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I Am Dating Two Guys At Once

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    It Wasn't Ment To Be, It Just Happened.

    I;ve been dating a guy I met online about 2.5 months ago, we have been chatting for about 3.5 months have gotten to know him quite well. Our schedules are very hit and miss so in that 2.5 momths we have only seen eachother about 6 times. We talk everyday tho , sometimes more...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 2, 2011

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    Back In Two Saddles Again

    Well, fearless readers...Sassygirl is on the trail again, with two cowboys. I am starting to think that CBD has some kind of radar that as soon as I get back on my feet and move on he comes back into my life; he dangles commitment at me, tells me he needs me in his life, etc...
    sassyg1rl sassyg1rl 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 7, 2013

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    Well, I Was....

    I've been dating two guys for 5 months. Started out so innocently; never expected it to go on this long. Never planned to hurt anyone. I finally took the plunge and broke things off with my young hottie CBD (cute but dumb). Breaking up with him was so hard, but very final...
    sassyg1rl sassyg1rl 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 19, 2011

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    Eh, It Happens....

    I started seeing this really great guy last September. I really liked him but he didn't seem that into me. Yet we've been seeing each other for a good little while now. On some level, he must like me in some way. But I just don't see it. I felt completely foolish the whole time I...
    mefirstGIMME mefirstGIMME 22-25, F Apr 12, 2008

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    I Need Help! Dating Two Guys At Once!

    So, Ive been with my boyfriend "D" for 5 yrs now on and off who lives with me. After my grandfather died several months ago me and "D" broke it off and that was supposed to be that. I left for a week to colorado for my grandfathers funeral and while up there was introduced to my...
    HopelesslyConfusedandDating2 HopelesslyConfusedandDating2 18-21 1 Response Oct 18, 2011

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    I Like This Guy But I Fell For His Friend..

    Okay so I fell in love with my old crush when I was young but then I moved abroad and havent heard from him for 5 years and then I found him on Facebook and we started chatting until he told me he liked me a lot and I was starting to like him too. We say I love you's and stuff...
    likebeinginlove6 likebeinginlove6 16-17 Feb 4, 2012

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    Neither Completes Me...

    I started dating two guys that I really like around the same time; was just casually dating and didn't have any expectations. Guy 1, hereafter known as CBD for cute-but-dumb, is hot but not very bright. He is a lot younger than I am and told me repeatedly that he would never...
    sassyg1rl sassyg1rl 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 14, 2011

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    Is Dating Two Guys At Once Ok?

      Im in middle school. buy im really mature. i like these two guys names caleb and matt. i just found out that matt likes me, and im dating caleb. but i like matt and caleb the same, and i dont know what to do. they both are good guys and they are amazing. well matt asked...
    foxgirl13 foxgirl13 13-15 1 Response Apr 7, 2009

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    Confused and Hurting

    i dated my boyfriend for a year and we started out so awesome. we loved each other alot and we were great friends as well. then he started losing interest in me i could tell and i told him i saw the changes but he said he still loved me and he was just busy and blah blah blah. it...
    mander88 mander88 18-21 Jan 17, 2009

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    This Sucks!

    I feel so trapped! I'm back together with both guys. Still very torn. Even mapped out a pros and cons decision matrix; but those don't really help when emotions are involved. Generally I am highly analytical...very pragmatic....even keeled....strategic minded. WHY CAN'T I...
    sassyg1rl sassyg1rl 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I'm torn between to very opposite guys, I like them both, but I just don't know who could I be happy with, they are so different and i can't seem to make up my mind. One of them...
    Notwhatyouthinkiam Notwhatyouthinkiam 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    When I was nine I met my now boyfriend. He was in my class and I decided I liked him. I never stopped. Through the years and the grades and *shudders* puberty, he became best...
    Lochnessie Lochnessie 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I just have bad luck with guys I'm tried of getting let down hurt and told the same bs lies over and over. I'm here for you, I won't leave, I'm not like other guys, I won't lie or...
    XFallingAngelX XFallingAngelX 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    UGH... So this really upset me cause this guy used to be a really close friend in High school. I will admit I had a bit of a crush on him at first then, he had a a few quirks I...
    kyla1098 kyla1098 22-25, F Jul 4

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    So I have been casually dating this guy since early May and things have been pretty awesome. 2 weeks ago we went to the beach and on the way back I was talking about something and...
    karabeara123 karabeara123 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 6

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    It did not work out the way that I'd hoped. I won't name the site that I used, but I created a profile about 2 years ago (2012ish), and figured it give it a shot. I answered a...
    moonchile moonchile 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    There is a lot of strange information about dating firefighters online that focuses on firefighters' masculinity, and how a woman should act in order to 'land' one as a boyfriend...
    ameliabedelia63 ameliabedelia63 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    He's 34, I'm 19. He's 14 1/2 years older. He's my "boss"... And we work in the type of field that our relationship wouldn't really be allowed at this point until I move up and get...
    rhodehouse rhodehouse 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    There was a time although it seams forever ago now. When my soul was full and a song it soared from deep so proud . I knew that song well for it was my own. But it has been take to...
    1soulslostsong 1soulslostsong 36-40 57 mins ago

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    My ex boyfriend is Hispanic and I am a black woman. I've been almost two years and have gone on dates but nothing has gone well. Although I'm attracted to white guys, I'm pretty...
    kbabe0181 kbabe0181 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    Pros and Cons Pros: *they're mostly the ones who hit on me *I'm usually more attracted to them *guys my age don't want a virgin *guys my age are mostly taken *guys my age who are...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 3 Responses Jul 7

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    And I ran into guys from hs that were like "OMG so glad you are on here!!" *deletes account* LOL gotta love POF
    wheelsxoxo wheelsxoxo 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    Hi, I am new to this MPD so, I may not know much about it. I am currently dating a woman who has it and it has been a little rocky ever since we dated 4 months ago. Our love for...
    Junchew Junchew 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 30

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    I have many guys try to "holla" at me when I'm out and my automatic reaction has been to turn them down. It's way to easy for me to say no b/c day to day I'm not on the hunt for a...
    NightA NightA 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    If you are a very rich or a younger men yet very lonely woman, it's time for you to get online and start dating too! There are just too many good men out there on the market that...
    tanglelau tanglelau 31-35, F Jul 5

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    I am 23 years old and have essentially had no dating experience whatsoever. I have recently trying to venture into online dating with no avail. I just don't seem to know how to...
    aha55555 aha55555 22-25, M Jul 10

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    I don't discriminate when it comes to dating. I think people who do are so blind to what else is out there. I'm black, and I've only been with 2 black guys in my life. I love white...
    cocopuffnation cocopuffnation 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    There's something about taller guys that just makes you feel safer. I'm5'6, which is pretty average for where I'm at. The last guy I dated was 6'2. I usually date guys that are 5'8...
    TheRisingPhoenix TheRisingPhoenix 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I've tried two or three. Met some interesting people. But too many damaged! They just weren't ready!
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Jul 7

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    I have been attracted to older guys and would rather date them than the guys my age some of the guys of my age just don't want to settle down and have a relationship.
    Bianca214 Bianca214 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I find OLDER guys attractive, I don't however find OLD guys attractive. To be perfectly honest I would even consider dating anyone over 22.
    RebeccaLouise224 RebeccaLouise224 16-17, F 12 Responses Jul 14

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    I am so attracted to older men, no women wants a boy when they can have a man! guys my age don't no how to treat a women and are to immature. Dating guys my own age get tiring, i...
    angelheelz angelheelz 22-25, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I really don't mind actually. It's like you find someone you can really connect to and both of you have gone through the same things. I know couple of my friends dated guys on here...
    HarmonyEvers HarmonyEvers 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    Where are some good ways to meet people in your late 20's-early 30's? I only work with one other person and I'm really not into activity/sports clubs or the bar scene :/. Online...
    dolceharajuku dolceharajuku 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    I support all white women dating and getting pregnant by black guys. Nothing is lover than having biracial babies.
    lovechildreninside lovechildreninside 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 16

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    Let's get things straight. I am a highly educated, attractive, fit, financially stable professional. I am well-read, well-rounded and well-traveled. I just so happen to have become...
    bioprof34 bioprof34 31-35 1 Response Jul 21

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    So my and my boyfriend have been dating for about 4 months but have been good friends for about 2 years. We are also both about to be seniors in high school. Although his guy...
    laxlife laxlife 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    I was suppose to meet the guy I'm seeing for the 4th time on Friday but had to cancel due to child care problems.. it's been a few days and I haven't heard from him which is...
    Mama86 Mama86 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Hello, I'm in my very late 40s and have been on my own (outside relationships) most of my life. I had my last long relationship 10 yrs ago and that was for 2.5 yrs. The intention...
    maejay maejay 46-50, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I have always admired some older guys since I was very young. They seem mature, experienced, knowledgeable, caring, cool with anything, fun and that's what turns me on, and a bonus...
    ziwen ziwen 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    I'm not the prettiest or most popular girl in school so most guys don't go after me, but if I do date it ends up being horrible guys who treat me horrible
    Aubreygrace115 Aubreygrace115 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    I love white men. They're all I've been dating the past year. I haven't been in a serious relationship. Only a few I've felt really comfortable with, especially after sex. Can some...
    Am3917 Am3917 18-21, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    Haha, I just realized this yesterday. Often... I wont really be dating.. But ?. Sort of speaking in a figure og speech, like maybe I am not there. Or it is just... another view...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M Jul 21

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    datingayoungerwoman datingayoungerwoman 22-25, F Jul 2

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    New relationship. I am a divorcee - terrible marriage. Had one real relationship since. Love of my life he was, but it ended in tragic circumstances. Now I am met a widower...
    waytoosad waytoosad 31-35 Jul 8

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    Young woman who is about to be three years with the man whom she thought was going to be the love of her life. He recently moved out of state (get to see him once a month at least...
    peacelovehope18 peacelovehope18 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 9

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