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I Am Depressed Because My Husband Doesn't Show Me Any Love

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    You Are Not Alone .

    I am sad i have similar situation as you.each word u wrote was like i am talking to u and u noting it down . i am so helpless too.
    sonipaal sonipaal 31-35, F Jul 14, 2013

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    Back In My Life Again.

    Well my husband left me back in December of 2008 for another woman,a younger woman.He has made my life a living hell.He wouldn't even help me support his five children.But call me stupid I still love him.I had Gastric bypass in February of this year and he wasn't even there but...
    gwenb gwenb 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 29, 2009

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    Wake Up!

    I'm really torn up right now cause the truth hurts. Why do they say it sets you free? Hell no.. reality checks just crush your soul. I'm crying I'm bleeding in my heart and  he sleeps like I do not exist. I"ve been depressed and I got help and I was or am doing good. Tonight it...
    Calif39 Calif39 36-40, F 7 Responses Mar 15, 2012

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    My Husband Doesn't Show Any Affection.

    He hasn't shown any affection since 2 years after we got married. First it was because he worked too much and now its just gotten worse since he got hurt and has been through 30 surgeries that i have cared for him through. He doesn't seem to care at all about my feelings! I want...
    dec4 dec4 46-50 1 Response Jun 16, 2012

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    Hurt And Angry

    I'm four years older than my husband, but when we first met I couldn't see the difference. Though our lives took two different paths, it seemed as if we were destined to be together. Even though I'm a college graduate and he's a high school drop out we had a lot in common. We...
    Babynme Babynme 26-30 4 Responses Dec 26, 2011

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    Someone Blew Out The Flame

    My husband and I were best friends before we ever dated, not only that but he was my only stable friend during the chaotic years of high school. We then started dating during my junior year and became the ever coveted "high school sweetheart" couple. I moved in with him on my...
    Thebadwolfrose Thebadwolfrose 18-21, F Jan 23, 2013

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    Too Little Too Late

    I am not sure if this is appropriate...my contributing here becasue its my boyfriend not my husband and he is an addict. he is 37 and I am 36. I lived with him for a year although for the past year and a 1/2 we have not been living together. We see each pther...
    jessered jessered 36-40 5 Responses Jul 6, 2009

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    In august of 2013 my husband cheated on me

    without warning. I decided to forgive him and we both agreed to work on our marriage. I am the only one in therapy and I'm also taking antidepressants. The issues we had before the infidelity have not been resolved. He told me what he needed from me which was, keep the house...
    jennifermarshall0001 jennifermarshall0001 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 13, 2014

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    Married To An Unsupportive A*******

    I have been married for 19 years and I have always supported my husband with any work he has done or business he has started and I work as well.  In 2009 he business tells me that there is no more work and business needs to close down.  He was worried we would break up he...
    dkalive dkalive 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 6, 2012

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    When ever we are in public my husband leaves me

    and ignore me. He always chooses his friends above me. I don't feel like he truly loves me for so many other reasons although he wants to love me. I am not his special someone it's been 7 years and I just feel worthless in my marriage.
    msg1814 msg1814 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 27, 2014

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    Too Chubby To Be Loved

    I met my husband almost 4 years ago, we got married 1 year ago. I felt a little distance between us and I asked his why he is not interested to be intimate. He told me I was not the same girl he met, and he was not as attracted to me as he used to be. It hurt so much to come...
    Brownspider Brownspider 36-40 1 Response Aug 15, 2012

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    I Am Depressed Because My Life Has Changed

    I am 25weeks pregnant, I have a beautiful two year old daughter but I am feeling depressed. I married my partner after going out with him for a while and I was happy at the start. Since being married he has gone out drinking and he comes back really early in the morning 6-7am...
    simsim2010 simsim2010 26-30 2 Responses Dec 21, 2010

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    I Feel Helpless And Dont Know What To Do...

    i got married when i was 17 my husband is 8years older to me it was a love *** arrange marriage and my husband promised hell lot of things before getting married but things got turning sour after 3months of my marriage i caught him cheating on me with his collage girlfriend he...
    alisha2sweet alisha2sweet 22-25 1 Response Aug 29, 2012

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    My Husband Does Not Know How To Show Me Love

    My husband is a great father, a hard working man, faithful, caring for his family and children. I have been married to him for sixteen years now. However, it has been a struggle for him to show me love the past two years. We have spoken about some of the changes ( career changes...
    ekfidelia7498 ekfidelia7498 36-40 2 Responses Dec 30, 2012

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    I Feel As If My Husband An I Are Roomates An That He Doesnt Love Me.

    My husband an I have been married for only 3months, I don't feel any love and affection at all he never tells me he loves me, he never kisses me an not to mention we don't have sex at all. I feel like were just roomates an it hurts because I love him with all my heart an I will...
    dfordham dfordham 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 26, 2013

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    I Sacrificed So Much

    So here is my story. Since my husband and I have had kids he has been wanting to move to Israel. Finally this year we did. He is originally from Israel. I am not. We are here and I have been so homesick. All I want to do Is move back. All I want is his compassion and...
    Skashman Skashman 31-35 1 Response Sep 11, 2012

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    Lonely And Depressed

    My husband and I have been together for 10 years.  We have 2 children and 1 on the way.  For a few years now, we've had problems on and off because I feel that we just don't have a connection anymore.  He never wanted to marry and have kids, but after finding out...
    lilmama94591 lilmama94591 31-35, F 36 Responses Mar 30, 2010

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    Wife Has Sleep Issues And Mental Issues

    my wife is beautiful smart educated from an ivy league school and completely negative and dark. I am not allowed to say good morning. She wakes up every two hours at night, we sleep in different rooms because she gets mad if she can hear me breath at night, she compares her...
    Azzurre77 Azzurre77 46-50 5 Responses May 26, 2012

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    As alot of you know my husband is a truck driver and gone alot. Sometimes weeks at a time. Any way ever since high school I've been with other women of and on. I never told my...
    mztruble mztruble 31-35, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    So I dreamt that I was at his house and he wanted me there. We were sitting on opposite couches in this large house and I was reading a kids book. He was watching tv. I get up to...
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    Occasionally, I’ll suffer a “temporary” depression--usually at night when I’m alone in my room—because I’m lonely & not satisfied with my life (I’m 28). Almost...
    lovestarr lovestarr 26-30, F 5 Responses May 5

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    Ok so my sister really wanted to get with a guy with a lip piercing, one day I was going through ask fm and I saw the picture of a guy with a lip piercing and showed my sister, my...
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    I've been with my partner for almost 5 years, but we've gone through some very rough patches and I feel that I don't love him in the same sense anymore. Every relationship to start...
    L0v3M3 L0v3M3 22-25, F 11 Responses May 1

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    Everyone always talks about how they're heartbroken and how they struggle to move on. I see so many sad posts about people being left and how they can't get over a relationship...
    Skollon Skollon 18-21, F 2 Responses May 19

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    I have this huge gut feeling that I'm going to die alone. It's so hard to find someone that will love me. I just want to fall in love and get married and have a real family someday...
    EmilyPouliot EmilyPouliot 22-25, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    So maybe not love, but no doubt lust. Then dear friend you showed up the other night after years. You remembered the exact day we met, what I was wearing, and told me you were in...
    Isis27 Isis27 36-40 1 day ago

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    Just because your old it doesn't mean that you know whats best for anyone......
    lonewolf2323 lonewolf2323 18-21, M May 6

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    After being together for a long time my boyfriend doesn't put in the loving effort like he used too. He would always take me out and spoil me with gifts but now its been over 4...
    dfe213 dfe213 18-21, F 1 Response May 14

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    Just because we are "family" doesn't mean they care... I've found more love out of my in-a-way vicious cat than relatives... Most of the advice I get though has been from teachers...
    Sil833 Sil833 18-21, F 3 Responses May 16

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    I guess " I love you " doesn't mean much to some people. There was someone who said they'd always be there, even if we weren't together because our friendship came first. He always...
    EssSmith EssSmith 16-17, F 5 Responses Apr 30

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    I think they would see how damaged I am instead of thinking how privileged I am because my family is wealthy. Money doesn't mean ****. I would spend all the money in the world to...
    kristen1993 kristen1993 22-25, F 1 Response May 5

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    Revised. I have a Up-to-date. I have since the last experienced learned that age does count. If you get involved with a older man or woman who do not mean you well? You are heading...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 2 Responses May 5

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    -_- i don't know how to stop caring about him.i feel so stupid because i don't think he even cares about me anymore.
    weirdalex93 weirdalex93 22-25, F 1 Response May 8

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    So.... I love somebody who doesn't reciprocate my feelings back. He loves me but he doesn't see me as his long term, one and only kinda woman. He tells me about other women he...
    OrchidLilacChrys OrchidLilacChrys 26-30, F 1 Response May 19

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    Everyday I want to crawl under a rock and die a failed at suicide I went to a hospital and the thing was everyone told me to do it a few days ago I sat down in the middle of the...
    13Margareth 13Margareth 13-15, F a week ago

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    My life feels like some kind of lame joke with no punchline. I feel as though I live the same day over and over again. I used to call myself an artist but now i cant even sit...
    slait slait 22-25, M a week ago

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    If I love From fallen heights Or the coldest nights It isn't pain seeping through It isn't old love renewed If I love Tasting the bitter pain of loneliness Swimming through...
    Ymfas Ymfas 26-30, M Apr 30

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    There are times active listening doesn't work. based on the research of John Gottman, active listening is great when you spouse is talking about her day or complaining about...
    tryingagainII tryingagainII 56-60, M 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    You might feel sorry for me at the same time annoyed but, I like this beautiful boy who doesn't know I exist. Flawless handsome man every girl would ever want. I wish I could...
    sadsax21 sadsax21 18-21, F Apr 28

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    Age difference doesn't matter!!! I feel like if that person makes you happy why can't you be with them.
    Alex4eve Alex4eve 13-15, F May 6

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    It is not that I don't believe in love. love doesn't believe in me
    isa1196 isa1196 18-21, F May 13

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    You know, I think it really hurts a lot when you say to the person you plan to marry, I love you. And they don't even trust you about things like friends they haven't met before...
    PartyGuy21 PartyGuy21 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 29

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    I've come to the realisation that I can't trust ANYONE anymore! Because everyone I've ever put my faith in has hurted me. I'm not gonna trust anyone and I'm gonna keep it all to...
    AmandizzLove06 AmandizzLove06 16-17, F 2 Responses May 18

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