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I Am Desperately Flawed

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    My Flaws

    I have so many so many flaws that it would be impossible to list them all, but here is the beginning of a never ending list: -My skin -My body -My nose -My insecurities (HUGE ONE!) -My frizzy wavy hair And more to come soon..(BUT luckily I have the power to improve all of...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 29, 2010

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    Children Learn What They Live

    My first year of college was an interesting experience--to say the least. I'd been working at the YMCA as a lifeguard and somehow I found myself being talked into working "ghost shift" (covering lunch breaks/turn over) for the daycare staff. They started me out with an especially...
    takethesebrokenwings takethesebrokenwings 22-25, F 15 Responses Sep 25, 2010

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    So

     dont look at me!
    kittycat101303 kittycat101303 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 2, 2010

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    Fly

    My mom always told me I had no flaws because God made me in his image...he's perfect so it makes sense right? Well, the real world ,outside of church, tells me differently, tells me I'm ugly, fat and stupid. "I AM Desperately Flawed" Of course... but I am God's
    attemptinglife attemptinglife 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 8, 2010

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    What's Wrong With Me?

    I'm flawed, allright. I just don't know how to make it better. I was born with the ugly gene, I have an endocrine disorder that keeps me fat no matter how much I work out, and I have a learning disability that makes my understanding of numbers practically that of a 3rd grader. I...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 6 Responses Jul 15, 2010

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    I agree with this from the POV of bringing out the best in you, but like it or not, we're always going to be flawed. There's no such thing as "flawless" or "perfect", that's what...
    Realitea Realitea 18-21, F a week ago

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    I'm 21 years old and have a bf who is 24 we both have a job however we also have 2 kids 2yo and 4yo. I've recently moved back to Michigan from Missouri to help him raise his 2 kids...
    Gothika88 Gothika88 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 23

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    It seriously hurts going to school I feel awful there I hate how there is so much conformity there it feels like I'm suffocating. I mean spending 1hr and 30 min in classes I have...
    Summersee Summersee 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    I have learned more from the Internet and tv then actually school
    Shrek0is0life Shrek0is0life 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    My biggest flaw in my marriage is my over-the-top sex drive. My wife is more conservative, and I try to be as well, but why on God's green Earth do I want to have sex so much. It's...
    Thediary Thediary 26-30 Aug 22

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    They can be. My history teacher uses videos to help teach.
    pardax pardax 13-15, M Aug 23

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    Im tired i waking up and at first its peaceful. Then my world crashes down around me as i remember my life. And how absolutly alone i feel right now. No one around me. No one for...
    littlexpiecexofxme littlexpiecexofxme 22-25, F Aug 21

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    If you need a Master, PM me. No BS.
    coochiecoo5 coochiecoo5 26-30, F Aug 23

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    I don't know who or what I'm longing for, but until I find them/it I will continue feeling utterly empty. Something in my life is missing, yet I can't tell what it is. Surely lack...
    Airella013 Airella013 18-21, F Aug 25

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    Had you ever have an unexpected friendship with someone? You weren't really on good or bad terms in the beginning, you two were just like wind gushing whenever you walk past each...
    switch357 switch357 18-21, F Aug 31

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    I have had the worst case of baby fever for the last year. I'm marrying the love of my life next year and all of the planning is underway. We both want a baby but we can afford it...
    anabro anabro 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    Ever since my grandma died I know that I have no worth. I matter to no one. I know that to my husband I am just an obligation and to my parents I am a burden. I hate myself and...
    aliciav22 aliciav22 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    This experience is an afterthought to the main experience I posted earlier: We are all human beings on this earth wherever we live. It may be in the posh end of a city, or a...
    nakednfree nakednfree 66-70, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Lying here eyes fluttering and hanging on to the way last week played, feeling sad still and desperately wanting to let go... In this moment Heart filling full of how many tears I...
    Xenasdreams Xenasdreams 22-25, F 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    I have only been in love ONCE and yes it was very real and last for over 3 years and I am trying so desperately to move on. It started out SOOO magical and beautiful and this...
    electrapleiadian electrapleiadian 18-21, F 21 hrs ago

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    Hi folks. Here's the thing. Does anyone else think that society has gone to sh*ts? I mean, reading the news every morning infuriates me. I see a seemingly endless parade of...
    Wack10 Wack10 31-35, M 3 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    it's me again i have already posted about my long distance relationship. well i met the guy in june and i was so disappointed , he wasn't the same guy i was talking to. The first...
    lamentonnaise lamentonnaise 18-21, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    I feel like I can't do it. Make the change I desperately need to survive. I feel paralyzed. The sadness just comes in like a vapor I'm forced to inhale. Any progress I make gets...
    Ludavin Ludavin 46-50, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I bought an elliptical machine the other day which is truly the highlight of my week. Took me a good four hours to set it up. Next step, getting into routine. I am determined to...
    mdgermshi mdgermshi 18-21, F 3 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    Not any f***ing more anyway. I've had enough. Women, save your self-worth. Anyone you are desperately chasing is a fool to pass you up. Note to self: Find someone worthy of my...
    firecracker1 firecracker1 26-30, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    I was in a long term relentionship with a woman who would belittle, degrade and humiliate me on a daily basis. She withheld affection from me and made me feel unworthy of her time...
    slj2014 slj2014 36-40, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I've been married to a high functioning addict for 10 years. Prior to marriage, I was aware of him concealing what I thought was occasional, recreational use. I didn't worry much...
    rahrah526 rahrah526 31-35, F 7 hrs ago

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    I've been putting off this update for a while. I cannot do so any longer. It's long and winding, so if you choose to dive in, prepare yourself. Curious things are happening in...
    Catonapillow Catonapillow 31-35, F 14 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    It's been almost two years since I learned I had this. It is great knowing that I'm not alone, and that I'm not a terrible person... But now what? I'm unemployed, I don't have the...
    WantingToHope WantingToHope 18-21 3 hrs ago

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    Who better to know yourself than you? I'm not perfect but not flawed either. It takes a certain kind of person to know and understand me. I'm comfortable being alone and go place...
    Close2You Close2You 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    "Closer" By Nine Inch Nails You let me violate you, You let me desecrate you You let me penetrate you, You let me complicate you Help me I broke apart my insides, Help me I...
    petbri petbri 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    Hi, I'm new and I've found myself hovering in various posts on this site, reading and exploring but never joining in until now.. I suppose for a long time I have found comfort in...
    r00bear r00bear 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 23

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    I'm a mid-30's divorced woman. I've been with my current boyfriend for several years and know he cherishes and adores me. I have a tough time accepting he actually loves me. I...
    flc80 flc80 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 28

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    Feeling sorry for myself tonight. I allow myself that much once every few months. There is a sadness I did not know existed until it overtook me. When you actively work to feel...
    thescarletibis thescarletibis 41-45, F 16 Responses Aug 29

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    imprisoned with the motions of her mundane existence plummeting into endless turmoil masking her true desire a shell a drone numb outside while her soul screams with undeniable...
    mskellie36 mskellie36 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 1

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    So - I have never felt challenged. I never tried in school, or in college, and now I'm out in the real world. I started a couple businesses (all construction related, basically...
    milehighHeartbreak milehighHeartbreak 31-35, M Sep 5

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    I desperately want to be close to someone. I'm a 20 year old student who has never had a large group of friends. I have two close guy friends who are like brothers to me, but of...
    wanderer623 wanderer623 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    Where were you on 9/11 morningI was in New Hampshire in a hotel safe and sound.But more importantly I would like to reflect where I wasn't.I wasn't choking in a smoke-filled...
    sum1ab sum1ab 46-50, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Negative Belief System: Trauma based Beliefs "I am a flawed, worthless person" TRUTH: I am a creation of God and worthy of love and respect! "No one will love me as I...
    MostArdently MostArdently 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 16

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    I need people the way alcoholics need alcohol It's taken me a long time to come to that understanding, but it's the truth. The BPD side of me craves validation and attention with...
    AnxietyReactor AnxietyReactor 36-40, M 3 Responses Aug 17

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    OK! I'M FINALLY GOING TO SAY IT! MY OBLIGATORY ROBIN WILLIAMS POST....AND HERE WE GO!.... No, I don't go with this who "Genie, you're free" crap. I don't. Suicide isn't freedom...
    TheWomanYouHate TheWomanYouHate 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 18

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    First, I am the heir of two royal bloodlines: The Royal Houses of Plantagenet (United Kingdom) and Romanov (all the Russias). Secondly, the LORD came to me as a boy of 16 in 1974...
    LeeStar1 LeeStar1 56-60, M Aug 19

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    A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z Login 5. I don’t consume and travel but driving following a joint is okay: Various studies have shown that...
    Joshua950z5kh8 Joshua950z5kh8 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    I think being a better person begins with accepting myself how I am first. How can I put forth the effort necessary to improve something I do not love? I am a human being. I...
    Aurinne Aurinne 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 20

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    1. I am Impulsive 2. I like classics 3. I wish to help anyone 4. I am over passionate in engineering and writing 5. I am very flawed.... 6. I love to sing in shower 7. I love HYPMS...
    Driftingminds Driftingminds 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    About three months ago I was buried in a world of self pity, alone with my thoughts, feeling like my heart was going to burst open if i couldn't find an escape for my mind. When...
    izzypie izzypie 36-40, F 9 Responses Aug 21

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    Derpy is my hero. More than just a cartoon character, she symbolizes determination and hope. With an indomitable spirit, she succeeds despite her various hardships. She is a...
    MrLaidBack MrLaidBack 36-40, M Aug 21

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