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I Am Definitely On The Submissive Side Of Things

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    This Is Me

    I was taken as a teenager that was hard. And I tried to box it away for many many years. Bu the fact is I'm a submissive boy.
    zachary613 zachary613 46-50, M 3 Responses Sep 20, 2012

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    I Was A Bad Girl

    I met daddy almost a year ago here on ep. He has been training me how to be submissive. its been a long ride. He has been understanding and helpful through a lot of tough events. Today i told him i had a confession to make. we have only video chatted a few times. other than that...
    dadysgirl21 dadysgirl21 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 30, 2012

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    Am I Cut Out For This?

    Lately, I've been feeling that maybe a D/s relationship is the best route for me to go. I definitely like a take charge kind of man. I like bondage. I like to be man-handled and sometimes told what to do. I recently met someone, a Dom, to help to train and educate me. The only...
    Subcurious1 Subcurious1 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 15, 2012

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    I Am Submissive

    i think i am submissive because my whole life i have had to be in control
    mariebaby mariebaby 36-40, F 7 Responses Sep 21, 2012

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    My Master.....

    I knew I was in trouble but there wasnt much I could do about it. I was lucky to have found the time to shave me legs, never mind anywhere else. But my master had told me if I wasn't smooth I would be in big trouble. So after he shaved me smooth he punished me there hard...
    Jejmom Jejmom 41-45 May 27, 2012

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    The Slaves Prayer

    as taken and copied off the internet . . . Allow me the strength too answer questions I can't fathom... Allow me the spirit to know his needs Allow me the kindness to choke back retorts Allow me the serenity to serve Him in peace.. Allow me the love to show Him in peace... Allow...
    maltesemermaid maltesemermaid 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 9, 2012

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    My Boss Taught Me

    When I was in college, I worked at a print shop near campus and we had 15 or so employees, all women. My boss was a bit of a ladies man and he used to flirt with me. I was adventurous so I flirted back with him. One day while at work, he asked if I wanted to go have lunch at...
    LindyJill LindyJill 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 11, 2012

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    My Life Right Now

    Hey there, I was in a relationship with a guy for about a year and he was a bit domineering. I really enjoyed it and since then I have not found any joy in just plain sex since. I haven't got much experience in this life style but I do know i want to take it further. However i...
    candy88 candy88 22-25, F Aug 13, 2012

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    The Paddle??? Here Or Not???

    Clear night. The full moon is very bright. The wheels humming on the road reminding me of the vibrations that will be going on in my body later. Staring at him with his amazing hands working the steering wheel knowing how he will be working my body when we cross the border to...
    CherokeesAngel CherokeesAngel 41-45, F Aug 15, 2012

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    For Her

    Last night after my friend read my story of our β€œDate” we had a great evening of chat. I can tell you that I have never met this beautiful woman in real life; I feel that there is a connection. During I chat she told me that likes being submissive. Some of the things that...
    KarlsHuman KarlsHuman 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 17, 2012

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    My Beginning, Part II

    After that first spanking, as I am breathing heavy and my heart is pounding and I am so turned on, Master turns me around and kisses me. Oh he is such a wonderful kisser. I have never been kissed like this. He uses his hands, his eyes, his mind. You feel it all over, from your...
    CherokeesAngel CherokeesAngel 41-45, F Sep 5, 2012

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    I Feel That Way

    I found out that I was submissive years ago, but I didn't realise that it would affect my whole life. But it did and still does. Now I've accepted it for myself and in a way I'm even proud to can say that I'm submissive, while in the beginning I was real ashamed and blusht if I...
    laikagirl laikagirl 51-55, M Jun 10, 2012

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    I like being told what to do

    and i like pleasing more than being pleased... some say its because of my past but i think its just my personality. I couldn't see me being dominant about anything sexual or not.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Apr 7

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    Shut Me Up!!

    I LOVE FOR A LONG MUSHROOM-HEADED **** TO BE RAMMED DOWN MY THROAT, GRIPPED BY THE BACK OF MY HEAD AND FACE ******. BALLS SLAPPING UP AGAINST MY CHIN EYES TEARING UNTIL I FINALLY GAG AND CHOKE ON THAT FAT ****...HAVING NO SYMPATHY, MY DADDY WOULD SLAP ME ACROSS THE FACE, GRAB ME...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 4, 2012

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    He Can Kill Me

    He can kill me But He does not There is no pleasure in instant Death If He kills me His pleasure will be gone There will be no one He can take His frustrations out on any more He will self-destruct if He loses that coping mechanism He keeps me alive for one reason To keep...
    indigowitch indigowitch 22-25, F Jun 9, 2012

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    So Much More...

    I have so much more to me than what you saw Depths that you were unwilling to explore The ones we did were superficial A projection of truth Marvelous but artifical You left me with marks that do not fade But the one on your heart is As if it were never made If I was my own...
    PrincessTwisted PrincessTwisted 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 9, 2012

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    Confession

    You told me I was beautiful I shook my head with shame Beauty is more powerful A popular refrain Sin has made m ugly A darkening sinful reign If I was not sinful Not me you would adore But nobody But nobody is worshipping A sinful wicked ***** My confession of your power...
    PrincessTwisted PrincessTwisted 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 9, 2012

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    Submissive Men

    What do you all think about submissive men? I know that there's not a whole lot of people here, but I was just wondering. I mean, I'm only 18 years old, so I must seem young to some.. heck I never had a girlfriend, but I still think I'd probably be the submissive partner...
    Lako Lako 18-21, M 10 Responses Jun 12, 2010

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    New To Me

    Although I had tendacies of liking my partner to dominate, I wasn't until recently, introduced to what a dominate/submissive relationship entailed. My last relationship which unfortunately just ended a month ago was my first into "dabbling" into being the submissive one. What...
    bbangs82 bbangs82 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2012

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    Confused Lol

    I feel like **** cuz I'll neva kno unless I tried and I never gave it a shot w my friend cuz I tried a lil but gave up I'm just confused w the summisive life?? None of my friends are so I feel alone.. For give me theres no spell check on her lol
    Nikki1985 Nikki1985 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 9, 2012

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    Yours

    Mold meto what you wish me to beand I will follow your strengthin where you stand. Hone my abilitiesmy featuresmy strengthsto your willto what you think they should beMy purpose is yoursto be refined and improvedto be kept to be heldin the highest regardor in the darkest depths...
    RogerThompson RogerThompson 41-45, M May 11, 2013

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    My Beginning

    I am not sure how it happened or started but I met my master by phone. We talked all the time, some intimately and lots about ourselves. He kept teasing me to send him pictures of my breasts, almost kinda ordering, and one day I finally did it. He thought I was hot and I realized...
    CherokeesAngel CherokeesAngel 41-45, F Jul 30, 2012

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    Ever Since I Met Him.....

    Ever since I met my very first Master on a site called chatango, I have been addicted. I've been craving cruelty mixed with love, orders, and collars. I am addicted to this life style, and I have no regrets. I know I'm young--fifteen years old--but I am so very glad I found my...
    Bohemial Bohemial 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 14, 2012

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    My Story

    Well, I haven't actually had the experience yet, is the thing. I know it's where I lie, and it's where I want to be, but I have barely ever been with anyone, let alone gotten to the point where we would engage in something like that. So there's my story!
    spacekc929 spacekc929 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    The Submissives Creed

    Β as taken and copied off the internet . . . I will communicate with complete honesty my needs, desires, limits, and experience. I realize that failing to do so will not only prevent my Master and I from having the best experience possible, but can also lead to physical and...
    maltesemermaid maltesemermaid 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 9, 2012

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    The Submissives Rights

    as taken and copied off the internet . . . i have the right to set limits, and expect them to be respected. i have the right to trust, providing I have earned it. i have the right to expect You to believe I am an intelligent, caring and loyal person. i have the right to ask for...
    maltesemermaid maltesemermaid 41-45, F 4 Responses Sep 9, 2012

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    Selection taken from http://thesubmissive.

    wordpress.com/2011/08/07/the-modern-male-submissive-a-reply-to-femdom101/: I enjoy fulfilling my Dominant female partner. I am still learning, trying my best to satisfy her in every way and I am not saying that submission is easy because it is not, even if you are submissive by...
    rickie53 rickie53 41-45, M Jan 26

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    Feeling Drawn To This..

    Lately I've realized that i feel very connected to this sort of lifestyle. I crave having a master that could make me a better person, and that could control me. But I also feel very confused, as i feel that I'm discovering a factor of myself that I've always felt rather drawn to...
    xRenx xRenx 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 21, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I definitely believe in women being submissive to men, but he has to love her completely and consider her desires and health. I believe it's a mans job to lead his wife and...
    sleepingangel sleepingangel 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    The only experience I'd ever had in the D/s lifestyle was with my most recent ex boyfriend, just before we broke up. I saw his computer filled with videos and bdsm stories and the...
    SubmissiveSecrets SubmissiveSecrets 18-21, F 13 Responses Jul 19

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    Something I have to own up to. Definitely. Teehee. πŸ’πŸ˜³πŸ’•βœ¨πŸ”†
    xNickDavidx xNickDavidx 18-21, M Jul 6

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    Even though I'm a quiet person, I definitely have a playful side and like to be silly sometimes. Especially, if I'm with a guy, I love to play fight, play wrestle, have playful...
    texaschic35 texaschic35 31-35, F Jul 1

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    I am new to a submissive/dominate dynamic looking to talk with other subs about their experiences. Are there any submissive women (preferably) willing to talk?
    Messica83 Messica83 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    Just a quick question but how many male submissives are on here? U don't have to comment, please heart my response if poss please. I won't judge as I'm a female submissive and NO I...
    butterflywings00001 butterflywings00001 31-35, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    I posted earlier that I am a submissive person, my wife has told me she isn't into domination or the control of others which left me wanting. I did express my feelings of wanting...
    stefaniesixx stefaniesixx 46-50, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    He told me I have to blog again I wrote a blog today when I was going through a very rough time. I feel I am doing better. I think that some of you were right. I am depressed. It...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F Jul 19

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    To any/all Doms out there, I'd kinda like to know a few things.. I'm very new to learning of D/s relationships, and the day I get a master, I think it'd be pretty fun to start off...
    SubmissiveSecrets SubmissiveSecrets 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 21

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    I need help. Things are so hectic now and I need to make a big decision in my life...here is the story: I was suppose to go out of town a couple of dad for my work and needless to...
    daisykhorv daisykhorv 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    It isn't the easiest thing to do, it's definitely a learning process. There's a lot of things i wish i could change, especially my past but...i can't and i need to accept that and...
    SheAlwaysBelieved SheAlwaysBelieved 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 16

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    I am a submissive male in a relationship with another dude who won't dominate me. I keep trying to explain that he should just think of me as a living breathing sex toy anyway I...
    zackramsayis zackramsayis 26-30, M 4 Responses Jul 1

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    It's hard for an educated woman to turn her head off. That's part of the joy of being a submissive. None of the decisions are yours. When you can't refuse anything and can't even...
    Mastertist Mastertist 31-35, M 3 Responses Jul 2

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    I think i have submissive and dominant tendencies. :/ im not sure which predominates
    jenniemina jenniemina 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 4

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    looking for a submissive girl close to my age message me
    MarcusCross20 MarcusCross20 18-21, M Jul 11

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    It's interesting that the Japanese tv dramas always like the stories about people with double sides of personality. It's like, the same person, but in one period of time is being...
    kekehuang kekehuang 36-40, F Jul 12

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    I am a male submissive. In relation with my mistress since 3 years. We where living separately but last week we have moved together in a house. I'm so exited by our future life and...
    epicuron epicuron 46-50, M Jul 19

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    I am a daddy dom and I'm looking for a young slim female to be my submissive/daughter, I live in Iowa but am willing to relocate for the right person.
    SexyDaddy4daughter SexyDaddy4daughter 41-45, M Jul 21

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    Submissive girl here who loves a dominant daddy 18-35.
    CatalinaPetrova CatalinaPetrova 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am a dominate woman. I love controlling and being in charge ladies. I am looking for a lady that is comfortable being submissive, into punishment, discipline, preferably... the...
    miramira32 miramira32 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    Lately, I've been craving being a submissive. I miss having that connection. I miss being able to trust someone completely. I thought it was just a phase, but the more I think...
    Cinnamondolce Cinnamondolce 22-25, F 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    I recently wrote to My angel, because she has a bad habit of making her friends her priority when she has spare time, and I told her to answer the following question with a true or...
    Masterseeksgirl Masterseeksgirl 51-55, M 4 days ago

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