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I Am Dealing With Wifes Affair

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    My wife is having an affair,

    before I found out, we were doing couples counseling and she didn't even try, when I did find out I asked to leave, so our boys wouldn't see us fighting that was on the 3rd of jan. Come to find out shes with the other man now. And has asked for a divorce, they are already...
    goodmand goodmand 46-50, M 4 Responses Feb 5

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    She recently began an affair with another man

    after we went a long period of time without sex. Right now, I'm trying to win her back but I don't know if I can overcome the deficit I'm in. While I don't have a serious debilitating disease, I have had a couple of minor heart treatments for atrial fibrillation and I think I...
    LysistratasWeakness2 LysistratasWeakness2 51-55, M 5 Responses Mar 10

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    I've been married to my wife

    for 30+ years and lately I don't know who she is. She was a Virgin when we met at 16. Were married after graduation and began our family. Sex has always been good. Now that it's just the two of us at home and her appetite for sex has gone through the roof . I'm not...
    Allen2014 Allen2014 51-55, M 4 Responses Mar 22

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    My wife and I have a relationship of eight

    years. Married last year I find our that she has been having an affair for eight months . She only told me because she got caught otherwise would still be going on. I am trying to forgive her but it is painful
    hamptonbuck hamptonbuck 51-55, M 3 Responses Jun 9

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