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I Am Dealing With Wifes Affair

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    My wife is having an affair,

    before I found out, we were doing couples counseling and she didn't even try, when I did find out I asked to leave, so our boys wouldn't see us fighting that was on the 3rd of jan. Come to find out shes with the other man now. And has asked for a divorce, they are already...
    goodmand goodmand 46-50, M 4 Responses Feb 5

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    I've been married to my wife

    for 30+ years and lately I don't know who she is. She was a Virgin when we met at 16. Were married after graduation and began our family. Sex has always been good. Now that it's just the two of us at home and her appetite for sex has gone through the roof . I'm not...
    Allen2014 Allen2014 51-55, M 5 Responses Mar 22

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    I don't think that she is over him.

    I was checking out her Facebook searches and while she has unfriended Mark shortly after I discovered her emotional affair, I noticed that she searches his name just about every other week. Why, I don't know because she says that she doesn't have any feelings for him anymore...
    CanHappen CanHappen 56-60, M 5 Responses Sep 28

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    My wife and I have a relationship of eight

    years. Married last year I find our that she has been having an affair for eight months . She only told me because she got caught otherwise would still be going on. I am trying to forgive her but it is painful
    hamptonbuck hamptonbuck 51-55, M 3 Responses Jun 9

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    She recently began an affair with another man

    after we went a long period of time without sex. Right now, I'm trying to win her back but I don't know if I can overcome the deficit I'm in. While I don't have a serious debilitating disease, I have had a couple of minor heart treatments for atrial fibrillation and I think I...
    LysistratasWeakness2 LysistratasWeakness2 51-55, M 4 Responses Mar 10

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    I'm just tired of it. Whether it's some family or friends, I'm done. From now on, my focus is just on the few people who've actually been there for me. I'm tired of letting my...
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    bludye47 bludye47 18-21, F Dec 1

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    The aftermath of breakups really sucks. This feelings and everything freaking sucks. I don't understand guys and why they think it's okay to put us girls through hell. I'm so...
    lizygurl lizygurl 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    My husband has it. I ******* hate it. He says that it is him, not me, but deep down I think he just doesn't want me anymore. He offers oral sex or wants me to go down on him when...
    Nubian1973 Nubian1973 36-40 1 Response 4 days ago

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    It's sucks. I realize it also could have sucked for those I could have harmed. Regardless of the BAC everyone on the road including yourself is in danger. I lost my car, my job. I...
    letha4422 letha4422 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I had a question. And probably should not be here but could not find anywhere else my oh told me that the reason he does not like sex is because it's painful. I want him to see a...
    Pippa131 Pippa131 36-40, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    why do people like to call the ap women home wrecker??!! Come on... So sad to hear people say that.. It's ignorant, judge mental and so much more...truth is... If the home wasn't...
    ventingagain ventingagain 41-45, F 33 Responses Nov 19

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    Looking for somebody who has genital herpes who I can connect with, talk to, support and listen and in return listen to me. By talking and texting. Distance isn't an issue, I have...
    mrDisexperiencing mrDisexperiencing 26-30, T 1 Response Nov 20

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    Two years ago, I moved to a new city for a great job; it was there I met the titular engaged woman (she wasn't engaged at the time, but was in a relationship with the guy). Things...
    jowe79 jowe79 31-35, M Nov 21

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    I deal with boredom in a good way. I write. I spend time with friends. I pace myself. I learn more things that are good for me and good for others. I try to be a better man...
    tryingagainII tryingagainII 56-60, M 1 Response Nov 21

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    TheLoneRaven TheLoneRaven 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 21

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    I've been having recurring nightmares about the day I was raped... Its gotten so bad I have a phobia of sleeping and I get anxiety attacks... I've been dealing with this for 8...
    EbbyLeve EbbyLeve 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 22

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    This is a difficult one and one I am dealing with right now. I have been dating this guy for a few months and he is practically perfect. The only problem is that I don't find him...
    Elpis2012 Elpis2012 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 25

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    Torn Between Two Lovers by Mary MacGregor, cool song about all of those that have been dealing with loving more than one person.
    johnny048 johnny048 46-50, M Nov 26

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    she is very selfish and it is hard to accept, she only thinks about herself and doesnt care who she hurts in the process as long as she gets what she wants. i want to learn...
    sophiejon sophiejon 18-21 Nov 30

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    I am almost 40 years old and have been dealing with horrible headaches for 16 years now. I have tried all kinds of doctors, treatments, medications, even various surgeries...
    JunieMarie JunieMarie 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 7

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    I enlisted for the military in early March. I had wanted to join since the 8th grade despite the depression and anxiety I suffered again and again. I worked hard to lose weight and...
    KeiKeiChan KeiKeiChan 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 10

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    Just discovered this diagnosis but have known for years his brain does not work like most people's. He is 22 and on house arrest so we are stuck dealing with him on a day to day...
    c1265 c1265 46-50, F 4 days ago

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    I just got in a physical fight with my mom . I'm just so stressed out . I'm tired of dealing with this... She always start with me and talk **** first then make me seem like I'm...
    lilstar233 lilstar233 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I'm in an open and sexless marriage and having an affair with a married man who's spouse doesn't know. After a few months he asked me for exclusivity which he basically had...
    arlington112 arlington112 41-45, F 5 hrs ago

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    Yesterday my MM found out his W was having an affair and he never suspected it. Right now he is not going to say anything to her about him knowing and he isn't upset about it at...
    KathyJ304 KathyJ304 26-30, F 4 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I have been married for almost 17 years with 2 children and love my wife and family dearly. 4 years ago I got involved with another woman and the affair carried on until the end of...
    SBMSydney SBMSydney 46-50, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm an affair success story. In a short period of time, my life took a direction that I never thought possible. I never saw it coming, did things I never thought I was ever capable...
    happyasever happyasever 31-35, F 8 Responses Nov 23

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    My wifes little sister drives me crazy, she is tall, Sexy, and loves to reveal just enough to make me lose my focus.
    johnie5 johnie5 41-45, M Dec 1

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    Many people who have been in an affair say that the AP always comes back... He ended the physical affair in early September out of depression and extreme guilt. For about 5 weeks...
    Koalaclover Koalaclover 36-40, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    I'm married, 2 gorgeous and very little children. Last year I had an affair which ended 2 months ago after 14 months. We got very close and started to plan a life together, but...
    michaelsotherwoman michaelsotherwoman 36-40, F 8 Responses Nov 25

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    I'm on the path to healing after breakup from AP. I still miss him and want to be with him sometimes, but most of the time now, I'm glad that he's no longer a part of my life. We...
    Koalaclover Koalaclover 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 9

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    I was partying a lot for a couple months after him and I were over. My body was reaching for that high the affair gave me. But of course with everything, that high eventually...
    ventingagain ventingagain 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 10

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    After almost 5 months of the most intense ride ever, my affair is over. We were (are) insanely in love with eachother. We were together on Friday the 5th and it was incredible...
    tauriangirl tauriangirl 36-40, F 29 Responses a week ago

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    Finally, a place to find some comfort. Thank you so much for your story... of course, I draw such similarity to my experience. I have had an affair for almost 4 years and she...
    hearbrokenandlonely hearbrokenandlonely 46-50 3 days ago

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    So I'm having or had or having I don't even no anymore, an affair with who I assume is a serial cheater A serial cheater that supposedly loves and and wants to be with me (with an...
    zoey3000 zoey3000 31-35, F 9 Responses 1 day ago

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    I know, that's not supposed to be possible. People say it's not possible, that I'm deluding myself. I'm looking for a way out, I secretly hate her, we must have a sexless...
    roykirk roykirk 41-45, M 2 Responses Nov 23

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    I am about to start an affair with a beautiful, sexy, intelligent women I met on EP. I have been with my wife for about 13 years & she has turned into a real *****. I fed up & want...
    LondonKiwi LondonKiwi 46-50, M 9 Responses Nov 23

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    hi.... im not sure if this is the right way to think or not.... help me :) im thinking of trying to have a short term sexual affair to boost my sex drive to save my marriage. Is...
    sexytime2010 sexytime2010 31-35, M 2 Responses Nov 25

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    Love, You will never read these words I write or know the true depth of grief I feel or how achingly I miss you. I sit out here with the fall weather upon us, the setting sun...
    2ndBruin 2ndBruin 41-45, M 13 Responses Nov 26

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    To all my EP friends, Happy Thanksgiving. If you are in an affair, ending an affair, hurting, depressed, happy, not happy....let's all find something to be thankful for. I am...
    sallyanne44 sallyanne44 41-45, F 7 Responses Nov 27