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I Am Difficult

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    Tough Cookie

    I'm not saying I'm hard to get to know . . . cause I can be pretty friendly when put out there, but after I know you and form my own opinion, some part of me can just decide to put you in a category that you probably don't belong to. I could even end up not liking you even if...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Sep 24, 2009

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    The Exception, Not the Rule.

    In my everyday life I'm actually pretty easy going. But i am very paticullar about a few things that generally don't come up often, but when they do, I am a complete, hard to deal with fuss pot. I think its partly due to my depression, but at home i have certain tendancies which...
    RainMan RainMan 21-25, M Oct 3, 2008

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    Now It Can Be Told!

    Were you to gather all my former bosses, girlfriends, (ex-wife), and various & sundry other associates together in one room - as diverse a group as this would be - you could almost certainly succeed in getting them to agree on one thing - I am difficult. ...
    ElLagarto ElLagarto 56-60, M 9 Responses Jul 18, 2007

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    Better Than Being Easy

    im not going to let you control me. i will run away from you eventually. there will come a time when i will try and spit you from my life, and i will do all in my power to escape. i am afraid of being hurt. if you care enough about me, you will learn to hold me back, and to...
    Girlonwire Girlonwire 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 30, 2011

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    I Am Somewhat Difficult

    I think it is more of modd changes and my depression that makes me hard to deal with. I am an easy-going person but I am out of control when I am cycling and sometimes it is so bad, I lock myself away in my room so I do not have to be around anybody.  My house is always...
    lostsoul73 lostsoul73 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 14, 2008

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    According To My Girlfriend

    I'm difficult.I don't see it.I am however probably a very difficult person to work with for directors.
    drcynic drcynic 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 21, 2011

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    I Am Difficult.

           Sadly, I have to admit that I am a very difficult female. I don't think by choice, I blame conditioning and all of the people who played a negative role in the play "Jennifer's Life." My core goal is to be a good person who helps...
    Neutrino38 Neutrino38 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 11, 2009

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    Difficult

    I'm a little girl of age 13. I've been outgoing dangers and difficulties in my life since i was born. I had a father who ill treat my mother but loved me a lot. he was a drunkard. He drank so much that when i was at the age of 11, he died. By the time his funeral was carrying...
    Vinechick Vinechick 13-15, F Feb 11, 2013

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    I Can Be

    High-strung, Moody, and on some days hard-headed and mean. I inherited this from my grandfather. I know that I can be a pain to my friends when I am in this mode and there is no off button. But? I guess only the strong will survive in my friends list and at least, I'M honest...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 21, 2011

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    But Worthwhile

    I have a multitude of mental blocks stemming from my childhood that make me very difficult to deal with.  It's hard to get to know me because I have no social skills.  It's hard to be my friend because I have trust issues.  And don't even try to date me, because...
    somewhatlost somewhatlost 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 9, 2008

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    Trouble

      I will NOT submit to a man who only wants me for sex.  **** all that. I was hanging out with my brothers friend recently who tried to get me in bed the first day we met. I told him "NOOOO." I really did NOT want him to see me like that so I was nice to him...
    Neutrino38 Neutrino38 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 23, 2009

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    I think I'm a nice person

    but I seem to irritate people. My bf will ask me questions I have already answered so I get annoyed repeating myself then he gets mad. My boss talks to me like I just came to this planet despite having worked in my field WITH her for over 25 years. Either I am stupid or...
    Bec723 Bec723 51-55, F Apr 3

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    Only Sometimes!

    I promise, lol :P Drcynic's far more difficult ;)
    maydaybandit maydaybandit 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 21, 2011

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    Weak, scared, impossibly pathetic.

    Writing this, replaying it over and over in my head, it’s terrifying. All my life I have wanted to be strong. Instead of finding my strength I carved myself a world where I would never have to face defeat or misery. Always tactically avoiding decisions, or allowing them to be...
    WetPaper WetPaper 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    Oh Yea

    Expect people to be like me a lot of the time and when they are not I get out of touch with myself,  I do not liked to be lied to.  Do not like to judge others or be judged
    saggy saggy 41-45, F Jan 7, 2008

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    Or So I've Been Told

    So, I quit working for other people and started my own business.I am my own boss and I do not find that I am a difficult employee at all. I'm also a pretty good boss.
    Serenitree Serenitree 70+, F Oct 18, 2012

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    Very Difficult.

    I am very stubborn and in some cases, not very flexible... I am not easy to deal with and can be very mean. It's only the people who know me who can deal with me. It's very hard to find someone who can deal with me. Probably why I'm single =P
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 24, 2008

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    Difficult I Am

    I know you find me difficult,I wish that I could beSomebody differentbut you know its not me!I have tried to changethe way I amBut a full circle has turnedback where I began!I dont know why ,you feel it is because of youIts not anything that you've saidor anything you do...
    RoseIam RoseIam 41-45, F 1 Response May 18, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    So following on from my previous posts, I've now had a really honest exchange with my partner.... And he's no longer my partner. He's still my best friend and I'm still there to...
    hollie32g hollie32g 31-35, F Apr 2

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    Not so difficult that I am not normal, but normal enough to be quite difficult.
    Phantomhummingbird Phantomhummingbird 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I am very difficult to get to know. I put walls around my heart bigger than the wall of china. I keep everyone at a safe distance. I have been burned too many times, and betrayed...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 23

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    I'm not a parent, and don't plan on it ever. Because I truly do believe it's the most difficult job. I don't think I will ever be able to properly care for someone. I mean I could...
    caseylouise caseylouise 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 27

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    My brother is constantly reminding me of things I say inappropriately or shouldn't have said recently. He says I don't think before I speak, I have a brain and why don't I use it...
    Ssslm Ssslm 26-30, F Apr 7

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    I have been dating this girl now for a little while and I'm beginning to like her. She recently told me that she smokes weed every day when I don't. Well I was wondering whether I...
    LewisCornish9 LewisCornish9 16-17, M Apr 8

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    I have ADHD and RADS. So I find it difficult to know what I'm doing is right or wrong. My ADHD makes me loose focus and my RADS makes me fix problems my way.
    602rea 602rea 13-15, F a week ago

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    Emotional attachment with men. The obvious notion may be that I had no such thing with my father, whom I met at six years of age. I cannot say for certain why I struggle to accept...
    merrygentry merrygentry 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    I disagree here. I've known my best friend for something like five years. I've always loved him, but never known he felt anything for me. Now I do. Greatest thing that's ever...
    Mjjim86 Mjjim86 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 23

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    I wish I can just walk up to someone and say.. "Heyy wanna be my friend? :]" Haha..
    TearfulNights22 TearfulNights22 22-25, F 9 Responses Mar 25

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    I'm sorry if I don't seem the same, I am going through a rather awful and depressive stage. I feel stuck and I don't know what to do really.
    anom33 anom33 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 26

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    It hurts a lot to be unable to forget someone. My gf broke up with me after a 4 yr relation and I dont know the reason why! I can feel the emptiness in my life, its like there is...
    misterweirdo misterweirdo 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    I am so many things to so many people. It feels like the only person who knows the real me is my other half and I don't dispute that that's right. What bothers me is that I have...
    typhoonfighter typhoonfighter 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    I'm really shy in front of new people. To people I know, I'm the craziest person. But I just can't get myself to know people and to talk to them. Don't know why.... :(
    Aly1607 Aly1607 16-17, M Apr 3

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    Three and a half years ago, I married my third husband. I moved from the city to the country, which was a huge adjustment. The hardest things for me: 1. I feel isolated. I haven...
    feenixrising feenixrising 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    Sometimes I feel that I don't fit in with the majority of humans populating this world, mainly because i'm different than them. Is there something i'm missing? Because...
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 12

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