I Am Divorced and Very Much Lonely

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 60 People

    Just Divorced

    My divorce was final on November 22, 2010...just less than a month and a half ago. It's not so much that I miss my ex...(he's living with his new girlfriend in another state). Most of the time I really like being alone, but at times it would be so nice to just go out on a date...
    leyna2007 leyna2007
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Jan 2, 2011

    Never Loved Divorcee

    I was in a very unhappy marriage for 15 years to a man I never loved. The saddest and most lonely moment of my life was as I walked down the aisle realizing I did not love the man I was marrying, nor did he love me. He alternatively emotionally and verbally abused me or ignored...
    lbdgirl lbdgirl
    2 Responses Dec 9, 2011

    Hurting Inside

    after 16 years of being in  love with my ex wife . its all gone the home  the kids the memorys gone . like they never happened . why . why do these things happen. how can someone just end it with no remorce or feeling why . are people shallow are people just dead inside...
    kindsix kindsix
    6 Responses Jul 28, 2008

    I feel so lost. My wife left me about a month

    ago and I seriously feel horrible. One moment I'm anxious, another I'm angry, another I'm sad. I just want happiness but it sucks so much that the one I thought I would be together forever with is now gone. I can't even accept it, how can i? How am I supposed to stop loving the...
    theBiggestS theBiggestS
    22-25, M
    Mar 3

    How Ill I Live Alone

    hi i m nivedita, i got married in 2005 and sepreted in 2006 and got divorce in 2009.but now i m feeling vrey alone. my all friends are settled and live happy life with their family n kids.whenever i see a couple, woman n her kids i feel vry pain that why god punishing me and...
    nivika nivika
    26-30, F
    9 Responses Jul 30, 2012

    Can't Trust? Feel Trapped.

    I've been divorced for 6 years. I say I don't want to get involved with anyone. Haven't been on a date yet. But I am lonely. It seems all my life I can't let anyone in. Past partners I've had in a serious relationship have all said I don't need anyone. That's not how I feel. I...
    klwagner2010 klwagner2010
    3 Responses Jul 5, 2010

    The Pain Wont Go

    I have been with my wife for 15 years married for only a third of these. She was my best friend and a person who was very insecure throughout. This meant that i was constantly building her up in confidence and supporting her. This became a major role in my life and i enjoyed...
    HurtInv HurtInv
    2 Responses Feb 1, 2012

    Very Alone

    Married for 18 years now alone. Miss my kids. See them only 4 times a year. The pain and lonliness are overwhelming
    Motorman101 Motorman101
    56-60, M
    3 Responses Dec 25, 2012

    Just Can't Trust Again, But I Want To

    After 18 years of marriage, my (now ex)husband cheated on me with a woman only a few years older than our daughter.  He was working overseas, I was home planning a wonderful romantic weekend to celebrate his homecoming when I found out. I know some say that there is no such...
    Tonehua Tonehua
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Oct 11, 2009

    I Am Divorced and Lonely

    I was married for 16 years and that ended 4 years ago.  We have 2 children that have been hurt alot from this divorce.  We bought a computer and really that was the end of my marriage.  He talked to a married woman, with 2 children also.  She mailed him things...
    mycatgus mycatgus
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Sep 26, 2008

    Going from being married

    and always having someone there to talk to, hold and be held, or just be silly with to being single is hard. I miss the affection and closeness of being in a relationship (not to mention sex.).
    micmer micmer
    36-40, M
    1 Response Apr 18, 2014

    Marriage Gone After Husband Battles Cancer!

      I Was 16 Years Old, When I Started Dating My Ex-Husband And Knew Nothing About Life, Or Relationships, Except That I Loved This Man. After 6 Or 7 Months Of Serious Dating, He Gave Me The "Ultimatium", That If We Didnt Get Married, We Should NOT Be Together Any...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Aug 27, 2008
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