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    There's this guy that likes me

    and he confessed to me last night .. He told me that he loves me and he is willing to wait because I'm in a relationship .. I don't know what to do or what to say because I don't want to hurt his feelings and I cherish our friendship so much .. I love him but as a friend only...
    ensumague05 ensumague05 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 3

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    Why Do People Text Like This ?

    ? It's Not A Title! OR WHY DO SOME PEOPLE TEXT LIKE THIS?!?! ARE THEY SHOUTING? I DON'T KNOW! I'm just a bit confused
    mattihope mattihope 18-21, F Mar 17, 2014

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    smeckledorfed smeckledorfed 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2014

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    Meoooww Meoooww 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 14

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    My boyfriend says he loves me

    and that he can see a future with me , but when i asked to be with him forever he said he can't look into the future and doesnt like when i say that . . . What ?
    Inhelll Inhelll 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I Need Help! They Hate Me But Pretend To Love Me!

    Okay.. this is my first story, and I'm not a writer so i don't know how to start.. But I'm lost and i need helpI don't know how to deal with those people....I got my aunt who hates me.. hates me so much and every time she sees me she have to say something that makes me really...
    JustJennah JustJennah 22-25, F 9 Responses Mar 22, 2012

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    I really don't know..

    I'm so paranoid of someone screwing me over i dont trust anyone,i dont want to.I dont f*cking know right now..I don't know if people are worth giving a chance to,they always seem to disappoint me and betray me and leave i don't know when they're being genuine or not? or if they...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    downer12 downer12 16-17, M 3 days ago

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    Why are so many cute guys gay D: (not saying

    straight guys aren't cute lol don't get me wrong)
    PartyPat2336 PartyPat2336 16-17, F 10 Responses Jan 5

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    Whoa.. The update is

    so weird...
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2014

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    I used to admire my classmate in college.

    He’s super chill, quiet, but you can say he’s not cool. He’s smart, that’s why I admire him. I never told him that I liked him but he apparently knew. That is why he always avoided me when we talked. He rarely talked to me unless we worked in the same group, or no one...
    indahnesia indahnesia 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    At 32 years of age, I still haven't found my

    true calling. I enjoy many things, most of which are nearly impossible to make a living doing. I volunteer and participate in what I enjoy, but these are, of course, part time endeavors. I am a mother, and that's very important to me, but in this day and age, and with my life in...
    lovely9me lovely9me 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2013

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    Do you ever get the feeling

    that you don't even know yourself anymore? That empty, anxious feeling you get when you realize that you're completely unsure of who you are? That feeling of utter confusion? That's what I'm experiencing right now. Up until recently I've been fairly sure of who I am as a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    Why do boys think girls want **** pics.

    We don't. That **** is ugly.
    Bambi9987 Bambi9987 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 27, 2014

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    Do you think have a religion

    and obey it's rule are truly necessary? I kinda in a line here . right now i can still say "yes i am a catholic" . i do my best to follow it , obey it "rule" ,etc. But right now i feel i miss a lot of things because my religion. People around me especially my friends keep...
    feelstanger feelstanger 18-21, M Jan 5

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    anonymousvictim anonymousvictim 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    I've had a massive crush on my history teacher

    for 2 years but he left and moved half way across the world in September, since he left I've been really confused with my feelings and have no clue if I have a crush on someone else or I'm just trying to fill his gap. I'm starting to think I like my music teacher - I'm so...
    anonymous329 anonymous329 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    My hubby invited his best mate to our wedding

    anniversary lunch after I told them I had a sex dream with both of them in it. My hubby sat on one side and his best mate sat on the other side. Are they ******* with me????
    Sjb36 Sjb36 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 19, 2014

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    Eriannaa Eriannaa 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 16

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    I'm not confused!!! I think I know

    and you know too. So who's confused now??? :-P
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 17

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    Am I Saying Goodbye Or Am I Waiting?

    I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place! I believe in love! But does love believes in me? I'm not always a best friend, but I'm never the enemy. I sometimes worry, but I'll always believe in me. When he texted to say it was over, I wished my phone was off.. It some how became...
    Ema122 Ema122 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2013

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    Girls were a hindrance.

    They only provided beauty to distract me and my men from our cause. True beauty is Jaibo, the most devoted member. He will never leave my side. I am the emperor. I am not in love, as love is an emotion, which would hinder me from being efficient. I do not love and I can not love...
    Toukos Toukos 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 9

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    I am confused about what I really want at this

    time in my life I have been through so much it tore me down emotionally and I hate that I am overly emotional some times I need to be strong for my son but some times it's hard with all I been through I just want to move forward and focus in the future not the past
    slynn999 slynn999 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2014

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    I don't know what I'm missing anymore.

    It's devastating because I'm so good at keeping my **** together and knowing what I want and need but now I don't know. And while that insanely excites the hell out of me, it also terrifies me. I'm good about knowing what I want and knowing how I'm going to get it and actually...
    Dreamerrrrrrr Dreamerrrrrrr 18-21, F Jan 17

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    Why do all of the girls on here ask

    if they look great This all I have to say about this You look amazing, and I don't believe you could any better Now stop asking you making all the old pervs message you and I know you don't want that
    RandomSingingGuy RandomSingingGuy 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 5, 2014

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    TheGuy147 TheGuy147 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 6, 2014

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    Why do people get mad over someone wearing a

    military/soldier uniform? Saying that the uniform has to be earn and it's disrespectful to the country. I've just seen a video of a man wearing the uniform to go shopping on black Friday. But what about Native American headdresses.. I'm pretty sure it has to be earn too but...
    NikkiH94 NikkiH94 18-21, F 25 Responses Dec 2, 2014

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    I went on a camping trip with some friends

    and there is one who im quite keen on, after drinking a little we ended up holding hands then going back to his tent and cuddling/fondling. The next day hed told people that he felt bad about it and they all gave him **** so that night he slept in his car because he didnt trust...
    irrelevantlol irrelevantlol 16-17, F Jan 2

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    I'm talking with my ex about my depression

    and a lot of other stuff and he's crying and I hate how desensitized I am about it all. I feel like I should be sad or remorseful about it but honestly talking about killing myself just makes me smile and talking about my self harm is making me want my blade. I'm so confused...
    connieawaller connieawaller 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    My friend's always joke about a particular

    friend liking me as more than friends and joke about how we should get together - I always ignore or change the topic as I've always thought it was a joke - but lately I've been thinking that he might actually like me and he's trying to get the message across in an indirect way...
    pn93 pn93 18-21, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    I don't even know what I want to do with my

    life anymore.. I feel like it's not even worth living. I want to kill myself and end it right now. Everything would be over. I can't take this anymore! :(
    AngelicVomit AngelicVomit 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 13

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    I am 13 I am confused

    why people actual real live people are talking to me right now... What's special about me. Is it because they expect something? What do they expect? Are we actually gonna be friends? Will they hate me? Do they secretly hate me and want to know all my secrets to tell the world...
    EmotionaLila EmotionaLila 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 20, 2014

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    I'm so confused I can't message anyone.

    .I've got like 11 mail notifications but whenever I try to reply it says "this persons privacy settings prevent you from contacting them. You have not been blocked specifically." But most of these people I've been having a conversation with for ages, I left for an hour or so, and...
    loveyourselfalwaysxx loveyourselfalwaysxx 13-15, F 7 Responses Oct 23, 2014

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    Living with my son in the hospital during his

    stay for stroke recovery. Sleep is so important for the brain to heal. It confuses me that he must be awakened every 1-2 hours for blood draws vital signs and to see if he is sleeping well. He WAS until you woke him up. Lol. So frustrating
    Lorismori Lorismori 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 5

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    Needing guidance... Needing a chance.

    .. Needing warmth... Craving contact... Yet fearing susceptibility.... Fearing weakness and fault Vulnerability and betrayal Reaching for a hand that has already left mine For I retracted my own in stale fear Ruminating from past betrayals Dressed as Fear As rotting spirits...
    LittleBastet9 LittleBastet9 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 17, 2014

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    Can somebody please explain to me what the hell

    throwing a bucket of cold water over your head is for... I know it's in support of ALS or MND etc. but why can people not just donate to a charity and leave it at that?! I'm fourteen and most of my friends have done it, and it's only just occurred to me that what the hell are...
    Lbdavid Lbdavid 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 29, 2014

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    Do I have an experience up saying I'm gay

    or something? I'm getting a lot of friend requests from dudes recently. I don't have any problem with that, but its a little interesting... Also, why would one send a "pic" despite me stating my sexual orientation. 0_o
    dabram71 dabram71 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 17

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    i wanna figure out who i am.

    im not looking for compassion i just want to let it out; i know everyone hates me, but no-one hates me more than myself, i cant stand my own skin
    KatherineSnow KatherineSnow 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Honestly, you confuse me

    so much... You say things, and then all of the sudden you do things that contradict the things that you've been saying... I just don't get you, man... You just don't make sense sometimes. and i'm not even gonna bother asking you about it. it's none of my business. Just wish I...
    BananaSmoothiee BananaSmoothiee 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 14

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    I feel like I'm being pulled in a hundred

    different directions mentally and I just don't know what to do. I wish I could just curl up and escape my own mind.
    Nullfiend Nullfiend 31-35, M 2 days ago

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    Hey everyone. I'm Warren,

    and I'm 17 years old. This is my first post on here, and it might be a little long, but I'd really appreciate if someone would take the time to read it. I'm posting this because I'm confused about my life in general, but I just don't know exactly what to say or do. So I'll try...
    Warren97 Warren97 16-17, M 5 Responses Jun 22, 2014

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    There is a cage inside of me.

    In that cage, is a very bad person. He is full of blind hate and rage; he is opposite of the person I try to be and mostly am. Tonight I can feel him bashing the birdcage like walls, smashing his fists against them whilst screaming. The metal that contains him is growing weaker...
    dabram71 dabram71 16-17, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Ok a dude put up a post about liking to show

    off his third leg and I jokingly said I wanna see, he messaged me asking if I still wanted to see then sent me a screenshot of my saying I "wanted to see", before I could even say anything I was blocked. I Swear I can hear the color nine right now😵😵😵
    Chpt16 Chpt16 16-17, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Why do guys want nudes

    so bad they won't leave you alone? I'm not sending any so don't ask me.
    pxthetic pxthetic 13-15, F 9 Responses Aug 5, 2014

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    Had lunch by myself at a restaurant full of

    young people. I feel like I am sandwiched between the older generation and the current generation. I could not stand the noise and moved to a quiter place where another lady reminisced about the youth of yester years and the youth of today (the "selfie" generation, a selfish...
    tan54321 tan54321 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2014

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    Definitely Confused

    I Stood up and declared myself free But am I free Sometimes yes Sometimes no I am confused But am an optimist I was always free or so My heart says But my mind defers I dont know Aint mind and heart the same I am confused I doubt am I sane or insane I dont know But am...
    akhilsnath akhilsnath 22-25, M 4 Responses Jan 15, 2013

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    i have a bf but he dose not talk to me to day i

    saw him holding hands in town with a nuther girl and said it was his cusin but y would u hold hands with your cusin ever since i told him am thinking of coming out bi this has been going on i dont now what to to
    jessicalove02 jessicalove02 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    Okay.. Wait.. So if a black person posts

    someone on Instagram that's like #whitepeoplebelike then it's funny? But if a white person posts something and says #blackpeoplebelike then it's rude and racist? I understand racism and I would never hashtag that but why is it okay for one but not the other? It just doesn't seem...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 11 Responses Jan 7

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    ?

    She waited the whole day for her lover and at the end of the day she needs love, while the man comes home after work and is very tired.The man fails to satisfy her need.What's the point of living together?
    Riemann Riemann 18-21, M 1 Response May 13, 2011

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    I love myself I really do,

    at least I know I love my looks and my personality a bit. But I know I'm mentally a train wreck and I feel tired and worthless. I don't know why but I just feel like I've done everything wrong. I'm not thinking of self harm or suicide oddly enough, almost as if in the back of my...
    jacithepanda jacithepanda 13-15, F 4 Responses Jan 16

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    Isn't it strange when guys say the opposite of

    what they think? And even stranger when it works? Why don't all guys realize that throwing fake compliments and trying to flatter is corny? But then again every guy I like turns out to be bad...very bad actually lol Don't take guy advice from me!
    brusquebrunette brusquebrunette 26-30, F 7 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    My boyfriend said to me "your goal should be to

    marry me" Huh? My goal?? Thoughts???
    Femininewiles Femininewiles 26-30, F 15 Responses