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I Am Crossdresser But Still Love Women

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    I Don't Understand Why I Wouldn't Love Women...

    I totally get the idea behind this group, to help make aware of the fact that crossdressing doesn't make one gay or bi, and in fact has absolutely nothing to do with your sexual preference. With that said, I don't understand why at all there's that common misconception that...
    STLCD STLCD 22-25, M 5 Responses Jul 30, 2012

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    Confused About Your Sexual Orientation? Don't Be...

    I've read this from other crossdressers many times. They love to wear women's clothing, but feel like they are straight, and find this to be confusing. Well, don't be confused, and trust your feelings. Studies have shown that most crossdressers are straight. In fact, those of us...
    BizSuitStacy BizSuitStacy 46-50, T 7 Responses Feb 21, 2012

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    Recently I visited my high school I use to go to

    and I was walking around the gym when I came across the cheerleader room I couldn't help myself to an outfit I grabbed a top and a skirt and snuck them out and went straight home I went I'm the other room and out them on and omg talk about a good ****** man I miss the feeling...
    raider4421 raider4421 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 9

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    A Woman's Body Is Amazing

    I don't know if my crossdressing has developed my love for the female body or my love for the female body has encouraged my crossdressing. What I do know is I'm not gay and appreciate not only the clothes the women in general. I look at girls and how they are dressed and just...
    cddude75 cddude75 51-55 3 Responses Aug 16, 2013

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    My girlfriend is wonderful about me X-dressing.

    She asked me last nite what i love or why i want to dress like a women. I told her that i don't know why or how it came about, but I know my father did dress in panties don't know if he fully dresses. for me I can't pass as a women,but I'm not looking for that. Yes I dress in...
    jamie123T jamie123T 46-50, M Jan 10

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    Often Misunderstood... ***UPDATED***

    EP has given me the opportunity the last few months to find out more about myself. In particular why I am how I am, why I like what I like, and if I am truly happy. There are many misconceptions associated with some terms/labels used for people like me. I have done a lot of...
    garterbeltgirl19 garterbeltgirl19 36-40, M 6 Responses Sep 22, 2011

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    Why Shouldn't I?

    Why is it that in today society that MOST people think of crossdressers as gay? I realize that there are some that are but think about it.If a guy is gay, why would he want to be with another male dressed as a woman?I normally only crossdress in lingerie.I have painted my toe...
    happilymarriedguy happilymarriedguy 51-55, M 8 Responses Sep 9, 2012

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    My Views On Why We Are.

    There seems to be much confusion, especially among the general populous, as to the sexual orientation of us crossdressers/transvestites. I have been cross dressing for the past 50 odd years, and have been married (2 wives) for 40 of those years. and because, when I dress I try...
    emmajay emmajay 56-60 2 Responses Dec 30, 2012

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    Just A Man

    I am just a man like any other. But, I enjoy the feeling of a soft pair of undies against me. People who say I am a freak are ignorant or stupid. I spent several years in desert combat zones. Men's underwear only comes in cotton and holds wetness against you. Women's are made...
    mmchale1 mmchale1 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 4, 2013

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    Crossdressing And Women

    I am a crossdresser and a straight male. Just because I like to wear female clothing does not change the person I am. I still like to have sex with women. I like the feeling of the soft and silky clothes against my skin. I like the comfort and freedom of dresses and skirts. There...
    Adam59 Adam59 56-60, M 3 Responses Aug 24, 2012

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    To Be A Better Lover!!!

    When I get in touch with my feminine side I know I am a much better lover!!!! It is no longer about me .....It is all about pleasing a lady we spend hours touching ,licking sucking and petting....... I am an excellent **** licker....IT really lets ME go to another world ....When...
    sosilky sosilky 51-55, M 4 Responses Feb 10, 2011

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    I Love Women So Much .........i Dress Like One!

    i have been crossdressing for 20 years i have loved it from the beginning and when it came to other women it aroused me even more.i am dressed now about 75% of the time and actually feel more loving and sexual than ever.My girlfriend loves it and our love life is the best.I guess...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Aug 30, 2011

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    Yup, Guess I Am!

    Well I've never really considered myself as a cross dresser but I guess I am. I don't go all out and dress up with dresses and make up but I would. I like to wear my bra and panties. I often do myself and wish I was a woman. I'd love to feel what a woman feels during ******.
    SmallFatGuy SmallFatGuy 36-40, M Aug 7, 2013

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    Started Young By Girls

    When I was 9 years old,my parents both worked,so my mother would leave me at her friends house while she was at work.The friend worked too,but had a 15 year old daughter who was my so called baby sitter.It was summer vacation,and the 15 yo girl watching me had her best friend...
    new2biway new2biway 51-55, M 12 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    yep, i love to wear all sorts off female

    clothes, from the smallest lingerie to long dresses, i am married to a very supportive wife and i love her...
    bodylower bodylower 31-35, M 3 Responses Mar 21

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    THE CAN CAN DANCE.PARIS The can can dance of

    the mid 1700's was an all men dance when men wore dresses and large silk bloomers under them with stockings. In Europe men wore dresses and bloomers, the dress code has changed .
    silkgirl8 silkgirl8 61-65, M 3 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    I Partial Dress In Women's Undergarments.

    I love being dressed in bras and panties. I like slips and garter belts with stockings. I never dress completely. I seem to enjoy being what women would consider indecent. Not dressed fully. Wish I had a women who excepted guys who do this. I still love women who are naked or in...
    Agwwgp Agwwgp 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 29, 2012

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    Married And Loving It

    I love the feel and look of crossdressing (though I have to admit I am sure I look a lot better in my imagination). Women's clothes are so soft and sensual it totally brings out a different side of me. But I am still totally in love with my wife, and I love women. In the words of...
    Freja14 Freja14 31-35, T 3 Responses Nov 2, 2011

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    Man I love wearing skirts to be able to feel

    the breeze to be able to reach up underneath and feel my panties:) wishy wife was only understand about it:/
    raider4421 raider4421 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 28

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    Wifes Sexy G-string

    just come home from work to check my emails...and my god what a nice surprise another married guy i am friends with sent me a email with pics of him in panty hose and a sexy thong...it gave me a throbbing **** looking at him in them:)...so i went in to my wifes under wear draw...
    mufc1999 mufc1999 36-40, M 4 Responses Jan 8, 2013

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    Straight Crossdresser

    I am a cross dresser. I have been a cross dresser for only a few years. I have had the longing to cross dress but never been able to until I met my current partner. I can now dress every day in my lovely female clothes, bra, panties, skirts and tops. I have satin nighties too. We...
    pantielover55 pantielover55 51-55 4 Responses Feb 15, 2013

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    Love My Wife

    My wife knows i am a cross dresser and is so open about it. She has know problem when i dress up and now go out together dressed up. She is the best thing that could of happened to me and now that i dress up i must say our sex life has gotten even better!!
    lrabrdi lrabrdi 46-50, M 3 Responses Nov 22, 2012

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    Mainly Silky Lingerie.

    Most of my life I have worn ladies knickers. Since age 9 I had a great liking for wearing them and the feeling next to the skin, I did not tell many people about my little secret except girlfriends and I was very lucky I never had any problems with girlfriends thinking I was...
    silkgirl8 silkgirl8 61-65, M 1 Response Dec 28, 2012

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    Crossdress And Married

    I crossdress and am married love my wife and my kids with everything i have and would hurt anyone that tried to hurt them but she doesnt know and if she did she would leave so i do it when i can and its not often wish it could be but thats life it makes it easier i think to know...
    CeeWade CeeWade 36-40 3 Responses Feb 2, 2013

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    So Many Of Us Out There

    Im yet another who belongs to the ranks of a straight crossdresser. I know many find it impossible to comprehend, but for those of us in this situation its usually very black and white. I have no interest sexually in guys, i like women. My taste in women is many and varied...
    Babyclaireuk Babyclaireuk 41-45, M 2 Responses May 18, 2010

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    Oh What a Night!

    My girlfriend and I went, as we always seem to do, to her house and watched some television the other night. My girlfriend having got changed into something comfortable, I teased her about her soon becoming naked and pulled the zip down on her dressing gown a little and kissed...
    jane19502010 jane19502010 61-65, M Nov 20, 2012

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    Hi

    i love being undress i also like to be oiled up in *** in my nipples and *** and face ,while i jerk i put some cream in my nipples to feel that sensation as i rub them, i liked to be spanked while i suck a good ****
    hurteded hurteded 41-45, M Jun 7, 2013

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    Men Or Women

    I love men or women and I have had relationships with both. I'm a bottom but can be on top when needed. I love all kinds of sex.
    SissyTony SissyTony 56-60, M Dec 18, 2012

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    What A Sight It Must Have Been ...me In My Knickers And Stockings And Her In A Red Lacey Push Up Bra

    For as long as I remember I have had a fascination about woman's underwear. In my early teens I took every opportunity that presented itself to get my hands on satin silk or lace knickers. I've been into the drawers of mothers, sisters, aunties, cousins , friends sisters, sisters...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 10, 2012

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    Out In The Streets (part 1)

    After gradually preparing myself over a period of time I was able to take the plung and actaully dress as a woman from head to foot and go out into the streets and see what would happen.  I had first started with a bit of make-up and lipstick, then wearing womens clothes...
    mentholgal mentholgal 51-55, M 1 Response Feb 22, 2010

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    A Young Boy Is Forced To Wear A Pink Frilly Dress!

    My story occurred many years ago when I was eight years old. Like many boys at that particular age, I was not very fond of girls. Girls in their prissy, feminine ways just seemed so strange to us boys. I personally happened to be more bothered and critical of young girls than the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 31, 2013

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    I joined this group for search of like minded

    women. I am truly turned on by woman who take pride in what they wear. And in hopes of striking a conversation with someone who don't mind a guy in Lingerie or panties. There is nothing more beautiful then a woman in sexy lingerie
    guyinsatinlingerie guyinsatinlingerie 36-40, M Dec 24, 2013

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    Early Starter Too

    I played with the girls next door too.I was about 12 years old when things started to change.Ann was 15 and her sister karen was I think about the same age may be a little younger.One rainy day with little to do karen said we should play dress up.I had long hair for a boy at the...
    newguy2003 newguy2003 41-45, M 2 Responses Nov 20, 2010

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    I'm A Cross-dresser ,yet I'm Straight.

    I love woman and the world they live in.The self pampering with lotions, makeup, hair and so on. You hear woman say that men are are lucky that they can get up in the morning with minimal effort and ready for the day. Yet when you press them they really love their femininity. I...
    angiecan angiecan 51-55, T 6 Responses Sep 14, 2011

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    Crossdressing

    I love to crossdress and dress from head to toe. And I love women.
    jml2000 jml2000 56-60, M 2 Responses Sep 27, 2012

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    Stop Making Assumptions

    i wish people would stop assuming that a man who enjoys crossdressing cannot be straight. Crossdressing men fall into a wide spectrum of sexualities. For me crossdressing is something that gives me pleasure, I have no need to incorporate anyone else into it but I have done so...
    MiddleAgedToyboy MiddleAgedToyboy 46-50, M 4 Responses Apr 29, 2010

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    Confusing

    dont know exactly how old i was, but i think my fetish started when i was in the restroom and i was curious to know what all the pink wrappers that were in the trash were! so i opened one up and i put one on my underwear i LOVED the feeling until i ran into a dirty, real dirty...
    00nothankyou2010 00nothankyou2010 18-21 16 Responses Feb 6, 2010

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    Is It Possible

    Is it possible to get your wife to change her mind some how to get her to be ok with you crossdressing in public. I have been wanting to go out with her in public dressed as a women. She just says she doesn't feel comfortable with her man like that in public unless its holloween...
    wannabeme23 wannabeme23 22-25, M Feb 28, 2013

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    To me this means yes I do crossdress Lingerie

    only as of now out in public (but they cant see). Yes I wear lingerie and have a vast collection. To share and enjoy the mutual lingerie wearing would be a dream come true. Some woman understand on the feel of beautiful soft sexy lingerie and how it makes them feel. Well I have...
    guyinsatinlingerie guyinsatinlingerie 36-40, M Dec 24, 2013

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    I X Dress Because I Love Women

    This is the strangest part of my fetish. And for me , i have been told, it is a fetish. I love females/girls /women so much words cant describe it. I like them so much i want to get inside them. I think one lives in my head. When i dress i get so high and excited i have no...
    jenifer6 jenifer6 56-60, M 1 Response Sep 27, 2012

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    The Birth Of Roxanne

    Well I guess its about time I let her out of the bag. The birth of Roxanne So where did Roxanne come from? Well it all started when I was around eight years old. I am the only boy in the family. I have three sisters, one seven years older, one fifthteen months older, and one...
    Roxanne1960 Roxanne1960 51-55, M 7 Responses Sep 29, 2010

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    Is It Possible

    Is it possible to get your wife to change her mind some how to get her to be ok with you crossdressing in public. I have been wanting to go out with her in public dressed as a women. She just says she doesn't feel comfortable with her man like that in public unless its holloween...
    wannabeme23 wannabeme23 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 28, 2013

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    Male Cross Dressers Are Not Women Or Gay

    I am a 100% straight man. I wear not only bra and panties I wear petticoat, saree, blouse etc also. But I dont want to call myself as CD, sissy boy etc, I am a man and live as a man. But I wear women's cloths when ever I have desire to wear them.
    lingarielover lingarielover 31-35, M 6 Responses Jul 21, 2012

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    So Much

    i know this sounds funny but i love women so much that i have wanted to be one for 40 years now. oh how i wish i knew about all the ways i could have accomplished this when i was younger. i think women should run this world and .moms should help their sons if this is their desire...
    spaz1177 spaz1177 46-50, T 1 Response Mar 18, 2013

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    Crossdressing

    I love to cross dress. Always looking for a woman who would appreciate this side of me...and encourage this too. I have been dressing most of my life. It started with lingerie and now from head to toe...wig, make up and heels. I just love it!!
    Kathy2U Kathy2U 46-50 3 Responses Aug 2, 2012

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    My Girlfriend And Me Playing.

    My girlfriend loves to dress me up. A few weeks ago she surprised me with a weekend in a hotel. She had taken care of everything. When we got there she told me to take a shower and come out all clean and shaven. No hair left except on my head...lol... When I came out she had a...
    KendraCD88 KendraCD88 46-50, M 7 Responses Apr 16, 2013

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    Same Here

    I have always been a cross dresser since about age 12. I just love the feel of being dressed up. I love women and always have. I'm one of the lucky ones to have found a loving woman who shares my dressing with me. We have great times with it. I sometimes go out with a bra on and...
    KendraCD88 KendraCD88 46-50, M 2 Responses Apr 16, 2013

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    Sometimes i feel like a crappy representation of women. I LOVE WOMEN, but sometimes i can act like the total stereotype of a guy. I want to be in a serious relationship with...
    420friendliest 420friendliest 18-21, F Jul 10

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