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I Am Divorcing An Abusive Police Officer

You thought it took strength to be married to an officer? Try divorcing one. 35 People

    I Should Have Seen The Signs!!

    I wish I had followed my intuition. Not sure why I didn't. There were so many signs in the beginning. We were only together about 4 years. Married almost 2. Why the heck did I marry this man? I thought I had enough love to help him remove the hatred from his past wives...
    cherbearrr cherbearrr 46-50 May 8, 2013

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    How Much More?

    Well I finally got the restraining order. It only took four tries and a year and a half. The judge told him he believes my husband has a pill problem, and is violent, and the restraining order he filed against me was a preemptive strike so the judge dismissed his. My husband's...
    atotaltrip atotaltrip 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2012

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    My Husband Is A Police Officer

    We met about seven years ago. He was already a police officer when we met. We fell in love quickly and got married six years ago. My husband is a corporal for the local police department and works shift work. When he is home, he seems disconnected and grouchy. He says it's...
    timidzero timidzero 36-40 36 Responses Jan 27, 2011

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    Abuse Of Power.....diane Wetendorf

    Anyone who is looking into getting help in a domestic violent relationship/marriage........PLEASE look up Diane Wetendorf on the internet.  She has her number and e-mail listed for you to contact her.  I have spoken with Diane many times and if it weren't for her, I am not so...
    one4soxfan one4soxfan 46-50 Mar 17, 2012

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    I know there are nice,

    honorable police officers out there who don't abuse their badge or cheat on their wives; sadly I wasn't married to one of them.
    saturnfish saturnfish 31-35, F May 22

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    In Need Of Finacial Help And Support In My Divorce From My Abusive Police Officer Husband

    I have been married to my husband for 20 years.  He was a police officer when we met at the local police department.  I was working in the records department.  A friend got us together.  I got pregnant after only a few months of dating but I did not expect him to marry me...
    mychipolta mychipolta 46-50 5 Responses Mar 19, 2011

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    I Survived A Divorce From A Police Officer

    I was married to a police officer for 23 years which ended in a divorce. Even my lawyer commented on how hard it would be. I survived, but he played every mind game and dirty trick and more. I feel sorry for his new woman, she doesn' know what she is letting her self in for. He...
    larky73 larky73 51-55, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2012

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    I'm not exactly divorcing him

    but he is emotionally and mentally abusive. His kids have been trying to break us up for years. I think I might have hit my breaking point
    ahuken ahuken 46-50, F 1 Response May 22

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    Cant Find Help For The Abused

    I AM GOING THROUGH A DIVORCE. My estranged husband took my children. We had split up many times before and he never asked for the kids to come visit him. I thought even though him and I were not getting along that he would never hurt me like that because we both loved our...
    MHRUIZ MHRUIZ 31-35 May 30, 2012

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    My Husband Was A Customs Officer

    When I met him he had bullet holes in his car,a white sports coupe. I was not interested in him, so he resorted to calling me 16 times a day and stalking me. I kept seeing him everywhere I went. He would show up with flowers presents and an attitude saying " I am here you can't...
    gypsygirly gypsygirly 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 22, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    I am a girlfriend to a brand new, young police officer. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 and a half years and have plans to get engaged and married as soon as I finish...
    mdlc45 mdlc45 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 29

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    Just some advice needed. My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months (not long I know). He's always lived about an hour away so I'm used to semi-long distance but we saw...
    Hbarking87 Hbarking87 26-30, F Aug 19

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    I am currently in school to become a police officer, I am absolutely excited/nervous to go on this journey. Is there anyone that is also in the process of becoming a cop or is one...
    MissLadyJay MissLadyJay 18-21, M 3 Responses Sep 7

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    I really want to become a cop so I can help a lot of people and get the really bad crime off the streets
    Canadianblood Canadianblood 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    Hello, my name is Diane and I am a junior at Rutgers. After the recent news concerning Mike Brown/Ferguson and police brutality, and reading about the protests occurring in NJ, I...
    deekayyy deekayyy 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    Hello, my name is Diane and I am a junior at Rutgers University in New Brunswick. After the recent news concerning Mike Brown/Ferguson and police brutality, and reading about the...
    deekayyy deekayyy 18-21, F Aug 18

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    Or I still am in one. I'm not sure. At the moment he's not here and he says he's not coming back but he always comes back. I don't want him to come back. I am frightened of him...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    12 really good stories with pictures. I'm sharing life experiences and then all that hard work is lost to the bl**dy EP Police Why bother?!!!!!!
    sissysimone sissysimone 51-55, T 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I was married for 10 years, my ex was verbally and physically abusive. He stopped working for the last two years,and I was the main support of the house. He would always accused me...
    liza0324 liza0324 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 26

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    My ex gf just got arrested yesterday for showing domestic violence towards me in our school parking lot this week. I told the witnesses to call the police, and they did. When we...
    Kiyamilan Kiyamilan 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    My ex husband been verbally abusing me for the last three years! Two days ago he dropped the kids off at my house and started his abusive! I pushed him and hit him for him to leave...
    stressfreelife stressfreelife 31-35, F Sep 6

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    He had always made me happy, I remember when we first met - I was one of those who believed in love at first sight. After dating for six months he started to become very aggressive...
    CrumblingBrownie CrumblingBrownie 18-21, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    I was in an abusive relationship. Was as in I have escaped and am now in a safe environment. It has been four years now, since I have learned what safe feels like. Just how lovely...
    SkySeasoning SkySeasoning 26-30, F Aug 23

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    I have thought about posting my story but often chicken out maybe out if fear and selfishness, but if anything I say could help another woman that is what I need and want to do...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    Actually, this wasn't just an abusive relationship, he even raped me. I'm scared to say that but he wasn't charged because of multiple things. 1. They said he didn't rape me...
    Cassadilla1822 Cassadilla1822 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 24

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    I am now 23 years old. I thought it was a good idea to seek out my biological mother the moment I had turned 18. I eventually found her, started talking to her. At first she seemed...
    TRVPiiN TRVPiiN 22-25, M Sep 8

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    Well I finally got away from my abusive bf. I can't believe I finally found the courage to bail. He was becoming more and more verbally and emotionally abusive to me. It progressed...
    desiree2877 desiree2877 41-45, F 1 day ago

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    This is the hardest thing that I have ever had to admit... I haven't told anyone. Even as I write this I contemplate hitting the backspace and erasing it. I'm terrified that my...
    ParaKlio ParaKlio 41-45, F Aug 17

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    I think that since I have been in this emotionally abusive relationship, for a couple of years, I have gotten used to the illogical statements from my husband. Tonight I am being...
    lisaandshasta123 lisaandshasta123 41-45 Aug 19

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    i don't like being touch. in pictures, i am very aware of my distance with others. it started with narc mother and continue with abusive boyfriend. we were walking next to each...
    fien fien 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    My dad has recently gotten a lot more abusive, telling me to hang myself, making "jokes" about my self harm, hitting/kicking me and has even poured boiling oil straight from the...
    ejburne ejburne 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 21

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    I recently got a divorce. My ex was emotionally abusive and nothing I did made him happy. He actually wanted the divorce but for some reason still finds it necessary to be cruel...
    ktc1575 ktc1575 51-55, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    My husband is verbally and emotionally abusive. When he is angry, which is often, he tells me he hates me, he's disgusted by me, he's not attracted to me, he's ashamed of me, he's...
    Gals5 Gals5 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 23

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    I thought i get it all off my chest on here seeing as I was reading lots of emotional abuse and psychical abuse stories on here a few weeks ago that got me moving in my decision to...
    catgirl87 catgirl87 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    Keep in mind that I was always one of those girls that never understood why women stay in abusive relationships. I was a broken child. Acted out, drugs, sex basically whatever I...
    mmememe mmememe 22-25, F Aug 26

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    So, I just realized a week ago, that my marriage of 24 years is abusive. I feel so stupid for not owning up to this before. My spouse has gotten physical on at least ten...
    dpwm9dpw dpwm9dpw 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 30

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    He's rarely, if ever, verbally abusive to me. To my mom, sometimes, my 9 yr old sister rarely, but my brother is 3 yrs younger than me at 14 and he gets the brunt of it. Granted he...
    maddiemoonlight maddiemoonlight 16-17, F Aug 30

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    Well this is not something I shout off the mtn tops by any means but I guess I am here now and I have a lot of people in my circle and that I ma talking to more and more now so...
    snowbabe3 snowbabe3 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 1

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    Ladies plz look out for predators on this site looking to specifically date women in the codepency and abusive relationship groups. I've had some fishy messages already. #shameful
    milanmilan milanmilan 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    "Why doesn't she just leave?" "Leaving an abusive relationship actually entails substantial risks for women. In fact, their risk of being killed increases by 75% when they leave...
    Bewail Bewail 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    Currently in an abusive relationship But for some reason I still love him. I don't know what to do or think. His emotions are the only thing that matters and mine barely do. I just...
    Elibabe303 Elibabe303 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 8

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    Does my man love me or not He's very mean sometimes he's got really bad anger issues and says horrible things to me at one point he was physically abusive but he stopped but the...
    Elibabe303 Elibabe303 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 8

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    I blocked my abusive ex on social media. Its only a matter of time before he starts posting pictures of his latest victims . Sad part is he's friends with most of my family members...
    milanmilan milanmilan 36-40, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm 23 years old with currently no boyfriend . I broke up with an abusive one I was living with, and now I'm alone again. I feel too old to be alone , me and him were supposed to...
    leaom22 leaom22 22-25, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have very few happy memories of my childhood. Firstly, because of the toxicity of my home situation, I wasn't a very pleasant child. I bullied someone and was generally rude...
    33dulling 33dulling 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Hey r. U in a abusive realasionship and he says ur fat well I know how u can loose a 100 Ibs dumb him and flush just like that!
    awesome101010 awesome101010 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I miss my abusive ex.. I don't know why. I'm suffering without him. But he choked me,slapped me, kicked me,threw me, called me names.he asked me if i was his slave. I was confused...
    amtired amtired 22-25 3 days ago

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    I was in a long term relentionship with a woman who would belittle, degrade and humiliate me on a daily basis. She withheld affection from me and made me feel unworthy of her time...
    slj2014 slj2014 36-40, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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