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I Am Depressed Because My Husband Doesn't Show Me Any Love

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    Wake Up!

    I'm really torn up right now cause the truth hurts. Why do they say it sets you free? Hell no.. reality checks just crush your soul. I'm crying I'm bleeding in my heart and  he sleeps like I do not exist. I"ve been depressed and I got help and I was or am doing good. Tonight it...
    Calif39 Calif39 36-40, F 8 Responses Mar 15, 2012

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    I Feel As If My Husband An I Are Roomates An That He Doesnt Love Me.

    My husband an I have been married for only 3months, I don't feel any love and affection at all he never tells me he loves me, he never kisses me an not to mention we don't have sex at all. I feel like were just roomates an it hurts because I love him with all my heart an I will...
    dfordham dfordham 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 26, 2013

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    Wife Has Sleep Issues And Mental Issues

    my wife is beautiful smart educated from an ivy league school and completely negative and dark. I am not allowed to say good morning. She wakes up every two hours at night, we sleep in different rooms because she gets mad if she can hear me breath at night, she compares her...
    Azzurre77 Azzurre77 46-50 5 Responses May 26, 2012

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    Good Bye Group!

    I was so depressed, really, really , really depressed and I wish I had left my Husband when I was "just" depressed, without the really reallys. If you are depressed because your Husband doesn't show you any love, my advice to you is get into therapy to understand why you stay...
    catcusflower catcusflower 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 30, 2013

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    I Feel Helpless And Dont Know What To Do...

    i got married when i was 17 my husband is 8years older to me it was a love *** arrange marriage and my husband promised hell lot of things before getting married but things got turning sour after 3months of my marriage i caught him cheating on me with his collage girlfriend he...
    alisha2sweet alisha2sweet 22-25 1 Response Aug 29, 2012

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    My Husband Doesn't Show Any Affection.

    He hasn't shown any affection since 2 years after we got married. First it was because he worked too much and now its just gotten worse since he got hurt and has been through 30 surgeries that i have cared for him through. He doesn't seem to care at all about my feelings! I want...
    dec4 dec4 46-50 1 Response Jun 16, 2012

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    Someone Blew Out The Flame

    My husband and I were best friends before we ever dated, not only that but he was my only stable friend during the chaotic years of high school. We then started dating during my junior year and became the ever coveted "high school sweetheart" couple. I moved in with him on my...
    Thebadwolfrose Thebadwolfrose 18-21, F Jan 23, 2013

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    Too Little Too Late

    I am not sure if this is appropriate...my contributing here becasue its my boyfriend not my husband and he is an addict. he is 37 and I am 36. I lived with him for a year although for the past year and a 1/2 we have not been living together. We see each pther...
    jessered jessered 36-40 5 Responses Jul 6, 2009

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    I Sacrificed So Much

    So here is my story. Since my husband and I have had kids he has been wanting to move to Israel. Finally this year we did. He is originally from Israel. I am not. We are here and I have been so homesick. All I want to do Is move back. All I want is his compassion and...
    Skashman Skashman 31-35 1 Response Sep 11, 2012

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    Lonely And Depressed

    My husband and I have been together for 10 years.  We have 2 children and 1 on the way.  For a few years now, we've had problems on and off because I feel that we just don't have a connection anymore.  He never wanted to marry and have kids, but after finding out...
    lilmama94591 lilmama94591 31-35, F 32 Responses Mar 30, 2010

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    Too Chubby To Be Loved

    I met my husband almost 4 years ago, we got married 1 year ago. I felt a little distance between us and I asked his why he is not interested to be intimate. He told me I was not the same girl he met, and he was not as attracted to me as he used to be. It hurt so much to come...
    Brownspider Brownspider 36-40 1 Response Aug 15, 2012

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    My Husband Does Not Know How To Show Me Love

    My husband is a great father, a hard working man, faithful, caring for his family and children. I have been married to him for sixteen years now. However, it has been a struggle for him to show me love the past two years. We have spoken about some of the changes ( career changes...
    ekfidelia7498 ekfidelia7498 36-40 1 Response Dec 30, 2012

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    When ever we are in public my husband leaves me

    and ignore me. He always chooses his friends above me. I don't feel like he truly loves me for so many other reasons although he wants to love me. I am not his special someone it's been 7 years and I just feel worthless in my marriage.
    msg1814 msg1814 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    You Are Not Alone .

    I am sad i have similar situation as you.each word u wrote was like i am talking to u and u noting it down . i am so helpless too.
    sonipaal sonipaal 31-35, F Jul 14, 2013

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    In august of 2013 my husband cheated on me

    without warning. I decided to forgive him and we both agreed to work on our marriage. I am the only one in therapy and I'm also taking antidepressants. The issues we had before the infidelity have not been resolved. He told me what he needed from me which was, keep the house...
    jennifermarshall0001 jennifermarshall0001 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 13

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    Hurt And Angry

    I'm four years older than my husband, but when we first met I couldn't see the difference. Though our lives took two different paths, it seemed as if we were destined to be together. Even though I'm a college graduate and he's a high school drop out we had a lot in common. We...
    Babynme Babynme 26-30 4 Responses Dec 26, 2011

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    Married To An Unsupportive A*******

    I have been married for 19 years and I have always supported my husband with any work he has done or business he has started and I work as well.  In 2009 he business tells me that there is no more work and business needs to close down.  He was worried we would break up he...
    dkalive dkalive 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 6, 2012

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    I Am Depressed Because My Life Has Changed

    I am 25weeks pregnant, I have a beautiful two year old daughter but I am feeling depressed. I married my partner after going out with him for a while and I was happy at the start. Since being married he has gone out drinking and he comes back really early in the morning 6-7am...
    simsim2010 simsim2010 26-30 2 Responses Dec 21, 2010

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    Back In My Life Again.

    Well my husband left me back in December of 2008 for another woman,a younger woman.He has made my life a living hell.He wouldn't even help me support his five children.But call me stupid I still love him.I had Gastric bypass in February of this year and he wasn't even there but...
    gwenb gwenb 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 29, 2009

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    I think I'm too young to not trust people but in all reality, I find myself living a life with dulled and blocked emotions. For example, I don't even have the slightest care about...
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    I and very sad and lonely because this guy I like I know he doesn't like me back. But other reasons are just because I know Im not liked by people and they get annoyed by me and I...
    Malia1010 Malia1010 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have only dated a handful of guys in my nineteen years but I've never said the big L word to any of them. I think I need to feel love to express it. Feeling happy and at peace...
    Plungeintoadream Plungeintoadream 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 27

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    Having someone there , is everyone's dream , to feel the touch of another , a hug , a kiss , just someone , your never to young or to old to love anyone you want , gender doesn't...
    turntechbiology turntechbiology 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    i love you three dangerous words abused by pop culture, teenagers and American society as a whole. often used by males to get into a woman's pants BUT- when a guy says these words...
    SKiesterly SKiesterly 36-40, F 6 Responses Sep 27

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    it makes them such a good person, because a person who is cute, and knows it may use it to their advantage and untimately become a complete jerk. While a person who is cute, but...
    ajgamer ajgamer 13-15, M Oct 2

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    In friendship.. I believe it doesn't matter In relationship.. It does because if the girl is waaayy to young and you're really old then... If a nine year old is with a 20 year old...
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 13-15, F 3 Responses Oct 7

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    I think love someone doesn't always mean keeping them; sometimes it also means you have to let them go. Giving up doesn't always mean you are weak; sometimes it means that you are...
    Lily710 Lily710 31-35, F Oct 8

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    Maybe it's not so...but it feels like it. We met on a vacation on a cruise and it was the best 4 days of my life. We sang karaoke together, dance together, drank together, had long...
    penaleliscio penaleliscio 22-25 1 Response Oct 15

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    I don't say anything meaningful at all without meaning it. If I say "I hate you" to my mother, it's because I really do hate her. If I say "I love you" to a girl, I really mean it...
    Zim0 Zim0 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I met this girl in winter time a foreign exchange student 23 years old. It all went very fast we kept in touch over whatsapp and it was clear from the start we both were drawn to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 29

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    I only loved one person and she doesn't even care if I exist anymore
    karado karado 18-21, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    One day I was in the airport waiting for my flight to take off, and this guy says "Excuse me" so I turn around and he says "My friend thinks ur cute". So I said "Y doesn't he tell...
    behappy14 behappy14 18-21, F Oct 2

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    And I don't think I'll ever learn what "I love you" means. I mean, I've had people say it to me. But I could never say it back. As a lonely little robot, I sometimes doubt I have...
    Fuzzies Fuzzies 56-60, M Oct 7

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    I need to get online & send an email, & it is the only thing on my PC that doesn't work. I have a weird green bar across my internet browser in my task bar. I have no idea what...
    Chanrhu Chanrhu 51-55, F Oct 9

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    Not a single one. My only life is my mother and stepfather. I am in my twenties and don't have any mates. Growing up I had people I talked to casually, but no 'friends'. I mostly...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 70+, F 3 Responses Oct 11

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    Yes, age doesn't matter to me.
    someoneyoulove143 someoneyoulove143 31-35, F 9 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have a girlfriend and I have fallen out of love with her. I stopped having sex with her even and I love sex (who doesn't). Now she won't take the hint that I want her gone though...
    Ramrod01 Ramrod01 22-25, M 9 Responses Oct 7

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    We met 7 years ago. We've always been friends up until three years ago when he told me he liked me (but I was in a relationship) soon after I ended it. For a year we have been a...
    baba1910 baba1910 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 11

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    I Have Had Those Days I have had those days, that where, I would pretty much cry all day, and not feel any better, no many how many tears fell, or how many times, I had to wipe my...
    SouthernBella89 SouthernBella89 22-25, F Oct 13

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    I have extreme and crippling trust issues because of my parents. They are extremely emotionally abusive and they put me down every chance they get. They'll call me worthless, good...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 13

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    I have no one, its not the first time. I talk to the wall because it won't tell my secrets. humans don't get me they don't want me I'm nothing to them. no matter how much I try, I...
    lovelydisgrace lovelydisgrace 16-17, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I've never understood how anyone could look at people with kids or babies and say to themselves, "Yeah, that looks like fun. That would make my life better." How HIGH would you...
    lillydontcare lillydontcare 26-30 1 hr ago

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    I dare not let it fall For fear no one will catch it So I maintain a velvet hold And pray I won't regret it I must not grasp too tight The consequence the same The balance is a...
    BcD64 BcD64 46-50, M 11 hrs ago

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