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    I am 13 I am confused

    why people actual real live people are talking to me right now... What's special about me. Is it because they expect something? What do they expect? Are we actually gonna be friends? Will they hate me? Do they secretly hate me and want to know all my secrets to tell the world...
    EmotionaLila EmotionaLila 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 20

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    I thought we were getting close then all the

    sudden. you're gone.... 😢
    LittleLexxi21 LittleLexxi21 18-21, F Nov 8

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    I am just really confused

    because he hasn't texted me,spoken to me at school and today I saw him in the canteen and while I was siting with me friends he patted my head and walked off.... What should I do? I am really confused
    kristiannastefanidis kristiannastefanidis 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 5

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    I don't even know where to begin.

    I laid in bed and pretended to be asleep while he got dressed. He came in and out a bunch of times and each time he came back, I hoped he'd lean over and say goodbye. I heard the door shut and the lock turn and I started to cry. Knot's are in my heart.
    dammitjanit dammitjanit 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 17

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    My hubby invited his best mate to our wedding

    anniversary lunch after I told them I had a sex dream with both of them in it. My hubby sat on one side and his best mate sat on the other side. Are they ******* with me????
    Sjb36 Sjb36 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 19

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    Am I Saying Goodbye Or Am I Waiting?

    I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place! I believe in love! But does love believes in me? I'm not always a best friend, but I'm never the enemy. I sometimes worry, but I'll always believe in me. When he texted to say it was over, I wished my phone was off.. It some how became...
    Ema122 Ema122 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2013

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    To the ladies on the site could i ask you to

    explain this to me. Yesturday at 11:20pm i messaged my GF that i was on my way home, I arrived an hr later and messaged her i was home this was on the moblie/tablet app KIK i waited for a little for her to read the message but nothing so i said ill watch some netflix while i...
    ShadowAiriax ShadowAiriax 18-21, M Oct 25

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    I don't know what I want to do with my life I

    am currently in a glam punk band and am a semi pro stuntman/daredevil. I also want to be a pro wrestler again (I used to be in the Indys) and run my own business, I also would love love love to be a reggae artist and spread the word of love and faith to the whole world! I am so...
    MTBlake33 MTBlake33 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 2

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    smeckledorfed smeckledorfed 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 10

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    Our parents raise us to be

    who we want. Follow our dreams. My sister raised me to be the real me. But the real me likes girls. Is that a sin? Our parents guide us to be us, then say we're ****** because we're being ourselves. Very contradicting, right? I'm confused as to why we can never please anyone.
    Anika1258 Anika1258 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 1

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    I Need Help! They Hate Me But Pretend To Love Me!

    Okay.. this is my first story, and I'm not a writer so i don't know how to start.. But I'm lost and i need helpI don't know how to deal with those people....I got my aunt who hates me.. hates me so much and every time she sees me she have to say something that makes me really...
    JustJennah JustJennah 22-25, F 9 Responses Mar 22, 2012

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    Why am I able to say the meanest

    and the saddest thing with no remorse but It's so hard to say stuff like " I love you" and "you're beautiful" and anything nice / passionate?
    akaShaun akaShaun 16-17, M 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    Why Do People Text Like This ?

    ? It's Not A Title! OR WHY DO SOME PEOPLE TEXT LIKE THIS?!?! ARE THEY SHOUTING? I DON'T KNOW! I'm just a bit confused
    mattihope mattihope 18-21, F Mar 17

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    I am confused about what I really want at this

    time in my life I have been through so much it tore me down emotionally and I hate that I am overly emotional some times I need to be strong for my son but some times it's hard with all I been through I just want to move forward and focus in the future not the past
    slynn999 slynn999 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 13

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    I was involved with my sister's boyfriend's

    brother..I know that's weird. We were never intimate, he lives an hour and a half away from me.. We met in January, hit it off..had a lot in common, ..Then I broke it off with him back in August. He was furious. He just recently reconnected with me.. he still likes me, he misses...
    RobinDoughtea RobinDoughtea 18-21, F Nov 5

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    I want things, brilliant things,

    to go through my mind. My mind is full of questions, however, that I find hard to identify.
    SeaSalt38 SeaSalt38 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 19

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    Today, a mate of mine told me I stand out in a

    crowd, I said 'why, is it cos I'm short lol ' he said ' no' I said 'how then' he said its cos I'm good looking which I find very weird and confusing because my friends are way more gorgeous than me and I don't stand out, except for the fact my hair is awesome and I'm a midget...
    littlecrazymia littlecrazymia 13-15, F 5 Responses Sep 16

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    Why do men say they have feelings,

    get you to feel for them, then just walk away leaving you stuck with feelings that you don't know what to do with? Can a man on here please explain this to me????
    HippieDee HippieDee 46-50, F 4 Responses Nov 13

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    So this one girl on EP says

    that she is new and is looking for new friend around her age group (16-17). I message her saying "Hi :) How do you like EP so far?" Then she blocks me. I am guessing the pervs bombarded her inbox already. I don't know why else I would have been blocked for saying hi.
    moose73630 moose73630 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 15

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    Definitely Confused

    I Stood up and declared myself free But am I free Sometimes yes Sometimes no I am confused But am an optimist I was always free or so My heart says But my mind defers I dont know Aint mind and heart the same I am confused I doubt am I sane or insane I dont know But am...
    akhilsnath akhilsnath 22-25, M 4 Responses Jan 15, 2013

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    I am confused and depressed

    and I don't know what to do anymore. I've never had a girlfriend.. I want one 😟 Sometimes I make posts asking if people think I'm attractive, but I get scared to make posts like those because I don't want people to think I'm looking for attention.. It's not that, I just don't...
    TheWonkyRook TheWonkyRook 16-17, M 4 Responses Nov 6

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    I live u so much but u dont love me.

    What can I do. Help me jesus your horoscope said I might have romance with u but again I am wrong. I hate my life
    QueenOrange QueenOrange 46-50, F Oct 25

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    candyone candyone 41-45, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I live u so much but u dont love me.

    What can I do. Help me jesus your horoscope said I might have romance with u but again I am wrong. I hate my life
    QueenOrange QueenOrange 46-50, F Oct 25

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    anyone think kids are spoon feed the wrong

    messages? Glorifying prison and illeagle activity while suppressing intelligence...What happened to the good ol days????
    sissybritt sissybritt 26-30 1 Response Oct 26

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    I am currently a music major student

    but I want to take medicine because of my dream of becoming a dermatologist. I dont want to shift. its a waste of time. Any advice?
    faye08 faye08 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 6

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    I am with a wonderful person.

    He's perfect but I can't help but have her on my mind all the time. I love them both. I haven't cheated on him but I keep thinking about her. I'm confused.
    Ummnoojosi Ummnoojosi 18-21, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    Had lunch by myself at a restaurant full of

    young people. I feel like I am sandwiched between the older generation and the current generation. I could not stand the noise and moved to a quiter place where another lady reminisced about the youth of yester years and the youth of today (the "selfie" generation, a selfish...
    tan54321 tan54321 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 29

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    I keep getting a message notification

    but when I check it there's no message there. Am I doing something wrong??
    Joey1215 Joey1215 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    Whoa.. The update is

    so weird...
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Just Smile and Nod.

    But more than just that.....I think sometimes my train of thought is confusing to follow for some people. I am random..I am flakey. But would I be a better person if I made sense to everyone? NO. Random thoughts : Why do some cleaning chemicals say that they are approved by the...
    luckypickle luckypickle 26-30 128 Responses Sep 20, 2009

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    Tough weekend I had! I had a family issue

    and I was going to drop it, and say forget about it, but than yesterday I walked outside and sitting at the bottom of my step I seen a little card, and the card said "never ever give up, even if it's the hardest thing you have to do"... Now this thing never ever happened to me...
    ashworrell ashworrell 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    i am also proud,but also a little worried

    and upset... a guy(call him k) moved out of his dorm room and into someone else's because it was bigger (not legaly or through the campus or whatever he just sort of moved in) anyway the person there didn't want him after a while so he told him to leave(lets call him c)... i...
    matthewnew matthewnew 18-21 Oct 21

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    Isn't it strange when guys say the opposite of

    what they think? And even stranger when it works? Why don't all guys realize that throwing fake compliments and trying to flatter is corny? But then again every guy I like turns out to be bad...very bad actually lol Don't take guy advice from me!
    brusquebrunette brusquebrunette 26-30, F 7 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    Hey everyone. I'm Warren,

    and I'm 17 years old. This is my first post on here, and it might be a little long, but I'd really appreciate if someone would take the time to read it. I'm posting this because I'm confused about my life in general, but I just don't know exactly what to say or do. So I'll try...
    Warren97 Warren97 16-17, M 5 Responses Jun 22

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    Hey everyone,I m kinda confused about my future

    so I wanted to know about your plans after 10th or 12.So Please kindly share with me.
    AksharGoyal AksharGoyal 16-17, M Oct 26

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    Honestly, this has not only come across EP

    but in public as well and it seems to be a "trend" Why do women/men want to be the "other woman/man" only to complain they feel like they don't have enough attention and feel unimportant? That's exactly what they are asking for when involving themselves with a married man/woman...
    BallinBae BallinBae 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 25

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    I had broken up with my ex bf

    and I have been trying to move on for 2 months. We decided to remain friends although I was still hoping that one day we'll get back together. I just disappointed myself by expecting we still have a chance to be together, but then he clearly said no. So I decided to stop talking...
    Trishhh Trishhh 22-25, F 8 Responses Mar 6

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    I can't even post anything about how

    and what I'm feeling because I have no idea what it is...
    jackjack600 jackjack600 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    TheGuy147 TheGuy147 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 6

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    ?

    She waited the whole day for her lover and at the end of the day she needs love, while the man comes home after work and is very tired.The man fails to satisfy her need.What's the point of living together?
    Riemann Riemann 18-21, M 1 Response May 13, 2011

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    Why do boys think girls want **** pics.

    We don't. That **** is ugly.
    Bambi9987 Bambi9987 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 27

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    why do people try to end their lives

    when they feel themselves trapped or when they feel that all the doors are closed...? why not live my life optimist even if I'm depressed, I know that's not always possible, but why not trying it? Why we always try to kill ourselves or drink our sorrows away ? Why not go and...
    myownmind2 myownmind2 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 19

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    Sometimes I don't know

    if I should like a sad experiance.....should I or should I not
    jamorah jamorah 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 23

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    Hippie Sheets

    I have strange body chemistry.  I first noticed it in high school when my sterling silver jewelry would turn black within hours of putting it on.  My boyfriend gave me a beautiful birthstone ring set in gold.  It was real gold and I was impressed.  That turned...
    Myonis108 Myonis108 56-60, F 38 Responses Aug 19, 2009

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    At 32 years of age, I still haven't found my

    true calling. I enjoy many things, most of which are nearly impossible to make a living doing. I volunteer and participate in what I enjoy, but these are, of course, part time endeavors. I am a mother, and that's very important to me, but in this day and age, and with my life in...
    lovely9me lovely9me 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    I'm so confused I can't message anyone.

    .I've got like 11 mail notifications but whenever I try to reply it says "this persons privacy settings prevent you from contacting them. You have not been blocked specifically." But most of these people I've been having a conversation with for ages, I left for an hour or so, and...
    loveyourselfalwaysxx loveyourselfalwaysxx 13-15, F 7 Responses Oct 23

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    My buddy wanted to hit the hookah bar tonight,

    which ended up going well for the most part. He brought a girl and I brought a girl I dated for like three weeks and cut that off like two weeks ago. The girl my buddy brought was a dime. Talking to her, I could tell she was interested and we gave each other "that look" but my...
    PuckDrop PuckDrop 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Needing guidance... Needing a chance.

    .. Needing warmth... Craving contact... Yet fearing susceptibility.... Fearing weakness and fault Vulnerability and betrayal Reaching for a hand that has already left mine For I retracted my own in stale fear Ruminating from past betrayals Dressed as Fear As rotting spirits...
    LittleBastet9 LittleBastet9 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 17

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    Do you ever get the feeling

    that you don't even know yourself anymore? That empty, anxious feeling you get when you realize that you're completely unsure of who you are? That feeling of utter confusion? That's what I'm experiencing right now. Up until recently I've been fairly sure of who I am as a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Jul 9

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    koorlo koorlo 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 8

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    I've recently been thinking over a lot of

    things. Mainly about what I believe in. These are just my opinions and beliefs, I don't mean to offend any person. I've thought about life and the world itself- I really don't get the point. I don't understand why I'm here living on this Earth, I really don't have a purpose...
    YellowTulips YellowTulips 16-17, F 1 Response