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I Am Curious About the Dominant Submissive Lifestyle

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 5,533 People

    I am infinitely curious.

    The brief D/s relationship I had was so great. He absolutely adored my curiosity and openness to try new things. I still wonder how he seemed to know what I wanted and needed before I even did. He was ok and accepting of ALL of me, no matter how dark I thought it was. I could...
    JoyinDarkness35 JoyinDarkness35 36-40, F 5 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    Actually, I prefer the dominant role.

    I am very particular about the males if I will play with them, very selective. I generally prefer females.
    MotherSue MotherSue 41-45, F 7 Responses Jun 14, 2014

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    As An Inexperienced Sub, I Am Seeking A Dom..

    The Dom/sub lifestyle isn't something I have much experience with, but I'm ready to take things further and find the right Dom for me. I need someone that is willing to teach me, and can be patient, yet firm with me as I learn and we explore the lifestyle together. I am eager to...
    alii95 alii95 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 7, 2013

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    Yes - in my quest to write a story

    for every experience on my list, I once again have to write something for almost-the-same subject as the last one! Serves me right for pinching so many of my former Dom's experiences ;D
    BSTisapain BSTisapain 51-55, F 1 Response Oct 22, 2014

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    Sweet Dreams

    You're lying in bed on your stomach, and I'm leaning up against you pressing my body against yours. I've placed a blindfold over your eyes, so that there will be an element of surprise in everything I do to you. I want you to be uncertain of what to expect next from me. I move on...
    ProfMan ProfMan 56-60, M 6 Responses May 9, 2011

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    submissive role. In my life personal

    and in business I make all the decisions. I am hard to tame! I secretly desire to submit to the point of aching. I am a Christian. Work with children. Definitely not supposed to be into this lifestyle. I just want to meet someone I can trust who is strong and patient enough...
    desiringcontrol desiringcontrol 41-45, F 4 Responses Jul 26, 2014

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    I've had one relationship with a Dominant lover.

    It wasn't a "lifestyle" kind of thing, just the two of us having dinner and then having D/s sex over a period of a few months. It was the most freeing experience...but, at the same time, it wasn't. I learned that I loved being hurt physically (permissively) and that I could...
    a6m5zerosen a6m5zerosen 31-35, F Sep 3, 2014

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    Is it possible to meet?

    .... Is it actually possible to meet a female sub on EP??? I hope so I don't seem to have any luck on the BDSM sites .....
    rightthr7 rightthr7 46-50, M 2 Responses Mar 27

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    How I Became a Dom, And Why It Made a Better Marriage

    My wife and I had been married for two years, and things were slipping.   She was in Med school, and it was taking all of her energy.  I had been working to support ant care for her for those two years (married the Saturday before school started, year 1). ...
    malthius411 malthius411 31-35, M 29 Responses Oct 6, 2006

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    I've been a sub without a Dom

    for 14 years. As much as I want to hate it and as much as I try to convince myself I don't need it, it never works. My husband was the best Dom in the world until life pulled him into a rut he will never get out of. He swears he wants to be my Dom and won't let me find another...
    BabyGirlMX BabyGirlMX 41-45, F 4 Responses May 3

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    The Erotic Side Of D/s

    Not everyone will understand, but those who do.... ^-^ DELICIOUS...
    RedRubies RedRubies 36-40, F 13 Responses Dec 24, 2012

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    Help please! I have been married

    for 10 years and we are now both on this new D/s journey together. I have always been interested in the life style, but not my husband. He is natural Dom though. He has done a lot of reading and so have I, but I want to learn from a real sub and not just some book. Thank you...
    stang12920 stang12920 31-35, F 4 Responses May 14

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    End Of Challenge

    Squeezing my rental into the far too narrow space across the street I couldn’t help but smile.   It was almost a year ago to the day that at this very same restaurant we enjoyed a late lunch after a day of lustful play, our first ever meeting. This time much different...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Dec 22, 2012

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    Can one go from a person

    who is used to control and getting their way to letting go and becoming a sub?
    arogers1022 arogers1022 22-25, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    The Dance

    There are times when I feel I will drown from the ache and hunger to be yours You have claimed small parts of me, pushed me to limits that keep me craving for more. The touch, the soft command, the longing to fill me with the release you know I need. So selfless is your act...
    gingerpie71 gingerpie71 36-40, F 8 Responses Mar 3, 2012

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    I recently started being a sub my dom keeps

    telling me he's going to help me with this journey. I'm curious to see how submissive I can be I try to obey my dom but I keep talking out of line. I don't mean too but I can't agree to everything I have an opinion as well I bet that last line will get my dom upset but it's true...
    Tai18 Tai18 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 23, 2014

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    subpop subpop 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 18, 2014

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    I Need to be Dominated.

    I am a married man and I am dominant in every aspect of my life, however it is been some time that I feel the need to be dominated. I am new to this lifestyle and I only had a short on line experience with a Mistress last summer here on EP. It was perfect but I stupidly stood...
    subbietiger subbietiger 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 23

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    Still Curious... about having a sub lady.

    The possibilities are endless determined by both parties. I don't see it as having labels and rules as much as an outgrowth of connection and love, and a desire to push the limits of pleasure in a safe way. I would love to chat and explore this with any curious ladies, or...
    mysihba mysihba 61-65, M Apr 17

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    Your Text ... My Smile

    Your short, crisp text to me simply read, check email. I couldn't help but smile. You were up to something for sure. You knew as we had spoken only hours earlier I'd be at a business dinner. You were playing with me and I loved the instant breathless anticipation. Even at...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jun 9, 2012

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    Satisfying Mistress: A Weekend Of Ultimate Excitement & Embarrassment (part 2)

    The story is a continuation of  “Satisfying Mistress:  A Weekend of Ultimate Excitement & Embarrassment       Satisfying Mistress, Part 2 Sunday My eyes fly open and I find myself staring straight at the ceiling. Turning I see its 5:13am, it’s still dark...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jan 22, 2012

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    First Step

    I went out on Friday night to see my friend's band. Afterwards we all went out and their guitarist caught my eye. Unknown to me i'd caught his eye months earlier when I kept cropping up in his friend's group photos on Facebook. I guess neither of us were on the ball because it...
    Bleed Bleed 31-35, F 8 Responses May 19, 2012

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    Interviewing A Potential Dom

    Most submissives can tell unending stories about what they have had to do, write or experience to be accepted by a Dom. I have ended that mode of behavior and thinking for myself. I now require that any potential Dom I might be willing to bring into my life, must first pass...
    sharonsub sharonsub 26-30, F 13 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    In My Peak Of Curiousity.. Dominant Female

    Ok.. Here it goes, I am a 21 years old female and I really am curious in this Dominant-Submissive "Lifestyle". These all started from reading this book series 50 Shades. At first, I was like, "OMG, that's sick, this dude needs help." but in a long run, I was getting more hooked...
    bossychiq bossychiq 22-25, F 16 Responses Oct 22, 2012

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    A New Task At The Cinema.

    She walked in the theatre, trying to look confident.Her master had ordered her to buy herself a button up dress the day before.She had chosen a pale coloured linen dress. It buttoned up all up the front and it's cut gave her a flattering cleavage.Underneath, she wore very little...
    MrSquishy MrSquishy 41-45, M 3 Responses Jun 18, 2013

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    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jun 21, 2014

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    i would like to try an 'online' relationship.

    if there is any females out there that are thinking about Dom/Sub and would like to try online. then please send me a post..we could chat first and see if we ' click '..there would be no pressure...
    thissimpleman thissimpleman 46-50, M 3 Responses Jul 11, 2014

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    I am a dom. I need some friends from this thread

    that I can personally/privately discuss certain situations. if you don't mind listening and lending advice add me and identify yourself as dom or sub in a message please
    arogers1022 arogers1022 22-25, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    slavesindee slavesindee 56-60, M Oct 29, 2014

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    I want to be caught cross dressing.

    forced to oral and anal 2 men
    prcarter prcarter 61-65, M 15 Responses Mar 10, 2014

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    I am new to EP and to the dominant-submissive

    culture. I would like to find a Master or a Mistress.
    Mimicupcake Mimicupcake 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 4

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    I love to be tied up

    and watch my wife with another woman
    sub6667 sub6667 61-65, M 2 Responses Oct 1, 2014

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    101 Ideas To Make Your Slave Feel Owned (i.e. Loved)

    (repost from another site)One of the main factors, for me in feeling truly Owned is to be constantly reminded throughout the day of Master's control. These reminders can be subtle or really obtrusive (heheheh). The more often a slave is reminded of her submission, the deeper it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 9, 2011

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    I would really like to know more about it,

    feel free to message me if you're interested in telling me more about it. :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have dabbled in BDSM

    for years. I have dominated both men and women. I have been submissive to both women and men. My latest experience was being submissive to a kinky lady I know.
    Cowboy6666 Cowboy6666 51-55, M 1 Response Dec 23, 2014

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    My Turn In The Drivers Seat

    Arriving at the pier just before noon we walk hand in hand towards the far end, almost 300 feet out into the crystal clear gulf waters. The breeze so slight that even with the sheerness of your sun dress we have no worries of an accidental flashing.  Your hands sweaty, I’m...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jul 11, 2012

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    I've talked with my husband time

    after time that I desire to be in a D/s relationship, and while he likes the idea he is not strong willed enough to be the Dominant I need. I really feel it would change the dynamic in our marriage as he feels like I am not as respectful to him as I could be, or that I don't...
    TakingBackReality TakingBackReality 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I Failed Mistress

    I knew I shouldn’t … heck, I knew I couldn’t.  There was no ambiguity in instruction.  So why so bad this day … I could think of nothing else but you.  A bulge … a hand in the pocket that lingering a bit too long sure signs of my pending failure. If I had thought...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses May 3, 2012

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    Just Be Yourself. It's Ok.....really.

    I 'm someone who's been fortunate enough to discover and live in the BDSM world near Portland, Oregon. The one common theme I hear from new people is the feeling they are all alone or they are not good people for feeling this way or they are simply weird. While I understand those...
    TheTalltreeGuy TheTalltreeGuy 51-55, M 12 Responses Jan 30, 2008

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    Punishment #4

    My MASTER told me to post this as a punishment, well, atleast up untill the comma lolI must not call my Master a dirty old perv, even if he isI must not call my Master a dirty old perv, even if he isI must not call my Master a dirty old perv, even if he isI must not call my...
    blackmoonlight blackmoonlight 26-30, F 8 Responses Dec 3, 2011

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    So You Wanna Live The Life?

    I do not pretend to represent everyone and every taste so you may or may not agree with what I have posted. However from what I have learned in my life and from witnessing others in the lifestyle I feel that what I have posted is as true and real as can be. OK so you've read the...
    amysdaddy amysdaddy 41-45, M 22 Responses Jan 17, 2013

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    A Devoted sub is a Jewel:

    I commented on a posting from someone else recently on how I viewed a devoted sub as a jewel. It was just a few sentences and after I submitted it I kept thinking about what I had just posted. And how much it really meant to me. There are so many men and women who say they are...
    Satalite150 Satalite150 46-50, M 8 Responses May 17, 2011

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    I am looking for a dom

    who can use me on a regular basis. Message me if you are interested.
    RedRidingGirl RedRidingGirl 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 8, 2014

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    Being Submissive Really Fulfills Me

    This is a crazy thing for ME to be saying!  I've always been fiercely independent and NEVER was the type of woman to "serve" a man.  I grew up watching my mother sell herself out (and us) for men.  I watched her kiss their ***** and take all their...
    MysticWriter MysticWriter 36-40, F 42 Responses Sep 16, 2006

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    Submissive ... Or Suggestive?

    I have long been curious about the dynamics between a Dominant and a Submissive, the exchange of power, and the levels of trust that have been established.Quite often, I come across people .. men in particular, that claim to be Dominant. After talking with them for a while or...
    MissSass MissSass 31-35, F 6 Responses May 18, 2013

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    daydreamer2293 daydreamer2293 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 24

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