I Am Divorcing An Abusive Police Officer

You thought it took strength to be married to an officer? Try divorcing one. 41 People

    I Survived A Divorce From A Police Officer

    I was married to a police officer for 23 years which ended in a divorce. Even my lawyer commented on how hard it would be. I survived, but he played every mind game and dirty trick and more. I feel sorry for his new woman, she doesn' know what she is letting her self in for. He...
    larky73 larky73
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Dec 30, 2012

    My Husband Is A Police Officer

    We met about seven years ago. He was already a police officer when we met. We fell in love quickly and got married six years ago. My husband is a corporal for the local police department and works shift work. When he is home, he seems disconnected and grouchy. He says it's...
    timidzero timidzero
    36-40
    47 Responses Jan 27, 2011

    Cant Find Help For The Abused

    I AM GOING THROUGH A DIVORCE. My estranged husband took my children. We had split up many times before and he never asked for the kids to come visit him. I thought even though him and I were not getting along that he would never hurt me like that because we both loved our...
    MHRUIZ MHRUIZ
    31-35
    May 30, 2012

    I Should Have Seen The Signs!!

    I wish I had followed my intuition. Not sure why I didn't. There were so many signs in the beginning. We were only together about 4 years. Married almost 2. Why the heck did I marry this man? I thought I had enough love to help him remove the hatred from his past wives...
    cherbearrr cherbearrr
    46-50
    May 8, 2013

    Abuse Of Power.....diane Wetendorf

    Anyone who is looking into getting help in a domestic violent relationship/marriage........PLEASE look up Diane Wetendorf on the internet.  She has her number and e-mail listed for you to contact her.  I have spoken with Diane many times and if it weren't for her, I am not so...
    one4soxfan one4soxfan
    46-50
    Mar 17, 2012

    I know there are nice,

    honorable police officers out there who don't abuse their badge or cheat on their wives; sadly I wasn't married to one of them.
    saturnfish saturnfish
    36-40, F
    May 22, 2014

    How Much More?

    Well I finally got the restraining order. It only took four tries and a year and a half. The judge told him he believes my husband has a pill problem, and is violent, and the restraining order he filed against me was a preemptive strike so the judge dismissed his. My husband's...
    atotaltrip atotaltrip
    41-45, F
    Nov 22, 2012

    In Need Of Finacial Help And Support In My Divorce From My Abusive Police Officer Husband

    I have been married to my husband for 20 years.  He was a police officer when we met at the local police department.  I was working in the records department.  A friend got us together.  I got pregnant after only a few months of dating but I did not expect him to marry me...
    mychipolta mychipolta
    46-50
    5 Responses Mar 19, 2011

    I'm not exactly divorcing him

    but he is emotionally and mentally abusive. His kids have been trying to break us up for years. I think I might have hit my breaking point
    ahuken ahuken
    51-55, F
    1 Response May 22, 2014

    My Husband Was A Customs Officer

    When I met him he had bullet holes in his car,a white sports coupe. I was not interested in him, so he resorted to calling me 16 times a day and stalking me. I kept seeing him everywhere I went. He would show up with flowers presents and an attitude saying " I am here you can't...
    gypsygirly gypsygirly
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Sep 22, 2010

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