i think because of my past and the way that i may talk to someone that i may get mis understood. I say this because lately people have been responding to me and i have made several friends. Some who i can relate to, others who want to get in my pants, and others who i have a lot...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 22, 2012

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    Most definitely. Sometimes I'm up sometimes

    I'm down sometimes I'm completely isolated sometimes all I want is to be surrounded by my friends and family, the only thing I know for sure is that I'm more unpredictable then English weather.
    Nethaly Nethaly 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 19, 2014

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    Save Me From Myself Plz

    i am most times confused my bestfriend has said i act like i have slip personalities and i did the online test and it proofs i have boaderline personality disorder. an i am starting to believe every day i am a different person, one day i am nice,  the next i am emo, the next...
    kikio kikio 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 29, 2009

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    I Don't Know Anymore.

    I used to think I knew exactly who I was and what I was going to do, how my life is going to turn out. But I'm so confused now. I'm not sure how I feel about my religion, and I have so many controversial views. I've been having all sorts of problems in my life, from family...
    l3luel3abe l3luel3abe 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 1, 2007

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    I Am Confused With Who I Really Am..

    i Dont kno anymore..i use to have everything going great...but now years pass and changes start..i dont know who i am anymore..and i dont want to be something im not...this really sucks because i dont know Where i fit in anymore.... im just so depressed lately with the fact that...
    SourLove SourLove 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 28, 2007

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    What Has Happened to Me?

     About 16 months ago I got a job that I have wanted to do all my life. I love my colleagues, and even though the job is not all it was cracked up to be, I still loved it. Obsessed with it, even. I worked unpaid overtime, thought about the job at all times. I was my job...
    personadesignata personadesignata 26-30, F Jan 12, 2008

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    Can't Figure It Out

    Who am I? I wish i could answer that question. I really don't know. I don't really have a personality in the real world. I tend to take on a personality similar to whoever i am hanging out with at the time. I have a bit of a personality on here which leaves me wondering if I am...
    ihaveanameitsrick ihaveanameitsrick 46-50, M May 19, 2008

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    Unseen Pain

    Hi I am thirteen and my name is Georgia. When I was younger I got hit by belts, wooden spoons etc. I have depression and anxiety; I go to 3 different counsellors and have flash back of what I do, did and had done to me when I was younger and now. I am catholic and love god, but I...
    gmtg gmtg 13-15, F Nov 25, 2012

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    Unseen Pain

    Hi I am thirteen and my name is Georgia. When I was younger I got hit by belts, wooden spoons etc. I have depression and anxiety; I go to 3 different counsellors and have flash back of what I do, did and had done to me when I was younger and now. I am catholic and love god, but I...
    gmtg1 gmtg1 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2012

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    Really Confused And Need Some Help.

    Recently, I don't know why, but I've been asking questions like "Am I a lesbian?" I researched it a lot and I don't know if I'm going through a phase or whatever, but I just want to know who I am. I've had boyfriends in the past, and have felt kind of awkward and nervous around...
    lacrossegal lacrossegal 18-21, F Jun 12, 2013

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    Who I Really Am...

    Who am I you may well ask I really wish I knew If I am not myself at all Then maybe I am you To discover who I really am Is really quite a task Maybe I am someone else Who wears a funny mask I strive so hard to know myself To discover the “real me” My thoughts and feelings...
    nivanvc nivanvc 36-40, M Jul 20, 2013

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    Lost In Ego

    Recently i have realized that my self image doesnt line up with who i really am. I think the solution is I am. I think. Thats what im confused about, It seems I have fossils in my mind that are twisted truths. That is my biases or interpretations of...
    jonnyvautour jonnyvautour 18-21 Nov 5, 2008

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    And It Suddenly Hit Me..

    .. that I have no idea who and what I am anymore. After a big bereavement I plucked up the courage to quit my job which I hated, and am now planning to move to another city, go to University again. Now, when the moving date is looming closer, it's suddenly...
    personadesignata personadesignata 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 18, 2008

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    Who Am I?

    I never really fit in much. When I am with my friends I feel like I am a broken mirror. I reflect what they do, but not quite right. They all know who they are...and they are firm in their beliefs. I feel like I don't know who I am, what I like, not even what I'm good at! It's...
    LadyRose LadyRose 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2007

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    Coming Out Story

    H i! You may find this interesting.    Please pass this on too... it can be helpful to someone http://www.amazon.com/Figuring-Out-N-S-B/dp/0979216303 http://www.myspace.com/figuringitoutbook Figuring IT Out by NSB - A Coming Out Story. This books has been rated...
    grehyzz grehyzz 26-30 Dec 3, 2008

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    Bipolar And Its Toll On Me!

    My name is John. I was diagnosed with Bipolar 1 disorder in 1998. I want to tell anyone who reads this that I am being consumed by my disorder. I was at one time an aggressive young man that didn't take any crap period. Had friends went everywhere did everything with my kids. My...
    jhargra70 jhargra70 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 16, 2012

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    Most times, I am confused about my feelings and how to approach certain things, so I often need time to myself to reflect and digest everything... However, I would most likely...
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    I'm confused about my sexuality when it comes to love because I think I'm bi, I know for sure I like woman. It's the guys I'm not sure I'm attracted to. I have a bf of 6 years and...
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    At the beginning I would like to apologize for the long post I'm about to write, and for any mistakes (English isn't my first language you see) I'm going to make, writing this. I...
    Junderbalt Junderbalt 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 25

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    I am really confused about my gender Right i would like to start of by saying my sex is male but i don't feel at all like a male. I act like a normal male around my family as i...
    Ashlleigh Ashlleigh 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 25

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    I too am confused about my relationship with a man I met about a month ago. It began as sweet, charming, and a strong physical attraction, although we have not slept together. We...
    stargirl84 stargirl84 26-30, F 2 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    I didn't know a better experience to post this under. I'm just super confused about my identity, and I feel like a lot of the time I wear different masks for different people? I...
    Caleb54 Caleb54 13-15, M 2 Responses Apr 14

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    As a little kid, I hated dresses and I always played with those Tonka trucks instead of barbie dolls. I would always play as a boy in games with friends, and when we played "Family...
    SamanthaJC SamanthaJC 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    In the last week I have been so confused about my gender. I mean, I like being feminine but I hate having a /girls body/. I gate having curves, a chest and a girly face. I mean. I...
    InfiniteHigh1 InfiniteHigh1 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    Yeah...I have posted here a lot - probably more than I should... But, I'm confused about my relationship.^^^ She doesn't like me. I don't know if I like her. When she's here, I...
    InsideTheSadCafe InsideTheSadCafe 22-25, F 10 Responses Apr 8

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    It has been 5 months since my ex and I broke up. He has a new girlfriend now. I had a much harder time than him moving on. I went through a really ugly period of depression, but...
    LorettaAnn LorettaAnn 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 27

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    I think I may be bi. I find tons of girls super cute, and the thought of being in a relationship with a girl isn't weird. It's the same with guys. I've been around the lgbtq...
    BroguesAndJeans BroguesAndJeans 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    so yesterday dad calls n say all this nasty things which I reply to wth simple okay now instead of the yelling n blaming I used to do. n then call me today n tell hey I will come...
    candles700 candles700 22-25, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I met someone from online. We are from different place. We chat all day and never stop. Except when sleep or he play games. Im in love with him. Bcs he is really nice and funny...
    ochamr ochamr 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Back story: I haven't been on here since 2012. I've been enjoying life and thought I would come back on here. Plus, I thought good advice would be given here. Story/Problem: I'm...
    Psychlover16 Psychlover16 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 11

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    There is this guy who is like my best friend but isn't at the same time. However, I am really not sure how I feel about him. Like half of me is saying yeah I like you a lot and you...
    internationalkoala internationalkoala 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 19

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    so confused. like really confused. i don't even know what to write right now because everything is just a bunch of mush. i guess i'll just say that our love seemed so magical and...
    daydreamer27 daydreamer27 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 26

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    I am in a relationship with a man who is more than twice my age and is married. I am not his mistress. He, his wife and I consider myself his wife as well. We are equal and there...
    djaqroberts djaqroberts 18-21, F Apr 19

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    Sometimes I just feel unloved in my current relationship. I feel like I'm giving out more effort than he does. I don't know, we've been together for almost 2 months now and I...
    Liebeeiram Liebeeiram 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 18

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    **POSSIBLE TRIGGER WARNING** I feel guilty, infuriated, and depressed all at the same time. My guilt is due to the fact that I just realized something; I never...
    Whobody Whobody 16-17, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Hi People, I really need some help. I really appreciate your time helping me. Thank you. I'm in a relationship of 6 years. Started as friends and then became lovers. I love her. I...
    marcdavid20 marcdavid20 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 5

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    This person has been my friend for half of my life, within the last couple of years, I've realized my feelings are stronger and that i love her; that I want more. She lives 6 hours...
    v30a84 v30a84 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 26