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I Am Discouraged About Love

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    Chameleon

    I think love is like a chameleon It can come to you as a beautiful lizard, and turn in to a fire breathing Dragon, with little or no notice.It is what most of us seek in our lives, but rarely ever really experience.Many times we just settle for something that seems comfortable...
    shelle48 shelle48 61-65, F Mar 1, 2012

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    Just Dont' Know

      All my life I have known love to be this awful thing that always goes wrong. My mum and dad, he was just an abusive ****, then I fell in love and got my heart broken. Now a guy I used to date, wants to start things up again I do like him but... I just don't know. Maybe...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 17, 2008

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    Romantic Love,that Is

    I've just never seen a romance last.Even if they DO last,they turn into obligated states of being rather than romance and everything is bitter and strained.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 1, 2012

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    I Don't Know

    i have had boyfriends in the past and done the whole 'i love you' we are going to be together forever, blah, blah, teenage romance thing. but in my early twenties i met him. the only man i trusted indefinitely, he never hurt me (every other guy has), he gave me unconditional love...
    lonesomeallthetime lonesomeallthetime 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 19, 2011

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    Grumbling a Little, Over the Endless Absense of Love

    Darn it!  I have had some bad experiences in this category, that have left me wondering "Is it really worth all the bother?"  Time and again, I've noticed a woman, or become friends with one.  After a few months of increasingly good conversations...
    UnderEli UnderEli 41-45, M 7 Responses Jun 23, 2009

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    Love....don't Believe In It.

    Okay, well, i just don't believe in love. I think that people can feel strongly about other people and that yeah of course you love your family. But i am talking about when like a girl/guy loves a girl/guy. I think that people that say they love that "perfect" person is...
    Jessica420 Jessica420 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 16, 2008

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    Most Of The People Around Me Tell Me No One Good Will Ever Love Me

    many people around me have told me love for me will be a waste of time due to my appearance and most people I know put me down all the timemost people I know say love is a waste of timemost people I know convince me that there is nothing good enough about me
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 1, 2012

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    Never Had A Girlfriend, Feel Like I Never Will

    I have had some one night stands - nasty, ugly experiences with women that were very poor choices. I am not ugly - far from it - but my online personals go almost entirely ignored. At 44, in a big city, I have never dated anyone for more than a week. And I'm not the one breaking...
    sunlitwaves sunlitwaves 41-45 3 Responses Aug 13, 2010

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    I believe that if you truly love someone then there is no real reason you shouldn't be with them unless they turn out to be someone you thought they weren't. But even then you can...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 2

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    I’m sharing about a man that is selfless and wants nothing but love to be in a child’s life. He believes in this child and helped him to not give up when life was hopeless for...
    liberty2 liberty2 46-50, F 3 Responses Dec 3

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    When it comes to love I am a stranger. I have never truly felt nor experienced this emotion before. I always fear that people have motives or strings attached for their love. Like...
    tormentedinternally tormentedinternally 26-30, M 1 Response a week ago

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    A "Perfect" relationship may not exist but Real Love certainly does..........It's the never giving up on each other, the determination to survive every crisis and making the...
    MissisWolf MissisWolf 41-45, F Nov 20

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    I was never like this I though Love was the key to happiness. Then when the person you Love most in the world walks on you, and you're left feeling alone it's changes. If the...
    0815Jade 0815Jade 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 23

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    As I get older I've started to believe that the idea of love is just too good to be true. Who just falls in love at first sight or want to spend the rest of their lives with...
    Savone52798 Savone52798 16-17, F Nov 23

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    In the pursuit of love, you will be tempted by lust. This is a part of the test. Be firm and don't get distracted.
    rexwalker rexwalker 31-35, M 3 Responses Nov 24

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    Love is kind. Love does not get puffed up. Love doesn't see anything but love itself.
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 26

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    i was in love with a girl when i was in 9th grade..,i always used to stare that girl and she too.,but sometimes ago i saw her with an other guy in our class,it hurt me a lot that...
    xandrays xandrays 18-21, M Nov 27

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    Let your love be your state of being, not that you fall in love, but just, that you are loving. It is simply your nature. You can be in state of love only if you drop the old mind...
    2fareastiswest 2fareastiswest 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 30

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    I try to buy love but I hate when someone buys my love. haha that's why people stop loving me haha. lol
    butterflyofchange butterflyofchange 18-21, F Dec 9

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    Up The Hill There is no such thing as Failure * Only quitting to soon :) Don't ever give in or bail and be another / That gave it up to a fail/ That's not gonna feel or be real...
    letsloveloSETHehate letsloveloSETHehate 36-40, M Nov 28

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    So I'm talking to this guy and he had been in a relationship for 8 years and he just told me that he still talks to his ex and tries to make time for her and his reasoning was that...
    champagneroses champagneroses 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 29

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    You can't follow your heart when it's more confused than your head. So the second your heart starts to beat faster RUN while you still can!
    RebeccaMontero RebeccaMontero 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 2

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    I think it's really in how life and fate was brought up from the start. Born from a poor family, friendless, jobless due to recession, unable to bring up my dreams of charity and...
    CaptainHarlock CaptainHarlock 26-30, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    When someone tells you, " I miss you so bad, it hurts", don't ever hesitate to come and feel the pain, together.  Being in love IS the greatest vulnerable, fragile,  and yet...
    MyLady9 MyLady9 46-50, F 9 Responses Nov 21

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    "I have the deepest affection for intellectual conversations. The ability to just sit and talk. About love, about life, about anything, about everything. To sit under the moon with...
    sunnywinter sunnywinter 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 23

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    1) I'm a human. 2) I hate long relationships with people I don't like. 3) I'm a geek but I try to keep up in other areas. 4) I love tapping into people's minds and guess what they...
    ashrith ashrith 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    "From child hood, going up" When I was 10, I had a crush on my cousin. things got good but sooner or later me and my family had to go abroad. When I was 12, I had a girl i liked...
    PreChY PreChY 16-17, M Nov 30

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    Fear. The one thing that I hate about love is the fear it gave me. I got so scared of loosing it yet I am screaming longing for it. I got scared when I saw they got sick. Would it...
    DNightTrain DNightTrain 26-30, M 3 Responses Dec 6

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    For your personal subsequent recipe I might try it with just the Curel foundation initial plus the advertisement your other ingerdients separately to discover if your skin receives...
    Willsam936i7gv1 Willsam936i7gv1 31-35, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Edward Sharpe and the Magnetic Zeros – 40 Day Dream I don't know if its about love or drugs...but it just makes me happy :) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_7nD1T7mjp8 I been...
    Pharmalady Pharmalady 31-35, F Nov 18

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    it was long time back , when i did not know about love,relationships etc.one of my cousin used to visit us in summers and i remember how i got attracted towards him. now we are all...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Nov 23

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    The title explains it all, and it is so true i dont see why people have to fake so much about love.It is three words which will turn anybody on I LOVE YOU they should be used in a...
    dareingggirl dareingggirl 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 27

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    Anyway up for convo? Gemini female, 21 ... Up for discussions.. About love, life anything
    mayflowergem mayflowergem 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 1

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    This songs says perfectly how i feel about love Ed Sheeran thinking out loud https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lp-EO5I60KA
    ashbash1990 ashbash1990 22-25, F Dec 4

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    what about love by heart.......
    link7018 link7018 22-25, M Dec 5

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    Heart - What About Love
    Maverick1962 Maverick1962 51-55, M 2 Responses Dec 9

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    Hi everyone I found out that this song is also true about love, when I was with my ex:
    Cassandrae Cassandrae 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 9

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    Coldplay released a single titled "Magic" last spring, and I didn't fully understand it until I was rejected by the one man who holds my heart, soul, and energy. In the song, a...
    WinterIncandescence WinterIncandescence 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Desiderata Go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible without surrender be on good terms with all persons. Speak your...
    joyfulride joyfulride 36-40 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Journey of Love- The only plan I have from now on is to continue to be broken down until my heart opens again. That's the only way I'll know about love. 'Your task is not to...
    AquariusLife AquariusLife 26-30, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    Conversation of the Merciful God with a Suffering SoulJesus: Poor soul, I see that you suffer much and that you do not have even the strength to converse with me. So I will speak...
    Lushiro Lushiro 18-21, M Dec 2

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    I have been working really hard at my job, but I feel completed discouraged there. I feel like everyday I try to do my absolute best and I always fall short of my boss's...
    bluemuse7 bluemuse7 22-25, F Nov 25

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    In the natural it seems like my life will be over after college. In the spirit it seems like it'll just be the beginning. The job market is crazy, getting into a graduate school...
    SheIsHealing SheIsHealing 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 29

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    In the natural it seems like my life will be over after college. In the spirit it seems like it'll just be the beginning. The job market is crazy, getting into a graduate school...
    SheIsHealing SheIsHealing 18-21, F Nov 29

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    {Your medical professional would require you to don a assist garment for a few days to a few weeks just after liposuction surgical treatment to cut back swelling and to assist you...
    Anthony8147jwj6 Anthony8147jwj6 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 6

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    I am dating a man that is in prison. I met him through his sister in law after he had already been locked up. He only has 7 months left but he is being prosecuted by another...
    beethesailor beethesailor 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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