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I Am Curious About Polygamy

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    I Want My Hubby to Have a Second Wife

    I watched a show on tv about families in polygamous relationships.  I was very interested in finding out about this.  I think it would be so neat to have someone to share everything including my husband with. It would have to be someone that we were both secure with...
    lamom lamom 36-40, F 31 Responses Mar 14, 2008

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    Third Wife

    I myself am a third wife - of four. And I am happy with my lifestyle, eventhough it does have its challenges I find it rewarding in terms of self growth, relationship with hubby, freedom, the ability to build a career while having a great husband.. The jealousy thing pops up...
    3rdlady 3rdlady 26-30 55 Responses Jul 3, 2008

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    I once met a man who said he wanted 3 wives.

    One for the house one gor the kitchen and me to make babies
    helen55 helen55 56-60, F 5 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    Is it really a bad thing?

    People bash on it and all but I'm trying to understand the point of it. Marrying more than one spouse does not seem like a bad idea if you look at it. Not like I would get involved, I don't even like the idea of marriage. So anyways, with two or more spouses, they can take care...
    FinalSoldier FinalSoldier 13-15, M 14 Responses Oct 16, 2014

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    My husband wants to take on a second wife.

    He says that he can maintain a balance and sometimes will even say something condescending about the other woman, which initially made me feel that their relationship would not last and I would be free of her. But, he has not wavered. I find myself so upset I don't even want to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Sep 21, 2014

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    I am a very happily married wife

    but a curious woman about polygamy. I want to expand our sexual history with others. I want them to join us as husbands and wives.
    wifeathercomputer wifeathercomputer 36-40, F 6 Responses Mar 13

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    I can see a lot a practicality here,

    both economically, genetically, & socially. There's a greater pool of resources, definitive support for your children (in the event you die), and a social & emotional support network.
    Jakd69 Jakd69 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 20

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    I Know So Little....

    but, what little I know intrigues me.  I never even gave the whole practice (or religion...) a second thought until that darn show on HBO!  I'm wondering if the "big family" idea will become a fad-type thing...like:  will polygamists just start coming out...
    MysticWriter MysticWriter 36-40, F 30 Responses Aug 6, 2006

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    My boyfriend has been seriously into studying

    the history of our culture and where we should be as a people..etc. In his mind he believes he would be "building a nation" by taking on multiple wives and children to carry on his legacy. I am not so sure. He wants me to be apart of this but i was always taught in the sense of...
    lostandlooking4answers lostandlooking4answers 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    my wife and i are actively searching

    for a third in our relationship. it's easier said than done though. any women out there in nm curious about the lifestyle?
    newvillage36 newvillage36 36-40, M 2 Responses Apr 15

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    I honestly think after today

    that I could be in a polygamous relationship, however I would have to be the only woman with a bunch of men. I seriously have so many personalities, and get along with so many different types of people, it's so hard for me to have a relationship without him meeting all of your...
    KrisMiss KrisMiss 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 2, 2014

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    Wanting to give it a go?

    Seems like there are more pros than cons.
    Sisterwifey1 Sisterwifey1 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 14, 2014

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    my lover and his wife want me to be thir 3rd.

    can i be happy in a triad long term?
    elljay1212 elljay1212 31-35, F 11 Responses Apr 21

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    I've always had an issue with monogamy.

    I've always slept around, sometimes with as many as 3 women a day, more times than I could count with 2 women a day. When I was approaching marriage with my wife, who Ive been faithful to ever since the vows, I approached her with the idea of a poly lifestyle. She flipped and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 26

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    Most definitely! I've always been interested

    in the idea of having a man and maybe another woman somehow in the picture. Whether it's girlfriend or wife. I find that fascinating.
    AllisonFlanagan AllisonFlanagan 31-35, F 7 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    I want a harem of slaves some slaves would

    dominate the other slaves so I would have the weakest link which was controlled by everybody and then the best slave that only I would control heheh :3
    thecamking thecamking 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 8

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    Trial and Error

    I suggested to my husband about getting a second wife in the middle of the summer.  (I had no idea about the Big Love show at the time so there was no influence there) We talked about it and did some research and then I decided that I would be too jealous.  Then we...
    neovenus neovenus 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 19, 2007

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    Is it bad that I'm in a long term relationship

    but have a wandering eye ? I'd like to be more promiscuous. I've even thought of being in more than one relationship. Not 24/7 but I'd like to be involved with other guys. Does that make me a horrible person ? I don't even know what to think of it.
    LizC815 LizC815 22-25, F 19 Responses Feb 4

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    Isn't the best thrill having all your wives

    heavily pregnant at once? I'm curious?
    DesireMeOnly DesireMeOnly 22-25, F 12 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    My Co-wife and I

     Ok so unlike most people on this topic I am not a Christian but a practicing Muslim. I am a US citizen, and African American. I am also one of two wives. I began as the second of two and then my first co-wife and my husband divorced. My new co-wife is of course an amazing...
    NazarenePrincess NazarenePrincess 22-25, F 47 Responses May 17, 2008

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    We Have Been Giving This Thought

    My husband approached me a few years ago with this topic. At first I said "no way!". Now the last year I have been really warming up to it. My husband truly feels he is being called upon to do this. I have always trusted him completely and I do not intend on stopping now. If...
    jointhecorner jointhecorner 36-40, F 11 Responses Mar 18, 2012

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    My fiancé and i have been very open to

    bringing another woman into the bedroom as well as keeping a friendship with her. Recently we have met a woman who seems to be every bit of perfect for us. Not just as a friend or an addition to our love lives but in so much more. We have been talking about the possibility of a...
    DGraham15 DGraham15 26-30, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    rachelle1972 rachelle1972 18-21, F 14 Responses Jan 30, 2014

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    AlphaDroid AlphaDroid 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 2

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    What's Cool About Polygamy?

    Polygamy is a strange ancient thing for most people. There are references to the prophets of the Old Testaments being engaged in polygamy. It makes sense to think that the population was lower then, and polygamy (even incestuous relationship) was a real necessity. For example...
    nourradiance nourradiance 36-40, F 59 Responses May 29, 2007

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    I think I would like another girl

    but I would want her into both me and him.. Everyone friendly and sharing. Don't think I would be jealous but I surprise myself all the time so can't rule it out. But j get lonely and I love a woman's company, and everything else.
    megansunshine megansunshine 18-21, F 10 Responses Feb 17

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    Polygamy.I'm going to be honest

    and open about anything. I'm faritly young and want to know more about THAT lifestyle. Please, message me or comment on here. I live in Iowa. I don't know of anyone of that faith; living around here; or anything like that. I just find it very interesting, all of it.
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jan 5, 2014

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    I am Curious about Polygamy.

    Recently, I've heard a lot about Polygamy and I find it very interesting. I've always thought, that it was out of date and nobody really practiced it anymore. Now? I'd like to learn more about it! I'm single but I'm not sure if I'd be okay with 'sharing' a husband. I'm just...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jan 5, 2014

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    For People Against Polygamy

    I guess this could be said about alot of groups out there but I see it a lot on this issue. People that are against polygamy tend to be so narrow and closed minded and rather ignorant of what polygamy entails. If you try to explain it to them they don't listen and if you get...
    Karalas Karalas 26-30, M 10 Responses Dec 27, 2007

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    I'd like to have a "mixed" polygamous house.

    I dream of playing the "male" role only as a female and having 2-3 willing young college guys and a live in GF who'd be number one and then trade around they'd all take care oft needs and I theirs.
    W4W2 W4W2 41-45, F 8 Responses Mar 10, 2014

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    I have been married once

    so I am familiar with monogamy. I know the downside and the upside of it very well. My curiousity in polygamy stems from the fact that our society is not monogamous in nature. We have biological tendencies to be attracted to different types of people at different set of times...
    carlyistortious carlyistortious 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 20, 2014

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    Polygamy could be a good response to our sexual

    instincts - keeping the same partner for many years places a lot of strain, and as we have seen in the last 4 decades, once social mores stop enforcing it, marriage pretty much founders 80% of the time. That said, polygamy comes with its own basket of problems - much like Newton...
    claudeserr claudeserr 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 6, 2014

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    I think that love is beautiful

    and sometimes you can share that with more than one person but the idea of being married, legally and religiously bound to multiple people seems like a lot . I also don't believe in the whole "sisterwives" thing. It wouldn't work for me . I'm more of a all in this together type...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 21

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    I have a wonderful boyfriend

    who treats me well and keeps me laughing. But it would also be nice to be spoiled rotten by and older, sexy businessman. I don't know if that makes me selfish or a bad person. But every girl likes flowers and jewellery right?
    Stephajd Stephajd 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    When working on building a lasting a Polly

    relationship as a family unit. How do u find the balance between the happy now and the happy when....?
    elljay1212 elljay1212 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 21

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    Love males & females:) Always have!

    Thing is...I never feel satisfied with one or the other...so why not have both??? "I believe love should be multiplied, not divided" -Kody Brown
    sublimelife sublimelife 26-30, F 5 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    I am experimenting in polygamy

    and I have to say.... My favorite idea is to have multiple wives who love me and each other. They have to be into each other. As an added bonus it would help if they were into impregnation /pregnancy as well and wanted large families. They'd have to be ready to live...
    Estranges Estranges 26-30, M 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Married and Curious

    My Husband and I have been happily married for 5 years and we have 5 children together. Lately things have been getting very strained in our house it is almost like we don't have enough people to share the burden of home and family, after a lot of talking and several...
    jnewlove jnewlove 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 30, 2007

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    I'm 33, I have an amazing husband !

    ! We've been together for 14 years and we have 2 kids. I've found over the last 5 years that my urges to be with a woman grow. The Idea of sharing my husband with that woman excited me. We decided to have a ********* so we joined a sex site and eventually found a beautiful woman...
    blueyes1980 blueyes1980 31-35, F 7 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    I am 25 years old and I always find myself in

    love with everyone I meet. My relationships always last over a year but I find myself bored easily or wanting more. I seek for attention from my ex's because I know some still care for me. Although I know that's the wrong way to go about it but I don't really believe in a "soul...
    kimycola27 kimycola27 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 6, 2014

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    I am a happily married man,

    I love my wife unconditionally however I am bi/pansexual (still working that out) and need a male in my life as well as a female. I would never and will never cheat on my wife. Some days I feel trapped. I am a romantic and most definitely believe in long term, long lasting love...
    ianbrewman ianbrewman 26-30, T 1 Response Feb 12

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    Though I would't mind sharing a man,

    I always wondered if guys would be willing to share a wife. Like if I could have more than one husband, or a husband and one or two boyfriends. Not like cheating, but everyone agreeing to that kind of relationship.
    Sexyzamar Sexyzamar 22-25, F 24 Responses Jan 27, 2014

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    We Are Very Curious About Polygamy...

    My husband and I have been married for almost 10 years now and have 4 beautiful young children. We have a very healthy relationship and don't feel like there is something missing, but we want to share our love with someone else. My husband makes a very good living for us, so I...
    michellesheart michellesheart 31-35, F 11 Responses May 4, 2011

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    I am a bisexual male

    and have recently been considering MFM polyamory. Sex doesn't have to be a group thing although I'm sure it would be at times when all people are amorous and I don't think it's a sexual desire that I am wanting to fulfill. When I am with another guy I feel that I am missing a...
    Shikeji Shikeji 22-25, M 3 Responses Jan 22

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    Jelousy. everytime i think i have mastered it,

    it pops back up. my lovers wife text me to tell me they were in the grocery store. What do I expect them to be doing? for some reason i would have felt more conformable if she said they were on some wild adventure. i guess it is because the everyday things are the things i...
    elljay1212 elljay1212 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 21

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    Hi Everyone, I am casting a ground breaking

    documentary series that I hope you may be a part of. I am seeking people that have been propositioned, received an indecent proposal, or given an ultimatum. Our documentary series seeks to show the inner struggle of someone weighing the pros and cons of a choice that puts their...
    robertjk robertjk 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 11

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