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I Am Confused

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    Just Smile and Nod.

    But more than just that.....I think sometimes my train of thought is confusing to follow for some people. I am random..I am flakey. But would I be a better person if I made sense to everyone? NO. Random thoughts : Why do some cleaning chemicals say that they are approved by the...
    luckypickle luckypickle 26-30 129 Responses Sep 20, 2009

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    So I lost a few of my closest "Friends" here in

    the last month. I checked my armpits and breath and think I'm ok. The reasons they left-EP is a distraction from their Real Life, they got too close to someone here and it broke their heart... Which brings the questions "How did it become possible to prefer a virtual life to a...
    Blondiex15 Blondiex15 36-40, F 34 Responses Mar 17

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    Isn't it strange when guys say the opposite of

    what they think? And even stranger when it works? Why don't all guys realize that throwing fake compliments and trying to flatter is corny? But then again every guy I like turns out to be bad...very bad actually lol Don't take guy advice from me!
    brusquebrunette brusquebrunette 26-30, F 7 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    I'm so confused. I just had the strangest

    conversation with one of my friends.He talked about this girl and I must've said something because he thinks I'm talking to her.I don't know if his talking about of our friends we know or someone I don't I'm so confused right.This boy has helped me a lot an he said that he was...
    MusicLover4Eternity MusicLover4Eternity 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    It's funny I want to help people out

    but I never take my own advice **** my life
    yalzaga yalzaga 18-21, F Apr 14

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    Had lunch by myself at a restaurant full of

    young people. I feel like I am sandwiched between the older generation and the current generation. I could not stand the noise and moved to a quiter place where another lady reminisced about the youth of yester years and the youth of today (the "selfie" generation, a selfish...
    tan54321 tan54321 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2014

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    I Need Help! They Hate Me But Pretend To Love Me!

    Okay.. this is my first story, and I'm not a writer so i don't know how to start.. But I'm lost and i need helpI don't know how to deal with those people....I got my aunt who hates me.. hates me so much and every time she sees me she have to say something that makes me really...
    JustJennah JustJennah 22-25, F 9 Responses Mar 22, 2012

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    How come I can only love someone

    or hate someone? There really is no in between for me. To be honest, I don't even know what to do anymore. I've let these emotions control me, and I cannot feel guilty about this any longer. I do love you, I do. And you, I hate you so much to the point where I must avoid you or...
    chasetheweirdo8 chasetheweirdo8 13-15, M 2 Responses Mar 3

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    ?

    She waited the whole day for her lover and at the end of the day she needs love, while the man comes home after work and is very tired.The man fails to satisfy her need.What's the point of living together?
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 13, 2011

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    Why does it have to be

    so confusing? Why can't the right decision just slap me in the face? D:
    LivviyLove LivviyLove 16-17, F Apr 16

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    So today I was writing in my notebook,

    I wrote and I wrote, I wrote a lot of things, then I paused for a minute and started looking around in confusion, not sure what i wanted to do, but my hands were looking for something and I was sure that there was something I wanted to do, until it hit me, I was looking for the...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    So next door lives a family

    that have two older boys who used to play with us and talk to the other younger kids over the weekends. Anyway this afternoon I had a flashback of their uncle offering me popcorn (He used to make it and sell it) if I would come visit him and let him do to him what his boys did...
    maleeny maleeny 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Why do boys think girls want **** pics.

    We don't. That **** is ugly.
    Bambi9987 Bambi9987 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 27, 2014

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    UPDATE: So according to my past experience,

    I know a guy who stares at me a lot in class. And I'm actually attracted to him. Last week, someone asked me out for dinner, but I don't like him (he's arrogant and annoying) so I intentionally asked for other people to come with us. (Un)fortunately, everyone's busy except for...
    misselley misselley 13-15, F Mar 28

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    Why do people get mad over someone wearing a

    military/soldier uniform? Saying that the uniform has to be earn and it's disrespectful to the country. I've just seen a video of a man wearing the uniform to go shopping on black Friday. But what about Native American headdresses.. I'm pretty sure it has to be earn too but...
    NikkiH94 NikkiH94 18-21, F 25 Responses Dec 2, 2014

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    Why Do People Text Like This ?

    ? It's Not A Title! OR WHY DO SOME PEOPLE TEXT LIKE THIS?!?! ARE THEY SHOUTING? I DON'T KNOW! I'm just a bit confused
    mattihope mattihope 18-21, F Mar 17, 2014

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    Life would be great if it could just tell you

    when you made the right decision. A little card in the mail with a simple "you did the right thing." I'd settle for an email too. It would certainly save me a lot of stress and sleepless nights. These guessing games and waking up at three in the morning with two little words...
    hiddendesires97 hiddendesires97 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 14

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    Okay.. Wait.. So if a black person posts

    someone on Instagram that's like #whitepeoplebelike then it's funny? But if a white person posts something and says #blackpeoplebelike then it's rude and racist? I understand racism and I would never hashtag that but why is it okay for one but not the other? It just doesn't seem...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 12 Responses Jan 7

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    I have a "friend" who only ever asks favours of

    me. Small things, usually just tips, pointers and general knowledge. But he will never talk with me. Ever. He thanked me for something, and I said "No worries. How have you been lately?" No reply. Recently, he asked if there was any way to see who had an anonymous comment on...
    dabram71 dabram71 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 2

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    Am I Saying Goodbye Or Am I Waiting?

    I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place! I believe in love! But does love believes in me? I'm not always a best friend, but I'm never the enemy. I sometimes worry, but I'll always believe in me. When he texted to say it was over, I wished my phone was off.. It some how became...
    Ema122 Ema122 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2013

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    Why do guys want nudes

    so bad they won't leave you alone? I'm not sending any so don't ask me.
    pxthetic pxthetic 13-15, F 7 Responses Aug 5, 2014

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    Hey everyone. I'm Warren,

    and I'm 17 years old. This is my first post on here, and it might be a little long, but I'd really appreciate if someone would take the time to read it. I'm posting this because I'm confused about my life in general, but I just don't know exactly what to say or do. So I'll try...
    Warren97 Warren97 18-21, M 5 Responses Jun 22, 2014

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    I have my eye out for a guy on my college rodeo

    team at my college. But I want to try it with a girl. Help!
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 5 days ago

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    To start off, I basically live a messed up life.

    It's because a lot has happened to me not most of suicidal teenagers nowadays have experienced. I've been a loner all my life. I'm the quiet , aloof, self-centered introvert you'll ever meet in your life. Perpetually awkward and anxious too just so you know. But ever since 2014...
    jesssaying1997 jesssaying1997 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    A murderer will kill you,

    a thief will steal from you, but you'll never know where you stand with a liar... who agrees with me?
    samuel131 samuel131 46-50, M 4 Responses Feb 27

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    I haven't had sex in almost a year,

    due to a bunch of factors including relocating from overseas, being a recluse for several months to study for boards, bouts of depression. Nothing confusing about that alright. I made out with a girl a few times within the last month. I didn't really enjoy it that much. We're...
    FryyM FryyM 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Today, a mate of mine told me I stand out in a

    crowd, I said 'why, is it cos I'm short lol ' he said ' no' I said 'how then' he said its cos I'm good looking which I find very weird and confusing because my friends are way more gorgeous than me and I don't stand out, except for the fact my hair is awesome and I'm a midget...
    littlecrazymia littlecrazymia 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 16, 2014

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    Good people don't seem to grativate towards me.

    I wonder if this means I'm bad.
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    My racist bus driver actually replied to me

    today. Everyday, as I get off the bus I always tell the bus driver goodbye, despite the fact that she is a racist. It is her decision to have that state of mind so I do not let it bother me even though I am black. She never looks at me or says anything back, and I am used to...
    PhantomPower PhantomPower 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 17

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    Do you ever get the feeling

    that you don't even know yourself anymore? That empty, anxious feeling you get when you realize that you're completely unsure of who you are? That feeling of utter confusion? That's what I'm experiencing right now. Up until recently I've been fairly sure of who I am as a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    OK I feel for the married guy,

    I didn't know he was married and did my best to leave after finding out. I felt and still feel bad about hurting his wife. We talk on occasion, but I try to keep it platonic. Every so often I run into him in public. It still hurts just to see him. For some reason he thought it'd...
    imjustthatgirl66 imjustthatgirl66 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    smeckledorfed smeckledorfed 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2014

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    Our parents raise us to be

    who we want. Follow our dreams. My sister raised me to be the real me. But the real me likes girls. Is that a sin? Our parents guide us to be us, then say we're ****** because we're being ourselves. Very contradicting, right? I'm confused as to why we can never please anyone.
    Anika1258 Anika1258 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 1, 2014

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    To the men: (especially those with Indian

    mentaliy) If a woman wrote to you to say "bye".... then a couple months later wrote back to say ''hello" (because obviously she had realized her mistake of saying goodbye in the first place) would you welcome her ''hello", or think "WTF".....
    naive123 naive123 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    My brain has too many tabs open.

    . I don't even know what I want anymore..
    lonelylittledragon lonelylittledragon 13-15, F Apr 1

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    My parents want me to do medicine.

    I however want to do engineering. I am confused. Their hopes are high . I Dont want to disappoint them and at the same time i dont want to do medicine. Maybe it is too early to be worried but if i cant find a solution now or soon, sooner or later i will have to. I am confused.
    Timmoh Timmoh 16-17, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    There is a bunch of girls I know

    who all like the same guy. But I don't know why they like him. I mean, sure he's cute and athletic but literally three quarters of them have never even said a word to him.
    Tsubaki16 Tsubaki16 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    Whoa.. The update is

    so weird...
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2014

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    Why do all of the girls on here ask

    if they look great This all I have to say about this You look amazing, and I don't believe you could any better Now stop asking you making all the old pervs message you and I know you don't want that
    RandomSingingGuy RandomSingingGuy 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 5, 2014

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    EP is supposed to be a place

    where everyone is enjoying themselves. Now, a few of my contents, of whom my mum said does NOT violate any rules/conditions have been removed and was denied when I appealed. Well, I'm certainly not enjoying myself as of now. Everyone was meant to enjoy themselves, but I'm not...
    Delphi111 Delphi111 13-15, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    EP, only here you can find people

    who wish to track your period, who want to be your slaves, who ask you to force them to flirt with same sex, and finally people with broken English ( no offence meant, its not my first language either) who are the first ones to write you and tell you to **** off because they...
    Gelezinis Gelezinis 18-21, F 4 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    And I don't even know how to put it into works

    sooo yayyy.... Ugh can't I just turn off my brain?
    SkollHati SkollHati 18-21, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I used to thought that i know love ,

    but after meeting you ,everything in my world just became mess up
    Appolo123 Appolo123 16-17, M Mar 30

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    wierd, friends that disappeared long ago pops

    up on ep when i dont visit here in months, and then i txt back and cant get a hold for months.... not to mention life is wierd. PRAY FOR ME!!!!!!
    kragoth135 kragoth135 18-21, M Apr 6

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    Sometimes I don't know

    if I should like a sad experiance.....should I or should I not
    jamorah jamorah 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 23, 2014

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    Just listen~ since nobody else can hear what I

    hear I'll just say that I love each and every one of you. Yes even you, stop running away and listen~ you're special~ to me.
    chasetheweirdo8 chasetheweirdo8 13-15, M 6 Responses 3 days ago

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