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I Am Dealing With Wifes Affair

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    I've been married to my wife

    for 30+ years and lately I don't know who she is. She was a Virgin when we met at 16. Were married after graduation and began our family. Sex has always been good. Now that it's just the two of us at home and her appetite for sex has gone through the roof . I'm not...
    Allen2014 Allen2014 51-55, M 5 Responses Mar 22, 2014

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    My wife is having an affair,

    before I found out, we were doing couples counseling and she didn't even try, when I did find out I asked to leave, so our boys wouldn't see us fighting that was on the 3rd of jan. Come to find out shes with the other man now. And has asked for a divorce, they are already...
    goodmand goodmand 46-50, M 4 Responses Feb 5, 2014

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    My wife and I have a relationship of eight

    years. Married last year I find our that she has been having an affair for eight months . She only told me because she got caught otherwise would still be going on. I am trying to forgive her but it is painful
    hamptonbuck hamptonbuck 51-55, M 4 Responses Jun 9, 2014

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    I don't think that she is over him.

    I was checking out her Facebook searches and while she has unfriended Mark shortly after I discovered her emotional affair, I noticed that she searches his name just about every other week. Why, I don't know because she says that she doesn't have any feelings for him anymore...
    CanHappen CanHappen 56-60, M 5 Responses Sep 28, 2014

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    Soo as the story goes he did return in April. First he was nice and said 'we can meet if you want?' Texted back and fourth my anxiety got high again waiting for my phone to beep...
    ventingagain ventingagain 31-35, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I'm glad it's been over for the last couple of months. I just found out that hubby may have cancer. They found some suspicious spots on a scan. He's going for more testing. I'm in...
    lovinglife11 lovinglife11 31-35, F 5 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    My ex-AP called me yesterday & I picked up the f****** phone. I hated that ! I know I shouldn't have picked it up, but I did. Ok, another setback. Ok... back to sq 1, breathe...
    MorningRose10 MorningRose10 31-35, F 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I don't known how to feel when my mom acts like I'm always against her I'm dealing my own way with my family , and my husband is in prison in have my own things happening am I...
    raejel50 raejel50 18-21, F 17 hrs ago

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    Grief is not linear. It comes back around. Loss is one of the hardest things I've had to deal with.
    cloudedsky cloudedsky 26-30 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I've been homeschooled all my life, and never been around teenagers except for once a year at camp.. So this spring I played futbol for the first time ever, right as my anxiety...
    violentsneezes violentsneezes 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    It's okay to be quiet... It's okay to be shy.. I just want to overcome the fear.. I just want to be able to do the things I need to do.
    chaekowski chaekowski 26-30, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    What's it mean when ur ex (dated 8 months) wants to keep you in his life as "friends" even when he's moved on to someone new? This has never happened to me before.
    Merrmaid Merrmaid 36-40, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I really really need to work on overcoming, dealing with, or at least managing it.. And I feel like the more I talk about it, the more likely I am to overcome it. It's really been...
    chaekowski chaekowski 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    dealing with this right now. it hurts so much. he just ended it 5 days ago. this is someone I have known for 15 years, and he is my husbands best friend. we have a history, a past...
    slynnlee slynnlee 36-40, F 2 days ago

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    Its 4:37am so this won't be my best writing, so please don't judge me and if you do...do it silently (please). Anyhow, I had this friend. He and I grew very close. Had an intense...
    LanaKane LanaKane 70+, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am so messed up again. Ugh. I moved on and was over my affair. He was someone in my life regularly. I'm friends with his wife. He was best friends with my husband. My now ex...
    lilsecret1 lilsecret1 41-45, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    The hardest part about going to the gym for me is checking-in and leaving. I really, really, reallyyyy don't like it. When I get to the door my heart starts pumping a bit. I walk...
    chaekowski chaekowski 26-30, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    When not sure about extremes in life...remember you will go most safely in the middle.
    000Camilla 000Camilla 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    Well rather I am not dealing with them, I have identified 3 narcs in my life. I have very little to do with any of the 3. In my experience it's the only thing you can do with...
    LilyLangtree LilyLangtree 56-60, F 5 days ago

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    Hi, i had an affair which ended last week. She ended it because she said she deserved better i.e. that i should leave my wife, get divorced and live with her. I have two kids and...
    kabe200 kabe200 51-55, M 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    I walk through the grocery store and I realize all the people I am passing are going to die and dissolve and be scattered in every direction of the universe.. And all that...
    chaekowski chaekowski 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    People are always so judgemental.I feel like showing my impatience in dealing with them.I keep quiet only because it is not worth bothering about them so much.
    whitesunshine87 whitesunshine87 51-55, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hey there! I'm looking for other military girlfriends , because my boyfriend is deployed right now and it's pretty hard.... It would be nice to find other girls who are in the same...
    deployedboyfriendsgirl deployedboyfriendsgirl 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    what’s happening is that some deep, inner part of me finally feels safe and stable enough to address the leftover emotional fallout that’s been patiently waiting. In the years...
    hospitalrooms hospitalrooms 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    This is the first time I have posted. After years of struggling to conceive my husband of 22 years developed erectile dysfunction. A year later we lost his father to an unexpected...
    Elsie173 Elsie173 41-45, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    To whom this may concern I'm not dealing with any bullshit this year so stay out of my way and let me do me. No drama. No fake *******. No bad vibes. No bad situations. I'll do me...
    Indicudsarah Indicudsarah 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I was just wondering if any fellow potsies have any careers advice? I unfortunately had to stop mainstream school (as many of us have had to) as well as home education so...
    justhollyjayne justhollyjayne 16-17, F a week ago

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    I'm craving an emotional online affair, is that what it's called lol? I don't want to cheat on my husband, but id like to fulfill my needs as a woman of feeling desired. I'd like...
    Sarahi7 Sarahi7 26-30, F 15 Responses a week ago

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    I am a married guy who has been married for 20 years. I met a woman at work 17 years ago and we became good friends. We introduced each others family. It was great. 13 years ago we...
    sm4e sm4e 46-50, M 4 Responses Jul 21

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    Latest Blog post I talk about Flying, Airports and the TSA and dealing with incontinence. I also go through my first experience and how you can make yours go smoothly. Ask me any...
    archerstaley archerstaley 26-30, M Jul 20

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    Latest Blog post I talk about Flying, Airports and the TSA and dealing with incontinence. I also go through my first experience and how you can make yours go smoothly. Ask me any...
    archerstaley archerstaley 26-30, M Jul 20

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    Latest Blog post I talk about Flying, Airports and the TSA and dealing with incontinence. I also go through my first experience and how you can make yours go smoothly. Ask me any...
    archerstaley archerstaley 26-30, M Jul 20

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    So, to go through my past posts from years ago this will be the first post in the conclusion of my marriage. In early December I had become suspicious of my wife having an affair...
    j21043 j21043 31-35, M Jul 19

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    I had an affair and my story is a long and complicated one. Ultimately, my husband walked in on us and now he will not even be open to the idea of asking me questions about it, but...
    Anadiir Anadiir 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 18

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    My life has been altered, or, as one woman I met told me, "transformed." I liked that word because something positive can be associated with it. It reminded me that even in the...
    christina1219 christina1219 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    My boyfriend is a nightmare and he has been treating me so badly for the past 6 months, we've been together for nearly 3 years now and I'm about to end it with him tomorrow.. He...
    Victoriaa95 Victoriaa95 18-21, F Jul 17

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    On the outside, I laugh/shrug it off, but inside I'm dying. I know you can't please everyone, but criticism still upsets me.
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 16

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    I can't lie, I just don't feel right. I have be honest. Always.
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    I fear people who let the little things about you really bother them. Who let one or two minor mistakes ruin their whole image & impression of you. I wish I was better about...
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    When does NC become easier? I was a NC rockstar for nearly two months! It was easy, I felt great. Like tons lifted off my shoulders. I was getting things done, nurturing the truly...
    Rosybottomz Rosybottomz 31-35, F 21 Responses Jul 16

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    My husband just left for basic a few days ago and is love some army wifes to talk to I'm pretty lonely
    Breannenichole Breannenichole 16-17, F Jul 15

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    This is very fresh for me and I don't know where else to go or what else to do. I cannot talk about this with anyone and the internet seems to harbor communities of acceptance. I...