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I Am Dating a Married Man

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    JessieFay JessieFay 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 2, 2014

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    I am interested in others' opinions on this.

    MM and I have not been spending time together. I had been distancing myself, as I'd written in an earlier post, I am tired of playing second (or last) priority. We still talk mostly daily (well until today), but we have not been seeing much of each other. He's been unemployed...
    Maureen24 Maureen24 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    well not exactly dating.

    we meet have sex and then we go our seperate ways. but i am enjoying it. trying not to get attached but lately when i have sex with my wife i think of the sex i had with him.
    stlguy45 stlguy45 41-45, M Jun 5

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    littlewallflower1 littlewallflower1 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 15

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    I'm seeing a married man

    that is 17 years older than me, we talk and see each other all the time. But I can't see myself calling it a relationship because I know he will not leave his wife. Part of me feels bad and Part of me just goes along with him saying he wants to do it. Him and his wife knows my...
    BLANKstateofmind BLANKstateofmind 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 1, 2014

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    I Am Drawn to Married Men Like A Bad Habit.

    I am finally realizing that I am drawn to married men.  On some level I choose them.  I used to think that it was just bad luck or a curse that I attracted all the married men, but have since realized that the common denominator is me, not all these married men. ...
    DOLCE84 DOLCE84 18-21, F 62 Responses Sep 5, 2007

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    Off Again/on Again

    My relationship with Mr Married is quite unpredictable.  He feels guilty & calls it quits.  Then wife ****** him off & he's back again.  Then he's falling in love with me, having emotional problems dealing, bye-bye again. I took it hard this past instance...
    darlene darlene 41-45, F 8 Responses Sep 21, 2007

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    I am 38 yrs old and two months ago a new guy

    started working for our company. He's 44. He liked me from the first day he saw me. Then he started flirting with me and I went for it. We haven't slept together because he is married and I will not sleep with him ever. We went out for drinks and kissed passionately for an hour...
    Pretty38woman Pretty38woman 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 7, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    ultacc11 ultacc11 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    My name is Maryann and I met my husband Johnny

    in online dating website ♥ over50kiss . com ♥ His profile looked promising, even though he was 100 miles away, so after just one or two exchanges we decided to meet for lunch halfway between. And have been together for 2 years now married for one. I would advise...
    christinajames christinajames 41-45 Sep 20, 2014

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    I just held a grown man

    as he cried thinking about not seeing his little girl every day. As much as I can't wait to be with him all the time, I hate that he is getting divorced. He is such a good daddy. It doesn't seem fair.
    newgirI newgirI 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    My oh my where do I start.

    Well, for starters, I am completely heartbroken. Now before I get judged here, please note that I didnt know that he was married when i met him back in June. He was friend of one of my friend's boyfriend. She did tell me that he was in town for reasons unclear but supposedly he...
    carinosa2 carinosa2 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 14, 2014

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    I am seeing a Married man he is older

    than me. The thing is, is he spends very little time with me. sure we text, and I send pics. I feel like a total booty call. he says I am more than that and that he loves me but it is just, such a distant feeling. I know he isn't leaving his family for me nor do I want him too...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 13

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    I Ended My Relationship Today...

    I posted here a couple of months ago about being involved with a married man and just thought I would come back and update. After a lot of tears and soul searching I ended my relationship today. I'm feeling sad and lonely right now, but know that it was the right thing to do. He...
    kelri kelri 36-40, F 55 Responses Aug 30, 2010

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    I'm not even sure where this all began,

    or how I even got in this space... It was just a friendship. I was in a long term relationship when we met...but I was drawn to him. I knew from the start there was a possibility for thing to develop between us. It began with cordial small talk and innocent jokes, nothing...
    detailsinthefabric detailsinthefabric 22-25, F 4 Responses May 17

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    Am I Crazy?

    I'm also seeing a married man, someone I met on myspace. It was only sex, but now I'm starting to have feelings for him. After spending the day reading stories and advice blogs about this, I think I've lost my mind. This is never going to go anywhere and I am severely limiting...
    guzzimama guzzimama 46-50, F 34 Responses Sep 1, 2007

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    Well I finally have done what I should have

    done sometime ago. It's been six weeks of no contact with my MM. The ultimate betrayal as ironic as it may sound but I heard him be intimate with his wife. My MM dialed me in error and didn't realize as I heard him getting it on with his wife. All along I believed he was going...
    SideChickNoMore SideChickNoMore 46-50, F 1 Response Jun 6

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    How do i know if he's still married?

    I met this guy two months a go. He's 10 years older than me. From the first time i met him i can totally feel that there was a mutual attraction. But we didn't talk much. He talked with my dad a lot. And after awhile we've talked and seems we got a long very well. And he asked...
    LovelyLilly13 LovelyLilly13 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 13, 2014

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    Hi,i have been in a relationship with married

    man for almost 4 years,we work together, when meet him he was having an affair with another married woman, but after a year they after i meet him they broke up.Anyway so everything was going okay for us ,i didn't feel like a home wrecker because it was a habit for him to always...
    myrtle67 myrtle67 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I am dating my mm again

    for a few months now. He said he cant bear the spectacle of losing me. But last night when his wife didnt text him and looked for him, he looked so anxious. Kept checking his phone until 2am until he left. And this morning i saw his text with her, there is a kiss icon from the...
    AtPeaceEros AtPeaceEros 31-35, F 6 Responses May 26

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    He told me he was divorced.

    We've been dating for 9 months. Now he's talking about settling down, marriage and moving my 2 kids and I in with him. I'm 27 and he's 40. I see so many red flags that makes me question if he's still with his wife. When we have sex he always showers before he leaves. I've never...
    nellinaples nellinaples 26-30, F 1 Response May 26

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    And today is his birthday

    and I'm not spending it with him. It sucks just like every holiday/special occasion. I still have such difficulty dealing with the inadequate amount of time we have together. I'd hoped it would get better, easier more equal time spent together. His wife knows of me, accepts...
    Sneakapeek46 Sneakapeek46 46-50, F 7 Responses Apr 14, 2014

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    I Know He'S Like Playing With Fire But I Like The Burn

    I met my MM 10 years ago. We were friends for 6 years before becoming "close" friends. We were in a group together. I knew his wife and children as well. His wife hated me for years which I guess made it easier. I was single, lonely, and bored. He was married, lonely, and...
    skinnygirlsoon skinnygirlsoon 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 19, 2013

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    Is This a New Start?

      Many of you read my story, "I'm Drawn To Married Men Like a Bad Habit" and will know of what I speak.  Within, I detailed my penchant for married men.  I finally realize that meeting married men just isn't my bad luck.  I've finally concluded...
    DOLCE84 DOLCE84 18-21, F 8 Responses Sep 19, 2007

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    Ok so. I'm pregnant.

    And they still haven't officially filed for divorce. I haven't told anyone yet.
    newgirI newgirI 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 6

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    I would love to date another woman's husband.

    It would be great fun. To have the permission, to play and love on him. I hope to experience this one day!
    TheCuckcake TheCuckcake 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 1, 2014

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    Both Married. My Mm's Wife Isn't Giving Him Sex And I'm Revenge Cheating.

    First off, I know that what I am doing is morally wrong.  However, I can't quit.  Rather, I don't want to quit.  I have always HATED women that are "The other woman", so this is a bit contradictory for myself.  I am in my second marriage and am only 35 years old.  My...
    barbie1975 barbie1975 31-35, F 8 Responses Jun 14, 2011

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    I didn't find a right group,

    so posting here. I am married but I found a woman who struck chords. She is single though! I want to date her or at least be friends. what's the best way to approach this situation? I also know she is kinda interested in me. She flirts, tries to talk once a day at least in...
    philophil philophil 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 4

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    Ok I'm not really dating him ,

    but he keeps chasing me ! He gives me signals and confuses me . The thing is i like him and I've kissed him several times , but I can't date him . - as much as I want . I keep putting my self on his wife 's place . A kiss I could forgive , but an affair will crush me to pieces...
    liveforever1 liveforever1 22-25, F Jan 24

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    Heartbroken By A Married Man

    Here's my story:  I met a married man online playing cards.  We exchanged email addresses to forward jokes, etc.  Eventually, we ended up playing online cards together every night.  I knew he was married but we became fast friends.  Neither of us...
    Prisster Prisster 41-45, F 39 Responses Feb 27, 2010

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    He just left. I cooked dinner tonight.

    He, myself and my kids ate together. It felt so good eating as a whole family. But tonight I'm sleeping alone. He keeps saying he hopes that I am ready for what he is about to do. He said whatever it is will change my life for the better. He keeps mentioning a ring. But again...
    nellinaples nellinaples 26-30, F 1 Response May 27

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    its not good ....we try to not see each other

    but theres something there.....he does not love his wife .....she is verbally and physically abusive to him.....she makes him pay rent like he is a lodger ....they sleep in separate rooms ....its no big deal but i am sure she knows hes seeing me its been nine months .....people...
    psychicprayer psychicprayer 36-40 4 Responses May 11

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    well, not married, but living with someone.

    It started 3 months ago. He didn't tell me there was someone else. We hit it off right away. He was amazing and so much fun to be around. I was getting suspicious that maybe he was with someone, but he always denied it. We continued for two months and I fell deeper and deeper...
    irishred122 irishred122 51-55, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    He Is Married But Won't Leave Me Alone

    We met at work, he is everything a woman can possibly want.Not everybody gets him but I do, we became friends but right away we just couldnt stop making excuses to come to each other's desks to talk about anything. One night he finally admitted he was attracted to me but that we...
    sahatti sahatti 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 14, 2012

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    Meet The Wife Night

    Well, what is there to say. I awoke from a dead sleep to my phone going off... Midnight?! It was him. He said, "Are you ready?" Still groggy I was completely at a loss for what he was talking about. "To meet her, we are going to Ihop and we'll meet you there. By the way her...
    anotherinnocent anotherinnocent 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 21, 2013

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    MONOGAMY IN A NON MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP.

    Im "dating" an older married man. I care for him a ton I am my happiest when im with him and he helped shape me into a better person. For these reasons and my odd hispanic female loyalty ive decided to only be with him physically. Im not jealous of his wife at all because...
    SweetAsSugar10 SweetAsSugar10 22-25 12 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    Can You Ever Wait Too Long For The One?

    My previous story explained how I met and fell in love with a married man. Now I want to explain us... When I'm with him he smiles and I light up. I'm happy making him happy. I want to take his pain away, make his life better. He kisses me softly, touches my hair, holds me until...
    summersails summersails 22-25, F 8 Responses Feb 12, 2013

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    I don't know how I found myself in this

    situation. I always disliked girls that involved themselves with men who were in relationships/married...but here I am. I feel like the biggest idiot because I know he isn't leaving her no matter what he says to me. I think he is the most selfish and inconsiderate man to be...
    Bunny808 Bunny808 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    Dating A Married Man

    I am actually going crazy about this MM situation that I am into right now I had to open my mac to search for blogs on this topic that led me here. My partner, yeah, a married man, was my classmate in graduate school about 6-7 years ago. I knew back then that he had some physical...
    gabriellecute gabriellecute 31-35, F 22 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    A couple weeks ago I met a married man on one

    of the online dating sites. He email me & I knew he was married because he didn't hide that from his profile. I was interested in him because we had a lot in common. I am at point in my life that I feel I am not really ready for a LTR, I have tried but it doesn't seem to work...
    Newlife69 Newlife69 46-50, F 4 Responses Dec 9, 2013

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    He's wonderful. He's young,

    younger than me anyway, he's intelligent, he's everything every other guy isn't. I can tell him anything, he is my best friend. He is understanding about my schedule and I am of his. I want him where he is happiest and he is happiest married to his wife. She holds his...
    secretgirl11 secretgirl11 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 17, 2014

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    So two days ago he told his soon to be ex wife

    that he was going to ask me out on a date. She said he should wait so that I don't feel awkward and back out of being his roommate. But he said he was asking anyway and then she gave him ideas where to take me. So basically it's at least somewhat out in the open now. He also...
    newgirI newgirI 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 14

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    Dating a married man is hard.

    He whips out his wallet to pay for something and I look down and see a photo of his wife tucked into his wallet. You can imagine how that feels. Spending a few hours on one day with him at a time and cherishing the few moments you have, all the while he goes home to someone...
    hankpalmer hankpalmer 18-21, F 60 Responses Sep 10, 2014

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    We had plans to see each other this morning.

    He was going to leave work to meet me for lunch after I got out of class. I haven't heard from him at all today. He probably got swamped at work. It's just disappointing.
    littlewallflower1 littlewallflower1 22-25, F Apr 8

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    I am 28 and have been dating a 54 year old

    married guy for 2 years. He is in LA and I am in NYC. We met thru business. I am always super careful about sending him pics, texts, etc. I guess the hardest thing for me in the in between time when I don't see him and I NEED him. If anyone else is in an LDR and has interesting...
    BrokeninBrooklym BrokeninBrooklym 26-30, F 6 Responses Apr 28

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    I am 17 and I'm sleeping with a guy I'm

    babysitting for It's a long story how it started and if u want to know I'll tell u Now that I'm almost 18 I want to ask him to leave his wife so that we can be together I'm not sure how to do it though
    NicoleGen NicoleGen 18-21, F 21 Responses Feb 15, 2014

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