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I Am Depressed Because My Husband Doesn't Show Me Any Love

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    I Feel As If My Husband An I Are Roomates An That He Doesnt Love Me.

    My husband an I have been married for only 3months, I don't feel any love and affection at all he never tells me he loves me, he never kisses me an not to mention we don't have sex at all. I feel like were just roomates an it hurts because I love him with all my heart an I will...
    dfordham dfordham 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 26, 2013

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    I Feel Helpless And Dont Know What To Do...

    i got married when i was 17 my husband is 8years older to me it was a love *** arrange marriage and my husband promised hell lot of things before getting married but things got turning sour after 3months of my marriage i caught him cheating on me with his collage girlfriend he...
    alisha2sweet alisha2sweet 22-25 1 Response Aug 29, 2012

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    Married To An Unsupportive A*******

    I have been married for 19 years and I have always supported my husband with any work he has done or business he has started and I work as well.  In 2009 he business tells me that there is no more work and business needs to close down.  He was worried we would break up he...
    dkalive dkalive 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 6, 2012

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    Too Little Too Late

    I am not sure if this is appropriate...my contributing here becasue its my boyfriend not my husband and he is an addict. he is 37 and I am 36. I lived with him for a year although for the past year and a 1/2 we have not been living together. We see each pther...
    jessered jessered 36-40 5 Responses Jul 6, 2009

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    I Am Depressed Because My Life Has Changed

    I am 25weeks pregnant, I have a beautiful two year old daughter but I am feeling depressed. I married my partner after going out with him for a while and I was happy at the start. Since being married he has gone out drinking and he comes back really early in the morning 6-7am...
    simsim2010 simsim2010 26-30 2 Responses Dec 21, 2010

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    When ever we are in public my husband leaves me

    and ignore me. He always chooses his friends above me. I don't feel like he truly loves me for so many other reasons although he wants to love me. I am not his special someone it's been 7 years and I just feel worthless in my marriage.
    msg1814 msg1814 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    Wife Has Sleep Issues And Mental Issues

    my wife is beautiful smart educated from an ivy league school and completely negative and dark. I am not allowed to say good morning. She wakes up every two hours at night, we sleep in different rooms because she gets mad if she can hear me breath at night, she compares her...
    Azzurre77 Azzurre77 46-50 5 Responses May 26, 2012

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    My Husband Doesn't Show Any Affection.

    He hasn't shown any affection since 2 years after we got married. First it was because he worked too much and now its just gotten worse since he got hurt and has been through 30 surgeries that i have cared for him through. He doesn't seem to care at all about my feelings! I want...
    dec4 dec4 46-50 1 Response Jun 16, 2012

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    Someone Blew Out The Flame

    My husband and I were best friends before we ever dated, not only that but he was my only stable friend during the chaotic years of high school. We then started dating during my junior year and became the ever coveted "high school sweetheart" couple. I moved in with him on my...
    Thebadwolfrose Thebadwolfrose 18-21, F Jan 23, 2013

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    You Are Not Alone .

    I am sad i have similar situation as you.each word u wrote was like i am talking to u and u noting it down . i am so helpless too.
    sonipaal sonipaal 31-35, F Jul 14, 2013

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    Good Bye Group!

    I was so depressed, really, really , really depressed and I wish I had left my Husband when I was "just" depressed, without the really reallys. If you are depressed because your Husband doesn't show you any love, my advice to you is get into therapy to understand why you stay...
    catcusflower catcusflower 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 30, 2013

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    Too Chubby To Be Loved

    I met my husband almost 4 years ago, we got married 1 year ago. I felt a little distance between us and I asked his why he is not interested to be intimate. He told me I was not the same girl he met, and he was not as attracted to me as he used to be. It hurt so much to come...
    Brownspider Brownspider 36-40 1 Response Aug 15, 2012

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    Wake Up!

    I'm really torn up right now cause the truth hurts. Why do they say it sets you free? Hell no.. reality checks just crush your soul. I'm crying I'm bleeding in my heart and  he sleeps like I do not exist. I"ve been depressed and I got help and I was or am doing good. Tonight it...
    Calif39 Calif39 36-40, F 8 Responses Mar 15, 2012

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    Back In My Life Again.

    Well my husband left me back in December of 2008 for another woman,a younger woman.He has made my life a living hell.He wouldn't even help me support his five children.But call me stupid I still love him.I had Gastric bypass in February of this year and he wasn't even there but...
    gwenb gwenb 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 29, 2009

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    In august of 2013 my husband cheated on me

    without warning. I decided to forgive him and we both agreed to work on our marriage. I am the only one in therapy and I'm also taking antidepressants. The issues we had before the infidelity have not been resolved. He told me what he needed from me which was, keep the house...
    jennifermarshall0001 jennifermarshall0001 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 13

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    Hurt And Angry

    I'm four years older than my husband, but when we first met I couldn't see the difference. Though our lives took two different paths, it seemed as if we were destined to be together. Even though I'm a college graduate and he's a high school drop out we had a lot in common. We...
    Babynme Babynme 26-30 3 Responses Dec 26, 2011

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    Lonely And Depressed

    My husband and I have been together for 10 years.  We have 2 children and 1 on the way.  For a few years now, we've had problems on and off because I feel that we just don't have a connection anymore.  He never wanted to marry and have kids, but after finding out...
    lilmama94591 lilmama94591 31-35, F 32 Responses Mar 30, 2010

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    My Husband Does Not Know How To Show Me Love

    My husband is a great father, a hard working man, faithful, caring for his family and children. I have been married to him for sixteen years now. However, it has been a struggle for him to show me love the past two years. We have spoken about some of the changes ( career changes...
    ekfidelia7498 ekfidelia7498 36-40 1 Response Dec 30, 2012

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    I Sacrificed So Much

    So here is my story. Since my husband and I have had kids he has been wanting to move to Israel. Finally this year we did. He is originally from Israel. I am not. We are here and I have been so homesick. All I want to do Is move back. All I want is his compassion and...
    Skashman Skashman 31-35 1 Response Sep 11, 2012

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    This was posted by the one person i desire. If only dreams and longing looks weren't all that I aspired.
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    My sisters don't accept me for who I am just because I don't act like them. My mom in some ways doesn't like it either but she doesn't dislike the whole 100% like my sisters. And...
    MysteriousRose MysteriousRose 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    I am totally in love with this man but he has made it clear from the beginning that he doesn't want a relationship, we have been sleeping together for almost a year now and I am...
    cassandra1122 cassandra1122 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    I've had so many people get so pissed at me because I won't say I love you back. Then they leave and I'm left thinking if they really loved me they would've stayed and waited til...
    kittenasylum kittenasylum 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    Please forgive me if this post is extraordinarily long. I'm well aware that anyone out there shouldn't be asked to sit through this, but I would really appreciate it if someone did...
    jojo2450 jojo2450 18-21, M 3 Responses Sep 4

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    Throughout most of my life, I've been closer to my mother then to my father, for various reasons, we don't get along. My mother has been the overprotective and controlling type...
    Gregory1990 Gregory1990 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 8

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    So I got married in June. I've known my husband for 7-8 years (lost track), been living with him for around 7 months, and dating for a year. We have a baby together. Last month he...
    Ealasme Ealasme 16-17, F Aug 19

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    I have no social life, no feelings for anyone and It feels good. If I loved someone I would be worried the whole time. It's better that I don't have a gf. My sister talks about her...
    Justadarkhole Justadarkhole 18-21, M 4 hrs ago

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    I have a friend that had a huge crush on me in 8th grade. We used to walk together with some of his friends. Two months before the last day if school he began acting weird. It was...
    LightTheDarkness LightTheDarkness 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    Don't even know why i am doing this, but here it goes. I am 22 year old guy, who had his share of sorrow trough most of my life. My first memories as child are of my grandfather...
    TheLostSoulTravaler TheLostSoulTravaler 22-25, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Ok so I'm new to this but here goes a bit about me I've always kept my head in the clouds a dreamer seeing the best not the worst in people full of life always happy and through...
    melabella1 melabella1 26-30, F Aug 29

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    I'm just really really disappointed. I told my mom that this woman (I have a story of how I distrusted this adult who happens to be my moms close friend and how she is now bluntly...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F Aug 28

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    so me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year now and his mom (and grandma) don't like me AT ALL. at first she was nice to me, she would always tell me how pretty I...
    lundenxo lundenxo 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    I've known for a fact that my love life has changed. My boyfriend does not love me anymore. In relation to all of your experiences, it would mean things are going differently...
    xluhhv xluhhv 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    I need help... So I met this guy online 3 years ago when I was 13 years old. He is 7 years older than me and I always had excuses of why I couldn't see him. Mostly because of my...
    MikaylaG MikaylaG 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 17

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    I'm 29 and haven't had a friend (or group of friends) in years. It's crazy how time has gone by and I still haven't been able to overcome this obstacle that others don't think...
    jab321 jab321 26-30, M 3 Responses Sep 6

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    Tell me why I overheard a conversation today about this girl wanting to talk to this guy knowing damn well he has a boyfriend? That just made me mad. Plus, the fact that you can...
    KenKitty KenKitty 16-17, F Sep 2

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    Essential oils and stress. Lately, I have been figuring that a lot of my hive distress comes from my mind. I am anxious most of the time and my husband causes me emotional...
    Anaheart Anaheart 36-40 1 Response Sep 4

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    I get on here and see people talk about being heart-broken over people who have done them wrong. Well, I am on the other side of the coin. I am heart-broken because I done a very...
    Godsmack23 Godsmack23 31-35, M 6 days ago

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    don't have any real friends just fake ones so I cant talk real with them. keeping it all in isn't good but there is no one to turn to
    Gdoza207 Gdoza207 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    I don't have any friends I could talk to bc they won't listen and my family would say I need to get over it but I just need somebody to talk too...
    muhhryaa muhhryaa 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm pretty young to be making the decision to have kids or not. Personally, I HATE children and would never willingly have them. How could you love something so sticky and loud...
    Raven1313 Raven1313 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    When I was 12, I was helping my friend try to hook up with this girl at church camp but the more I talked to her, the more I started liking her. After camp that year we'd talk 24/7...
    BlondeGhost BlondeGhost 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 26

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    It doesn't exist it really doesn't
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    Don't say u love anyone an les u mean it I love my husband and my kids I MAEN IT I LOVE MY FAMILY
    Heathereclark Heathereclark 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    -I miss someone who doesn't miss me. -I miss her smile but she doesn't miss mine. -I miss hugging her but she would never touch me. -I miss that feeling I get whenever I see her...
    obea13 obea13 18-21, M Aug 21

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