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I Am Curious About Polygamy

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    Married and Curious

    My Husband and I have been happily married for 5 years and we have 5 children together. Lately things have been getting very strained in our house it is almost like we don't have enough people to share the burden of home and family, after a lot of talking and several...
    jnewlove jnewlove 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 30, 2007

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    Most definitely! I've always been interested

    in the idea of having a man and maybe another woman somehow in the picture. Whether it's girlfriend or wife. I find that fascinating.
    AllisonFlanagan AllisonFlanagan 31-35, F 6 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    About a month and a half ago I found out my

    husband had been having a "relationship" with an ex of his. He did not react as I expected when I confronted him and long story short he said he didn't know how to tell me but he wanted her as a second "wife". Since then there has been a falling out and she has walked away...
    khankale khankale 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 19, 2015

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    Trial and Error

    I suggested to my husband about getting a second wife in the middle of the summer.  (I had no idea about the Big Love show at the time so there was no influence there) We talked about it and did some research and then I decided that I would be too jealous.  Then we...
    neovenus neovenus 26-30, F 7 Responses Nov 19, 2007

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    Isn't the best thrill having all your wives

    heavily pregnant at once? I'm curious?
    DesireMeOnly DesireMeOnly 22-25, F 15 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    bettyccaa bettyccaa 26-30, F Sep 6, 2015

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    After having two kids my wife is very tired

    and it would be great if we had another wife to help with things
    cuise cuise 36-40, M 3 Responses Aug 21, 2015

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    I'd like to have a "mixed" polygamous house.

    I dream of playing the "male" role only as a female and having 2-3 willing young college guys and a live in GF who'd be number one and then trade around they'd all take care oft needs and I theirs.
    W4W2 W4W2 46-50, F 7 Responses Mar 10, 2014

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    Cuck4lesbian Cuck4lesbian 22-25, M Sep 5, 2015

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    I have been married once

    so I am familiar with monogamy. I know the downside and the upside of it very well. My curiousity in polygamy stems from the fact that our society is not monogamous in nature. We have biological tendencies to be attracted to different types of people at different set of times...
    carlyistortious carlyistortious 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 20, 2014

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    i think it would be wonderful to be able to have

    that total fulfillment with just one person for the rest of your life ,,,BUT the reality is its just not logical not to lust want or desire more , i am is a wonderful relationship we are totally devoted to each other and we have had mfm and fmf fun ,, it does tend to...
    happyjack501 happyjack501 51-55, M 4 Responses Sep 7, 2015

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    We Are Very Curious About Polygamy...

    My husband and I have been married for almost 10 years now and have 4 beautiful young children. We have a very healthy relationship and don't feel like there is something missing, but we want to share our love with someone else. My husband makes a very good living for us, so I...
    michellesheart michellesheart 31-35, F 11 Responses May 4, 2011

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    I would like to get information from religious

    men who have more than one wife or religious women who have sister wives. I'm curious how you adjust in marriage?
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Oct 9, 2015

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    I am 28, I have been with my boyfriend

    for 18 months, we have a 3 month old little boy and are really happy. Recently, to my boyfriend's surprise I brought up the subject of a polygamous relationship. We are not religious, but for me it would certainly make sense to our lives for my boyfriend to have another...
    Alive88 Alive88 26-30, F 9 Responses Jan 29, 2014

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    I am a young Masculine male,

    Muslim, American, interested in women for a respectful polyganous relationship. I respect women in general and am kind hearted. I dislike arguments or raising my voice. Any advice or interest would be appreciated since resources are so rare on this subject... Thanks.
    Hazman1 Hazman1 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 17, 2015

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    I see no problem with this at all,

    especially when it makes all the people involved happy. I am currently in a relationship where this is not allowed, but I feel deep down that one day I will develop into needing more than then two of us in this relationship. You know that movie Savages? Dream come true. They all...
    wantingtobehappy84 wantingtobehappy84 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 5, 2015

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    I'm 51 years old male

    and very curious about Polygamy and looking things up and learning about polygamy and how to be a part of Polygamy family.. Also would love to learn more about polygamy.
    MysticKnight1 MysticKnight1 51-55, M 3 Responses Nov 11, 2015

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    I'm 33, I have an amazing husband !

    ! We've been together for 14 years and we have 2 kids. I've found over the last 5 years that my urges to be with a woman grow. The Idea of sharing my husband with that woman excited me. We decided to have a ********* so we joined a sex site and eventually found a beautiful woman...
    blueyes1980 blueyes1980 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    I once met a man who said he wanted 3 wives.

    One for the house one gor the kitchen and me to make babies
    helen55 helen55 56-60, F 6 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    Wanting to give it a go?

    Seems like there are more pros than cons.
    Sisterwifey1 Sisterwifey1 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 14, 2014

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    We want and need a sister wife.

    My wife is 35 and I'm 54. She is developmentally disabled and she wants a sister wife. I want one too as when I am gone, she'll need someone in her life who cares for her. Please let us know if you are interested in getting to know us.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 30, 2015

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    My wife and I are looking

    for a serious, long-term, equal relationship with a Bi female for a closed triad(I guess that's the best term). We certainly won't turn down anyone just looking for friendship. We have been married for four and a half years, dated two and a half years before that, and were...
    Raefediova Raefediova 22-25, M Aug 7, 2015

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    OK I watched that reality show "Sister Wives"

    and that has deeply influenced me to research polygamous relationships. I love the concept of sister wives and feeling like a big family. I love the idea of us all living together and generally having fun! I don't want kids but I would love to help raise my sister wife's kid (s...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jul 13, 2015

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    rachelle1972 rachelle1972 22-25, F 15 Responses Jan 30, 2014

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    I Want My Hubby to Have a Second Wife

    I watched a show on tv about families in polygamous relationships.  I was very interested in finding out about this.  I think it would be so neat to have someone to share everything including my husband with. It would have to be someone that we were both secure with...
    lamom lamom 36-40, F 33 Responses Mar 14, 2008

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    I want to have more than one wife.

    Amy young women interested in being a wife of mine message me.
    Cuck4lesbian Cuck4lesbian 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 13, 2015

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    What's Cool About Polygamy?

    Polygamy is a strange ancient thing for most people. There are references to the prophets of the Old Testaments being engaged in polygamy. It makes sense to think that the population was lower then, and polygamy (even incestuous relationship) was a real necessity. For example...
    nourradiance nourradiance 36-40, F 59 Responses May 29, 2007

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    I am now officially Polygynous!

    My two beautiful wives are in their 20s. They are the greatest women in the world, and I love them dearly.
    bigbangFACTS bigbangFACTS 41-45, M 4 Responses Dec 22, 2015

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    stephanie29 stephanie29 31-35, F 73 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am 25 years old and I always find myself in

    love with everyone I meet. My relationships always last over a year but I find myself bored easily or wanting more. I seek for attention from my ex's because I know some still care for me. Although I know that's the wrong way to go about it but I don't really believe in a "soul...
    kimycola27 kimycola27 26-30, F 9 Responses Oct 6, 2014

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    I honestly think after today

    that I could be in a polygamous relationship, however I would have to be the only woman with a bunch of men. I seriously have so many personalities, and get along with so many different types of people, it's so hard for me to have a relationship without him meeting all of your...
    KrisMiss KrisMiss 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 2, 2014

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    I think that many people posting on this thread

    are confusing Polygamy with Polyamory. Polygamy involves more than one wife, although only the first wedding is legal and the rest are marriage "commitments" Polyamory literally means "many loves" and a person has a primary relationship, usually their spouse, and secondary...
    Caljoe Caljoe 61-65, M 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    My husband and I are interested in having

    another wife around. We're Christian (independent baptist), and have four children. I'm into urban homesteading and have a soaping and sewing business, he's into gaming and anime. We want to take it slow and really make friends before we commit. HMU if you'd like to chat.
    Tallaverosa Tallaverosa 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    As I mentioned in an earlier post,

    I feel I have always been curious about polygamy. A while ago (8-9 years ago or so) my wife and I were watching Big Love with Bill Paxton and started to have light conversation every now and again about the subject. Nothing ever came of it other than naughty discussion about sex...
    KingCharming420 KingCharming420 26-30, M 3 Responses Sep 5, 2015

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    I think I would like another girl

    but I would want her into both me and him.. Everyone friendly and sharing. Don't think I would be jealous but I surprise myself all the time so can't rule it out. But j get lonely and I love a woman's company, and everything else.
    megansunshine megansunshine 22-25, F 10 Responses Feb 17, 2015

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    Third Wife

    I myself am a third wife - of four. And I am happy with my lifestyle, eventhough it does have its challenges I find it rewarding in terms of self growth, relationship with hubby, freedom, the ability to build a career while having a great husband.. The jealousy thing pops up...
    3rdlady 3rdlady 26-30 55 Responses Jul 3, 2008

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    I am intending to travel to another country to

    start a new life. I will be looked after and protected and I know it is what is best for me. I will be in a poly family and will have children! I want him to be happy and so can accept him having other wives or lovers. He has said he may want me to have lovers only people he...
    luvvinit luvvinit 18-21, F 13 Responses Mar 27, 2014

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    I Know So Little....

    but, what little I know intrigues me.  I never even gave the whole practice (or religion...) a second thought until that darn show on HBO!  I'm wondering if the "big family" idea will become a fad-type thing...like:  will polygamists just start coming out...
    MysticWriter MysticWriter 36-40, F 30 Responses Aug 6, 2006

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    For People Against Polygamy

    I guess this could be said about alot of groups out there but I see it a lot on this issue. People that are against polygamy tend to be so narrow and closed minded and rather ignorant of what polygamy entails. If you try to explain it to them they don't listen and if you get...
    Karalas Karalas 26-30, M 10 Responses Dec 27, 2007

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    Though I would't mind sharing a man,

    I always wondered if guys would be willing to share a wife. Like if I could have more than one husband, or a husband and one or two boyfriends. Not like cheating, but everyone agreeing to that kind of relationship.
    Sexyzamar Sexyzamar 22-25, F 22 Responses Jan 27, 2014

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    I am about to build a community here in

    northern california and I would like to find a second wife though I am not married that can help me build my dream. I would like her to have afrocentric knowlege and will ask her to help teach the children come up with some agricultural solutions you will be loved...
    nondo1 nondo1 51-55, M Dec 4, 2015

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    Sitting in bed crying

    for days. .... The first problem in all this. Coming to terms that I might just be poly. My husband and I have been together for over 7 years. The last 5 have been in the lifestyle (swingers). About a year ago I realized that I started to consider my favorite single boy on...
    sisikat sisikat 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 20, 2015

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    Love males & females:) Always have!

    Thing is...I never feel satisfied with one or the other...so why not have both??? "I believe love should be multiplied, not divided" -Kody Brown
    sublimelife sublimelife 26-30, F 5 Responses Dec 10, 2013

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    kellner27 kellner27 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am a very happily married wife

    but a curious woman about polygamy. I