I Am Dating a Musician

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     I would love to date another musician. Not only would she have to have excellent taste in music, but she and I could actually TALK about music! "The Pelog C pre-chorus is the ****. But what if you modified the Petatonic Blues scale for the bridge? That...
    zeligocity zeligocity
    22-25, M
    9 Responses Mar 21, 2009

    Dating A Drummer

    Hi! I am completely in love with an amazing guy who is working towards becoming a professional drummer. We have been dating for 2 and a half years. He is graduating soon from college and is looking into different areas like the Navy bands, cruise ships, gigging in cities, etc. We...
    Elnida Elnida
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 21, 2012

    What Do I Do???? :(

    Okay, I really need help on this situation. I'll start from the beginning. We met online... I saw his pic and profile first, and he really caught my eye. He seemed like a genuinely nice guy. I emailed him, told him my name, and told him to drop me a line. He emailed me about a...
    marshay marshay
    2 Responses Mar 21, 2009

    so I'm a year and a half into a serious long

    distance relationship with a musician. I'm sure you're all laughing now but I've known this man for 18 years and trust him with my life. I'm not here to moan about "how do I do this", not today at least, I'm here with a quandary though.... since he's touring across the ocean...
    JessUndercover JessUndercover
    31-35, F
    Feb 4, 2016

    He's a Great Guy, But He Doesn't Have Much Time

    I love my boyfriend. He knows how to play guitar, clarinet, piano and even the drums. He performs for 3 (or even 4) beginning groups. He also works in sound engineering. I think he's really talented, although I don't always understand the music he plays! And another thing - even...
    whywouldyou whywouldyou
    18-21, F
    Aug 2, 2009

    I have been with my boyfriend

    for a little over two years and he is a guitar player in a touring band. When we first got together, he was only playing local shows so I grew accustomed to having him around all the time. However, they are finally experiencing their #1 dream of touring. I'm so proud of him...
    katie8680 katie8680
    26-30, F
    Feb 2, 2014

    I used to always wonder what it was like to

    date a band member.I always wondered what it would be like to go to their shows and already know all their new songs, and have new merch before anyone else, and be able to go back stage without anyone saying anything to me.I was always so curious, and thought it would be so cool...
    TeddyBearTweaker TeddyBearTweaker
    18-21, F
    Jul 6, 2014

    My Boyfriend

    Okay, so we're not exactly "dating". I may be weird but I think the concept of a "date" in the traditional sense is very narrow. Anyhow. My boyfriend plays his improvisations which are really impressive. He's a talented piano/keyboard player and has made...
    naranja naranja
    26-30, F
    5 Responses May 2, 2009

    As I'm writing this post,

    I am in tears because while I am not a musician's wife, I am the girlfriend of a musician (we are very committed to each other and we currently live together) and I NEVER thought I would be going through all these emotions and feelings that everyone else seems to be feeling as...
    deexlee deexlee
    22-25, F
    Feb 9, 2016

    So Long

    Hmm Im a pianist, Piano is my life. My Bf of almost two years, play bass and guitar. And is attempting to learn piano. *miserably i might add* But ive always dated musicians. Idk maybe its the music in me. :)
    Artemis17 Artemis17
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 15, 2010

       My current boyfriend is a

    drummer for a local band around my area. I have dated musicians before but nothing is like dating a metal-head drummer. I have been and experienced things I never thought existed! I help out with putting his set together before they get on stage and off. It was my idea for him...
    LuckieCharmz93 LuckieCharmz93
    22-25, F
    Jul 28, 2014

    I Am A Woman Musician

    I'm a woman musician, and am hoping to find a man for a long term relationship, who also plays old time music, such as guitar, fiddle or banjo.  It's hard being a woman musician because most of the places I go there are mostly men there.  The men I have tried to jam...
    flowerbells flowerbells
    66-70, F
    2 Responses Feb 20, 2010
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