I Am Difficult

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 431 People

    Trouble

      I will NOT submit to a man who only wants me for sex.  **** all that. I was hanging out with my brothers friend recently who tried to get me in bed the first day we met. I told him "NOOOO." I really did NOT want him to see me like that so I was nice to him...
    Neutrino38 Neutrino38
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Nov 23, 2009

    Or So I've Been Told

    So, I quit working for other people and started my own business.I am my own boss and I do not find that I am a difficult employee at all. I'm also a pretty good boss.
    Serenitree Serenitree
    70+, F
    Oct 18, 2012

    According To My Girlfriend

    I'm difficult.I don't see it.I am however probably a very difficult person to work with for directors.
    drcynic drcynic
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Nov 21, 2011

    Better Than Being Easy

    im not going to let you control me. i will run away from you eventually. there will come a time when i will try and spit you from my life, and i will do all in my power to escape. i am afraid of being hurt. if you care enough about me, you will learn to hold me back, and to...
    Girlonwire Girlonwire
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 30, 2011

    I've learned that it's best

    if I give people breaks from having to deal with me, just so that they don't end up too worn down and sick of me. :o They don't always initiate space themselves, so I'll be the responsible one. lol
    TheBadgeringWitness TheBadgeringWitness
    31-35
    2 Responses Jun 11, 2015

    Very Difficult.

    I am very stubborn and in some cases, not very flexible... I am not easy to deal with and can be very mean. It's only the people who know me who can deal with me. It's very hard to find someone who can deal with me. Probably why I'm single =P
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 24, 2008

    I Am Somewhat Difficult

    I think it is more of modd changes and my depression that makes me hard to deal with. I am an easy-going person but I am out of control when I am cycling and sometimes it is so bad, I lock myself away in my room so I do not have to be around anybody.  My house is always...
    lostsoul73 lostsoul73
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 14, 2008

    I think I'm a nice person

    but I seem to irritate people. My bf will ask me questions I have already answered so I get annoyed repeating myself then he gets mad. My boss talks to me like I just came to this planet despite having worked in my field WITH her for over 25 years. Either I am stupid or...
    Bec723 Bec723
    51-55, F
    Apr 3, 2014

    Ugh hate everything, I'm very bipolar

    and feel like total shxt at many times. I want to have friends but always push away people and when I want to talk to someone I really enjoy talking to I feel so annoying to them and stuff ugh )):
    princessxsuicide princessxsuicide
    16-17, F
    Sep 19, 2015

    The Exception, Not the Rule.

    In my everyday life I'm actually pretty easy going. But i am very paticullar about a few things that generally don't come up often, but when they do, I am a complete, hard to deal with fuss pot. I think its partly due to my depression, but at home i have certain tendancies which...
    RainMan RainMan
    22-25, M
    Oct 3, 2008

    Difficult I Am

    I know you find me difficult,I wish that I could beSomebody differentbut you know its not me!I have tried to changethe way I amBut a full circle has turnedback where I began!I dont know why ,you feel it is because of youIts not anything that you've saidor anything you do...
    RoseIam RoseIam
    41-45, F
    1 Response May 18, 2013

    I Am Difficult.

           Sadly, I have to admit that I am a very difficult female. I don't think by choice, I blame conditioning and all of the people who played a negative role in the play "Jennifer's Life." My core goal is to be a good person who helps...
    Neutrino38 Neutrino38
    36-40, F
    1 Response Sep 11, 2009

    I wish to be noooormal just normal like all

    girls, I wish to dig inside my head and through my mind away and replace it with a "normal" one.
    fightforme fightforme
    22-25, F
    Jan 5, 2015

    Now It Can Be Told!

    Were you to gather all my former bosses, girlfriends, (ex-wife), and various & sundry other associates together in one room - as diverse a group as this would be - you could almost certainly succeed in getting them to agree on one thing - I am difficult. ...
    ElLagarto ElLagarto
    56-60, M
    9 Responses Jul 18, 2007

    I'm difficult. I'm mad 24/7.

    I even get annoyed by myself. I just want to escape, you know? I want to be chill, and loose. Not always worrying. Worrying if he'll text me back. Worrying if they are staring because they are judging me. Worrying on what to wear. I hate being difficult.
    HellaNella HellaNella
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 26, 2014

    I Can Be

    High-strung, Moody, and on some days hard-headed and mean. I inherited this from my grandfather. I know that I can be a pain to my friends when I am in this mode and there is no off button. But? I guess only the strong will survive in my friends list and at least, I'M honest...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 21, 2011

    Difficult

    I'm a little girl of age 13. I've been outgoing dangers and difficulties in my life since i was born. I had a father who ill treat my mother but loved me a lot. he was a drunkard. He drank so much that when i was at the age of 11, he died. By the time his funeral was carrying...
    Vinechick Vinechick
    13-15, F
    Feb 11, 2013

    It must be me because everyone I know finds a

    way to bring frustration over me.
    PopeBePimpin PopeBePimpin
    22-25, M
    1 Response Sep 12, 2015

    Oh Yea

    Expect people to be like me a lot of the time and when they are not I get out of touch with myself,  I do not liked to be lied to.  Do not like to judge others or be judged
    saggy saggy
    41-45, F
    Jan 7, 2008

    Tough Cookie

    I'm not saying I'm hard to get to know . . . cause I can be pretty friendly when put out there, but after I know you and form my own opinion, some part of me can just decide to put you in a category that you probably don't belong to. I could even end up not liking you even if...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Sep 24, 2009

    Only Sometimes!

    I promise, lol :P Drcynic's far more difficult ;)
    maydaybandit maydaybandit
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 21, 2011

    I'm not easy to love.

    I tell men this and they're convinced they can handle it. proving them wrong comes naturally; I don't even have to try. two have somewhat succeeded.. one more so than the other. the first didn't fight it or try to understand me, he just stayed out of my way. the second almost...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jul 29, 2015

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