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I Am Dating a Musician

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    What Do I Do???? :(

    Okay, I really need help on this situation. I'll start from the beginning. We met online... I saw his pic and profile first, and he really caught my eye. He seemed like a genuinely nice guy. I emailed him, told him my name, and told him to drop me a line. He emailed me about a...
    marshay marshay 26-30 2 Responses Mar 21, 2009

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    My Boyfriend

    Okay, so we're not exactly "dating". I may be weird but I think the concept of a "date" in the traditional sense is very narrow. Anyhow. My boyfriend plays his improvisations which are really impressive. He's a talented piano/keyboard player and has made...
    naranja naranja 26-30, F 5 Responses May 2, 2009

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    I used to always wonder what it was like to

    date a band member.I always wondered what it would be like to go to their shows and already know all their new songs, and have new merch before anyone else, and be able to go back stage without anyone saying anything to me.I was always so curious, and thought it would be so cool...
    TeddyBearTweaker TeddyBearTweaker 18-21, F Jul 6, 2014

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    He's a Great Guy, But He Doesn't Have Much Time

    I love my boyfriend. He knows how to play guitar, clarinet, piano and even the drums. He performs for 3 (or even 4) beginning groups. He also works in sound engineering. I think he's really talented, although I don't always understand the music he plays! And another thing - even...
    whywouldyou whywouldyou 18-21, F Aug 2, 2009

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    I Guess I Don't Qualify

    I'm a musician who used to date before I married.
    ChipmunkErnie ChipmunkErnie 61-65, M 6 Responses Aug 3, 2009

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       My current boyfriend is a

    drummer for a local band around my area. I have dated musicians before but nothing is like dating a metal-head drummer. I have been and experienced things I never thought existed! I help out with putting his set together before they get on stage and off. It was my idea for him...
    LuckieCharmz93 LuckieCharmz93 18-21, F Jul 28, 2014

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    I have been with my boyfriend

    for a little over two years and he is a guitar player in a touring band. When we first got together, he was only playing local shows so I grew accustomed to having him around all the time. However, they are finally experiencing their #1 dream of touring. I'm so proud of him...
    katie8680 katie8680 26-30, F Feb 2, 2014

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    I Am A Woman Musician

    I'm a woman musician, and am hoping to find a man for a long term relationship, who also plays old time music, such as guitar, fiddle or banjo.  It's hard being a woman musician because most of the places I go there are mostly men there.  The men I have tried to jam...
    flowerbells flowerbells 66-70, F 2 Responses Feb 20, 2010

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    Euphonia

     I would love to date another musician. Not only would she have to have excellent taste in music, but she and I could actually TALK about music! "The Pelog C pre-chorus is the ****. But what if you modified the Petatonic Blues scale for the bridge? That...
    zeligocity zeligocity 22-25, M 9 Responses Mar 21, 2009

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    Dating A Drummer

    Hi! I am completely in love with an amazing guy who is working towards becoming a professional drummer. We have been dating for 2 and a half years. He is graduating soon from college and is looking into different areas like the Navy bands, cruise ships, gigging in cities, etc. We...
    Elnida Elnida 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 21, 2012

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    So Long

    Hmm Im a pianist, Piano is my life. My Bf of almost two years, play bass and guitar. And is attempting to learn piano. *miserably i might add* But ive always dated musicians. Idk maybe its the music in me. :)
    Artemis17 Artemis17 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 15, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    I've been on many online dating sites for almost 3 years now, and still single after then. you'd think for a bi guy I'd atleast find someone out there
    lokistark lokistark 18-21, M 3 hrs ago

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    I still do online dating! Pretty sure it's the only way for me to get into relationships.
    PendulEmPlum PendulEmPlum 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    As a Musician and having played in bands and having spent many hours in a recording studio throughout my life Im now really fed up with bands toiday and their ''sub standard...
    musica5 musica5 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 8

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    We met a couple years ago but started dating last January and in June 2014 he asked me to marry him. We will be getting married August 2016 and I'm so worried about us being...
    brittany12309 brittany12309 26-30, F Apr 19

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    I'm a violinist are there any other classical musicians here?
    Amacey Amacey 16-17, F 11 Responses Apr 22

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    AgeLessWooCom AgeLessWooCom 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    Hey all I want to share my experiences of dating a widower........ When I found out the man I was talking to was a widower I have to admit I was scared I wasn't strong enough and...
    Becky1711 Becky1711 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 15

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    I'm sick of getting hurt all the time by guys I was dating this really nice guy who has been my best friend for 5-6 years now..and all threw the time we knew each other we have...
    Brokenheartedloner10 Brokenheartedloner10 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    There is something I need to get of my chest and I suppose that's what this is all about. I "met" this guy through a very popular online site recently.. Wow. He seemed perfect...
    wingofthebutterfly wingofthebutterfly 46-50, F 10 Responses Apr 5

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    In the course of dating smokers, I find the majority on smokers dating sites are women who started their cigarette habit in their teens and 20s. But not all. It seems while smoking...
    Freekorps Freekorps 56-60, M Apr 13

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    I am not now dating a widower. After 11 years I got tired of feeling like I was dating a married man ... just one with a wife in the grave. He was good to me overall. His family...
    FoolForElevenYears FoolForElevenYears 51-55, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    So, I'm a freshmen in college, and am currently dating a black guy, I am white myself. Now, my whole family is against this, but since I was a freshmen in high school my parents...
    CollegeStudent9396 CollegeStudent9396 18-21 1 Response Apr 15

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    I just finished checking my inbox, NOT on EP. So far, I don't love what I see. Most of these guys seem so lame or are not attractive or are booring. Sigh, I hate online dating but...
    Nadine1986 Nadine1986 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 21

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    Good morning Ep, last night I got a letter asking to talk a little about the crazy world of dating with a disability--now to be honest I'm hardly the guy to give any kind of dating...
    ChasingSuperman ChasingSuperman 26-30, M Apr 22

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    You know I hate when people say you only do online dating because you're ugly. Um excuse me, but did you morons ever think that it's hard to find someone in the real world...
    EgoInSomnisResurget EgoInSomnisResurget 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    your stupid and perverted and can't use grammar if you think this experience has anything to do with oral. it means the person is really bad at dating!!
    darkprinsus darkprinsus 13-15, F 4 Responses Apr 7

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    this dating thing is mystery. Most of the over 40 are newly divorced & have the residue of the previous relationship. Not having a clue of letting go
    girleve girleve 70+, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    If I wanted to date, I'd go on an actual dating site.
    PinkChocolate00 PinkChocolate00 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    I have never enjoy the date world and I thought that I am still in this world. I have dream that I would be marry with some kids at my age but I am still single. I hate dating...
    AZraven AZraven 36-40, M Apr 12

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    So how do you exactly know if you're ready to date someone? like, you're not just being desperate... if you go looking for a potential date, does that mean, you are being...
    kmisfit123 kmisfit123 18-21, F Apr 14

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    So is it possible to find the love of your life online or through a dating app?
    coraimaal coraimaal 18-21, F Apr 14

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    I'm one of those people that thinks meeting people and dating sounds really fun, but I'm also one of those people that's terrified by social interaction with people I don't know.
    BroguesAndJeans BroguesAndJeans 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 17

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    Recently have been separated from someone I've been dating for two years, out of the blue. She now treats me like I don't exist and sends me formal emails when she needs to talk to...
    AnonymousBacon AnonymousBacon 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 23

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    I'm really not. I am already in a relationship. I use EP to vent, or otherwise describe feelings I can't describe anywhere else. This is my outlet, kinda like how people use...
    sunatdawn214 sunatdawn214 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 23

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    this the. worst......I hate dating....everyone on there best behavior which is a lie
    girleve girleve 70+, F 1 Response Apr 25

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    Hello everyone! I have been dating a widower for almost 8 months now. Overall we have a great relationship and our children are crazy about each other, even his family likes me and...
    charity82 charity82 31-35, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am 28 and have been dating a 54 year old married guy for 2 years. He is in LA and I am in NYC. We met thru business. I am always super careful about sending him pics, texts, etc...
    BrokeninBrooklym BrokeninBrooklym 26-30, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    Well I'm not necessarily dating this older guy yet, we're at the early stages of talking and getting to know one another. But the issue (of it's actually considered an issue) is...
    SincerelyLorissa SincerelyLorissa 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I have met this "someone" with Aspie from an online dating site. In his profile, he stated that he was diagnosed to have Asperger's syndrome when he was 4, and both him and his mom...
    nbsbgal nbsbgal 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    I'm only 18 but I swear I am done with dating. All my relationships have sucked, I'm always the one who gets hurt, I don't want to give anyone my heart ever again :p
    Madison18 Madison18 18-21, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    Hi everyone. I'm seeking some encouragement. I'm dating a man who lost his wife 4 months ago. I did not know him or his wife before she passed. I've never been in a situation like...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 2 days ago