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I Am Dating An Older Man

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 957 People

    He's 35 year old, I'm only 19.

    Yet, I don't let that get in the way. I'm his little "Black Beauty Queen", BBQ, for short. Funny? Haha. He's my Romanian King. I care for this man on a whole different level. My emotional attachment for him is so deep. I would never deny the fact I'm seeing him. I display his...
    ohwee12 ohwee12
    22-25, F
    13 Responses Dec 15, 2013

    I Am Head Over Heels In Love With My Old Man.

    I am 20 yrs old, and my boyfriend is 51. That's a 31 yr age difference. But its something I NEVER notice. We met at the bar I used to bartend at. He travels back and forth a lot for his job. We get to see each other every week, but still spend some days apart. We've been together...
    adawnell3937 adawnell3937
    18-21, F
    23 Responses Dec 18, 2010

    The guy I'm dating seems

    so cheap now ! He doesn't want to go out to eat or anything just stay home and watch movies . I mean it's nice but if he's cheap I at least want to know now ...
    mimilsu mimilsu
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 18, 2014
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy
    22-25, F
    Oct 7, 2014

    So im 18 years old and more

    than a month ago i met this amazing guy 12 years my senior, at first i thought he was way younger and got the shock of my life when i found out about his true age, after that i thought that that he will only see me as a kid and the two weeks passed with us talking and getting to...
    Sofire2697 Sofire2697
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 4, 2015

    I have been dating an older man

    for 10 yrs. He's 52, I'm 33. He is also anti-social, has social anxiety, or so he says. It never used to bother me, but maybe I never noticed it as much as I do now. We only go to drive thru or carry out, never eat in. We go to Walgreens & Walmart and that's it. No movies...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 1, 2016

    My Sexy Blond Guy

     I admired my boyfriend for 4 months before he ever knew I existed I even had his number programmed in my phone. He was friends with my guy cousin and I always asked about him thats how I found his number. Its weird but I kinda wished for him. I wanted a way to talk to him...
    Anasela Anasela
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Jan 27, 2010

    I'm 21 my new boyfriend is 25

    and he doesn't like to do anything fun only sit at home and watch Netflix when we hang out.. I'm in my party phase and just want to have fun but he clearly doesn't.:
    mimilsu mimilsu
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 3, 2014

    I'm 53 and the gentleman with whom I'm very

    attracted to is 71. I really love him a great deal. He's super intelligent which I love, witty, funny a deep thinker, very philosophical and secure in his own skin. I've yet to ever be with a man sexually/intimately due to many factors--being molested as a child several times...
    Dahling61 Dahling61
    56-60, F
    2 Responses Jul 17, 2014

    Age Does Not Define Compatability...

    I'm a college student dating a guy 30 years my senior. I'm practically 20. I love this relationship and regret nothing. Although we are both new to this we are not defining our potential based on our age or experience. The relevancy of age is quite acute honestly. Yes, he's...
    PixieStixs PixieStixs
    22-25, F
    11 Responses Nov 7, 2013

    Lyndsey and Michael: Age gap 41 yearsWE HAVE

    MORE SEX THAN COUPLES IN THEIR 30sLyndsey Armitage, 32, a community safety warden from Ash, Surrey, and her husband Michael, 73, a pub landlord, met 10 years ago. She says:“I was 22 when I first met Mike. At 63, he was 41 years older than me and I know it sounds ridiculous...
    killycc12 killycc12
    26-30, F
    Oct 15, 2014

    Some Insights On Older Men

    Generally, if you are in bed with an older guy there are a few things going on. tell me if I am wrong. He is in decent shape. So not only has he been driving his body longer, but he has a good sense of how it works. He was a combination of funnier, knowledgeable, experienced and...
    dragonofjapan dragonofjapan
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Nov 11, 2012

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    alliecc11 alliecc11
    26-30, F
    Aug 4, 2015

    I've been seeing this man

    for about 2 months now. We have been getting together at least twice a week ever since. We always have a great time together and have all similar interests, a lot in common, and both come from a similar upbringing, so that is something we bond over. I never thought it was...
    NJK560 NJK560
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

    I Am Dating A Much Older Man.

    I am 24 and he is 58.Dating an older man has it's ups and downs but there is something that you must understand, no matter what you hear you can not take it to heart since it does not determine how your relationship is or how it is going to be. When I started dating this guy I...
    lauracohen lauracohen
    26-30, F
    9 Responses Oct 7, 2013

    I just ended up knocking my water glass onto

    his lap and instead of shouting in surprise, I blurted that I really want to start a family. An average reaction to ice water soaking through silk, right? Sigh.
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 7, 2014


    I feel like a princess when dating an older man. I do not discredit my dating experiences with men my age or just younger than myself. But with older men I can be taught in a very, should I say maturely. Which is really important when something goes wrong. They can be awfully...
    ladyryan ladyryan
    46-50, F
    9 Responses Oct 30, 2011

    Ok. So I need a safe place to get advice.

    I have been interested in a friend of mine who is my neighbors older brother for a few years. Recently, I told him how I felt and he was over the moon excited because he has felt the same way, so it's kind of become a thing. I am currently going through a divorce and have 4 kids...
    chellebelle25 chellebelle25
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Aug 26, 2014

    I am 18 and i am dating a 39 year old.

    I am falling for him fast and have no intentions of ending what we have. He treats me with respect and has always been my rock. We are dating in secret right now but i have hopes of that changing soon. But i am worried about how much what people will say will effect him. No...
    hailey1738 hailey1738
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 30, 2013

    I'm dating a man 29 years older then me.

    We couldn't be more in love. Only several people in my life know, my family does not. We've only been dating for 7 months but we've already made the decision that we're going to get married within the next year. We already went engagement ring shopping and he wants to...
    lockedsweetheart lockedsweetheart
    31-35, F
    2 Responses May 25, 2014

    I'm 21 dating a 25 years old he's close to

    turning 26 but I'm in my "I want to drink and go to bars stage" and well he's not . He's more of stay at home watch movies all day . I mean I like that but I also want to go to bars with him and to clubs I'm barely starting to experience life .
    mimilsu mimilsu
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 18, 2014

    Age Is Unimportant

    I am 37 years old and am dating a 50 year old man. When we first starting seeing each other it was hard for me. People were sometimes cruel and didn't understand. They would ask if he was my father, uncle, anything but my boyfriend. Even my family did not understand. Now, after 4...
    martymay martymay
    36-40, F
    12 Responses Feb 14, 2012
    HeyMicki HeyMicki
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 12, 2014

    Didnt Expect This To Happen

    my boyfriend and I have been together a year and a half now. he's going to be 50 I just turned 23. I met him through my dad and I never expected to fall in love with him. he has been married 2 times and has 4 kids. I have 1 and she loves him called him dad after us dating 2...
    debra417 debra417
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 9, 2013

    It's so frustrating that I can't tell my family

    about my amazing bf because he is older and I'm not 18 quite yet 😕
    Rosetuck32 Rosetuck32
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 14, 2014

    Dating My Boss

    A couple of months ago I got my first job ever. Strangely enough, my boss started flirting with me at work and we hit off. Anyway, he was 27 and I was 17, and like most parents they were not very happy with the age difference. But now  months later, we are very happy...
    aiikii aiikii
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Feb 5, 2008

    I just like older man,

    why so? I don't know, I really get melted when an old men looks at me, I'm obviously not dating a one, when I talk to them, the majority of them are my teachers, it never takes an emotional way maybe because I'm a shy girl. However, so my experience is pretty much ordinary but I...
    Skyfull Skyfull
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 15, 2014

    My Boyfriend Lives An Ocean Away

    And is 56 while I am 19. Nevertheless I am extremely happy and in love in this relationship. My parents and friends know about it, though at first there was a lot of drama involved. So far, after over a year together, I have no regrets. I think it requires a lot of strength and...
    zwierzkun zwierzkun
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Oct 26, 2013

    I Was Dating An Older Man And Then...

    I married him!! And I have been living happily ever after since. I wonder why I wasted so much time with men my age or younger.
    cesalie123 cesalie123
    36-40, F
    13 Responses Feb 8, 2013

    I'm 22 years old and my boyfriend is 51.

    We have been together for almost 9 months and live together. Our relationship is absolutely perfect. Honest and open communication. We can laugh and have serious conversations together. We have such an electric energy between us, especially when we are laughing and battling wits...
    nancy422 nancy422
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 22, 2013

    Judging Books

    I met C when he came in looking for maternity bras for his wife. I work at a lingerie shop catering to maternity, larger sizes, and mastectomy needs. He had that "look" most men do when coming into a lingerie shop. They don't know what to expect so we try to make it an...
    MiNameisMimi MiNameisMimi
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Mar 10, 2013

    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    minniecc11 minniecc11
    26-30, F
    Jan 15, 2015

    4:53 P.M. We arrive

    and park close to the house. I take a shallow, sharp breath as I walk towards the door. When I open it, warm greetings and friendly smiles meet me. 5:25 p.m. After supper, I tell my father that I have to talk to him. I promise it won't take too long. With Joseph in tow, we...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 13, 2014

    Something About The Way I Was Held

    Age and experience don't always come hand in hand, but with my ex it did. His heart had been broken by girls older and younger than me. But even though I was broken when we met, I think I had the innocence he needed in a love. For my part, I needed someone to do what was best for...
    ccatcraft ccatcraft
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 17, 2013

    30+ Year Age Difference

    Hey Everyone, It's great to read others stories, similar to my own, Knowing you're not the only one is very comforting. So my boyfriend, whom I live with, is perfect for me, in every way except his age.. It's so unfair and I feel like I was cheated out of a very certain life...
    annon2613 annon2613
    26-30, F
    8 Responses Oct 14, 2013

    Older + Sexy = Estacy

    I don't know where this man has been but I'm so glad we have crossed paths. This man is absolutely incredible and I can't get enough of him sexually. I want go be naked with him 24/7! He not only makes me feel sexy but completely satisfies me sexually. The passionate kisses...
    REMY2227 REMY2227
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Oct 12, 2013

    I am a 26 year old woman dating a 58 year old

    man. I know how crazy that sounds, but he doesn't look or act like he's 58. He's amazing and I wouldn't want it any other way!!
    Janine306 Janine306
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jul 12, 2014

    Lyndsey and Michael: Age gap 41 yearsWE HAVE

    MORE SEX THAN COUPLES IN THEIR 30sLyndsey Armitage, 32, a community safety warden from Ash, Surrey, and her husband Michael, 73, a pub landlord, met 10 years ago. She says:“I was 22 when I first met Mike. At 63, he was 41 years older than me and I know it sounds ridiculous...
    killycc12 killycc12
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 15, 2014

    My bf is 41 and I'm 18.

    I don't even see an age with him. He looks a lot younger than he is and acts it too. People tell me it's gross but all I see is him and his personality. Not his age.
    Rosetuck32 Rosetuck32
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Sep 7, 2014

    I am twenty and my boyfriend is sixty-three.

    No, I am not embarrassed. No, I am not his "trophy," nor is he my sugar daddy. We are purely in love. :)
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Sep 14, 2014

    My fiancé is 10 years older

    than me. I prefer older men.
    atatt atatt
    31-35, F
    Oct 20, 2014

    I am 20 and my boyfriend is 38: an 18 year

    difference. It's only been a month so I don't have much to say, but it's not awkward or uncomfortable like so many people warned me. He's in better shape than I am, and we're both homebodies who enjoy a night in watching movies more than going out drinking. I'm more afraid of...
    Eoligos Eoligos
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 25, 2014

    Im dating a guy whos 27 im 19

    but we are both as mature as each other and have a great relationship.
    Ldalg Ldalg
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Aug 3, 2014

    my boyfriend is 12 years older

    than me. we have been dating for 6 months now and it has truly been amazing. I am a black girl and he is a gorgeous blonde with the most beautiful blue eyes I've ever seen. Now ill be honest we get stares but this man makes me feel so secure and sexy the way our relationship...
    shortay413 shortay413
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 4, 2014

    7 Year Difference.

    Yea, I am 20 now and he is 27. I started dating him last decemeber. We met at the bar. Yea I know, but truthfully, I have never been in a real relationship before. I moved to the Detroit area after living in this tiny town and met a few guys that just wanted to, you know...
    LadySarah09 LadySarah09
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Oct 12, 2011

    Ok..I'm 18 and my bf is 23.

    And he does not understand my feelings sometimes..maybe he does but just doesn't wants to please me?? He said i'm always annoying him because I bother him too much. Ughhh...idk??? I'm always texting and calling him first! And I feel like there's no love if we don't talk a lot...
    pawsk pawsk
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 1, 2014

    Love My Older Husband

    My husband is 20 years older than me and is my dream man. I met him at work back in the mid 90s and loved how refreshingly mature and drama free he was. I had dated a string of guys about my age (mid twenties at that point) and they were nice and everything, but there was just...
    Slackajawea Slackajawea
    36-40, F
    13 Responses Feb 28, 2010

    I'm 22 and he is 38. We met

    when I did my skydive and he was my instructor. We hit it off straight away and it was only after I found out how old he was. Me and my friends were shocked as he seemed so much younger! We're not dating but have been messaging each other and are meeting up tomorrow for a drink...
    monstahmash monstahmash
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Nov 7, 2014

    14 Year Gap!

    I am 23 years old and I am engaged to a 37 year old. Now let me tell you a few things about this one. We are 14 years apart in age and have been dating since I was 19, he was a 33 at the time, and we lived together for the past 2 1/2 years about. We will be together 4 years...
    foxxymeeko foxxymeeko
    22-25, F
    33 Responses May 14, 2008

    My Boyfriend!

    Im jus sitting with nuthing to do, so thought id write a story: In my teen's i have always had crushes on older men (im sure tons of women were like that) I always had a thing for men in their late 20's/30's, i jus find men at that age more sexier, suppose coz they have more...
    dirtylilcheat dirtylilcheat
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 11, 2011

    Good evening to everyone.

    I used to post, and make, many experiences on this page. One of the events I posted about constantly was my relationship with Joseph. It is now one year later. The leaves have changed colors and have fallen to the ground, without a fight. Joseph and I... We were engaged...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy
    22-25, F
    Sep 29, 2015

    Why do people believe

    that my relationship is disgusting? We are two adults that are in love. Love is not sickening; it is a beauty only those involved can truly feel. ~ Adelaide ~
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 26, 2014

    I like that he is mature.

    and no games... And he owns his own company and is very well off is nice.. I like to be treated well..
    bigtimms bigtimms
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Oct 30, 2014

    I'm Caribbean and she was a beautiful Moor from

    Morocco, living in France. It was a long distance relationship. It was lovely for a while, but then she couldn't come to the states. She was multilingual, speaking french, Arabic, and English. I think it may be better to have a young woman at home.
    bigbangFACTS bigbangFACTS
    41-45, M
    Dec 13, 2014

    I'm very much in love with a man 10 plus years

    older than myself. We have, what I'd like to think of as, a healthy relationship with open communication, warmth, love and support. We are an interracial, interfaith couple with a large age gap. He is also a divorced single father with young children. None of these factors...
    honeybee2014 honeybee2014
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jul 31, 2014

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    carinaccaa carinaccaa
    26-30, F
    Mar 1, 2016
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