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I Am Dating An Older Man

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 976 People

    He's 35 year old, I'm only 19.

    Yet, I don't let that get in the way. I'm his little "Black Beauty Queen", BBQ, for short. Funny? Haha. He's my Romanian King. I care for this man on a whole different level. My emotional attachment for him is so deep. I would never deny the fact I'm seeing him. I display his...
    ohwee12 ohwee12 18-21, F 16 Responses Dec 15, 2013

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    I'm 21 my new boyfriend is 25

    and he doesn't like to do anything fun only sit at home and watch Netflix when we hang out.. I'm in my party phase and just want to have fun but he clearly doesn't.:
    mimilsu mimilsu 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 3, 2014

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    Lyndsey and Michael: Age gap 41 yearsWE HAVE

    MORE SEX THAN COUPLES IN THEIR 30sLyndsey Armitage, 32, a community safety warden from Ash, Surrey, and her husband Michael, 73, a pub landlord, met 10 years ago. She says:“I was 22 when I first met Mike. At 63, he was 41 years older than me and I know it sounds ridiculous...
    killycc12 killycc12 26-30, F Oct 15, 2014

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    7 Year Difference.

    Yea, I am 20 now and he is 27. I started dating him last decemeber. We met at the bar. Yea I know, but truthfully, I have never been in a real relationship before. I moved to the Detroit area after living in this tiny town and met a few guys that just wanted to, you know...
    LadySarah09 LadySarah09 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 12, 2011

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    30+ Year Age Difference

    Hey Everyone, It's great to read others stories, similar to my own, Knowing you're not the only one is very comforting. So my boyfriend, whom I live with, is perfect for me, in every way except his age.. It's so unfair and I feel like I was cheated out of a very certain life...
    annon2613 annon2613 26-30, F 9 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    I'm 53 and the gentleman with whom I'm very

    attracted to is 71. I really love him a great deal. He's super intelligent which I love, witty, funny a deep thinker, very philosophical and secure in his own skin. I've yet to ever be with a man sexually/intimately due to many factors--being molested as a child several times...
    Dahling61 Dahling61 51-55, F 2 Responses Jul 17, 2014

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    Younger Women are more Willing to Marry Older

    Men. A recent survey measured people’s attitudes about marrying a partner either older or younger than themselves. The survey results showed that women were significantly more willing than men, to marry a partner who was 5 years older than they were. On the other hand, it also...
    Donnaccaa Donnaccaa 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    My Boyfriend Lives An Ocean Away

    And is 56 while I am 19. Nevertheless I am extremely happy and in love in this relationship. My parents and friends know about it, though at first there was a lot of drama involved. So far, after over a year together, I have no regrets. I think it requires a lot of strength and...
    zwierzkun zwierzkun 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 26, 2013

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    I am twenty and my boyfriend is sixty-three.

    No, I am not embarrassed. No, I am not his "trophy," nor is he my sugar daddy. We are purely in love. :)
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    Older Men Younger Women Dating Site -

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    norahcc11 norahcc11 22-25, F Oct 21, 2014

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    YoungerWomenWithOlderMen.

    com Focus on Connecting Younger Women with Older Men Recently launched online age gap dating site, YoungerWomenWithOlderMen.com, has become popular between young women and older men. It helps younger women seeking to date older men and helps older men looking for younger women...
    sandycc11 sandycc11 26-30, F Sep 23, 2014

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    We are finally moving in together!

    I will be 23 this summer, he is 64 yet we have been together for almost 5 years! He is my best friend and lover and I couldn't be happier. We aren't around each other 24/7 (I dorm in college and he takes care of his blind mother) but when we are it just feels right. We are...
    MerDerLoves MerDerLoves 22-25, F 3 Responses May 2, 2014

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    Some Insights On Older Men

    Generally, if you are in bed with an older guy there are a few things going on. tell me if I am wrong. He is in decent shape. So not only has he been driving his body longer, but he has a good sense of how it works. He was a combination of funnier, knowledgeable, experienced and...
    dragonofjapan dragonofjapan 56-60, M 2 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    The guy I'm dating seems

    so cheap now ! He doesn't want to go out to eat or anything just stay home and watch movies . I mean it's nice but if he's cheap I at least want to know now ...
    mimilsu mimilsu 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    Doriatong Doriatong 26-30, F Feb 26

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    I'm 22 years old and my boyfriend is 51.

    We have been together for almost 9 months and live together. Our relationship is absolutely perfect. Honest and open communication. We can laugh and have serious conversations together. We have such an electric energy between us, especially when we are laughing and battling wits...
    nancy422 nancy422 22-25, F Dec 22, 2013

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    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2014

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    I like that he is mature.

    and no games... And he owns his own company and is very well off is nice.. I like to be treated well..
    bigtimms bigtimms 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 30, 2014

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    HeyMicki HeyMicki 18-21, F 2 Responses May 12, 2014

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    my boyfriend is 12 years older

    than me. we have been dating for 6 months now and it has truly been amazing. I am a black girl and he is a gorgeous blonde with the most beautiful blue eyes I've ever seen. Now ill be honest we get stares but this man makes me feel so secure and sexy the way our relationship...
    shortay413 shortay413 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 4, 2014

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    14 Year Gap!

    I am 23 years old and I am engaged to a 37 year old. Now let me tell you a few things about this one. We are 14 years apart in age and have been dating since I was 19, he was a 33 at the time, and we lived together for the past 2 1/2 years about. We will be together 4 years...
    foxxymeeko foxxymeeko 22-25, F 32 Responses May 14, 2008

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    I'm Caribbean and she was a beautiful Moor from

    Morocco, living in France. It was a long distance relationship. It was lovely for a while, but then she couldn't come to the states. She was multilingual, speaking french, Arabic, and English. I think it may be better to have a young woman at home.
    GeneticMATERIAL GeneticMATERIAL 41-45, M Dec 13, 2014

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    I Am Head Over Heels In Love With My Old Man.

    I am 20 yrs old, and my boyfriend is 51. That's a 31 yr age difference. But its something I NEVER notice. We met at the bar I used to bartend at. He travels back and forth a lot for his job. We get to see each other every week, but still spend some days apart. We've been together...
    adawnell3937 adawnell3937 18-21, F 28 Responses Dec 18, 2010

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    I'm 22 and he is 38. We met

    when I did my skydive and he was my instructor. We hit it off straight away and it was only after I found out how old he was. Me and my friends were shocked as he seemed so much younger! We're not dating but have been messaging each other and are meeting up tomorrow for a drink...
    monstahmash monstahmash 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 7, 2014

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    Love My Older Husband

    My husband is 20 years older than me and is my dream man. I met him at work back in the mid 90s and loved how refreshingly mature and drama free he was. I had dated a string of guys about my age (mid twenties at that point) and they were nice and everything, but there was just...
    Slackajawea Slackajawea 36-40, F 11 Responses Feb 28, 2010

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    Best Age Gap Dating Site( Younger Women Older

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    feistcc11 feistcc11 26-30, F Nov 5, 2014

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    My fiancé is 10 years older

    than me. I prefer older men.
    atatt atatt 26-30, F Oct 20, 2014

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    haha , okay , my boyfriend is not "old" old ,

    but he is 10 years older than me ^.^ . Parents still think it's weird , but screw them :P . love them , but screw them :P
    chubbylilmonster chubbylilmonster 18-21, F 9 Responses Feb 5

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    Why do people believe

    that my relationship is disgusting? We are two adults that are in love. Love is not sickening; it is a beauty only those involved can truly feel. ~ Adelaide ~
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 26, 2014

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    I am a 26 year old woman dating a 58 year old

    man. I know how crazy that sounds, but he doesn't look or act like he's 58. He's amazing and I wouldn't want it any other way!!
    Janine306 Janine306 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 12, 2014

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    I am 21 and am dating a 34 year old man.

    Yes, it's a 13 year age gap, and something that I myself never thought I would be involved in, and truth be told, something that I never approved of, as one of my college friends had shared with me that she had happily been with a man 12 years her senior a couple of years back...
    soshaaay soshaaay 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 21, 2014

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    Ok..I'm 18 and my bf is 23.

    And he does not understand my feelings sometimes..maybe he does but just doesn't wants to please me?? He said i'm always annoying him because I bother him too much. Ughhh...idk??? I'm always texting and calling him first! And I feel like there's no love if we don't talk a lot...
    pawsk pawsk 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 1, 2014

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    Lyndsey and Michael: Age gap 41 yearsWE HAVE

    MORE SEX THAN COUPLES IN THEIR 30sLyndsey Armitage, 32, a community safety warden from Ash, Surrey, and her husband Michael, 73, a pub landlord, met 10 years ago. She says:“I was 22 when I first met Mike. At 63, he was 41 years older than me and I know it sounds ridiculous...
    killycc12 killycc12 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 15, 2014

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    Judging Books

    I met C when he came in looking for maternity bras for his wife. I work at a lingerie shop catering to maternity, larger sizes, and mastectomy needs. He had that "look" most men do when coming into a lingerie shop. They don't know what to expect so we try to make it an...
    MiNameisMimi MiNameisMimi 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 10, 2013

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    I've been seeing this man

    for about 2 months now. We have been getting together at least twice a week ever since. We always have a great time together and have all similar interests, a lot in common, and both come from a similar upbringing, so that is something we bond over. I never thought it was...
    NJK560 NJK560 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 12, 2014

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    I just ended up knocking my water glass onto

    his lap and instead of shouting in surprise, I blurted that I really want to start a family. An average reaction to ice water soaking through silk, right? Sigh.
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 7, 2014

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    I Am Dating A Much Older Man.

    I am 24 and he is 58.Dating an older man has it's ups and downs but there is something that you must understand, no matter what you hear you can not take it to heart since it does not determine how your relationship is or how it is going to be. When I started dating this guy I...
    lauracohen lauracohen 22-25, F 9 Responses Oct 7, 2013

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    YoungerWomenWithOlderMen.

    com Focus on Connecting Younger Women with Older Men Recently launched online age gap dating site, YoungerWomenWithOlderMen.com, has become popular between young women and older men. It helps younger women seeking to date older men and helps older men looking for younger women...
    tessacc11 tessacc11 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 22, 2014

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    Age Does Not Define Compatability...

    I'm a college student dating a guy 30 years my senior. I'm practically 20. I love this relationship and regret nothing. Although we are both new to this we are not defining our potential based on our age or experience. The relevancy of age is quite acute honestly. Yes, he's...
    PixieStixs PixieStixs 18-21, F 11 Responses Nov 7, 2013

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    Ok. So I need a safe place to get advice.

    I have been interested in a friend of mine who is my neighbors older brother for a few years. Recently, I told him how I felt and he was over the moon excited because he has felt the same way, so it's kind of become a thing. I am currently going through a divorce and have 4 kids...
    chellebelle25 chellebelle25 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 26, 2014

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    Sophisticated

    I feel like a princess when dating an older man. I do not discredit my dating experiences with men my age or just younger than myself. But with older men I can be taught in a very, should I say maturely. Which is really important when something goes wrong. They can be awfully...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 10 Responses Oct 30, 2011

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    It's so frustrating that I can't tell my family

    about my amazing bf because he is older and I'm not 18 quite yet 😕
    Rosetuck32 Rosetuck32 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 14, 2014

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    I am 18 and i am dating a 39 year old.

    I am falling for him fast and have no intentions of ending what we have. He treats me with respect and has always been my rock. We are dating in secret right now but i have hopes of that changing soon. But i am worried about how much what people will say will effect him. No...
    hailey1738 hailey1738 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    minniecc11 minniecc11 26-30, F Jan 15

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    I'm 21 dating a 25 years old he's close to

    turning 26 but I'm in my "I want to drink and go to bars stage" and well he's not . He's more of stay at home watch movies all day . I mean I like that but I also want to go to bars with him and to clubs I'm barely starting to experience life .
    mimilsu mimilsu 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 18, 2014

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    I am 20 and my boyfriend is 38: an 18 year

    difference. It's only been a month so I don't have much to say, but it's not awkward or uncomfortable like so many people warned me. He's in better shape than I am, and we're both homebodies who enjoy a night in watching movies more than going out drinking. I'm more afraid of...
    Eoligos Eoligos 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 25, 2014

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