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I Am Considering An Affair

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    I'D Say I'M Considering Starting To Consider It? - My ethics and my background say no. And I don't want to pull another person into my pain. But I need the physical touch and...
    justinlimbertake justinlimbertake 41-45, M 5 Responses Apr 10, 2013

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    Fighting The Opposite Of An Affair - My story is kinda the opposite of this one. When I first started becoming interested in my current partner, my logical mind said, "Oh, no, no...
    Nyxii Nyxii 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 29, 2011

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    Why Did I Get Married? - I miss my single days. Not the parties and clubs or the guys I've had but I just miss the freedom. Im married to a guy who doesn't think i would ever...
    likeaprayerxo likeaprayerxo 31-35, F 10 Responses Jul 18, 2013

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    I'm scared. Terrified, actually, because of what could happen if I'm caught. I love my children, but I have needs that simply are not being met by my wife. She has made it clear...
    zaaphod zaaphod 46-50, M 5 Responses Jan 20

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    She Was In The Shower. - I have known Maria for many years ,We have had a mild affair that happens from time to time. The other day I dropped in to see her after a quick phone...
    anthony2001 anthony2001 61-65, M 3 Responses Jul 12, 2011

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    Seeking Loving Hot Married Wife For Discreet With Single Handsome Guy - I'm looking for a fit hot wife for a discreet, long term relationship. My stamina is like none you've ever...
    completeman completeman 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 7, 2013

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    Exploring Options - Just cyber chat. Is that considered breaking the monogamous bond. Could lead to more if found insufficient
    Madlife Madlife 56-60, M 3 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    Him Should I Or Shouldn'T I. - Well we been back and fourth about how he loves to touch me and rub my thighs. He has been wanting to grab my ***** again but he really can't because...
    Almondjoy2 Almondjoy2 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 12, 2013

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    Leading To This. - My sexless marriage has led me to consider this action. It should never have gotten this far but I feel broken, beat down and rejected. I cannot continue to let...
    JRD22 JRD22 51-55, M 9 Responses May 22, 2013

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    The "Other Guy" - We had split up and I met the "other guy". He made me soo happy and I laughed and smiled all the time. It was more of just a friends with benefits thing (in the...
    beautifulblisss beautifulblisss 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2013

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    i have affair with my sister's daughter-in-law.we are happy
    ravikuma ravikuma 22-25, M 3 Responses Dec 25, 2013

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    Why Im Considering An Affair! - I love my husband I really do but he doesn't really pays attention to me ,he gets home takes a shower and to the sofa ,I cloud be naked he doesn't...
    Bella0906 Bella0906 26-30, F 94 Responses May 29, 2012

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    San Antonio where are you? Not married anymore...
    elfer1971 elfer1971 36-40, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Help Please - I'm married to a crazy control freak an I came to ep for help; in the marriage groups an I did an durning all this I met a wonderful man on here that's nothing like...
    Hillary1160 Hillary1160 36-40, F 35 Responses Sep 28, 2012

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    It's been a while since we have spoken and even seen each other, the other day I passed by the work place and he asked me if I would meet him some where and I jokingly said yeah...
    Almondjoy2 Almondjoy2 26-30, F 5 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    Looking - I have been married for 35 years and have been basically sexless relationship for the last 10+.  I would love to have an affair, but my questions is- why do I find...
    lonlywife lonlywife 51-55, F 15 Responses May 8, 2012

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    Sincerely, Torn - I don't really know where to start... and that's because I can't really pinpoint when my life started to travel down the path that I'm on right now. It feels like...
    youareasoulyouhaveabody youareasoulyouhaveabody 26-30, M 8 Responses Sep 24, 2013

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    Nothing Left To Consider... - It's done. We talked in my car at first, then he asked for a hug and I dont know what happened but we ended up kissing. I was hot. What an...
    likeaprayerxo likeaprayerxo 31-35, F 8 Responses Aug 12, 2013

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    I've been in contact with one of my exes and she still has a burning flame for me. And my wife absolutely despises sexual contact with me. So I might go for it. If we had a...
    AlbuquerqueJay AlbuquerqueJay 31-35, M 3 Responses Jan 22

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    No Emotional Safety-- - I've finally realized something pretty important in the midst of my sexless marriage. Years ago I kissed another woman and talked with other women that...
    sadlysoulsearching sadlysoulsearching 31-35, M 2 Responses Sep 13, 2013

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    I Fantasize.... - I fantasize about having an affair, but deep down don't think I could go through with it. I have been with the same man and only him for almost 18 yrs. It would...
    blissfulmiss blissfulmiss 36-40, F 49 Responses Apr 30, 2012

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    When Your Spouse Doesn't Desire You... - Hi Everyone, I am not really sure what I am doing here but I found my way to this group. I am 32 years old and married to a 50 year old...
    Cscheuze1 Cscheuze1 31-35 6 Responses Nov 25, 2011

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    Affair With A Marry Women - They are more experienced than women my age. Certainly, In getting high in bed part. wink!
    Lover100987 Lover100987 26-30, M 2 Responses May 4, 2013

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    Met someone just now. saw a bit of her and its a fairy i bet thinking about having an affair with her
    Rahulcute Rahulcute 31-35, M 4 Responses Feb 26

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    What Augustine Has To Say About Free Will And Evil. - It is supposed that God has given us free will, and that free will is a good thing because it has been given to us from God...
    youareasoulyouhaveabody youareasoulyouhaveabody 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 25, 2013

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    I've been in a relationship for 6 years I love my girlfriend and like the thought of the future we have together but one problem went to Vegas for a friends bachelor party and met...
    confusedvegas confusedvegas 22-25, M 15 Responses Feb 25

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    Why Communication Is A Joke - When it comes to problems, and romantic problems especially, people are always coming forward with "You need to communicate". What does that mean? I...
    LGVictorian LGVictorian 26-30, F 9 Responses Jan 25, 2013

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    I Don't Feel Guilty - I've cheated in the past. I don't feel guilty. I love my wife. I love my kids. I love our life. It isn't that it isn't enough. It isn't that I don't try. I...
    jhun21 jhun21 46-50, M 8 Responses Nov 29, 2012

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    Why Me Lord? - I promise you that i will do this on the day marking your one years you have gone from my life. I love you honey and I duly miss you so madly that i still cannot...
    Lover100987 Lover100987 26-30, M May 13, 2013

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    Smiles In the Morning - It started 2 weeks ago when I first noticed her smiling at me every morning when we'd cross paths on the way into the office.  At first I thought she...
    nwobhm nwobhm 41-45, M 7 Responses Feb 10, 2007

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    Is This The End? - I am a 50 year old married woman withering on the vine.  My husband is a good man but has serious health issues.  We have small children and I...
    Olivia713 Olivia713 51-55, F 103 Responses Jul 17, 2010

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    Miss That Felling... - that giddy, just met, flirty feeling. its been so long. ive waited years to feel loved in my marriage, and its just never happening. i dont love here anymore...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 29, 2013

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    Love Less Marriage - We have been married a long time and have Four children. My wife has gone off sex for some time now since the last child was born. And I have gained an extra...
    prakash69 prakash69 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 7, 2013

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    Being Married Has Been Tuff To Say The Least! - My husband and I have been married going on 9 yrs! I am a 30 yr. old women whos in her prime, that means i like to have sex! My...
    lonelywildfire lonelywildfire 26-30, F 17 Responses Jun 27, 2010

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    I Want An Old Fashion Love Story. - Until a few years ago, the thought of having an affair would not have even been given a consideration. I thought it to be immoral for myself and...
    markyco markyco 51-55, M 3 Responses Feb 11, 2013

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    So Happy To Find Others Like Me - Like so many of you im in a sexless marriage. We've been together for 13 years and have a young child. I don't want to divorce but I dont want to...
    lonelyinsf lonelyinsf 36-40, F 9 Responses Jul 18, 2013

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    Human Nature, Our Society And Marriage - I am a happily married man with children in my 40s.Today I am here to discuss what I came to believe with my life experience and others...
    hyrok40 hyrok40 36-40, M 21 Responses Dec 13, 2012

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    Helping My Wife Out . - My wife and i quit having sex a few yrs ago, She just quit . She recently met a woman who is very interested in knowing her better. This woman phoned me at...
    anthony2001 anthony2001 61-65, M 46 Responses May 12, 2011

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    I Let Him Do Who He Wants..is It Wrong To Want The Same? - I have been with the same man for 10 years I was 19 he was 33 when we started dating. I had a couple rules about...
    lanalane3 lanalane3 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 27, 2012

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    The Mating Urge - Might be that midlife crisis or the urge sow in new territory without giving up the old one before it is too late.
    Madlife Madlife 56-60, M 4 Responses Jun 16, 2013

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    The Thoughts There Anyway... - In pretty much every other area of my life I'm in control and don't have temptations or addictions but not having any intimacy is simply driving me...
    CrowdOfOne CrowdOfOne 41-45, M 5 Responses Jul 17, 2013

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    I have had a few in the past and am thinking about giving it another go. The thrill of afternoon rendezvous is almost too much to handle.
    jay72007 jay72007 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 8

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    So I am fairly new to this and I travel for business.... what is the best way to find a woman that is willing to have a short term affair with a married man?
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jan 9

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    I Am Considering An Affai - Someone asked me...and have not cheated yet,...thinking about it...don't see why you feel so bad for getting what you deserve and need,we all need...
    A430 A430 41-45, F 7 Responses Jul 1, 2011

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    To My Dearest Husband - To My Dearest Husband,              ( just a note to say have found the guy think i would like to have the affair with but i am searching my...
    Kountrymist Kountrymist 46-50, F 24 Responses Mar 7, 2011

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    Spiraling Out Of Control. - So here it goes for the ppl who have been following you know what I am dealing with. So now it's been 3 crazy months of back forwardness of should I...
    Almondjoy2 Almondjoy2 26-30, F Nov 11, 2013

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    I've Been Cheated On So I ... - I've been cheated on So I wouldnt want to put someone else though that
    dawnmarie dawnmarie 21-25, F 10 Responses Jan 23, 2007

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    Write more about this experience (optionaI I want to find a woman who like me is unsatisfied at home.I want to give her oral until she is moaning in pleasure
    Kylookin4fun Kylookin4fun 56-60, M 2 Responses Feb 21

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    Well Let'S See About Tonight! - Today should be interesting! He always manages to get me to stay late with him and he'll walk me out to my car. He has even wanted me to drive slow...
    Almondjoy2 Almondjoy2 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 14, 2013

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    What To Do - Little background: I've been with my husband for a total of 17 years. He is my best friend and I love him with all my heart. We have had our ups & downs but have I...
    iamashley iamashley 26-30, F 19 Responses Nov 20, 2012

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    Now What? - I share in the all-too-common story, I guess.  Mid 50's, Married to one woman since 25.  Grown kids.  Faithful.  Good job with a good income.  Lucky enough to...
    maddubh maddubh 56-60, M 15 Responses Sep 19, 2011

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    "you Promised" - All I wanted was for you to love me for one weekend. You promised you wouldn't back out. It was your idea to begin with. You backed out taking a very...
    DeeStroyed DeeStroyed 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 9, 2011