I Am Curious About BDSM

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    i'll be honest. kinda embarrassing to admit

    when i act like im experienced after seeing people knowing wat theyre talking about. i have no experience in bdsm. without SL i cant do bdsm. the internet is a way faster way to get a master but theyre not on SL so ive never been a online sub. i know wat bdsm is and i do like...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Mar 21, 2016

    Would love to know more about this lifestyle!

    I have just read very little about it!
    pleasuretobehere pleasuretobehere
    26-30, M
    Apr 3, 2016

    I guess this is a message to anyone

    that feels lost, alone, confused, and or seeking guidance. Most subs that get into BDSM do so because they find themselves feeling one if not more of the feelings above. When they feel this way they feel a strong need to give up control. Once someone gives up control to...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 5, 2015

    I've never done anything like that

    before however I think it might be a fun time. I think I need a partner first LOL. I'll keep that on a back burner for now & focus on finding my soulmate!
    bigfootslam bigfootslam
    51-55, M
    1 Response Jan 10, 2016
    wanderlander wanderlander
    26-30, F
    Sep 8, 2015

    reading so many stories are

    so exciting... seeing the pictures and videos are erotic.... I want more of those experiences.... I have had quite a few in the realm, but not to the level of which I want to explore.... hopefully soon, she will be my true sub, and our connection will strengthen, our experiences...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Sep 10, 2015
    insanityrunsinthefamily insanityrunsinthefamily
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Dec 31, 2015

    Always been curious bout it I read about it all

    the time on here wonder what its like to have a sub by your side do whatever you want how you want it a woman that aim to please you
    addicted2datwhiteDB addicted2datwhiteDB
    26-30, M
    Oct 19, 2015

    And so this week my young,

    dominate lover wants to begin training me but I cannot decide on a safeword thats cute and sexy, can anyone help?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Sep 7, 2015

    My and my wife are starting to get into bdsm.

    Can't wait to get this going. If you have advice feel free to give it
    Tcrochet Tcrochet
    26-30, M
    Jan 21, 2016

    I am a sub new to bdsm.

    I would like to start out with an online Dom/sub relationship to ease my way into the life style. I am 18 and while I am interested in age play, 35 is a hesitant max age, however I am willing to make exceptions. Fair warning to those that are interested, I have very little...
    Sunmissivekitty Sunmissivekitty
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 5, 2015

    I really want to try to

    but I'm also beyond really inexperienced so... 👏🏽
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses May 14, 2015

    im into bdsm but becuz of my situation i cant

    do it for real so i do it on this game SL. right now im trying to find a bdsm relationship more enjoyably relateable and not full of bullshit and bullshit
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 14, 2016
    Christuner666 Christuner666
    31-35, M
    Mar 31, 2016

    I'm 19 and cannot believe I've never heard

    about bdsm relationships! I'm very curious to find out more information about it. I love the feeling of Being controlled and pleasing someone. I don't know why. Someone being rough with me excites me..
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 28, 2015
    sholdier7 sholdier7
    26-30, M
    Mar 7, 2016

    So, when I got experience project I decided I

    wasn't going to hide anything. Not hiding anything means embracing sides of me that I keep hidden in a day to day basis. Like my submissive side, not only would people have a problem with it because of my age but also because I'm not a pushover and I have difficulties with...
    LockedInsideMe LockedInsideMe
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 14, 2015

    I've heard about it and I want to try it.

    I love chatting and want a dominant who would teach me and help me with the lifestyle. Message me if you are interested.
    Improvisitions210 Improvisitions210
    18-21, F
    Jun 25, 2015

    there are so many old guys into bdsm.

    finding a young master in SL is like trying to find a needle in a haystack but the needle isnt even there
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Mar 18, 2016
    Christuner666 Christuner666
    31-35, M
    Mar 29, 2016
    greatgost greatgost
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 26, 2015

    Many are called but few are chosen.

    That saying is true for both, the Master and slaves, Doms and subs. The relation can be so deep and meaning full but it requires a good understanding, solid chemistry, and an appreciation for the other half's needs, wants, and circumstances. There is no 'get together quick...
    Knecht2014 Knecht2014
    51-55, M
    Aug 26, 2015

    i want to know the difference between the love

    bdsm participants have and actual true love...because as much as i know love will never give you punishments...you cannot hurt a person you love...so is bdsm about desire...? why will someone call a person they love as slave and punish for so silly things?isnt it degrading...how...
    sandipadas sandipadas
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Apr 8, 2015

    I recently convinced my boyfriend to beg

    and do tricks for candy. I even pet him and told him he was a good boy. He was initially apposed to it, but afterwards it was much easier to get him to do it again.
    greatgost greatgost
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 1, 2016

    Hello im looking for loyal honest good looking

    female sub / pet intrested on online Msg me
    MasterJamelAlgerian MasterJamelAlgerian
    26-30, M
    Feb 19, 2016
    clenson7 clenson7
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 15, 2015

    There's a guy at one of my jobs,

    who is becoming a friend, that I totally believe would be a legit Dom. Perfect attitude, not forced, just /is/ very much in control and strong. I want to talk to him about it but I don't know how especially in a way that will maintain work relationships. Help?
    wanderlander wanderlander
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Aug 26, 2015

    i want a bdsm relationship .

    looking for a mistress
    aminefjr aminefjr
    18-21, M
    Jan 9, 2016

    I would love to find someone experienced with

    bdsm to sort of help me explore/learn. Anyone out there:3? I'm actually pretty shy but I will do my best not to be!!!! ^_^
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Jan 1, 2016

    It's really refreshing to embrace

    such desires. However it's important to find the right person. Unfortunately EP is mostly full of amateurs with a Dom complex, but I guess I'm trying not to lose hope here.
    brisadeverano brisadeverano
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 31, 2015

    I find myself thinking a lot

    that bdsm has such a unique beauty to it. Many don't see it and think it's cruel. I do not. I love the meaning behind it. Very beautiful.
    ISolemnlySwear ISolemnlySwear
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 19, 2016

    I defiantly want to try it.

    But it's so hard to try and find the right person/ people to talk about it with and start with.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Dec 19, 2015

    Can anyone talk to me about this subject.

    I would like to get to know more about myself and my inner freak.
    CuriousBreeds CuriousBreeds
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 29, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 1, 2016

    So, I am being asked what the point of this is

    if I don't get pictures or videos. In essence, how do I know if the slave is doing what it is told to do. Where is the proof? My reply: Indeed the slave could lie about it's actions and punishments, it also could be male instead of female or vice versa, old instead of young...
    Knecht2014 Knecht2014
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Sep 1, 2015

    Naughty Dad is looking

    for a strict uncle for discipline...not only my boys need it from time to time...my behaviour is sometimes ugly, too. Anyone can help me?
    BadBoySpanking BadBoySpanking
    36-40, M
    Dec 31, 2015

    I purchased a restraint kit

    for my BF and I to play with. I allowed him to tie my hands and feet together and blind fold me. I asked him not to hog tie me because I'm a chunky girl and still feel insecure with my body sometimes. He went against my wishes and hogtied me anyways, then proceeded to take pics...
    Untamedsecret Untamedsecret
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Oct 2, 2015

    Seriously. I'd love to be tied up

    or tie someone else up. So far I've only tied up myself once or twice. That was interesting I have to say.
    FeetAreFantastic FeetAreFantastic
    36-40, M
    4 Responses Jul 22, 2015

    sub fem here.........

    .... need boys..
    sholdier7 sholdier7
    26-30, M
    Feb 25, 2016

    Sadly I'm not in any relationship

    and too shy to even try to go out to a club randomly and sub.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Oct 10, 2014
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