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    Lyndsey and Michael: Age gap 41 yearsWE HAVE

    MORE SEX THAN COUPLES IN THEIR 30sLyndsey Armitage, 32, a community safety warden from Ash, Surrey, and her husband Michael, 73, a pub landlord, met 10 years ago. She says:“I was 22 when I first met Mike. At 63, he was 41 years older than me and I know it sounds ridiculous...
    killycc12 killycc12 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 15

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    Ok..I'm 18 and my bf is 23.

    And he does not understand my feelings sometimes..maybe he does but just doesn't wants to please me?? He said i'm always annoying him because I bother him too much. Ughhh...idk??? I'm always texting and calling him first! And I feel like there's no love if we don't talk a lot...
    pawsk pawsk 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    I Am Dating An Older Guy

    I am 17 i go out with an 39 year old he makes me so special :) weve bin goin out for nearly 2 years my family know an love him they were bothered at firsr but then got used to it ive never felt so alive an special :)
    Gremlin96 Gremlin96 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 20, 2013

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    30+ Year Age Difference

    Hey Everyone, It's great to read others stories, similar to my own, Knowing you're not the only one is very comforting. So my boyfriend, whom I live with, is perfect for me, in every way except his age.. It's so unfair and I feel like I was cheated out of a very certain life...
    annon2613 annon2613 26-30, F 9 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    I am 21 and my boyfriend is 32.

    I love how mature he is and how he is secure and confident with himself. I also like being younger. I like being taken care of and I like how he treasures me because I am young and beautiful. I've never been with anyone this old and he has never been with anyone this young (his...
    sweetbee33 sweetbee33 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I've been seeing this man

    for about 2 months now. We have been getting together at least twice a week ever since. We always have a great time together and have all similar interests, a lot in common, and both come from a similar upbringing, so that is something we bond over. I never thought it was...
    NJK560 NJK560 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 12

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    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 7

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    Something About The Way I Was Held

    Age and experience don't always come hand in hand, but with my ex it did. His heart had been broken by girls older and younger than me. But even though I was broken when we met, I think I had the innocence he needed in a love. For my part, I needed someone to do what was best for...
    ccatcraft ccatcraft 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2013

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    My bf is 41 and I'm 18.

    I don't even see an age with him. He looks a lot younger than he is and acts it too. People tell me it's gross but all I see is him and his personality. Not his age.
    Rosetuck32 Rosetuck32 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 7

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    My fiancé is 10 years older

    than me. I prefer older men.
    atatt atatt 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    We are finally moving in together!

    I will be 23 this summer, he is 64 yet we have been together for almost 5 years! He is my best friend and lover and I couldn't be happier. We aren't around each other 24/7 (I dorm in college and he takes care of his blind mother) but when we are it just feels right. We are...
    MerDerLoves MerDerLoves 22-25, F 2 Responses May 2

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    It's so frustrating that I can't tell my family

    about my amazing bf because he is older and I'm not 18 quite yet 😕
    Rosetuck32 Rosetuck32 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 14

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    I am twenty and my boyfriend is sixty-three.

    No, I am not embarrassed. No, I am not his "trophy," nor is he my sugar daddy. We are purely in love. :)
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 14

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    I'm 22 years old and my boyfriend is 51.

    We have been together for almost 9 months and live together. Our relationship is absolutely perfect. Honest and open communication. We can laugh and have serious conversations together. We have such an electric energy between us, especially when we are laughing and battling wits...
    nancy422 nancy422 22-25, F Dec 22, 2013

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    The guy I'm dating seems

    so cheap now ! He doesn't want to go out to eat or anything just stay home and watch movies . I mean it's nice but if he's cheap I at least want to know now ...
    mimilsu mimilsu 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    I'm 21 dating a 25 years old he's close to

    turning 26 but I'm in my "I want to drink and go to bars stage" and well he's not . He's more of stay at home watch movies all day . I mean I like that but I also want to go to bars with him and to clubs I'm barely starting to experience life .
    mimilsu mimilsu 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    Dating My Boss

    A couple of months ago I got my first job ever. Strangely enough, my boss started flirting with me at work and we hit off. Anyway, he was 27 and I was 17, and like most parents they were not very happy with the age difference. But now  months later, we are very happy...
    aiikii aiikii 19-21, F 8 Responses Feb 5, 2008

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    I'm 53 and the gentleman with whom I'm very

    attracted to is 71. I really love him a great deal. He's super intelligent which I love, witty, funny a deep thinker, very philosophical and secure in his own skin. I've yet to ever be with a man sexually/intimately due to many factors--being molested as a child several times...
    Dahling61 Dahling61 51-55, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    Why do people believe

    that my relationship is disgusting? We are two adults that are in love. Love is not sickening; it is a beauty only those involved can truly feel. ~ Adelaide ~
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 26

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    My Boyfriend Lives An Ocean Away

    And is 56 while I am 19. Nevertheless I am extremely happy and in love in this relationship. My parents and friends know about it, though at first there was a lot of drama involved. So far, after over a year together, I have no regrets. I think it requires a lot of strength and...
    zwierzkun zwierzkun 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 26, 2013

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    i am 15 and my boyfriend is 20 i love him

    and i don't care about our age difference
    Dsanders13 Dsanders13 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 11

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    I Am Head Over Heels In Love With My Old Man.

    I am 20 yrs old, and my boyfriend is 51. That's a 31 yr age difference. But its something I NEVER notice. We met at the bar I used to bartend at. He travels back and forth a lot for his job. We get to see each other every week, but still spend some days apart. We've been together...
    adawnell3937 adawnell3937 18-21, F 27 Responses Dec 18, 2010

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    14 Year Gap!

    I am 23 years old and I am engaged to a 37 year old. Now let me tell you a few things about this one. We are 14 years apart in age and have been dating since I was 19, he was a 33 at the time, and we lived together for the past 2 1/2 years about. We will be together 4 years...
    foxxymeeko foxxymeeko 22-25, F 30 Responses May 14, 2008

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    Older Men Younger Women Dating Site -

    YoungerOlderDating.com For the younger women dating older men, and for the older men dating younger women - YoungerOlderDating is the best and most effective Dating Site for dating younger women, dating older men .For the young women and older men not finding lover their own age...
    norahcc11 norahcc11 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    my boyfriend is 12 years older

    than me. we have been dating for 6 months now and it has truly been amazing. I am a black girl and he is a gorgeous blonde with the most beautiful blue eyes I've ever seen. Now ill be honest we get stares but this man makes me feel so secure and sexy the way our relationship...
    shortay413 shortay413 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I am 20 and my boyfriend is 38: an 18 year

    difference. It's only been a month so I don't have much to say, but it's not awkward or uncomfortable like so many people warned me. He's in better shape than I am, and we're both homebodies who enjoy a night in watching movies more than going out drinking. I'm more afraid of...
    Eoligos Eoligos 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 25

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    youngerolderdating youngerolderdating 26-30, F Oct 10

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    I just ended up knocking my water glass onto

    his lap and instead of shouting in surprise, I blurted that I really want to start a family. An average reaction to ice water soaking through silk, right? Sigh.
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 7

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    He's 22 years older than me.

    . I just wanna say, age ain't nothin but a number. He doesn't even look his age. When we're standing next to each other and he's not in his business suit, you'd never even notice the huge age gap between us. The fact that he's older just makes it sexier. He's mature, smart, wise...
    KaiFyre KaiFyre 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 26

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    I Was Dating An Older Man And Then...

    I married him!! And I have been living happily ever after since. I wonder why I wasted so much time with men my age or younger.
    cesalie123 cesalie123 36-40, F 20 Responses Feb 8, 2013

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    Ok. So I need a safe place to get advice.

    I have been interested in a friend of mine who is my neighbors older brother for a few years. Recently, I told him how I felt and he was over the moon excited because he has felt the same way, so it's kind of become a thing. I am currently going through a divorce and have 4 kids...
    chellebelle25 chellebelle25 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    Some Insights On Older Men

    Generally, if you are in bed with an older guy there are a few things going on. tell me if I am wrong. He is in decent shape. So not only has he been driving his body longer, but he has a good sense of how it works. He was a combination of funnier, knowledgeable, experienced and...
    dragonofjapan dragonofjapan 56-60, M 2 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    Im dating a guy whos 27 im 19

    but we are both as mature as each other and have a great relationship.
    Ldalg Ldalg 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 3

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    I just like older man,

    why so? I don't know, I really get melted when an old men looks at me, I'm obviously not dating a one, when I talk to them, the majority of them are my teachers, it never takes an emotional way maybe because I'm a shy girl. However, so my experience is pretty much ordinary but I...
    Skyfull Skyfull 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 15

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    I am a 26 year old woman dating a 58 year old

    man. I know how crazy that sounds, but he doesn't look or act like he's 58. He's amazing and I wouldn't want it any other way!!
    Janine306 Janine306 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 12

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    YoungerWomenWithOlderMen.

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    sandycc11 sandycc11 26-30, F Sep 23

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    Didnt Expect This To Happen

    my boyfriend and I have been together a year and a half now. he's going to be 50 I just turned 23. I met him through my dad and I never expected to fall in love with him. he has been married 2 times and has 4 kids. I have 1 and she loves him called him dad after us dating 2...
    debra417 debra417 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 9, 2013

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    I am 18 and i am dating a 39 year old.

    I am falling for him fast and have no intentions of ending what we have. He treats me with respect and has always been my rock. We are dating in secret right now but i have hopes of that changing soon. But i am worried about how much what people will say will effect him. No...
    hailey1738 hailey1738 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    HeyMicki HeyMicki 18-21, F 4 Responses May 12

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    I am 21 and am dating a 34 year old man.

    Yes, it's a 13 year age gap, and something that I myself never thought I would be involved in, and truth be told, something that I never approved of, as one of my college friends had shared with me that she had happily been with a man 12 years her senior a couple of years back...
    soshaaay soshaaay 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 21

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    He's 35 year old, I'm only 19.

    Yet, I don't let that get in the way. I'm his little "Black Beauty Queen", BBQ, for short. Funny? Haha. He's my Romanian King. I care for this man on a whole different level. My emotional attachment for him is so deep. I would never deny the fact I'm seeing him. I display his...
    ohwee12 ohwee12 18-21, F 17 Responses Dec 15, 2013

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    YoungerWomenWithOlderMen.

    com Focus on Connecting Younger Women with Older Men Recently launched online age gap dating site, YoungerWomenWithOlderMen.com, has become popular between young women and older men. It helps younger women seeking to date older men and helps older men looking for younger women...
    tessacc11 tessacc11 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 22

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    I don't know if I should regret my decision

    but the other day my friend and I went out to a bar full of people in their 40s and 50s and lots of guys were hitting on me but I knew that I had little in common with that crowd So I was definitely a lot more comfortable when me and my friend went to hang out with a couple of...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 29

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    For Young Girls Who Think That Older Men Are Mature And Better

    The Sweet Spot Somewhere between puberty and Cialis is that perfect moment in a single man’s life when he can date the broadest age group, when he can sleep with 23-year-olds—and their mothers—without being called a creep. He just has to know the rules. The Sweet Spot isn...
    orangehoney orangehoney 46-50, F 5 Responses Jul 11, 2011

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    I'm 21 my new boyfriend is 25

    and he doesn't like to do anything fun only sit at home and watch Netflix when we hang out.. I'm in my party phase and just want to have fun but he clearly doesn't.:
    mimilsu mimilsu 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    I'm very much in love with a man 10 plus years

    older than myself. We have, what I'd like to think of as, a healthy relationship with open communication, warmth, love and support. We are an interracial, interfaith couple with a large age gap. He is also a divorced single father with young children. None of these factors...
    honeybee2014 honeybee2014 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    Age Is Unimportant

    I am 37 years old and am dating a 50 year old man. When we first starting seeing each other it was hard for me. People were sometimes cruel and didn't understand. They would ask if he was my father, uncle, anything but my boyfriend. Even my family did not understand. Now, after 4...
    martymay martymay 36-40, F 13 Responses Feb 14, 2012

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    4:53 P.M. We arrive

    and park close to the house. I take a shallow, sharp breath as I walk towards the door. When I open it, warm greetings and friendly smiles meet me. 5:25 p.m. After supper, I tell my father that I have to talk to him. I promise it won't take too long. With Joseph in tow, we...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 13

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    Age Does Not Define Compatability...

    I'm a college student dating a guy 30 years my senior. I'm practically 20. I love this relationship and regret nothing. Although we are both new to this we are not defining our potential based on our age or experience. The relevancy of age is quite acute honestly. Yes, he's...
    PixieStixs PixieStixs 18-21, F 13 Responses Nov 7, 2013

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    Lyndsey and Michael: Age gap 41 yearsWE HAVE

    MORE SEX THAN COUPLES IN THEIR 30sLyndsey Armitage, 32, a community safety warden from Ash, Surrey, and her husband Michael, 73, a pub landlord, met 10 years ago. She says:“I was 22 when I first met Mike. At 63, he was 41 years older than me and I know it sounds ridiculous...
    killycc12 killycc12 26-30, F Oct 15

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    I feel like the rest of the world attacks me

    for my preference for older men. It is definitely a controversial and debatable topic; however, it has nothing to do with me being a gold digger (I've dated older men with no wealth) nor someone with "daddy issues". Probably the main thing that stresses me out about being with a...
    soshaaay soshaaay 22-25, F 19 Responses Jan 31

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    Sophisticated

    I feel like a princess when dating an older man. I do not discredit my dating experiences with men my age or just younger than myself. But with older men I can be taught in a very, should I say maturely. Which is really important when something goes wrong. They can be awfully...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 10 Responses Oct 30, 2011

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    How do you think Younger Women Older Men Dating

    & Older Women Younger Women Dating ? If you not mind , Could i recommend a good dating to you . agemeet#com is the best site for Younger Women Older Men Dating & Older Women Younger Women Dating .For 13 years, it have successfully helped people who celebrate age gap dating.No...
    youngerolderdating youngerolderdating 26-30, F Oct 10

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