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I Am Dealing With Wifes Affair

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    My wife is having an affair,

    before I found out, we were doing couples counseling and she didn't even try, when I did find out I asked to leave, so our boys wouldn't see us fighting that was on the 3rd of jan. Come to find out shes with the other man now. And has asked for a divorce, they are already...
    goodmand goodmand 46-50, M 4 Responses Feb 5, 2014

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    I don't think that she is over him.

    I was checking out her Facebook searches and while she has unfriended Mark shortly after I discovered her emotional affair, I noticed that she searches his name just about every other week. Why, I don't know because she says that she doesn't have any feelings for him anymore...
    CanHappen CanHappen 56-60, M 5 Responses Sep 28, 2014

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    My wife and I have a relationship of eight

    years. Married last year I find our that she has been having an affair for eight months . She only told me because she got caught otherwise would still be going on. I am trying to forgive her but it is painful
    hamptonbuck hamptonbuck 51-55, M 4 Responses Jun 9, 2014

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    I've been married to my wife

    for 30+ years and lately I don't know who she is. She was a Virgin when we met at 16. Were married after graduation and began our family. Sex has always been good. Now that it's just the two of us at home and her appetite for sex has gone through the roof . I'm not...
    Allen2014 Allen2014 51-55, M 5 Responses Mar 22, 2014

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    It's 5 weeks since I decided to end my affair. I think the worst of the withdrawals are over. I did not cut off complete contact although I may in two more weeks. I'm a bit...
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    I just came to the realization that most affairs are based on LUST.. TEMPTATION... and most of all GREAT SEX..and all of that can sometimes be mistaken for a Crazy Addiction..now...
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