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    Okay.. Wait.. So if a black person posts

    someone on Instagram that's like #whitepeoplebelike then it's funny? But if a white person posts something and says #blackpeoplebelike then it's rude and racist? I understand racism and I would never hashtag that but why is it okay for one but not the other? It just doesn't seem...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 12 Responses Jan 7

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    I'm currently being worshipped on the Internet

    for posting, "Soft booty, warm booty, little ball of ***. Happy booty, sleepy booty. GRAB, DAT, ***." With a picture of Tom Hiddleston's butt. I don't understand...
    Aviaria Aviaria 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    Isn't it strange when guys say the opposite of

    what they think? And even stranger when it works? Why don't all guys realize that throwing fake compliments and trying to flatter is corny? But then again every guy I like turns out to be bad...very bad actually lol Don't take guy advice from me!
    brusquebrunette brusquebrunette 26-30, F 7 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    I change all the time

    and it's getting really annoying. My personality, my interests, my hobbies.. How can I know who I am if I keep changing that much? I just wanna know where I'm about to get in life but it keeps changing. I keep changing. It's so confusing!! Anyone who can relate..?
    mydailylifeasme mydailylifeasme 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    Life would be great if it could just tell you

    when you made the right decision. A little card in the mail with a simple "you did the right thing." I'd settle for an email too. It would certainly save me a lot of stress and sleepless nights. These guessing games and waking up at three in the morning with two little words...
    hiddendesires97 hiddendesires97 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Definitely Confused

    I Stood up and declared myself free But am I free Sometimes yes Sometimes no I am confused But am an optimist I was always free or so My heart says But my mind defers I dont know Aint mind and heart the same I am confused I doubt am I sane or insane I dont know But am...
    akhilsnath akhilsnath 22-25, M 4 Responses Jan 15, 2013

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    My brain has too many tabs open.

    . I don't even know what I want anymore..
    lonelylittledragon lonelylittledragon 13-15, F Apr 1

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    When you like someone

    and they like you but they dont want a relationship untill college. However we act like a couple but are secretive about it so we usualy only hang around town and rarely hang at one of our houses. As nice as it is im not sure how i feel about it.
    sftbllbabe8 sftbllbabe8 16-17, F Mar 24

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    Am I Saying Goodbye Or Am I Waiting?

    I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place! I believe in love! But does love believes in me? I'm not always a best friend, but I'm never the enemy. I sometimes worry, but I'll always believe in me. When he texted to say it was over, I wished my phone was off.. It some how became...
    Ema122 Ema122 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2013

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    To start off, I basically live a messed up life.

    It's because a lot has happened to me not most of suicidal teenagers nowadays have experienced. I've been a loner all my life. I'm the quiet , aloof, self-centered introvert you'll ever meet in your life. Perpetually awkward and anxious too just so you know. But ever since 2014...
    jesssaying1997 jesssaying1997 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    Why do people get mad over someone wearing a

    military/soldier uniform? Saying that the uniform has to be earn and it's disrespectful to the country. I've just seen a video of a man wearing the uniform to go shopping on black Friday. But what about Native American headdresses.. I'm pretty sure it has to be earn too but...
    NikkiH94 NikkiH94 18-21, F 25 Responses Dec 2, 2014

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    Today, a mate of mine told me I stand out in a

    crowd, I said 'why, is it cos I'm short lol ' he said ' no' I said 'how then' he said its cos I'm good looking which I find very weird and confusing because my friends are way more gorgeous than me and I don't stand out, except for the fact my hair is awesome and I'm a midget...
    littlecrazymia littlecrazymia 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 16, 2014

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    Why do all of the girls on here ask

    if they look great This all I have to say about this You look amazing, and I don't believe you could any better Now stop asking you making all the old pervs message you and I know you don't want that
    RandomSingingGuy RandomSingingGuy 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 5, 2014

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    UPDATE: So according to my past experience,

    I know a guy who stares at me a lot in class. And I'm actually attracted to him. Last week, someone asked me out for dinner, but I don't like him (he's arrogant and annoying) so I intentionally asked for other people to come with us. (Un)fortunately, everyone's busy except for...
    misselley misselley 13-15, F Mar 28

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    Our parents raise us to be

    who we want. Follow our dreams. My sister raised me to be the real me. But the real me likes girls. Is that a sin? Our parents guide us to be us, then say we're ****** because we're being ourselves. Very contradicting, right? I'm confused as to why we can never please anyone.
    Anika1258 Anika1258 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 1, 2014

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    At 32 years of age, I still haven't found my

    true calling. I enjoy many things, most of which are nearly impossible to make a living doing. I volunteer and participate in what I enjoy, but these are, of course, part time endeavors. I am a mother, and that's very important to me, but in this day and age, and with my life in...
    lovely9me lovely9me 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2013

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    A murderer will kill you,

    a thief will steal from you, but you'll never know where you stand with a liar... who agrees with me?
    samuel131 samuel131 46-50, M 4 Responses Feb 27

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    ladybilbo ladybilbo 31-35, F Mar 23

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    Do God really exists?

    Why He let me feel this? I'm always praying to him that make our plan happen but still He's not doing anything. It's still the same. I can't go to Singapore and live there as I wanted in the first place. Do God really exist?
    mielrovi mielrovi 13-15, F a week ago

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    Had lunch by myself at a restaurant full of

    young people. I feel like I am sandwiched between the older generation and the current generation. I could not stand the noise and moved to a quiter place where another lady reminisced about the youth of yester years and the youth of today (the "selfie" generation, a selfish...
    tan54321 tan54321 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2014

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    lets say u are a sheep,

    and i am a crow. ur baaa-ing away to say wat u want to say while im kaw kaw - ing away to say wat i wana say. but since we are different, we cant seem to make each other understand wat we wana say even tohugh we care. thats how i feel these days when talking to friends, or to...
    kragoth135 kragoth135 18-21, M Apr 3

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    After ending things with my abusive bf many

    years ago, I prayed for a long time that i'd never get into a relationship again and that men would find me unattractive. That prayer never worked but instead I felt as if every man that came along was horrible and treated me poorly. Honestly I think I have some sort of curse...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F Mar 20

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    So I lost a few of my closest "Friends" here in

    the last month. I checked my armpits and breath and think I'm ok. The reasons they left-EP is a distraction from their Real Life, they got too close to someone here and it broke their heart... Which brings the questions "How did it become possible to prefer a virtual life to a...
    Blondiex15 Blondiex15 36-40, F 34 Responses Mar 17

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    UPDATE: So according to my past experience,

    I know a guy who stares at me a lot in class. And I'm actually attracted to him. Last week, someone asked me out for dinner, but I don't like him (he's arrogant and annoying) so I intentionally asked for other people to come with us. (Un)fortunately, everyone's busy except for...
    misselley misselley 13-15, F Mar 28

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    I used to thought that i know love ,

    but after meeting you ,everything in my world just became mess up
    Appolo123 Appolo123 16-17, M Mar 30

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    I'm so confused. I just had the strangest

    conversation with one of my friends.He talked about this girl and I must've said something because he thinks I'm talking to her.I don't know if his talking about of our friends we know or someone I don't I'm so confused right.This boy has helped me a lot an he said that he was...
    MusicLover4Eternity MusicLover4Eternity 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    everytime I take paracetamol I feel completely

    out of it and nauseous. help.
    Unicornpeasant Unicornpeasant 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    Hey everyone. I'm Warren,

    and I'm 17 years old. This is my first post on here, and it might be a little long, but I'd really appreciate if someone would take the time to read it. I'm posting this because I'm confused about my life in general, but I just don't know exactly what to say or do. So I'll try...
    Warren97 Warren97 18-21, M 5 Responses Jun 22, 2014

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    wierd, friends that disappeared long ago pops

    up on ep when i dont visit here in months, and then i txt back and cant get a hold for months.... not to mention life is wierd. PRAY FOR ME!!!!!!
    kragoth135 kragoth135 18-21, M Apr 6

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    She waited the whole day for her lover and at the end of the day she needs love, while the man comes home after work and is very tired.The man fails to satisfy her need.What's the point of living together?
    Riemann Riemann 18-21, M 1 Response May 13, 2011

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    Just Smile and Nod.

    But more than just that.....I think sometimes my train of thought is confusing to follow for some people. I am random..I am flakey. But would I be a better person if I made sense to everyone? NO. Random thoughts : Why do some cleaning chemicals say that they are approved by the...
    luckypickle luckypickle 26-30 129 Responses Sep 20, 2009

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    Sometimes I don't know

    if I should like a sad experiance.....should I or should I not
    jamorah jamorah 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 23, 2014

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    Whoa.. The update is

    so weird...
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2014

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    It's always nice to walk through 3-4 inches of

    snow on the first day of spring...
    PhantomPower PhantomPower 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    Why do boys think girls want **** pics.

    We don't. That **** is ugly.
    Bambi9987 Bambi9987 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 27, 2014

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    Why do guys want nudes

    so bad they won't leave you alone? I'm not sending any so don't ask me.
    pxthetic pxthetic 13-15, F 7 Responses Aug 5, 2014

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    How come I can only love someone

    or hate someone? There really is no in between for me. To be honest, I don't even know what to do anymore. I've let these emotions control me, and I cannot feel guilty about this any longer. I do love you, I do. And you, I hate you so much to the point where I must avoid you or...
    chasetheweirdo8 chasetheweirdo8 13-15, M 2 Responses Mar 3

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    To the men: (especially those with Indian

    mentaliy) If a woman wrote to you to say "bye".... then a couple months later wrote back to say ''hello" (because obviously she had realized her mistake of saying goodbye in the first place) would you welcome her ''hello", or think "WTF".....
    naive123 naive123 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    Why Do People Text Like This ?

    ? It's Not A Title! OR WHY DO SOME PEOPLE TEXT LIKE THIS?!?! ARE THEY SHOUTING? I DON'T KNOW! I'm just a bit confused
    mattihope mattihope 18-21, F Mar 17, 2014

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    So after my 5th period class there was a

    bracelet left on my table near my bag and i took it and asked my friend if they knew who this was and she said it was dariens, so i walked back in class and gave it to him and he said thanks but i have no idea if he wanted me to accept that as a sign he likes me
    jayforever jayforever 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    I Need Help! They Hate Me But Pretend To Love Me!

    Okay.. this is my first story, and I'm not a writer so i don't know how to start.. But I'm lost and i need helpI don't know how to deal with those people....I got my aunt who hates me.. hates me so much and every time she sees me she have to say something that makes me really...
    JustJennah JustJennah 22-25, F 9 Responses Mar 22, 2012

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    I wish I had a personality

    and a life. I'm so sick of being lonely.
    Eechay Eechay 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 2

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    So there is this guy

    and we always flirt at school, but one day we hung out after school and kissed. I texted him later that day to see if that kiss meant that we are officially talking or what we were and he said that he likes me and happy we kissed, but we shouldn't label it and just see how...
    Justverycurious Justverycurious 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    What defines a young mother?

    Someone called me a young mother and it strikes me as odd. I think if you're young enough to have a child you are mostly likely young. Unless of course they thought I was a teen mom or something. I know someone thought I was 17-19 with my second child. lol I was 24 when I had my...
    vault101 vault101 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 19

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    smeckledorfed smeckledorfed 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2014

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    My hubby invited his best mate to our wedding

    anniversary lunch after I told them I had a sex dream with both of them in it. My hubby sat on one side and his best mate sat on the other side. Are they ******* with me????
    Sjb36 Sjb36 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 19, 2014