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I Am Curious About the Dominant Submissive Lifestyle

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 5,610 People

    End Of Challenge

    Squeezing my rental into the far too narrow space across the street I couldn’t help but smile.   It was almost a year ago to the day that at this very same restaurant we enjoyed a late lunch after a day of lustful play, our first ever meeting. This time much different...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Dec 22, 2012

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    If you are a new sub

    and have questions.. feel free to msg me and Ill try to give you my perspective as a Dom
    guyhere4u guyhere4u 46-50, M Nov 8, 2014

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    I've talked with my husband time

    after time that I desire to be in a D/s relationship, and while he likes the idea he is not strong willed enough to be the Dominant I need. I really feel it would change the dynamic in our marriage as he feels like I am not as respectful to him as I could be, or that I don't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses May 22

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    I am looking for a dom

    who can use me on a regular basis. Message me if you are interested.
    RedRidingGirl RedRidingGirl 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 8, 2014

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    Still Curious... about having a sub lady.

    The possibilities are endless determined by both parties. I don't see it as having labels and rules as much as an outgrowth of connection and love, and a desire to push the limits of pleasure in a safe way. I would love to chat and explore this with any curious ladies, or...
    mysihba mysihba 61-65, M Apr 17

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    Interviewing A Potential Dom

    Most submissives can tell unending stories about what they have had to do, write or experience to be accepted by a Dom. I have ended that mode of behavior and thinking for myself. I now require that any potential Dom I might be willing to bring into my life, must first pass...
    sharonsub sharonsub 26-30, F 13 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    I am curious. I'm new here.

    I never knew what to call it but I love to please and to be used like a F doll, especially with older men.
    CuriousKatie19 CuriousKatie19 18-21, F 11 Responses Jul 6

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    Punishment #4

    My MASTER told me to post this as a punishment, well, atleast up untill the comma lolI must not call my Master a dirty old perv, even if he isI must not call my Master a dirty old perv, even if he isI must not call my Master a dirty old perv, even if he isI must not call my...
    blackmoonlight blackmoonlight 26-30, F 8 Responses Dec 3, 2011

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    I have dabbled in BDSM

    for years. I have dominated both men and women. I have been submissive to both women and men. My latest experience was being submissive to a kinky lady I know.
    Cowboy6666 Cowboy6666 51-55, M 1 Response Dec 23, 2014

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    Satisfying Mistress: A Weekend Of Ultimate Excitement & Embarrassment (part 2)

    The story is a continuation of  “Satisfying Mistress:  A Weekend of Ultimate Excitement & Embarrassment       Satisfying Mistress, Part 2 Sunday My eyes fly open and I find myself staring straight at the ceiling. Turning I see its 5:13am, it’s still dark...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jan 22, 2012

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    Can one go from a person

    who is used to control and getting their way to letting go and becoming a sub?
    arogers1022 arogers1022 22-25, M 2 Responses May 20

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    I hope it's okay that I continue to share my

    experiences on here as I continue to discover myself and learn about the lifestyle. I have a feeling I'll be posting quite a bit for a while. Thanks for putting up with me ;-) Best diet plan ever: become a submissive and **** at least twice a day. Also, allow your Dom to...
    nickels513 nickels513 26-30, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    First Step

    I went out on Friday night to see my friend's band. Afterwards we all went out and their guitarist caught my eye. Unknown to me i'd caught his eye months earlier when I kept cropping up in his friend's group photos on Facebook. I guess neither of us were on the ball because it...
    Bleed Bleed 31-35, F 8 Responses May 19, 2012

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    My Turn In The Drivers Seat

    Arriving at the pier just before noon we walk hand in hand towards the far end, almost 300 feet out into the crystal clear gulf waters. The breeze so slight that even with the sheerness of your sun dress we have no worries of an accidental flashing.  Your hands sweaty, I’m...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jul 11, 2012

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    I want to be caught cross dressing.

    forced to oral and anal 2 men
    prcarter prcarter 61-65, M 15 Responses Mar 10, 2014

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    why is it that if u seek a dom/daddydom online

    they never want to get to know u. all they want is to just start barking orders. sorry i dont play that way. first off in order for me to submit I must respect u. in order for me to respect u i must first know u. why is thst so damn hard to understand?!?!
    WickedlilAngel WickedlilAngel 31-35, F 7 Responses Jan 4

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    http://daddysmimi.tumblr.

    com Babygirls profile
    daydreamer2293 daydreamer2293 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 24

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    I'm looking for good reference books

    that get into punishment and reward. I just read 'The Loving Dominant' and it was pretty good but not exactly what I was looking for. I want a book more about daily life of a D/s relationship- especially for beginners.
    nickels513 nickels513 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm looking for a sub ,

    preferably long term, who is willing to be obedient. In return you will be taken care of and kept safe. I understand submission comes after respect and that Dosent happen in a day , but I'm patient. If you are interested, pm me or ki-k me at 1785702
    piyush93 piyush93 22-25, M Jun 2

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    I'd just like to say

    that while I haven't posted anything on here yet and I am new to this for the most part, you all make me feel like I'm not a freak and I'm part of a community. I love all your stories and I love learning about D/s. I always wanted this I just didn't know it was a thing. I...
    nickels513 nickels513 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 21

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    Your Text ... My Smile

    Your short, crisp text to me simply read, check email. I couldn't help but smile. You were up to something for sure. You knew as we had spoken only hours earlier I'd be at a business dinner. You were playing with me and I loved the instant breathless anticipation. Even at...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jun 9, 2012

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    The Erotic Side Of D/s

    Not everyone will understand, but those who do.... ^-^ DELICIOUS...
    RedRubies RedRubies 36-40, F 13 Responses Dec 24, 2012

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    In My Peak Of Curiousity.. Dominant Female

    Ok.. Here it goes, I am a 21 years old female and I really am curious in this Dominant-Submissive "Lifestyle". These all started from reading this book series 50 Shades. At first, I was like, "OMG, that's sick, this dude needs help." but in a long run, I was getting more hooked...
    bossychiq bossychiq 22-25, F 16 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    Why is it that the men on EP claiming to be

    Dominant always inboxing saying things like do you know what I'd do to you , you'd be so sore ect, it's like they all are online dominants. It's very tacky and annoying as I love to have conversation about many things, I didn't think D/s relationships were about saying how good...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jun 2

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    Sweet Dreams

    You're lying in bed on your stomach, and I'm leaning up against you pressing my body against yours. I've placed a blindfold over your eyes, so that there will be an element of surprise in everything I do to you. I want you to be uncertain of what to expect next from me. I move on...
    ProfMan ProfMan 56-60, M 6 Responses May 9, 2011

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    A Devoted sub is a Jewel:

    I commented on a posting from someone else recently on how I viewed a devoted sub as a jewel. It was just a few sentences and after I submitted it I kept thinking about what I had just posted. And how much it really meant to me. There are so many men and women who say they are...
    Satalite150 Satalite150 46-50, M 8 Responses May 17, 2011

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    guyhere4u guyhere4u 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    I am infinitely curious.

    The brief D/s relationship I had was so great. He absolutely adored my curiosity and openness to try new things. I still wonder how he seemed to know what I wanted and needed before I even did. He was ok and accepting of ALL of me, no matter how dark I thought it was. I could...
    JoyinDarkness35 JoyinDarkness35 36-40, F 6 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    Being With Mistress

    Not clear for the reason meeting at this exact location. I was a little early as was expected. She was explicit to wait for her in the corner of the concourse of RSW by the Thomas Edison statue next to the electric car which he invented in 1903. Still runs it says. And there...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Apr 21, 2012

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    I am new to EP and to the dominant-submissive

    culture. I would like to find a Master or a Mistress.
    Mimicupcake Mimicupcake 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 4

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    So You Wanna Live The Life?

    I do not pretend to represent everyone and every taste so you may or may not agree with what I have posted. However from what I have learned in my life and from witnessing others in the lifestyle I feel that what I have posted is as true and real as can be. OK so you've read the...
    amysdaddy amysdaddy 41-45, M 22 Responses Jan 17, 2013

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    Cyber, Fantasy, Intense Whispers With Mistress Last Night

    Roll over … Face down on your bed … pillow positioned perfectly to lift and present your sweet *** to me My hands cup and squeeze your cheeks together With small kisses I savor the taste of your flesh The soft firm mound of each cheek licked, sucked and kissed A...
    deleted deleted 26-30 13 Responses Mar 14, 2012

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    When a sub is abandoned by a Dom,

    how can we do aftercare for ourselves? Please help. I'm drowning here.
    heyjude68 heyjude68 46-50, F 6 Responses Jun 5

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    I Need to be Dominated.

    I am a married man and I am dominant in every aspect of my life, however it is been some time that I feel the need to be dominated. I am new to this lifestyle and I only had a short on line experience with a Mistress last summer here on EP. It was perfect but I stupidly stood...
    subbietiger subbietiger 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 23

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    I am a dom. I need some friends from this thread

    that I can personally/privately discuss certain situations. if you don't mind listening and lending advice add me and identify yourself as dom or sub in a message please
    arogers1022 arogers1022 22-25, M 5 Responses May 19

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    Wow guys and gals- this is a bit more difficult

    with kids. Anyone else into D/s and have kids? I'd love to chat.
    nickels513 nickels513 26-30, F 8 Responses 5 days ago

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    Submissive ... Or Suggestive?

    I have long been curious about the dynamics between a Dominant and a Submissive, the exchange of power, and the levels of trust that have been established.Quite often, I come across people .. men in particular, that claim to be Dominant. After talking with them for a while or...
    MissSass MissSass 31-35, F 6 Responses May 18, 2013

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    Hey all, I'm a little stuck.

    I've been a submissive for 2 years now, my first and only Dominant taught me everything He knew and really brought out and made me realise my need to submit. We have parted ways now, but i'll always be thankful for the experience He has given me. Since then, I have found...
    LadyDraven LadyDraven 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    As An Inexperienced Sub, I Am Seeking A Dom..

    The Dom/sub lifestyle isn't something I have much experience with, but I'm ready to take things further and find the right Dom for me. I need someone that is willing to teach me, and can be patient, yet firm with me as I learn and we explore the lifestyle together. I am eager to...
    alii95 alii95 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 7, 2013

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    I can not stand when men just assume.

    ... Some think that because you are a strong alpha female you in no way can be submissive.....REALLY.....and think its a joke.....REALLY OK....I don't know much...I am learning....and heres what I have learned so far..... It takes a strong girl to be a submissive....people...
    ladyamelia ladyamelia 41-45, F 5 Responses Sep 17, 2014

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    I have found that after I've completely come to

    terms with my affinity for this life style and I told my husband and we have been having fun exploring that I have more confidence (not that I lacked it before)- I guess maybe confidence is the wrong word. Maybe self-awareness is a better way to put it... anyway in this process...
    nickels513 nickels513 26-30, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    The Dance

    There are times when I feel I will drown from the ache and hunger to be yours You have claimed small parts of me, pushed me to limits that keep me craving for more. The touch, the soft command, the longing to fill me with the release you know I need. So selfless is your act...
    gingerpie71 gingerpie71 36-40, F 8 Responses Mar 3, 2012

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    My second experiences with my female

    boss: After my first experience with my female boss she asked me to wear no pan.ties and no b.ra for next week, only mini skirt and a shirt. Again at 6 pm when every body gone she came down stairs with st.rap on di.ldo and no bra, I was still typing. She ordered me to take off...
    73sara 73sara 41-45, F 6 Responses May 4

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    A New Task At The Cinema.

    She walked in the theatre, trying to look confident.Her master had ordered her to buy herself a button up dress the day before.She had chosen a pale coloured linen dress. It buttoned up all up the front and it's cut gave her a flattering cleavage.Underneath, she wore very little...
    MrSquishy MrSquishy 41-45, M 4 Responses Jun 18, 2013

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    Help please! I have been married

    for 10 years and we are now both on this new D/s journey together. I have always been interested in the life style, but not my husband. He is natural Dom though. He has done a lot of reading and so have I, but I want to learn from a real sub and not just some book. Thank you...
    stang12920 stang12920 31-35, F 4 Responses May 14

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    D/s Relationships and Personal Responsibility

    Everyone knows someone who has had a horrifying dating/relationship story, and while our sympathies are extended in most cases, at times we do a face palm as and ask, “What the hell? How could you have let this happen??" Ok, so you don’t think this. But I do. (You should pity...
    RedRubies RedRubies 36-40, F 21 Responses May 18, 2012

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