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I Am Dating Two Guys At Once

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    Eh, It Happens....

    I started seeing this really great guy last September. I really liked him but he didn't seem that into me. Yet we've been seeing each other for a good little while now. On some level, he must like me in some way. But I just don't see it. I felt completely foolish the whole time I...
    mefirstGIMME mefirstGIMME 22-25, F Apr 12, 2008

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    I Need Help! Dating Two Guys At Once!

    So, Ive been with my boyfriend "D" for 5 yrs now on and off who lives with me. After my grandfather died several months ago me and "D" broke it off and that was supposed to be that. I left for a week to colorado for my grandfathers funeral and while up there was introduced to my...
    HopelesslyConfusedandDating2 HopelesslyConfusedandDating2 18-21 1 Response Oct 18, 2011

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    This Sucks!

    I feel so trapped! I'm back together with both guys. Still very torn. Even mapped out a pros and cons decision matrix; but those don't really help when emotions are involved. Generally I am highly analytical...very pragmatic....even keeled....strategic minded. WHY CAN'T I...
    sassyg1rl sassyg1rl 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2011

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    Well, I Was....

    I've been dating two guys for 5 months. Started out so innocently; never expected it to go on this long. Never planned to hurt anyone. I finally took the plunge and broke things off with my young hottie CBD (cute but dumb). Breaking up with him was so hard, but very final...
    sassyg1rl sassyg1rl 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 19, 2011

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    Confused and Hurting

    i dated my boyfriend for a year and we started out so awesome. we loved each other alot and we were great friends as well. then he started losing interest in me i could tell and i told him i saw the changes but he said he still loved me and he was just busy and blah blah blah. it...
    mander88 mander88 18-21 Jan 17, 2009

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    Neither Completes Me...

    I started dating two guys that I really like around the same time; was just casually dating and didn't have any expectations. Guy 1, hereafter known as CBD for cute-but-dumb, is hot but not very bright. He is a lot younger than I am and told me repeatedly that he would never...
    sassyg1rl sassyg1rl 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 14, 2011

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    Is Dating Two Guys At Once Ok?

      Im in middle school. buy im really mature. i like these two guys names caleb and matt. i just found out that matt likes me, and im dating caleb. but i like matt and caleb the same, and i dont know what to do. they both are good guys and they are amazing. well matt asked...
    foxgirl13 foxgirl13 13-15 1 Response Apr 7, 2009

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    Back In Two Saddles Again

    Well, fearless readers...Sassygirl is on the trail again, with two cowboys. I am starting to think that CBD has some kind of radar that as soon as I get back on my feet and move on he comes back into my life; he dangles commitment at me, tells me he needs me in his life, etc...
    sassyg1rl sassyg1rl 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 7, 2013

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    It Wasn't Ment To Be, It Just Happened.

    I;ve been dating a guy I met online about 2.5 months ago, we have been chatting for about 3.5 months have gotten to know him quite well. Our schedules are very hit and miss so in that 2.5 momths we have only seen eachother about 6 times. We talk everyday tho , sometimes more...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 2, 2011

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    I Like This Guy But I Fell For His Friend..

    Okay so I fell in love with my old crush when I was young but then I moved abroad and havent heard from him for 5 years and then I found him on Facebook and we started chatting until he told me he liked me a lot and I was starting to like him too. We say I love you's and stuff...
    likebeinginlove6 likebeinginlove6 16-17 Feb 4, 2012

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    Let me start off by saying that i'm not into dating older guys - but I came to ask a question to the girls who are. How old was your father when you were born? How old is he now...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 5

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    I do know one or two couples who met through dating agencies of one sort or another (internet or not), but generally I regard them as cynical and parasitical. If you are unable to...
    Perspicares Perspicares 61-65, M 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I just finished checking my inbox, NOT on EP. So far, I don't love what I see. Most of these guys seem so lame or are not attractive or are booring. Sigh, I hate online dating but...
    Nadine1986 Nadine1986 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    -Live Experience- June 24th, 2015 Chicago south-side, Bridgeport right behind my mothers apartment building, nine months ago: On a Tuesday evening, a close friend and I took a...
    LexINchitown LexINchitown 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    There is something I need to get of my chest and I suppose that's what this is all about. I "met" this guy through a very popular online site recently.. Wow. He seemed perfect...
    wingofthebutterfly wingofthebutterfly 46-50, F 10 Responses Apr 5

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    It didn't work. For over a month I was on two different sites and only met 2 guys and both of them had different things in mind beside relationships. 😔
    BrittTHart BrittTHart 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    Guys tell me if there was a girl you haven't slept with yet but you want to really bad after 3 months of casual dating but you have been sincere with her telling her you are not...
    syntheticrhyme syntheticrhyme 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    Recently have been separated from someone I've been dating for two years, out of the blue. She now treats me like I don't exist and sends me formal emails when she needs to talk to...
    AnonymousBacon AnonymousBacon 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Online dating makes me feel like **** sometimes. If I message someone who I find cute, or not necessarily extremely attractive but not horrible, they'll message me for a little...
    idontknow2658 idontknow2658 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 1

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    Here it is; tell me what you think of it :) I felt pain flare in my strained back as the greasy guard pushed me into the cell. “Got a surprise for you,” he’d said. I’ve...
    brynai brynai 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 15

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    Full disclosure, I haven't been on a date in about 4 months. I know the man of my dreams is out there, but somehow I always seem to run into the guys that see me as their side...
    sanntay7334 sanntay7334 46-50, F 5 Responses Apr 12

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    Ok so as Iv posted before Im in a relationship with a man whos 38 and Im 20 years old ,he has a fear of me getting tired of dating older man and is afraid I will get bored of him...
    lovemakesyouwonder lovemakesyouwonder 18-21, F 11 Responses Apr 13

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    I have been to numerous dating sites, trying to take chances of finding a man to be in a romantic relationship with or even just a friendly one, because I do believe that long...
    nbsbgal nbsbgal 22-25, F Mar 30

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    Hey all I want to share my experiences of dating a widower........ When I found out the man I was talking to was a widower I have to admit I was scared I wasn't strong enough and...
    Becky1711 Becky1711 31-35, F Apr 15

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    I'm finding not one but more. Once they understand that your stupid to fall for the bullshit they disappear.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 1

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    Well honestly, I came across this site by accident and not once did it occur to me that I could ever find someone who I could get involved with. It's improbable but not impossible...
    abcdefghisabelmnopqrst abcdefghisabelmnopqrst 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 12

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    I think I need to either stop dating entirely. Or stop dating smart,educated women. Cause deep intellectual conversations seem to end badly. My beliefs and opinions are strong and...
    pecos666 pecos666 36-40, M Mar 29

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    I never thought I'd still be dating at this stage in my life. I was supposed to be settled down by now with a husband, white picket fence, 2.5 kids and a dog. And I still hate...
    CAgrlnGA CAgrlnGA 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    Well I just finished going through heartache with two members on here. I initially came on here just for friends and to vent but they wanted more. And because I wasn't ready things...
    niceintrovertedwoman niceintrovertedwoman 26-30, F 10 Responses Apr 12

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    In the course of dating smokers, I find the majority on smokers dating sites are women who started their cigarette habit in their teens and 20s. But not all. It seems while smoking...
    Freekorps Freekorps 56-60, M Apr 13

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    I am not now dating a widower. After 11 years I got tired of feeling like I was dating a married man ... just one with a wife in the grave. He was good to me overall. His family...
    FoolForElevenYears FoolForElevenYears 51-55, F Apr 13

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    So, I'm a freshmen in college, and am currently dating a black guy, I am white myself. Now, my whole family is against this, but since I was a freshmen in high school my parents...
    CollegeStudent9396 CollegeStudent9396 18-21 1 Response Apr 15

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    Good morning Ep, last night I got a letter asking to talk a little about the crazy world of dating with a disability--now to be honest I'm hardly the guy to give any kind of dating...
    ChasingSuperman ChasingSuperman 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    My older cousin once punched me in the chest. She punched me so hard, I lost my breath, and nearly collapsed. I ended up smacking he upside the head. Nobody said anything when she...
    AgentSean AgentSean 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I dated a younger guy once, and regretted it. it was a terrible experience. he was childish and petty and i called it off quickly. I also prefer younger women. like, girls who are...
    KaliG15 KaliG15 16-17, T Mar 29

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    I was driving home from work some years back before cell phones and came upon a kid who was striking his girlfriend while driving the car. He was hitting her so hard that his car...
    bowchickawowow bowchickawowow 41-45, F Apr 5

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    "Peter Pan never fails" is what he says. So I'm 100% sure he'll be returning. That's what shows do. They take away one of the big big bad guys in a way they shouldn't be able to...
    TristanWard20 TristanWard20 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 8

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    I was in this situation 4 years ago, my ex fiance even humiliated me in public. He would scream at me and hit me, even shove me to the edge of the sidewalk, throw my things to the...
    Alyyeska Alyyeska 26-30, F 11 Responses Apr 9

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    Anyone who wants to have interracial relationship here?but not for fun.Seriously. I had some online female friends who had long distance and irracial relationship. And i wonder...
    Juri0902 Juri0902 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    I have a guy best friend, and he's married, (bad marriage) but he sometimes asks to see my eyes, asks how old I am (only since I turned 18) and occasionally gives me pats on the...
    kingbrizo kingbrizo 18-21 Apr 12

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    There were four people in my hotel from upstate New York in my hotel also in the run. Great guys, great times
    AlbertFNewman AlbertFNewman 61-65, M Apr 19

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