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I Am Divorcing An Abusive Police Officer

You thought it took strength to be married to an officer? Try divorcing one. 36 People

    Abuse Of Power.....diane Wetendorf

    Anyone who is looking into getting help in a domestic violent relationship/marriage........PLEASE look up Diane Wetendorf on the internet.  She has her number and e-mail listed for you to contact her.  I have spoken with Diane many times and if it weren't for her, I am not so...
    one4soxfan one4soxfan 46-50 Mar 17, 2012

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    Cant Find Help For The Abused

    I AM GOING THROUGH A DIVORCE. My estranged husband took my children. We had split up many times before and he never asked for the kids to come visit him. I thought even though him and I were not getting along that he would never hurt me like that because we both loved our...
    MHRUIZ MHRUIZ 31-35 May 30, 2012

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    I Survived A Divorce From A Police Officer

    I was married to a police officer for 23 years which ended in a divorce. Even my lawyer commented on how hard it would be. I survived, but he played every mind game and dirty trick and more. I feel sorry for his new woman, she doesn' know what she is letting her self in for. He...
    larky73 larky73 51-55, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2012

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    I'm not exactly divorcing him

    but he is emotionally and mentally abusive. His kids have been trying to break us up for years. I think I might have hit my breaking point
    ahuken ahuken 46-50, F 1 Response May 22, 2014

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    I Should Have Seen The Signs!!

    I wish I had followed my intuition. Not sure why I didn't. There were so many signs in the beginning. We were only together about 4 years. Married almost 2. Why the heck did I marry this man? I thought I had enough love to help him remove the hatred from his past wives...
    cherbearrr cherbearrr 46-50 May 8, 2013

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    I know there are nice,

    honorable police officers out there who don't abuse their badge or cheat on their wives; sadly I wasn't married to one of them.
    saturnfish saturnfish 31-35, F May 22, 2014

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    In Need Of Finacial Help And Support In My Divorce From My Abusive Police Officer Husband

    I have been married to my husband for 20 years.  He was a police officer when we met at the local police department.  I was working in the records department.  A friend got us together.  I got pregnant after only a few months of dating but I did not expect him to marry me...
    mychipolta mychipolta 46-50 5 Responses Mar 19, 2011

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    My Husband Is A Police Officer

    We met about seven years ago. He was already a police officer when we met. We fell in love quickly and got married six years ago. My husband is a corporal for the local police department and works shift work. When he is home, he seems disconnected and grouchy. He says it's...
    timidzero timidzero 36-40 40 Responses Jan 27, 2011

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    How Much More?

    Well I finally got the restraining order. It only took four tries and a year and a half. The judge told him he believes my husband has a pill problem, and is violent, and the restraining order he filed against me was a preemptive strike so the judge dismissed his. My husband's...
    atotaltrip atotaltrip 41-45, F Nov 22, 2012

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    My Husband Was A Customs Officer

    When I met him he had bullet holes in his car,a white sports coupe. I was not interested in him, so he resorted to calling me 16 times a day and stalking me. I kept seeing him everywhere I went. He would show up with flowers presents and an attitude saying " I am here you can't...
    gypsygirly gypsygirly 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 22, 2010

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    I'm not In love with a police office but I like a police officer. I meet him on here. He really hot. I can't skype with him. It's annoying. I don't dislike the fact I can't skype...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I like this police officer. I can't skype with him that's annoying. He a officer and they have police rules. I meet him on here. He so handsome thou. Only if we can freaking Skype...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    fireman after being broken hearted with a police officer, a fireman came to my rescue. he was definetely better than the man in blue. he was cuter, kinder, stronger, sweeter, and...
    Angel021389vancouver Angel021389vancouver 26-30, F Feb 9

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    True story. I went to the toughest academy in the state, was the youngest in my department, and was the only full time female patrol officer in the entire county, and this was all...
    Kathrax Kathrax 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    i have finally gotten over the man in blue! it was definetely not for me. im quite happy and content. my advice for girls dont waste your time on a man that doesnt even lift a...
    Angel021389vancouver Angel021389vancouver 26-30, F Feb 9

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    now that im over this man in blue i wonder if my heart beat will stop like it did before every time i see him. i cant wait to prove to myself that i have finally gotten over him...
    Angel021389vancouver Angel021389vancouver 26-30, F Feb 9

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    rejecting men for the love of a man that will never be mine. how sad is it to like someone to the extreme that everytime someone ask me out i look at them and compare them to him...
    Angel021389vancouver Angel021389vancouver 26-30, F Feb 12

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    My ex and I parted ways almost 6 months ago. I did not realize he was abusive until it was too late. I had known him since I was 14. We started dating when I was 16 by 17 I was...
    BriDene25 BriDene25 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 15

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    So I ran away a couple days ago, and they made me come back home (they= police & family). They said they were gonna change and so far nothings changed. I am leaving when I turn 17...
    nomnommings nomnommings 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    When I was 18 I became pregrant by my boyfriend who at that time was a sweet man. We moved in together, and I found out differently. I was choked, beat, kicked, and even forced to...
    Alli6372 Alli6372 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am a 46 year old disabled mother of a just recently turned 21 year old daughter. I have raised my daughter alone 100% and have had 5 heart surgeries in that time. Out of those 5...
    tblack1 tblack1 46-50, F 5 days ago

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    Paul Iulo is a highly trained and expert Security Supervisor who works in Metropolitan Arts and Antiques in New York. He is also a Fire Guard License Holder. Here, he supervises...
    brucejhons brucejhons 31-35, M Feb 5

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    I achieved a double whammy of abusive fathers. my mother originally married an physically abusive marine. he was my ***** donor. mom must have shopped at Walmart for her next...
    ramvan ramvan 36-40, M Feb 12

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    Yeah, I was. I'm starting to realize how much this was true. It was emotionally abusive and very rarely became physical abuse. There was one time I was not giving into her demands...
    chimbie88 chimbie88 31-35, M 3 Responses Feb 4

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    My mother is slowly losing her once impressive command of language. Commonplace items are now routinely referred to as "whatitsname" or "that...you know". But two words that still...
    talkinaftermidnight talkinaftermidnight 36-40, M 6 Responses Feb 7

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    I was in an emotionally, verbally, and physically abusive relationship for nearly three years. I wrote and entire blog about what i went through, how i got out, and how i moved on...
    LifeofSchy LifeofSchy 18-21, F Feb 8

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    fattitsisjustadlut123 51-55, F why is it that every time I see every letter as a cap and there are nonsensical but abusive words in a comment it is a brand new account like the one...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Feb 8

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    My first time writing. Because I hid my problem for so many years, I became a shamed of what went on at home. Since I was young my father would constantly complain and yell at my...
    mukullama4 mukullama4 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    My husband is emotionally and mentally ad verbally abusive and has been for 14 years and I just don't have the energy to fight anymore.
    gina1970 gina1970 41-45, F Feb 13

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    So yeah I was.....how can a guy be in one you may ask.....well its damn easy when she is a complete narcissistic woman......I would wish this on my worst enemy......she gaslighted...
    huckleberrybunches huckleberrybunches 36-40, M 4 Responses Feb 15

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    I was in an abusive relationship about 4 years ago. Although that was a long time ago, the flashbacks I have from it are constant. I'm terrified that one day he's going to fulfill...
    untamedx3heart untamedx3heart 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 16

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    I'm 37, and I'm stuck in a 5 year old, horribly lonely marriage because I have a toddler and I'm unwilling to not have him with me every day. I know my husband will fight for...
    wheresmyrescueparty wheresmyrescueparty 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    I have been in an abusive relationship with someone who is paranoid and bipolar and I know its hard to get up and leave especially when they say they need help but the only help he...
    tlove22 tlove22 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    I have been in many emotionally abusive relationships, I am in one now even. I know it's me that picks them of course, I stopped believing in changing them. I can't cure them...
    beemer78 beemer78 36-40, F Feb 22

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    At the time, my best friend was my boyfriend, who became verbally and sexually abusive. No one understood how I felt. I finally had the courage the leave him and needless to say...
    peanutcups peanutcups 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Ive been in abusive relationship wen my bf hits me and calls me names , ive been telling my parents soo many times that i wanna move out to where im living right now but they cant...
    paola93 paola93 18-21, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Hey, I was in an abusive relationship for 5 years and ill tell you my story. I have two children with this man they are still very young. He physically abused me basically everyday...
    maddzt maddzt 22-25, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    If I knew any cops who go after child molesters or murderers, they'd be on my cool list. I've met hundreds of cops and hated 99% of them. They're pigs. I feel like I live in a...
    TravDog321 TravDog321 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 10

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    I should have sought out help sooner, that was my fault for staying. I emotionally, sexually, and physically abused. My mom helped me kick him out when I showed her how he hurt me...
    modestmuslimah modestmuslimah 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    People say finding love in your heart for those that have wronged you is the best way to heal. Well I think that's crap. Because watching my mom walk away with the gift she offered...
    B3rnie B3rnie 26-30, F Feb 5

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    http://youtu.be/OMOGaugKpzs Fabulous...really want to listen to it time and again...sweet...romantic... Following my every breath ...lol...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F Feb 8

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    The feeling im feeling people will never understand . . The feeling of no comfort ... The feeling of no open hands ... Or the feeling of a mother that just doesn't have a word to...
    Nayaaa Nayaaa 16-17, F Feb 8

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