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I Am Currently Being Cheated On

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    Living Through A Typical Midlife Crisis Without My Spouse

    The same old story... married 24 years, 3 kids and one day he said I'm not happy. (I'm the same size I was when we got married, petite 110lbs, I'm healthy, workout, don't nag and we never fought - I guess that makes me boring) He really had no explanation except that our sex...
    mmartindale mmartindale 41-45 1 Response Jan 31, 2012

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    I Don't Know If I Can Stay

    I recently got in my husbands cell phone only to find a video of him having sex with a girl, I got in his phone yesterday only to find naked pictures of a girl, and naked pictures of him. I don't know what to do any advice would be nice
    broken513 broken513 31-35, F 5 Responses Jun 19, 2012

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    Lupusinignem Lupusinignem 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 29

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    You promised me everything would be ok. You kissed me on the cheek and whispered how much you loved me, I made you so happy. LIES! Bullshit lies! You fed me your lies right...
    xxlouisebaby xxlouisebaby 22-25, F Aug 30

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    I have this best friend that I've known for as long as i can remember. This past january her mom died. Now she always tries to get attention in any way she can. Which includes...
    peachlove516 peachlove516 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 25

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    Update! There's hope guys - don't settle! Last time I posted it had been only one month since being cheated on - and I was a mess. Only thing I was sure of is that there was no way...
    imatulipinacup imatulipinacup 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 27

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    I'm gay. Last September, I met this guy online a week before he moves to Edinburgh to study abroad for a year. I grew fond of him almost immediately and stayed in touch with him...
    Canonea Canonea 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 30

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    I have been cheated on more than a couple times, my latest ex cheated on me but is now texting me all the time.part of me feels like hey karma is a ***** because he says the new...
    LoudMouse LoudMouse 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 6

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    I has been long before my boyfriend told me this he will never do anything wrong ever to broke my heart when I used to ask him about his gal pals and especially about One coz I had...
    Blackangel4u Blackangel4u 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    My husband cheated on me online. He never met the woman but many of their conversations were very heart felt and emotional. He even asked her to marry him twice. (he claims he was...
    hasinalady hasinalady 46-50, F 5 Responses Sep 1

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    So...I am just going to do some point forms here to give a basis: I cannot combine the past 5 years into one story but as I go I would like to share my experiences and would love...
    Deflatedone Deflatedone 36-40, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I cheated on my ex husband with a childhood boyfriend who has a habit of coming in and out of my life. He was my first kiss and a few other firsts... We did it at the bottle shop...
    lilbirdydoll lilbirdydoll 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    I've never cheated! I've been cheated on though. Cheaters never seem to get the concept of how much pain they inflict on others! Cheating is selfish... Just be single if you want...
    Mytime32 Mytime32 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    I had a best friend. She was silly and crazy to be around. Most days she was depressed. It was always, "Why don't they want to hang out with me. I'm never included in the...
    HKT1993 HKT1993 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 7

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    I was lied to every day for four years. He lied about being married to another woman and it's only this last week he has come clean about it. I feel used and also like I've been...
    Mimimanxcat Mimimanxcat 31-35, F 9 Responses Aug 24

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    Well we were living separately in two different cities for the whole of 2009 and after being apart for so long I guess and being frustrated with me for not giving her enough...
    kicks2014 kicks2014 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 29

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    Whats wrong with me? Why is it that he's the only guy i cant say no to. I need someone to explain to me what they think is going on because i cant take not knowing. Me & this guy...
    pinkk44 pinkk44 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 31

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    I've never been able to stand being lied too. But last year I got cheated on. It's was slyly public In the way he went about it by tweeting things that I thought would be relevant...
    LiveLongerIfYouLaugh LiveLongerIfYouLaugh 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 31

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    I was accused of having anal sex with another man so I took a lie detector test and my test clearly stated no deception indicated that I was telling the truth but my boyfriend...
    Katie0512 Katie0512 41-45, F Sep 1

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    I just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me. He told me all these lies like I love you and I want to be with you when it turns out he has another girlfriend. I suspected it...
    Savone52798 Savone52798 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 16

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    I cheated on my girlfriend a couple times with some random girls, I know this is so wrong and yet I couldn't stop myself from this.
    cjcj0967 cjcj0967 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 18

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    My ex of 4 years cheated on and gave me an STD. I hate his ******* guys but yet still love him. I have had a little over 2 weeks of no contact and he had tried contacting me once...
    brokenhearted7108 brokenhearted7108 31-35, F Aug 20

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    Well I used to date someone and recently i found out that he cheated on me with my bestfriend. My bestfriend turn him down and he came back for me.. And I found out that he asked...
    NynnaDavis NynnaDavis 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    Its been over a year since I found out my ex had been cheating on me and its been almost a year since I last heard from him at all. I have to start by saying I miss him every day...
    harlow8776 harlow8776 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    We were in a relationship for 4 years and she decided that one night with a random guy from the bar was more important then us. She thought she wouldn't find out but it was my...
    Pantyskater14 Pantyskater14 31-35, M Aug 27

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    I cheated on my girlfriender know I'm changing 4times already. I stop wanting to be better but the dumby i am now I learn my lesson after I loose her. I want to change completely...
    puppet13 puppet13 18-21, M Aug 28

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    My husband of 25 yrs cheated on me , I just found out for sure May. 27 an I can't think of nothing else , the girl was his sons girlfriend and she is pregnant supposed to b by my...
    hizwife25 hizwife25 46-50, F 4 Responses Aug 29

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    We had been together nearly two years when I found out he cheated. He admitted what he done but lied about the whole truth which I found out later, it was a one time thing. He's my...
    karennxx karennxx 18-21, F Aug 31

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    I found out I was cheated on 3 months ago, he had known since my birthday in february and looked me straight in the eye as if nothing had happened. He's also my best friends...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 31

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    My husband often makes me feel like myself and our kids come in second to his friends and video games and whatever else he can distract himself with. I know it could be just me...
    AshWilkie AshWilkie 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    Well i havent cheated yet but heres the thing Me and My husband have a mutual friend who i have always known has a crush on me. Tonight he told me he wanted more than to just b...
    texaschick85 texaschick85 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 31

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    I cheated on the love of my life, I wanted so much more because the relationship hadn't changed in a year. She wants to work it out but I don't know if it will work out. I'm trying...
    PurpleJay PurpleJay 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    The last guy i dated cheated on me. With a dude.
    666LexiBabe666 666LexiBabe666 18-21, F 35 Responses Sep 3

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    I have been married to my husband for ten years and he has cheated on me for most of those years. I believe that the cheating started after the loss of our first child. I was...
    FiestyJacqueline FiestyJacqueline 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 5

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    I'll never understand why people cheat. My wife cheated because I talked to an ex. Clearly her cheating was more hurtful than me talking to an ex. Yet I do not feel an urge to...
    Dartanian Dartanian 36-40, M 2 Responses Sep 5

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    Yep sadly ALL my girlfriends cheated on me! Why? Phew still not 100% sure about that, mostly they said that people cant fall in love with me. Strange cuz after weeks or months they...
    ChipmunkTV ChipmunkTV 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 6

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    my ex cheated on me for two years ✌️
    mablerylee mablerylee 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I cheated years ago but lately the guilt is overwhelming. We have the perfect relationship so I don't want to say anything to ruin it but I can't stand not telling him..
    bakerv bakerv 22-25, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    Literally ALL my girlfriends cheated on me. Thats basically why I became bisexual... I do love women but I dont trust them anymore. All girls lied to me and I dont even no why! If...
    ChipmunkTV ChipmunkTV 22-25, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I cheated on my husband with another guy while we were separated (still is) and he completely blew up on me and called me a ***** even though we aren't technically together. Some...
    MaryAlias MaryAlias 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Never cheated. I always viewed cheaters as cowardly and pathetic and I'm neither of those things.
    CantankerousBabe CantankerousBabe 26-30, F 4 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    I love being nude, and I'm an exhibitionalist, so I'm on both sides of the fence, one side, I would for nudity to be legalized, but on the other, that would take the thrill outta...
    LigerTigerMixed LigerTigerMixed 18-21, M Aug 18

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    I am currently working as a project manager. I have been doing management work since a long time but I have very big problem at the current office due to my pushover nature. I am...
    neo89x neo89x 22-25 1 Response Aug 19

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    Currently naked now I like being free and I do like to just play with my **** sometimes any guys do this or feel the same way?
    JoeA115 JoeA115 16-17, M 5 Responses Aug 21

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    Critical Sociology. Edited by Paul Connerton. Published in 1976. It was set as a text in graduate school (for me & my cohort) back in those Pleistocene days. I liked the message...
    KenWX KenWX 61-65, M Sep 3

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    Last night was horrid! Laying in bed alone and trying to get warm, no matter how many blankets I had or what warm comfy pjs I had on; I was as cold as ice. Currently having a cold...
    ErinTripp94 ErinTripp94 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I still keep going round to his. He still hugs me and tells me he loves me. I helped him buy jeans yesterday, jeans his new Jewish women will probably comment on. As if jdate is...
    Bluesrain Bluesrain 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 17

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