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I Am Discouraged About Love

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 73 People

    Grumbling a Little, Over the Endless Absense of Love

    Darn it!  I have had some bad experiences in this category, that have left me wondering "Is it really worth all the bother?"  Time and again, I've noticed a woman, or become friends with one.  After a few months of increasingly good conversations...
    UnderEli UnderEli 46-50, M 7 Responses Jun 23, 2009

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    Most Of The People Around Me Tell Me No One Good Will Ever Love Me

    many people around me have told me love for me will be a waste of time due to my appearance and most people I know put me down all the timemost people I know say love is a waste of timemost people I know convince me that there is nothing good enough about me
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 1, 2012

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    Romantic Love,that Is

    I've just never seen a romance last.Even if they DO last,they turn into obligated states of being rather than romance and everything is bitter and strained.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 1, 2012

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    Never Had A Girlfriend, Feel Like I Never Will

    I have had some one night stands - nasty, ugly experiences with women that were very poor choices. I am not ugly - far from it - but my online personals go almost entirely ignored. At 44, in a big city, I have never dated anyone for more than a week. And I'm not the one breaking...
    sunlitwaves sunlitwaves 41-45 3 Responses Aug 13, 2010

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    Love....don't Believe In It.

    Okay, well, i just don't believe in love. I think that people can feel strongly about other people and that yeah of course you love your family. But i am talking about when like a girl/guy loves a girl/guy. I think that people that say they love that "perfect" person is...
    Jessica420 Jessica420 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 16, 2008

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    I Don't Know

    i have had boyfriends in the past and done the whole 'i love you' we are going to be together forever, blah, blah, teenage romance thing. but in my early twenties i met him. the only man i trusted indefinitely, he never hurt me (every other guy has), he gave me unconditional love...
    lonesomeallthetime lonesomeallthetime 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 19, 2011

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    Just Dont' Know

      All my life I have known love to be this awful thing that always goes wrong. My mum and dad, he was just an abusive ****, then I fell in love and got my heart broken. Now a guy I used to date, wants to start things up again I do like him but... I just don't know. Maybe...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 17, 2008

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    Chameleon

    I think love is like a chameleon It can come to you as a beautiful lizard, and turn in to a fire breathing Dragon, with little or no notice.It is what most of us seek in our lives, but rarely ever really experience.Many times we just settle for something that seems comfortable...
    shelle48 shelle48 66-70, F Mar 1, 2012

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    I don't know i seems can't madly in love no more. I've loved once, first love that wasn't sweet at all. He didn't love me back even he hated me just because he knew i had a feeling...
    fragilegile fragilegile 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    RIP Wayne Dyer, You helped millions. If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change. How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours. When you...
    squizz5 squizz5 41-45, M 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    During this fight, I've seen a lot of changing, in the way you feel about me, and in the way I feel about you. In here, there were two guys killing each other, but I guess that's...
    RememberTomorrow RememberTomorrow 31-35, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Personally I dislike this word. I really do for very obvious reasons and you'd probably never hear it pass my lips. people know how I hate when it's passed falsely. so when I say...
    Sladetgx57 Sladetgx57 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    earthlingcc11 earthlingcc11 26-30, F 7 hrs ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    earthlingcc11 earthlingcc11 26-30, F 7 hrs ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    earthlingcc11 earthlingcc11 26-30, F 7 hrs ago

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    I wear sneakers all day. I know most men like women in heels but I can never wear heels and walk properly and it's bad for posture and legs. I don't believe women should wear heels...
    lpch lpch 26-30, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I'm about to finish Lagrange flower of rinne
    MangoMochi MangoMochi 18-21, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I'd be lying if I said I wasn't worried about my boyfriend. He lives a little way from me and I havent heard from him since yesterday at exactly 14:08 PM. This is the longest we've...
    Skin0Man1 Skin0Man1 18-21, M 9 hrs ago

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    So I have been seeing this guy for 3 months now. We started as friends then after our incredible connection became obvious, we started our relationship. He is the best friend I...
    BONBEACHER BONBEACHER 26-30, F 9 hrs ago

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    LOL. I think I picked the wrong pants today for work( remember I don't wear undies) got about 3 hours in to my shift and felt a draft on my ***, the seam of my pants had let go...
    lickmyrim lickmyrim 46-50, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I get happy and frustrated all in the same week from my Canadian love. :-)
    tennisprincess1975 tennisprincess1975 36-40, F 15 hrs ago

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    Unwanted. I only need a word.
    wiggs42 wiggs42 41-45, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am finding that it feels safer to dream about it than to have it. Having it is too hard. I never know when I will lose it. Or get hurt. At least I can take a dream out of my...
    CDeFer CDeFer 46-50 1 day ago

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    god is faith. ... is love.....NO WISHES,an understanding of oneself and ones limits
    miimii0069 miimii0069 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    how does one human know they love another weird human?
    pixiegirl43 pixiegirl43 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    I want to reach the highest mountain of love, stand on the top and look down.
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    when you find it never let it go.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    the moment when some felling raised in my heart about love i suffering every day to find my soulmate . i tried many ways to identify her but still failed to find out can someone...
    yogesh20 yogesh20 18-21, M Aug 22

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    He is the best person in the world and he been so honest and loving and always there for me no matter what happens and I just love him for that.. Even though we butt head a lot we...
    Chinochilla Chinochilla 16-17, F Aug 18

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    I never planned to fall in love with a woman, nor did I plan to fall in love at all but we met and it happened, neither of us knew the reasons why, but our Love we could not deny...
    MyGirlLeslie MyGirlLeslie 46-50, F Aug 17

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    To achieve it in every way possible.
    spacegal97 spacegal97 18-21, F Aug 16

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    I want to someday grasp it, claim it and master it.
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F Aug 16

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