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    Im 19yrs old and got engaged 2 months ago to a 17yr old girl of my dreams we are now expecting our first child at the end of december this year, the problem is that about a month ago my feelings changed for her and now i feel like i love her but am not in love with her if that...
    Headsamess Headsamess 18-21 Aug 27, 2011

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    I know that helping is supposed to be an unquestionable good. But not all help is well recieved, necessary, or even well meant. Asking for help is so hard when you dont know if...
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    ive been on here for over 2 years & i dont come on here be nasty but to offer a helping hand & a shoulder cry on & a caring ear to anyone who needs it, tonight i offered sound...
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    Okay, so there's more than one form of help needed. The first being, I need guy help. I'm head over heels with my guy friend (as previously mentioned) and he likes me back! Wew! No...
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    Despite having a bit of social anxiety and have been negatively influenced by people around me, I like to help people who need it. Sometimes I've got to break down those barriers...
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    Sanora Sanora 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    melodyjay melodyjay 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    Who ever needs help, message me! Id love to help :)
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    PleaseHelpMeQuick PleaseHelpMeQuick 31-35, M Mar 24

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