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I Am Dating An Older Man

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    Love My Older Husband

    My husband is 20 years older than me and is my dream man. I met him at work back in the mid 90s and loved how refreshingly mature and drama free he was. I had dated a string of guys about my age (mid twenties at that point) and they were nice and everything, but there was just...
    Slackajawea Slackajawea 36-40, F 9 Responses Feb 28, 2010

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    Age Does Not Define Compatability...

    I'm a college student dating a guy 30 years my senior. I'm practically 20. I love this relationship and regret nothing. Although we are both new to this we are not defining our potential based on our age or experience. The relevancy of age is quite acute honestly. Yes, he's...
    PixieStixs PixieStixs 18-21, F 15 Responses Nov 7, 2013

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    14 Year Gap!

    I am 23 years old and I am engaged to a 37 year old. Now let me tell you a few things about this one. We are 14 years apart in age and have been dating since I was 19, he was a 33 at the time, and we lived together for the past 2 1/2 years about. We will be together 4 years...
    foxxymeeko foxxymeeko 22-25, F 30 Responses May 14, 2008

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    I'm 21 dating a 25 years old he's close to

    turning 26 but I'm in my "I want to drink and go to bars stage" and well he's not . He's more of stay at home watch movies all day . I mean I like that but I also want to go to bars with him and to clubs I'm barely starting to experience life .
    mimilsu mimilsu 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    i am 15 and my boyfriend is 20 i love him

    and i don't care about our age difference
    Dsanders13 Dsanders13 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    AgeMeet.com AgeMeet.com a website specifically designed for older man and younger woman relationships and older woman and younger man relationships. AgeMatch.com is the world's first, largest and most effective dating website which is committed to cater the needs of those...
    cindytongcc11 cindytongcc11 26-30, F Jul 20

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    ARE YOU AN OLDER MAN SEEKING A YOUNG WOMAN?

    "Datingayounerwoman.com is a newly launched unique dating service, which helps young girls looking for older men or vice-versa." Datingayounerwoman.com is a brand new dating service focusing on date younger women, providing a great service to mature singles looking for love...
    datingayoungerwoman datingayoungerwoman 22-25, F Jul 2

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    He's 22 years older than me.

    . I just wanna say, age ain't nothin but a number. He doesn't even look his age. When we're standing next to each other and he's not in his business suit, you'd never even notice the huge age gap between us. The fact that he's older just makes it sexier. He's mature, smart, wise...
    KaiFyre KaiFyre 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 26

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    Ok. So I need a safe place to get advice.

    I have been interested in a friend of mine who is my neighbors older brother for a few years. Recently, I told him how I felt and he was over the moon excited because he has felt the same way, so it's kind of become a thing. I am currently going through a divorce and have 4 kids...
    chellebelle25 chellebelle25 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    Younger Women Looking

    for Older Men is because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger men do.This all make younger women prefer older men than younger men . older man searches for a younger woman it's...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F Jul 21

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    I am twenty and my boyfriend is sixty-three.

    No, I am not embarrassed. No, I am not his "trophy," nor is he my sugar daddy. We are purely in love. :)
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I feel like the rest of the world attacks me

    for my preference for older men. It is definitely a controversial and debatable topic; however, it has nothing to do with me being a gold digger (I've dated older men with no wealth) nor someone with "daddy issues". Probably the main thing that stresses me out about being with a...
    soshaaay soshaaay 22-25, F 19 Responses Jan 31

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    The guy I'm dating seems

    so cheap now ! He doesn't want to go out to eat or anything just stay home and watch movies . I mean it's nice but if he's cheap I at least want to know now ...
    mimilsu mimilsu 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    30+ Year Age Difference

    Hey Everyone, It's great to read others stories, similar to my own, Knowing you're not the only one is very comforting. So my boyfriend, whom I live with, is perfect for me, in every way except his age.. It's so unfair and I feel like I was cheated out of a very certain life...
    annon2613 annon2613 26-30, F 9 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    I'm very much in love with a man 10 plus years

    older than myself. We have, what I'd like to think of as, a healthy relationship with open communication, warmth, love and support. We are an interracial, interfaith couple with a large age gap. He is also a divorced single father with young children. None of these factors...
    honeybee2014 honeybee2014 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    my boyfriend is 12 years older

    than me. we have been dating for 6 months now and it has truly been amazing. I am a black girl and he is a gorgeous blonde with the most beautiful blue eyes I've ever seen. Now ill be honest we get stares but this man makes me feel so secure and sexy the way our relationship...
    shortay413 shortay413 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I'm 21 my new boyfriend is 25

    and he doesn't like to do anything fun only sit at home and watch Netflix when we hang out.. I'm in my party phase and just want to have fun but he clearly doesn't.:
    mimilsu mimilsu 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    My Boyfriend Lives An Ocean Away

    And is 56 while I am 19. Nevertheless I am extremely happy and in love in this relationship. My parents and friends know about it, though at first there was a lot of drama involved. So far, after over a year together, I have no regrets. I think it requires a lot of strength and...
    zwierzkun zwierzkun 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 26, 2013

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    Lately I've been wanting to tell my mother

    about my relationship with my boyfriend. He's 28 years older then me. I was close to telling her until last night she told me about her dislike for age different relationships. She said 10 years was her max on an age difference. She said anything more then that would be...
    lockedsweetheart lockedsweetheart 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 24

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    I Am Dating An Older Guy

    I am 17 i go out with an 39 year old he makes me so special :) weve bin goin out for nearly 2 years my family know an love him they were bothered at firsr but then got used to it ive never felt so alive an special :)
    Gremlin96 Gremlin96 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 20, 2013

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    I am 20 and my boyfriend is 38: an 18 year

    difference. It's only been a month so I don't have much to say, but it's not awkward or uncomfortable like so many people warned me. He's in better shape than I am, and we're both homebodies who enjoy a night in watching movies more than going out drinking. I'm more afraid of...
    Eoligos Eoligos 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 25

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    he is 27 and im 17, his perfect.

    everything i ever imagined about that special someone (i love him so much, i can honestly sayy that i didnt think that it was possible to feel about someone this way, its incredible, never been so happy in my life)..BUT one problem, nobody knows we are together; well my uncle...
    Elizabeth1411 Elizabeth1411 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 3

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    Younger Women Looking For Older Men is

    because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger men do.This all make younger women prefer older men than younger men . older man searches for a younger woman it's usually because he is...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F Jul 21

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    He's 34, I'm 19. He's 14 1/2 years older.

    He's my "boss"... And we work in the type of field that our relationship wouldn't really be allowed at this point until I move up and get to the place where I need to be, which will be in about 6 months. Even then, I'm not really sure if our relationship is really "allowed...
    rhodehouse rhodehouse 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24

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    My boyfriend is 26 and I am 19.

    He is amazing, intelligent, he's everything. I'm always learning things from him. We always have intellectual conversations. I never had any good luck with guys around My age.
    hennyforyourthoughts hennyforyourthoughts 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    Sophisticated

    I feel like a princess when dating an older man. I do not discredit my dating experiences with men my age or just younger than myself. But with older men I can be taught in a very, should I say maturely. Which is really important when something goes wrong. They can be awfully...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 10 Responses Oct 30, 2011

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    Younger Women Looking For Older Men is

    because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger men do.This all make younger women prefer older men than younger men . older man searches for a younger woman it's usually because he is...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    He's 35 year old, I'm only 19.

    Yet, I don't let that get in the way. I'm his little "Black Beauty Queen", BBQ, for short. Funny? Haha. He's my Romanian King. I care for this man on a whole different level. My emotional attachment for him is so deep. I would never deny the fact I'm seeing him. I display his...
    ohwee12 ohwee12 18-21, F 17 Responses Dec 15, 2013

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    So you want to date a cougar?

    Well, that is an interesting and exciting choice you’ve made. Cougar women are such fine creatures, lovelier and more self-possessed than their younger sisters. It would be a prize to date a cougar and keep her for as long as you can.If you are thinking to yourself, &ldquo...
    GarthPasche GarthPasche 51-55, F Jun 28

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    I Was Dating An Older Man And Then...

    I married him!! And I have been living happily ever after since. I wonder why I wasted so much time with men my age or younger.
    cesalie123 cesalie123 36-40, F 18 Responses Feb 8, 2013

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    Something About The Way I Was Held

    Age and experience don't always come hand in hand, but with my ex it did. His heart had been broken by girls older and younger than me. But even though I was broken when we met, I think I had the innocence he needed in a love. For my part, I needed someone to do what was best for...
    ccatcraft ccatcraft 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2013

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    For Young Girls Who Think That Older Men Are Mature And Better

    The Sweet Spot Somewhere between puberty and Cialis is that perfect moment in a single man’s life when he can date the broadest age group, when he can sleep with 23-year-olds—and their mothers—without being called a creep. He just has to know the rules. The Sweet Spot isn...
    orangehoney orangehoney 46-50, F 5 Responses Jul 11, 2011

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    Didnt Expect This To Happen

    my boyfriend and I have been together a year and a half now. he's going to be 50 I just turned 23. I met him through my dad and I never expected to fall in love with him. he has been married 2 times and has 4 kids. I have 1 and she loves him called him dad after us dating 2...
    debra417 debra417 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 9, 2013

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    30years Difference

    I'm 21 he's 51. He's amazing loving kind caring handsome intelligent everything I could ever wish for in a man and I feel so privileged to have him in my life. He's helped me through some rough times and I'm so grateful for all the support and patients. I'm alot more mature then...
    Tink1169 Tink1169 18-21, F 9 Responses Oct 24, 2012

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    Im dating a guy whos 27 im 19

    but we are both as mature as each other and have a great relationship.
    Ldalg Ldalg 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    I am 21 and am dating a 34 year old man.

    Yes, it's a 13 year age gap, and something that I myself never thought I would be involved in, and truth be told, something that I never approved of, as one of my college friends had shared with me that she had happily been with a man 12 years her senior a couple of years back...
    soshaaay soshaaay 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 21

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    Ok..I'm 18 and my bf is 23.

    And he does not understand my feelings sometimes..maybe he does but just doesn't wants to please me?? He said i'm always annoying him because I bother him too much. Ughhh...idk??? I'm always texting and calling him first! And I feel like there's no love if we don't talk a lot...
    pawsk pawsk 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    I'm 53 and the gentleman with whom I'm very

    attracted to is 71. I really love him a great deal. He's super intelligent which I love, witty, funny a deep thinker, very philosophical and secure in his own skin. I've yet to ever be with a man sexually/intimately due to many factors--being molested as a child several times...
    Dahling61 Dahling61 51-55, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    I am 18 and i am dating a 39 year old.

    I am falling for him fast and have no intentions of ending what we have. He treats me with respect and has always been my rock. We are dating in secret right now but i have hopes of that changing soon. But i am worried about how much what people will say will effect him. No...
    hailey1738 hailey1738 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    Some Insights On Older Men

    Generally, if you are in bed with an older guy there are a few things going on. tell me if I am wrong. He is in decent shape. So not only has he been driving his body longer, but he has a good sense of how it works. He was a combination of funnier, knowledgeable, experienced and...
    dragonofjapan dragonofjapan 56-60, M 2 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    I'm 22 years old and my boyfriend is 51.

    We have been together for almost 9 months and live together. Our relationship is absolutely perfect. Honest and open communication. We can laugh and have serious conversations together. We have such an electric energy between us, especially when we are laughing and battling wits...
    nancy422 nancy422 22-25, F Dec 22, 2013

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    I don't know if I should regret my decision

    but the other day my friend and I went out to a bar full of people in their 40s and 50s and lots of guys were hitting on me but I knew that I had little in common with that crowd So I was definitely a lot more comfortable when me and my friend went to hang out with a couple of...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 29

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    I Love Older Men And Dating An Older Man

    I am 20 yrs old, and my boyfriend is 51. That's a 31 yr age difference. But its something I NEVER notice. We met at AgeSingle.com. He travels back and forth a lot for his job. We get to see each other every week, but still spend some days apart. We've been together for about 6...
    dateolder dateolder 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 3, 2013

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    My bf is 41 and I'm 18.

    I don't even see an age with him. He looks a lot younger than he is and acts it too. People tell me it's gross but all I see is him and his personality. Not his age.
    Rosetuck32 Rosetuck32 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 7

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    I am a 26 year old woman dating a 58 year old

    man. I know how crazy that sounds, but he doesn't look or act like he's 58. He's amazing and I wouldn't want it any other way!!
    Janine306 Janine306 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 12

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    Age Is Unimportant

    I am 37 years old and am dating a 50 year old man. When we first starting seeing each other it was hard for me. People were sometimes cruel and didn't understand. They would ask if he was my father, uncle, anything but my boyfriend. Even my family did not understand. Now, after 4...
    martymay martymay 36-40, F 13 Responses Feb 14, 2012

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    I Am Head Over Heels In Love With My Old Man.

    I am 20 yrs old, and my boyfriend is 51. That's a 31 yr age difference. But its something I NEVER notice. We met at the bar I used to bartend at. He travels back and forth a lot for his job. We get to see each other every week, but still spend some days apart. We've been together...
    adawnell3937 adawnell3937 18-21, F 27 Responses Dec 18, 2010

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    I am a 16 year old girl dating a 23 year old.

    I am completely aware of how this could be seen as dangerous and wrong. I am not in this relationship for any unhealthy reasons and I like to think I'm smart enough to recognize that he isn't with me for superficial reasons as well. We understand one another and do a great job...
    0hman 0hman 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    He's 30, I'm almost 20.

    We've been together for a year and a half. We are getting married this winter. That only thing that scares me about him, is losing him to old age and being widowed for 10 years lol
    Blackbird1123 Blackbird1123 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    7 Year Difference.

    Yea, I am 20 now and he is 27. I started dating him last decemeber. We met at the bar. Yea I know, but truthfully, I have never been in a real relationship before. I moved to the Detroit area after living in this tiny town and met a few guys that just wanted to, you know...
    LadySarah09 LadySarah09 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 12, 2011

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    It's so frustrating that I can't tell my family

    about my amazing bf because he is older and I'm not 18 quite yet 😕
    Rosetuck32 Rosetuck32 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I Am Dating A Much Older Man.

    I am 24 and he is 58.Dating an older man has it's ups and downs but there is something that you must understand, no matter what you hear you can not take it to heart since it does not determine how your relationship is or how it is going to be. When I started dating this guy I...
    lauracohen lauracohen 22-25, F 8 Responses Oct 7, 2013

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    Dating My Boss

    A couple of months ago I got my first job ever. Strangely enough, my boss started flirting with me at work and we hit off. Anyway, he was 27 and I was 17, and like most parents they were not very happy with the age difference. But now  months later, we are very happy...
    aiikii aiikii 19-21, F 8 Responses Feb 5, 2008

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