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I Am Depressed Because My Husband Doesn't Show Me Any Love

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    You Are Not Alone .

    I am sad i have similar situation as you.each word u wrote was like i am talking to u and u noting it down . i am so helpless too.
    sonipaal sonipaal 31-35, F Jul 14, 2013

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    Good Bye Group!

    I was so depressed, really, really , really depressed and I wish I had left my Husband when I was "just" depressed, without the really reallys. If you are depressed because your Husband doesn't show you any love, my advice to you is get into therapy to understand why you stay...
    catcusflower catcusflower 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 30, 2013

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    Back In My Life Again.

    Well my husband left me back in December of 2008 for another woman,a younger woman.He has made my life a living hell.He wouldn't even help me support his five children.But call me stupid I still love him.I had Gastric bypass in February of this year and he wasn't even there but...
    gwenb gwenb 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 29, 2009

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    My Husband Doesn't Show Any Affection.

    He hasn't shown any affection since 2 years after we got married. First it was because he worked too much and now its just gotten worse since he got hurt and has been through 30 surgeries that i have cared for him through. He doesn't seem to care at all about my feelings! I want...
    dec4 dec4 46-50 1 Response Jun 16, 2012

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    Married To An Unsupportive A*******

    I have been married for 19 years and I have always supported my husband with any work he has done or business he has started and I work as well.  In 2009 he business tells me that there is no more work and business needs to close down.  He was worried we would break up he...
    dkalive dkalive 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 6, 2012

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    Too Chubby To Be Loved

    I met my husband almost 4 years ago, we got married 1 year ago. I felt a little distance between us and I asked his why he is not interested to be intimate. He told me I was not the same girl he met, and he was not as attracted to me as he used to be. It hurt so much to come...
    Brownspider Brownspider 36-40 1 Response Aug 15, 2012

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    My Husband Does Not Know How To Show Me Love

    My husband is a great father, a hard working man, faithful, caring for his family and children. I have been married to him for sixteen years now. However, it has been a struggle for him to show me love the past two years. We have spoken about some of the changes ( career changes...
    ekfidelia7498 ekfidelia7498 36-40 1 Response Dec 30, 2012

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    When ever we are in public my husband leaves me

    and ignore me. He always chooses his friends above me. I don't feel like he truly loves me for so many other reasons although he wants to love me. I am not his special someone it's been 7 years and I just feel worthless in my marriage.
    msg1814 msg1814 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 27, 2014

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    I Feel Helpless And Dont Know What To Do...

    i got married when i was 17 my husband is 8years older to me it was a love *** arrange marriage and my husband promised hell lot of things before getting married but things got turning sour after 3months of my marriage i caught him cheating on me with his collage girlfriend he...
    alisha2sweet alisha2sweet 22-25 1 Response Aug 29, 2012

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    Lonely And Depressed

    My husband and I have been together for 10 years.  We have 2 children and 1 on the way.  For a few years now, we've had problems on and off because I feel that we just don't have a connection anymore.  He never wanted to marry and have kids, but after finding out...
    lilmama94591 lilmama94591 31-35, F 34 Responses Mar 30, 2010

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    Wife Has Sleep Issues And Mental Issues

    my wife is beautiful smart educated from an ivy league school and completely negative and dark. I am not allowed to say good morning. She wakes up every two hours at night, we sleep in different rooms because she gets mad if she can hear me breath at night, she compares her...
    Azzurre77 Azzurre77 46-50 5 Responses May 26, 2012

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    I Sacrificed So Much

    So here is my story. Since my husband and I have had kids he has been wanting to move to Israel. Finally this year we did. He is originally from Israel. I am not. We are here and I have been so homesick. All I want to do Is move back. All I want is his compassion and...
    Skashman Skashman 31-35 1 Response Sep 11, 2012

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    In august of 2013 my husband cheated on me

    without warning. I decided to forgive him and we both agreed to work on our marriage. I am the only one in therapy and I'm also taking antidepressants. The issues we had before the infidelity have not been resolved. He told me what he needed from me which was, keep the house...
    jennifermarshall0001 jennifermarshall0001 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 13, 2014

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    Someone Blew Out The Flame

    My husband and I were best friends before we ever dated, not only that but he was my only stable friend during the chaotic years of high school. We then started dating during my junior year and became the ever coveted "high school sweetheart" couple. I moved in with him on my...
    Thebadwolfrose Thebadwolfrose 18-21, F Jan 23, 2013

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    Hurt And Angry

    I'm four years older than my husband, but when we first met I couldn't see the difference. Though our lives took two different paths, it seemed as if we were destined to be together. Even though I'm a college graduate and he's a high school drop out we had a lot in common. We...
    Babynme Babynme 26-30 4 Responses Dec 26, 2011

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    I Am Depressed Because My Life Has Changed

    I am 25weeks pregnant, I have a beautiful two year old daughter but I am feeling depressed. I married my partner after going out with him for a while and I was happy at the start. Since being married he has gone out drinking and he comes back really early in the morning 6-7am...
    simsim2010 simsim2010 26-30 2 Responses Dec 21, 2010

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    Wake Up!

    I'm really torn up right now cause the truth hurts. Why do they say it sets you free? Hell no.. reality checks just crush your soul. I'm crying I'm bleeding in my heart and  he sleeps like I do not exist. I"ve been depressed and I got help and I was or am doing good. Tonight it...
    Calif39 Calif39 36-40, F 7 Responses Mar 15, 2012

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    Too Little Too Late

    I am not sure if this is appropriate...my contributing here becasue its my boyfriend not my husband and he is an addict. he is 37 and I am 36. I lived with him for a year although for the past year and a 1/2 we have not been living together. We see each pther...
    jessered jessered 36-40 5 Responses Jul 6, 2009

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    I Feel As If My Husband An I Are Roomates An That He Doesnt Love Me.

    My husband an I have been married for only 3months, I don't feel any love and affection at all he never tells me he loves me, he never kisses me an not to mention we don't have sex at all. I feel like were just roomates an it hurts because I love him with all my heart an I will...
    dfordham dfordham 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 26, 2013

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    I met him when I was 19. We got married when I was 20. We've been married a little over a year and already I can see my husband loving me less and less. I was born and raised in...
    marriedyoungandconfused marriedyoungandconfused 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 3

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    I haven't been on here in a really long time. But I'm getting really desperate. I've been in so much physical pain I can't even watch tv anymore. I just wandered around my house...
    Invisibleninja12 Invisibleninja12 18-21, F Jan 14

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    ive been dating this guy for 5 weeks and we could only meet 4 times because he is too busy working and going to university and hanging out with his friends i dont call him i just...
    beyza5 beyza5 18-21 3 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I have a LOT to reveal about my relationship with my long distance boyfriend. I need ADVICE!!! So if you can, please read this. Thank you for your time. My boyfriend gave me the...
    kamilleredd kamilleredd 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 16

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    I try to make friends, but low self esteem and social anxiety doesn't make it easy for me to go up and introduce myself and if that happens, I can't trust myself to text them. When...
    belleroses belleroses 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I need some help, I really don't have any friends. I am lucky to talk to two adults in one day, usually my mom and my husband(who I love). I think I am a good person, I try not...
    momof4goingcrazy momof4goingcrazy 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 8

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    So today I found out my "friend" left my school for good and she didn't even tell me. What the hell is that? No goodbye no nothing? I understand if it was for the best. Maybe your...
    wassup305 wassup305 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 14

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    Loneliness doesn't have to do with how many people surround you, but how you can't seem to connect with the world around you.
    benj3 benj3 16-17, M Jan 20

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    I am not sure what all to put in the so I will just write things as they occur to me. I have been married for 14 years and have two awesome kids and a very beautiful wife. A wife I...
    simonlabond18 simonlabond18 46-50, M Jan 6

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    So, i mean yes i am in love. I don't want to be in love, i really wish i could stop wanting to be around him. He is shy, and kinda weird and awkward, but i men so am i. I go to a...
    isabellajamison isabellajamison 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    Gaaah. I ****** up is what I did. I broke up with him after I moved away for school because I thought that it would be easier to end it than let the distance make it fall apart...
    forbidden19 forbidden19 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    It just drives me crazy when someone I text just doesn't text me back. For me, it's just common courtesy. The other day I sent a photo of a beautiful landscape to a friend, and she...
    Sofia68 Sofia68 46-50, F Jan 4

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    God doesn't exist. There is no need to believe in magic in the XXI century. We got science to explain us how everything works. Back in time some people used the idea of god...
    nuno99 nuno99 18-21, M Jan 10

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    I am not the type of person who always say I love you. I don't really need to tell that because whenever I talk to you, when I'm nice to you, I care, those things already mean that...
    AngelsBroughtMeHere AngelsBroughtMeHere 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    I am an average sized person and even i know that people can be naturally skinny. People who stereotype skinny people and shame them ought to be ashamed of themselves. It isn't...
    goagainsttheflow goagainsttheflow 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 21

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    When does this end? I mean, I thought I was moving on and getting over this but tonight I drove by her house and there she was, sitting on the front porch. I don't think she saw it...
    BohemianTragedy BohemianTragedy 46-50, M 4 days ago

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    "Sinner, Sinner, I Don't Miss You" You were Supposed to be The one Who would save me. I fought So hard For you-- Don't you see The scars I left Upon my heart? Don't you...
    TheHalfMadWriter TheHalfMadWriter 16-17, F Jan 9

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    He really doesn't... I don't even have to guess, he told me. And I'm okay with it oddly enough.
    IvyRed15 IvyRed15 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 20

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    my boyfriend isn't the sweet caring guy he use to me I feel worthless to him he doesn't care I'm hurting he just makes fun or me
    sugarplum44 sugarplum44 26-30, F Jan 21

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    Let's be clear.... This doesn't mean I'll date a 25 year old or a 8 year old it means it doesn't matter to me people's choices if it's love it's love!
    AuEnEl71301 AuEnEl71301 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    I am the youngest of five and I haven't seen my siblings or my "mother's" side of the family in a decade. Initially it was their choice not to see me--I was fifteen and decided to...
    seelensauger seelensauger 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    Picked up where I left off... I took my engagement ring off and gave it back to my fiancé now ex Fiancé., I couldn't do it..I couldn't pretend any longer. I'm not inlove with...
    BeautyfulBabe BeautyfulBabe 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 4

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    True love doesn't matter if it's between different ages. True love will happen no matter what <3
    sabrinajonas sabrinajonas 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 12

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    :( besides having a loved one die has to be the most challenging and emotionally crushing thing ever. To be in the same place as someone who almost hates you. And for what? I haven...
    jussme91 jussme91 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    I don't know why this is happening right now. I had a best friend for 7 years & we have been through so much together. I have had a really hard life and I don't trust many people...
    Wvgirl20 Wvgirl20 18-21, F Jan 1

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    I've come to realize that blood doesn't make a family. BUT it makes a really great smoothie!
    zmedleff1 zmedleff1 41-45 3 Responses Jan 4

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    i don't feel like sharing everything to anybody. even my best friend doesn't know who i really am. i am very secretive. i don't blurt **** out so easily to get everyone's attention...
    absinthe79 absinthe79 22-25, M Jan 6

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    if I say I love, I mean it. now, that doesn't mean, I want to spend my life with you, or even spend 4 days out of a week with you. that means you are special to me, and even if I...
    ThePastIsDead ThePastIsDead 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 7

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