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I Am Dating An Older Man

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    So im almost 20 and i have a 11 month old son.

    I met this guy a year ago and we became buddies he is 34. Went fishing together and hung out every now and then. Didnt think anything of it and never kissed or talked about it or anything. When i left my ex i hung out with him and still just hanging out. Then we started to get...
    MickeyBella94 MickeyBella94 18-21, F Jun 10

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    Love My Older Husband

    My husband is 20 years older than me and is my dream man. I met him at work back in the mid 90s and loved how refreshingly mature and drama free he was. I had dated a string of guys about my age (mid twenties at that point) and they were nice and everything, but there was just...
    Slackajawea Slackajawea 36-40, F 9 Responses Feb 28, 2010

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    He is 34 and i am 21.

    I have always been in relationships with guys around my age and in the back of my mind i always feel like that's why im not falling for him like he is for me.
    pinksteam pinksteam 18-21, F 2 Responses May 27

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    I am 17 and im in love with a guy

    who is 24. He doesn't know that I am 17. I just told him today. I think he is perfect and I dont want to lose him. I dnt know how I am going to cope with his rejection. I hope that he is ok with the 7 year difference.
    phoeb3778 phoeb3778 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 15

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    Something About The Way I Was Held

    Age and experience don't always come hand in hand, but with my ex it did. His heart had been broken by girls older and younger than me. But even though I was broken when we met, I think I had the innocence he needed in a love. For my part, I needed someone to do what was best for...
    ccatcraft ccatcraft 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2013

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    Some Insights On Older Men

    Generally, if you are in bed with an older guy there are a few things going on. tell me if I am wrong. He is in decent shape. So not only has he been driving his body longer, but he has a good sense of how it works. He was a combination of funnier, knowledgeable, experienced and...
    dragonofjapan dragonofjapan 56-60, M 2 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    Lately I've been wanting to tell my mother

    about my relationship with my boyfriend. He's 28 years older then me. I was close to telling her until last night she told me about her dislike for age different relationships. She said 10 years was her max on an age difference. She said anything more then that would be...
    lockedsweetheart lockedsweetheart 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Younger Women Looking For Older Men is

    because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger men do.This all make younger women prefer older men than younger men . older man searches for a younger woman it's usually because he is...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    We are finally moving in together!

    I will be 23 this summer, he is 64 yet we have been together for almost 5 years! He is my best friend and lover and I couldn't be happier. We aren't around each other 24/7 (I dorm in college and he takes care of his blind mother) but when we are it just feels right. We are...
    MerDerLoves MerDerLoves 22-25, F 2 Responses May 2

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    Any girl looking for a nice relationship,

    good conversation, and love, message me.
    NuclearELDER NuclearELDER 41-45, M Jun 12

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    dracycc11 dracycc11 26-30, F May 14

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    I am a 26 year old woman dating a 58 year old

    man. I know how crazy that sounds, but he doesn't look or act like he's 58. He's amazing and I wouldn't want it any other way!!
    Janine306 Janine306 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 12

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    I'm dating a man 29 years older then me.

    We couldn't be more in love. Only several people in my life know, my family does not. We've only been dating for 7 months but we've already made the decision that we're going to get married within the next year. We already went engagement ring shopping and he wants to...
    lockedsweetheart lockedsweetheart 26-30, F 3 Responses May 25

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    30years Difference

    I'm 21 he's 51. He's amazing loving kind caring handsome intelligent everything I could ever wish for in a man and I feel so privileged to have him in my life. He's helped me through some rough times and I'm so grateful for all the support and patients. I'm alot more mature then...
    Tink1169 Tink1169 18-21, F 9 Responses Oct 24, 2012

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    My boyfriend is 26 and I am 19.

    He is amazing, intelligent, he's everything. I'm always learning things from him. We always have intellectual conversations. I never had any good luck with guys around My age.
    hennyforyourthoughts hennyforyourthoughts 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I am 21 and am dating a 34 year old man.

    Yes, it's a 13 year age gap, and something that I myself never thought I would be involved in, and truth be told, something that I never approved of, as one of my college friends had shared with me that she had happily been with a man 12 years her senior a couple of years back...
    soshaaay soshaaay 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 21

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    I Am Head Over Heels In Love With My Old Man.

    I am 20 yrs old, and my boyfriend is 51. That's a 31 yr age difference. But its something I NEVER notice. We met at the bar I used to bartend at. He travels back and forth a lot for his job. We get to see each other every week, but still spend some days apart. We've been together...
    adawnell3937 adawnell3937 18-21, F 27 Responses Dec 18, 2010

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    30+ Year Age Difference

    Hey Everyone, It's great to read others stories, similar to my own, Knowing you're not the only one is very comforting. So my boyfriend, whom I live with, is perfect for me, in every way except his age.. It's so unfair and I feel like I was cheated out of a very certain life...
    annon2613 annon2613 26-30, F 9 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    He's 34, I'm 19. He's 14 1/2 years older.

    He's my "boss"... And we work in the type of field that our relationship wouldn't really be allowed at this point until I move up and get to the place where I need to be, which will be in about 6 months. Even then, I'm not really sure if our relationship is really "allowed...
    rhodehouse rhodehouse 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm 53 and the gentleman with whom I'm very

    attracted to is 71. I really love him a great deal. He's super intelligent which I love, witty, funny a deep thinker, very philosophical and secure in his own skin. I've yet to ever be with a man sexually/intimately due to many factors--being molested as a child several times...
    Dahling61 Dahling61 51-55, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    I feel like the rest of the world attacks me

    for my preference for older men. It is definitely a controversial and debatable topic; however, it has nothing to do with me being a gold digger (I've dated older men with no wealth) nor someone with "daddy issues". Probably the main thing that stresses me out about being with a...
    soshaaay soshaaay 22-25, F 19 Responses Jan 31

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    I Am Dating A Much Older Man.

    I am 24 and he is 58.Dating an older man has it's ups and downs but there is something that you must understand, no matter what you hear you can not take it to heart since it does not determine how your relationship is or how it is going to be. When I started dating this guy I...
    lauracohen lauracohen 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 7, 2013

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    he is 27 and im 17, his perfect.

    everything i ever imagined about that special someone (i love him so much, i can honestly sayy that i didnt think that it was possible to feel about someone this way, its incredible, never been so happy in my life)..BUT one problem, nobody knows we are together; well my uncle...
    Elizabeth1411 Elizabeth1411 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 3

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    Age Is Unimportant

    I am 37 years old and am dating a 50 year old man. When we first starting seeing each other it was hard for me. People were sometimes cruel and didn't understand. They would ask if he was my father, uncle, anything but my boyfriend. Even my family did not understand. Now, after 4...
    martymay martymay 36-40, F 13 Responses Feb 14, 2012

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    Younger Women Looking For Older Men is

    because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger men do.This all make younger women prefer older men than younger men . older man searches for a younger woman it's usually because he is...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    7 Year Difference.

    Yea, I am 20 now and he is 27. I started dating him last decemeber. We met at the bar. Yea I know, but truthfully, I have never been in a real relationship before. I moved to the Detroit area after living in this tiny town and met a few guys that just wanted to, you know...
    LadySarah09 LadySarah09 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 12, 2011

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    I'm 22 years old and my boyfriend is 51.

    We have been together for almost 9 months and live together. Our relationship is absolutely perfect. Honest and open communication. We can laugh and have serious conversations together. We have such an electric energy between us, especially when we are laughing and battling wits...
    nancy422 nancy422 22-25, F Dec 22, 2013

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    Younger Women Looking

    for Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger men do.This all make younger women prefer older men than younger men . older man searches for a younger woman it's...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    I Was Dating An Older Man And Then...

    I married him!! And I have been living happily ever after since. I wonder why I wasted so much time with men my age or younger.
    cesalie123 cesalie123 36-40, F 16 Responses Feb 8, 2013

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    Well, that is an interesting and exciting choice you’ve made. Cougar women are such fine creatures, lovelier and more self-possessed than their younger sisters. It would be a prize to date a cougar and keep her for as long as you can.If you are thinking to yourself, &ldquo...
    GarthPasche GarthPasche 46-50, F Jun 28

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    My Boyfriend Lives An Ocean Away

    And is 56 while I am 19. Nevertheless I am extremely happy and in love in this relationship. My parents and friends know about it, though at first there was a lot of drama involved. So far, after over a year together, I have no regrets. I think it requires a lot of strength and...
    zwierzkun zwierzkun 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 26, 2013

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    Well, I was in a very bad place in my life,

    and I was always curious about dating an older man. Previously I had only been dating men my own age or a few months older. So, I was 18 and (risky I know) put an add out on craigslist saying exactly what I wanted. I admit, the add was mostly sexual. I was interested mostly in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 22

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    Age Does Not Define Compatability...

    I'm a college student dating a guy 30 years my senior. I'm practically 20. I love this relationship and regret nothing. Although we are both new to this we are not defining our potential based on our age or experience. The relevancy of age is quite acute honestly. Yes, he's...
    PixieStixs PixieStixs 18-21, F 14 Responses Nov 7, 2013

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    ARE YOU AN OLDER MAN SEEKING A YOUNG WOMAN?

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    datingayoungerwoman datingayoungerwoman 22-25, F Jul 2

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    I Am Dating An Older Guy

    I am 17 i go out with an 39 year old he makes me so special :) weve bin goin out for nearly 2 years my family know an love him they were bothered at firsr but then got used to it ive never felt so alive an special :)
    Gremlin96 Gremlin96 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 20, 2013

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    I went on a date last week with a 30 year old.

    (I usually have a limit, 2 years younger or 2 years older than me purely because my parents are 38.) It was much more satisfying than dating someone my own age because they don't see it as "dating." I had quite an amazing conversation, I was treated with respect, and I didn't...
    alrightsprite alrightsprite 22-25, F 3 Responses May 13

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    cindytongcc11 cindytongcc11 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    I am 18 and i am dating a 39 year old.

    I am falling for him fast and have no intentions of ending what we have. He treats me with respect and has always been my rock. We are dating in secret right now but i have hopes of that changing soon. But i am worried about how much what people will say will effect him. No...
    hailey1738 hailey1738 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    Is it really ok to date an older guy?

    I am 27, and the guy is in his early 40's. I just don't want to be judged, but at the same time, I think he is a nice guy.
    sykepleierstud07 sykepleierstud07 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    I can't wait to move in August of THIS year.

    I can't wait to get outta my moms house and live with my boyfriend. I can't wait until he pops the question and we're together forever!!! Wish me luck it happens sooner then later!!!
    lockedsweetheart lockedsweetheart 26-30, F 2 Responses May 26

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    HeyMicki HeyMicki 18-21, F 4 Responses May 12

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    I'm 19, the guy I'm dating is 7 yrs.

    Older than me. He's in the army, I've known him for 5 months. I love him so much, we're planing in getting married before he gets deployed. My parents don't know him, or know that we're dating. What should I do?
    naomi1994 naomi1994 18-21, F Jun 24

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    There is this guy who I've been talking to

    and he's 27 years old. He knows I'm 17 which makes me happy because he accepts that and I think that's awesome. We've been talking about relationships and I think it's weird because I just stopped talking to this guy who I also really liked and I fell hard for him. But I can...
    phoeb3778 phoeb3778 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 26

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    It's not quite "in a relationship"

    because with our work we can't "date" but we're mutually exclusive and I'm actually quite excited about it. I've liked him for a long time and even though we're very different in terms of how we show affection and so on we're a lot alike in other ways. It just worries me...
    SnailorAnna SnailorAnna 18-21, F 2 Responses May 27

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    dracycc11 dracycc11 26-30, F May 14

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    Sophisticated

    I feel like a princess when dating an older man. I do not discredit my dating experiences with men my age or just younger than myself. But with older men I can be taught in a very, should I say maturely. Which is really important when something goes wrong. They can be awfully...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 10 Responses Oct 30, 2011

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    Dating My Boss

    A couple of months ago I got my first job ever. Strangely enough, my boss started flirting with me at work and we hit off. Anyway, he was 27 and I was 17, and like most parents they were not very happy with the age difference. But now  months later, we are very happy...
    aiikii aiikii 19-21, F 8 Responses Feb 5, 2008

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    He's 30, I'm almost 20.

    We've been together for a year and a half. We are getting married this winter. That only thing that scares me about him, is losing him to old age and being widowed for 10 years lol
    Blackbird1123 Blackbird1123 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    He's 35 year old, I'm only 19.

    Yet, I don't let that get in the way. I'm his little "Black Beauty Queen", BBQ, for short. Funny? Haha. He's my Romanian King. I care for this man on a whole different level. My emotional attachment for him is so deep. I would never deny the fact I'm seeing him. I display his...
    ohwee12 ohwee12 18-21, F 17 Responses Dec 15, 2013

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    orangehoney orangehoney 46-50, F 5 Responses Jul 11, 2011

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    I am a 16 year old girl dating a 23 year old.

    I am completely aware of how this could be seen as dangerous and wrong. I am not in this relationship for any unhealthy reasons and I like to think I'm smart enough to recognize that he isn't with me for superficial reasons as well. We understand one another and do a great job...
    0hman 0hman 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Well, we aren't *technically dating yet.

    He's 23- seven years older than I am. We're waiting until my 17th birthday to really do anything. But we still see each other a lot, can't really get in trouble just by hanging out with someone you know? He's getting off probation soon, so we make sure not to do anything that'll...
    champdetrefle champdetrefle 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 19

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