I Am Dating a Married Man

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    Ok I'm not really dating him ,

    but he keeps chasing me ! He gives me signals and confuses me . The thing is i like him and I've kissed him several times , but I can't date him . - as much as I want . I keep putting my self on his wife 's place . A kiss I could forgive , but an affair will crush me to pieces...
    liveforever1 liveforever1
    22-25, F
    Jan 24, 2015

    I have been dating a married man

    for about 2 weeks now. His wife is not nice. She has said that she don't ever want him to be happy. she is out of state right now and he is happy. I have been staying at his place while she's gone. he smiles more. very playful. but when she calls it's like something has sucked...
    deseret deseret
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Aug 31, 2015

    Dating a married man is hard.

    He whips out his wallet to pay for something and I look down and see a photo of his wife tucked into his wallet. You can imagine how that feels. Spending a few hours on one day with him at a time and cherishing the few moments you have, all the while he goes home to someone...
    hankpalmer hankpalmer
    22-25, F
    51 Responses Sep 10, 2014

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    allisoncc11 allisoncc11
    26-30, F
    Aug 13, 2015

    Ok so. I'm pregnant.

    And they still haven't officially filed for divorce. I haven't told anyone yet.
    newgirI newgirI
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Mar 6, 2015

    I'm not even sure where this all began,

    or how I even got in this space... It was just a friendship. I was in a long term relationship when we met...but I was drawn to him. I knew from the start there was a possibility for thing to develop between us. It began with cordial small talk and innocent jokes, nothing...
    detailsinthefabric detailsinthefabric
    26-30, F
    4 Responses May 17, 2015

    I Know He'S Like Playing With Fire But I Like The Burn

    I met my MM 10 years ago. We were friends for 6 years before becoming "close" friends. We were in a group together. I knew his wife and children as well. His wife hated me for years which I guess made it easier. I was single, lonely, and bored. He was married, lonely, and...
    skinnygirlsoon skinnygirlsoon
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Apr 19, 2013

    Can You Ever Wait Too Long For The One?

    My previous story explained how I met and fell in love with a married man. Now I want to explain us... When I'm with him he smiles and I light up. I'm happy making him happy. I want to take his pain away, make his life better. He kisses me softly, touches my hair, holds me until...
    summersails summersails
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Feb 12, 2013

    I would love to date another woman's husband.

    It would be great fun. To have the permission, to play and love on him. I hope to experience this one day!
    TheCuckcake TheCuckcake
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Aug 1, 2014

    I too have an mm. And it's a similar situation

    except that I am and will always be a secret. I do not want more, I like that I have my own life and he has his.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 7

    So two days ago he told his soon to be ex wife

    that he was going to ask me out on a date. She said he should wait so that I don't feel awkward and back out of being his roommate. But he said he was asking anyway and then she gave him ideas where to take me. So basically it's at least somewhat out in the open now. He also...
    newgirI newgirI
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 14, 2015

    Dating A Married Man & He Rocks My World!

    InĀ  a million years I would have never imagined "this" would have been me, I was not raised like this , I have better morals, I grew up in Baptist church.I just don't know HOW it happened, but IT did. It is NOT a young, sexual relationship, I am 46, he is 52. He is a Deacon...
    NoNeed2No NoNeed2No
    46-50, F
    1 Response Aug 27, 2011

    Heartbroken By A Married Man

    Here's my story:  I met a married man online playing cards.  We exchanged email addresses to forward jokes, etc.  Eventually, we ended up playing online cards together every night.  I knew he was married but we became fast friends.  Neither of us...
    Prisster Prisster
    41-45, F
    42 Responses Feb 27, 2010

    I don't know how I found myself in this

    situation. I always disliked girls that involved themselves with men who were in relationships/married...but here I am. I feel like the biggest idiot because I know he isn't leaving her no matter what he says to me. I think he is the most selfish and inconsiderate man to be...
    Bunny808 Bunny808
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Sep 22, 2014

    Broke up with my married man two weeks ago

    after 8 months affair. He said he was separated from his wife 5 years ago when we were only work colleagues. But obviously via our affair. he said he never felt the way with me with anyone before; he loves me and is in love with me, want me to be in his life; wants me to be...
    angelcici angelcici
    36-40, F
    3 Responses May 17, 2014

    I Ended My Relationship Today...

    I posted here a couple of months ago about being involved with a married man and just thought I would come back and update. After a lot of tears and soul searching I ended my relationship today. I'm feeling sad and lonely right now, but know that it was the right thing to do. He...
    kelri kelri
    36-40, F
    64 Responses Aug 30, 2010

    I Am Drawn to Married Men Like A Bad Habit.

    I am finally realizing that I am drawn to married men.  On some level I choose them.  I used to think that it was just bad luck or a curse that I attracted all the married men, but have since realized that the common denominator is me, not all these married men. ...
    DOLCE84 DOLCE84
    22-25, F
    57 Responses Sep 5, 2007

    It started off as an innocent morning.

    Setting up my bar with my favorite music blasting through my headphones. It was a great morning, my day was full of endless possibilities. It was a breezy summer morning and nothing was going to bring me down. All of the busy working bees stop for a moment to discuss the daily...
    jessiex3lover jessiex3lover
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 20, 2015

    Stupid Sh**t He Would Say

    and Do (this is long and I will add to this as time goes) I had the unfortunate experience of dating a married man for 10 months and I have dumped him for good. I do not, in my life, want to have a relationship with THIS man in any sort of capacity. Had my fill. I am writing...
    mnv123 mnv123
    36-40
    3 Responses Sep 5, 2015

    Ok so...wow. Married fine.

    Twisted fine. But dabbling in the world of cheating within cheating? It's all so confusing. I love his wild dark side but when fantasy becomes reality that's where I need to draw a line. He cheated on me with his previous mistress? Lmao what was I thinking? And he thinks I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Feb 25

    MONOGAMY IN A NON MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP.

    Im "dating" an older married man. I care for him a ton I am my happiest when im with him and he helped shape me into a better person. For these reasons and my odd hispanic female loyalty ive decided to only be with him physically. Im not jealous of his wife at all because...
    SweetAsSugar10 SweetAsSugar10
    22-25
    12 Responses Dec 20, 2013

    So Your Dating A Married Man...me Too

    I've always seemed to get involved with Married men. Ever since I was 19. I got out of a 3 year non-married man relationship and now find myself dating another married man.  Its interesting...I usually don't find them...they usually find me.....   I think the...
    Bucklebabe85 Bucklebabe85
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Feb 13, 2010

    Meet The Wife Night

    Well, what is there to say. I awoke from a dead sleep to my phone going off... Midnight?! It was him. He said, "Are you ready?" Still groggy I was completely at a loss for what he was talking about. "To meet her, we are going to Ihop and we'll meet you there. By the way her...
    anotherinnocent anotherinnocent
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Feb 21, 2013

    My boyfriend has been separated from his wife

    for the past 2 years and is currently waiting to be served the divorce papers. All my friends are in their 20's, like myself, and getting engaged. It's so difficult not to be jealous when I'm dating a 26 year old man who's still legally married.
    DreamingDreamingDreaming DreamingDreamingDreaming
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jun 15, 2015

    Well I finally have done what I should have

    done sometime ago. It's been six weeks of no contact with my MM. The ultimate betrayal as ironic as it may sound but I heard him be intimate with his wife. My MM dialed me in error and didn't realize as I heard him getting it on with his wife. All along I believed he was going...
    SideChickNoMore SideChickNoMore
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Jun 6, 2015

    Anyone Willing to Admit and Share?

    Just would like to hear others stories about how hard this is...even though I know I shouldn't be doing it.  He has never promised me that he would leave his wife...we are very realistic with each other.  He is everything that I am looking for in a man, with...
    sunnybec sunnybec
    36-40, F
    26 Responses Aug 29, 2007

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    Come and enter this site"http://bit.ly/1MjqvXd".
    malibulang malibulang
    31-35, F
    Mar 22

    well, not married, but living with someone.

    It started 3 months ago. He didn't tell me there was someone else. We hit it off right away. He was amazing and so much fun to be around. I was getting suspicious that maybe he was with someone, but he always denied it. We continued for two months and I fell deeper and deeper...
    irishred122 irishred122
    56-60, F
    1 Response Feb 14, 2015

    We had plans to see each other this morning.

    He was going to leave work to meet me for lunch after I got out of class. I haven't heard from him at all today. He probably got swamped at work. It's just disappointing.
    littlewallflower1 littlewallflower1
    22-25, F
    Apr 8, 2015

    Off Again/on Again

    My relationship with Mr Married is quite unpredictable.  He feels guilty & calls it quits.  Then wife ****** him off & he's back again.  Then he's falling in love with me, having emotional problems dealing, bye-bye again. I took it hard this past instance...
    darlene darlene
    41-45, F
    8 Responses Sep 21, 2007

    He's probably from around 1956,

    but I'm not sure. I'll ask his wife, she'll know.
    RicRaver RicRaver
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Jun 24, 2014

    Is This a New Start?

      Many of you read my story, "I'm Drawn To Married Men Like a Bad Habit" and will know of what I speak.  Within, I detailed my penchant for married men.  I finally realize that meeting married men just isn't my bad luck.  I've finally concluded...
    DOLCE84 DOLCE84
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Sep 19, 2007

    love is a wonderful feeling,

    am living the life i meant for me.thanks to dr faust a spell caster i met here..my love life is back..thanks Faust..if u are having issues in any issues of life.......thanks to him my husband came back.give him a try +447035914441
    rosemyers rosemyers
    51-55, F
    1 Response Aug 17, 2015

    Hi,i have been in a relationship with married

    man for almost 4 years,we work together, when meet him he was having an affair with another married woman, but after a year they after i meet him they broke up.Anyway so everything was going okay for us ,i didn't feel like a home wrecker because it was a habit for him to always...
    myrtle67 myrtle67
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 3, 2015

    I am dating my mm again

    for a few months now. He said he cant bear the spectacle of losing me. But last night when his wife didnt text him and looked for him, he looked so anxious. Kept checking his phone until 2am until he left. And this morning i saw his text with her, there is a kiss icon from the...
    AtPeaceEros AtPeaceEros
    31-35, F
    5 Responses May 26, 2015

    And today is his birthday

    and I'm not spending it with him. It sucks just like every holiday/special occasion. I still have such difficulty dealing with the inadequate amount of time we have together. I'd hoped it would get better, easier more equal time spent together. His wife knows of me, accepts...
    Sneakapeek46 Sneakapeek46
    46-50, F
    6 Responses Apr 14, 2014

    After more than eight years he left me

    eventhough it was always me that wanted to end it because i mean everything thats said about dating a married man is negative. Everything good and bad he ever said to me have been echoing inside my head for two months now. I just wish it didnt end the way it did and i always...
    4amTheresaway 4amTheresaway
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Sep 18, 2015

    I am 28 and have been dating a 54 year old

    married guy for 2 years. He is in LA and I am in NYC. We met thru business. I am always super careful about sending him pics, texts, etc. I guess the hardest thing for me in the in between time when I don't see him and I NEED him. If anyone else is in an LDR and has interesting...
    BrokeninBrooklym BrokeninBrooklym
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Apr 28, 2015

    not officially dating this man,

    met him two years ago in a beautiful place in Bali when he approached me asking for my picture. I was still in high school, he looked young. Then afterwards we still communicate until now I am pursuing my bachelor degree. I love him as a good friend and a good listener. He knoes...
    AlianaLeeuwen AlianaLeeuwen
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 13, 2015

    I just held a grown man

    as he cried thinking about not seeing his little girl every day. As much as I can't wait to be with him all the time, I hate that he is getting divorced. He is such a good daddy. It doesn't seem fair.
    newgirI newgirI
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 9, 2015

    I didn't find a right group,

    so posting here. I am married but I found a woman who struck chords. She is single though! I want to date her or at least be friends. what's the best way to approach this situation? I also know she is kinda interested in me. She flirts, tries to talk once a day at least in...
    philophil philophil
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Mar 4, 2015

    I am seeing a Married man he is older

    than me. The thing is, is he spends very little time with me. sure we text, and I send pics. I feel like a total booty call. he says I am more than that and that he loves me but it is just, such a distant feeling. I know he isn't leaving his family for me nor do I want him too...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses May 13, 2015

    I'm seeing a married man

    that is 17 years older than me, we talk and see each other all the time. But I can't see myself calling it a relationship because I know he will not leave his wife. Part of me feels bad and Part of me just goes along with him saying he wants to do it. Him and his wife knows my...
    BLANKstateofmind BLANKstateofmind
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 1, 2014

    About a year and a half ago I met a married man

    who was lonely and seemed broken hearted. We hung out for a while as friends and eventually turned into something more .... When he fell in love with me he told me he had never felt that way for any woman before, that's including his wife.... As things progressed he had no...
    RedwoodMama RedwoodMama
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 11

    who wana date with me ,

    ,,Baby,if you like me and wnat to know my information , please see my profile.
    maryevea maryevea
    26-30, F
    Feb 16

    A couple weeks ago I met a married man on one

    of the online dating sites. He email me & I knew he was married because he didn't hide that from his profile. I was interested in him because we had a lot in common. I am at point in my life that I feel I am not really ready for a LTR, I have tried but it doesn't seem to work...
    Newlife69 Newlife69
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Dec 9, 2013

    We see each other almost everyday now.

    I felt that he gets closer to me now that i don't fight or argue with him. I kept my jealousy at bay and try to think first why i should be angry at him. I'm more calm now. Even if they will have another family outing tomorrow. Im thinking why would i get angry with him when...
    AtPeaceEros AtPeaceEros
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jan 17, 2014

    Hi. I'm really glad I found this group,

    as I'm going through a major crisis here. I'm not very happily married and I have been seeing someone married, too. Honestly, this has been the best time of my life. I really thought I had met someone special. In general, I'm a very sceptical person, but this person made me...
    solonely9 solonely9
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Feb 23

    well not exactly dating.

    we meet have sex and then we go our seperate ways. but i am enjoying it. trying not to get attached but lately when i have sex with my wife i think of the sex i had with him.
    stlguy45 stlguy45
    46-50, M
    1 Response Jun 5, 2015

    THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 13 2014- INTERNATIONAL

    MISTRESS DAY. Am I correct? On this day, his wife, or She, asked him in a rhetorical manner, if he saw me today, because it was the day before Valentine's Day. We were told that this day is my day with him, because a married man would be with his wife on the actual holiday...
    PictureNoelle PictureNoelle
    18-21
    2 Responses Mar 21, 2014

    He's wonderful. He's young,

    younger than me anyway, he's intelligent, he's everything every other guy isn't. I can tell him anything, he is my best friend. He is understanding about my schedule and I am of his. I want him where he is happiest and he is happiest married to his wife. She holds his...
    secretgirl11 secretgirl11
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jan 17, 2014

    its not good ....we try to not see each other

    but theres something there.....he does not love his wife .....she is verbally and physically abusive to him.....she makes him pay rent like he is a lodger ....they sleep in separate rooms ....its no big deal but i am sure she knows hes seeing me its been nine months .....people...
    psychicprayer psychicprayer
    36-40
    4 Responses May 11, 2015
    littlewallflower1 littlewallflower1
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 15, 2015

    I am 17 and I'm sleeping with a guy I'm

    babysitting for It's a long story how it started and if u want to know I'll tell u Now that I'm almost 18 I want to ask him to leave his wife so that we can be together I'm not sure how to do it though
    NicoleGen NicoleGen
    18-21, F
    19 Responses Feb 15, 2014

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