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    My hubby invited his best mate to our wedding

    anniversary lunch after I told them I had a sex dream with both of them in it. My hubby sat on one side and his best mate sat on the other side. Are they ******* with me????
    Sjb36 Sjb36 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 19

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    Hey everyone. I'm Warren,

    and I'm 17 years old. This is my first post on here, and it might be a little long, but I'd really appreciate if someone would take the time to read it. I'm posting this because I'm confused about my life in general, but I just don't know exactly what to say or do. So I'll try...
    Warren97 Warren97 16-17, M 5 Responses Jun 22

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    My mom is sick and our family desperately needs

    the money. Is prostitution a good idea if I'm not making enough?
    xocarasoulxo xocarasoulxo 16-17, F 8 Responses Nov 29

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    I am confused about what I really want at this

    time in my life I have been through so much it tore me down emotionally and I hate that I am overly emotional some times I need to be strong for my son but some times it's hard with all I been through I just want to move forward and focus in the future not the past
    slynn999 slynn999 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 13

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    She waited the whole day for her lover and at the end of the day she needs love, while the man comes home after work and is very tired.The man fails to satisfy her need.What's the point of living together?
    Riemann Riemann 18-21, M 1 Response May 13, 2011

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    I Need Help! They Hate Me But Pretend To Love Me!

    Okay.. this is my first story, and I'm not a writer so i don't know how to start.. But I'm lost and i need helpI don't know how to deal with those people....I got my aunt who hates me.. hates me so much and every time she sees me she have to say something that makes me really...
    JustJennah JustJennah 22-25, F 9 Responses Mar 22, 2012

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    Whoa.. The update is

    so weird...
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 17

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    Why do people get mad over someone wearing a

    military/soldier uniform? Saying that the uniform has to be earn and it's disrespectful to the country. I've just seen a video of a man wearing the uniform to go shopping on black Friday. But what about Native American headdresses.. I'm pretty sure it has to be earn too but...
    NikkiH94 NikkiH94 18-21, F 24 Responses Dec 2

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    Why Do People Text Like This ?

    ? It's Not A Title! OR WHY DO SOME PEOPLE TEXT LIKE THIS?!?! ARE THEY SHOUTING? I DON'T KNOW! I'm just a bit confused
    mattihope mattihope 18-21, F Mar 17

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    what is happening to me.

    .. why do I feel hungry.... but not for food. Why do I feel impowered but weak. I HAVE TO BE going crazy. Right??
    BeforeTheEnd BeforeTheEnd 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Can somebody please explain to me what the hell

    throwing a bucket of cold water over your head is for... I know it's in support of ALS or MND etc. but why can people not just donate to a charity and leave it at that?! I'm fourteen and most of my friends have done it, and it's only just occurred to me that what the hell are...
    Lbdavid Lbdavid 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 29

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    Isn't it strange when guys say the opposite of

    what they think? And even stranger when it works? Why don't all guys realize that throwing fake compliments and trying to flatter is corny? But then again every guy I like turns out to be bad...very bad actually lol Don't take guy advice from me!
    brusquebrunette brusquebrunette 26-30, F 8 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    Just Smile and Nod.

    But more than just that.....I think sometimes my train of thought is confusing to follow for some people. I am random..I am flakey. But would I be a better person if I made sense to everyone? NO. Random thoughts : Why do some cleaning chemicals say that they are approved by the...
    luckypickle luckypickle 26-30 128 Responses Sep 20, 2009

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    smeckledorfed smeckledorfed 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 10

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    I really like her. At this point I think its

    safe to say that I love her and she says she feels the same. I thought I've been in love before but she makes me feel like everyone and everything else isn't real or never was to begin with. I can't describe it. We've been messing around but I don't know what to make of it. Its...
    ChefJerfey ChefJerfey 18-21, M Dec 15

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    My head is filled with conflicting emotions

    and opinions. The world makes no sense to me anymore. The difference between right and wrong was defined by my society, and I know that there are some stifling laws I support (eg weed being illegal), though I don't want to believe that right and wrong can only be defined by...
    reversi reversi 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    What are you supposed to think

    if a guy says "let's hang out" and then never makes plans or never gets back to you. What is with the mind games people!! It can't be a simple thing ever. Two people who like each other and want to spend time together. That's all I want. Is that so much to ask for?
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 1

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    All the women on here talk about real life

    stuff lol and guys are just horny and want to play lol
    ohno25 ohno25 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 1

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    I have never been the type to let it go.

    I can't just rip it off like a bandaid and feel the pain for a moment than be done with it. No, I like to pick at it until it becomes irritated and even more painful. So it serves as a constant reminder of what I can't do and what I have done. ++
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    So let me ask a question.

    .. I have been married a long time. I fell out of love with him years ago. I stay for security reasons. We have a bit of a rocky relationship. Well on a family vacation with our adult children this past weekend, he didnt like the way I answered him and called me a "F**king C*nt...
    HippieDee HippieDee 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    The point of a lie is to protect something.

    So what is the point of ever telling the truth. It sure doesn't hurt as much. I am scared of what the truth could mean. Does it mean war or peace?
    Blackbutterflies99 Blackbutterflies99 13-15, F Dec 19

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    Sometimes I don't know

    if I should like a sad experiance.....should I or should I not
    jamorah jamorah 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 23

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    I want to stay with him.

    . yet I'm not sure if I should.. I love him, still... and always will I believe. I guess I've made him important in my life, I've given him value... so, so much value... I've felt pain that has proved that I only felt it because I care for him.. because if he didn't matter to me...
    infinitexhope infinitexhope 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    koorlo koorlo 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 8

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    well i talked with somebody last night,

    it was a great conversation. she reminded me of things i knew but forgot about. i was more open with her than i have been with anybody before....course i do still have a few locked doors, but i fear that she'll feel disrespected should i unlock those doors and i dont want her...
    turnpike1971 turnpike1971 41-45, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I am 13 I am confused

    why people actual real live people are talking to me right now... What's special about me. Is it because they expect something? What do they expect? Are we actually gonna be friends? Will they hate me? Do they secretly hate me and want to know all my secrets to tell the world...
    EmotionaLila EmotionaLila 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 20

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    Definitely Confused

    I Stood up and declared myself free But am I free Sometimes yes Sometimes no I am confused But am an optimist I was always free or so My heart says But my mind defers I dont know Aint mind and heart the same I am confused I doubt am I sane or insane I dont know But am...
    akhilsnath akhilsnath 22-25, M 4 Responses Jan 15, 2013

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    So this one girl on EP says

    that she is new and is looking for new friend around her age group (16-17). I message her saying "Hi :) How do you like EP so far?" Then she blocks me. I am guessing the pervs bombarded her inbox already. I don't know why else I would have been blocked for saying hi.
    moose73630 moose73630 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 15

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    I had a confusion in my mind.

    This confusion was like a mystery for me at that moment and till now. Today, I woke up had a cup of coffee, got ready for work. I kissed my mom as usual and waved her bye. Started my Bike, switched on my radio and accelerated to move ahead. It was a nice pleasant morning with a...
    adiscorpion41 adiscorpion41 22-25, M 4 Responses Dec 8

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    Needing guidance... Needing a chance.

    .. Needing warmth... Craving contact... Yet fearing susceptibility.... Fearing weakness and fault Vulnerability and betrayal Reaching for a hand that has already left mine For I retracted my own in stale fear Ruminating from past betrayals Dressed as Fear As rotting spirits...
    LittleBastet9 LittleBastet9 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 17

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    Do you ever get the feeling

    that you don't even know yourself anymore? That empty, anxious feeling you get when you realize that you're completely unsure of who you are? That feeling of utter confusion? That's what I'm experiencing right now. Up until recently I've been fairly sure of who I am as a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Jul 9

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    I love my friends but

    now I don't know if they really care about me and if i am just delusional. It was because I was having a b-day party and I had invited less than 10 people. 3 people couldn't make it for acceptable reasons. But than 3 came over 2 hrs late and i called them to see where they were...
    ninjapip16 ninjapip16 16-17 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I know this is a pretty typical story to hear

    from someone my age but I just want to get this off my chest. (No matter how stupid I sound) So a few weeks ago in one of my classes, I was talking to one of my guy friends. (I kind of like him) and he came up behind me and slammed a book near my ear and I screamed. He died...
    iamnemo iamnemo 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 15

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    Am I Saying Goodbye Or Am I Waiting?

    I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place! I believe in love! But does love believes in me? I'm not always a best friend, but I'm never the enemy. I sometimes worry, but I'll always believe in me. When he texted to say it was over, I wished my phone was off.. It some how became...
    Ema122 Ema122 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2013

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    Why do guys want nudes

    so bad they won't leave you alone? I'm not sending any so don't ask me.
    therealsydster therealsydster 13-15, F 9 Responses Aug 5

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    TheGuy147 TheGuy147 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 6

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    So weird if u talk on the phone people say good

    bye. If ur texting people just leave u hanging in the middle of a conversation. Haha ?
    azcat696969 azcat696969 41-45, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Im so damned confused.

    Mostly about who i am, who i thought i was. Am i an introvert or an extrovert. Am i bpd or just emotional. How do i feel about a certain person. How do i feel about anything. i use to always be so sure of what i felt, of what i believed, of who i was. now im sitting here in this...
    TheWickedJester TheWickedJester 26-30, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I love my man with all my heart.

    Haven't been intimate in 3 years. Just met a guy a few days ago and we just had phone sex today. My man told me that he would let me go as a Fiancé and keep me as a friend. I felt so happy after having a long conversation and phone sex with the new guy. He's everything I...
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    Today, a mate of mine told me I stand out in a

    crowd, I said 'why, is it cos I'm short lol ' he said ' no' I said 'how then' he said its cos I'm good looking which I find very weird and confusing because my friends are way more gorgeous than me and I don't stand out, except for the fact my hair is awesome and I'm a midget...
    littlecrazymia littlecrazymia 13-15, F 5 Responses Sep 16

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    Well I work with a guy

    that makes me nervous. Every time that I'm next to him I want to talk to him but words don't come out. When I'm doing something I get embarrassed and I get anxious. I don't like this at all I'm so confused of why I feel like this :T
    Didi33 Didi33 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 14

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    This Boy that I love doesn't want to believe I

    loved him truly and I still do love him...I don't know what to do, what to act and what to say...He tells me he love me too and so I tell him too but I am confused of what love he has to me
    Kimitsu Kimitsu 13-15, F a week ago

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    Ok so heres the thing: 5 months ago I was at a

    party and I found out my ex had cheated on me and met this other guy that protected me while I was there and talked to me for like 2 hours straight, I mean he was just perfect. All right, since then we have always been together in every party we meet but he just doesnt talk to...
    Heyyayou Heyyayou 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    is there a way to end this confusion?

    I don't know what I want to do my life?
    alibaig1991 alibaig1991 22-25, M Dec 2

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    Our parents raise us to be

    who we want. Follow our dreams. My sister raised me to be the real me. But the real me likes girls. Is that a sin? Our parents guide us to be us, then say we're ****** because we're being ourselves. Very contradicting, right? I'm confused as to why we can never please anyone.
    Anika1258 Anika1258 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 1

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    Someone seems to have blocked me

    for unknown reason. :| I have barely talked to them.
    Lolinondoda Lolinondoda 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    At 32 years of age, I still haven't found my

    true calling. I enjoy many things, most of which are nearly impossible to make a living doing. I volunteer and participate in what I enjoy, but these are, of course, part time endeavors. I am a mother, and that's very important to me, but in this day and age, and with my life in...
    lovely9me lovely9me 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    Had lunch by myself at a restaurant full of

    young people. I feel like I am sandwiched between the older generation and the current generation. I could not stand the noise and moved to a quiter place where another lady reminisced about the youth of yester years and the youth of today (the "selfie" generation, a selfish...
    tan54321 tan54321 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 29

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    I'm so confused I can't message anyone.

    .I've got like 11 mail notifications but whenever I try to reply it says "this persons privacy settings prevent you from contacting them. You have not been blocked specifically." But most of these people I've been having a conversation with for ages, I left for an hour or so, and...
    loveyourselfalwaysxx loveyourselfalwaysxx 13-15, F 7 Responses Oct 23

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    At moments I think my life is

    as perfect as a movie and then I think everything is falling apart instead. Without any change happening in between. Why can we not be more stable?
    giuliaseven giuliaseven 26-30, F Dec 10

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    Not really confused as such,

    just unsure. So anyways, I was just talking to the guy I like via IM on skype (we know each other irl) and he started saying things like I love you and stuff like that. He sometimes does this to annoy me, but not this much. When I asked him about it he said he was in a lovey...
    EmberFlame EmberFlame 13-15, F Dec 16

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    Where can I find my family history by bloodline

    because I want to know where I come from the furthest I know is my great great grandparents who died in the 80s.... I don't want to use ancestry and I would pay money to get a genealogist (I think that's what it is) if needed.
    MTBlake33 MTBlake33 22-25, M