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I Am Divorcing An Abusive Police Officer

You thought it took strength to be married to an officer? Try divorcing one. 38 People

    My Husband Is A Police Officer

    We met about seven years ago. He was already a police officer when we met. We fell in love quickly and got married six years ago. My husband is a corporal for the local police department and works shift work. When he is home, he seems disconnected and grouchy. He says it's...
    timidzero timidzero 36-40 45 Responses Jan 27, 2011

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    I Should Have Seen The Signs!!

    I wish I had followed my intuition. Not sure why I didn't. There were so many signs in the beginning. We were only together about 4 years. Married almost 2. Why the heck did I marry this man? I thought I had enough love to help him remove the hatred from his past wives...
    cherbearrr cherbearrr 46-50 May 8, 2013

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    I Survived A Divorce From A Police Officer

    I was married to a police officer for 23 years which ended in a divorce. Even my lawyer commented on how hard it would be. I survived, but he played every mind game and dirty trick and more. I feel sorry for his new woman, she doesn' know what she is letting her self in for. He...
    larky73 larky73 51-55, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2012

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    Abuse Of Power.....diane Wetendorf

    Anyone who is looking into getting help in a domestic violent relationship/marriage........PLEASE look up Diane Wetendorf on the internet.  She has her number and e-mail listed for you to contact her.  I have spoken with Diane many times and if it weren't for her, I am not so...
    one4soxfan one4soxfan 46-50 Mar 17, 2012

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    How Much More?

    Well I finally got the restraining order. It only took four tries and a year and a half. The judge told him he believes my husband has a pill problem, and is violent, and the restraining order he filed against me was a preemptive strike so the judge dismissed his. My husband's...
    atotaltrip atotaltrip 41-45, F Nov 22, 2012

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    In Need Of Finacial Help And Support In My Divorce From My Abusive Police Officer Husband

    I have been married to my husband for 20 years.  He was a police officer when we met at the local police department.  I was working in the records department.  A friend got us together.  I got pregnant after only a few months of dating but I did not expect him to marry me...
    mychipolta mychipolta 46-50 5 Responses Mar 19, 2011

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    Cant Find Help For The Abused

    I AM GOING THROUGH A DIVORCE. My estranged husband took my children. We had split up many times before and he never asked for the kids to come visit him. I thought even though him and I were not getting along that he would never hurt me like that because we both loved our...
    MHRUIZ MHRUIZ 31-35 May 30, 2012

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    I'm not exactly divorcing him

    but he is emotionally and mentally abusive. His kids have been trying to break us up for years. I think I might have hit my breaking point
    ahuken ahuken 46-50, F 1 Response May 22, 2014

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    My Husband Was A Customs Officer

    When I met him he had bullet holes in his car,a white sports coupe. I was not interested in him, so he resorted to calling me 16 times a day and stalking me. I kept seeing him everywhere I went. He would show up with flowers presents and an attitude saying " I am here you can't...
    gypsygirly gypsygirly 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 22, 2010

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    I know there are nice,

    honorable police officers out there who don't abuse their badge or cheat on their wives; sadly I wasn't married to one of them.
    saturnfish saturnfish 31-35, F May 22, 2014

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    my father is the reason for a lot of the things I do.since I was little my father told me I would be a ******** when I grew up.when I was little I didn't know what a ******** was...
    tytm tytm 13-15, F 2 hrs ago

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    once we moved in together my girlfriend gradually started disagreeing with anything that I would suggest like what to cook or cook at all or eat out, have or not have sex etc. She...
    codenamedaddy codenamedaddy 31-35, M 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    I have this friend who I know is neglected. By the time I found out, she was 16, almost 17, so I figured she could make her own choices and figure it out for herself. I hated it...
    FayetheBrilliant FayetheBrilliant 16-17, F 15 hrs ago

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    I am 42 years old and now divorced from a man who is an abusive cheat. It's been nearly 3 years since we split and I'm still struggling to come to terms with the fact I was married...
    Stargazer18 Stargazer18 41-45, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm generally sympathetic towards the majority of police officers, most are not prejudiced and genuinely want to make the world a better place to live in, even if it's a naive...
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    even after cutting off all contact, it still feels so painful. has anyone experienced this and would be willing to talk about it? its almost like PTSD
    butterfly4444 butterfly4444 22-25, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    He said he'd never hurt me. He said he loved me. He said I was beautiful. He said he wanted me, and me alone. I miss that man. I don't know why that person faded away, and I can't...
    SkyChevalier SkyChevalier 22-25, T 3 days ago

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    I'm considered a gentle/playful/loving Dom. I will hold the door open and smack your *** when you walk through.
    knightdriver knightdriver 36-40, M 3 days ago

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    At my college I have been selected as the Vice President! Looking forward to an exciting year with my college officer teammates!
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 days ago

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    Ya know all you see is the bad things about the police and no good things check these links 1. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJxeIF6BFjY 2. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v...
    Bonjovi11 Bonjovi11 13-15, M 3 days ago

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    Abuse can manifest itself in many forms. It allows the 'bully' to feel superior, when he or she is so very inferior.
    Olivia1962 Olivia1962 51-55, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    She tells me how much she loves me & she can't be without me. I'm so amazing & perfect to her...blah blah blah. Oh but I'm fat, I don't treat people well, I'm conceited, I'm...
    Fiftypercent Fiftypercent 18-21 5 days ago

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    I jut started my first year at university and I got into a relationship with a guy for 6 months and he abused me throughout. Emotionally, physically and sexually. He broke my...
    Experience780 Experience780 18-21, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    I want to escape from the reality of having flashbacks on a daily basis. I want to forget that I ever knew you. Forget that I ever dated you. You were the biggest mistake I ever...
    untamedx3heart untamedx3heart 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    They just suck .. I mean there are a few good police officers out there
    vansickle23 vansickle23 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    I been in an Abusive relationship not physically but mentally. As a guy with dyslexia, ADD, and being in special ed from my ex she would put me down. To point I believed but once I...
    LoyaltynTrust93 LoyaltynTrust93 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    Consequences and Penalties Minor infractions, like lying about a misdemeanor offense, usually results in a similar misdemeanor charge. Lying about felony offenses can result in...
    tryingagainII tryingagainII 56-60, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    my husband used to beat me in the streets
    simplygreen1 simplygreen1 26-30, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    mentally.emotionally&physically. This wasn't his first time, Nor was it His worst. I can't help but want him back. Why do I miss & Love him after ALL his LIES & BS. Why do I keep...
    LaLaNiaa LaLaNiaa 18-21, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    My dad has bipolar disorder but it runs deeper than that. He says hurtful things to me everyday. Every name you can think of. We've even got physical a couple of times. He talks...
    StarPower42 StarPower42 18-21 Jun 27

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    Just want to thank all the good police officers out there who don't get enough appreciation or pay. Thank you for all you do. ❤️
    Bluetangerine Bluetangerine 46-50, F Jun 26

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    I was in a abusive relationship 3 half years .he went to jail twice put me in hospatil mental tourched me sexualy adults me and kept me as a prisoner I was a slave to his pleasure...
    xbossfemalex xbossfemalex 26-30, F 7 Responses Jun 26

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    so yeah i have been in a super abusive relationship. more than once where i was raped 17 times, ive been hit so many times that i can't even count them and i have been kidnapped...
    Romitri657 Romitri657 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 26

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    So, the last girlfriend I had, as those of you in my circle know, messed with my head pretty bad. I hadn't spoken to her in weeks and I was starting to feel a little better. But...
    twistedAndJaded twistedAndJaded 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 26

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    I am married. My wife abuses me all the time, I have been called worthless, dumb, stupid, ugly, a *****, a hoe.... Many other things I can't say outloud. I have been burned...
    BlueEyedBeauty15 BlueEyedBeauty15 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    Abuse is not always physical, sometimes you get abused by manipulation and you get taken advantage of!
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 22

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    I don't know what to do. This is my first real relationship and it started when I was 17, I think it took a lot of time for me to figure out how deeply wrong this relationship...
    mdmrmdmr mdmrmdmr 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 22

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    If you all have the time to stop by my problem...... yes I hv bn in an abusive relationship. both physical and mental. it was traumatic. dreadful. I felt miserable. and it all...
    darkersideoflife darkersideoflife 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 22

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    i was abused by men my whole life and I'm tired of being scared, but i cant fight them alone...
    AnarchyRunner AnarchyRunner 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    Find her, protect her, spoil her, dance with her and never stop loving her or someone else will
    Hellfire66 Hellfire66 18-21, M Jun 20

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    "A week, a month, a year or ten. It wont matter how long we are apart." I felt his hand upon my face. As his thumb wipe the tear from my eye. " "when your ready babygirl, when your...
    sinistergirl sinistergirl 26-30, F Jun 19

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