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I Am Confused

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    Our parents raise us to be

    who we want. Follow our dreams. My sister raised me to be the real me. But the real me likes girls. Is that a sin? Our parents guide us to be us, then say we're ****** because we're being ourselves. Very contradicting, right? I'm confused as to why we can never please anyone.
    Anika1258 Anika1258 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 1, 2014

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    UPDATE: So according to my past experience,

    I know a guy who stares at me a lot in class. And I'm actually attracted to him. Last week, someone asked me out for dinner, but I don't like him (he's arrogant and annoying) so I intentionally asked for other people to come with us. (Un)fortunately, everyone's busy except for...
    misselley misselley 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    For the past couple days this girl

    and I have been in talking in school for only a couple minutes a day about this book we are reading in our English
    Apollo2123 Apollo2123 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 17

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    So, my profile has 84 views,

    but I only have 15 friends. How can someone look at my profile and not want to become my friend instantly? This confuses me.
    wolfgirl202 wolfgirl202 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Why do all of the girls on here ask

    if they look great This all I have to say about this You look amazing, and I don't believe you could any better Now stop asking you making all the old pervs message you and I know you don't want that
    RandomSingingGuy RandomSingingGuy 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 5, 2014

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    I am confused about what I really want at this

    time in my life I have been through so much it tore me down emotionally and I hate that I am overly emotional some times I need to be strong for my son but some times it's hard with all I been through I just want to move forward and focus in the future not the past
    slynn999 slynn999 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2014

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    Am I Saying Goodbye Or Am I Waiting?

    I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place! I believe in love! But does love believes in me? I'm not always a best friend, but I'm never the enemy. I sometimes worry, but I'll always believe in me. When he texted to say it was over, I wished my phone was off.. It some how became...
    Ema122 Ema122 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2013

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    A murderer will kill you,

    a thief will steal from you, but you'll never know where you stand with a liar... who agrees with me?
    samuel131 samuel131 41-45, M 4 Responses Feb 27

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    Why do boys think girls want **** pics.

    We don't. That **** is ugly.
    Bambi9987 Bambi9987 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 27, 2014

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    Can somebody please explain to me what the hell

    throwing a bucket of cold water over your head is for... I know it's in support of ALS or MND etc. but why can people not just donate to a charity and leave it at that?! I'm fourteen and most of my friends have done it, and it's only just occurred to me that what the hell are...
    Lbdavid Lbdavid 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 29, 2014

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    I would ask if you're okay

    but you don't want my friendship so that's that. :(
    whyusteens whyusteens 13-15, F Mar 16

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    I'm currently being worshipped on the Internet

    for posting, "Soft booty, warm booty, little ball of ***. Happy booty, sleepy booty. GRAB, DAT, ***." With a picture of Tom Hiddleston's butt. I don't understand...
    Aviaria Aviaria 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Isn't it strange when guys say the opposite of

    what they think? And even stranger when it works? Why don't all guys realize that throwing fake compliments and trying to flatter is corny? But then again every guy I like turns out to be bad...very bad actually lol Don't take guy advice from me!
    brusquebrunette brusquebrunette 26-30, F 7 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    This isn't really a story,

    but I just noticed that this person I've been "arguing" with misgendered the author of the comment we were discussing.. I didn't look at the author's picture or name very closely, so I went along with it at first. I've corrected my mistake, but now I wonder if they're the one...
    AaronH96 AaronH96 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    It's been years and I am still questioning

    about the concept of "family". This time I've genuinely ask myself what is family and whether a not my family can be truly considered "family". But I'll like to hear some opinions before I make my final judgement and hopefully not waste any more time on this topic I've been...
    AoRagdoll AoRagdoll 13-15, F Mar 15

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    Today, a mate of mine told me I stand out in a

    crowd, I said 'why, is it cos I'm short lol ' he said ' no' I said 'how then' he said its cos I'm good looking which I find very weird and confusing because my friends are way more gorgeous than me and I don't stand out, except for the fact my hair is awesome and I'm a midget...
    littlecrazymia littlecrazymia 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 16, 2014

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    Definitely Confused

    I Stood up and declared myself free But am I free Sometimes yes Sometimes no I am confused But am an optimist I was always free or so My heart says But my mind defers I dont know Aint mind and heart the same I am confused I doubt am I sane or insane I dont know But am...
    akhilsnath akhilsnath 22-25, M 4 Responses Jan 15, 2013

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    If I keep reminding myself of

    who I am, is that who I really am? I like to think that being yourself is as simple and easy as breathing; you don't have to think about it. But lately I have to remind myself that I was not a hateful person, I wasn't bitter, pessimist, that I wasn't rude to people.
    bhabhablacksheep bhabhablacksheep 22-25, F Mar 9

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    So I lost a few of my closest "Friends" here in

    the last month. I checked my armpits and breath and think I'm ok. The reasons they left-EP is a distraction from their Real Life, they got too close to someone here and it broke their heart... Which brings the questions "How did it become possible to prefer a virtual life to a...
    Blondiex15 Blondiex15 36-40, F 34 Responses Mar 17

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    My hubby invited his best mate to our wedding

    anniversary lunch after I told them I had a sex dream with both of them in it. My hubby sat on one side and his best mate sat on the other side. Are they ******* with me????
    Sjb36 Sjb36 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 19, 2014

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    I Need Help! They Hate Me But Pretend To Love Me!

    Okay.. this is my first story, and I'm not a writer so i don't know how to start.. But I'm lost and i need helpI don't know how to deal with those people....I got my aunt who hates me.. hates me so much and every time she sees me she have to say something that makes me really...
    JustJennah JustJennah 22-25, F 9 Responses Mar 22, 2012

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    smeckledorfed smeckledorfed 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2014

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    I love a boy. He's beautiful ,

    caring ,hard working and absolutely immaculate , and he's inlove with me. I am damaged with a lot of internal turmoil of which I find difficult opening up about to him or anyone else in my life. I want to let him go but he's holding on. I'm not perfect and I'm fragile and I can...
    prettyboo711 prettyboo711 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    At 32 years of age, I still haven't found my

    true calling. I enjoy many things, most of which are nearly impossible to make a living doing. I volunteer and participate in what I enjoy, but these are, of course, part time endeavors. I am a mother, and that's very important to me, but in this day and age, and with my life in...
    lovely9me lovely9me 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2013

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    Whoa.. The update is

    so weird...
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2014

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    Why do people get mad over someone wearing a

    military/soldier uniform? Saying that the uniform has to be earn and it's disrespectful to the country. I've just seen a video of a man wearing the uniform to go shopping on black Friday. But what about Native American headdresses.. I'm pretty sure it has to be earn too but...
    NikkiH94 NikkiH94 18-21, F 25 Responses Dec 2, 2014

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    Why Do People Text Like This ?

    ? It's Not A Title! OR WHY DO SOME PEOPLE TEXT LIKE THIS?!?! ARE THEY SHOUTING? I DON'T KNOW! I'm just a bit confused
    mattihope mattihope 18-21, F Mar 17, 2014

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    WATCH THIS ON YOUTUBE AND TELL ME IF THIS IS

    FUNNY https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5G4UQ7RcNkk&feature=youtu.be
    Kyle178 Kyle178 22-25, M Mar 17

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    ladybilbo ladybilbo 31-35, F a week ago

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    I thought you'r parent's were meant to love you

    unconditionally? I thought no matter how you turned out they were meant to accept that and love you for that person! My thoughts were wrong! Since I was 13 and had a very bad attitude my father told me I was just like my mother and basically couldn't stand who I was becoming...
    SecretAbby SecretAbby 18-21, F Mar 17

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    so i messaged my bf ,

    i saw he viewed it , but he didnt reply and when i tried to go onto his fb account it said page not found , wtf ?? . i dont know if he has deleted it or ??
    girldevil123 girldevil123 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    😔 Maybe it's because I'm ill

    but that has me confused and idk 😔
    normalguy18 normalguy18 18-21, M Mar 10

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    It's always nice to walk through 3-4 inches of

    snow on the first day of spring...
    PhantomPower PhantomPower 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    I used to thought that i know love ,

    but after meeting you ,everything in my world just became mess up
    Appolo123 Appolo123 16-17, M 11 mins ago

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    Why are so many cute guys gay D: (not saying

    straight guys aren't cute lol don't get me wrong)
    PartyPat2336 PartyPat2336 16-17, F 9 Responses Jan 5

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    After ending things with my abusive bf many

    years ago, I prayed for a long time that i'd never get into a relationship again and that men would find me unattractive. That prayer never worked but instead I felt as if every man that came along was horrible and treated me poorly. Honestly I think I have some sort of curse...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F Mar 20

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    So , today was my forth

    and last graduation party of college life. I missed it. Even though I was preparing for it. The most 2 important people in my life were preparing for it, until my 2 brothers ruin the perfect image of it. So I suggested not to go, since I lived the feeling before. And it was okay...
    annabarns annabarns 22-25, F Mar 17

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    So we were fine yesterday .

    more than fine . we were dating . I messaged you asking if you are ok , read the message , never replied , just blocked me . no explanation . no " your dumped " or " goodbye " just blocked me .
    girldevil123 girldevil123 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Well I haven't posted in a while

    but here goes you may seem my previous post about how my husband beats me while no surprises I caught him cheating. We are a young couple and he's turning 22 now he works at an high school where he has been making out and giving love bites To a 17 year old girl who is in love...
    alone121906 alone121906 18-21 Mar 19

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    I went to a concert last night

    and this guy grabbed me and grinded on me so hard and I was really confused and after when I turned around there was no there
    tiki18 tiki18 13-15, F Mar 7

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    everytime I take paracetamol I feel completely

    out of it and nauseous. help.
    Unicornpeasant Unicornpeasant 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Hey everyone. I'm Warren,

    and I'm 17 years old. This is my first post on here, and it might be a little long, but I'd really appreciate if someone would take the time to read it. I'm posting this because I'm confused about my life in general, but I just don't know exactly what to say or do. So I'll try...
    Warren97 Warren97 16-17, M 5 Responses Jun 22, 2014

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    I change all the time

    and it's getting really annoying. My personality, my interests, my hobbies.. How can I know who I am if I keep changing that much? I just wanna know where I'm about to get in life but it keeps changing. I keep changing. It's so confusing!! Anyone who can relate..?
    mydailylifeasme mydailylifeasme 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    ?

    She waited the whole day for her lover and at the end of the day she needs love, while the man comes home after work and is very tired.The man fails to satisfy her need.What's the point of living together?
    Riemann Riemann 18-21, M 1 Response May 13, 2011

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    Had lunch by myself at a restaurant full of

    young people. I feel like I am sandwiched between the older generation and the current generation. I could not stand the noise and moved to a quiter place where another lady reminisced about the youth of yester years and the youth of today (the "selfie" generation, a selfish...
    tan54321 tan54321 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2014

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    Okay.. Wait.. So if a black person posts

    someone on Instagram that's like #whitepeoplebelike then it's funny? But if a white person posts something and says #blackpeoplebelike then it's rude and racist? I understand racism and I would never hashtag that but why is it okay for one but not the other? It just doesn't seem...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 12 Responses Jan 7

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    Protonyx Protonyx 16-17, M Mar 12