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I Am Divorcing An Abusive Police Officer

You thought it took strength to be married to an officer? Try divorcing one. 36 People

    Abuse Of Power.....diane Wetendorf

    Anyone who is looking into getting help in a domestic violent relationship/marriage........PLEASE look up Diane Wetendorf on the internet.  She has her number and e-mail listed for you to contact her.  I have spoken with Diane many times and if it weren't for her, I am not so...
    one4soxfan one4soxfan 46-50 Mar 17, 2012

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    My Husband Was A Customs Officer

    When I met him he had bullet holes in his car,a white sports coupe. I was not interested in him, so he resorted to calling me 16 times a day and stalking me. I kept seeing him everywhere I went. He would show up with flowers presents and an attitude saying " I am here you can't...
    gypsygirly gypsygirly 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 22, 2010

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    How Much More?

    Well I finally got the restraining order. It only took four tries and a year and a half. The judge told him he believes my husband has a pill problem, and is violent, and the restraining order he filed against me was a preemptive strike so the judge dismissed his. My husband's...
    atotaltrip atotaltrip 41-45, F Nov 22, 2012

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    My Husband Is A Police Officer

    We met about seven years ago. He was already a police officer when we met. We fell in love quickly and got married six years ago. My husband is a corporal for the local police department and works shift work. When he is home, he seems disconnected and grouchy. He says it's...
    timidzero timidzero 36-40 40 Responses Jan 27, 2011

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    In Need Of Finacial Help And Support In My Divorce From My Abusive Police Officer Husband

    I have been married to my husband for 20 years.  He was a police officer when we met at the local police department.  I was working in the records department.  A friend got us together.  I got pregnant after only a few months of dating but I did not expect him to marry me...
    mychipolta mychipolta 46-50 5 Responses Mar 19, 2011

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    I Survived A Divorce From A Police Officer

    I was married to a police officer for 23 years which ended in a divorce. Even my lawyer commented on how hard it would be. I survived, but he played every mind game and dirty trick and more. I feel sorry for his new woman, she doesn' know what she is letting her self in for. He...
    larky73 larky73 51-55, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2012

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    I know there are nice,

    honorable police officers out there who don't abuse their badge or cheat on their wives; sadly I wasn't married to one of them.
    saturnfish saturnfish 31-35, F May 22, 2014

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    I'm not exactly divorcing him

    but he is emotionally and mentally abusive. His kids have been trying to break us up for years. I think I might have hit my breaking point
    ahuken ahuken 46-50, F 1 Response May 22, 2014

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    I Should Have Seen The Signs!!

    I wish I had followed my intuition. Not sure why I didn't. There were so many signs in the beginning. We were only together about 4 years. Married almost 2. Why the heck did I marry this man? I thought I had enough love to help him remove the hatred from his past wives...
    cherbearrr cherbearrr 46-50 May 8, 2013

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    Cant Find Help For The Abused

    I AM GOING THROUGH A DIVORCE. My estranged husband took my children. We had split up many times before and he never asked for the kids to come visit him. I thought even though him and I were not getting along that he would never hurt me like that because we both loved our...
    MHRUIZ MHRUIZ 31-35 May 30, 2012

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    Once again police in Poland is famous. As if not enough they killed 13 years old Przemek Czaja 17 years ago. Now they have another victim. Yesterday after football match...
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    Once again police in Poland is famous. As if not enough they killed 13 years old Przemek Czaja 17 years ago. Now they have another victim. Yesterday after football match between...
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    PSYCHOTICDEMON666 PSYCHOTICDEMON666 13-15, M May 3

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    My parents gave me to my grandparents when I was born, it was just easier for them. They were wonderful but my granddad died when I was 13 and Nan couldn't take care of me. I ended...
    Hurt329 Hurt329 18-21, F 1 Response May 3

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    Maybe. Is it an "abusive relationship" if it only happens when we fight? Because to me it just feels like he loses it for a second but he's not abusive.
    marinadelmonroe marinadelmonroe 18-21, F 2 Responses May 15

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    My husband use to be very abusive, he would choke me, bite me, punch me, grab me so hard he left bruises, and was also verbally abusive. It got so bad we both ended up in jail. He...
    shadaboo shadaboo 18-21, F 7 Responses May 15

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    My father drank a lot and was physically abusive to my mother and sexually abused my little sis when we were younger and would insult all of us... so me, my mother and sisters...
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    To start out I am not a perfect person. Three years ago I had an affair because of my unhappiness and poor decisions. I have been married for 16 years and with my wife for 23...
    and246 and246 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 28

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    I feel dumb. I miss my abusive ex. But he treated me like crap. If I made him the slightest mad,if I did the smallest thing to set him off, he'd disappear for weeks at a time. Now...
    amtired amtired 22-25, F 4 Responses May 1

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    Mother had a tough life, and it carried over to how she raised her own kids. She was self-centered and abusive, mentally and physically. Beatings and put downs, and never once a...
    rbulova rbulova 70+, T May 1

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    my relationship with my dog and I becoming very painful and abusive..he keeps barking at me and scratching all over my body .. i tried feeding him thinking it'll help him calm down...
    mergirl123 mergirl123 18-21, F 7 Responses May 6

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    I was in an abusive relationship for 8 years. ..and I am just now starting to recover 4 years later
    finelyhappy1029 finelyhappy1029 26-30, F May 6

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    I was in a abusive relationship for ten years all i knew were black eyes and swollen lips never wanting to wake up for you feared of what the next day would bring hide in from my...
    CDavis227 CDavis227 31-35, F 3 Responses May 6

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    Okay well I'm new here anyway I was in an abusive relationship for a year. it fuxked me up mentally and emotionally. the day I broke up with her I overdosed I'm okay though...
    meganmarie92 meganmarie92 22-25, F 2 Responses May 12

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    omg i finally did it. I left my abusive partner. it was very hard and very scary but I feel so relieved yet scared still at the same time. my breaking point was when he threatened...
    gamerchick03 gamerchick03 26-30, F 1 Response May 16

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    I don't do this but I am reaching out for support right now. I am currently walking out of a 6 yr abusive relationship. 2 of those years we have been married. I have been hurt...
    cpowers89 cpowers89 26-30, F 16 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm in film school and I felt like it was time to creatively open up about my experience... time to flush out this poison in my mind. And I'm actually really proud of how the...
    mandatehpanda mandatehpanda 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    My wife. Controlling and emotionally abusive. She has no idea either. I'm strong on the outside. But inside I'm sick of it. She doesn't even know how horrible she is because I take...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Believe it or not,yesterday abuser who is police found my new adress and suddenly came to my apartment. and...he hurt me again.... what a country i'm living in.... no mercy no...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Apr 29

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    I need a good listener who is in similar situation or has been in similar situation. If you have ever tortured or harrasmented by police even though you are innocent,nothing wrong...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 1

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    We are connected to the Internet Social media So much technology Violent protest doesn't help.... Use your macs to make a song... Use social media to send a message Create a...
    LeahLoveeU LeahLoveeU 13-15, F 1 Response May 1

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    After watching Chicago Fire I want to become a firefighter I support ems police An firefighters
    batman1a batman1a 31-35, M May 7

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    i like being the policeman of the spoiled women in the society
    cross2play cross2play 31-35 May 13

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    Level of police stupidity and cowardness is growing high... after recent murder of fan in Poland, now something from Portugal. It seems cops are too afraid to bully common mens...
    MechovPunx MechovPunx 18-21, M 1 Response May 19

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    There on educated morons and don't even actually know the laws and they try to make laws because they think they're important and basically we don't need no police they just make...
    thomwhite59 thomwhite59 51-55, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am starting the police academy in a month. I am running, lifting weights, doing push ups, sit ups and squats. Any advice?
    cosmicburst cosmicburst 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I did it. I left him. I can't believe I had the courage but enough was enough and I can't believe he let me go. I thought I would feel free but all I feel is terrified. I don't...
    janie2290 janie2290 22-25, F 3 Responses May 19

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