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I Am Dealing With Wifes Affair

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    I don't think that she is over him.

    I was checking out her Facebook searches and while she has unfriended Mark shortly after I discovered her emotional affair, I noticed that she searches his name just about every other week. Why, I don't know because she says that she doesn't have any feelings for him anymore...
    CanHappen CanHappen 56-60, M 5 Responses Sep 28, 2014

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    My wife and I have a relationship of eight

    years. Married last year I find our that she has been having an affair for eight months . She only told me because she got caught otherwise would still be going on. I am trying to forgive her but it is painful
    hamptonbuck hamptonbuck 51-55, M 4 Responses Jun 9, 2014

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    My wife is having an affair,

    before I found out, we were doing couples counseling and she didn't even try, when I did find out I asked to leave, so our boys wouldn't see us fighting that was on the 3rd of jan. Come to find out shes with the other man now. And has asked for a divorce, they are already...
    goodmand goodmand 46-50, M 4 Responses Feb 5, 2014

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    I've been married to my wife

    for 30+ years and lately I don't know who she is. She was a Virgin when we met at 16. Were married after graduation and began our family. Sex has always been good. Now that it's just the two of us at home and her appetite for sex has gone through the roof . I'm not...
    Allen2014 Allen2014 51-55, M 5 Responses Mar 22, 2014

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    I think I need to quit my affair. The sex is good. I want more. Or not? I can find someone to golf with, to go to the beach with, or to talk to.. It is just sex after all!!
    Justinkar Justinkar 46-50, F 2 hrs ago

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    How do you settle for the ordinary, the very good, very solid, very loving ordinary? All that it lacks is the passion that my affair had at its peak. I don't think I will ever get...
    Wilbury Wilbury 46-50, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Sorry so long but I need opinions here!! My ex gave me The worst possible break up when he left me. He left right after the death of my mother when I needed him most which to make...
    blondshel blondshel 36-40, F 4 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I am 43 years old. I have been seeing escorts since I was 19. I even included my ex-wife in on these adventures during my brief marriage. I have been divorced for 17 years, am a...
    jbe639 jbe639 41-45, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Actually there's only one problem. And that's diaper changing, oh my god...my baby girl is a hectic one, I have to literally speed change her diaper before she streams on me. Not...
    ZADoubleMesser ZADoubleMesser 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My friend and I became best friends four to five years ago, when we were in primary school. It started when she started going to the same tutorial center as me and we just drifted...
    rosyvision rosyvision 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    Oh those curled pages, earned wages spent on all of those words filling, thought spilling out like so much sand on and endless . . . Isn't reading a peach? Like that first burst...
    moonchild0315 moonchild0315 36-40, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Hi everyone I'm a 61 year old female in my boyfriend is 52 years old he's Puerto Rican and I'm from Boston he speaks very good English has a PhD we have problem understanding each...
    DebOohlala DebOohlala 61-65, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    sex doesn't impress me,mental does
    miimii0069 miimii0069 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    I have been dealing with this for awhile. It really just does not seem fair. I feel like no matter what I do it is wrong. So here is the story. About a year ago I moved into a...
    ButterflyKisses08 ButterflyKisses08 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Just ended my affair and I'm sad. She was careless with her phone and her husband found out, she spilled everything. Mixed feelings. A bit relieved but also sad, I loved her...
    joestu84 joestu84 41-45, M 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Those of you who had an affair and experienced a D-day with your spouse... what does it feel like? I'm curious.... sorry if the question sounded weird. I just want to be more...
    HurtsEverywhere HurtsEverywhere 31-35, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    The drink business is the greatest business everywhere throughout the world. There are insufficient different brands in some other industry than there are in the drink business...
    safety2survey safety2survey 26-30, M 6 days ago

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    I feel like my Psychiatrist is trying to slap me with a label that makes no sense. She is very persistent that I'm ADHD which doesn't make sense to me especially since I'm 23 and...
    WarriorsHeart WarriorsHeart 22-25, M 6 Responses Jun 27

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    When I was 8 years old I saw my mother wanting to leave. I did not realise at the time why, now after all these years I am curious. Was it an Affair like he said? All I know is...
    moyesp moyesp 51-55 Jun 26

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    my soon to be husband is living in Mississippi as I am in south Carolina I got pregnant before he left it's been 4 months now since I seen him but he'll be back in sept. it's been...
    starryeyes2008 starryeyes2008 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    My boyfriend left almost a month ago, and he won't be home for another 8 months, I miss him so much. I didn't realize deployment would be this rough
    stephpeasexo stephpeasexo 18-21, F Jun 25

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    all of my attempts to become a socially functional person have made me miserable. they haven't been extraordinary attempts. but, they are contrary to my character and have made me...
    chaekowski chaekowski 26-30, M Jun 25

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    I didn't hear from him in 10 weeks. He got his deployment orders on such a short notice that we just had a few days to get used to it that he is leaving. We still talked while he...
    Stef21987 Stef21987 26-30, F Jun 24

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    I have to put her the feral I found to sleep. She's in pain. I can't help her. It hurts so bad
    honestlyanonymouslyme honestlyanonymouslyme 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    It's very exciting to see what others say about my wifes photos. We very much enjoy showing off her photosJerry
    Jerryandwife Jerryandwife 41-45, M 49 Responses Jun 23

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    I want to be a writer. I've written a novel but I don't know what to do with it because the publishing industry scares/depresses me and every time anyone criticizes me, I descend...
    Emeryael Emeryael 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    I feel so selfish; I am riddled with guilt and yet I can't stop thinking about my affair partner. I have everything most people in the world would long for - I have been married...
    FrankieLeaf FrankieLeaf 41-45, M 4 Responses Jun 23

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    I hate people who talk shi* on people for No apparent reason like some dumb crap just to get into a fight. Ppl like that need to get their A$$ kicked!
    MelanieG345 MelanieG345 13-15 1 Response Jun 22

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    I'm experiencing emotional distress because of my future mother in law, and it's making me feel guilty every day. My fiance and I have been together for 2 years, we're very happy...
    xinderellah xinderellah 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    I'm trying to learn how to embrace my pain - and not run from it.
    BonnieJJo BonnieJJo 41-45, F Jun 22

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    I can only echo what many other men have said in previous postings. AM is a loser's bet for men. I've been using AM since early 2012. I just logged in to my account. Over the...
    bobrido bobrido 46-50, M 4 Responses Jun 21

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    So much so, I basically avoid asking people's opinions on things that could be criticized. I feel like even if they don't mean to, that They're aiming hateful words purposefully at...
    taacct taacct 22-25, F Jun 21

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    Went to donate blood today. I stopped making appointments, because I'll get anxious about it the days before. I felt my stomach go empty and my heart start racing when I was...
    chaekowski chaekowski 26-30, M Jun 20

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    I don't like being argumentative, but I can get defensive. When I am sure of my stand, and I know I am dealing with an idiot, I just roll my eyes, inwardly say 'whatever', and just...
    iCuriousBabe iCuriousBabe 41-45, F 7 Responses Jun 20

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    This is for all of the recent posts of having gone NC. Applause to us that have chosen to end, where the affair became toxic and the joys of being on the journey were gone. NC is...
    pencruz pencruz 51-55, F 10 Responses Jun 19

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    Anxiety attacks and An irrational fear of my Girlfriend abandoning me... So last night I started suffering from Anxiety attacks because my Girlfriend didn't call or text me all...
    mizzcomplicated mizzcomplicated 22-25, F Jun 18

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    I hate to sound awful because I have met some wonderful and kind hearts on this site during my short period here and you know who you are. :) However, I am NOT looking for an...
    Lostandscared3 Lostandscared3 36-40, F Jun 16

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    I am married and having an affair with a unmarried man. the hardest thing for me in dealing with this affair is wanting him to be all mine but I know I can't leave my husband...
    DannysSong DannysSong 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 15

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    I can see looking back over my posts how much I've grown since I joined EP. I see many contradictions. When I first joined here I felt broken and empty after an ended online...
    emptynow emptynow 36-40, F 6 Responses Jun 15

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    It's my 5th year anniversary with my husband and the stress, frustration, anger, and sadness caused by dealing with my in-laws for 5 whole years is superseding any piece of...
    OvertlyIntroverted OvertlyIntroverted 26-30, F Jun 14

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    Today I ran into an ex I haven't spoken to in 2 years. Was a bad break up. His choice mostly .... Right after my mom died. I almost spat in his face till he started talking. He...
    blondshel blondshel 36-40, F 1 Response