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I Am Depressed Because I'm Lonely

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    I get very sad and depressed at night

    when I'm alone in my room. It usually happens around 11pm and then continues until I can't distract myself. I get depressed because I am envious of those who can go out and adventure in the middle of the night or people that have fun with their friends and family. This has been...
    JaxxBlackBlood JaxxBlackBlood 13-15, T 1 Response Jun 23

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    I'm a such a depressing stage in my life.

    I wish I could just fix it ! I feel like I'm wasting my life every day that goes by, it's crazy.
    Giselle1231 Giselle1231 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    I Were!!!

    This doesn't apply to me much anymore. It's hard to be lonely with so many people to chat with on here now. =p But yes... 99% of my depression in the past was due to isolation and loneliness. It was due to my social anxiety, or the end result of it. I didn't have any friends...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jun 18, 2009

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    I need someone to talk to every night,

    but the problem is I don't get along with men, and I fall in love too easily with women.
    PaladinVeritas PaladinVeritas 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    I think I am depressed.

    I relocated many years ago. I have yet to establish connections that would result in a friendship. What is bothering me, I just got home and been home for a few days and no one has missed me. No one asked about my road trip. I feel so alone. I am contemplating moving to my home...
    1LadyButterfly 1LadyButterfly 41-45, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I texted her last night

    when I was having a mental breakdown. This was her response and it will restore your faith in humanity: "First off never apologize to me for expressing your feelings I care about you it doesn't bother me when you need to talk. I definitely understand wanting to be someone else...
    Scal92 Scal92 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 16

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    Thinking you've made a connection with someone

    and become close friends, then to all of a sudden have them completely ignore you without reason is a horrible thing. When you're already insecure it makes you over analyse absolutely everything you do and causes a severe lack of confidence. That happened to me lately and I...
    Fabulousboy91 Fabulousboy91 22-25, M 3 Responses Jul 25, 2014

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    I am a 32 year old woman.

    I have been single for 7 years. I have only had one "serious" boyfriend and since then all I have experienced is heartbreak. Disastrous dates, flings, no real connection with any one. I live in a huge city where I technically should be able to find someone. I get so depressed...
    firecracker1 firecracker1 26-30, F 7 Responses Aug 20, 2014

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    Secrets And Lies

    I have so many secrets, so many lies hiding behind my eyes piled up so high so that they touch the sky if they weren't compressed in upon my chest so far in, which no one could see unless they come to me and plea but that matters not as there isn't so much as a thought about all...
    WinterWisper WinterWisper 22-25 1 Response Apr 22, 2013

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    I had a crush on this girl named Julia

    since 4th grade Every birthday, Valentine's day and Christmas I bought her gifts I took her on friendly dates and tried to pay for everything(I don't have much) She tells me she don't want to date till High School I ask her in 9th grade in November but tells me she already...
    john2900 john2900 70+, M Jun 3

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    Im so lonely no one wants to talk to me ugh

    everyone hates me and the only one who will talk to me is my brothers ex gf patience but she fell asleep hours ago and I'm at my grandmas with nothing to do I wish someone would talk to me I hate life
    butterflybaby123 butterflybaby123 13-15 2 days ago

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    theres some people writing with me.

    . but thats not it.. thats not that... thats just.. doesnt help i still feel lonely even when im surrounded by ppl... i guess i just want someone to really care.. and worry and stuff.. maybe another female.. to talk to and talk about female stuff..
    UsagiVivi UsagiVivi 22-25, F 7 Responses Jun 5, 2014

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    The Lonely Road That I Walk Is Paved With Sorrow.

    My whole entire life I have been an extremely shy person who has trouble making friends. It has gotten to a point where I don't have any outside the internet anymore, I moved away from my old friends many years ago and have failed to make a single one. I've had instances where I...
    KnightOfJustice KnightOfJustice 18-21, M 11 Responses Apr 7, 2013

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    I find myself talking to myself out loud

    because I can't remember the last actual conversation that I've had with someone. Hearing a voice, even my own, makes me not feel so alone.
    hreinn hreinn 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 4

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    when your a failure and the love of your life

    doesnt wanna see or talk to you .
    pepetheanarchistfrog pepetheanarchistfrog 13-15, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I've had a hard life.

    I've been broken emotionally,physically and mentally. I'm a single bisexual. I like any age and any gender NY. I wish someone would accept me
    john2900 john2900 70+, M 1 Response Jun 4

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    Hi, im lonely and im becoming very depressed i

    joined this website in hopes of meeting someone who could change that.
    BlueWonders BlueWonders 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 15

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    Nobody listens to me.

    I'm only 13, due to go 14 soon and something is wrong with me. I was prescribed pills to 'level out my hormones' and blah blah blah: they don't work!! I've been crying a lot; I've felt useless; I feel ignored and lonely because they never listen when I ask for an appointment to...
    Getmoriti Getmoriti 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 6

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    Why..

    i feel hated by everyone i get judged rumors start i lose friends.. i litteraly stay in my room for hrs listening to sad music but i pretend im ok but im really not.. im a really nice person but ppl dont give me the chance to show it..
    sethperoth sethperoth 18-21, M 4 Responses Oct 19, 2013

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    I have been so depressed

    because I'm lonely I live alone not seeing anybody right now I am so tired of being alone its not fun to be so depressed
    satinbitch58 satinbitch58 56-60, M 3 Responses Jun 16

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    I guess I am back on here again.

    .. I want to share my story growing up in a city called Winnipeg. I was born and raised here throughout my whole life. From Kindergarten to Grade 6, I've been bullied for being overweight, I couldn't help it... I just love food. I was also a victim for being sexually harassed by...
    JuicyLuck JuicyLuck 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    I'm a naughty young bisexual

    who wants someone to talk to maybe more.clean and naughty chats. any age and any gender. preferably older men and women
    john2900 john2900 70+, M Jun 6

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    hi my name is dhiraj from the california.

    .im a widower and also into oil refinery.igot only one kid name celly.i will be will to relocate to you if its that you want ok.but i wana ask if you will take care of my kid for me cos she doesnt have a mother anymore.i need who can will be there for her all the time.get back to...
    worthysoul worthysoul 26-30, M Jun 16

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    I really need someone to talk to.

    I'm 21. I have no friends. No job. I don't go to school. I have nothing. I babysit every day, as I have for a couple years now. Every day it just gets worse. I feel bad for the girl I babysit because her parents don't teach her anything, right from wrong. I let this little...
    Goob21 Goob21 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 26

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    Today I am. I'm coming out of it.

    Slowly but surely. Maybe too slow and I won't make it. Damn, just need a balance in my life. A woman is made to balance a man as a man is made to balance a woman in most cases. But I have no balance. I care for nothing, I live in darkness. I'm only on right now so I...
    Golfknar Golfknar 36-40, M 2 Responses Jun 23

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    ive been feeling suicidal recently.

    but im christian. im always going home alone. i walk down the hallways alone. i dont have anyone whom i can relate to. except for one person but shes from a different class and she has many friends. ive had many close friends in the past. but ive lost most of them. i lost my...
    SolaCeEncE SolaCeEncE 16-17, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Ok. First of all I would like to greet anyone

    reading this. Hello, My Nickname is Nico or Bunny,... I will no longer be using my name here on EP, Since I found out I have a family member that has an account here XD... Anywho, Like the title says. I'm depressed because I'm lonely. Don't get me wrong, I have friends and...
    NicoBunny6 NicoBunny6 18-21, F 19 Responses May 13, 2014

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    What I Hate Most About It

    What I hate most about it is that if I ask for help, if I let someone find out, then they'll feel pressured or guilt tripped into spending time with me. I don't want to make anyone to feel like that. I really don't want to pressure anyone into keeping me company, I just want...
    TheLuckyHobo TheLuckyHobo 31-35, M 9 Responses Nov 25, 2013

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    I always feel like I'm not good enough.

    Nobody wants to go out with me. Even my best friend lied to me to avoid going out with me.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 10

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    I look around me and I see all the odds are

    against me and I wonder whether I should even bother. what difference does it make when one man fails to achieve his dream, the world goes on. the sun still rises in the morning and sets at dusk.. the earth still moves around swinging along its course, turning like a bride in...
    aliensoul101 aliensoul101 22-25, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Ever wondered what it's like to have no friends?

    It is very lonely and crushing. You begin to obsess about the fact that you have no friends and wonder why. You turn your harshest critical eye inward and self-examine and magnify all flaws, searching for a possible answer. Since you obsess about it so much, you begin to feel...
    yourpetmuzzie yourpetmuzzie 18-21, M 5 Responses Jan 3

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    Sometimes I Wonder Why God Screws Me Over Even Though I Have Done Nothing Wrong And I Need Somebody To Talk To.

    Im 15, and i have more issues then most adults, im a guy, and  im overweight, but not obese, i hate myself, im not bad looking, i have hair that almost goes to my shoulders, and  i wonder what ive done to deserve the treatment i get from people, Sometimes i feel im...
    coltonconley coltonconley 13-15, M 23 Responses Jun 16, 2011

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    So I am really depressed.

    I think. I'm trying to just get use to the fact that I'm not gonna find the one. It seems like all guys ever want is just sex. I know there are guys out there who aren't looking for sex. Well so they say. I've had guys swear they want more but it never seems like it. All I want...
    manders831 manders831 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I lost my wife of 20 years at the age of 43 to

    breast cancer. My two daughters where 14 and 16 at the time. This was four years ago now. We had a great marriage, she was my best friend, my soulmate. I feel so alone now, both of my girls are off to college. They are totally against me spending any time with a woman. I just...
    Intothewind Intothewind 46-50, M 13 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    Last night my girlfriend dumped me she was the

    only one who made me smile, made me happy and now with out her im nothing. And now im sitting in my cold dark room that was once so worm. Thinking is it really worth living 😔😢💔🔫
    liam26p liam26p 13-15, M 5 Responses Jun 14

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    I am so lonely an it cause me to fall in to a

    depression. all I want is some one to love me an share my life with
    kev1254 kev1254 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 15

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    I am 30 and still single

    and it's SO painful! :( I feel like I'm at a very low point in my life and I need friends, someone to listen to me and actually care and someone genuine. I'm also overworked and it has brought on more stress and anxiety. I want to find an honest Christian man to date and marry...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Sep 10, 2014

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    I finally opened up and became raw

    and vulnerable. I explained to my husband how I have no drive to do anything, I'm miserable, and I can't focus on anything. I rely on weed for happiness. I have been depressed most of my life but now I'm afraid of having a nervous breakdown. He took me serious for the first time...
    AmayaHoo AmayaHoo 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 18

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    I just realized that I am going to die alone.

    I don't really have anyone now, I don't want children, and I don't really have real best friends who are there for me. My boyfriend has his own life with his kids, who I'm not fond of, and my parents will eventually pass away, which is so horrible to think about. I wish I was...
    MilkAndCereal MilkAndCereal 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 11

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    i am very very lonely!

    i have NO friends at all and im 20 years old!! (lost contact ... most have moved away...) and i have been feeling so lonely i have no one to talk to.... i hate it ...theres so many things i want to do ...but cant as have no one to do it with ...im just stuck at home all day...
    lovemusicnicole lovemusicnicole 18-21, F 6 Responses May 19, 2014

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    I'M So Lonely

    I am so lonely. I have nobody to talk to except my EP brother and a few friends (one or two). I miss people talking to me and I'm thinking of just going emo or goth. I hate my life now and I just don't want to live. I have been getting bullied for the past few weeks and none of...
    Eryck899 Eryck899 16-17, M 8 Responses Oct 31, 2013

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    I Feel Like A Ghost

    I feel so worthless. I have no one. All my life I been entirely alone. My parents are abusive drunk losers. I had to teach my self everything I know, even though my parents aren't even dead. My birthday was 2 days ago. I spend it crying the whole day. Like every year. It's like a...
    BrokenDead BrokenDead 18-21, F 28 Responses Jun 11, 2010

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    Life Can Get Too Lonely

    I have had a bad day. I don't have anybody in my life who is there for me. I need someone,sometimes.
    scorpiogirl81 scorpiogirl81 31-35, F 16 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    I am 24 years old. About 3 months ago I buried

    the last of my family. My parents have been gone for years and now the grandparents that acted in their place are gone too. Just before my Grandfather died the first man I had ever loved and showed me happiness left me. Now I feel as though I am in a hole and can't get out and...
    catpainter catpainter 22-25, F 10 Responses Sep 17, 2014

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    ok guys i just found out

    that my mom died when i was 14 and i cried and i'm in foster care and know one will tell me more because they say if ur close to adoption then u cant hear about ur family and more but my real name is julieanna jelta peoples my mom isnt mearried but she 55 and she had me when she...
    AL3604 AL3604 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 27, 2014

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    False Hope

    I am turning 16 in a month, and I've been struggling with depression for a long time. I am an athlete, involved in art, and in advanced classes (doing pretty well, but still feel stupid compared to everyone else). I don't have family issues, but we're kinda tight on money, and I...
    rosierose4 rosierose4 16-17, F 8 Responses Nov 16, 2012

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