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I Am Divorcing An Abusive Police Officer

You thought it took strength to be married to an officer? Try divorcing one. 34 People

    I know there are nice,

    honorable police officers out there who don't abuse their badge or cheat on their wives; sadly I wasn't married to one of them.
    saturnfish saturnfish 31-35, F May 22

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    My Husband Was A Customs Officer

    When I met him he had bullet holes in his car,a white sports coupe. I was not interested in him, so he resorted to calling me 16 times a day and stalking me. I kept seeing him everywhere I went. He would show up with flowers presents and an attitude saying " I am here you can't...
    gypsygirly gypsygirly 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 22, 2010

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    Cant Find Help For The Abused

    I AM GOING THROUGH A DIVORCE. My estranged husband took my children. We had split up many times before and he never asked for the kids to come visit him. I thought even though him and I were not getting along that he would never hurt me like that because we both loved our...
    MHRUIZ MHRUIZ 31-35 May 30, 2012

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    Abuse Of Power.....diane Wetendorf

    Anyone who is looking into getting help in a domestic violent relationship/marriage........PLEASE look up Diane Wetendorf on the internet.  She has her number and e-mail listed for you to contact her.  I have spoken with Diane many times and if it weren't for her, I am not so...
    one4soxfan one4soxfan 46-50 Mar 17, 2012

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    I Should Have Seen The Signs!!

    I wish I had followed my intuition. Not sure why I didn't. There were so many signs in the beginning. We were only together about 4 years. Married almost 2. Why the heck did I marry this man? I thought I had enough love to help him remove the hatred from his past wives...
    cherbearrr cherbearrr 46-50 May 8, 2013

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    I'm not exactly divorcing him

    but he is emotionally and mentally abusive. His kids have been trying to break us up for years. I think I might have hit my breaking point
    ahuken ahuken 46-50, F 1 Response May 22

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    I Survived A Divorce From A Police Officer

    I was married to a police officer for 23 years which ended in a divorce. Even my lawyer commented on how hard it would be. I survived, but he played every mind game and dirty trick and more. I feel sorry for his new woman, she doesn' know what she is letting her self in for. He...
    larky73 larky73 51-55, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2012

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    How Much More?

    Well I finally got the restraining order. It only took four tries and a year and a half. The judge told him he believes my husband has a pill problem, and is violent, and the restraining order he filed against me was a preemptive strike so the judge dismissed his. My husband's...
    atotaltrip atotaltrip 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2012

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    My Husband Is A Police Officer

    We met about seven years ago. He was already a police officer when we met. We fell in love quickly and got married six years ago. My husband is a corporal for the local police department and works shift work. When he is home, he seems disconnected and grouchy. He says it's...
    timidzero timidzero 36-40 35 Responses Jan 27, 2011

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    In Need Of Finacial Help And Support In My Divorce From My Abusive Police Officer Husband

    I have been married to my husband for 20 years.  He was a police officer when we met at the local police department.  I was working in the records department.  A friend got us together.  I got pregnant after only a few months of dating but I did not expect him to marry me...
    mychipolta mychipolta 46-50 5 Responses Mar 19, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    Just some advice needed. My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months (not long I know). He's always lived about an hour away so I'm used to semi-long distance but we saw...
    Hbarking87 Hbarking87 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    if anyone has and inspirations that helped shape why they want to be a police officer id be interested to hear about them mine has to be FBI agent Melvin pervis and J edgar hoover...
    greatbritain1707 greatbritain1707 16-17, M Aug 9

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    Traffic officer in Quebec, Canada
    cparker7789 cparker7789 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 24

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    Hello, my name is Diane and I am a junior at Rutgers. After the recent news concerning Mike Brown/Ferguson and police brutality, and reading about the protests occurring in NJ, I...
    deekayyy deekayyy 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Hello, my name is Diane and I am a junior at Rutgers University in New Brunswick. After the recent news concerning Mike Brown/Ferguson and police brutality, and reading about the...
    deekayyy deekayyy 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    We have been together for 10 years and married for six of them. Have twin, two and a half year olds and a four year old. My husband is a control freak and emotionally abusive. I...
    Happinessismine Happinessismine 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 1

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    i don't like being touch. in pictures, i am very aware of my distance with others. it started with narc mother and continue with abusive boyfriend. we were walking next to each...
    fien fien 26-30, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    My dad has recently gotten a lot more abusive, telling me to hang myself, making "jokes" about my self harm, hitting/kicking me and has even poured boiling oil straight from the...
    ejburne ejburne 13-15, M 10 hrs ago

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    I recently got a divorce. My ex was emotionally abusive and nothing I did made him happy. He actually wanted the divorce but for some reason still finds it necessary to be cruel...
    ktc1575 ktc1575 46-50, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I'm tired of crying all the time. I'm tired of my kids seeing me cry. I'm in a situation where I'm in a abusive relationship but he doesn't see it as such. He feels since he doesn...
    Mjkittycass1985 Mjkittycass1985 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    7.2.11 I met my ex boyfriend, "S". I thought he was so cute & funny & sweet. He lived in FL, I lived in NJ. I was only 13, & he was 14. We met online, & eventually gave each other...
    njgirll njgirll 16-17, F Jul 27

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    Had a tenant who has been in rent arrears for over a year. I have been really patient with him. Recently i sent him a notice to leave. Instead he ignored me, never contacted me had...
    AncientStar AncientStar 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 9

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    This Is Sad to Know That This World has Some Police that Do Wrong . :( These are the ones who have killed many people and have gotten away with it just because they have a uniform...
    trvstislimited trvstislimited 13-15, F Aug 10

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    I am currently married and unsure if I am in an abusive relationship or if I am just difficult to deal with. My husband has never hit me, but the things that he says to me and...
    Gonzales96 Gonzales96 18-21, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have thought about posting my story but often chicken out maybe out if fear and selfishness, but if anything I say could help another woman that is what I need and want to do...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Abusive people who take you for granted, who take advantage of you for their own pleasure.. I hate that
    Answeringyou35 Answeringyou35 18-21, F Jul 22

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    The best solution is to leave immediately at all costs. We live in an unjust world. The justice system won't protect you and if you try to take matters into your own hands you can...
    KeeWee812 KeeWee812 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    My mother has always been verbally (sometimes physically) abusive, manipulate woman. However, I don't blame her for that since she obviously has mental disorders yet she has never...
    BlindFate BlindFate 18-21, F Jul 31

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    It was never good from day one. I met him at work and he followed me around like an excited puppy begging me to give him a chance. His interest seemed too good to be true. We spent...
    Imnotdillusional Imnotdillusional 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 7

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    I do. My heart goes out to every single person who is in an abusive relationship. I urge you to get help and get out of your relationship. You deserve to be free from that, and to...
    oathtoorder oathtoorder 18-21, F Aug 10

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    nothing gets me off more than being hurt during sex. i get so excited when a man slaps me chokes me bites me and much more ep wont let me mention here.im so addicted to abusive sex...
    hurtthismilf hurtthismilf 31-35, F 7 Responses Aug 10

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    I sometimes feel I grew up without a father. And I sometimes think I would've been better off without one. Growing up, I could never understand the 'daddy's little girl concept...
    JacqtheRipper JacqtheRipper 22-25, F Aug 13

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    I has my abusive ex too many chances. The last time we recently broke up was because he was selling Xanax behind my back which I used to have a horrible drug problem with. When I...
    leaom22 leaom22 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I was in an abusive relationship 8 months ago and sadly he raped me and I am pregnant. I have no idea what I am going to do I am by myself . how am I going to explain everything to...
    CarolineGrey CarolineGrey 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    This is the hardest thing that I have ever had to admit... I haven't told anyone. Even as I write this I contemplate hitting the backspace and erasing it. I'm terrified that my...
    ParaKlio ParaKlio 41-45, F 4 days ago

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    I think that since I have been in this emotionally abusive relationship, for a couple of years, I have gotten used to the illogical statements from my husband. Tonight I am being...
    lisaandshasta123 lisaandshasta123 41-45 2 days ago

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    I'm listening to Chicago's police scanner, & it's crazy
    onedayatatime01 onedayatatime01 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Took away the car keys today.... My vehicle broke down, sold it. He got a new one so I got his old one (his prior to our marriage). Drove it for a while then demanded I pay him...
    Happinessismine Happinessismine 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 5

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    I met my ex boyfriend at a job we once both worked at & I fell in love. It was perfect, so I thought. After 6 months I moved in with him because my mom and I didn't get along...
    sagalvan1 sagalvan1 22-25, F 3 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    This is true, Ferrari, lambos, Bentley, G class mercedes and much more
    apeel apeel 26-30, M 15 hrs ago

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    We fight every morning in class, she always ******* puts me down, she makes fun of me all the time, she yells at me everytime I complain, she yells and begs me to get her way...
    RainbowPastel RainbowPastel 16-17, F 13 hrs ago

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    He would cry and I would literally wipe every tear . I would cry and get laughed at and mocked and told I sounded like a man . Why didn't he care
    leaom22 leaom22 22-25, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    GOOD NEWS I am not having an episode of depression today, and I was able to write down on a piece of paper what I would like my life to look like without my son's father. It took...
    lisaandshasta123 lisaandshasta123 41-45 6 hrs ago

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    "Man in a suitcase" 1980
    CoolDenverGirl CoolDenverGirl 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    "Shambelle"
    CoolDenverGirl CoolDenverGirl 18-21, F 53 mins ago

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    For as long as I can remember I was beat. By my mother and father. They haven't touched me for almost 2 years now, we go to family therapy and things are getting better now.
    dianeemariee dianeemariee 13-15, F Jul 22

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    He doesn't abuse me but he abuses my dog. He throws cups of water at her for no reason and slaps her and kicks her. I don't see it but I hear it and he denies it. Just now my dad...
    pikachuux pikachuux 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    Watching "I dated a psycho" makes me feel normal....
    Ag0405 Ag0405 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 22

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