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I Am Depressed Because My Husband Doesn't Show Me Any Love

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    I Sacrificed So Much

    So here is my story. Since my husband and I have had kids he has been wanting to move to Israel. Finally this year we did. He is originally from Israel. I am not. We are here and I have been so homesick. All I want to do Is move back. All I want is his compassion and...
    Skashman Skashman 31-35 1 Response Sep 11, 2012

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    I Feel As If My Husband An I Are Roomates An That He Doesnt Love Me.

    My husband an I have been married for only 3months, I don't feel any love and affection at all he never tells me he loves me, he never kisses me an not to mention we don't have sex at all. I feel like were just roomates an it hurts because I love him with all my heart an I will...
    dfordham dfordham 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 26, 2013

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    I Feel Helpless And Dont Know What To Do...

    i got married when i was 17 my husband is 8years older to me it was a love *** arrange marriage and my husband promised hell lot of things before getting married but things got turning sour after 3months of my marriage i caught him cheating on me with his collage girlfriend he...
    alisha2sweet alisha2sweet 22-25 1 Response Aug 29, 2012

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    Too Chubby To Be Loved

    I met my husband almost 4 years ago, we got married 1 year ago. I felt a little distance between us and I asked his why he is not interested to be intimate. He told me I was not the same girl he met, and he was not as attracted to me as he used to be. It hurt so much to come...
    Brownspider Brownspider 36-40 1 Response Aug 15, 2012

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    Lonely And Depressed

    My husband and I have been together for 10 years.  We have 2 children and 1 on the way.  For a few years now, we've had problems on and off because I feel that we just don't have a connection anymore.  He never wanted to marry and have kids, but after finding out...
    lilmama94591 lilmama94591 31-35, F 32 Responses Mar 30, 2010

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    Married To An Unsupportive A*******

    I have been married for 19 years and I have always supported my husband with any work he has done or business he has started and I work as well.  In 2009 he business tells me that there is no more work and business needs to close down.  He was worried we would break up he...
    dkalive dkalive 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 6, 2012

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    Back In My Life Again.

    Well my husband left me back in December of 2008 for another woman,a younger woman.He has made my life a living hell.He wouldn't even help me support his five children.But call me stupid I still love him.I had Gastric bypass in February of this year and he wasn't even there but...
    gwenb gwenb 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 29, 2009

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    Too Little Too Late

    I am not sure if this is appropriate...my contributing here becasue its my boyfriend not my husband and he is an addict. he is 37 and I am 36. I lived with him for a year although for the past year and a 1/2 we have not been living together. We see each pther...
    jessered jessered 36-40 5 Responses Jul 6, 2009

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    My Husband Does Not Know How To Show Me Love

    My husband is a great father, a hard working man, faithful, caring for his family and children. I have been married to him for sixteen years now. However, it has been a struggle for him to show me love the past two years. We have spoken about some of the changes ( career changes...
    ekfidelia7498 ekfidelia7498 36-40 1 Response Dec 30, 2012

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    Someone Blew Out The Flame

    My husband and I were best friends before we ever dated, not only that but he was my only stable friend during the chaotic years of high school. We then started dating during my junior year and became the ever coveted "high school sweetheart" couple. I moved in with him on my...
    Thebadwolfrose Thebadwolfrose 18-21, F Jan 23, 2013

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    Good Bye Group!

    I was so depressed, really, really , really depressed and I wish I had left my Husband when I was "just" depressed, without the really reallys. If you are depressed because your Husband doesn't show you any love, my advice to you is get into therapy to understand why you stay...
    catcusflower catcusflower 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 30, 2013

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    In august of 2013 my husband cheated on me

    without warning. I decided to forgive him and we both agreed to work on our marriage. I am the only one in therapy and I'm also taking antidepressants. The issues we had before the infidelity have not been resolved. He told me what he needed from me which was, keep the house...
    jennifermarshall0001 jennifermarshall0001 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 13

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    Wake Up!

    I'm really torn up right now cause the truth hurts. Why do they say it sets you free? Hell no.. reality checks just crush your soul. I'm crying I'm bleeding in my heart and  he sleeps like I do not exist. I"ve been depressed and I got help and I was or am doing good. Tonight it...
    Calif39 Calif39 36-40, F 8 Responses Mar 15, 2012

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    You Are Not Alone .

    I am sad i have similar situation as you.each word u wrote was like i am talking to u and u noting it down . i am so helpless too.
    sonipaal sonipaal 31-35, F Jul 14, 2013

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    I Feel Like We Are Roommates

    He doesnt want to talk to me. When i try to talk to him he gets upset, im interupting his relaxation time. He wants me to serve him what ever he needs. CAN I HAVE A SNACK, CAN YOU FIND THE REMOTE, WILL YOU GOGET ME AN ICEPACK, SCRATCH MY BACK, YOU LOST MY KEYS, WAKE ME UP AT 1A I...
    CuteHuggieBear CuteHuggieBear 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 2, 2013

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    My Husband Doesn't Show Any Affection.

    He hasn't shown any affection since 2 years after we got married. First it was because he worked too much and now its just gotten worse since he got hurt and has been through 30 surgeries that i have cared for him through. He doesn't seem to care at all about my feelings! I want...
    dec4 dec4 46-50 1 Response Jun 16, 2012

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    Hurt And Angry

    I'm four years older than my husband, but when we first met I couldn't see the difference. Though our lives took two different paths, it seemed as if we were destined to be together. Even though I'm a college graduate and he's a high school drop out we had a lot in common. We...
    Babynme Babynme 26-30 3 Responses Dec 26, 2011

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    Wife Has Sleep Issues And Mental Issues

    my wife is beautiful smart educated from an ivy league school and completely negative and dark. I am not allowed to say good morning. She wakes up every two hours at night, we sleep in different rooms because she gets mad if she can hear me breath at night, she compares her...
    Azzurre77 Azzurre77 46-50 4 Responses May 26, 2012

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    I Am Depressed Because My Life Has Changed

    I am 25weeks pregnant, I have a beautiful two year old daughter but I am feeling depressed. I married my partner after going out with him for a while and I was happy at the start. Since being married he has gone out drinking and he comes back really early in the morning 6-7am...
    simsim2010 simsim2010 26-30 2 Responses Dec 21, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    I feel utterly depressed, because I do feel lonely most of the time. I think it began when I had a disagreement with my parents 2 years ago. I tried writing a letter which I have...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F Aug 10

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    My sisters don't accept me for who I am just because I don't act like them. My mom in some ways doesn't like it either but she doesn't dislike the whole 100% like my sisters. And...
    MysteriousRose MysteriousRose 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I've had so many people get so pissed at me because I won't say I love you back. Then they leave and I'm left thinking if they really loved me they would've stayed and waited til...
    kittenasylum kittenasylum 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    So I got married in June. I've known my husband for 7-8 years (lost track), been living with him for around 7 months, and dating for a year. We have a baby together. Last month he...
    Ealasme Ealasme 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    since my childhood i was always feeling ugly and looking for everything which i dont have and also for things which i wasnt not able to do. so when someone talks to me or show me...
    asianya asianya 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    I came home this summer to get away from my own home. To actually try and function with my parents. The first 14 days went okay. After that I was miserable. Depressed. Anxious...
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M Aug 13

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    To be honest I'm still hurt. My ex moved 24 hours away! He didn't even say goodbye to me and he didnt even spend one day with me at all. He just stopped loving me I guess. He...
    Zozolove Zozolove 18-21, F Jul 30

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    Okay so basically I've never met my dad..But what makes it harder is that I know him but I don't think he's even aware of my existence..In my country he used to be quite famous so...
    Arianne0519 Arianne0519 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    Am I depressed? Lately since summer started I've isolated myself from everyone, I'm only 16 and since I moved to a house which is far from everything I would say, I've been here...
    itscarolina27 itscarolina27 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    http://www.ustream.tv/channel/superhero-tutorial Hey I'm making a livestream for anyone who is upset or anxious or depressed or anything, I will listen to you and try to help. I...
    CheeseBomb500 CheeseBomb500 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 5

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    So there's this girl that I've known for just about a week. I met her at this party that was held by my best friends friend whom he met through Instagram. Now she was holding this...
    MartinIsInLove MartinIsInLove 16-17, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Here goes. Thought it would give me some confort putting it out here. I’m a 20-year-old from China, and I go to college in Canada. In March 2014, I got to the point where I gave...
    ASalami ASalami 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I want to get to know someone new. I'm not close to anyone anymore and I hate it.. I used to tell my friends everything but they don't listen anymore so I don't talk anymore. I...
    lucy707 lucy707 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    I've known for a fact that my love life has changed. My boyfriend does not love me anymore. In relation to all of your experiences, it would mean things are going differently...
    xluhhv xluhhv 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I need help... So I met this guy online 3 years ago when I was 13 years old. He is 7 years older than me and I always had excuses of why I couldn't see him. Mostly because of my...
    MikaylaG MikaylaG 16-17, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Hi guys! Ok, so long story short.. Its been a while since I've realised I was emotionally unavailable coz of my past, found someone who made me realise the emotional waves of...
    Trainedheart Trainedheart 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 24

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    Since I don't have any known family member left, my friends have become a second family to me, and now I have a baby of my own and a husband. I couldn't be happier right now :)
    AceKlein1992 AceKlein1992 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I dated with nearly 10 guys but haven't found my lover. My dating stopped after one or second meeting because sometimes both sides were not interested in each others or sometime...
    katnguyen katnguyen 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    Sometimes life just crushes us directly in our path. It makes us ask ourselves who we truly are as a lone person. To those who are alone, relish the beauty in silence...
    ringster73 ringster73 41-45, F 5 Responses Aug 13

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    don't have any real friends just fake ones so I cant talk real with them. keeping it all in isn't good but there is no one to turn to
    Gdoza207 Gdoza207 36-40, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have been dating my current boyfriend for 5 years and this year he seems like a completely different person. He wants more alone time and says he feels like our relationship has...
    thelonelyloner23 thelonelyloner23 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 28

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    Love doesn't exist. Boys and girls can't love anymore. I wish it was the way it used to be. But sex has become to much of a priority for people.
    cassiecollins cassiecollins 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    I've only ever told my husband. Nobody else. Ever. Simply because I don't mean it to anyone else.
    BitchYouGaveMeTheFuckingClap BitchYouGaveMeTheFuckingClap 18-21, F Jul 28

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    Ok. So I'm in high school and I've been having some anxiety lately. My dad's away on a business trips constantly and my mom is always stressed. I used to think she loved me but was...
    Sarah9906 Sarah9906 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    For one, when I first got a girlfriend my mom told me I was too young and naive to be dating and tried to force me to break up with her. Another time a few months ago, my...
    littledreamgirl littledreamgirl 13-15, F Aug 13

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    I'm pretty young to be making the decision to have kids or not. Personally, I HATE children and would never willingly have them. How could you love something so sticky and loud...
    Raven1313 Raven1313 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Honestly, love is love. As long as the ages are appropriate, I believe it's okay! For instance, when I was 14, I was in "love" with an 18. It doesn't matter how old, or how young...
    MaddyAlexis MaddyAlexis 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    I wonder what do you do. My son doesn't want to read any book. Neither story nor any child book. He wants to play on computer all day, and when I don't let him he switches on...
    hakantas hakantas 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 25

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    Alright so...since you all know I like girls. And yes done it with a chick. Only one and first chick ever. We all know College experiences in college. One time and you move on...
    peacejenni peacejenni 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    It doesn't exist it really doesn't
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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