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I Am Depressed Because I'm Lonely

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    i am very very lonely!

    i have NO friends at all and im 20 years old!! (lost contact ... most have moved away...) and i have been feeling so lonely i have no one to talk to.... i hate it ...theres so many things i want to do ...but cant as have no one to do it with ...im just stuck at home all day...
    lovemusicnicole lovemusicnicole 18-21, F 6 Responses May 19, 2014

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    AltF4 AltF4 22-25, M Mar 2

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    People on FB posting

    that they are bored. Everyone knows that when I am not at work I am alone. I message them and get one word answers. Guess I am too boring to talk to. I wish I knew how to be interesting. Maybe then I would have a friend...or something.
    UglyBetsy UglyBetsy 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    MegaManZero97 MegaManZero97 16-17, M 1 Response a week ago

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    False Hope

    I am turning 16 in a month, and I've been struggling with depression for a long time. I am an athlete, involved in art, and in advanced classes (doing pretty well, but still feel stupid compared to everyone else). I don't have family issues, but we're kinda tight on money, and I...
    rosierose4 rosierose4 16-17, F 7 Responses Nov 16, 2012

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    Can't say much more than that.

    No motivation right now, been at odds with just about everything lately. No one to talk to about anything. If any understanding people want to talk about anything at all, hit me up.
    enltguy enltguy 31-35 1 Response 1 day ago

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    It just makes me want to fall a sleep forever.

    I didn't think it would come to this point, and how people in the past just made up things. I dont know whats wrong anymore. I thought I could just settle for the loneliness, but its the other way around. Nothing is going planned.
    startingovertw startingovertw 13-15, F Mar 17

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    I just need people to talk to.

    Conversation can be about almost anything...
    Earthboundmisfiti Earthboundmisfiti 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    Secrets And Lies

    I have so many secrets, so many lies hiding behind my eyes piled up so high so that they touch the sky if they weren't compressed in upon my chest so far in, which no one could see unless they come to me and plea but that matters not as there isn't so much as a thought about all...
    WinterWisper WinterWisper 22-25 1 Response Apr 22, 2013

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    These days I feel less optimistic about finding

    love . I mean ik I'm still young or whatever , but damn 😁 none of these male species are loyal lol , and the girls..idek :/ they dress and act like they work on the street corners every Friday night 😂😭 but on some real shxt, I'm realizing how much I want a significant...
    BVNG BVNG 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 10, 2014

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    Nobody wants me, i get called bad stuff daily.

    I want someone to actually care bout me,accept my flaws and me.and b loyal
    pilot2022 pilot2022 13-15, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm always lonely, but today is the worst it's

    ever been. My anxiety and depression is really bad because of it. I wish I had someone to lean on, but the truth is no one has ever wanted to be there for me. Even if there was, it's not like I'm able to open up or even just verbalize my thoughts and emotions. I feel like I'm...
    Nero82 Nero82 31-35, M Mar 21

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    ok guys i just found out

    that my mom died when i was 14 and i cried and i'm in foster care and know one will tell me more because they say if ur close to adoption then u cant hear about ur family and more but my real name is julieanna jelta peoples my mom isnt mearried but she 55 and she had me when she...
    AL3604 AL3604 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 27, 2014

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    pilot2022 pilot2022 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 4

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    Im not good in english.

    . So it Will be hard for me to understand and Write, But i Will try. Yes im lonely! Im so lonely! I dont have A Lot of friends and Them i have, im not close to Them, i can't talk to them, About how i feel because they do not understand me. It has been Like This from i was 12. I...
    kamillemille kamillemille 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I want an online boyfriend

    who will love me for me. I am a weight gainer and am 154 pounds and gaining super fast so plz txt me if you would like to talk or Kik me at baileythewannabe
    ilovepets1232 ilovepets1232 16-17, F 4 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    I Feel Like A Ghost

    I feel so worthless. I have no one. All my life I been entirely alone. My parents are abusive drunk losers. I had to teach my self everything I know, even though my parents aren't even dead. My birthday was 2 days ago. I spend it crying the whole day. Like every year. It's like a...
    BrokenDead BrokenDead 18-21, F 28 Responses Jun 11, 2010

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    chocolateinmyblood chocolateinmyblood 16-17 1 Response Feb 26

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    i wanna drink till i sink in today.

    .. so that there is nothing inside my mind... its too dark inside to find a way back to myself.. :(
    nixf1 nixf1 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I hate being alone...

    But hate miserable company as well.
    Lthayer2011 Lthayer2011 22-25, F 4 Responses May 14, 2014

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    I Were!!!

    This doesn't apply to me much anymore. It's hard to be lonely with so many people to chat with on here now. =p But yes... 99% of my depression in the past was due to isolation and loneliness. It was due to my social anxiety, or the end result of it. I didn't have any friends...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jun 18, 2009

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    I love this guy and he treats me like I am no

    one to him. he says he loves me to the core but @ the same time the way he talks to me is very painful I feel like a slave we are dating Frm past one year but we know each other from childhood I really don't knw what to do as I am divorced once Nd looking forward to marry him...
    saakshi9 saakshi9 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    I accept what I get called

    and have gotten called and say I am those things I'm an ugly retarded basterd no chance for love
    pilot2022 pilot2022 13-15, M 5 Responses Mar 3

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    i have had a break up recently

    and i dont know what to do...i have my imortant exams in a fortnight and certainly dont know what to do....i deeply f**ked up..
    aarushdude aarushdude 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 11

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    okay, so its Friday night

    and iam in bed :( i litterallly have nothing to look forward to in life anymore. iam 22 i have no friends or a boyfriend. i litterally have no plans at all this weekend because i have no friends andtheres nothing to do i feel like iam wastingmy life away. i struggle making...
    pinkglitteress pinkglitteress 22-25, F 8 Responses Apr 18, 2014

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    theres some people writing with me.

    . but thats not it.. thats not that... thats just.. doesnt help i still feel lonely even when im surrounded by ppl... i guess i just want someone to really care.. and worry and stuff.. maybe another female.. to talk to and talk about female stuff..
    UsagiVivi UsagiVivi 22-25, F 6 Responses Jun 5, 2014

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    I seriously ******* hate high school with a

    passion. It just adds to my depression and adds to the fact that I'm extremely lonely and unloved. Pretty much everyone has a prom date, has a girlfriend, or has friends to talk to while I'm that one guy who's in the background who's pretty much alone and invisible. All my...
    MegaManZero97 MegaManZero97 16-17, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Sometimes I Wonder Why God Screws Me Over Even Though I Have Done Nothing Wrong And I Need Somebody To Talk To.

    Im 15, and i have more issues then most adults, im a guy, and  im overweight, but not obese, i hate myself, im not bad looking, i have hair that almost goes to my shoulders, and  i wonder what ive done to deserve the treatment i get from people, Sometimes i feel im...
    coltonconley coltonconley 13-15, M 23 Responses Jun 16, 2011

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    I'm lonely,depressed I need someone to talk to

    and etc Someone please txt me
    pilot2022 pilot2022 13-15, M Mar 14

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    If you are suicidal, please get help

    if you can't find help within yourself. But, please, do not seek help from your teenage friends, especially if they struggle with their own issues. Please please please. Not only are you being subjected to the hurtful things your brain says to you, you subject others to it. You...
    junipersun21 junipersun21 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 12

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    My dearest love Look at the deepest heart of

    me Like a river without water As my heart without a lover I was lonely Since happiness had left me And now i am still lonely By the pure of love, i declare Come with me, my love I'll show you about the green grass along the riverside Look, they are so happy As the view...
    rogi123 rogi123 36-40, M Mar 18

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    Am 20 years old and lonely

    and depressed. Am a guy who is meant to have friends am tall handsome am a dancer and am loving to people i meet but i don't have any one. Have been rejected by my friends and parents. My dad screams at me my step mum does not like me. I am not free at home i have no one to talk...
    jamie1994 jamie1994 18-21 1 Response Mar 14

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    Extremely depressed. Lonely.

    No love. No sex. No emotions. Feeling hopeless, sad, depressed, miserable. Just want to die.
    zolito zolito 31-35, M 3 Responses Nov 14, 2014

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    I was a fool for thinking that

    if I worked hard enough to make it work, we would be together when the reality is that there were warning signs all along. It was I who had to be supportive when you were worried about our future. I received no reassurance that things would be okay. I had become used to the...
    AltF4 AltF4 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 8

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    Ever wondered what it's like to have no friends?

    It is very lonely and crushing. You begin to obsess about the fact that you have no friends and wonder why. You turn your harshest critical eye inward and self-examine and magnify all flaws, searching for a possible answer. Since you obsess about it so much, you begin to feel...
    yourpetmuzzie yourpetmuzzie 18-21, M 5 Responses Jan 3

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    I'm not quite sure how it happened,

    how I became a loner. During my younger years I was always an extroverted person. You know, the bubbly, random type that didn't care about what others thought of her. People naturally gravitated towards me and I to them. However, I'm in my senior year of school and I've come to...
    Misericordia Misericordia 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    I am 24 years old. About 3 months ago I buried

    the last of my family. My parents have been gone for years and now the grandparents that acted in their place are gone too. Just before my Grandfather died the first man I had ever loved and showed me happiness left me. Now I feel as though I am in a hole and can't get out and...
    catpainter catpainter 22-25, F 11 Responses Sep 17, 2014

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    Now i understand what she meant by "i lost all

    my friends , i have nothing no more". I wonder if i would have been there for her , she would have been here for me. Lol. Delusions.
    MyLifee99 MyLifee99 13-15 Mar 18

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    Why..

    i feel hated by everyone i get judged rumors start i lose friends.. i litteraly stay in my room for hrs listening to sad music but i pretend im ok but im really not.. im a really nice person but ppl dont give me the chance to show it..
    sethperoth sethperoth 18-21, M 4 Responses Oct 19, 2013

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    I guess I am back on here again.

    .. I want to share my story growing up in a city called Winnipeg. I was born and raised here throughout my whole life. From Kindergarten to Grade 6, I've been bullied for being overweight, I couldn't help it... I just love food. I was also a victim for being sexually harassed by...
    JuicyLuck JuicyLuck 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    I know that I'll never be loved

    because I don't love myself. I'm resigned to getting a menial job and dying alone.
    hreinn hreinn 18-21, M Mar 8

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    The Lonely Road That I Walk Is Paved With Sorrow.

    My whole entire life I have been an extremely shy person who has trouble making friends. It has gotten to a point where I don't have any outside the internet anymore, I moved away from my old friends many years ago and have failed to make a single one. I've had instances where I...
    KnightOfJustice KnightOfJustice 18-21, M 11 Responses Apr 7, 2013

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    Will Things Ever Change?

    When I look in the mirror I see a beautiful, attractive young woman that possesses the qualities that most men say that they want, but yet I'm single. Most of my experiences with men have been dysfunctional, from the time I was fourteen years old. I have given in relationships...
    jesusknows jesusknows 26-30 107 Responses Aug 9, 2008

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    I am 30 and still single

    and it's SO painful! :( I feel like I'm at a very low point in my life and I need friends, someone to listen to me and actually care and someone genuine. I'm also overworked and it has brought on more stress and anxiety. I want to find an honest Christian man to date and marry...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Sep 10, 2014

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    These last couple of days have been the worst

    of my life, I found a lump in my underarm, I was worried but enough to go to the doc, but not that much. Cancer goes in my family, but I mean I'm 21.. I didn't seriously think of it. My sister yelled at me and called me a bunch of things for worrying enough to even go to the doc...
    lily449 lily449 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Sometimes I Feel It

    So low, so helpless and all because I feel loneliness. I would never have thought I would feel so alone as I do at times. I just can't get over that I'm sleeping alone, I haven't had sex in forever and its killing me! My kids don't hug me hardly. No one does! I'm so numb from...
    soulrunher soulrunher 41-45, F 12 Responses Sep 15, 2013

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    Thinking you've made a connection with someone

    and become close friends, then to all of a sudden have them completely ignore you without reason is a horrible thing. When you're already insecure it makes you over analyse absolutely everything you do and causes a severe lack of confidence. That happened to me lately and I...
    Fabulousboy91 Fabulousboy91 22-25, M 3 Responses