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I Am Dating Two Guys At Once

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    Back In Two Saddles Again

    Well, fearless readers...Sassygirl is on the trail again, with two cowboys. I am starting to think that CBD has some kind of radar that as soon as I get back on my feet and move on he comes back into my life; he dangles commitment at me, tells me he needs me in his life, etc...
    sassyg1rl sassyg1rl 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 7, 2013

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    Well, I Was....

    I've been dating two guys for 5 months. Started out so innocently; never expected it to go on this long. Never planned to hurt anyone. I finally took the plunge and broke things off with my young hottie CBD (cute but dumb). Breaking up with him was so hard, but very final...
    sassyg1rl sassyg1rl 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 19, 2011

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    Eh, It Happens....

    I started seeing this really great guy last September. I really liked him but he didn't seem that into me. Yet we've been seeing each other for a good little while now. On some level, he must like me in some way. But I just don't see it. I felt completely foolish the whole time I...
    mefirstGIMME mefirstGIMME 22-25, F Apr 12, 2008

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    I Like This Guy But I Fell For His Friend..

    Okay so I fell in love with my old crush when I was young but then I moved abroad and havent heard from him for 5 years and then I found him on Facebook and we started chatting until he told me he liked me a lot and I was starting to like him too. We say I love you's and stuff...
    likebeinginlove6 likebeinginlove6 16-17 Feb 4, 2012

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    Is Dating Two Guys At Once Ok?

      Im in middle school. buy im really mature. i like these two guys names caleb and matt. i just found out that matt likes me, and im dating caleb. but i like matt and caleb the same, and i dont know what to do. they both are good guys and they are amazing. well matt asked...
    foxgirl13 foxgirl13 13-15 1 Response Apr 7, 2009

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    Confused and Hurting

    i dated my boyfriend for a year and we started out so awesome. we loved each other alot and we were great friends as well. then he started losing interest in me i could tell and i told him i saw the changes but he said he still loved me and he was just busy and blah blah blah. it...
    mander88 mander88 18-21 Jan 17, 2009

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    It Wasn't Ment To Be, It Just Happened.

    I;ve been dating a guy I met online about 2.5 months ago, we have been chatting for about 3.5 months have gotten to know him quite well. Our schedules are very hit and miss so in that 2.5 momths we have only seen eachother about 6 times. We talk everyday tho , sometimes more...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 2, 2011

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    Neither Completes Me...

    I started dating two guys that I really like around the same time; was just casually dating and didn't have any expectations. Guy 1, hereafter known as CBD for cute-but-dumb, is hot but not very bright. He is a lot younger than I am and told me repeatedly that he would never...
    sassyg1rl sassyg1rl 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 14, 2011

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    This Sucks!

    I feel so trapped! I'm back together with both guys. Still very torn. Even mapped out a pros and cons decision matrix; but those don't really help when emotions are involved. Generally I am highly analytical...very pragmatic....even keeled....strategic minded. WHY CAN'T I...
    sassyg1rl sassyg1rl 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2011

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    I Need Help! Dating Two Guys At Once!

    So, Ive been with my boyfriend "D" for 5 yrs now on and off who lives with me. After my grandfather died several months ago me and "D" broke it off and that was supposed to be that. I left for a week to colorado for my grandfathers funeral and while up there was introduced to my...
    HopelesslyConfusedandDating2 HopelesslyConfusedandDating2 18-21 1 Response Oct 18, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I need help I have two guys that I love wanting me one 'B' I've been dating for the past two years and the other 'Z' I've know for about 5 years we use to date but that was when we...
    YummyKupkakes YummyKupkakes 18-21, F Aug 22

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    It was me and my best friend Isabella the year after we lost our virginities together. We were walking in the woods where "the beast" lives and 2 guys jumped us and raped us.
    AudreySexyEmoGirl AudreySexyEmoGirl 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I am kind of In a relationship with a guy and my ex texted me saying "he wanted me back". I cried everyday since we broke up , I wanted him back soo much... So I sayed " yes, that...
    Imanibabe1013 Imanibabe1013 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 7

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    I have been single for a couple of years now and not seeing guys. I'm not really looking for a guy and not even ready to be in a relationship. People are kinda worried about this...
    hrnykarly hrnykarly 26-30, F 15 hrs ago

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    I've been dating this guy for almost 2 1/2 years and we've had our ups and downs but its kinda gone into barely speaking with his either being busy and me starting senior year in...
    fallenfar fallenfar 18-21, F Aug 22

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    I'd share my story with you guys. In the collage I've attached is a photo of me on blackwhitepassion.com(an interracial dating site) and Tiffany (my fiancée now) skyping...
    keent keent 31-35, F Sep 10

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    I'm not dating yet but hopefully I will. I have many crushes in college because they make me get excited to go to class and see them. I will describe the guys and write about them...
    ponycupcake ponycupcake 18-21, F a week ago

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    Well a long time ago I said yes to going on a date with this guy (I was only going because I wanted to go to Prom. I will admit I was young and shallow.) but he brought his two...
    Skinnylove99 Skinnylove99 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    I really don't understand these idiots on dating sites. Typical idiotic things guys always say and do: -"Are you a virgin?" -"I'm h*rny." -"I have morning wood." -"Want to trade...
    firecancatchme firecancatchme 18-21, F Aug 22

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    I really don't understand these idiots on dating sites. Typical idiotic things guys always say and do: -"Are you a virgin?" -"I'm h*rny." -"I have morning wood." -"Want to trade...
    firecancatchme firecancatchme 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 22

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    Before responding consider what I am saying. Overwhelmingly dating is the way in which people start relationships and it's not that dating is the only way, but dating is so popular...
    idkanswer2014 idkanswer2014 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 7

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    Not sure if this is where I should post this but I feel the need to get this out. So, my ex boyfriend and I broke up a while ago for the umpteenth million time and i ended up...
    Pinklily87 Pinklily87 26-30, F Sep 1

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    I saw this girl's profile on a dating site, and it said "I'm tired of people who only care about how someone looks." I decided to send her a message. Her response? "I don't date...
    AgentSickler AgentSickler 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 4

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    Sometime I think I should just give up on the possibility of me and him. I met him a month or more ago. What started out as something that made me so hopeful has turned into more...
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    I think I will give up on online dating. All the guys want is sex. Mostly one time sex. I don't get it. If it is good, why pull the disappearing Act? I'm very angry right now. How...
    Lthayer2011 Lthayer2011 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    I have been on Plenty of fish for 4 years on and off. I meet two men that I spent maybe 3 months with tops. I was not really looking for a man just dating friends first type of...
    OneTooManyTears OneTooManyTears 36-40, F Sep 4

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    I dated a widower for about 3 years. When we met he'd finished a 4 year relationship after his LW, as well as internet dating with quite a few women and then that's how we met...
    Salmoncakes Salmoncakes 51-55 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Interesting Not much to say on the matter lol Any young guys wanna chat - 18-25 UK feel free .. Bored housewife
    CarcinogenicCacti CarcinogenicCacti 31-35, F 7 Responses Aug 19

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    I don't know why, but dating and I don't seem to get along. I've been thinking about getting back in the dating scene, but based on my past experiences in finding a date, I know it...
    jamie1292 jamie1292 22-25, M Aug 20

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    for some reason I find them so endearing and sweet. I tend to be drawn the most ( at least usually) to the quiet, shy ones. Especially if they are actually really attractive and...
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F Aug 22

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    for some reason I find them so endearing and sweet. I tend to be drawn the most ( at least usually) to the quiet, shy ones. Especially if they are actually really attractive and...
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 22

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    Okay so in my last experience i almost went into a complete rant about my luck with relationships.. or guys in general. So decided to post my rant and get it off my chest before i...
    FiftyLyricsInAMiracle FiftyLyricsInAMiracle 13-15, F Aug 25

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    I totally do, one or few years of age difference is perfect for me. I could go with a same age, but I can't think of dating a younger guy x :)
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    Dating online may be an interesting experience with everything dealt with properly.If not, it will surely be rather boring.That's why dating online should be made carefully rather...
    Tink0624 Tink0624 26-30, F Sep 2

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    The idea of senior dating is completely different than dating in current generation times. Usually, when people who have crossed the near fifty years mark engage themselves I...
    sophiescanlan1 sophiescanlan1 26-30, F Sep 3

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    This is a little long so sorry. So today the guy i like took the day off school to come over cause i had the day off from exams. I met him at the station and we both kinda acted...
    Aimeelouisee Aimeelouisee 16-17, F Sep 10

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    You know, I really dislike these guys that are 20 something and older (specially the ones after 40) that are harassing girls that are very young (12 to 17)... I mean I get mad at...
    Joojo3 Joojo3 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    To bad they are all fake! Is there any one real online lol. Feel like the internet is ran by one person and he keeps making new accounts over and over to try to screw with my head...
    EBestest EBestest 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I've seen more bad than good out of it. It's not only that you can never really know someone on line and also they can easily lie or put up a front, it's that from my experiences...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Which celeb or well known small guy would you make an exception dating, and be accepting of the fact they were considerably shorter than you? Prince is 5f2".. Have you seen the...
    adamkendal adamkendal 26-30, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I've always had a thing for older guys because , they know what they want in life . The age ranges to early 40s if they're that good looking. It all started when I was like 11 and...
    SienterraW SienterraW 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 23

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    "Friend disguised as a creep" Well guys, I once again ended another friendship for my sake, and my boyfriend's sake. Let's just say this-so called "friend" of mine wasn't getting...
    takethispain takethispain 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 25

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    I asked my boyfriend to tell me he loves me... He said that m too emotional n love can't be explained... Is a small compliment once in a while or a small sentence saying I mean...
    ThatPrettyGirl ThatPrettyGirl 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    I was married for five years and had two children in that time. While ignoring or suppressing my attraction to other guys, but I couldn't do it anymore and told my wife who then...
    zsmith1985 zsmith1985 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 2

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    I've felt like this for as long as I can remember. I'm not sure, but I think it has to do with brother issues.. Causing me to be attracted to slightly older guys, who has a...
    MissClueless MissClueless 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 10

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    I love tall guys,i am 5'7 and i like it when i can be called short for once,all my friends are 5'6 and lower so i'm height conscious...lol
    jesikahluv jesikahluv 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Man who doesnt? I mean, let's face it. Some of is don't have the looks to catch a girl's eye. But a girl who sees and shares our likes is more liable to give us facialy challenged...
    yourguardingangel yourguardingangel 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 31

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    So I'm a 17 year old guy, I dated this girl who's 19 around this time last year and fell completely in love with her last Christmas and New Years, around late January lots of...
    lano1996 lano1996 18-21, M Sep 4

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