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I Am Divorcing An Abusive Police Officer

You thought it took strength to be married to an officer? Try divorcing one. 28 People

    I Survived A Divorce From A Police Officer

    I was married to a police officer for 23 years which ended in a divorce. Even my lawyer commented on how hard it would be. I survived, but he played every mind game and dirty trick and more. I feel sorry for his new woman, she doesn' know what she is letting her self in for. He...
    larky73 larky73 51-55, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2012

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    My Husband Was A Customs Officer

    When I met him he had bullet holes in his car,a white sports coupe. I was not interested in him, so he resorted to calling me 16 times a day and stalking me. I kept seeing him everywhere I went. He would show up with flowers presents and an attitude saying " I am here you can't...
    gypsygirly gypsygirly 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 22, 2010

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    In Need Of Finacial Help And Support In My Divorce From My Abusive Police Officer Husband

    I have been married to my husband for 20 years.  He was a police officer when we met at the local police department.  I was working in the records department.  A friend got us together.  I got pregnant after only a few months of dating but I did not expect him to marry me...
    mychipolta mychipolta 46-50 5 Responses Mar 19, 2011

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    My Husband Is A Police Officer

    We met about seven years ago. He was already a police officer when we met. We fell in love quickly and got married six years ago. My husband is a corporal for the local police department and works shift work. When he is home, he seems disconnected and grouchy. He says it's...
    timidzero timidzero 36-40 32 Responses Jan 27, 2011

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    Cant Find Help For The Abused

    I AM GOING THROUGH A DIVORCE. My estranged husband took my children. We had split up many times before and he never asked for the kids to come visit him. I thought even though him and I were not getting along that he would never hurt me like that because we both loved our...
    MHRUIZ MHRUIZ 31-35 May 30, 2012

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    I Should Have Seen The Signs!!

    I wish I had followed my intuition. Not sure why I didn't. There were so many signs in the beginning. We were only together about 4 years. Married almost 2. Why the heck did I marry this man? I thought I had enough love to help him remove the hatred from his past wives...
    cherbearrr cherbearrr 46-50 May 8, 2013

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    Abuse Of Power.....diane Wetendorf

    Anyone who is looking into getting help in a domestic violent relationship/marriage........PLEASE look up Diane Wetendorf on the internet.  She has her number and e-mail listed for you to contact her.  I have spoken with Diane many times and if it weren't for her, I am not so...
    one4soxfan one4soxfan 46-50 Mar 17, 2012

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    How Much More?

    Well I finally got the restraining order. It only took four tries and a year and a half. The judge told him he believes my husband has a pill problem, and is violent, and the restraining order he filed against me was a preemptive strike so the judge dismissed his. My husband's...
    atotaltrip atotaltrip 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2012

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    I have always wanted to be a Police Officer. Ever since I was 5 years old I have known this is what I've wanted to do. But last night I came to a horrible realization. I realized...
    alyd473 alyd473 18-21, F Apr 5

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    Since I really like dogs I have been thinking about being a K-9 officer. K-9 units do a good job with tracking down the suspect.
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    My boyfriend has two months left in the police academy, and we have been dating for about a year. I know we are meant to be together. Everyone said he would change in the academy...
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    I don't know why people do not like the Police. I understand that there are some police officers that go too far with resolving disputes, but if a group of officers do something...
    moose73630 moose73630 16-17, M Apr 12

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    My family and I are victims of police misconduct. I have file a formal complaint with local, state, federal agencies, and to anyone that is willing to listen and has yet to get a...
    justice318 justice318 36-40, F 1 day ago

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    My brother has been abusive for years. Physically and verbally abusive. If something doesn't go his way, he beats my younger brother, my mom and myself. Today he lost it because...
    tobegladoflife tobegladoflife 26-30, F Mar 31

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    Probably most famous soccer event in Czech derby between two clubs from Prague - Sparta and Slavia,is usually accompanied by numerous choreographycreations and all that stuff. One...
    MechovPunx MechovPunx 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    THIS IS A REAL AND LEGITMATE FORM OF ABUSE. I struggle with the fact that not only was my ex emotionally abusive, but so was my own father. I can legitimately say that I am...
    cemarie128 cemarie128 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    THIS IS A REAL AND LEGITMATE FORM OF ABUSE. I struggle with the fact that not only was my ex emotionally abusive, but so was my own father. I can legitimately say that I am...
    cemarie128 cemarie128 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I've recently read that a lot of people have difficulty understanding why people in an abusive family/relationship just don't leave the abuser. I understand why they think so...
    imprintedme imprintedme 22-25, F Mar 24

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    It it interesting to see the reactions of others to my situation. My family, friends, strangers, everyone has an opinion and a strong one at that. I married my hubby for the wrong...
    unexpectedlove15 unexpectedlove15 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I was in a emotional abusive relationship and I'm out of it now . My ex and I started dating freshman year of high school but we've known each other since 7th grade . He never used...
    Loving1234 Loving1234 16-17, F Mar 31

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    I picked "was" instead of "am" in an abusive relationship because I believe my fiancé and I have worked our way through our problems. Is it wrong to believe that couples who are...
    brusselsprouts brusselsprouts 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I don't understand why it's so hard for women to leave an abusive relationship. Sometimes I wish I could pull them away. I was in an abusive relationship for a short time. Verbal...
    Deseraye1 Deseraye1 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 5

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    I'm in an abusive relationship now. Emotionally abusive which is the worst!
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Why are police men so hot! It tortures me! I just want one so bad. when it's time for me to marry I really hope I find the perfect policeman. Where could I possibly find one!?
    Electricsmile Electricsmile 18-21, F Mar 31

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    Abusive person on EP named Trevon88. Do not engage contact with this user.
    Ravengoddess Ravengoddess 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 25

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    I was raised in a"christian" abusive home, I won't get into major details, but it was really bad, I married young had two children of my own, never once even considered abusing I...
    4myfuturehappiness 4myfuturehappiness 46-50, F Apr 2

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    My mother was an abusive mother. And she still is. Im today 33 and i realized some years ago that i went thruh emotional abuse. It started as i was 7 and i remember she was...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I was in an abusive relationship and as awful as it was it's not the bruises and broken ribs which have caused the most pain and lasted the longest. It's the fact I don't trust my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 3

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    I had a abusive boyfriend, Jason. He would hit me,kick me, and touch me in ways. i feel uncomfortable. He kept on threatening to rape me if i didn't do what he said. When i was...
    GirlWhoWantsToDie GirlWhoWantsToDie 22-25, F Apr 4

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    A salesman, tired of his job, gave it up to become a policeman. Several months later, a friend asked him how he liked his new role. "Well," he replied, "the pay is good and the...
    jml2000 jml2000 56-60, M 2 Responses Apr 9

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    I cheated on my abusive bf. I've lived with him 3000 miles from my home and family for 2 years now. He is insanely jealous and short tempered, also very immature and likes to start...
    Jevely Jevely 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 12

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    I just broke up with my girlfriend that I have been with for 8 years now. I struggle with a addiction problem that she just can't accept. She becomes abusive and violent when I...
    lovelife2014 lovelife2014 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    I was a small child i had this horrible mean teacher she was really old had wrinkles and white hair and she didn't really know how to put make up on it all Started when I first...
    moonshine25 moonshine25 16-17, F Apr 13

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    I was with my daughters father for 5 years it started off so nice like all relationships do loving or so i thought, it took me about a year or so to really figure out i was being...
    msrose22 msrose22 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 14

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    I just really really have a hard time taking orders from the Police. I don't feel a person who thinks taking a job requiring them to risk their lives for a mere 30grand a yr is...
    SweetSyrupOfSchadenfreude SweetSyrupOfSchadenfreude 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 15

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    I have an oral board exam for a police dispatch position and was wondering if anyone had relevant info or tips on passing.
    Happyandconfused Happyandconfused 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    I am about to give birth to my daughter in approx 4 days and my husband has been missing for almost a week...we have a two year old and I don't know what to say to him when he asks...
    infinitebeauty7 infinitebeauty7 26-30, F 4 hrs ago

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    Hi, I am a 19 year old female, who is going into corrections . I am currently waiting to hear back. I am going into Jacksonville Florida facility. I must admit it is pretty scary...
    shanlee2195 shanlee2195 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    Verbal abuse, emotional abuse, financial abuse. He has never hit me but has raised his fist to me and then thought better of it. We have been together for almost 20 years and have...
    EllisRose EllisRose 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    Where to begin. All I can say is although I have moved out of my fathers toxic home, I am still very nervous as I write this. I can literally feel the anxiety building up. Ok...
    rrrrandom rrrrandom 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I have a pretty big **** and I love it when it hurts the girls, even makes them bleed sometimes. Of course I don't force it if they tell me to stop I do but I love it when it hurts...
    babyfabling babyfabling 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 25

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    I grew up listening to my parents arguments and fights. Whenever we went to a vacation together,I always waited anxiously for that sinister moment that's gonna ruin our fun,the...
    kerita99 kerita99 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    My grandmother I lived with. And she used to beat my sister. She would also tell me and her about how my mother and father gave us up because they didn't love us. It's been hard...
    Darkflowers Darkflowers 13-15, F Mar 27

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    Been there. Stayed way too long! But find strength where you can and learn to accept what you can't change right?
    allison1181 allison1181 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    A man is no man If He holds abuse in his hands Words full of hate Im sure most of you can relate Some call it discipline Some call him crazy But whatever you call him He...
    lifeinmyeyes13 lifeinmyeyes13 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I'm new to this but decided to go ahead and post my experience. I met my husband when I was 12 years old and at age 15 he took my virginity away. I hung out with him in my early 2...
    Nerilynn Nerilynn 31-35 2 Responses Mar 29

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    Last time I seen my dad was a couple years ago.. At the KFC drive-thru.. He seen me & did up his car window & ignored my existence completely. But the look of regret & sadness on...
    dplastini dplastini 18-21, F Mar 29

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    It makes me feel so weak. He forced me to do things. A boy named Adam tried to help me, it was either me battered or him. He didn't do anything, I wasn't going to let him take it...
    4Ana 4Ana 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    He used to grab me a lot and tell me not to do this or that and call me names flip tables and say it was my fault 😔
    smilezlove143 smilezlove143 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I just can't seem to get him off my mind or stay away from him when I know he is no good for me.
    caramelchick caramelchick 41-45, F Mar 30

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    Married to a passive aggressive/narcissist-I have been with my husband for twenty years, married for fifteen. I use to think there was really something wrong with me. I'm 43 years...
    tmcmjc tmcmjc 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 1

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