Post

I Am Dating Two Guys At Once

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 15 People

    It Wasn't Ment To Be, It Just Happened.

    I;ve been dating a guy I met online about 2.5 months ago, we have been chatting for about 3.5 months have gotten to know him quite well. Our schedules are very hit and miss so in that 2.5 momths we have only seen eachother about 6 times. We talk everyday tho , sometimes more...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 2, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Back In Two Saddles Again

    Well, fearless readers...Sassygirl is on the trail again, with two cowboys. I am starting to think that CBD has some kind of radar that as soon as I get back on my feet and move on he comes back into my life; he dangles commitment at me, tells me he needs me in his life, etc...
    sassyg1rl sassyg1rl 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 7, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Eh, It Happens....

    I started seeing this really great guy last September. I really liked him but he didn't seem that into me. Yet we've been seeing each other for a good little while now. On some level, he must like me in some way. But I just don't see it. I felt completely foolish the whole time I...
    mefirstGIMME mefirstGIMME 22-25, F Apr 12, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Need Help! Dating Two Guys At Once!

    So, Ive been with my boyfriend "D" for 5 yrs now on and off who lives with me. After my grandfather died several months ago me and "D" broke it off and that was supposed to be that. I left for a week to colorado for my grandfathers funeral and while up there was introduced to my...
    HopelesslyConfusedandDating2 HopelesslyConfusedandDating2 18-21 1 Response Oct 18, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    This Sucks!

    I feel so trapped! I'm back together with both guys. Still very torn. Even mapped out a pros and cons decision matrix; but those don't really help when emotions are involved. Generally I am highly analytical...very pragmatic....even keeled....strategic minded. WHY CAN'T I...
    sassyg1rl sassyg1rl 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Neither Completes Me...

    I started dating two guys that I really like around the same time; was just casually dating and didn't have any expectations. Guy 1, hereafter known as CBD for cute-but-dumb, is hot but not very bright. He is a lot younger than I am and told me repeatedly that he would never...
    sassyg1rl sassyg1rl 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 14, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Is Dating Two Guys At Once Ok?

      Im in middle school. buy im really mature. i like these two guys names caleb and matt. i just found out that matt likes me, and im dating caleb. but i like matt and caleb the same, and i dont know what to do. they both are good guys and they are amazing. well matt asked...
    foxgirl13 foxgirl13 13-15 1 Response Apr 7, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Like This Guy But I Fell For His Friend..

    Okay so I fell in love with my old crush when I was young but then I moved abroad and havent heard from him for 5 years and then I found him on Facebook and we started chatting until he told me he liked me a lot and I was starting to like him too. We say I love you's and stuff...
    likebeinginlove6 likebeinginlove6 16-17 Feb 4, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Well, I Was....

    I've been dating two guys for 5 months. Started out so innocently; never expected it to go on this long. Never planned to hurt anyone. I finally took the plunge and broke things off with my young hottie CBD (cute but dumb). Breaking up with him was so hard, but very final...
    sassyg1rl sassyg1rl 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 19, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Confused and Hurting

    i dated my boyfriend for a year and we started out so awesome. we loved each other alot and we were great friends as well. then he started losing interest in me i could tell and i told him i saw the changes but he said he still loved me and he was just busy and blah blah blah. it...
    mander88 mander88 18-21 Jan 17, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    honestly this always happens to me there are always two guys in my life and i always choose the wrong one but this time i have no idea what to do. first there is my boyfriend he...
    bapierce9513 bapierce9513 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't know how it happened but I fell in love with two guys and don't want to lose either of them... I don't know what to do... I can't choose between them because I love them...
    MnMss MnMss 16-17, F 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I was a sophomore in high school, (Yea, I know pretty young), and I was in a relationship with two senior guys. I met a guy named "V" in my new school. I was pretty shy & he always...
    luvabl3 luvabl3 18-21, F 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    When I was nine I met my now boyfriend. He was in my class and I decided I liked him. I never stopped. Through the years and the grades and *shudders* puberty, he became best...
    Lochnessie Lochnessie 13-15, F Jul 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Living in a small town makes it hard for some folks to meet decent dating material. But I live in a big city bustling with single people from all ages and let me tell you, it doesn...
    Bellamae Bellamae 41-45, F Aug 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've always had really great experiences with online dating. It's great for going outside your social circle and meeting new personalities. I would have to say my most...
    blazeee blazeee 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I dated two Hispanic guys and two black guys. I liked being with the Hispanic guys because of the mix in culture. I would love to date a white guy though.
    Khadijah96 Khadijah96 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It did not work out the way that I'd hoped. I won't name the site that I used, but I created a profile about 2 years ago (2012ish), and figured it give it a shot. I answered a...
    moonchile moonchile 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    He's 34, I'm 19. He's 14 1/2 years older. He's my "boss"... And we work in the type of field that our relationship wouldn't really be allowed at this point until I move up and get...
    rhodehouse rhodehouse 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So I have learned online dating really sucks!! I have also learned guys are way more pickier then the girls. They want the girls who look like models and hurt then in the end...
    feelinglost84 feelinglost84 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Hey guys its been awhile some people asked me if I still wear diapers cause in some old stories I said I did. Well I was always incontinent and I used to be embarrassed. But I...
    Hope2456 Hope2456 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Ever since I was little I've been so attracted to white guys and Hispanic guys. Black guys always get upset at me for "dating outside of my race". But it's perfectly okay for them...
    markinicole markinicole 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't discriminate when it comes to dating. I think people who do are so blind to what else is out there. I'm black, and I've only been with 2 black guys in my life. I love white...
    cocopuffnation cocopuffnation 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    There's something about taller guys that just makes you feel safer. I'm5'6, which is pretty average for where I'm at. The last guy I dated was 6'2. I usually date guys that are 5'8...
    TheRisingPhoenix TheRisingPhoenix 16-17, F Jul 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I joined EP for charity work and other things not to talk and date haha. I have a wonderful boyfriend and in a happy relationship no need to experience guys and dating. Love this...
    Klcataldo Klcataldo 18-21, F 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Let's get things straight. I am a highly educated, attractive, fit, financially stable professional. I am well-read, well-rounded and well-traveled. I just so happen to have become...
    bioprof34 bioprof34 31-35 1 Response Jul 21

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So my and my boyfriend have been dating for about 4 months but have been good friends for about 2 years. We are also both about to be seniors in high school. Although his guy...
    laxlife laxlife 16-17, F Jul 26

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I was suppose to meet the guy I'm seeing for the 4th time on Friday but had to cancel due to child care problems.. it's been a few days and I haven't heard from him which is...
    Mama86 Mama86 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am so attracted to older men, no women wants a boy when they can have a man! guys my age don't no how to treat a women and are to immature. Dating guys my own age get tiring, i...
    angelheelz angelheelz 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Hello, I'm in my very late 40s and have been on my own (outside relationships) most of my life. I had my last long relationship 10 yrs ago and that was for 2.5 yrs. The intention...
    maejay maejay 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Lol Dating, Who does that anymore? Guys can be so dumb
    iwannabigbro iwannabigbro 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    The Reasons of Older Men Younger Women Dating . Older men date younger women for many reasons. It does not depends on age most of the time as much as depend on Passion, love and...
    caitlincc11 caitlincc11 22-25, F Aug 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    The Reasons of Older Men Younger Women Dating . Older men date younger women for many reasons. It does not depends on age most of the time as much as depend on Passion, love and...
    caitlincc11 caitlincc11 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 7

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm not the prettiest or most popular girl in school so most guys don't go after me, but if I do date it ends up being horrible guys who treat me horrible
    Aubreygrace115 Aubreygrace115 13-15, F Jul 23

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I love white men. They're all I've been dating the past year. I haven't been in a serious relationship. Only a few I've felt really comfortable with, especially after sex. Can some...
    Am3917 Am3917 18-21, F 12 Responses Jul 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Haha, I just realized this yesterday. Often... I wont really be dating.. But ?. Sort of speaking in a figure og speech, like maybe I am not there. Or it is just... another view...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M Jul 21

    Your Response

    Cancel
    And he's six years younger than I am. When we met I felt this strong attraction to him. I'm not sure what it is even after these six months that we've been dating. It's still there...
    Vikkisses Vikkisses 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So.... Second date (yep I ain't wasting time the previous bastard broke my heart and the pieces I'm convinced are out there somewhere!) I know him from work and bumped into each...
    Bluesrain Bluesrain 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Dating is hard enough, and it will be more difficult when it comes to dating with STDs. Thanks for the online dating platform provide a new chance for people living with STDs to...
    stdaustralia stdaustralia 22-25, F Aug 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Dating is hard enough, and it will be more difficult when it comes to dating with STDs. Thanks for the online dating platform provide a new chance for people living with STDs to...
    stdaustralia stdaustralia 22-25, F Aug 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Dating is hard enough, and it will be more difficult when it comes to dating with STDs. Thanks for the online dating platform provide a new chance for people living with STDs to...
    stdaustralia stdaustralia 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    The Bolshoi Theatre which was practically developed anew and with main modifications by comparison on the previous building, opened on 20 August 1856 using a performance of...
    Deborahyt Deborahyt 31-35, M 1 Response 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I moved back to my hometown a couple of months ago. I wasn't happy about it but I had to. There was a family get together and it was awkward since I didn't have much to talk about...
    TiffJb TiffJb 22-25, F Aug 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Random but oh well!! White guys with blue eyes and dimples👌😍
    QueenAfrika QueenAfrika 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    You see, I've been playing xbox for a while now. About a month ago I was playing black ops 2, and this guy and a few of his buddies were in a lobby. Let's pretend this guys name is...
    BxFree BxFree 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Dear all boys on here I probably won't date you. If you want to date me you have to become a close friend of mine first. Dear girls that want to date me. Become my friend first. I...
    spidercupcakes spidercupcakes 13-15, F Jul 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Why is it before you meet someone , they text away at you and when u finally meet, it's awkward at first , but you get along attraction is definitely there, he kisses you and and...
    js1276 js1276 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm 18 and i definitely cant stand dating people my age or younger its mostly the maturity thing
    jesikahluv jesikahluv 18-21, F 22 Responses Jul 28

    Your Response

    Cancel