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I Am Dating a Married Man

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    I was wondering if anyone can give me advice

    for the situation I am in. I have been with my husband for 12 years, married 8 with 2 sons. 4 years ago my husband had a mental breakdown and hasn't been the same since. He can't hold a job, he is severely depressed, he has bouts of anger and rage, he is unintentionally...
    Cindermoon Cindermoon 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    And we are still married

    after 26 years{to each other}! Don't know if that is a record, but certainly does seem very strange anymore. Nudge, nudge, wink, wink.
    canuckrider canuckrider 46-50, F 3 Responses Dec 14

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    Meet The Wife Night

    Well, what is there to say. I awoke from a dead sleep to my phone going off... Midnight?! It was him. He said, "Are you ready?" Still groggy I was completely at a loss for what he was talking about. "To meet her, we are going to Ihop and we'll meet you there. By the way her...
    anotherinnocent anotherinnocent 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 21, 2013

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    About 12 years ago I met him on a girls night

    out. Immediately we connected...we began dating. I had just divorced my husband 1 year prior and was raising my two pre-teen children alone. He was divorced and living about an hour away and had visitation of his son every other weekend. His job required him to travel almost...
    SouixZTG SouixZTG 51-55, F 1 Response Apr 22

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    I didn't mean to fall

    so in love with him. We started out innocently enough, he works with my father and I've known him since I was 15... There's 15 years between us, and I'm old enough now to make my own decisions (22)... I started working with my Dad, in a completely male dominated industry, in...
    everchangingfacade everchangingfacade 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 16

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    My name is Maryann and I met my husband Johnny

    in online dating website ♥ over50kiss . com ♥ His profile looked promising, even though he was 100 miles away, so after just one or two exchanges we decided to meet for lunch halfway between. And have been together for 2 years now married for one. I would advise...
    christinajames christinajames 41-45 Sep 20

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    16 months ago, You're my first eye candy the

    moment I started my job at that company.. I have always wished you would talk to me... Today, I wish you can stop looking for me or not married. It feels so good to be wrong sometimes and I hate it.
    Eqaallen Eqaallen 22-25, F Aug 5

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    Older Men Younger Women Dating Site - AgeMeet.

    com AgeMeet.com is the # 1 dating for Older Men Younger Women Dating Site, it offers a meeting place where younger women seeking older men and older men dating younger women. This will also set you free from the embarrassment and annoyance of general dating places. Here at...
    sallycc17 sallycc17 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 13 2014- INTERNATIONAL

    MISTRESS DAY. Am I correct? On this day, his wife, or She, asked him in a rhetorical manner, if he saw me today, because it was the day before Valentine's Day. We were told that this day is my day with him, because a married man would be with his wife on the actual holiday...
    PictureNoelle PictureNoelle 18-21 3 Responses Mar 21

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    Heartbroken By A Married Man

    Here's my story:  I met a married man online playing cards.  We exchanged email addresses to forward jokes, etc.  Eventually, we ended up playing online cards together every night.  I knew he was married but we became fast friends.  Neither of us...
    Prisster Prisster 41-45, F 36 Responses Feb 27, 2010

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    CRAZY, OBSESSIVE, PSYCHOTIC.

    I'm all of those and more. I love my boyfriend with all my heart, I want him with me through all that I go through. I truly love him. Being in a relationship where he's legally with some other woman and not me, but emotionally he's with me, makes me want him to be solely...
    PictureNoelle PictureNoelle 18-21 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I Ended My Relationship Today...

    I posted here a couple of months ago about being involved with a married man and just thought I would come back and update. After a lot of tears and soul searching I ended my relationship today. I'm feeling sad and lonely right now, but know that it was the right thing to do. He...
    kelri kelri 36-40, F 55 Responses Aug 30, 2010

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    Is This a New Start?

      Many of you read my story, "I'm Drawn To Married Men Like a Bad Habit" and will know of what I speak.  Within, I detailed my penchant for married men.  I finally realize that meeting married men just isn't my bad luck.  I've finally concluded...
    DOLCE84 DOLCE84 21-25, F 8 Responses Sep 19, 2007

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    MrPlank MrPlank 51-55, M Sep 14

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    He Is Married But Won't Leave Me Alone

    We met at work, he is everything a woman can possibly want.Not everybody gets him but I do, we became friends but right away we just couldnt stop making excuses to come to each other's desks to talk about anything. One night he finally admitted he was attracted to me but that we...
    sahatti sahatti 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 14, 2012

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    10yeargap.com focuses on younger women dating

    older men and it encourages age gap marriage. 10YearGap.com is not a sugar daddy site. Single women are attracted to older single men as they are polite, respectful, generous, kind, intelligent, sensitive, caring, affectionate, and understanding. Many younger women would like to...
    JessieFay JessieFay 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 2

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    I met him while working at a restaurant last

    summer. He tipped me way above the average to catch my attention. I never payed him any mind. Then about two weeks later one of my co-workers comes back from vacation and tells me that he was her husband. I never say anything about he tips to her because I didn't want to...
    hismarried05 hismarried05 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 15

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    I am 38 yrs old and two months ago a new guy

    started working for our company. He's 44. He liked me from the first day he saw me. Then he started flirting with me and I went for it. We haven't slept together because he is married and I will not sleep with him ever. We went out for drinks and kissed passionately for an hour...
    Pretty38woman Pretty38woman 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 7

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    I'm seeing a married man

    that is 17 years older than me, we talk and see each other all the time. But I can't see myself calling it a relationship because I know he will not leave his wife. Part of me feels bad and Part of me just goes along with him saying he wants to do it. Him and his wife knows my...
    BLANKstateofmind BLANKstateofmind 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    BALANCE. TRANQUILITY.

    DOOM. A long time ago, I was told that my mentality of "Balance" was self-proclaimed. I believe that something good happens to me, something just as equally bad will occur. Likewise if the situation was reversed; all just to keep the balance of not too much good nor too much...
    PictureNoelle PictureNoelle 18-21 Apr 6

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    Broke up with my married man two weeks ago

    after 8 months affair. He said he was separated from his wife 5 years ago when we were only work colleagues. But obviously via our affair. he said he never felt the way with me with anyone before; he loves me and is in love with me, want me to be in his life; wants me to be...
    angelcici angelcici 36-40, F 3 Responses May 17

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    Can You Ever Wait Too Long For The One?

    My previous story explained how I met and fell in love with a married man. Now I want to explain us... When I'm with him he smiles and I light up. I'm happy making him happy. I want to take his pain away, make his life better. He kisses me softly, touches my hair, holds me until...
    summersails summersails 22-25, F 8 Responses Feb 12, 2013

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    i love a guy.. i'm loving him

    since 5 years.. n he love me too.. but i behaved in such a way that he never knew that i love him.. after 5 long years i decided to confess.. since he is a guy of respect and decency he couldnt confess his love for me.. but i was too late coz wen i confessed i was too late.. he...
    9lilly 9lilly 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    I Am Drawn to Married Men Like A Bad Habit.

    I am finally realizing that I am drawn to married men.  On some level I choose them.  I used to think that it was just bad luck or a curse that I attracted all the married men, but have since realized that the common denominator is me, not all these married men. ...
    DOLCE84 DOLCE84 21-25, F 65 Responses Sep 5, 2007

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    I met a married man two months ago,

    he approached me and we began talking in a bar. He kissed me within five minutes of meeting him. Three dates later we had sex. And have been having sex three times a week. He works in the town that I live in, and lives here during the week, and then goes four hours home to see...
    rinda67 rinda67 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    I Know He'S Like Playing With Fire But I Like The Burn

    I met my MM 10 years ago. We were friends for 6 years before becoming "close" friends. We were in a group together. I knew his wife and children as well. His wife hated me for years which I guess made it easier. I was single, lonely, and bored. He was married, lonely, and...
    skinnygirlsoon skinnygirlsoon 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 19, 2013

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    My oh my where do I start.

    Well, for starters, I am completely heartbroken. Now before I get judged here, please note that I didnt know that he was married when i met him back in June. He was friend of one of my friend's boyfriend. She did tell me that he was in town for reasons unclear but supposedly he...
    carinosa2 carinosa2 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 14

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    Wake The Hell Up!

    Wild I know the Bible says women are the weaker vessels but it doesn't say we are the stupid vessels. But that is what we are for being involve with a married man "STUPID". It ain't love it's lust we confuse the two. Reading all the different stories and mine is just another one...
    1fool 1fool 46-50 3 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    A couple weeks ago I met a married man on one

    of the online dating sites. He email me & I knew he was married because he didn't hide that from his profile. I was interested in him because we had a lot in common. I am at point in my life that I feel I am not really ready for a LTR, I have tried but it doesn't seem to work...
    Newlife69 Newlife69 41-45, F 4 Responses Dec 9, 2013

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    DENIAL. ANGER. BARGAINING.

    DEPRESSION. ACCEPTANCE. High School Sophomore Year Health Class. The 5 stages of loss. "It doesn't necessarily always happen in this order, nor does it mean that if one emotion has already passed, you can't bounce back to that same repeated emotion." -Mr. Mazz It'll be 13...
    PictureNoelle PictureNoelle 18-21 1 Response Apr 1

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    Dating sugar mommies can be a very exciting

    experience for young men nowadays. It can also get quite intimidating if you are not fully prepared for whatever it is that lies ahead of you. If it is your first time dating sugar mommies in person, you must focus more on making it a memorable experience instead of worrying...
    GarthPasche GarthPasche 51-55, F Jun 24

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    He's wonderful. He's young,

    younger than me anyway, he's intelligent, he's everything every other guy isn't. I can tell him anything, he is my best friend. He is understanding about my schedule and I am of his. I want him where he is happiest and he is happiest married to his wife. She holds his...
    secretgirl11 secretgirl11 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    I am dating a married man

    and have children for him while I am in love with my ex
    sweetbitz sweetbitz 41-45, F 1 Response May 23

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    Off Again/on Again

    My relationship with Mr Married is quite unpredictable.  He feels guilty & calls it quits.  Then wife ****** him off & he's back again.  Then he's falling in love with me, having emotional problems dealing, bye-bye again. I took it hard this past instance...
    darlene darlene 41-45, F 8 Responses Sep 21, 2007

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    I am 17 and I'm sleeping with a guy I'm

    babysitting for It's a long story how it started and if u want to know I'll tell u Now that I'm almost 18 I want to ask him to leave his wife so that we can be together I'm not sure how to do it though
    NicoleGen NicoleGen 18-21, F 22 Responses Feb 15

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    Dating Two Married Men

    I am dating two married men and I really like both of them and I don't want them to leave their wives.  I met them both online on POF and I knew from the beginning that they were both married.  They treat me like I am the only person in the world when I am with them...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses May 14, 2008

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    Anyone Willing to Admit and Share?

    Just would like to hear others stories about how hard this is...even though I know I shouldn't be doing it.  He has never promised me that he would leave his wife...we are very realistic with each other.  He is everything that I am looking for in a man, with...
    sunnybec sunnybec 36-40, F 26 Responses Aug 29, 2007

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    So Your Dating A Married Man...me Too

    I've always seemed to get involved with Married men. Ever since I was 19. I got out of a 3 year non-married man relationship and now find myself dating another married man.  Its interesting...I usually don't find them...they usually find me.....   I think the...
    Bucklebabe85 Bucklebabe85 22-25, F 10 Responses Feb 13, 2010

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    Anyone interested in dating a married man.

    Preferably from bangalore, India. An honest request.
    philophil philophil 31-35, M May 7

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    I don't know how I found myself in this

    situation. I always disliked girls that involved themselves with men who were in relationships/married...but here I am. I feel like the biggest idiot because I know he isn't leaving her no matter what he says to me. I think he is the most selfish and inconsiderate man to be...
    Bunny808 Bunny808 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 22

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    How do i know if he's still married?

    I met this guy two months a go. He's 10 years older than me. From the first time i met him i can totally feel that there was a mutual attraction. But we didn't talk much. He talked with my dad a lot. And after awhile we've talked and seems we got a long very well. And he asked...
    LovelyLilly13 LovelyLilly13 22-25, F Dec 13

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    I would love to date another woman's husband.

    It would be great fun. To have the permission, to play and love on him. I hope to experience this one day!
    TheCuckcake TheCuckcake 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 1

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    And today is his birthday

    and I'm not spending it with him. It sucks just like every holiday/special occasion. I still have such difficulty dealing with the inadequate amount of time we have together. I'd hoped it would get better, easier more equal time spent together. His wife knows of me, accepts...
    Sneakapeek46 Sneakapeek46 46-50, F 7 Responses Apr 14

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    Dating a married man is hard.

    He whips out his wallet to pay for something and I look down and see a photo of his wife tucked into his wallet. You can imagine how that feels. Spending a few hours on one day with him at a time and cherishing the few moments you have, all the while he goes home to someone...
    hankpalmer hankpalmer 18-21, F 70 Responses Sep 10

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    MONOGAMY IN A NON MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP.

    Im "dating" an older married man. I care for him a ton I am my happiest when im with him and he helped shape me into a better person. For these reasons and my odd hispanic female loyalty ive decided to only be with him physically. Im not jealous of his wife at all because...
    SweetAsSugar10 SweetAsSugar10 22-25 12 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    We see each other almost everyday now.

    I felt that he gets closer to me now that i don't fight or argue with him. I kept my jealousy at bay and try to think first why i should be angry at him. I'm more calm now. Even if they will have another family outing tomorrow. Im thinking why would i get angry with him when...
    AtPeaceEros AtPeaceEros 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 17

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    Dating A Married Man

    I am actually going crazy about this MM situation that I am into right now I had to open my mac to search for blogs on this topic that led me here. My partner, yeah, a married man, was my classmate in graduate school about 6-7 years ago. I knew back then that he had some physical...
    gabriellecute gabriellecute 31-35, F 23 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    Am I Crazy?

    I'm also seeing a married man, someone I met on myspace. It was only sex, but now I'm starting to have feelings for him. After spending the day reading stories and advice blogs about this, I think I've lost my mind. This is never going to go anywhere and I am severely limiting...
    guzzimama guzzimama 46-50, F 34 Responses Sep 1, 2007

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    Disasterous

    I took the poll with the best ans I could because my exact ans wasn't there. To make a very long, sorted and heartbreaking story short, if you are dating a married man.... GET OUT NOW!!!!! Nothing but heartbreak can come of it & after my emotional breakdown last year over a man...
    darlene darlene 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 31, 2011

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    Both Married. My Mm's Wife Isn't Giving Him Sex And I'm Revenge Cheating.

    First off, I know that what I am doing is morally wrong.  However, I can't quit.  Rather, I don't want to quit.  I have always HATED women that are "The other woman", so this is a bit contradictory for myself.  I am in my second marriage and am only 35 years old.  My...
    barbie1975 barbie1975 31-35, F 8 Responses Jun 14, 2011

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    He's probably from around 1956,

    but I'm not sure. I'll ask his wife, she'll know.
    RicRaver RicRaver 41-45, M 4 Responses Jun 24

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