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I Am Confused

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    avocato avocato 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 19

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    I hate how he creeps back in my life.

    He's everything I've always wanted but he's not good for me. I sometimes love him but sometimes I hate him. I want him as far away as possible but I want to be with him. I feel like I can do better but I haven't found anyone better. I just wish this wasn't so confusing. I don't...
    Glo59 Glo59 18-21, F Mar 22

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    I am confused about what I really want at this

    time in my life I have been through so much it tore me down emotionally and I hate that I am overly emotional some times I need to be strong for my son but some times it's hard with all I been through I just want to move forward and focus in the future not the past
    slynn999 slynn999 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 13

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    aesthetical aesthetical 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    Is this a self help site?

    ........... If so I think I'm in the wrong place
    CurvyRach CurvyRach 26-30, F 7 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    Hmm I really like people.

    But then again I don't I'm antisocial. But I want to be around friends but is rather watch a movie by my self
    MixedMulatto MixedMulatto 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 21

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    I Am Confused

    I finally left my boyfriend (had to get a restraining order) but he took my phone with photos and videos of me and the guy I used to get over him (Rebound Guy). He has been emailing them to all his email address and also to me. Should I be concerned??
    TSelina TSelina 36-40 4 Responses Aug 16, 2013

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    Isn't it strange when guys say the opposite of

    what they think? And even stranger when it works? Why don't all guys realize that throwing fake compliments and trying to flatter is corny? But then again every guy I like turns out to be bad...very bad actually lol Don't take guy advice from me!
    brusquebrunette brusquebrunette 26-30, F 11 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    I Am Confussed

    Life is jus confussing.....ima single mom of 2 i wrk part time but yet no money for grocies or anything really i cant eat so that i make sure there enough for my kids which is not good im gettin sicker with each passing day.... i am a bi sexual woman that would much rather to b...
    annerose35 annerose35 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 5, 2013

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    Hey guys I'm Mel and I'm new to this whole

    thing.. Just trying to figure out how it all works!
    thegeordieway thegeordieway 18-21, F Apr 1

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    I'm confused.This one time my friend showed me

    a picture of Jeff the killer (from creepypasta) I literally freaked out and got paranoid but a few months later now I have lots of pictures of Jeff the killer,he is even my wall paper in my iPad.And I was also saying he is awesom and looks cute in Anime version.Im confused :|
    BurningPhoenix123 BurningPhoenix123 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Pupa is something. Uwaaaaa creepy

    and gross o.o Ok, this is silly.
    yuichie yuichie 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    Hello, Where's Everyone

    I was recently released from a relatively short stint in prison ,which of course changed my life in all the expected ways, such as loss of all material things . But the biggest mystery to me is all of my friends and family ,going missing in action.While i was in i was fortunate...
    lildink lildink 41-45, M 3 Responses Dec 6, 2009

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    I am engaged and feel like I'm in a

    relationship with everyone, my opinion doesn't matter and I can't talk to no one about my feeling without being told no. My fiance mom and brother are a big issue..I feel that there secretly trying to see my relationship fall apart. He don't see it, I can't talk to him because...
    asianlove77 asianlove77 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    I had a broken up with my ex bf

    and I have been trying to move on for 2 months. We decided to remain friends although I was still hoping that one day we'll get back together. I just disappointed myself by expecting we still have a chance to be together, but then he clearly said no. So I decided to stop talking...
    trishhh04 trishhh04 22-25, F 8 Responses Mar 6

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    I classify myself as gay.

    I am physically attracted to many men. But for some reason I find myself thinking about this one girl from childhood neighborhood. Her little brother was my best friend. I still talk to her on Facebook and stuff. For some reason I am attracted to this one girl. Does that make...
    anonymous2396 anonymous2396 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 26

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    I don't get it. I don't get cusing,

    I don't know what a meme is and what it's used for, I don't know why people are mean, and I don't get middle school or the kids in middle school. Someone please explain?!
    silence13 silence13 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 16

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    Which is batter ?? LA

    or Las Vegas
    rajpatel108 rajpatel108 22-25, M Mar 28

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    Am I Saying Goodbye Or Am I Waiting?

    I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place! I believe in love! But does love believes in me? I'm not always a best friend, but I'm never the enemy. I sometimes worry, but I'll always believe in me. When he texted to say it was over, I wished my phone was off.. It some how became...
    Ema122 Ema122 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2013

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    I have sent messages to

    so many people and with the persons i usually talk to but for some none has replied so far and i am amazed because this has never happened before, i wonder why ?:)
    ViperRemu ViperRemu 26-30, M Apr 2

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    I was talking a lot yesterday.

    ..huh..till 1 am, didn't realize time fly so fast. A good moment with my friend. I'm happy and relax. We talk about everything, from family till how to shape gold. haha...we can exchange many topics in a minute. I guess this is girl's speciality.. This friend of mine, I think...
    jalanyanglurus jalanyanglurus 18-21, F Mar 17

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    I don't understand how some men are

    so oblivious, self-centered, and inconsiderate. I'm not here to make men sound horrible, but my last experience has left me vulnerable, hurt, and confused. A dated a guy I work with (not the best idea FYI) for three months. We were almost inseparable... We did everything...
    rlgc776 rlgc776 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 19

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    I thought I was sure of myself

    but I guess I'm not. I was so sure I wanted to date a guy and start to be happy but tonight I was talking to a girl and the feelings I felt for her were strong and I've never felt this way. The way she smiled at me and our conversation just gave me butterflies! I'm sure she...
    ColdDayMemory ColdDayMemory 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    So I have PTSD I watched my mother get rapped

    and beaten, I watched her battle with heroin addiction, my father is dead, my little brother has a brain problem causing him to have seizures and I...I am confused. I don't know how to feel I'm not certain I even have feelings. I don't want to live but I guess that's just...
    melaniemay4 melaniemay4 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Im in a roller coaster ride of emotion today.

    . Yesterday was so perfect.. It was our 16th month, we spend whole day together happiest part was he doesnt goes home.. He doesnt goes home for how many days, but tonight he decided to come home.. I know his reason was for the kids but i cabt help but be hurt.. It hurts so much...
    shine1118 shine1118 22-25, F Mar 19

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    Im so inlove with that guy.

    .. Everything between us was perfect except for the fact that he married for 8years... I love him so much that even me cant explain.. Yes,most of the times that we were together was heaven. He knows how to make me happy, he knows how to make me smile. He understand everything...
    shine1118 shine1118 22-25, F Mar 15

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    Relationship

    I had been seeing someone for about 3 months but we've entirely stopped communicating.  I'm really uncomfortable b/c we have mutual friends so I do see her around.  We say hi, act like everything is normal, but we never even discussed anything.  I just became...
    ReformedAutomaton ReformedAutomaton 36-40, M 34 Responses Feb 25, 2008

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    I don't even know where to begin.

    I laid in bed and pretended to be asleep while he got dressed. He came in and out a bunch of times and each time he came back, I hoped he'd lean over and say goodbye. I heard the door shut and the lock turn and I started to cry. Knot's are in my heart.
    dammitjanit dammitjanit 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 17

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    Who The Hell Are You?

    i am seriously confused.......................
    rio765 rio765 22-25 1 Response Nov 5, 2013

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    I've been in a relationship of almost 2 years.

    .. we have arguments like some relationships had... i think it is just normal.. our dilemma starts when we are almost 1 year... I've been ignored by her for months... I wanted to go to their house but she has an alibi that she's busy... one day, she did't stop me to come with her...
    Lyra1001 Lyra1001 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    The day after my 26th birthday my mom took my

    for coffee and what I thought was going to be a catch-up session turned out to be a one-way conversation about what I've been doing wrong. Today my mom and brother did it again, but at least this time I wasn't in public and could sit comfortably on my bed while they blamed me...
    heresthestory heresthestory 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 3

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    I am so confused about

    so many things. I am so uncertain about so many things: who I am, why my friends like me, my abilities, things I like... I feel so empty like I'm just going through the motions. I am craving that feeling of being alive but I see no reason in continuing to live
    ayang1150 ayang1150 16-17, F Mar 23

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    Just Smile and Nod.

    But more than just that.....I think sometimes my train of thought is confusing to follow for some people. I am random..I am flakey. But would I be a better person if I made sense to everyone? NO. Random thoughts : Why do some cleaning chemicals say that they are approved by the...
    luckypickle luckypickle 26-30 128 Responses Sep 20, 2009

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    Hippie Sheets

    I have strange body chemistry.  I first noticed it in high school when my sterling silver jewelry would turn black within hours of putting it on.  My boyfriend gave me a beautiful birthstone ring set in gold.  It was real gold and I was impressed.  That turned...
    Myonis108 Myonis108 56-60, F 38 Responses Aug 19, 2009

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    I Need Help! They Hate Me But Pretend To Love Me!

    Okay.. this is my first story, and I'm not a writer so i don't know how to start.. But I'm lost and i need helpI don't know how to deal with those people....I got my aunt who hates me.. hates me so much and every time she sees me she have to say something that makes me really...
    JustJennah JustJennah 22-25, F 9 Responses Mar 22, 2012

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    8 months ago, i quit my job

    and focused all my time and energy at being a mom and a wife. I personally dreamt of this for the longest time. i yearn to spend all day, just looking at my daughter who is just 10 months old that time. so we made the arrangement that hubby will shoulder all the finances and i...
    mitch811 mitch811 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 10

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    Definitely Confused

    I Stood up and declared myself free But am I free Sometimes yes Sometimes no I am confused But am an optimist I was always free or so My heart says But my mind defers I dont know Aint mind and heart the same I am confused I doubt am I sane or insane I dont know But am...
    akhilsnath akhilsnath 22-25, M 4 Responses Jan 15, 2013

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    Taking note of this now.

    A few minutes ago I closed my eyes and saw the symbols again. I don't see them very often. Can't recall the last time I saw them. They were flashing past my vision, quickly. Ancient-looking weird symbols. I don't know what kind of language it was. Behind the scrolling symbols...
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    At 32 years of age, I still haven't found my

    true calling. I enjoy many things, most of which are nearly impossible to make a living doing. I volunteer and participate in what I enjoy, but these are, of course, part time endeavors. I am a mother, and that's very important to me, but in this day and age, and with my life in...
    lovely9me lovely9me 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    ?

    She waited the whole day for her lover and at the end of the day she needs love, while the man comes home after work and is very tired.The man fails to satisfy her need.What's the point of living together?
    Riemann Riemann 18-21, M 1 Response May 13, 2011

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    Mother Falls In Love With Son's Best Friend...

    I am in quite a strange situation. About eleven years ago when I graduated from high school I didn't have too many close friends and rarely invited people over to my families house. At my graduation party though I invited a few school friends and one who was my best friend at...
    WJustin WJustin 26-30, M 5 Responses May 1, 2010

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    I Hate My Life.

    I am confused because I am 28, I live with my parents, because I built up massive credit card debt. I have a boyfriend. He is 33. He is an amazing man, but has suffered from bipolar disorder most of his adult life. He doesn't work. My parents hate him, and he has been...
    klynn klynn 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 7, 2008

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    This is something very personal.

    I have never in my life told anyone I know and probably never will. First off, I have never dated a anyone, boy or girl but im a bit confused. Don't know if I like boys , girls or both. Mmmmm, how did that happen? I have been asked a lot of questions about my sexuality. I...
    prodigious95 prodigious95 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    I still couldn't accept

    why is he treating me so cold all of a sudden. We were having our sweet time for almost few weeks and a sudden 360degrees change in his attitude towards me in few days. He used to message me everyday, we used to spend time together, we used to talk and share stories etc. He...
    Jaqque23 Jaqque23 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    I slept with my ex boyfriend the other day (we

    still love each other well so he says buts he's got a new girlfriend) anyway he kept reminding me to take the pill infact I totally forgot coz I was busy so I lied to him that I took it and I haven't spoken to him since. Kinda stupid of me...
    bella132 bella132 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 15

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    Why Do People Text Like This ?

    ? It's Not A Title! OR WHY DO SOME PEOPLE TEXT LIKE THIS?!?! ARE THEY SHOUTING? I DON'T KNOW! I'm just a bit confused
    mattihope mattihope 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    I find it irritating

    that the good looking and perverted get a ton of views and awnsers to their stories and the rest of us are completely left out
    Nny7 Nny7 13-15, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Im in a fairly new relationship with my bf

    and things are preety serious. I just got out of a 5 year relationship with someone else about a year ago. I dont know if i jumped into this new one really fast. I mean sometimes i get so mad and i think of all of these ways of leaving him. But i dont because im so in love with...
    jennykeo jennykeo 26-30, F Mar 18

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    I feel so lost I am driving myself insane over

    random **** I really think i need actual help, but I don't know I was about to ask my friends about it i started, said that I think I need help, then stopped i didn't know how to go on I don't even know anymore i feel lost, stranded, and locked up like I am screaming at walls...
    chocolatelover987 chocolatelover987 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    I just have to many things going thru my mind I

    just want to lay down on the floor and just be engulfed into the lyrics of my music
    MissSkye MissSkye 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I'm so confused I guess.

    Sometimes I yearn to be loved and to love other times I want to be alone and independent. I feel like I would be wasting my time trying to be in a relationship and create a social life because I don't have my career established, my life where I want it to be. Often I catch...
    ColdDayMemory ColdDayMemory 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 2

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    I have two possible guys I could go for

    and I know they both like me. One is a farm boy, holds a full time job and works in the oil rigs. I would only see him one week in and one week off, but this is good for me because I love personal space. The next guy is a ski guy who loves the mountains. He plans on moving to...
    RhiannonStorm RhiannonStorm 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I was on Facebook earlier,

    somewhere I haven't been on in months. People said I should go look at my boyfriend's wall because he was the stupidest person ever. It was just a couple of selfies, bands, and just random thoughts really. But all that site does is bring back memories. Bad ones. Late night chats...
    RoarImScary RoarImScary 13-15, F Apr 7

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    Ah 22 and still dont know men

    or women? or just both
    Keanu1991 Keanu1991 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 5

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