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I Am Currently A Childless Mother

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    I Don'T Think I'Ll Ever Be The Same

    When I found out I was pregnant, I became a mom. Something just changed in me and I don't think I can ever go back to the way I was before. It's like once you're a mom, you're a mom until the day you die, even if you don't have a child. I had a miscarriage at five weeks and it...
    halfbloodprincess halfbloodprincess 18-21, F Oct 7, 2013

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    There And Back And Thoughts On Home....

    25 hour bus ride, back to Texas, back to my home town. The old house I grew up in still stands and hasn't changed all that much. The marks on the door frame still mark my growth. I've only grown 4" since 1989. My father and mother, grown old. The trees in the yard...
    TriumphGirl TriumphGirl 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 28, 2009

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    I lost my birth mother in many ways. I was about 5 or 6 when I lost her. She was very depressed, and her way to solving the problem was drinking. That was the first way I lost her...
    Young2Wise Young2Wise 18-21, F Aug 29

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    My mother lies to create conflict between me, my sister and our dad. Her and my dad are separated but she still does it. Her family blame my dad but it has become obvious to me in...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 30

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    catlover031 catlover031 13-15, F Aug 24

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    Sometimes when people say oh but she's a mother, it is often addressed to women who are at home and don't have another job apart from being a mother. I can say that a mother is a...
    natdes natdes 41-45, F Aug 26

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    My mother died almost nine years ago, the day before I turned 14. It's been a long time but I never stopped missing her. She was a wonderful mother and a wonderful woman. I'm glad...
    Troianne Troianne 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    Young2Wise Young2Wise 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 30

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    Generally I screen my calls from my mother, brother, and sister-in-law. I was enjoying a movie when my narcissistic mother called yesterday to "check in to see how we are." She...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 31

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