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    OK, so I am at the end of my time at Secondary

    School. Been a relatively good 5 years. Been good and bad times like Im sure we've all had. Made a few good friends, overall things have been good. Here's my problem. Back in year 7 when I first joined my tutor group there was this really good looking nice girl. As you can...
    ShadowStik ShadowStik 16-17, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    She told me I was cute,

    then she says I'm ugly, then she tells me I'm sexy... What is she telling me??? It isn't nice to play games.
    adhane05 adhane05 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 25

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    I Need Help! They Hate Me But Pretend To Love Me!

    Okay.. this is my first story, and I'm not a writer so i don't know how to start.. But I'm lost and i need helpI don't know how to deal with those people....I got my aunt who hates me.. hates me so much and every time she sees me she have to say something that makes me really...
    JustJennah JustJennah 22-25, F 9 Responses Mar 22, 2012

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    So next door lives a family

    that have two older boys who used to play with us and talk to the other younger kids over the weekends. Anyway this afternoon I had a flashback of their uncle offering me popcorn (He used to make it and sell it) if I would come visit him and let him do to him what his boys did...
    00Broken00 00Broken00 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 22

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    Why do boys think girls want **** pics.

    We don't. That **** is ugly.
    Bambi9987 Bambi9987 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 27, 2014

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    Okay.. Wait.. So if a black person posts

    someone on Instagram that's like #whitepeoplebelike then it's funny? But if a white person posts something and says #blackpeoplebelike then it's rude and racist? I understand racism and I would never hashtag that but why is it okay for one but not the other? It just doesn't seem...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 12 Responses Jan 7

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    blasianalien blasianalien 22-25, F May 13

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    I just hate that some stepmoms

    and girlfriends find that their partner doesn't have the responsibility to care for their kid. Just because they had a kid with someone and the kid loves with their ex, doesn't take away the responsibility to be a parent :/
    DoorMattress DoorMattress 13-15, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Sometimes I don't know

    if I should like a sad experiance.....should I or should I not
    jamorah jamorah 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 23, 2014

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    Isn't it strange when guys say the opposite of

    what they think? And even stranger when it works? Why don't all guys realize that throwing fake compliments and trying to flatter is corny? But then again every guy I like turns out to be bad...very bad actually lol Don't take guy advice from me!
    brusquebrunette brusquebrunette 26-30, F 7 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    My hubby invited his best mate to our wedding

    anniversary lunch after I told them I had a sex dream with both of them in it. My hubby sat on one side and his best mate sat on the other side. Are they ******* with me????
    Sjb36 Sjb36 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 19, 2014

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    If someone says thank you to you aren't you

    supposed to say you're welcome . And since when did being polite became the meaning of breaking some one else property . I'm pretty sure it's a crime to break other peoples property . Doing it out of anger is wrong. There are better ways to control it .
    xxtina15 xxtina15 16-17, F 2 hrs ago

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    Had lunch by myself at a restaurant full of

    young people. I feel like I am sandwiched between the older generation and the current generation. I could not stand the noise and moved to a quiter place where another lady reminisced about the youth of yester years and the youth of today (the "selfie" generation, a selfish...
    tan54321 tan54321 31-35, F Oct 29, 2014

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    Just Smile and Nod.

    But more than just that.....I think sometimes my train of thought is confusing to follow for some people. I am random..I am flakey. But would I be a better person if I made sense to everyone? NO. Random thoughts : Why do some cleaning chemicals say that they are approved by the...
    luckypickle luckypickle 26-30 129 Responses Sep 20, 2009

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    Definitely Confused

    I Stood up and declared myself free But am I free Sometimes yes Sometimes no I am confused But am an optimist I was always free or so My heart says But my mind defers I dont know Aint mind and heart the same I am confused I doubt am I sane or insane I dont know But am...
    akhilsnath akhilsnath 22-25, M 4 Responses Jan 15, 2013

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    Aireena Aireena 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Why do all of the girls on here ask

    if they look great This all I have to say about this You look amazing, and I don't believe you could any better Now stop asking you making all the old pervs message you and I know you don't want that
    RandomSingingGuy RandomSingingGuy 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 5, 2014

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    My parents want me to do medicine.

    I however want to do engineering. I am confused. Their hopes are high . I Dont want to disappoint them and at the same time i dont want to do medicine. Maybe it is too early to be worried but if i cant find a solution now or soon, sooner or later i will have to. I am confused.
    Timmoh Timmoh 16-17, M 4 Responses Apr 23

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    How does this site work ?

    Are there no strings attached ?
    ehok ehok 22-25, F 2 Responses May 15

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    Having one of those moments

    where people seem to like who I am but I don't
    Casualdeviant03 Casualdeviant03 18-21, T 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Do you ever get the feeling

    that you don't even know yourself anymore? That empty, anxious feeling you get when you realize that you're completely unsure of who you are? That feeling of utter confusion? That's what I'm experiencing right now. Up until recently I've been fairly sure of who I am as a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    I am a straight female

    but the majority of men I have fancied have been gay. I'm just not interested in straight males that much. What is wrong with me
    hayl13 hayl13 16-17, F 1 Response May 18

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    Just listen~ since nobody else can hear what I

    hear I'll just say that I love each and every one of you. Yes even you, stop running away and listen~ you're special~ to me.
    chasetheweirdo8 chasetheweirdo8 13-15, M 7 Responses Apr 21

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    Why Do People Text Like This ?

    ? It's Not A Title! OR WHY DO SOME PEOPLE TEXT LIKE THIS?!?! ARE THEY SHOUTING? I DON'T KNOW! I'm just a bit confused
    mattihope mattihope 18-21, F Mar 17, 2014

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    Why is everyone posting "questions" no one is

    posting experiences anymore :'( people are just posting random stuff lmao :'D some of the stuff is really funny lol. But people won't post experiences anymore. This app is just becoming the vent app.
    alexlovesfashion alexlovesfashion 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Maybe I am or maybe I am not In love with you.

    . Idk what to do when I am constantly thinking about you.. I wish this THING would just stop. The THING of me being in love with you just got to stop because i am not sure on how far of this THING I can control... I can't love you I just can't. No matter how hard I try PLEASE...
    DaOneandOnlyOne DaOneandOnlyOne 18-21, F 1 Response May 12

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    Why do people get mad over someone wearing a

    military/soldier uniform? Saying that the uniform has to be earn and it's disrespectful to the country. I've just seen a video of a man wearing the uniform to go shopping on black Friday. But what about Native American headdresses.. I'm pretty sure it has to be earn too but...
    NikkiH94 NikkiH94 18-21, F 25 Responses Dec 2, 2014

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    Why do guys want nudes

    so bad they won't leave you alone? I'm not sending any so don't ask me.
    pxthetic pxthetic 13-15, F 7 Responses Aug 5, 2014

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    johnd411 johnd411 31-35, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    And I don't even know how to put it into works

    sooo yayyy.... Ugh can't I just turn off my brain?
    SkollHati SkollHati 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 23

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    mustangkid2023 mustangkid2023 22-25, M 3 Responses May 10

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    MsAttitudez MsAttitudez 22-25, F 1 Response May 17

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    I identified on ep as trans

    because almost all my life I've hated being male and felt, thought and whenever possible acted like a woman yet, suddenly for the month or so I've found myself enjoying being male. On the one hand it feels natural, and on the other hand... I've just never felt this way for more...
    Christinamarie3095 Christinamarie3095 41-45, T 1 Response 2 days ago

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    okay, my brain isnt working,

    its shutting down, too much pressure. and here i thought i was the only one with complications, seems like that it also runs in the family. My sister is going through the exact depression i went through, for the same intrinsic reasons it seems sigh. worst of it, i know she...
    kragoth135 kragoth135 18-21, M 1 Response May 6

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    Our parents raise us to be

    who we want. Follow our dreams. My sister raised me to be the real me. But the real me likes girls. Is that a sin? Our parents guide us to be us, then say we're ****** because we're being ourselves. Very contradicting, right? I'm confused as to why we can never please anyone.
    Anika1258 Anika1258 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 1, 2014

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    A murderer will kill you,

    a thief will steal from you, but you'll never know where you stand with a liar... who agrees with me?
    samuel131 samuel131 46-50, M 4 Responses Feb 27

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    Hey everyone. I'm Warren,

    and I'm 17 years old. This is my first post on here, and it might be a little long, but I'd really appreciate if someone would take the time to read it. I'm posting this because I'm confused about my life in general, but I just don't know exactly what to say or do. So I'll try...
    Warren97 Warren97 18-21, M 5 Responses Jun 22, 2014

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    EP, only here you can find people

    who wish to track your period, who want to be your slaves, who ask you to force them to flirt with same sex, and finally people with broken English ( no offence meant, its not my first language either) who are the first ones to write you and tell you to **** off because they...
    Gelezinis Gelezinis 70+ 6 Responses Apr 24

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    So I lost a few of my closest "Friends" here in

    the last month. I checked my armpits and breath and think I'm ok. The reasons they left-EP is a distraction from their Real Life, they got too close to someone here and it broke their heart... Which brings the questions "How did it become possible to prefer a virtual life to a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 33 Responses Mar 17

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    Life would be great if it could just tell you

    when you made the right decision. A little card in the mail with a simple "you did the right thing." I'd settle for an email too. It would certainly save me a lot of stress and sleepless nights. These guessing games and waking up at three in the morning with two little words...
    hiddendesires97 hiddendesires97 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 14

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    Today, a mate of mine told me I stand out in a

    crowd, I said 'why, is it cos I'm short lol ' he said ' no' I said 'how then' he said its cos I'm good looking which I find very weird and confusing because my friends are way more gorgeous than me and I don't stand out, except for the fact my hair is awesome and I'm a midget...
    littlecrazymia littlecrazymia 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 16, 2014

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    Can somebody please explain to me what the hell

    throwing a bucket of cold water over your head is for... I know it's in support of ALS or MND etc. but why can people not just donate to a charity and leave it at that?! I'm fourteen and most of my friends have done it, and it's only just occurred to me that what the hell are...
    Lbdavid Lbdavid 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 29, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 26

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    Some **** that trips me out are

    when you hear about kids having near-death experiences and they come back to tell about meeting Jesus, old family members and some are even able to paint perfect pictures of what they saw. Or sometimes it shows up on the news that a 4-5 year old remembers a past life and...
    akaShaun akaShaun 16-17, M 2 Responses May 13

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    How come I can only love someone

    or hate someone? There really is no in between for me. To be honest, I don't even know what to do anymore. I've let these emotions control me, and I cannot feel guilty about this any longer. I do love you, I do. And you, I hate you so much to the point where I must avoid you or...
    chasetheweirdo8 chasetheweirdo8 13-15, M 2 Responses Mar 3

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    smeckledorfed smeckledorfed 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2014

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    My racist bus driver actually replied to me

    today. Everyday, as I get off the bus I always tell the bus driver goodbye, despite the fact that she is a racist. It is her decision to have that state of mind so I do not let it bother me even though I am black. She never looks at me or says anything back, and I am used to...