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I Am Divorcing An Abusive Police Officer

You thought it took strength to be married to an officer? Try divorcing one. 34 People

    My Husband Was A Customs Officer

    When I met him he had bullet holes in his car,a white sports coupe. I was not interested in him, so he resorted to calling me 16 times a day and stalking me. I kept seeing him everywhere I went. He would show up with flowers presents and an attitude saying " I am here you can't...
    gypsygirly gypsygirly 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 22, 2010

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    How Much More?

    Well I finally got the restraining order. It only took four tries and a year and a half. The judge told him he believes my husband has a pill problem, and is violent, and the restraining order he filed against me was a preemptive strike so the judge dismissed his. My husband's...
    atotaltrip atotaltrip 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2012

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    I Survived A Divorce From A Police Officer

    I was married to a police officer for 23 years which ended in a divorce. Even my lawyer commented on how hard it would be. I survived, but he played every mind game and dirty trick and more. I feel sorry for his new woman, she doesn' know what she is letting her self in for. He...
    larky73 larky73 51-55, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2012

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    In Need Of Finacial Help And Support In My Divorce From My Abusive Police Officer Husband

    I have been married to my husband for 20 years.  He was a police officer when we met at the local police department.  I was working in the records department.  A friend got us together.  I got pregnant after only a few months of dating but I did not expect him to marry me...
    mychipolta mychipolta 46-50 5 Responses Mar 19, 2011

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    I Should Have Seen The Signs!!

    I wish I had followed my intuition. Not sure why I didn't. There were so many signs in the beginning. We were only together about 4 years. Married almost 2. Why the heck did I marry this man? I thought I had enough love to help him remove the hatred from his past wives...
    cherbearrr cherbearrr 46-50 May 8, 2013

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    I know there are nice,

    honorable police officers out there who don't abuse their badge or cheat on their wives; sadly I wasn't married to one of them.
    saturnfish saturnfish 31-35, F May 22

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    I'm not exactly divorcing him

    but he is emotionally and mentally abusive. His kids have been trying to break us up for years. I think I might have hit my breaking point
    ahuken ahuken 46-50, F May 22

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    Abuse Of Power.....diane Wetendorf

    Anyone who is looking into getting help in a domestic violent relationship/marriage........PLEASE look up Diane Wetendorf on the internet.  She has her number and e-mail listed for you to contact her.  I have spoken with Diane many times and if it weren't for her, I am not so...
    one4soxfan one4soxfan 46-50 Mar 17, 2012

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    My Husband Is A Police Officer

    We met about seven years ago. He was already a police officer when we met. We fell in love quickly and got married six years ago. My husband is a corporal for the local police department and works shift work. When he is home, he seems disconnected and grouchy. He says it's...
    timidzero timidzero 36-40 35 Responses Jan 27, 2011

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    Cant Find Help For The Abused

    I AM GOING THROUGH A DIVORCE. My estranged husband took my children. We had split up many times before and he never asked for the kids to come visit him. I thought even though him and I were not getting along that he would never hurt me like that because we both loved our...
    MHRUIZ MHRUIZ 31-35 May 30, 2012

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    Okay I live in Michigan and the age to consent to sex is 16 I'm guessing that's with any age but below 16. Anyways this 42 year old police officer who lives in Canada came over the...
    cupcakes38 cupcakes38 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    Okay I live in Michigan I was 17 now 18 at the time and the age to consent to sex is 16 I'm guessing that's with any age but below 16. Anyways this 42 year old police officer who...
    cupcakes38 cupcakes38 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    Traffic officer in Quebec, Canada
    cparker7789 cparker7789 31-35, M 6 days ago

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    I took a long vacation in the autumn of 1999. Upon my return, the manager of the bed & breakfast rooms called me for my professional services. She said that there had been thefts...
    jonquil323 jonquil323 56-60, M Jul 5

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    I'm divorcing my husband of 8 years and ending a 12-years relationship. I met him back in university he's from Europe and I'm from Asia. This is going to be long... After uni I...
    lastfeather lastfeather 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    Yesterday while at work a friend came in for lunch. He sat at the counter We exchanged hellos and while taking his order in walks my ex. i could instantly feel my nerves kick into...
    sinistergirl sinistergirl 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 21

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    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I have served as a sworn Officer in California, Nevada and with the military
    pakettle pakettle 66-70, M Jul 15

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    This one police is trying to make me confess to doing something I never did. He was like "We have a witness that says you were involved now tell us who helped you." and then I said...
    LandonS LandonS 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 3

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    I am a Police Explorer with Oberlin Police Department in Oberlin, Ohio 44074 and I am with one of the only two in Lorain County.
    MatthewWolf MatthewWolf 13-15, M Jul 15

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    so a few months ago my dad started heightening his abuse of me, it's verbal and emotional but sometimes it even gets like physical not like hurting me but more like forcing me out...
    atinyratsy atinyratsy 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    7.2.11 I met my ex boyfriend, "S". I thought he was so cute & funny & sweet. He lived in FL, I lived in NJ. I was only 13, & he was 14. We met online, & eventually gave each other...
    njgirll njgirll 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    I'm 20. I'm about to be a senior in college and for as long as I can remember I have been dealing with verbal and emotional abuse from my father. He makes me feel like I am...
    thatgirlangie thatgirlangie 18-21, F Jul 1

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    To long I was in the trap of a abusive marriage. Everyday waking up trying to convince myself it was the "right" thing to do by staying. To keep my family together. Everyday his...
    Happythoughts7771 Happythoughts7771 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 2

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    I was once married to a very abusive & controlling man who almost took my sanity & made me believe that without him I could do nothing. I never saw his evil nature until the latter...
    pebbles83 pebbles83 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    I had a arrange marriage…the very next day mil takes away my gold jewellery worth more than 12 lakhs (without my permission) and keeps it in her locker. I stay mum..n when I ask...
    srinivasleela84 srinivasleela84 26-30, F Jul 7

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    In 2003 I fled a abusive marriage with nothing but the clothes on my and my children's backs. To make matters worse we were abroad and I basically didn't exist to the system. For...
    IStillGotIt IStillGotIt 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    Been seeing my abusive ex again . It's only been 2 weeks and it's already getting bad. I'm always shaking and feel anxious when I'm not with him . It's like a drug as cliche as...
    leaom22 leaom22 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 13

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    I am currently in a emotionally abusive relationship. I live in milwaukee & have no family to run to. My family is in Indiana, Chicago & Florida. I can't move out (from my abuser...
    loloelisabeth loloelisabeth 22-25, F Jul 18

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    I am exhausted. Its 1:45am on a friday night. I just got off the phone with my mother, she wanted to make sure i was ok but instead i tried to soothe her. As usual my father has...
    sweetplumeria sweetplumeria 36-40 2 Responses Jul 19

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    I post this on behalf of a friend who as we speak is on her 5th day of non-stop "discussions" with her husband of 5 years who she's told she wants to leave. She has been suffering...
    PerseveringMark PerseveringMark 31-35 Jul 20

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    Abusive people who take you for granted, who take advantage of you for their own pleasure.. I hate that
    Answeringyou35 Answeringyou35 18-21, F Jul 22

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    The best solution is to leave immediately at all costs. We live in an unjust world. The justice system won't protect you and if you try to take matters into your own hands you can...
    Kwaters12 Kwaters12 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    The Case has Just Been Opened, I Feel raw With Pain. My Wounds are Still not Healed Over my Body, 10 Days in Prison After They Assaulted me in a Police Station Because I Would not...
    AeroWhiteDelite AeroWhiteDelite 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    My husband moved out after yelling at me for not saying good night. He was jealous of my female best friend, my book club, my yoga class and my job. He frequently shared his...
    suburbandivorcing suburbandivorcing 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    I am addicted to rough sex and i need someone to help me
    kdoll6 kdoll6 16-17, M 4 hrs ago

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    Everyone that has shared a similar experience all have one thing in common, we all say 'but I love him'. I hear your stories and can relate deeply to them. There would be nothing...
    Smiles4u2014 Smiles4u2014 41-45, F 3 hrs ago

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    I don't know if this is bitter sweet. I don't know how to feel. Tomorrow I will go and file the final motion for divorce. We have been together for almost 18 years. This is going...
    ShonieGETYOLIFE1 ShonieGETYOLIFE1 36-40, F Jul 14

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    Yeah my job is pretty sweet, but tonight its one of those off nights..... just chilling at my desk drinking coffee on my phone scrolling through EP's bullcrap....... anyway I...
    Arizv11 Arizv11 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 8

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    Because of him, because of my husband
    00flyaway 00flyaway 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    So tired of being invisible, feeling worthless and used. So tired of everyone thinking I'm the crazy one...always sad.. always down. No one asks why. No one cares. I have to...
    somegirl117 somegirl117 18-21 2 Responses Jul 4

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    He is making it very difficult for me as he refuses to give me my rights and he tries to increase his controlling behaviour over the children 20 and 12y/old.
    rita617 rita617 51-55, F Jul 5

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    Why are men like it? You sleep with them and they think they own you! What was more, he was older than me, by ten years! I'm sure a seventeen years old woman is more mature then...
    Paca24 Paca24 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 7

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    My ex was so horrible! But I feel much stronger now that I left xD ! Head high girls who go through this! You'll get through it
    sawahdwaine sawahdwaine 16-17, F Jul 8

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    Maybe my story can give hope to someone else. I was in a relationship with this handsome, smart, funny guy. Then one day that guy changed. Maybe not one day, maybe one week, or...
    SamanthaSweet SamanthaSweet 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 8