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I Am Difficult

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 437 People

    According To My Girlfriend

    I'm difficult.I don't see it.I am however probably a very difficult person to work with for directors.
    drcynic drcynic 26-30, M 2 Responses Nov 21, 2011

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    Very Difficult.

    I am very stubborn and in some cases, not very flexible... I am not easy to deal with and can be very mean. It's only the people who know me who can deal with me. It's very hard to find someone who can deal with me. Probably why I'm single =P
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 24, 2008

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    I've learned that it's best

    if I give people breaks from having to deal with me, just so that they don't end up too worn down and sick of me. :o They don't always initiate space themselves, so I'll be the responsible one. lol
    TheBadgeringWitness TheBadgeringWitness 31-35 3 Responses Jun 11

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    I wish to be noooormal just normal like all

    girls, I wish to dig inside my head and through my mind away and replace it with a "normal" one.
    fightforme fightforme 22-25, F Jan 5

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    Or So I've Been Told

    So, I quit working for other people and started my own business.I am my own boss and I do not find that I am a difficult employee at all. I'm also a pretty good boss.
    Serenitree Serenitree 70+, F Oct 18, 2012

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    I'm difficult. I'm mad 24/7.

    I even get annoyed by myself. I just want to escape, you know? I want to be chill, and loose. Not always worrying. Worrying if he'll text me back. Worrying if they are staring because they are judging me. Worrying on what to wear. I hate being difficult.
    HellaNella HellaNella 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 26, 2014

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    I think I'm a nice person

    but I seem to irritate people. My bf will ask me questions I have already answered so I get annoyed repeating myself then he gets mad. My boss talks to me like I just came to this planet despite having worked in my field WITH her for over 25 years. Either I am stupid or...
    Bec723 Bec723 51-55, F Apr 3, 2014

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    Difficult I Am

    I know you find me difficult,I wish that I could beSomebody differentbut you know its not me!I have tried to changethe way I amBut a full circle has turnedback where I began!I dont know why ,you feel it is because of youIts not anything that you've saidor anything you do...
    RoseIam RoseIam 41-45, F 1 Response May 18, 2013

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    Only Sometimes!

    I promise, lol :P Drcynic's far more difficult ;)
    maydaybandit maydaybandit 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 21, 2011

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    Now It Can Be Told!

    Were you to gather all my former bosses, girlfriends, (ex-wife), and various & sundry other associates together in one room - as diverse a group as this would be - you could almost certainly succeed in getting them to agree on one thing - I am difficult. ...
    ElLagarto ElLagarto 56-60, M 9 Responses Jul 18, 2007

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    Tough Cookie

    I'm not saying I'm hard to get to know . . . cause I can be pretty friendly when put out there, but after I know you and form my own opinion, some part of me can just decide to put you in a category that you probably don't belong to. I could even end up not liking you even if...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Sep 24, 2009

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    Trouble

      I will NOT submit to a man who only wants me for sex.  **** all that. I was hanging out with my brothers friend recently who tried to get me in bed the first day we met. I told him "NOOOO." I really did NOT want him to see me like that so I was nice to him...
    Neutrino38 Neutrino38 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 23, 2009

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    I'm not easy to love.

    I tell men this and they're convinced they can handle it. proving them wrong comes naturally; I don't even have to try. two have somewhat succeeded.. one more so than the other. the first didn't fight it or try to understand me, he just stayed out of my way. the second almost...
    MyJosie MyJosie 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    The Exception, Not the Rule.

    In my everyday life I'm actually pretty easy going. But i am very paticullar about a few things that generally don't come up often, but when they do, I am a complete, hard to deal with fuss pot. I think its partly due to my depression, but at home i have certain tendancies which...
    RainMan RainMan 18-21, M Oct 3, 2008

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    Oh Yea

    Expect people to be like me a lot of the time and when they are not I get out of touch with myself,  I do not liked to be lied to.  Do not like to judge others or be judged
    saggy saggy 41-45, F Jan 7, 2008

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    I Can Be

    High-strung, Moody, and on some days hard-headed and mean. I inherited this from my grandfather. I know that I can be a pain to my friends when I am in this mode and there is no off button. But? I guess only the strong will survive in my friends list and at least, I'M honest...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 21, 2011

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    I Am Difficult.

           Sadly, I have to admit that I am a very difficult female. I don't think by choice, I blame conditioning and all of the people who played a negative role in the play "Jennifer's Life." My core goal is to be a good person who helps...
    Neutrino38 Neutrino38 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 11, 2009

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    I Am Somewhat Difficult

    I think it is more of modd changes and my depression that makes me hard to deal with. I am an easy-going person but I am out of control when I am cycling and sometimes it is so bad, I lock myself away in my room so I do not have to be around anybody.  My house is always...
    lostsoul73 lostsoul73 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 14, 2008

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    Difficult

    I'm a little girl of age 13. I've been outgoing dangers and difficulties in my life since i was born. I had a father who ill treat my mother but loved me a lot. he was a drunkard. He drank so much that when i was at the age of 11, he died. By the time his funeral was carrying...
    Vinechick Vinechick 13-15, F Feb 11, 2013

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    Better Than Being Easy

    im not going to let you control me. i will run away from you eventually. there will come a time when i will try and spit you from my life, and i will do all in my power to escape. i am afraid of being hurt. if you care enough about me, you will learn to hold me back, and to...
    Girlonwire Girlonwire 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 30, 2011

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    Why is so f* difficult sometimes? I know I can keep with what I said I'd do but.. I guess it is my way of showing respect for the people I love, respect they can make their own...
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    It is hard for me to have a normal friendship with a women. Without someone being suspicious of it.
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    Sharing this from something I saw on Facebook "Don't hide your crazy from me, for mine seeks company and comfort " That just speaks to my heart
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    I've had long relationships and got over them fine but this one is hard and different. Probably because the breakup was unexpected, and we were engaged. I'm also bitter, because...
    valentino7 valentino7 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    I wish life was as easy as a story
    SkollHati SkollHati 18-21, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I mean... here, at least on social apps or websites, it's easier for me to make friends... Because in real life I'm hella shy, but friendly... I mean if you get to know me, and if...
    LittleUnicorn LittleUnicorn 18-21 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have trust issues so a lot of people find it difficult to understand me, even I have a hard time doing it. I hate the fact that I do have trust issues but it kind of protects me...
    ThinaElise ThinaElise 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I am over 50 and do not feel like I am. My thought patterns are of a much younger person. People in my own age bracket (I hate that terminology) often tell me to act my age. I...
    Suberungoer Suberungoer 51-55, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I need help. I have a six year old daughter that hasn't seen or talked to her dad in 2 1/2 years. She always asks me why she doesn't see him anymore but I can't exactly tell her...
    lovewildnfree lovewildnfree 22-25, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    The urge to cut is strong tonight. I don't want to give in but I know i will! Been crying about it and have tried everything I know to do to fight it. I'm just too weak. :(
    saram1985 saram1985 26-30, F Jul 19

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    We are both so alike personality wise. That's why we clash occasionally.
    WokenandOpen WokenandOpen 31-35, M Jul 19

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    I've been betrayed too many times, people have used me, therefore I'm constantly looking over my shoulders and keeping my guard up, but if you prove yourself to be trustworthy and...
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M Jul 16

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    I think, think some more, over analyze and then realize I've wasted so much time without having made any choice at all. This happens to me all the time. It starts with one, two...
    ikiwi ikiwi 36-40, F Jul 14

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    Not sure how to express my feelings at the moment or for the past period. A mix of needy feelings yet I don't need anyone and leave me alone feelings. A mix of love feelings but...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    Like right now, when all these thoughts linger in my mind and won't let me go. Of course.... Make me feel ****** in the last hours of consciousness!
    DestinyWriter DestinyWriter 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 8

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    I don't know if it's EP or my computer, but my connection and usage ability on a satisfaction scale of 1-10 is at a zero..sigh. Better luck tomorrow I hope!
    Ravenwind43 Ravenwind43 41-45, F Jul 7

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    I need people's opinions. So I currently live in AZ, USA: The life I am living here is extremely difficult. I have to worry about things 16 year olds don't usually have to worry...
    xorhiaaxo xorhiaaxo 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    Have you ever called it like you saw it, whatever it was? Sometimes the days for being prim, proper and polite get shoved to the side for the sake of one's own sanity and dignity...
    SmartSweet1 SmartSweet1 51-55, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    I had and still have a S.O.B father. He disappeared outta my life when I was 6. then when i was 18 he wanted to get involved. I said hell no.
    Ang012685 Ang012685 26-30, F Jul 5

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    Am I losing my little mind? My difficult marriage story is epic and never ending but here is a snippet and I would love some feedback as I do really doubt my own sanity at times...
    PrincessPersephone PrincessPersephone 36-40 1 Response Jul 1

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