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I Am Dating a Musician

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 24 People

    I have been with my boyfriend

    for a little over two years and he is a guitar player in a touring band. When we first got together, he was only playing local shows so I grew accustomed to having him around all the time. However, they are finally experiencing their #1 dream of touring. I'm so proud of him...
    katie8680 katie8680 26-30, F Feb 2, 2014

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    What Do I Do???? :(

    Okay, I really need help on this situation. I'll start from the beginning. We met online... I saw his pic and profile first, and he really caught my eye. He seemed like a genuinely nice guy. I emailed him, told him my name, and told him to drop me a line. He emailed me about a...
    marshay marshay 26-30 2 Responses Mar 21, 2009

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       My current boyfriend is a

    drummer for a local band around my area. I have dated musicians before but nothing is like dating a metal-head drummer. I have been and experienced things I never thought existed! I help out with putting his set together before they get on stage and off. It was my idea for him...
    LuckieCharmz93 LuckieCharmz93 18-21, F Jul 28, 2014

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    So Long

    Hmm Im a pianist, Piano is my life. My Bf of almost two years, play bass and guitar. And is attempting to learn piano. *miserably i might add* But ive always dated musicians. Idk maybe its the music in me. :)
    Artemis17 Artemis17 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 15, 2010

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    My Boyfriend

    Okay, so we're not exactly "dating". I may be weird but I think the concept of a "date" in the traditional sense is very narrow. Anyhow. My boyfriend plays his improvisations which are really impressive. He's a talented piano/keyboard player and has made...
    naranja naranja 26-30, F 5 Responses May 2, 2009

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    Euphonia

     I would love to date another musician. Not only would she have to have excellent taste in music, but she and I could actually TALK about music! "The Pelog C pre-chorus is the ****. But what if you modified the Petatonic Blues scale for the bridge? That...
    zeligocity zeligocity 22-25, M 9 Responses Mar 21, 2009

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    I Guess I Don't Qualify

    I'm a musician who used to date before I married.
    ChipmunkErnie ChipmunkErnie 61-65, M 6 Responses Aug 3, 2009

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    He's a Great Guy, But He Doesn't Have Much Time

    I love my boyfriend. He knows how to play guitar, clarinet, piano and even the drums. He performs for 3 (or even 4) beginning groups. He also works in sound engineering. I think he's really talented, although I don't always understand the music he plays! And another thing - even...
    whywouldyou whywouldyou 18-21, F Aug 2, 2009

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    I used to always wonder what it was like to

    date a band member.I always wondered what it would be like to go to their shows and already know all their new songs, and have new merch before anyone else, and be able to go back stage without anyone saying anything to me.I was always so curious, and thought it would be so cool...
    TeddyBearTweaker TeddyBearTweaker 18-21, F Jul 6, 2014

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    I Am A Woman Musician

    I'm a woman musician, and am hoping to find a man for a long term relationship, who also plays old time music, such as guitar, fiddle or banjo.  It's hard being a woman musician because most of the places I go there are mostly men there.  The men I have tried to jam...
    flowerbells flowerbells 66-70, F 2 Responses Feb 20, 2010

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    Dating A Drummer

    Hi! I am completely in love with an amazing guy who is working towards becoming a professional drummer. We have been dating for 2 and a half years. He is graduating soon from college and is looking into different areas like the Navy bands, cruise ships, gigging in cities, etc. We...
    Elnida Elnida 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 21, 2012

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    As a Musician and having played in bands and having spent many hours in a recording studio throughout my life Im now really fed up with bands toiday and their ''sub standard...
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    I have been to numerous dating sites, trying to take chances of finding a man to be in a romantic relationship with or even just a friendly one, because I do believe that long...
    nbsbgal nbsbgal 22-25, F Mar 30

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    Hey all I want to share my experiences of dating a widower........ When I found out the man I was talking to was a widower I have to admit I was scared I wasn't strong enough and...
    Becky1711 Becky1711 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    I'm not really into the whole gay scene that much when it comes to bars, nightclubs or even Starbucks that much (best friend took me once to find people to talk to; so many snobby...
    jamie1292 jamie1292 22-25, M Mar 22

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    When I was 19 I met this Indian American guy online. He was supposedly 22 at that time. We were really just friends in the beginning. However slowly we started falling in love. He...
    thisisparadise thisisparadise 22-25, F Mar 22

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    I met a guy on an online dating app called scout and we had an incredible connection. We used to message back and forth. After a while we decided to talk on skype. Our video chat...
    itsmeagaim itsmeagaim 22-25, F Mar 23

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    I do know one or two couples who met through dating agencies of one sort or another (internet or not), but generally I regard them as cynical and parasitical. If you are unable to...
    Perspicares Perspicares 61-65, M 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I think I need to either stop dating entirely. Or stop dating smart,educated women. Cause deep intellectual conversations seem to end badly. My beliefs and opinions are strong and...
    pecos666 pecos666 36-40, M Mar 29

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    I never thought I'd still be dating at this stage in my life. I was supposed to be settled down by now with a husband, white picket fence, 2.5 kids and a dog. And I still hate...
    CAgrlnGA CAgrlnGA 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    There is something I need to get of my chest and I suppose that's what this is all about. I "met" this guy through a very popular online site recently.. Wow. He seemed perfect...
    wingofthebutterfly wingofthebutterfly 46-50, F 10 Responses Apr 5

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    In the course of dating smokers, I find the majority on smokers dating sites are women who started their cigarette habit in their teens and 20s. But not all. It seems while smoking...
    Freekorps Freekorps 56-60, M 4 days ago

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    I am not now dating a widower. After 11 years I got tired of feeling like I was dating a married man ... just one with a wife in the grave. He was good to me overall. His family...
    FoolForElevenYears FoolForElevenYears 51-55, F 4 days ago

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    So, I'm a freshmen in college, and am currently dating a black guy, I am white myself. Now, my whole family is against this, but since I was a freshmen in high school my parents...
    CollegeStudent9396 CollegeStudent9396 18-21 1 Response 3 days ago

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    honestly, I just believe in finding one person for the purpose of marriage. I think that senseless dating and being with a person you would never consider spending the rest of your...
    KylieKaat KylieKaat 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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    this has been a long week for me. i went out with this guy whom i just started talking to recently on a date monday night. he gets a phone call saying his daughter had been hurt...
    blkbamabelle blkbamabelle 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    Once I felt lonely for several years and I didn’t manage to find a boyfriend. I tried almost everything including asking strange girls out. But any of my efforts succeeded. So a...
    EfeFarren EfeFarren 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 20

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    I was against it for a long time and I thought it was stupid. I should have just maintained that opinion. there are great guys out there but Tinder, etc has made it that nobody...
    pinktulips29 pinktulips29 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    So we chat up random people about random things that don't even matter. There's so many different meet up and dating apps. So many of the people on there I won't remember a month...
    alyssakayart alyssakayart 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I've been dating my widower for over three years, and the late wife has been gone for nearly seven. We even moved in together because he said that he wanted to spend the rest of...
    nevereverenough nevereverenough 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    What do you think of meeting someone off an online dating site?
    michellerozsa michellerozsa 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 26

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    Guys tell me if there was a girl you haven't slept with yet but you want to really bad after 3 months of casual dating but you have been sincere with her telling her you are not...
    syntheticrhyme syntheticrhyme 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    Online dating makes me feel like **** sometimes. If I message someone who I find cute, or not necessarily extremely attractive but not horrible, they'll message me for a little...
    idontknow2658 idontknow2658 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 1

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    your stupid and perverted and can't use grammar if you think this experience has anything to do with oral. it means the person is really bad at dating!!
    darkprinsus darkprinsus 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    this dating thing is mystery. Most of the over 40 are newly divorced & have the residue of the previous relationship. Not having a clue of letting go
    girleve girleve 70+, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    If I wanted to date, I'd go on an actual dating site.
    PinkChocolate00 PinkChocolate00 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have never enjoy the date world and I thought that I am still in this world. I have dream that I would be marry with some kids at my age but I am still single. I hate dating...
    AZraven AZraven 36-40, M 5 days ago

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    So how do you exactly know if you're ready to date someone? like, you're not just being desperate... if you go looking for a potential date, does that mean, you are being...
    kmisfit123 kmisfit123 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    So is it possible to find the love of your life online or through a dating app?
    coraimaal coraimaal 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I'm one of those people that thinks meeting people and dating sounds really fun, but I'm also one of those people that's terrified by social interaction with people I don't know.
    BroguesAndJeans BroguesAndJeans 16-17, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    https://soundcloud.com/mat-earley/ready-go
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 1 hr ago