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I Am Divorcing An Abusive Police Officer

You thought it took strength to be married to an officer? Try divorcing one. 38 People

    My Husband Was A Customs Officer

    When I met him he had bullet holes in his car,a white sports coupe. I was not interested in him, so he resorted to calling me 16 times a day and stalking me. I kept seeing him everywhere I went. He would show up with flowers presents and an attitude saying " I am here you can't...
    gypsygirly gypsygirly 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 22, 2010

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    Abuse Of Power.....diane Wetendorf

    Anyone who is looking into getting help in a domestic violent relationship/marriage........PLEASE look up Diane Wetendorf on the internet.  She has her number and e-mail listed for you to contact her.  I have spoken with Diane many times and if it weren't for her, I am not so...
    one4soxfan one4soxfan 46-50 Mar 17, 2012

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    My Husband Is A Police Officer

    We met about seven years ago. He was already a police officer when we met. We fell in love quickly and got married six years ago. My husband is a corporal for the local police department and works shift work. When he is home, he seems disconnected and grouchy. He says it's...
    timidzero timidzero 36-40 45 Responses Jan 27, 2011

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    In Need Of Finacial Help And Support In My Divorce From My Abusive Police Officer Husband

    I have been married to my husband for 20 years.  He was a police officer when we met at the local police department.  I was working in the records department.  A friend got us together.  I got pregnant after only a few months of dating but I did not expect him to marry me...
    mychipolta mychipolta 46-50 5 Responses Mar 19, 2011

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    Cant Find Help For The Abused

    I AM GOING THROUGH A DIVORCE. My estranged husband took my children. We had split up many times before and he never asked for the kids to come visit him. I thought even though him and I were not getting along that he would never hurt me like that because we both loved our...
    MHRUIZ MHRUIZ 31-35 May 30, 2012

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    I know there are nice,

    honorable police officers out there who don't abuse their badge or cheat on their wives; sadly I wasn't married to one of them.
    saturnfish saturnfish 31-35, F May 22, 2014

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    I Should Have Seen The Signs!!

    I wish I had followed my intuition. Not sure why I didn't. There were so many signs in the beginning. We were only together about 4 years. Married almost 2. Why the heck did I marry this man? I thought I had enough love to help him remove the hatred from his past wives...
    cherbearrr cherbearrr 46-50 May 8, 2013

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    I'm not exactly divorcing him

    but he is emotionally and mentally abusive. His kids have been trying to break us up for years. I think I might have hit my breaking point
    ahuken ahuken 46-50, F 1 Response May 22, 2014

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    I Survived A Divorce From A Police Officer

    I was married to a police officer for 23 years which ended in a divorce. Even my lawyer commented on how hard it would be. I survived, but he played every mind game and dirty trick and more. I feel sorry for his new woman, she doesn' know what she is letting her self in for. He...
    larky73 larky73 51-55, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2012

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    How Much More?

    Well I finally got the restraining order. It only took four tries and a year and a half. The judge told him he believes my husband has a pill problem, and is violent, and the restraining order he filed against me was a preemptive strike so the judge dismissed his. My husband's...
    atotaltrip atotaltrip 41-45, F Nov 22, 2012

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    I have recently got out my 5 year long abusive marriage. I can't believe I let him break me so much! My husband was physically, mentally, and sexually abusive. I was in trouble all...
    brokengirlnorepair brokengirlnorepair 22-25, F 1 Response 50 mins ago

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    Damn, I forgot how loud those sirens are. In a few minutes I'll probably be getting my next ride, and I have no ear plugs.
    reaperthejack reaperthejack 13-15, M 6 hrs ago

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    Brutality and corruption are the most heartbreaking things to see from a police officer. It seems like police are just beating people up and taking them in for no reason and that...
    shamdizzle888 shamdizzle888 22-25, M 12 hrs ago

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    today really opened my eyes ... my bf and i have not been able to spend much time together lately. . yall know how it is ... well finally we have time ... guess what picked...
    GypsyRayne120 GypsyRayne120 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    i am new too this life of wonderful chaos. .. its truly difficult and very different than any other relationship i have been in .. this makes it very unique. we have known...
    GypsyRayne120 GypsyRayne120 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I have posted in this thread a few times in the past. It has been 9 months since my last post. I am pleased and proud to say that my relationship is the strongest it has ever been...
    sfm21 sfm21 22-25, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am very passionate about Law Enforcement! Police is my everything. I am respectful to Police Officers. I don't understand why people hate the police. They protect and serve...
    Jgummy123 Jgummy123 13-15, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Police Lives Matter. Police are human too, they just where a uniform. Police don't wake up wanting to kill people. My cousin's a police officer and he doesn't want to hurt anyone.
    Damocles19 Damocles19 13-15, M 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    Been on the job a month and I love it!
    Emiliexo Emiliexo 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I am 30 years I am a Black man i have had both positive as well as negative experiences with police. At this point in my life I am no longer afraid to say that police are the worst...
    saint1123 saint1123 31-35, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My grandparents took custody of me when I was very young. Then at 12, I wanted to live with my mom (mom and dad have not been together since I was a year old), she was very...
    ladycentaur ladycentaur 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    **** police, **** police, **** police BRUTALITY!!
    TrappedOrphan TrappedOrphan 13-15, M 5 days ago

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    One in particular actually. If anyone has ever seen the show, COPS, it is absolutely HILARIOUS. Watching that show actually taught me a lot about officer safety and I'm starting to...
    Curlatte3845 Curlatte3845 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Anyone who is crazy enough to put their lives on the line daily, leave their families behind just to be shot at, rush into deadly situations that a normal person wouldn't dare...
    Curlatte3845 Curlatte3845 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    One of my favorites. The police: trust one with your life, but not your wife!
    fr34qee fr34qee 51-55, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    ever since I can remember I've always wanted to become a police officer. my uncle is a police officer that is how I got the idea. it's been my dream for a very long time and I'm...
    epsarah94 epsarah94 18-21, F a week ago

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    "I hit you because of what you said to me"- those were the words of my soon to be husband. He hit me exactly a week before our church wedding... In my home country, every Lent on...
    Marife7128 Marife7128 51-55, F 2 Responses Aug 27

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    Because of my abusive relationships, I've learned not to trust people, especially men. My first boyfriend was into bondage, which if I had been more experienced with relationships...
    al13ngr33n al13ngr33n 31-35, F 6 Responses Aug 27

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    I actually want to be a Police Officer later in life. my plan is to go into the navy and then get on the local police force after I serve. I really want to support this great...
    Andyg99 Andyg99 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 27

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    It happened about 30 years ago. I was a white middle class young man and was badly beaten up in Hampstead Police Station of all places! I was told that there was absolutely nothing...
    markdaniels58 markdaniels58 56-60, M Aug 24

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    When they come near, I get scared. One time, a big scary police man pulled me over because one of my car lights was broken. I started crying as he approached my car. When he came...
    ChelseaMonroe ChelseaMonroe 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    My dad controls my life, and he enjoys it. He belittles me, insults me, makes me feel insecure about myself. He gets angry over small things and I feel like i'm always walking on...
    Mayurichi Mayurichi 13-15, T Aug 24

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    After living in fear not knowing what mood he would be in each and everyday I built the courage to flee, reported him to police for the physical abuse he put me thru, petrified of...
    katinDahat katinDahat 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    Today was the first time in the last 6 months since we broke up that I saw him as ugly on the inside. I am losing the loving feelings I held for him. This is a good thing. I...
    Sunshine9001 Sunshine9001 51-55, F 4 Responses Aug 22

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    I was maybe about 16. He lied to me about his age... saying he was 17 when really he was 25. He used to cut me, choke me, and rape me. He used me for sex and then when i got...
    nicky3489 nicky3489 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 21

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    my boyfriend has spoken to over 100 others girls during our 1 year and 5 month relationship, he's verbally abusive, he tells me no one wants me, hopes i die, hopes i kill myself...
    mxlly mxlly 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    I have an abusive father and I feel like committing suicide. Excuse this wall of text, if anyone has advice on what I should do, please go right ahead. 2012: My...
    SadBeep SadBeep 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 20

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    While being in an abusive relationship, you feel helpless, and trapped. Your abuser seems to have control over you, they use fear against you. At the age of 15, I entered my first...
    awakenstarchild awakenstarchild 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 15

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    I have seen women before who have been in abusive relationships with their boyfriend or husband but instead of getting out they just continue to stay in the relationship - probably...
    olivia81401 olivia81401 13-15, F Aug 15

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    When my mom chose to go back to my dad, my brother and I were still living at home. I've moved two hours away from them since then, but it doesn't feel far enough. I've been...
    TrueBlue94 TrueBlue94 18-21, F Aug 15

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    Yep. Several times. A lot actually. But not for the reasons you may think...I get paid to do it!
    Onebellaheart Onebellaheart 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    Having a lot of nightmares and waking up in a panic , don't know why!
    Cat052314 Cat052314 26-30, F 2 Responses