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I Am Dating a Younger Man

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    Unsure.

    I have read (part of) the stories in this group and they have me feeling slightly better...only slightly. My bf is 1 yr and 10 mo. younger than me...and I'm 18. He's legally old enough to...do the dirty...if we so choose, but that's not really the point. He's had to grow up fast...
    frankiewalkingdeadgirl frankiewalkingdeadgirl 16-17, F Jul 21, 2009

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    What's Wrong With Dating Younger Man?

    I'm dating a guy 3 years younger than me. He's 25 and I'm 28. Is it wrong dating someone younger?  Yes, there is alot of opinions from outsiders, but you can not judge before you've been in the same situation.  And I've never been happier. We are planning on getting...
    kharamia kharamia 26-30, F 8 Responses May 6, 2009

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    I Am Dating a Younger Man

    OK, so my boyfriend is only about 2 1/2 years younger than me, but believe me it meant a lot until he finally turned 21! It still messes with my head when he calls me cougar or craddle robber! My friends all think it is funny as can be. I just keep saying, at least he...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 10, 2008

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    Hurt: Feeling Old, Confused, And Relieved...

    It's only been a month, but what a whirlwind. I am dating a man/boy who is 13 years younger than I am. I have a daughter who is 4 years younger than him. I was enjoying his company. He made life more interesting. I thought I was content in a fun good time kind of...
    prettyPUMAnotcougar prettyPUMAnotcougar 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 27, 2009

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    I Am Happy To Be :)

    Well my sweetie is 29 almost a full year younger then my baby sister, I would be content to stick with my younger guy forever, hes a hell of allot more mature then my ex who was older then I am. I am proud to be a 34 year old dating a 29 year old (I know its sorta wrong but we...
    vampyres32 vampyres32 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 15, 2010

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    I'm Seeing A Guy Eight Years Younger Than I...

    Destiny brought us together...It's been almost two years since the first day we met. I never thought we would last this long. Meeting him healed my heart from the hurt I experienced with my X. There are so many things I admire about my younger lover. His character is what I most...
    LagoonNebula LagoonNebula 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 5, 2013

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    So you want to date a cougar?

    Well, that is an interesting and exciting choice you’ve made. Cougar women are such fine creatures, lovelier and more self-possessed than their younger sisters. It would be a prize to date a cougar and keep her for as long as you can.If you are thinking to yourself, &ldquo...
    GarthPasche GarthPasche 46-50, F Jun 28

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    Need Advice: I'm Falling For Someone 4 Years Younger Than Me

    I'm a 23 year old female, and I recently began to have feelings for someone four years younger than I am. We kissed at the end of last summer and two days later he went off to college far away; last night we went to a party and hung out all night and ending up making out again...
    behindthesmile86 behindthesmile86 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 11, 2009

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    Hi

    i am 20 searching for older woman
    maxmckayy maxmckayy 36-40 1 Response Jan 21, 2012

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    Way Too Young

    I have a rather unique problem with my wife and our sexual relationship. It all began after we took a vacation in Japan. We are from Canada, so this was entirely new to us. The place we visited was at the seashore. Now you probably know that Japanese people like to eat raw fish...
    YellowToenails YellowToenails 41-45, M Jun 22, 2013

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    I'm 3 Months and 3 Days Shy of 9 Years Older

    I'm 27 and my boyfriend is 19.  We met a month and a half ago at a mutual friend's house.  I was intrigued from the moment I saw him.  When I talked to him I completely forgot about the age difference.  Later I stressed about it and almost...
    alisheaskylar alisheaskylar 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 28, 2008

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    Am I Being Weird!

    I am 26 and my now official boyfriend is 19 we have been together for about a year and a half but only officially/publicly for about 6 months. He had recently bulked up a lot muscle wise and grown a lot in the pants too!! yay for me! but he has got chest hair and a massive snail...
    hannahmitchell hannahmitchell 22-25, F Sep 24, 2013

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    Is It True Love?

    I am in a relationship with a man 19 years younger than me for about 2 years and living with him on weekends for about 6 mos. I am 40 and he is 21. We met on cougar dating site Sugarmommameet.com. I was married for 17 years and have three sons, one of which is only 2 years...
    1 Response Jan 11, 2013

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    Too Old For Him

    I have a rather unusual problem with my sex life. It’s not as though I don’t get enough attention from my wife. In fact, I get plenty, perhaps even too much. The problem has to do with what she expects of me, particularly in the heat of the moment. You see, my wife is...
    YellowToenails YellowToenails 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 22, 2013

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    I am 49, single parent to 2 sons.

    I met him last year, resisted a relationship for sometime before we dated. I didn't dare to ask his age till few month dating. We are total opposites, race wise and social background. He spends a lot of time on computer games and is still struggling with a lot things, but I find...
    OSY1 OSY1 46-50, F 3 Responses Mar 22

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    Are You There, Soul Mate??I've Been Looking For You For So Long

    im 28 yrs old... its been a long time since i and my ex we been break up. since that time i focus myself helping my brother supporting his 2 angels.. How i wish someday i will find Mr Right and we going to build a wonderful family...
    mskhunt mskhunt 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 28, 2013

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    Advice On Dating Younger Men?

    I’m in my late 40s, and recently divorced. I have no children.I’m in my late 30s, and recently divorced. I have no children. I’ve recently hit the dating scene again, and I’ve found that it is nearly impossible for me to be attracted to men around my age. I find men who...
    popmomma popmomma 41-45, F 5 Responses Dec 13, 2011

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    My Boyfriend Is Younger Than My Little Sister.

    Only by four months, but still.  He is four years and then some younger than me, which means at some point in the year I am actually five years older than him.   He'd dated older girls before me, but this was a first for me.  It was a bigger deal to me when we...
    Leather430 Leather430 21-25 2 Responses Jul 27, 2009

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    Older Men Younger Women Dating Site - AgeMeet.

    com AgeMeet.com is the # 1 dating for Older Men Younger Women Dating Site, it offers a meeting place where younger women seeking older men and older men dating younger women. This will also set you free from the embarrassment and annoyance of general dating places. Here at...
    sallycc17 sallycc17 26-30, F Apr 3

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    18 Years

     I was married to a man who was 1 year and 10 months younger than I, and it was the most miserable 20 years of my existence. He just wouldn't grow up!  Currently, I am dating a man 18 years younger than I and it's been really good so far.  He's really sweet, caring...
    Corvina Corvina 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 27, 2009

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    I Am Dating Someone Younger

    I am dating someone that is eight years younger than me.  Things are good for the most part, but I  seem to think to myself that it is hard to accept the fact that he is truely committed to me.  Maybe I am rushing this way of thinking, but I'm not getting any...
    crushme crushme 26-30, F 11 Responses Nov 13, 2008

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    Should I Or Shouldn't I?

    Well i met a guy online recently and he's only 22. I'm almost 27 and I don't know if I should even bother with him. I should say that we've talked on the phone a few times and he's nice, polite, honest, etc...actually more so than many of the older guys I've dated. I think a big...
    eekimateacher eekimateacher 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 28, 2012

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    Something New And Incredible

    I'm a single 41 year old mother of two. For the last 14 years, I have focused all of my attention on being a Mom and a provider. Sure, I dated, but men seemed to have no place in my life. Online Facebook steamy message flirting was basically all I had. I was good with that. But...
    sassafrass7204 sassafrass7204 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    I'm 33 and my new boo is 22 exactly11 yrs

    apart, I am starting to get over the age difference between us and race to me had never been an issue, but I am starting to see that he has to much of a childish personality, he likes dragon ball z he's into dark stuff like alliens and video...
    imladyofpraise imladyofpraise 31-35, F 7 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    Agesingle.Com Is Now Connecting Single Younger Women With Older Men Online

    As the #1 Age gap dating service, AgeSingle.com helps younger women looking for older men or vice-versa. A survey of 2000 adults showed that only one percent of women preferred a relationship with a younger men. In fact a whopping forty percent of respondents said they would be...
    agematch agematch 26-30, F Aug 29, 2013

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    WAYYYY Younger

    My adorable hunk is 22. I am 35. We just had a baby. His mom is PISSED. Not exactly what she had in mind for her college student son. He and I have been joined at the hip for more than 3 years, now. He is going to join the military, and he wants to get married so I can go...
    BizzyNina BizzyNina 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 17, 2009

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    Key To Older Women And Younger Men Dating

    If you are a man seeking an attractive younger woman or a young woman who feels she is not getting as much out of life as she would hope, then AgeMeet.com might be just the place for you! For centuries the maturity and experience of older men has assisted young women in...
    vickycc11 vickycc11 26-30, F Jun 4, 2013

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    Found Love With A Younger Man

    I was married to a man for 16 years and we separated and then finally divorced, so I have been alone for 10 years.  I dated here and there and had my "fb" guy, ya kno the one called u up and say hey I am in town u wanna get together.   I knew when I divorced I needed time to...
    TexasT44 TexasT44 41-45, F 3 Responses Oct 18, 2011

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    Worried About The Future

    Hi everyone! I am currently dating a younger man. I'm 26 and he's 21. We've been together for over a year and it's been great! We are also in a long distance relationship because he is in the army. He's stationed in Washington state and I'm in Georgia. I know it sounds like...
    leemuffin87 leemuffin87 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 25, 2013

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    Dating Younger men

    No age gap is too wide if you both feel so right. Love is ageless and pure. Hence, having a big age gap in a relationship should never pose a problem Still struggling to find Mature Dating website ? --== AgeMeet. C'om ==-- Best Cougar dating site in the world! For Cougars, dating...
    zaracc11 zaracc11 26-30, F Jun 23, 2013

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    Im 27 and hes 20. We met on okcupid

    and I was having a good day/night so an hour after we started talking we just decided to hang out and it was really well. We hung out from about 9pm to 2:45am. It was interesting because I didn't really feel any connection until I misheard what he said at one point and it...
    YoucancallmeJuliet YoucancallmeJuliet 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    Im Starting To Like A Muslim Guy Who Is 6 Years Younger Than Me

    Hi there.. 3 days passed I met this malay guy in chatting app,he asked for my number and I gave it.. from then on we always messaging each other he even called me once .. he admitted that he have crush on me and he also wanted to know me more but im 6 years older than him I want...
    altonarzie05 altonarzie05 26-30 1 Response Jul 2, 2013

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    He Asked To Borrow Money.. Omg. It Is Such A Big Turn Off.

    I dated this guy who aged 24. Too young for me. But considered. He was calling me almost every other day for a year. He was telling me things and places he went, his likes dislikes, family stories and significant thing about his da to day life. Until then one day we decided to...
    busybabe2012 busybabe2012 31-35, F 5 Responses Dec 19, 2011

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    Seems To Be My Trend

    I look much much younger than I am so I get hit on by men of all ages, but I seem to have a sweet spot with men about 8-12 years younger than I am. They are set in their careers at this point. These guys don't have a bunch of baggage. They are not self-centered and they know...
    sassyg1rl sassyg1rl 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2012

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    I have been dating a man 19 years young

    than myself for almost 4 years. We met online and talked for about 3 months before we met in person. I have yet to meet his friends or family at this point,mostly because his parents live in NYC. I can't help but wonder if there is a reason why I haven't. He sways he has no...
    eldermary43 eldermary43 46-50, F Mar 7

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    I'm Silly!

    Yes, I am... in a way. But not in a obvious way. Momo is just two years younger than me! But, by the reaction of one of my aunts, you'd think he was twenty years younger! XD Pfft to her! He's the same age as my sister. Heehee! :-) Granted, it is new to me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 18, 2009

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    18-22

    I just wanted to share my positive experience in dating a guy 4 years younger than me. I am aware that on the surface, an 18 year old male & a 22 year old female doesn't seem to be very noteworthy. But I've sort of had the responsibilities of a mid-twenties woman for the past 5...
    sangariel sangariel 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 4, 2012

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