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I Am Divorcing An Abusive Police Officer

You thought it took strength to be married to an officer? Try divorcing one. 36 People

    Abuse Of Power.....diane Wetendorf

    Anyone who is looking into getting help in a domestic violent relationship/marriage........PLEASE look up Diane Wetendorf on the internet.  She has her number and e-mail listed for you to contact her.  I have spoken with Diane many times and if it weren't for her, I am not so...
    one4soxfan one4soxfan 46-50 Mar 17, 2012

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    I Survived A Divorce From A Police Officer

    I was married to a police officer for 23 years which ended in a divorce. Even my lawyer commented on how hard it would be. I survived, but he played every mind game and dirty trick and more. I feel sorry for his new woman, she doesn' know what she is letting her self in for. He...
    larky73 larky73 51-55, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2012

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    I Should Have Seen The Signs!!

    I wish I had followed my intuition. Not sure why I didn't. There were so many signs in the beginning. We were only together about 4 years. Married almost 2. Why the heck did I marry this man? I thought I had enough love to help him remove the hatred from his past wives...
    cherbearrr cherbearrr 46-50 May 8, 2013

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    I know there are nice,

    honorable police officers out there who don't abuse their badge or cheat on their wives; sadly I wasn't married to one of them.
    saturnfish saturnfish 31-35, F May 22, 2014

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    How Much More?

    Well I finally got the restraining order. It only took four tries and a year and a half. The judge told him he believes my husband has a pill problem, and is violent, and the restraining order he filed against me was a preemptive strike so the judge dismissed his. My husband's...
    atotaltrip atotaltrip 41-45, F Nov 22, 2012

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    Cant Find Help For The Abused

    I AM GOING THROUGH A DIVORCE. My estranged husband took my children. We had split up many times before and he never asked for the kids to come visit him. I thought even though him and I were not getting along that he would never hurt me like that because we both loved our...
    MHRUIZ MHRUIZ 31-35 May 30, 2012

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    My Husband Was A Customs Officer

    When I met him he had bullet holes in his car,a white sports coupe. I was not interested in him, so he resorted to calling me 16 times a day and stalking me. I kept seeing him everywhere I went. He would show up with flowers presents and an attitude saying " I am here you can't...
    gypsygirly gypsygirly 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 22, 2010

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    My Husband Is A Police Officer

    We met about seven years ago. He was already a police officer when we met. We fell in love quickly and got married six years ago. My husband is a corporal for the local police department and works shift work. When he is home, he seems disconnected and grouchy. He says it's...
    timidzero timidzero 36-40 40 Responses Jan 27, 2011

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    I'm not exactly divorcing him

    but he is emotionally and mentally abusive. His kids have been trying to break us up for years. I think I might have hit my breaking point
    ahuken ahuken 46-50, F 1 Response May 22, 2014

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    In Need Of Finacial Help And Support In My Divorce From My Abusive Police Officer Husband

    I have been married to my husband for 20 years.  He was a police officer when we met at the local police department.  I was working in the records department.  A friend got us together.  I got pregnant after only a few months of dating but I did not expect him to marry me...
    mychipolta mychipolta 46-50 5 Responses Mar 19, 2011

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    this police officer and me have known each other forever now. we weren't so close at the beginning when we first met, I was 7 years old and he was 40 years old. he was my dare...
    IrishGirl428 IrishGirl428 18-21, F a week ago

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    I really want to become a police officer. So I can help a lot of people and protect them. :)
    Zain0Lol Zain0Lol 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    If you work in this profession or have aspirations to or respect those who do, you need to read this: http://policelivesmatter2014.wordpress.com/2014/12/28/dear-officer-i-see-you...
    thx10050 thx10050 31-35, M Jan 2

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    If you work in this profession, have aspirations to do so, or respect law enforcement, you need to read this: http://policelivesmatter2014.wordpress.com/2014/12/28/dear-officer-i...
    thx10050 thx10050 31-35, M Jan 2

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    The Police scared me when I was a kid . But at 16 I decided I wanted to be a copper . So I did a Police Cadets course at The 6th form college . The Police can get involved in any...
    TheRebelFaction TheRebelFaction 51-55, M 3 Responses Jan 9

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    I recently made the decision to start dating my ex who is a Sheriff Investigator. Needless to say, I am proud, in love, lonely and scared all at the same time. We struggle with...
    MsDarling624 MsDarling624 36-40, F Jan 15

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    I am now pregnant. Ive known for 2weeks now and i havent told anyone not even my bf nor my best friend. She make it clear that all i want to do is be with my bf. But most of the...
    IrishGirl428 IrishGirl428 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Imagine being a cop in an urban war zone like Chicago, Baltimore, Memphis, Birmingham, or St. Louis -- it's the equivalent of being in a 24/7/365 battlefield, where a black riot or...
    Allwaysthink825 Allwaysthink825 22-25, F Dec 28, 2014

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    1st and foremost I want to make it clear that I admire and respect the police.The following is about one young police officer whom I can only assume was a rookie.In the end all...
    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M 4 Responses Jan 8

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    Since my son became a police officer 7 years ago, he has been robbed of his laughter, humor and enthusiasm for what his life is. Kudos to our military people fighting wars in other...
    mallen1982 mallen1982 51-55, F 5 days ago

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    MESSAGE TO THE LAWLESS POLICE As i said in a prior story the are many good officers . NOW YOU HAVE DONE IT . You have managed to plant the seeds for civil war . We now have...
    georgeb99 georgeb99 46-50, M Jan 3

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    I am not in an abusive relationship - I was in a verbal and emotionally abusive relationship but I chose to bring it to an end. Life moved on, I met someone else and Well here it...
    tcennoC tcennoC 51-55, M Jan 1

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    I have been married to my husband for ten years, he was diagnosed about five years ago as bipolar but refuses to get help. He is very verbally abusive and I cannot take it any...
    greengeenie greengeenie 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 11

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    Not so much Physically, but Emotionally and Mentally. Every time I had tried to break up with him he would threaten me, threaten to hurt himself, or make up some kind of sick story...
    HisKindredSpirit HisKindredSpirit 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    when i met my ex last March, i honestly thought we were everything we both were looking for. now all my friends tell me the things that were red flags to them. to this day, he's...
    burntoutstars burntoutstars 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 12

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    I have been married 14 years to a man who is like a ticking time bomb.In those years he had been arrested 3 times for domestic battery and every time I forgave him. First time he...
    cruisebaby53 cruisebaby53 61-65, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    On Jan 27, 2010; I was sitting in a McDonalds off of Lamar and Runberg of Austin, TX when a large Caucasian man in hunting gear came up and began bothering me. When I refused to...
    trnwill trnwill 41-45, F Dec 29, 2014

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    A few months ago, I completely cut off my ex. We had a long and complicated history that involved a lot of emotional and verbal abuse. On his part, a lot of it was underhanded and...
    MDubs MDubs 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 14

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    Things began normally. We were together a short while before his eating disorder became an issue. He would tell me in detail about his purges. I was so dependent on him I became a...
    gothstan gothstan 16-17, M 5 Responses Jan 2

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    So i was saying that a young native canadian girl was arrested by police . Said they were gunna take off her clothes , boots , and leave her in the wild , but first beat the...
    TonyMontanah TonyMontanah 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 5

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    I am a junior Officer in the Army. I am currently a student and live on post with my peers. I am also a Christian who loves God and tries to follow His commands as best as I can...
    wheyisolate wheyisolate 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 17

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    Regina Saskatchewan, canada . A young first nations girl around my age was tortured by police .. This is all i know so far . I will post when i find out more . **** the police
    TonyMontanah TonyMontanah 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 5

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    I'm tired of the EP police. I'm tired of my stories being deleted. I'm tired of the photos be deleted. What was once a good thing is now being policed to death. As of now I'm...
    drawttocs drawttocs 46-50, M 6 Responses Jan 11

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    This is my true story.Three months ago,i called police about my ex has been domestic violence me.But Police didn't believed me.They even tortured and sexual harrasmented to me..omg...
    juryandrews juryandrews 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 13

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    Not long ago, I was walking into my local village when I was stopped by police. They searched me at the side of the road and demanded to see my ID. I handed them a drivers licence...
    AmnesiaPlease AmnesiaPlease 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 17

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    I really thought my boyfriend was different but i guess we all do at one point. He started pushing me when he was upset which after the first tike promised he would never do again...
    tengomiedo tengomiedo 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I can't take it anymore my crazy abusive mother is calling me about every 30 mins to an hour all through the night on the phone trying to terrorize me. I eventually quit answering...
    jaxpdx jaxpdx 41-45, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    fifacoinsarc fifacoinsarc 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    I recently got out of a relationship...reason because he left to Miami for a couple of days and when he came back he was starting to be abusive and he would get mad with every...
    soccerislife14 soccerislife14 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    It started three years ago. He was perfect, the sweetest. Then came our two year anniversary and downhill our relationship went. He hit me every chance he got, it got harder and...
    ImperialGoddess76 ImperialGoddess76 18-21, F 14 Responses Jan 1

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    I have been in an abusive situation for the last thirty years. Mental torture and psychological abuse are heaped on me relentlessly by someone who is famous, rich, addicted and...
    GettingOutOfThere GettingOutOfThere 61-65, F Jan 2

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    I love the fact that after I liked this topic, my ex made a post about how he never abused me.. Sweetheart, this definitely wasn't about you, you weren't my first boyfriend. But...
    LanniLette LanniLette 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    My husband was always abusive, always self centered, always loved. It wasn't until he decided to get his attention elsewhere that I decided to look at him for who he is. Now I'm...
    leigh8133 leigh8133 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    About 5-6 years ago I was in a very abusive relationship with a man. He and I met on a dating website and met the same day. He lived in my city. When we met, he was told I was...
    Happywife2015 Happywife2015 36-40, F Jan 11

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    Reading everyone's experiences on here is truily heartbreaking ... I've never been in an abusive relationship, but my mom is married to a man who treats her horribly he also treats...
    ggujmbgukm ggujmbgukm 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    omg i cant take any of this anymore I am at my wits end. I actually joined this experience bc I wanted to get out of the totally unhealthy codependent controlling manipulating...
    jaxpdx jaxpdx 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 11

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