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I Am Dating Two Guys At Once

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    Well, I Was....

    I've been dating two guys for 5 months. Started out so innocently; never expected it to go on this long. Never planned to hurt anyone. I finally took the plunge and broke things off with my young hottie CBD (cute but dumb). Breaking up with him was so hard, but very final...
    sassyg1rl sassyg1rl 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 19, 2011

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    I Need Help! Dating Two Guys At Once!

    So, Ive been with my boyfriend "D" for 5 yrs now on and off who lives with me. After my grandfather died several months ago me and "D" broke it off and that was supposed to be that. I left for a week to colorado for my grandfathers funeral and while up there was introduced to my...
    HopelesslyConfusedandDating2 HopelesslyConfusedandDating2 18-21 1 Response Oct 18, 2011

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    It Wasn't Ment To Be, It Just Happened.

    I;ve been dating a guy I met online about 2.5 months ago, we have been chatting for about 3.5 months have gotten to know him quite well. Our schedules are very hit and miss so in that 2.5 momths we have only seen eachother about 6 times. We talk everyday tho , sometimes more...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 2, 2011

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    Is Dating Two Guys At Once Ok?

      Im in middle school. buy im really mature. i like these two guys names caleb and matt. i just found out that matt likes me, and im dating caleb. but i like matt and caleb the same, and i dont know what to do. they both are good guys and they are amazing. well matt asked...
    foxgirl13 foxgirl13 13-15 1 Response Apr 7, 2009

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    Back In Two Saddles Again

    Well, fearless readers...Sassygirl is on the trail again, with two cowboys. I am starting to think that CBD has some kind of radar that as soon as I get back on my feet and move on he comes back into my life; he dangles commitment at me, tells me he needs me in his life, etc...
    sassyg1rl sassyg1rl 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 7, 2013

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    Neither Completes Me...

    I started dating two guys that I really like around the same time; was just casually dating and didn't have any expectations. Guy 1, hereafter known as CBD for cute-but-dumb, is hot but not very bright. He is a lot younger than I am and told me repeatedly that he would never...
    sassyg1rl sassyg1rl 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 14, 2011

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    Eh, It Happens....

    I started seeing this really great guy last September. I really liked him but he didn't seem that into me. Yet we've been seeing each other for a good little while now. On some level, he must like me in some way. But I just don't see it. I felt completely foolish the whole time I...
    mefirstGIMME mefirstGIMME 22-25, F Apr 12, 2008

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    I Like This Guy But I Fell For His Friend..

    Okay so I fell in love with my old crush when I was young but then I moved abroad and havent heard from him for 5 years and then I found him on Facebook and we started chatting until he told me he liked me a lot and I was starting to like him too. We say I love you's and stuff...
    likebeinginlove6 likebeinginlove6 16-17 Feb 4, 2012

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    Confused and Hurting

    i dated my boyfriend for a year and we started out so awesome. we loved each other alot and we were great friends as well. then he started losing interest in me i could tell and i told him i saw the changes but he said he still loved me and he was just busy and blah blah blah. it...
    mander88 mander88 18-21 Jan 17, 2009

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    This Sucks!

    I feel so trapped! I'm back together with both guys. Still very torn. Even mapped out a pros and cons decision matrix; but those don't really help when emotions are involved. Generally I am highly analytical...very pragmatic....even keeled....strategic minded. WHY CAN'T I...
    sassyg1rl sassyg1rl 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2011

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