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I Am Confused About Who I Really Am

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    I'm Confused About Who I Am

    I can honestly tell you that I really don't know who I am.
    Chubby411 Chubby411 26-30, F Jul 10, 2013

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    Im Lost And Need The Right Guidance

    I dont know much about me besides my favorite color (greean and blue) and for a while I really wanted to know what I had cause its driving me crazy (my thoughts of thinking I have adhd/add, personality disorder etc..) I know I have anxiety. but I need to move on and discover the...
    theunspoken97 theunspoken97 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 21, 2013

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    What Has Happened to Me?

     About 16 months ago I got a job that I have wanted to do all my life. I love my colleagues, and even though the job is not all it was cracked up to be, I still loved it. Obsessed with it, even. I worked unpaid overtime, thought about the job at all times. I was my job...
    personadesignata personadesignata 26-30, F Jan 12, 2008

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    I'm Confused

    The more life goes on,The more I'm confused,Used to know my way,Now,Don't even know,Who I am!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Jan 28, 2012

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    Save Me From Myself Plz

    i am most times confused my bestfriend has said i act like i have slip personalities and i did the online test and it proofs i have boaderline personality disorder. an i am starting to believe every day i am a different person, one day i am nice,  the next i am emo, the next...
    kikio kikio 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 29, 2009

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    Sometimes I have no idea

    who I am or what I am going to become. I'm an elite athlete but sometimes it get so hard and I want to give up but without my sport I feel so lost its like without it I no longer have an identity. I've had so many knocks the last few years and each time it gets harder and harder...
    ReganHawthorn ReganHawthorn 18-21, F May 11

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    Bipolar And Its Toll On Me!

    My name is John. I was diagnosed with Bipolar 1 disorder in 1998. I want to tell anyone who reads this that I am being consumed by my disorder. I was at one time an aggressive young man that didn't take any crap period. Had friends went everywhere did everything with my kids. My...
    jhargra70 jhargra70 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 16, 2012

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    Was It A Waste Of My Life

    were to start,have the last 15 years been real,going through every day ,working ,kids trying to be happy,not really knowing what the next day will bring,but you keep going for everyone else,without ever really  being yourself, then again who is yourself,are you the same...
    lionsroar lionsroar 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 16, 2010

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    Unseen Pain

    Hi I am thirteen and my name is Georgia. When I was younger I got hit by belts, wooden spoons etc. I have depression and anxiety; I go to 3 different counsellors and have flash back of what I do, did and had done to me when I was younger and now. I am catholic and love god, but I...
    gmtg gmtg 13-15, F Nov 25, 2012

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    Who I Really Am...

    Who am I you may well ask I really wish I knew If I am not myself at all Then maybe I am you To discover who I really am Is really quite a task Maybe I am someone else Who wears a funny mask I strive so hard to know myself To discover the “real me” My thoughts and feelings...
    nivanvc nivanvc 36-40, M Jul 20, 2013

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    And It Suddenly Hit Me..

    .. that I have no idea who and what I am anymore. After a big bereavement I plucked up the courage to quit my job which I hated, and am now planning to move to another city, go to University again. Now, when the moving date is looming closer, it's suddenly...
    personadesignata personadesignata 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 18, 2008

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    Really Confused And Need Some Help.

    Recently, I don't know why, but I've been asking questions like "Am I a lesbian?" I researched it a lot and I don't know if I'm going through a phase or whatever, but I just want to know who I am. I've had boyfriends in the past, and have felt kind of awkward and nervous around...
    lacrossegal lacrossegal 16-17, F Jun 12, 2013

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    Coming Out Story

    H i! You may find this interesting.    Please pass this on too... it can be helpful to someone http://www.amazon.com/Figuring-Out-N-S-B/dp/0979216303 http://www.myspace.com/figuringitoutbook Figuring IT Out by NSB - A Coming Out Story. This books has been rated...
    grehyzz grehyzz 26-30 Dec 3, 2008

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    2nd Wife Issues

    My husband was married for 31 years his Ex. Wanted a divorce. When I came into the picture he was in the last stages of getting his Divorced finalized. He kept our dating a secret(I felt this was wrong, but I respected his decision) when I finally met his 30 year old twin sons we...
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    Unseen Pain

    Hi I am thirteen and my name is Georgia. When I was younger I got hit by belts, wooden spoons etc. I have depression and anxiety; I go to 3 different counsellors and have flash back of what I do, did and had done to me when I was younger and now. I am catholic and love god, but I...
    gmtg1 gmtg1 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2012

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    I Have No Idea Who I Am

    Sometimes I'm so sweet and innocent. The type of person who raises for charity and champions for the needy. I have a sweet smile and a heart of gold!! Yet other times I can be so fiery and strong; championing for change for myself and others!  Sometimes I am such a hopeless...
    lagatta lagatta 41-45, F 6 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    Who Am I?

    I never really fit in much. When I am with my friends I feel like I am a broken mirror. I reflect what they do, but not quite right. They all know who they are...and they are firm in their beliefs. I feel like I don't know who I am, what I like, not even what I'm good at! It's...
    LadyRose LadyRose 16-18, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2007

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    Lost In Ego

    Recently i have realized that my self image doesnt line up with who i really am. I think the solution is I am. I think. Thats what im confused about, It seems I have fossils in my mind that are twisted truths. That is my biases or interpretations of...
    jonnyvautour jonnyvautour 18-21 Nov 5, 2008

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    Can't Figure It Out

    Who am I? I wish i could answer that question. I really don't know. I don't really have a personality in the real world. I tend to take on a personality similar to whoever i am hanging out with at the time. I have a bit of a personality on here which leaves me wondering if I am...
    ihaveanameitsrick ihaveanameitsrick 46-50, M May 19, 2008

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    What Do I Like? I Have No Idea.

    I am so busy with life. With school, work, responsibilities. I am so busy with so much that everything I do is half way. Instead of doing a few things spectacular, I am doing many things mediocre. When I do have a spare moment, and they are few and far between, I am lost. I...
    elizabeth1618 elizabeth1618 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 2, 2009

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    I Don't Know Anymore.

    I used to think I knew exactly who I was and what I was going to do, how my life is going to turn out. But I'm so confused now. I'm not sure how I feel about my religion, and I have so many controversial views. I've been having all sorts of problems in my life, from family...
    l3luel3abe l3luel3abe 16-18, F 1 Response Nov 1, 2007

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    I Am Confused With Who I Really Am..

    i Dont kno anymore..i use to have everything going great...but now years pass and changes start..i dont know who i am anymore..and i dont want to be something im not...this really sucks because i dont know Where i fit in anymore.... im just so depressed lately with the fact that...
    SourLove SourLove 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 28, 2007

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    Two People In One?

    I'm so confused about myself. I feel as though I have two sides of me, & this really confuses me about my identity. Sometimes I can be a strong-willed, non self-conscious, directly honest, hard-shelled person, saying whatever's on my mind & being somewhat mean, cold, or proud...
    ConcealedChivalrousHeart ConcealedChivalrousHeart 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 16, 2010

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    My Past Is Conflicting My Future...

    i think because of my past and the way that i may talk to someone that i may get mis understood. I say this because lately people have been responding to me and i have made several friends. Some who i can relate to, others who want to get in my pants, and others who i have a lot...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 22, 2012

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    Maybe he's a beard... Maybe he's not. That's not what I'm confused about though. I love spending time with him, being close, sharing the closeness between us, kissing him, touching...
    cantlovealone cantlovealone 18-21, F Aug 23

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    Im a girl who has feelings towards my bestfriend who is a girl too. Im inlove with her for a long time yet still not have gotten over it. We went different ways after I graduated...
    iFuckenLoveYou iFuckenLoveYou 18-21, F Aug 22

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    One thing that is constantly on my mind right now is about my relationship. Straight to the point; We met a year ago, and it was the 3rd month of my foundation year. Honestly I had...
    bellatrixeslove bellatrixeslove 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    I was with my boyfriend for four years, we broke up less than a month ago because he said he had feelings for someone else. About two weeks ago he came back to me saying he wants...
    Itslisa Itslisa 22-25, F 6 Responses Sep 4

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    Hey this is my first time writing any experience on here, but I guess I'm going to give it a try. I guess you can say everything started in sixth grade? Since this point in my life...
    ThisKidd ThisKidd 13-15, M Sep 4

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    I don't know where to start.... I have been with my boyfriend now for 2 years. We have problems, we aren't perfect....we fight and we have different interests. We use to talk about...
    Thetroubledperfectionist Thetroubledperfectionist 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    But i need to share my life experience . My parents got divorced when i had 14 , i moved with my mom and sister out of our house . i had few relationships when i had 17 till 18...
    agirlouthere agirlouthere 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 25

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    You see, this may sound stupid because I'm very young but I feel like if I don't say this I will keep thinking it over and over and just get more stressed. I am fourteen and I...
    ValeriyaIvanov ValeriyaIvanov 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 4

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    I recently started dating this guy who was persistent about having me around. He used to call me every morning and night. We both work so we see each other 2-3 times a wk. However...
    missyluvslilies missyluvslilies 26-30, F 10 Responses 5 days ago

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    For any further info on this look at my other posts, and for those who already know this is just an update! I'm in love with my step brother...here are the details of whats...
    OtakuGirl911 OtakuGirl911 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    I'll be the first to admit that I mocked long distance relationships, I genuinely believed that they couldn't possibly exist and be real. Now I feel more confused than ever before...
    RebeccaLouise9541 RebeccaLouise9541 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    I am 21 years old while he's 28. I am single, he has a girlfriend. I think they were together for a long time and they already have a plan to marry this 2016. I know this because...
    august01 august01 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    I've been in a relationship for about six months now. I honestly believe he doesn't care about me at all, though all of his friends swear otherwise. I really do like him but I feel...
    blueoracle blueoracle 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    So, there's this guy in my class and it feels like I have a crush on him. I don't know what I like about him tho. He's funny. That's all. I don't know why my heart is choosing to...
    imsounknown imsounknown 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    Long story short I am married and got caught texting another man... **** hit the fan since my H knows the guy and now life is upside down. I knew what I was doing was wrong but I...
    hbgirl24 hbgirl24 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    I really need help and I don't know what to do with this relationship anymore. I have been with my boyfriend for more than a year now. He is in medical school and I'm working...
    TiffyQ723 TiffyQ723 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 6

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    Not exactly confused but rather worried about him. I am proud to let the world know my boyfriend is a United States Marine but sometimes it feels like he doesn't let people know I...
    luisaacosta luisaacosta 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am so confused I love my Husband but I know he is toxic for me and he lies and sleeps with other people. I have proof of one person but not others. I feel it with all my being...
    mb1973 mb1973 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    I'm love my bf and it's only been a month and a half. We connect on different levels. He makes me smile even when I don't want to. He makes me forget about all the people that are...
    cjohnson1983 cjohnson1983 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    The worst feeling in the world is to find out the feelings aren't really mutual, due to past relationships. I've always been the amazing person that finishes last. So tired of...
    cjohnson1983 cjohnson1983 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    Ughhhh. SOS. Help me figure this one out. Got stories? Advice? Help out a confused 16 year-old girl. You'll earn good karma.
    IvyEstelle IvyEstelle 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    My boyfriend of 9 months cuts himself when I try to end it with him. I know he's not right for me and it has nothing to do with his depression and cutting. I am feeling really...
    hanna135 hanna135 41-45, F 5 Responses Sep 11

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    I haven't really actively looked for love. I usually just experience it through others peoples stories. I am curious and know that it will change my perspective on things, but I've...
    bec413 bec413 18-21, F Aug 30

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    Do you go on hitting on a girl after multiple rejections because you don't like the feeling of rejection/try to change her mind or because you really like her?
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 31