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I Am Dating a Married Man

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    ARE YOU AN OLDER MAN SEEKING A YOUNG WOMAN?

    "Datingayounerwoman.com is a newly launched unique dating service, which helps young girls looking for older men or vice-versa." Datingayounerwoman.com is a brand new dating service focusing on date younger women, providing a great service to mature singles looking for love...
    datingayoungerwoman datingayoungerwoman 26-30, F Jul 2, 2014

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    It started a month ago.

    My assistant manager and I went to a work get together that took place in a conference room in a hotel, which was really just a regular suite with a king bed folded to the wall and tables placed inside. We decided to take advantage of the room for the night after the work...
    newgirI newgirI 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    Ok so. I'm pregnant.

    And they still haven't officially filed for divorce. I haven't told anyone yet.
    newgirI newgirI 26-30, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    So two days ago he told his soon to be ex wife

    that he was going to ask me out on a date. She said he should wait so that I don't feel awkward and back out of being his roommate. But he said he was asking anyway and then she gave him ideas where to take me. So basically it's at least somewhat out in the open now. He also...
    newgirI newgirI 26-30, F Jan 14

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    He's probably from around 1956,

    but I'm not sure. I'll ask his wife, she'll know.
    RicRaver RicRaver 41-45, M 4 Responses Jun 24, 2014

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    I am 38 yrs old and two months ago a new guy

    started working for our company. He's 44. He liked me from the first day he saw me. Then he started flirting with me and I went for it. We haven't slept together because he is married and I will not sleep with him ever. We went out for drinks and kissed passionately for an hour...
    Pretty38woman Pretty38woman 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 7, 2014

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    Heartbroken By A Married Man

    Here's my story:  I met a married man online playing cards.  We exchanged email addresses to forward jokes, etc.  Eventually, we ended up playing online cards together every night.  I knew he was married but we became fast friends.  Neither of us...
    Prisster Prisster 36-40, F 36 Responses Feb 27, 2010

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    MONOGAMY IN A NON MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP.

    Im "dating" an older married man. I care for him a ton I am my happiest when im with him and he helped shape me into a better person. For these reasons and my odd hispanic female loyalty ive decided to only be with him physically. Im not jealous of his wife at all because...
    SweetAsSugar10 SweetAsSugar10 22-25 12 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    My name is Maryann and I met my husband Johnny

    in online dating website ♥ over50kiss . com ♥ His profile looked promising, even though he was 100 miles away, so after just one or two exchanges we decided to meet for lunch halfway between. And have been together for 2 years now married for one. I would advise...
    christinajames christinajames 41-45 Sep 20, 2014

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    THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 13 2014- INTERNATIONAL

    MISTRESS DAY. Am I correct? On this day, his wife, or She, asked him in a rhetorical manner, if he saw me today, because it was the day before Valentine's Day. We were told that this day is my day with him, because a married man would be with his wife on the actual holiday...
    PictureNoelle PictureNoelle 18-21 3 Responses Mar 21, 2014

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    10yeargap.com focuses on younger women dating

    older men and it encourages age gap marriage. 10YearGap.com is not a sugar daddy site. Single women are attracted to older single men as they are polite, respectful, generous, kind, intelligent, sensitive, caring, affectionate, and understanding. Many younger women would like to...
    JessieFay JessieFay 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 2, 2014

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    Younger Women are more Willing to Marry Older

    Men. A recent survey measured people’s attitudes about marrying a partner either older or younger than themselves. The survey results showed that women were significantly more willing than men, to marry a partner who was 5 years older than they were. On the other hand, it also...
    Donnaccaa Donnaccaa 26-30, F Feb 3

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    So Your Dating A Married Man...me Too

    I've always seemed to get involved with Married men. Ever since I was 19. I got out of a 3 year non-married man relationship and now find myself dating another married man.  Its interesting...I usually don't find them...they usually find me.....   I think the...
    Bucklebabe85 Bucklebabe85 18-21, F 9 Responses Feb 13, 2010

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    And we are still married

    after 26 years{to each other}! Don't know if that is a record, but certainly does seem very strange anymore. Nudge, nudge, wink, wink.
    canuckrider canuckrider 46-50, F 2 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    16 months ago, You're my first eye candy the

    moment I started my job at that company.. I have always wished you would talk to me... Today, I wish you can stop looking for me or not married. It feels so good to be wrong sometimes and I hate it.
    Eqaallen Eqaallen 22-25, F Aug 5, 2014

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    Wake The Hell Up!

    Wild I know the Bible says women are the weaker vessels but it doesn't say we are the stupid vessels. But that is what we are for being involve with a married man "STUPID". It ain't love it's lust we confuse the two. Reading all the different stories and mine is just another one...
    1fool 1fool 46-50 3 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    I was wondering if anyone can give me advice

    for the situation I am in. I have been with my husband for 12 years, married 8 with 2 sons. 4 years ago my husband had a mental breakdown and hasn't been the same since. He can't hold a job, he is severely depressed, he has bouts of anger and rage, he is unintentionally...
    Cindermoon Cindermoon 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 17, 2014

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    well, not married, but living with someone.

    It started 3 months ago. He didn't tell me there was someone else. We hit it off right away. He was amazing and so much fun to be around. I was getting suspicious that maybe he was with someone, but he always denied it. We continued for two months and I fell deeper and deeper...
    irishred122 irishred122 51-55, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    Ok I'm not really dating him ,

    but he keeps chasing me ! He gives me signals and confuses me . The thing is i like him and I've kissed him several times , but I can't date him . - as much as I want . I keep putting my self on his wife 's place . A kiss I could forgive , but an affair will crush me to pieces...
    liveforever1 liveforever1 22-25, F Jan 24

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    Dating sugar mommies can be a very exciting

    experience for young men nowadays. It can also get quite intimidating if you are not fully prepared for whatever it is that lies ahead of you. If it is your first time dating sugar mommies in person, you must focus more on making it a memorable experience instead of worrying...
    GarthPasche GarthPasche 51-55, F Jun 24, 2014

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    Both Married. My Mm's Wife Isn't Giving Him Sex And I'm Revenge Cheating.

    First off, I know that what I am doing is morally wrong.  However, I can't quit.  Rather, I don't want to quit.  I have always HATED women that are "The other woman", so this is a bit contradictory for myself.  I am in my second marriage and am only 35 years old.  My...
    barbie1975 barbie1975 31-35, F 8 Responses Jun 14, 2011

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    I Ended My Relationship Today...

    I posted here a couple of months ago about being involved with a married man and just thought I would come back and update. After a lot of tears and soul searching I ended my relationship today. I'm feeling sad and lonely right now, but know that it was the right thing to do. He...
    kelri kelri 31-35, F 55 Responses Aug 30, 2010

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    Meet The Wife Night

    Well, what is there to say. I awoke from a dead sleep to my phone going off... Midnight?! It was him. He said, "Are you ready?" Still groggy I was completely at a loss for what he was talking about. "To meet her, we are going to Ihop and we'll meet you there. By the way her...
    anotherinnocent anotherinnocent 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 21, 2013

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    I didn't mean to fall

    so in love with him. We started out innocently enough, he works with my father and I've known him since I was 15... There's 15 years between us, and I'm old enough now to make my own decisions (22)... I started working with my Dad, in a completely male dominated industry, in...
    everchangingfacade everchangingfacade 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 16, 2014

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    About 12 years ago I met him on a girls night

    out. Immediately we connected...we began dating. I had just divorced my husband 1 year prior and was raising my two pre-teen children alone. He was divorced and living about an hour away and had visitation of his son every other weekend. His job required him to travel almost...
    SouixZTG SouixZTG 51-55, F 1 Response Apr 22, 2014

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    I Know He'S Like Playing With Fire But I Like The Burn

    I met my MM 10 years ago. We were friends for 6 years before becoming "close" friends. We were in a group together. I knew his wife and children as well. His wife hated me for years which I guess made it easier. I was single, lonely, and bored. He was married, lonely, and...
    skinnygirlsoon skinnygirlsoon 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 19, 2013

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    Off Again/on Again

    My relationship with Mr Married is quite unpredictable.  He feels guilty & calls it quits.  Then wife ****** him off & he's back again.  Then he's falling in love with me, having emotional problems dealing, bye-bye again. I took it hard this past instance...
    darlene darlene 36-40, F 8 Responses Sep 21, 2007

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    Disasterous

    I took the poll with the best ans I could because my exact ans wasn't there. To make a very long, sorted and heartbreaking story short, if you are dating a married man.... GET OUT NOW!!!!! Nothing but heartbreak can come of it & after my emotional breakdown last year over a man...
    darlene darlene 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 31, 2011

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    I Am Drawn to Married Men Like A Bad Habit.

    I am finally realizing that I am drawn to married men.  On some level I choose them.  I used to think that it was just bad luck or a curse that I attracted all the married men, but have since realized that the common denominator is me, not all these married men. ...
    DOLCE84 DOLCE84 18-21, F 62 Responses Sep 5, 2007

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    Dating Two Married Men

    I am dating two married men and I really like both of them and I don't want them to leave their wives.  I met them both online on POF and I knew from the beginning that they were both married.  They treat me like I am the only person in the world when I am with them...
    deleted deleted 22-25 4 Responses May 14, 2008

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    I am dating a married man

    and have children for him while I am in love with my ex
    sweetbitz sweetbitz 41-45, F 1 Response May 23, 2014

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    Can You Ever Wait Too Long For The One?

    My previous story explained how I met and fell in love with a married man. Now I want to explain us... When I'm with him he smiles and I light up. I'm happy making him happy. I want to take his pain away, make his life better. He kisses me softly, touches my hair, holds me until...
    summersails summersails 22-25, F 8 Responses Feb 12, 2013

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    Anyone Willing to Admit and Share?

    Just would like to hear others stories about how hard this is...even though I know I shouldn't be doing it.  He has never promised me that he would leave his wife...we are very realistic with each other.  He is everything that I am looking for in a man, with...
    sunnybec sunnybec 31-35, F 26 Responses Aug 29, 2007

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    I would love to date another woman's husband.

    It would be great fun. To have the permission, to play and love on him. I hope to experience this one day!
    TheCuckcake TheCuckcake 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 1, 2014

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    MrPlank MrPlank 56-60, M Sep 14, 2014

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    We see each other almost everyday now.

    I felt that he gets closer to me now that i don't fight or argue with him. I kept my jealousy at bay and try to think first why i should be angry at him. I'm more calm now. Even if they will have another family outing tomorrow. Im thinking why would i get angry with him when...
    AtPeaceEros AtPeaceEros 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 17, 2014

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    I just held a grown man

    as he cried thinking about not seeing his little girl every day. As much as I can't wait to be with him all the time, I hate that he is getting divorced. He is such a good daddy. It doesn't seem fair.
    newgirI newgirI 26-30, F Feb 9

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    I met a married man two months ago,

    he approached me and we began talking in a bar. He kissed me within five minutes of meeting him. Three dates later we had sex. And have been having sex three times a week. He works in the town that I live in, and lives here during the week, and then goes four hours home to see...
    rinda67 rinda67 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 22, 2014

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    Am I Crazy?

    I'm also seeing a married man, someone I met on myspace. It was only sex, but now I'm starting to have feelings for him. After spending the day reading stories and advice blogs about this, I think I've lost my mind. This is never going to go anywhere and I am severely limiting...
    guzzimama guzzimama 41-45, F 34 Responses Sep 1, 2007

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    He's wonderful. He's young,

    younger than me anyway, he's intelligent, he's everything every other guy isn't. I can tell him anything, he is my best friend. He is understanding about my schedule and I am of his. I want him where he is happiest and he is happiest married to his wife. She holds his...
    secretgirl11 secretgirl11 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 17, 2014

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    I am 17 and I'm sleeping with a guy I'm

    babysitting for It's a long story how it started and if u want to know I'll tell u Now that I'm almost 18 I want to ask him to leave his wife so that we can be together I'm not sure how to do it though
    NicoleGen NicoleGen 18-21, F 21 Responses Feb 15, 2014

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    A couple weeks ago I met a married man on one

    of the online dating sites. He email me & I knew he was married because he didn't hide that from his profile. I was interested in him because we had a lot in common. I am at point in my life that I feel I am not really ready for a LTR, I have tried but it doesn't seem to work...
    Newlife69 Newlife69 41-45, F 4 Responses Dec 9, 2013

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    I didn't find a right group,

    so posting here. I am married but I found a woman who struck chords. She is single though! I want to date her or at least be friends. what's the best way to approach this situation? I also know she is kinda interested in me. She flirts, tries to talk once a day at least in...
    philophil philophil 31-35, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Dating a married man is hard.

    He whips out his wallet to pay for something and I look down and see a photo of his wife tucked into his wallet. You can imagine how that feels. Spending a few hours on one day with him at a time and cherishing the few moments you have, all the while he goes home to someone...
    hankpalmer hankpalmer 18-21, F 65 Responses Sep 10, 2014

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    Dating A Married Man

    I am actually going crazy about this MM situation that I am into right now I had to open my mac to search for blogs on this topic that led me here. My partner, yeah, a married man, was my classmate in graduate school about 6-7 years ago. I knew back then that he had some physical...
    gabriellecute gabriellecute 31-35, F 22 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    How do i know if he's still married?

    I met this guy two months a go. He's 10 years older than me. From the first time i met him i can totally feel that there was a mutual attraction. But we didn't talk much. He talked with my dad a lot. And after awhile we've talked and seems we got a long very well. And he asked...
    LovelyLilly13 LovelyLilly13 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 13, 2014

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    I don't know how I found myself in this

    situation. I always disliked girls that involved themselves with men who were in relationships/married...but here I am. I feel like the biggest idiot because I know he isn't leaving her no matter what he says to me. I think he is the most selfish and inconsiderate man to be...
    Bunny808 Bunny808 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 22, 2014