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I Am Dating a Musician

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    I have been with my boyfriend

    for a little over two years and he is a guitar player in a touring band. When we first got together, he was only playing local shows so I grew accustomed to having him around all the time. However, they are finally experiencing their #1 dream of touring. I'm so proud of him...
    katie8680 katie8680 26-30, F Feb 2

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    My Boyfriend

    Okay, so we're not exactly "dating". I may be weird but I think the concept of a "date" in the traditional sense is very narrow. Anyhow. My boyfriend plays his improvisations which are really impressive. He's a talented piano/keyboard player and has made...
    naranja naranja 22-25, F 5 Responses May 2, 2009

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       My current boyfriend is a

    drummer for a local band around my area. I have dated musicians before but nothing is like dating a metal-head drummer. I have been and experienced things I never thought existed! I help out with putting his set together before they get on stage and off. It was my idea for him...
    LuckieCharmz93 LuckieCharmz93 18-21, F Jul 28

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    I Guess I Don't Qualify

    I'm a musician who used to date before I married.
    ChipmunkErnie ChipmunkErnie 61-65, M 6 Responses Aug 3, 2009

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    I Am A Woman Musician

    I'm a woman musician, and am hoping to find a man for a long term relationship, who also plays old time music, such as guitar, fiddle or banjo.  It's hard being a woman musician because most of the places I go there are mostly men there.  The men I have tried to jam...
    flowerbells flowerbells 66-70, F 2 Responses Feb 20, 2010

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    Euphonia

     I would love to date another musician. Not only would she have to have excellent taste in music, but she and I could actually TALK about music! "The Pelog C pre-chorus is the ****. But what if you modified the Petatonic Blues scale for the bridge? That...
    zeligocity zeligocity 22-25, M 9 Responses Mar 21, 2009

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    He's a Great Guy, But He Doesn't Have Much Time

    I love my boyfriend. He knows how to play guitar, clarinet, piano and even the drums. He performs for 3 (or even 4) beginning groups. He also works in sound engineering. I think he's really talented, although I don't always understand the music he plays! And another thing - even...
    whywouldyou whywouldyou 18-21, F Aug 2, 2009

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    So Long

    Hmm Im a pianist, Piano is my life. My Bf of almost two years, play bass and guitar. And is attempting to learn piano. *miserably i might add* But ive always dated musicians. Idk maybe its the music in me. :)
    Artemis17 Artemis17 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 15, 2010

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    Dating A Drummer

    Hi! I am completely in love with an amazing guy who is working towards becoming a professional drummer. We have been dating for 2 and a half years. He is graduating soon from college and is looking into different areas like the Navy bands, cruise ships, gigging in cities, etc. We...
    Elnida Elnida 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 21, 2012

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    I used to always wonder what it was like to

    date a band member.I always wondered what it would be like to go to their shows and already know all their new songs, and have new merch before anyone else, and be able to go back stage without anyone saying anything to me.I was always so curious, and thought it would be so cool...
    TeddyBearTweaker TeddyBearTweaker 18-21, F Jul 6

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    What Do I Do???? :(

    Okay, I really need help on this situation. I'll start from the beginning. We met online... I saw his pic and profile first, and he really caught my eye. He seemed like a genuinely nice guy. I emailed him, told him my name, and told him to drop me a line. He emailed me about a...
    marshay marshay 26-30 2 Responses Mar 21, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    Both of my parents were music teachers. Strange, as I never once saw either play at home...Ever. In 4th grade I started on cello and by 5th I was competing in the State finals...
    Beaver318 Beaver318 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 5

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    A few musicians that I adore would be Zac Brown, Martin Johnson from "Boys Like Girls," Avril Lavigne, Shaun Morgan from "Seether," and Big Smo.
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    Living in a small town makes it hard for some folks to meet decent dating material. But I live in a big city bustling with single people from all ages and let me tell you, it doesn...
    Bellamae Bellamae 41-45, F Aug 8

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    Dating is hard enough, and it will be more difficult when it comes to dating with STDs. Thanks for the online dating platform provide a new chance for people living with STDs to...
    stdaustralia stdaustralia 22-25, F Aug 11

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    Dating is hard enough, and it will be more difficult when it comes to dating with STDs. Thanks for the online dating platform provide a new chance for people living with STDs to...
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    Dating is hard enough, and it will be more difficult when it comes to dating with STDs. Thanks for the online dating platform provide a new chance for people living with STDs to...
    stdaustralia stdaustralia 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I don't know why, but dating and I don't seem to get along. I've been thinking about getting back in the dating scene, but based on my past experiences in finding a date, I know it...
    jamie1292 jamie1292 22-25, M 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    Not all men and women have the same romantic needs in life. Some prefer the member of the opposite sex to be of the same age, some prefer individuals older to them, while some...
    janecc11 janecc11 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    Not all men and women have the same romantic needs in life. Some prefer the member of the opposite sex to be of the same age, some prefer individuals older to them, while some...
    janecc11 janecc11 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    Not all men and women have the same romantic needs in life. Some prefer the member of the opposite sex to be of the same age, some prefer individuals older to them, while some...
    janecc11 janecc11 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I am currently in a relationship with a pre-op, pre-testosterone FTM. FTM, for those who don't know, stands for female-to-male, meaning that he is transgender as he was born with...
    Psychedelicbarf Psychedelicbarf 16-17, F Jul 25

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    So I've started dating again after my emotionally abusive boyfriend left me a few months ago. We were together for 9 months and even though there is still scarring there I felt...
    Equine228 Equine228 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 12

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    Younger Women Looking for Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F Jul 21

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    Younger Women Looking For Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
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    Younger Women Looking For Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I don't discriminate when it comes to dating. I think people who do are so blind to what else is out there. I'm black, and I've only been with 2 black guys in my life. I love white...
    cocopuffnation cocopuffnation 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    It did not work out the way that I'd hoped. I won't name the site that I used, but I created a profile about 2 years ago (2012ish), and figured it give it a shot. I answered a...
    moonchile moonchile 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 28

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    So I have learned online dating really sucks!! I have also learned guys are way more pickier then the girls. They want the girls who look like models and hurt then in the end...
    feelinglost84 feelinglost84 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 2

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    The Reasons of Older Men Younger Women Dating . Older men date younger women for many reasons. It does not depends on age most of the time as much as depend on Passion, love and...
    caitlincc11 caitlincc11 22-25, F Aug 7

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    I dont understand some people make this platform for dating and talking dirty. Some even start getting cozy and start calling you sweets when you dont even know them properly. I...
    TrueLoverN TrueLoverN 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    I've always had really great experiences with online dating. It's great for going outside your social circle and meeting new personalities. I would have to say my most...
    blazeee blazeee 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    I suppose the most realistic attitude a woman could have towards online dating is cynicism. The British musical artist La Roux's "Bulletproof" seems to captivate the aforementioned...
    Chaotician Chaotician 22-25, M Aug 8

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    Hey guys its been awhile some people asked me if I still wear diapers cause in some old stories I said I did. Well I was always incontinent and I used to be embarrassed. But I...
    Hope2456 Hope2456 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 10

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    I joined EP for charity work and other things not to talk and date haha. I have a wonderful boyfriend and in a happy relationship no need to experience guys and dating. Love this...
    Klcataldo Klcataldo 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    Well, I feel I'm progressing.. The biggest struggle I have is believing a person finds me attractive (mind and body) and not jumping to unhelpful conclusions because of that...
    liltree liltree 31-35, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Why does dating suck. Im so sick of letting myself getting hurt. I knew better and I still let it happen. Why do i always pick the emotionally unavailable men! **** Dating!
    AdelaideKane AdelaideKane 36-40, F 2 days ago

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    I tired haven't seem to be working maybe I'm not doing it right and what if this guy is a killer or something I'm kind of scared at the sametime I watched to many horror movies and...
    Crazybunny101 Crazybunny101 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 21

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    Let's get things straight. I am a highly educated, attractive, fit, financially stable professional. I am well-read, well-rounded and well-traveled. I just so happen to have become...
    bioprof34 bioprof34 31-35 1 Response Jul 21

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    This isn't a dating website. It'a a site to share experiences with others. I mean, for all I know, if I did want to date on here, I could be really talking to a 50 year old pervert...
    xMikayla xMikayla 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    Haha, I just realized this yesterday. Often... I wont really be dating.. But ?. Sort of speaking in a figure og speech, like maybe I am not there. Or it is just... another view...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M Jul 21

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    I am a 16 year old girl dating a 23 year old. I am completely aware of how this could be seen as dangerous and wrong. I am not in this relationship for any unhealthy reasons and I...
    0hman 0hman 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I love dating outside my race. it has taught me a lot about life and people must mostly it has taught me to look beyond skin color and really look inside. I will never stop looking...
    glendastar glendastar 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    So my and my boyfriend have been dating for about 4 months but have been good friends for about 2 years. We are also both about to be seniors in high school. Although his guy...
    laxlife laxlife 16-17, F Jul 26

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    I was suppose to meet the guy I'm seeing for the 4th time on Friday but had to cancel due to child care problems.. it's been a few days and I haven't heard from him which is...
    Mama86 Mama86 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 27

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    Saw that my bf is a member of many dating websites. A slapin the face.
    lynnys lynnys 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 29

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    I never looked at EP as a dating website. Who wants to be friends with me? :D
    szchwakovpf szchwakovpf 18-21, M Jul 29

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    Hello, I'm in my very late 40s and have been on my own (outside relationships) most of my life. I had my last long relationship 10 yrs ago and that was for 2.5 yrs. The intention...
    maejay maejay 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 29