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    So I was dating this guy

    and we really had fun and I was really starting to like him. But, we had never discussed politics, until tonight. And tonight I found out he is really (like really really really) racist, and if there is anything in the world I can't handle it is racist people. I'm so confused, I...
    sproetje sproetje 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 16

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    I live u so much but u dont love me.

    What can I do. Help me jesus your horoscope said I might have romance with u but again I am wrong. I hate my life
    QueenOrange QueenOrange 41-45, F 5 days ago

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    At 32 years of age, I still haven't found my

    true calling. I enjoy many things, most of which are nearly impossible to make a living doing. I volunteer and participate in what I enjoy, but these are, of course, part time endeavors. I am a mother, and that's very important to me, but in this day and age, and with my life in...
    lovely9me lovely9me 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    We haven't talked for like 2 days are we

    even still in a relationship? Cus u were " so happy " for me to b yours but we like dont talk ._. This is confusing
    PANDASAREAWESOME67 PANDASAREAWESOME67 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 18

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    Definitely Confused

    I Stood up and declared myself free But am I free Sometimes yes Sometimes no I am confused But am an optimist I was always free or so My heart says But my mind defers I dont know Aint mind and heart the same I am confused I doubt am I sane or insane I dont know But am...
    akhilsnath akhilsnath 22-25, M 4 Responses Jan 15, 2013

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    So, I have been hanging out with this guy

    for about the last year, it's been really casual and we do not hang out that often. We text or he might call me about once and week. We have also had a few random hook-ups. It has been a mutual decision that we were not going to be in a relationship and that we are just having...
    Rae1983 Rae1983 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 12

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    TheGuy147 TheGuy147 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 6

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    Today, a mate of mine told me I stand out in a

    crowd, I said 'why, is it cos I'm short lol ' he said ' no' I said 'how then' he said its cos I'm good looking which I find very weird and confusing because my friends are way more gorgeous than me and I don't stand out, except for the fact my hair is awesome and I'm a midget...
    littlecrazymia littlecrazymia 13-15, F 5 Responses Sep 16

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    having a song stuck in your head

    while taking a test. Seriously not now -_-
    ElizabethSwannTurner ElizabethSwannTurner 18-21, F Oct 18

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    Yesterday someone asked me

    why I never get mad at her. I said: "I don't want to get mad at you." Then she told me to get mad at her because she thought it would be cute. I send her some angry messages and then she said it wasn't cute at all, while I already told her that.
    gomega98 gomega98 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 17

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    I'll try to make this simple,

    uncomplicated and as short as possible :) But I know it won't be, but it's interesting I think :p Annnd I would love ya if you respond and help me out a bit! Even though I know no one will most likely reply... :( But it's worth a shot I guess... :p I saw his blue eyes the day I...
    Maihowl Maihowl 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 9

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    Why Do People Text Like This ?

    ? It's Not A Title! OR WHY DO SOME PEOPLE TEXT LIKE THIS?!?! ARE THEY SHOUTING? I DON'T KNOW! I'm just a bit confused
    mattihope mattihope 18-21, F Mar 17

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    Isn't it strange when guys say the opposite of

    what they think? And even stranger when it works? Why don't all guys realize that throwing fake compliments and trying to flatter is corny? But then again every guy I like turns out to be bad...very bad actually lol Don't take guy advice from me!
    brusquebrunette brusquebrunette 26-30, F 7 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    I am confused about what I really want at this

    time in my life I have been through so much it tore me down emotionally and I hate that I am overly emotional some times I need to be strong for my son but some times it's hard with all I been through I just want to move forward and focus in the future not the past
    slynn999 slynn999 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 13

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    Why do all of the girls on here ask

    if they look great This all I have to say about this You look amazing, and I don't believe you could any better Now stop asking you making all the old pervs message you and I know you don't want that
    RandomSingingGuy RandomSingingGuy 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 5

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    Hate taking pills :p don't

    even know what there for.. Doctor was really mysterious about it and when I ask him about it he give me more pills -.-
    communismlol communismlol 13-15, M Oct 12

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    There is this girl I like a lot

    but she has always had boyfriends. We do have a special complicated friendship. Last night we hung out for a bit and after one drink when we where talking her face was inches from me and when she got up she brushed up against me and lingered against me. Just don't know if I am...
    QueenOrange QueenOrange 41-45, F Oct 14

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    My whole life I have only ever been attracted

    to men but just yesterday for the first time I felt extremely attracted to a female and now I can't stop thinking of her.....I just want to kiss her and hold her (please take this seriously I am pouring my secrets out)
    shall16 shall16 18-21, T 2 Responses Oct 20

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    I see so many post here about sex this,

    and sex that and I am sexless this and that. I post some links and education about human sexuality and I they are kicked.. Is it not ok to educate people? Are people more interested in hearsay and crap? No answer needed.. lol
    pegasus12162 pegasus12162 51-55, M Oct 12

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    So this one girl on EP says

    that she is new and is looking for new friend around her age group (16-17). I message her saying "Hi :) How do you like EP so far?" Then she blocks me. I am guessing the pervs bombarded her inbox already. I don't know why else I would have been blocked for saying hi.
    moose73630 moose73630 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 15

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    I don't even know where to begin.

    I laid in bed and pretended to be asleep while he got dressed. He came in and out a bunch of times and each time he came back, I hoped he'd lean over and say goodbye. I heard the door shut and the lock turn and I started to cry. Knot's are in my heart.
    dammitjanit dammitjanit 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 17

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    It maddens me quite a bit

    when a girl posts a picture of herself in a crop top and obscenely short-shorts with the caption "I wish I was thin" like um excuse me why are you posting this then if you're so insecure!!
    H3lloK1tty H3lloK1tty 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I don't understand why,

    at the cafe I go to every week, if I sit by the left corner next to the wall, there is always a huge fly in front of my window. So this week, I decide to sit in the centre, and after 20 minutes, the fly follows me and rests directly in front of my window. Hmm... It's not like...
    Toffeecoffee Toffeecoffee 22-25, F Oct 9

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    Hey everyone,I m kinda confused about my future

    so I wanted to know about your plans after 10th or 12.So Please kindly share with me.
    AksharGoyal AksharGoyal 13-15, M 4 days ago

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    Sometimes I don't know

    if I should like a sad experiance.....should I or should I not
    jamorah jamorah 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 23

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    I want things, brilliant things,

    to go through my mind. My mind is full of questions, however, that I find hard to identify.
    SeaSalt38 SeaSalt38 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 19

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    I'm so confused I can't message anyone.

    .I've got like 11 mail notifications but whenever I try to reply it says "this persons privacy settings prevent you from contacting them. You have not been blocked specifically." But most of these people I've been having a conversation with for ages, I left for an hour or so, and...
    loveyourselfalwaysxx loveyourselfalwaysxx 13-15, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    anyone think kids are spoon feed the wrong

    messages? Glorifying prison and illeagle activity while suppressing intelligence...What happened to the good ol days????
    sissybritt sissybritt 26-30 1 Response 3 days ago

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    iergosum iergosum 18-21, M Oct 10

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    So.. ugh.. this is about a girl.

    I hate that I am getting so worked up about this and looking into it so much but I can't help it. Alright. There's this amazing girl who I am just totally taken with. She's so nice and pretty and smart. Anyway, I would snapchat her every once in awhile and she may or may not...
    7Questions 7Questions 16-17, M 2 Responses Oct 12

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    Why do boys think girls want **** pics.

    We don't. That **** is ugly.
    Bambi9987 Bambi9987 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 27

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    Hippie Sheets

    I have strange body chemistry.  I first noticed it in high school when my sterling silver jewelry would turn black within hours of putting it on.  My boyfriend gave me a beautiful birthstone ring set in gold.  It was real gold and I was impressed.  That turned...
    Myonis108 Myonis108 56-60, F 38 Responses Aug 19, 2009

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    Honestly, this has not only come across EP

    but in public as well and it seems to be a "trend" Why do women/men want to be the "other woman/man" only to complain they feel like they don't have enough attention and feel unimportant? That's exactly what they are asking for when involving themselves with a married man/woman...
    BallinBae BallinBae 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I slept with my ex boyfriend the other day (we

    still love each other well so he says buts he's got a new girlfriend) anyway he kept reminding me to take the pill infact I totally forgot coz I was busy so I lied to him that I took it and I haven't spoken to him since. Kinda stupid of me...
    bella132 bella132 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 15

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    why do people try to end their lives

    when they feel themselves trapped or when they feel that all the doors are closed...? why not live my life optimist even if I'm depressed, I know that's not always possible, but why not trying it? Why we always try to kill ourselves or drink our sorrows away ? Why not go and...
    myownmind2 myownmind2 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 19

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    i am also proud,but also a little worried

    and upset... a guy(call him k) moved out of his dorm room and into someone else's because it was bigger (not legaly or through the campus or whatever he just sort of moved in) anyway the person there didn't want him after a while so he told him to leave(lets call him c)... i...
    matthewnew matthewnew 18-21 Oct 21

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    How can you hold me and tell me

    that you love me and that I'm the most amazing person ever and send me hearts? How could you make me feel this way? I catch you looking at me all the time... do you like me...? You act like you do, just tell me :3
    smurfinaround smurfinaround 18-21, F Oct 14

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    Had lunch by myself at a restaurant full of

    young people. I feel like I am sandwiched between the older generation and the current generation. I could not stand the noise and moved to a quiter place where another lady reminisced about the youth of yester years and the youth of today (the "selfie" generation, a selfish...
    tan54321 tan54321 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Just Smile and Nod.

    But more than just that.....I think sometimes my train of thought is confusing to follow for some people. I am random..I am flakey. But would I be a better person if I made sense to everyone? NO. Random thoughts : Why do some cleaning chemicals say that they are approved by the...
    luckypickle luckypickle 26-30 128 Responses Sep 20, 2009

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    My hubby invited his best mate to our wedding

    anniversary lunch after I told them I had a sex dream with both of them in it. My hubby sat on one side and his best mate sat on the other side. Are they ******* with me????
    Sjb36 Sjb36 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 19

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    Needing guidance... Needing a chance.

    .. Needing warmth... Craving contact... Yet fearing susceptibility.... Fearing weakness and fault Vulnerability and betrayal Reaching for a hand that has already left mine For I retracted my own in stale fear Ruminating from past betrayals Dressed as Fear As rotting spirits...
    LittleBastet9 LittleBastet9 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 17

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    I live u so much but u dont love me.

    What can I do. Help me jesus your horoscope said I might have romance with u but again I am wrong. I hate my life
    QueenOrange QueenOrange 41-45, F 5 days ago

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    Can somebody please explain to me what the hell

    throwing a bucket of cold water over your head is for... I know it's in support of ALS or MND etc. but why can people not just donate to a charity and leave it at that?! I'm fourteen and most of my friends have done it, and it's only just occurred to me that what the hell are...
    Lbdavid Lbdavid 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 29

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    I had broken up with my ex bf

    and I have been trying to move on for 2 months. We decided to remain friends although I was still hoping that one day we'll get back together. I just disappointed myself by expecting we still have a chance to be together, but then he clearly said no. So I decided to stop talking...
    Trishhh Trishhh 22-25, F 9 Responses Mar 6

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    The day after my 26th birthday my mom took my

    for coffee and what I thought was going to be a catch-up session turned out to be a one-way conversation about what I've been doing wrong. Today my mom and brother did it again, but at least this time I wasn't in public and could sit comfortably on my bed while they blamed me...
    heresthestory heresthestory 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 3

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    Do you ever get the feeling

    that you don't even know yourself anymore? That empty, anxious feeling you get when you realize that you're completely unsure of who you are? That feeling of utter confusion? That's what I'm experiencing right now. Up until recently I've been fairly sure of who I am as a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Jul 9

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    She waited the whole day for her lover and at the end of the day she needs love, while the man comes home after work and is very tired.The man fails to satisfy her need.What's the point of living together?
    Riemann Riemann 18-21, M 1 Response May 13, 2011

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    I have no idea what's

    even going on anymore. Life sucks so much right now
    HisDaysAreNumbered HisDaysAreNumbered 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 9

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    One of my close friends is starting to exclude

    me. She is also ignoring my texts. It is clear that she doesn't want to be my friend, but I have not done anything wrong to her. I'm confused as to whether I should I ask her what is going on or accept the fact that she doesn't want to be part of my life anymore.
    H3lloK1tty H3lloK1tty 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I Need Help! They Hate Me But Pretend To Love Me!

    Okay.. this is my first story, and I'm not a writer so i don't know how to start.. But I'm lost and i need helpI don't know how to deal with those people....I got my aunt who hates me.. hates me so much and every time she sees me she have to say something that makes me really...
    JustJennah JustJennah 22-25, F 9 Responses Mar 22, 2012

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    Am I Saying Goodbye Or Am I Waiting?

    I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place! I believe in love! But does love believes in me? I'm not always a best friend, but I'm never the enemy. I sometimes worry, but I'll always believe in me. When he texted to say it was over, I wished my phone was off.. It some how became...
    Ema122 Ema122 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2013

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    So I have PTSD I watched my mother get rapped

    and beaten, I watched her battle with heroin addiction, my father is dead, my little brother has a brain problem causing him to have seizures and I...I am confused. I don't know how to feel I'm not certain I even have feelings. I don't want to live but I guess that's just...
    Insanelylabeled Insanelylabeled 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 14

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    I'm so confused I guess.

    Sometimes I yearn to be loved and to love other times I want to be alone and independent. I feel like I would be wasting my time trying to be in a relationship and create a social life because I don't have my career established, my life where I want it to be. Often I catch...
    ColdDayMemory ColdDayMemory 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 2

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