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I Am Curious About Polygamy

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    Over the past several years my wife

    and I have had ongoing discussions about polygamy and felt compelled to understand the subject more. At first it was purely academic. I have a peeve about assumptions and poorly held opinions and my opinion of polygamy was quite poorly held! One of the earliest remarks my wife...
    notryonlydo notryonlydo 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 10, 2013

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    Well I have always wanted a real big family & sisters &if i married into a polygamist family iwould get both of those things ! ido not think that i would feel jealous at all i think that i woud feel lucky to b w. a man who has enuf <3 love n his heart to love multiple women...
    wolfspider wolfspider 18-21, F 9 Responses Dec 25, 2010

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    We Have Been Giving This Thought

    My husband approached me a few years ago with this topic. At first I said "no way!". Now the last year I have been really warming up to it. My husband truly feels he is being called upon to do this. I have always trusted him completely and I do not intend on stopping now. If...
    jointhecorner jointhecorner 36-40, F 11 Responses Mar 18, 2012

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    I honestly think after today

    that I could be in a polygamous relationship, however I would have to be the only woman with a bunch of men. I seriously have so many personalities, and get along with so many different types of people, it's so hard for me to have a relationship without him meeting all of your...
    KrisMiss KrisMiss 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 2

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    My husband and I are looking

    for someone, another wife. We just happen to live in the south where nothing is accepted in the open so it makes it difficult to meet others like us. We just want to know other like minded people that we can be ourselves around.
    sjbenson0513 sjbenson0513 36-40 5 Responses Feb 28

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    I am 28, I have been with my boyfriend

    for 18 months, we have a 3 month old little boy and are really happy. Recently, to my boyfriend's surprise I brought up the subject of a polygamous relationship. We are not religious, but for me it would certainly make sense to our lives for my boyfriend to have another...
    Alive88 Alive88 26-30, F 10 Responses Jan 29

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    It is very adorable when people willingly share

    love. Love can only multiply and not divide. If you read about history, these kind of relationships were always natural among humans throughout the world but are being looked down by the society in the past couple of centuries. I'm definitely curious - maybe that's the way...
    roadsterusa roadsterusa 18-21, M 4 Responses Mar 12

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    Ive been in a triad relationship.

    it can be very rewarding- in more ways than one ;)
    heytherebutterfly01 heytherebutterfly01 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    We are a couple in Colorado,

    mid fifties that would be interested in a conversation with a woman.
    wifesman wifesman 51-55, M 2 Responses Nov 30, 2013

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    While I Have Been In a Mult...

    While I have been in a multiple domestic relationship with a couple of women for a few years. I am curious about long term commitments to this life style. Almost all societies have at some time embarrassed it to some degree or another. In closed societies it is a necessity born...
    Mountainman923518 Mountainman923518 56-60, M 3 Responses Jul 12, 2007

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    Patiently Waiting For A Sister

    We are young at heart. Our standards 1 Corinthians 13:1-13 (GNT) "I may be able to speak the languages of human beings and even of angels, but if I have no love, my speech is no more than a noisy gong or a clanging bell. I may have the gift of inspired preaching; I may have...
    loveiskey38 loveiskey38 36-40, M Jul 10, 2013

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    Trial and Error

    I suggested to my husband about getting a second wife in the middle of the summer.  (I had no idea about the Big Love show at the time so there was no influence there) We talked about it and did some research and then I decided that I would be too jealous.  Then we...
    neovenus neovenus 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 19, 2007

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    I have been married once

    so I am familiar with monogamy. I know the downside and the upside of it very well. My curiousity in polygamy stems from the fact that our society is not monogamous in nature. We have biological tendencies to be attracted to different types of people at different set of times...
    carlyistortious carlyistortious 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 20

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    slutkitty slutkitty 46-50, M Dec 14, 2013

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    Big Family

    I am from a slightly unusual traditional family. Everyone in my family helps raise the kids, a community to raise a family. I have 3 kids and have joked with my wife about adding another wife to help raise and grow our family. I know for a fact my family being from Prussia were...
    CObrewmaster CObrewmaster 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 4, 2012

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    I am Curious about Polygamy.

    Recently, I've heard a lot about Polygamy and I find it very interesting. I've always thought, that it was out of date and nobody really practiced it anymore. Now? I'd like to learn more about it! I'm single but I'm not sure if I'd be okay with 'sharing' a husband. I'm just...
    Theonlygirlforyou Theonlygirlforyou 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 5

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    rachelle1972 rachelle1972 18-21, F 13 Responses Jan 30

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    I think it's an interesting concept,

    especially considering human beings capacity to love in different ways (all at once) including. companionship, romantic, and sexual. If it is a mutual thing all around, and there's no dishonesty, it can be successful, I think. (It's kind of annoying how people just assume it's...
    Cryx Cryx 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 11, 2013

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    I don't think they're sick people.

    They have their own reasons and motives for it and I can't argue. It's actually very interesting to me. Sometimes I wouldn't mind being part of it. Why not share the love?
    Redspikex Redspikex 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    I'll never understand monogamy.

    All my life all I've seen is the men in my family hurt women because of their primal urges. These men thought that by lying to their mates about their indiscretions was more manageable then saying "why can't we have a girlfriend?" And now there's me, a man who expresses his...
    dreamingwrecklessly dreamingwrecklessly 31-35, M Dec 18, 2013

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    Hi guys, I came across this group

    and after reading some of your stories, I am intrigued! It is so refreshing to hear about happy relationships that work really well! I am a feature writer in the UK and write for a number of women's magazines and I'm always looking for interesting stories to feature in some of...
    littlestar89 littlestar89 22-25, F Mar 21

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    My love can only be multiplied,

    but I just realized to divide is not to take away. I am extremely curious. Can't we all just be in love?
    polylovhers polylovhers 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 27

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    Third Wife

    I myself am a third wife - of four. And I am happy with my lifestyle, eventhough it does have its challenges I find it rewarding in terms of self growth, relationship with hubby, freedom, the ability to build a career while having a great husband.. The jealousy thing pops up...
    3rdlady 3rdlady 26-30 55 Responses Jul 3, 2008

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    Polygamy.I'm going to be honest

    and open about anything. I'm faritly young and want to know more about THAT lifestyle. Please, message me or comment on here. I live in Iowa. I don't know of anyone of that faith; living around here; or anything like that. I just find it very interesting, all of it.
    Theonlygirlforyou Theonlygirlforyou 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 5

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    Most definitely! I've always been interested

    in the idea of having a man and maybe another woman somehow in the picture. Whether it's girlfriend or wife. I find that fascinating.
    AllisonFlanagan AllisonFlanagan 31-35, F 12 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    For People Against Polygamy

    I guess this could be said about alot of groups out there but I see it a lot on this issue. People that are against polygamy tend to be so narrow and closed minded and rather ignorant of what polygamy entails. If you try to explain it to them they don't listen and if you get...
    Karalas Karalas 26-30, M 11 Responses Dec 27, 2007

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    Love males & females:) Always have!

    Thing is...I never feel satisfied with one or the other...so why not have both??? "I believe love should be multiplied, not divided" -Kody Brown
    sublimelife sublimelife 26-30, F 5 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    My Co-wife and I

     Ok so unlike most people on this topic I am not a Christian but a practicing Muslim. I am a US citizen, and African American. I am also one of two wives. I began as the second of two and then my first co-wife and my husband divorced. My new co-wife is of course an amazing...
    NazarenePrincess NazarenePrincess 22-25, F 45 Responses May 17, 2008

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    Interesting Situation

    I saw a show where a beautiful young (about 30) woman decided to become a sister-wife. Having dated a number of men she came to a conclusion that all good men are already married. So, she wanted to find the right couple who were looking for such open-minded attractive woman and...
    orangehoney orangehoney 46-50, F 5 Responses Nov 15, 2013

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    I don't see this as a possible way to love a

    person or more than one person because the love shared would never be equal. But I have my doubts, and for some people a love triangle works for them. It'd be cool to have a wife who also has a wife and whom is my wife as well but I don't think for a LTR it would last very long...
    misternobrain misternobrain 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 9

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    Married and Curious

    My Husband and I have been happily married for 5 years and we have 5 children together. Lately things have been getting very strained in our house it is almost like we don't have enough people to share the burden of home and family, after a lot of talking and several...
    jnewlove jnewlove 21-25, F 6 Responses Nov 30, 2007

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    I wish I could express to my wife.

    .that I will always love her..but I feel like something or someone is missing.
    Horachio513 Horachio513 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 6

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    I Know So Little....

    but, what little I know intrigues me.  I never even gave the whole practice (or religion...) a second thought until that darn show on HBO!  I'm wondering if the "big family" idea will become a fad-type thing...like:  will polygamists just start coming out...
    MysticWriter MysticWriter 36-40, F 30 Responses Aug 6, 2006

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    We Are Very Curious About Polygamy...

    My husband and I have been married for almost 10 years now and have 4 beautiful young children. We have a very healthy relationship and don't feel like there is something missing, but we want to share our love with someone else. My husband makes a very good living for us, so I...
    michellesheart michellesheart 31-35, F 11 Responses May 4, 2011

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    What Would You Say?

    A man that was raised to work and not play. To use his hands and mind to the benefit of his family. A man who spent the better part of his years in the service of the Church, only to find himself called into the service of his country. A man who built a career for himself and a...
    Warbandit Warbandit 26-30, M 2 Responses Nov 24, 2013

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    I am intending to travel to another country to

    start a new life. I will be looked after and protected and I know it is what is best for me. I will be in a poly family and will have children! I want him to be happy and so can accept him having other wives or lovers. He has said he may want me to have lovers only people he...
    luvvinit luvvinit 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 27

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    Looking in FTW, Texas.

    ..... We live in one of the most close-minded states, but still have hope. We are hoping to find a female to share our love and family with. We both have so much love to give and want to be able to share it. If you have children that is even better. The bigger the family, the...
    PolyParadise PolyParadise 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    I'm 33, I have an amazing husband !

    ! We've been together for 14 years and we have 2 kids. I've found over the last 5 years that my urges to be with a woman grow. The Idea of sharing my husband with that woman excited me. We decided to have a ********* so we joined a sex site and eventually found a beautiful woman...
    blueyes1980 blueyes1980 31-35, F 7 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    I find myself between a rock

    and a hard place. I seem to desire two types of relationships that are either controversial or taboo. One is interracial relationships. I do have a strong attraction to women on different ethnicities. Yet in this country there is some strife when it comes to interracial couples...
    Warbandit Warbandit 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 18

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    What's Cool About Polygamy?

    Polygamy is a strange ancient thing for most people. There are references to the prophets of the Old Testaments being engaged in polygamy. It makes sense to think that the population was lower then, and polygamy (even incestuous relationship) was a real necessity. For example...
    nourradiance nourradiance 36-40, F 59 Responses May 29, 2007

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    I Want My Hubby to Have a Second Wife

    I watched a show on tv about families in polygamous relationships.  I was very interested in finding out about this.  I think it would be so neat to have someone to share everything including my husband with. It would have to be someone that we were both secure with...
    lamom lamom 36-40, F 29 Responses Mar 14, 2008

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    Good day everyone, I will not say my name

    but i will say that i am 21 years old. Long story short, i would like to join a polygamy couple, i am very open towards polygamy beliefs and i would love to become part of a polygamy couple and start a family. Here where i live polygamy is illegal, and my previous relationship...
    polybeliever93 polybeliever93 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    I am currently trying to enter a polygamous

    relationship. My guy is 38 and I'm 29. The wife is skeptical and hesitant about bringing me in only because they tried with a different girl before me and it didn't work out so the wife is no longer really accepting of it but try's to be because she loves him and knows and knew...
    Cara29 Cara29 26-30, F 8 Responses Jan 4

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    Though I would't mind sharing a man,

    I always wondered if guys would be willing to share a wife. Like if I could have more than one husband, or a husband and one or two boyfriends. Not like cheating, but everyone agreeing to that kind of relationship.
    Sexyzamar Sexyzamar 22-25, F 28 Responses Jan 27

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    I Am Pretty Intrigued

    I think that if it were carried out properly, and everyone was of age and consenting, and a real loving and close emotional bond was shared by all involved, polygamy could be a very smart way to live, love, and run a household. There would be problems, of course, as in any...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 8 Responses Mar 7, 2011

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    Polygamy - Special Informations For Asecretlife

    Polygamy is not a practice limited to the religion of Islam; rather, it is something well-known in the history of the People of the Book, the Jews and the Christians, as well. It is only in the later times that their religious men frowned upon it or forbade it outright. However...
    beyleb beyleb 18-21, F 9 Responses Apr 18, 2012

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    I have had several dreams and fantasy about it and each time I get a little more curious about it
    Heatherbooboo Heatherbooboo 22-25, F 4 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    Not much of experience yet but damn I would love to just find a girl that I can have fun with. And where he will like it back and top it off I'm also married so my husband around a...
    Angelfacegirl4u Angelfacegirl4u 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    AgeMeet.com, a website specifically designed for older man younger woman relationships and older woman younger man relationships. AgeMeet.com is the world's first, largest and most...
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    At my university we have a confessions page and one presumably male confessor posted stating that girls who wear legging or tights (ie. lulu lemons) are "bimbos looking for...
    whocares16 whocares16 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    Hello all! Was wondering if they're are any polyamorous couples out there in healthy productive relationships? How'd you meet and what are some tips to maintaining a healthy...
    danimonyve danimonyve 36-40, F 20 hrs ago

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    I feel like polygamy is more natural than being monogamous but I'm afraid of being the less loved partner. I asked my boyfriend how he feels about polygamy and he doesn't agree...
    alittlemoresonic42 alittlemoresonic42 18-21, F 12 Responses Apr 14

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    As far back as I can remember, I've always been curious about people and how things work. As I child, I read voraciously. I built models and enjoyed putting things together. I...
    LysistratasWeakness2 LysistratasWeakness2 51-55, M Apr 13

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    Am curious about this dream. I want to know what does it mean. I had these dream that I was in a forest and something was following me, then out of no where the follower was a...
    DarkEmoAngel06 DarkEmoAngel06 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 14

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    I'm a married woman interested in chatting with another female. I've become interested and curious about women. Please no men.
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    I am curious about this subject: What are those black dots that you see in your eyes when you stare at a blank wall or the sky? You know what I mean? The ones that you try to...
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