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I Am Dating a Married Man

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    Recently after my divorce,

    fate brought a new man into my life. He was charming, handsome and financially secure. It was as if we met by accident. I found out he was happily married with 3 kids...though a chronic cheater. For some reason, I instantly fell in love with this absolute scum. We are together...
    minusall minusall 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 1

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    We see each other almost everyday now.

    I felt that he gets closer to me now that i don't fight or argue with him. I kept my jealousy at bay and try to think first why i should be angry at him. I'm more calm now. Even if they will have another family outing tomorrow. Im thinking why would i get angry with him when...
    AtPeaceEros AtPeaceEros 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 17

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    Dating A Married Man

    I am actually going crazy about this MM situation that I am into right now I had to open my mac to search for blogs on this topic that led me here. My partner, yeah, a married man, was my classmate in graduate school about 6-7 years ago. I knew back then that he had some physical...
    gabriellecute gabriellecute 31-35, F 22 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    Its not easy dating a psychiatrist.

    He reads me very well I cannot hide from him. I love him and im sure, that even if he wasn't a psychiatrist he would know just how much this relationship saddens me. He will never leave his wife. I know. Ive known that since the begining. But at the same time I cannot forget...
    Lovemymarrieddoc Lovemymarrieddoc 26-30 5 Responses Jan 27

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    I met him while working at a restaurant last

    summer. He tipped me way above the average to catch my attention. I never payed him any mind. Then about two weeks later one of my co-workers comes back from vacation and tells me that he was her husband. I never say anything about he tips to her because I didn't want to...
    hismarried05 hismarried05 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Is This a New Start?

      Many of you read my story, "I'm Drawn To Married Men Like a Bad Habit" and will know of what I speak.  Within, I detailed my penchant for married men.  I finally realize that meeting married men just isn't my bad luck.  I've finally concluded...
    DOLCE84 DOLCE84 21-25, F 8 Responses Sep 19, 2007

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    I being dating a married man

    for two years his being married for 20 yrs, I see him every day at work and also on weekends . We never talk about his wife or ending his relation with her. He is very jealous with me and always tells me his going to be with me until I decide to leave him,also he say if I leave...
    Juan0814 Juan0814 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 9

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    sallycc17 sallycc17 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I have been very unhappy in my marriage

    and after 25 years together decided that enough was enough!! Simple I hear you say if only !! shortly after I had mentally made this decision I met a married man who is in the same sort of situation as my myself very unhappy and remaining in his marital home for the sake of his...
    Myloverman Myloverman 41-45, F 7 Responses Jan 29

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    I have about two people

    that I can tell my story, and just two. One is my best friend since middle school, and I've explained to her everything. The other is my younger sister, but she couldn't really care any less about my situation. Hello guys. I'm a girl whose going to be a sophomore in college...
    PictureNoelle PictureNoelle 18-21 1 Response Mar 21

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    I am dating a man. He has been separated two

    years from his wife when we met. He lives in GA with me and the wife in LA. He states that he has not gotten a divorce due to funds. I see his financial situation and it is rough. He stated that he wants me to be his wife but I have told him that we will not get married right...
    Patience86 Patience86 26-30, F 7 Responses Feb 4

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    Anyone Willing to Admit and Share?

    Just would like to hear others stories about how hard this is...even though I know I shouldn't be doing it.  He has never promised me that he would leave his wife...we are very realistic with each other.  He is everything that I am looking for in a man, with...
    sunnybec sunnybec 36-40, F 26 Responses Aug 29, 2007

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    2 months ago met a high rank cop during a night

    out with my fiancée and hit it off. The cop gave me his info to set up a legit ride along as I was interested in being a cop. I emailed him, we flirted, and then thousands of messages, phone calls and a few "fun" meet ups later.... He claims to be madly in love. I have wry...
    Happyandconfused Happyandconfused 26-30, F Apr 2

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    I am 17 and I'm sleeping with a guy I'm

    babysitting for It's a long story how it started and if u want to know I'll tell u Now that I'm almost 18 I want to ask him to leave his wife so that we can be together I'm not sure how to do it though
    NicoleGen NicoleGen 18-21, F 25 Responses Feb 15

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    Wake The Hell Up!

    Wild I know the Bible says women are the weaker vessels but it doesn't say we are the stupid vessels. But that is what we are for being involve with a married man "STUPID". It ain't love it's lust we confuse the two. Reading all the different stories and mine is just another one...
    1fool 1fool 46-50 3 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    Part 5: over the hump & looking towards the

    future So we are pretty much caught up to where I am at now. I am still trying to divorce hubby. I am living with my EP boyfriend. The two of us are planning a future for after divorce, which includes him staying in this foreign Country. Certain family members and friends of...
    unexpectedlove15 unexpectedlove15 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 31

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    Am I Crazy?

    I'm also seeing a married man, someone I met on myspace. It was only sex, but now I'm starting to have feelings for him. After spending the day reading stories and advice blogs about this, I think I've lost my mind. This is never going to go anywhere and I am severely limiting...
    guzzimama guzzimama 46-50, F 34 Responses Sep 1, 2007

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    He's wonderful. He's young,

    younger than me anyway, he's intelligent, he's everything every other guy isn't. I can tell him anything, he is my best friend. He is understanding about my schedule and I am of his. I want him where he is happiest and he is happiest married to his wife. She holds his...
    secretgirl11 secretgirl11 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    A couple weeks ago I met a married man on one

    of the online dating sites. He email me & I knew he was married because he didn't hide that from his profile. I was interested in him because we had a lot in common. I am at point in my life that I feel I am not really ready for a LTR, I have tried but it doesn't seem to work...
    Newlife69 Newlife69 41-45, F 4 Responses Dec 9, 2013

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    I have been dating a married man

    for the past 6 months. I knew he was married from the beginning. His wife gambled away their savings and cuz of this they no longer sleep in the same bed. He shares a bed with his son. His two children are young adults. He wants to have a future with me but cuz I don't make a...
    gingercat13 gingercat13 51-55 1 Response Mar 10

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    I've been dating a married man,

    for me it works, I have no interest in being a wife, nor do I want him to leave his wife. We talk daily and meet when it is convenient for both of us, and enjoy these times. I have no illusions and honestly if he mentioned leaving his current situation I would run the other way...
    itworks4me itworks4me 66-70, F 3 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    I am a gay guy dating a "straight" married man.

    I met this guy last summer as he came over to my house party. He was a co-worker of my brothers. My brother was outside with him among with others drinking some beers. I went outside to let my brother know that the food was ready and thats when I saw this cute guy. He got my...
    richardmv15 richardmv15 18-21, M 3 Responses Feb 19

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    THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 13 2014- INTERNATIONAL

    MISTRESS DAY. Am I correct? On this day, his wife, or She, asked him in a rhetorical manner, if he saw me today, because it was the day before Valentine's Day. We were told that this day is my day with him, because a married man would be with his wife on the actual holiday...
    PictureNoelle PictureNoelle 18-21 3 Responses Mar 21

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    Both Married. My Mm's Wife Isn't Giving Him Sex And I'm Revenge Cheating.

    First off, I know that what I am doing is morally wrong.  However, I can't quit.  Rather, I don't want to quit.  I have always HATED women that are "The other woman", so this is a bit contradictory for myself.  I am in my second marriage and am only 35 years old.  My...
    barbie1975 barbie1975 31-35, F 9 Responses Jun 14, 2011

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    ...and he is not my husband!

    I fell out of love with my husband 5 years(?) into the marriage. He traveled a lot with his job and we were in the middle of building our home,leaving me in charge of everything - I hated it! I went to my doctor and said "I am depressed, I need something to hold my marriage...
    SweetPeaLove SweetPeaLove 51-55, F 8 mins ago

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    Can You Ever Wait Too Long For The One?

    My previous story explained how I met and fell in love with a married man. Now I want to explain us... When I'm with him he smiles and I light up. I'm happy making him happy. I want to take his pain away, make his life better. He kisses me softly, touches my hair, holds me until...
    summersails summersails 22-25, F 8 Responses Feb 12, 2013

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    Disasterous

    I took the poll with the best ans I could because my exact ans wasn't there. To make a very long, sorted and heartbreaking story short, if you are dating a married man.... GET OUT NOW!!!!! Nothing but heartbreak can come of it & after my emotional breakdown last year over a man...
    darlene darlene 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 31, 2011

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    I Ended My Relationship Today...

    I posted here a couple of months ago about being involved with a married man and just thought I would come back and update. After a lot of tears and soul searching I ended my relationship today. I'm feeling sad and lonely right now, but know that it was the right thing to do. He...
    kelri kelri 36-40, F 50 Responses Aug 30, 2010

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    asphyxxiated asphyxxiated 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 15

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    I Am Drawn to Married Men Like A Bad Habit.

    I am finally realizing that I am drawn to married men.  On some level I choose them.  I used to think that it was just bad luck or a curse that I attracted all the married men, but have since realized that the common denominator is me, not all these married men. ...
    DOLCE84 DOLCE84 21-25, F 47 Responses Sep 5, 2007

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    fionacc11 fionacc11 26-30, F Mar 21

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    He Is Married But Won't Leave Me Alone

    We met at work, he is everything a woman can possibly want.Not everybody gets him but I do, we became friends but right away we just couldnt stop making excuses to come to each other's desks to talk about anything. One night he finally admitted he was attracted to me but that we...
    sahatti sahatti 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 14, 2012

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    I'm seeing a married man

    that is 17 years older than me, we talk and see each other all the time. But I can't see myself calling it a relationship because I know he will not leave his wife. Part of me feels bad and Part of me just goes along with him saying he wants to do it. Him and his wife knows my...
    BLANKstateofmind BLANKstateofmind 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    DENIAL. ANGER. BARGAINING.

    DEPRESSION. ACCEPTANCE. High School Sophomore Year Health Class. The 5 stages of loss. "It doesn't necessarily always happen in this order, nor does it mean that if one emotion has already passed, you can't bounce back to that same repeated emotion." -Mr. Mazz It'll be 13...
    PictureNoelle PictureNoelle 18-21 1 Response Apr 1

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    I'm involved with a married man.

    He says he loves me and I care about him deeply, but he's not the one for me but yet he refuses to let go of me. I am seeking love and want to find it, but it's hard being tethered to a relationship that I know it's not good for me. I know I'm making self-destructive choices...
    QuietLittleDreamer QuietLittleDreamer 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 14

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    MONOGAMY IN A NON MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP.

    Im "dating" an older married man. I care for him a ton I am my happiest when im with him and he helped shape me into a better person. For these reasons and my odd hispanic female loyalty ive decided to only be with him physically. Im not jealous of his wife at all because...
    SweetAsSugar10 SweetAsSugar10 22-25 13 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    I am a born again Christian

    but before anyone judges please hear my story. I didn't know Christ I believed in nothing. Everything started when I was 12 years old. my sister had a friend who studied with her. he was 17 at the time. when we were younger all we did was tease each other about the way we...
    s4l1na s4l1na 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 15

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    Met a married man, was interested,

    he was interested as well... But i felt like he was putting in the effort. There is a difference between dating and just having sex with a married man right? I felt like he just wanted sex and i wanted to date. I ask myself though, he would never be totally available to you...
    ladyfierce ladyfierce 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    So Your Dating A Married Man...me Too

    I've always seemed to get involved with Married men. Ever since I was 19. I got out of a 3 year non-married man relationship and now find myself dating another married man.  Its interesting...I usually don't find them...they usually find me.....   I think the...
    Bucklebabe85 Bucklebabe85 22-25, F 7 Responses Feb 13, 2010

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    And today is his birthday

    and I'm not spending it with him. It sucks just like every holiday/special occasion. I still have such difficulty dealing with the inadequate amount of time we have together. I'd hoped it would get better, easier more equal time spent together. His wife knows of me, accepts...
    Sneakapeek46 Sneakapeek46 46-50, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    With his wife's consent.

    She and I are bi so we have our fun too. My preference leans towards men more, but it's still fun when the three of us are in bed. When we first started talking, I wasn't happy when he told me he was married. But when he mentioned that he has his wife's consent and that she...
    lagamine lagamine 22-25, F Mar 4

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    Dating Two Married Men

    I am dating two married men and I really like both of them and I don't want them to leave their wives.  I met them both online on POF and I knew from the beginning that they were both married.  They treat me like I am the only person in the world when I am with them...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses May 14, 2008

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    Heartbroken By A Married Man

    Here's my story:  I met a married man online playing cards.  We exchanged email addresses to forward jokes, etc.  Eventually, we ended up playing online cards together every night.  I knew he was married but we became fast friends.  Neither of us...
    Prisster Prisster 41-45, F 27 Responses Feb 27, 2010

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    Meet The Wife Night

    Well, what is there to say. I awoke from a dead sleep to my phone going off... Midnight?! It was him. He said, "Are you ready?" Still groggy I was completely at a loss for what he was talking about. "To meet her, we are going to Ihop and we'll meet you there. By the way her...
    anotherinnocent anotherinnocent 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 21, 2013

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    CRAZY, OBSESSIVE, PSYCHOTIC.

    I'm all of those and more. I love my boyfriend with all my heart, I want him with me through all that I go through. I truly love him. Being in a relationship where he's legally with some other woman and not me, but emotionally he's with me, makes me want him to be solely...
    PictureNoelle PictureNoelle 18-21 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I have been with a married man that'll be 5

    years on july. We met in a bar where I worked. He asked me to stop working and he'll support me. So I decided to stop working. He's giving me everything I need. On the first 6 months, he told me that he'll leave his wife. Blah blah.. so I hoped and waited for that. But it didn't...
    mhyohmhy mhyohmhy 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 14

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    Off Again/on Again

    My relationship with Mr Married is quite unpredictable.  He feels guilty & calls it quits.  Then wife ****** him off & he's back again.  Then he's falling in love with me, having emotional problems dealing, bye-bye again. I took it hard this past instance...
    darlene darlene 41-45, F 8 Responses Sep 21, 2007

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    I Know He'S Like Playing With Fire But I Like The Burn

    I met my MM 10 years ago. We were friends for 6 years before becoming "close" friends. We were in a group together. I knew his wife and children as well. His wife hated me for years which I guess made it easier. I was single, lonely, and bored. He was married, lonely, and...
    skinnygirlsoon skinnygirlsoon 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 19, 2013

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    Never Happyending.

    Yes you all beautiful ladies out there, I want to share my stories so you'll see your story is not special, what he's done to you is not extra ordinary. All married men do that. I met this married guy, he's so smart, he's charming, he's handsome, he's everything and he's married...
    3 Responses Jul 18, 2012

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    BALANCE. TRANQUILITY.

    DOOM. A long time ago, I was told that my mentality of "Balance" was self-proclaimed. I believe that something good happens to me, something just as equally bad will occur. Likewise if the situation was reversed; all just to keep the balance of not too much good nor too much...
    PictureNoelle PictureNoelle 18-21 Apr 6

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    Next month will be a year I have been seeing my married man. Sometimes I go over the year and wonder how I really got here. Why am I dating a married man?? I never expected to fall...
    Lishadntplay Lishadntplay 26-30, F Mar 27

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    I am dating a married man. At first, it started as a casual fling. I never thought we'd see each other more than a couple of times due to our distance. But he's made a great...
    MisAdventuress MisAdventuress 36-40, F Apr 8

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      I'm a newbie here, however, while feeling lonesome once again on a weekend, I thought I'd see if there's someone else put there that share my problem. I have 3 older...
    Maurap Maurap 46-50, F Mar 22

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    I have a boyfriend of 7 years. He has cheated on my throughout our whole relationship. I stayed because I loved him. Recently I've been seeing someone else. It's been going on for...
    Tyrea31 Tyrea31 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    I am in love with a married man. Please no harsh judgements and just hear my side of the story. I am 21 years old (he is 45) and in college I met a guy 3.5 months ago and on our...
    sava1993 sava1993 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I realize I have no friends on here or many in real life due to my own issues. I've always been a loner and very introverted. I am seeing a married man who I adore very much and...
    Lishadntplay Lishadntplay 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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