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I Am Dazed and Confused

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    Lust. Infatuation Or Love.

    Hi there beautiful people. and excuse my english it's not my 1st language. so this is my little story about my "lust" or "infatuation" or "love" i really don't know how to call it. i would really like to get some advices or opinions about this. but please no judging. so last year...
    ohlust ohlust 18-21, F Nov 14, 2013

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    Can't Understand Things Sometimes.... :(

    I have a ninang(godmother), let's call her, aunt Angel. We're kind of attached with each other. We're close, in short. :) I think of her as my 2nd mom. We're really sweet. We even hold hands while walking sometimes. :) There was a time, Aunt Angel told me, "You know, my family...
    magicalSmile magicalSmile 13-15, F Oct 7, 2011

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    I Am Dazed And Confused

    I'm not coming there sis . One time I will get around just fine and then it seems like all the rules change. I am well aware this is not the  case and it makes me really nervous. I do not like being out of control. How's that for a person so ADHD she changes her own rules...
    BCBoomer58 BCBoomer58 56-60, F 3 Responses May 7, 2010

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    Ahhhhhh

    I often get confused about human behaviour and what I am meant to be doing with myself, there are so many options. I often feel like I say the wrong thing, but I also think "out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaketh".
    learntocook learntocook 18-21 Aug 7, 2010

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    "He Wants What Now?" Well my boyfriend's

    Mother has a very kind, smart, and amazing boyfriend that I have grown close and attached to. I did happen to have a little crush on him when I first started dating MY boyfriend 2 years ago, but I came to my seances and thought I was just going through some stupid faze because...
    S24Jenna S24Jenna 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    Hmm

    I am dazed and confused in both the literal sense, meaning about life and who i am and all that, and in the movie sense =] what a classic, eh? so many great quotes..
    teenanonymous teenanonymous 16-18, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2007

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    Buying A Home

    So I recently decided to buy a home, if you have checked out my profile this story will make more sense. I started dating someone about a month ago, she's fun, and I can be myself around her, or so I thought. I don't understand her latest comments, I'm in the process of buying a...
    Baba2106 Baba2106 26-30, M Aug 23, 2013

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    Troubled

    i am so confused i do not know where to start this story i will not tell it fully till i put more pieces together. this world is full of hurtful people.i seem to attract them. i am going to stay away and stop letting anyone new near me. no one can be trusted.so sad but true. i...
    freeangel freeangel 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 27, 2010

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    I'm Not On Vacation!! Why Does It Always Say I Just Got Back From Vacation????

    I said it all in the title. Ok. I'm not going to start ......
    BCBoomer58 BCBoomer58 56-60, F 2 Responses May 7, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    i'm in quite a complicated situation so i'll explain from the very beginning. i'll change the names because i want this to stay confidential. i am a girl currently aged 17, and...
    e197x e197x 16-17 Mar 23

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    I am quite confused over a few things that may be relatively difficult for me to explain. In the past few years life has been... odd. I say this not because I am struggling with...
    pneumaGrey pneumaGrey 16-17, T 1 Response Mar 29

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    Hi there, sorry if this post is a bit long, I feel like there's a lot to explain so 1st of all thank you if you take the time to read this! Here goes... So basically i've always...
    pinkdiamondxo pinkdiamondxo 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I broke up with my bf of 6 years, not because I didn't love him or care about him. But because we went through a lot and I had a lot to get over. So I broke up with him so I...
    feelinglost84 feelinglost84 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    Confused confused. I know this is not a good idea. But i even think on marrying someone for visa and to just get far away from my family as soon as I turn 18.
    zhaneylhuv zhaneylhuv 16-17, F Apr 2

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    So a guy I've liked for a long time now wants to kiss me, but he doesnt want to have any commitment. He just wants to kiss me, period. I've never had my first kiss, and he said he...
    defi4nce defi4nce 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I am so confused about my ex. We've been separated for just over a year. I left him but I don't regret that decision. He was an alcoholic and it got to the point that he was...
    FreedomtoFly FreedomtoFly 26-30, F Apr 6

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    I'm confused.This one time my friend showed me a picture of Jeff the killer (from creepypasta) I literally freaked out and got paranoid but a few months later now I have lots of...
    BurningPhoenix123 BurningPhoenix123 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    It's really not a relationship yet. He's my best friend and I feel all the wonderful emotional connections that come with a serious relationship. But I don't feel the physical...
    Madii144 Madii144 18-21 2 Responses Mar 21

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    Super confused- my crush doesn't mind cuddling on the couch while watching a movie, holding hands, or kissing. But ever since my drunken stupor I feel like now he's pulling away...
    Peanutnumber22 Peanutnumber22 22-25, F Mar 21

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    I feel confused Like i donno wat to do with my life I want a job and i even got 2 offers but im a student too and well the parents said i shud first complete my studies But then i...
    swordsmith swordsmith 16-17, F Mar 23

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    I am so confused about so many things. I am so uncertain about so many things: who I am, why my friends like me, my abilities, things I like... I feel so empty like I'm just going...
    ayang1150 ayang1150 16-17, F Mar 23

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    I am a really confused person, i am so indecisive i cry myself too sleep
    charlotteK charlotteK 13-15, F Mar 25

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    I don't know for real what is going on with my life and wish if things will be cleared soon. Am i that bad for showing how much i am in love with some girl and being there for her...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    It all started six years ago. This girl and I became friends when we're on our senior year in high school but before, we barely talk to each other and we're not even that close...
    myheartscore myheartscore 22-25 Mar 30

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    I don't know why but lately I have been getting angry at the smallest thing. I don't want to talk to my parents(I'm not mad at them I honestly just don't know why I don't want to...
    rcola rcola 16-17, M Mar 31

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    We dated 2 years then he tells me we should take a break. But even though were on a "break" he's still texting me everyday trying to make conversation. I'm confused.
    NeeverForget NeeverForget 18-21, F Apr 1

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    I usually am,I dont know that I feel like writing all the nitty gritty details etc but Im confused at the moment about a situation..maybe im afraid of being honest with myself...
    seeminglypossible seeminglypossible 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    Soooooo confused............................ Well i know i am not straight. I have this friend who is a girl and i love her. But i had a few bfs that i loved too. And that is not...
    LunaOanaAris LunaOanaAris 16-17, F Apr 2

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    Really confused about my gender and feel all alone. I was born a boy however I have always been called gay or a sissy since childhood. I wonder if any guys are attracted to a...
    FemGayBottom FemGayBottom 26-30, T 1 Response Apr 3

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    I thought I was sure of myself but I guess I'm not. I was so sure I wanted to date a guy and start to be happy but tonight I was talking to a girl and the feelings I felt for her...
    ColdDayMemory ColdDayMemory 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    I'm so confused with my life, like what the ****? I don't even know anymore, but I won't give up
    alexnewsom alexnewsom 16-17, M Apr 4

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    I have been attracted to girls since I hit puberty. I have only had sexual relations with a few girls and they were either drunk or barely curious so it made it very uncomfortable...
    alaskanrose90 alaskanrose90 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    This is something very personal. I have never in my life told anyone I know and probably never will. First off, I have never dated a anyone, boy or girl but im a bit confused. Don...
    prodigious95 prodigious95 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    I've been in a relationship of almost 2 years... we have arguments like some relationships had... i think it is just normal.. our dilemma starts when we are almost 1 year... I've...
    Lyra1001 Lyra1001 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    boy, this is defiently an experiment for me.. putting my bussiness out in the open for the world to see.. haha here goes nothin.. well i am married for litttle over 3 years...
    brebsky brebsky 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 7

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    April 9. Giving. Learning to be a healthy giver can be a challenge. Many of us got caught up in compulsive giving - charitable acts motivated by uncharitable feelings of guilt...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Apr 9

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    Dunno hw to say.....but is it that I observed or all out here are this way...???? means y every new person has a masked personality...ppl chat smooth n sophisticated bt gradually...
    Mughee Mughee 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I am feeling lost, i dont know where is the right direction of life. I dont know why i feel like there's always something missing in me. And i dont know what it is and how to find...
    mhyne mhyne 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    Right now I am a senior and only have about a month until graduation. I have so much going on and it feels like it's closing in, chocking me. All my life I have dreamed of being a...
    rainabaina rainabaina 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I didn't expect to be 30 yrs old and still feeling so lost n confused.. What's going on???
    Kathyis30 Kathyis30 26-30, F Apr 10

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    I'm just so confused right now and can use some advice for liking someone and this may sound weird but also some tips for getting someone to keep liking you but not ask you out...
    alotofquestions891 alotofquestions891 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    Feeling upset about myself. Trying to understand what my flaws are and why I may be a bad choice for people to have as a "special someone".I used to be very quiet and shy when I...
    Shiznitone Shiznitone 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 11

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    Am I Settling Or Is It Love? My bf & I have been together for 1.5 years now. We live together. We have a cat together. We've talked future marriage & children. For practically...
    OldSoul246 OldSoul246 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 11

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    I'm married but feel so single. My husband always ignores me. I feel like I don't exist. I'm so tired and confused!
    writer4ever writer4ever 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 11

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    I get confused so easily when it comes to guys, I just pretend to understand so I don't annoy them
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F a week ago

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    I met this guy a while ago and we started texting and flirting. We even hung out once. I catched feelings and so did he (as he told me) I even asked his bestfriend if it was true...
    unthinkablesoul unthinkablesoul 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    honestly, im a bit confused with this side. my friend told me bout this site. and i hope i got sth positive here :)
    ordinarygirldreams ordinarygirldreams 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Please tell me I'm so confused wat is a pan sexual b 4 I get all this negative feed back i didn't go to google cuz I really wanted to use this app So ya
    elismith elismith 13-15, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My ex bf and i are separated for 4 months ago , and he has a gf since then 'i think he doesn't love her , it's just for fun' we didn't contact since then 'only once he texted me...
    Myf95 Myf95 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I recently got a job. Some job fest was organized in my college and I participated in it thinking that I will learn something new. But, I got selected and got this job. It pays me...
    Simple4me Simple4me 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    So I have PTSD I watched my mother get rapped and beaten, I watched her battle with heroin addiction, my father is dead, my little brother has a brain problem causing him to have...
    melaniemay4 melaniemay4 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I act like nothing is going on but hell feel so confused and depressed for messaging my love and she doesn't even try from her work...give me a short reply as miss her like hell...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 1 Response