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    Why do boys think girls want **** pics.

    We don't. That **** is ugly.
    Bambi9987 Bambi9987 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 27

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    I've know this girl for a

    while now, but this is really puzzling me. So i met her a few years back, first time i saw her i knew i'd be her friend, although i hated her a lot and she always insulted me (but still expected me to be her friend?), we ended up having to room together for some camp thing for...
    lxathing lxathing 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    about how to interpret media.

    Here are two sites that explore behavior of children nowadays: 1. http://www.buzzfeed.com/dlknowles/why-yours-is-the-most-boring-generation-in-history-fm44#2cx0qpg 2.http://www.thefreeradical.ca/girlsExploitation/stolenChildhood.html The first one is much more current than...
    janeastin janeastin 22-25 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Im just wondering, why is it everyday

    whenever I wear my clothes it looks like Im shrinking by the minute 😲
    johannesc4 johannesc4 13-15, M 1 Response Sep 6

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    Okay 2 things 1) some kid said suck my **** I'm

    like but u don't have one And 2) wtf are testicles?!
    PANDASAREAWESOME67 PANDASAREAWESOME67 13-15, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I am 13 I am confused

    why people actual real live people are talking to me right now... What's special about me. Is it because they expect something? What do they expect? Are we actually gonna be friends? Will they hate me? Do they secretly hate me and want to know all my secrets to tell the world...
    EmotionaLila EmotionaLila 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 20

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    I'm not sure if I'm depressed.

    I mean, I'm not sad, but I'm not exactly happy either. I can laugh, joke and smile during the day, but sometimes when I'm alone at night, I forget how to feel.
    MarissaSimmonds MarissaSimmonds 16-17, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    I don't even know where to begin.

    I laid in bed and pretended to be asleep while he got dressed. He came in and out a bunch of times and each time he came back, I hoped he'd lean over and say goodbye. I heard the door shut and the lock turn and I started to cry. Knot's are in my heart.
    dammitjanit dammitjanit 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 17

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    Definitely Confused

    I Stood up and declared myself free But am I free Sometimes yes Sometimes no I am confused But am an optimist I was always free or so My heart says But my mind defers I dont know Aint mind and heart the same I am confused I doubt am I sane or insane I dont know But am...
    akhilsnath akhilsnath 22-25, M 4 Responses Jan 15, 2013

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    trampy89 trampy89 22-25, M 3 Responses Sep 7

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    I am confused about what I really want at this

    time in my life I have been through so much it tore me down emotionally and I hate that I am overly emotional some times I need to be strong for my son but some times it's hard with all I been through I just want to move forward and focus in the future not the past
    slynn999 slynn999 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 13

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    Feeling a lot more lonely

    than usual tonight
    Lonerstoner420 Lonerstoner420 16-17, M 3 days ago

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    I have always wandered what genaside is

    but never researched it. So what is genaside?
    Heyitsme69 Heyitsme69 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I lost my husband one year

    and 7 months ago. It has devastated me. I can't handle much more. I found a bf because if I continued to be alone I was going to commit suicide. He plays video games constantly. He is currently unemployed. We argue about his computer game time. I feel he has life backwards...
    tammynsparkles tammynsparkles 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 30

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    Today, a mate of mine told me I stand out in a

    crowd, I said 'why, is it cos I'm short lol ' he said ' no' I said 'how then' he said its cos I'm good looking which I find very weird and confusing because my friends are way more gorgeous than me and I don't stand out, except for the fact my hair is awesome and I'm a midget...
    littlecrazymia littlecrazymia 13-15, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    ..what if a man you love

    so much replied "it's over now"?
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 4

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    moonziggy moonziggy 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 11

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    I just went to reply to someone's comment

    and it says their privacy settings prevent me..I went on their profile and it tells me I'm blocked..I've never even spoken to this guy or replied or anything..I'm a little confused to be honest😂
    loveyourselfalwaysxx loveyourselfalwaysxx 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 15

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    My bf just started commenting on my body this

    way 2 days ago.... I have an athletic build, blonde, green eyes, I'm tall not the typical short and cute with big boobs. He made a comment while he came across a picture of a pretty busty model on FB about how it would only be worth it for me to do a nice shoot for him "after" a...
    vonbender2010 vonbender2010 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    There was a homecoming dance.

    Im in 9th grade. There was a girl i danced with. I heard a friend tell her to kiss me but she said she wouldn't because she thought that might be rude to just kiss me. But when i thought of it, i could think of letting her cause theres another girl i have feelings for. ( and i...
    lifequestsearcher243 lifequestsearcher243 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    Somebodys happiness is someone elses

    unhappiness thats saying the same thing that if there is a winner there is also a loser...Does that mean not everyone was supposed to have happiness?
    Insomniac77 Insomniac77 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 13

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    My hubby invited his best mate to our wedding

    anniversary lunch after I told them I had a sex dream with both of them in it. My hubby sat on one side and his best mate sat on the other side. Are they ******* with me????
    Sjb36 Sjb36 31-35, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Okay. So this is really hard

    for me to explain without people thinking I'm a complete weirdo. So basically school just started for us and we have a whole new set of teachers. There is one teacher which really stands out though. She's my favourite teacher but I don't think of her as a teacher I think of...
    Kasbii Kasbii 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 14

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    So today I had some church thing cause I'm 14

    and there's this hot girl and she new and the church thing was over and I'm on crutches cause I broke my leg so she opens the door for me and I say "thanks" and she says turn around and she starts kissing me then we makeout and she gives me her number but she has a bf but she...
    maybeyesornah maybeyesornah 13-15, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    At 32 years of age, I still haven't found my

    true calling. I enjoy many things, most of which are nearly impossible to make a living doing. I volunteer and participate in what I enjoy, but these are, of course, part time endeavors. I am a mother, and that's very important to me, but in this day and age, and with my life in...
    lovely9me lovely9me 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    You made a decision. A very bad decision.

    You didn't talk to me or consult with me before you did it. Why am I forced to deal with it. You screwed up now you should be the one to fix it. You have ruined our life. You have caused a lot of pain and you can't turn your back on that.
    hasinalady hasinalady 46-50, F 3 Responses Sep 5

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    I first met one girl I like

    and she has told me she likes me a lot and flirt but she has bf and idk if I should wait or follow my heart and break them up cause now I have found another girl I like and she likes but she has no bf and idk which girl I like more.
    Keanu1991 Keanu1991 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 12

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    I find it odd how strongly people will support

    your happiness yet so easily turn their backs when it isn't on their terms.
    koorlo koorlo 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 5

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    I slept with my ex boyfriend the other day (we

    still love each other well so he says buts he's got a new girlfriend) anyway he kept reminding me to take the pill infact I totally forgot coz I was busy so I lied to him that I took it and I haven't spoken to him since. Kinda stupid of me...
    bella132 bella132 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 15

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    The day after my 26th birthday my mom took my

    for coffee and what I thought was going to be a catch-up session turned out to be a one-way conversation about what I've been doing wrong. Today my mom and brother did it again, but at least this time I wasn't in public and could sit comfortably on my bed while they blamed me...
    heresthestory heresthestory 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 3

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    Just got off the phone with my ex.

    We talked, having a decent conversation. And then she started getting all "cute" on me, and starts growling! (She knows growling makes me really "happy") I'm trying to mend things out so that we can be friends, but it's like she's trying to torture me or something. She's the...
    Justjonathan Justjonathan 16-17, M 5 days ago

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    My girlfriend has been on she told me

    but whenever I message her she's not even on.This whole relationship thing is confusing.😡
    DopeJay DopeJay 13-15, M 3 Responses Sep 1

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    I am pregnant and my boyfriend

    and I decided that i will get an abortion. We both are not ready. However, he has been short when we text. On the phone and in person he is fine. He told me that when we are ready that we can have one but not right now. He doesn't want to think about. He told me he was sorry for...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Sep 4

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    So I have PTSD I watched my mother get rapped

    and beaten, I watched her battle with heroin addiction, my father is dead, my little brother has a brain problem causing him to have seizures and I...I am confused. I don't know how to feel I'm not certain I even have feelings. I don't want to live but I guess that's just...
    Insanelylabeled Insanelylabeled 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 14

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    So not sure what I did

    but my toe is now bleeding quite a bit. Yay.
    TheAmazingSpiderJoe TheAmazingSpiderJoe 18-21, M Sep 11

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    Is it just me or has ep turned into a dating

    site? Every day there are more s.exual posts
    Heyitsme69 Heyitsme69 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 11

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    Can somebody please explain to me what the hell

    throwing a bucket of cold water over your head is for... I know it's in support of ALS or MND etc. but why can people not just donate to a charity and leave it at that?! I'm fourteen and most of my friends have done it, and it's only just occurred to me that what the hell are...
    Lbdavid Lbdavid 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 29

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    I'm pretty sure I've just been asked on a lunch

    date tomorrow. We were talking about a pizza place that I've never been to and somehow it went from one thing to another and he offered for the two of us to go together. I kinda think he likes me but we aren't very close. I don't want to make any assumptions but.... I'm just...
    smurfinaround smurfinaround 18-21, F Sep 3

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    I had broken up with my ex bf

    and I have been trying to move on for 2 months. We decided to remain friends although I was still hoping that one day we'll get back together. I just disappointed myself by expecting we still have a chance to be together, but then he clearly said no. So I decided to stop talking...
    Jelliii Jelliii 22-25, F 9 Responses Mar 6

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    Just Smile and Nod.

    But more than just that.....I think sometimes my train of thought is confusing to follow for some people. I am random..I am flakey. But would I be a better person if I made sense to everyone? NO. Random thoughts : Why do some cleaning chemicals say that they are approved by the...
    luckypickle luckypickle 26-30 128 Responses Sep 20, 2009

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    Do you ever get the feeling

    that you don't even know yourself anymore? That empty, anxious feeling you get when you realize that you're completely unsure of who you are? That feeling of utter confusion? That's what I'm experiencing right now. Up until recently I've been fairly sure of who I am as a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Jul 9

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    TheGuy147 TheGuy147 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 6

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    Between all my friends,

    I just have 3 top friends...:D But these 3 are really fabulous!
    Yaroslava Yaroslava 18-21, F Sep 2

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    Hey everyone. I'm Warren,

    and I'm 17 years old. This is my first post on here, and it might be a little long, but I'd really appreciate if someone would take the time to read it. I'm posting this because I'm confused about my life in general, but I just don't know exactly what to say or do. So I'll try...
    Warren97 Warren97 16-17, M 5 Responses Jun 22

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    Hippie Sheets

    I have strange body chemistry.  I first noticed it in high school when my sterling silver jewelry would turn black within hours of putting it on.  My boyfriend gave me a beautiful birthstone ring set in gold.  It was real gold and I was impressed.  That turned...
    Myonis108 Myonis108 56-60, F 38 Responses Aug 19, 2009

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    I'm not really sure why I keep getting campaign

    ads for Senator for Tennessee and North Carolina on TV, especially when it's three months until election season and I don't even live in those states.
    JazzieAV JazzieAV 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    Isn't it strange when guys say the opposite of

    what they think? And even stranger when it works? Why don't all guys realize that throwing fake compliments and trying to flatter is corny? But then again every guy I like turns out to be bad...very bad actually lol Don't take guy advice from me!
    brusquebrunette brusquebrunette 26-30, F 7 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    I tried cutting today

    but when i did it it hurt and i was angry at myself but then i thought to myself i deserved the pain and now i want to do it again. I have friends and a good family, i don't know why i feel the urge to cut.
    EvanescenceGirl EvanescenceGirl 18-21, F Sep 14

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    Why Do People Text Like This ?

    ? It's Not A Title! OR WHY DO SOME PEOPLE TEXT LIKE THIS?!?! ARE THEY SHOUTING? I DON'T KNOW! I'm just a bit confused
    mattihope mattihope 18-21, F Mar 17

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    About myself. Since my 8yr relationship ended,

    i have been trying to focus on myself. Since i lost all my friends due to the relationship, i have been alone and just thinking. Most people my age are settling down, having kids and im not. I have always said i will be content either way (to have kids/get married or to remain...
    Navia55 Navia55 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Ok, so, if you've seen one of my last posts,

    you'll know that theres this guy I like. Its really hard to tell if he likes me though, you'll see why I'm confused. So, we were talking over skype IM and then he said (my name) I have something important to tell you Me: what Him: I am in love with someone Me: ok.. Him: called...
    VolcanoTheDragon VolcanoTheDragon 13-15, F Sep 1

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    I Need Help! They Hate Me But Pretend To Love Me!

    Okay.. this is my first story, and I'm not a writer so i don't know how to start.. But I'm lost and i need helpI don't know how to deal with those people....I got my aunt who hates me.. hates me so much and every time she sees me she have to say something that makes me really...
    JustJennah JustJennah 22-25, F 9 Responses Mar 22, 2012

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    I am not sure if I am bisexual now.

    I just start to find boys shallow and irksome.but I have no romantic interest in girls. I have found two of my girl friends attractive,devoid of affection though. Please dont post distasteful comments.thanks
    kathy7777 kathy7777 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 31

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    whatevermanidk whatevermanidk 13-15, F 5 Responses