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I Am Divorcing An Abusive Police Officer

You thought it took strength to be married to an officer? Try divorcing one. 38 People

    I Survived A Divorce From A Police Officer

    I was married to a police officer for 23 years which ended in a divorce. Even my lawyer commented on how hard it would be. I survived, but he played every mind game and dirty trick and more. I feel sorry for his new woman, she doesn' know what she is letting her self in for. He...
    larky73 larky73 51-55, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2012

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    My Husband Is A Police Officer

    We met about seven years ago. He was already a police officer when we met. We fell in love quickly and got married six years ago. My husband is a corporal for the local police department and works shift work. When he is home, he seems disconnected and grouchy. He says it's...
    timidzero timidzero 36-40 45 Responses Jan 27, 2011

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    I know there are nice,

    honorable police officers out there who don't abuse their badge or cheat on their wives; sadly I wasn't married to one of them.
    saturnfish saturnfish 31-35, F May 22, 2014

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    Abuse Of Power.....diane Wetendorf

    Anyone who is looking into getting help in a domestic violent relationship/marriage........PLEASE look up Diane Wetendorf on the internet.  She has her number and e-mail listed for you to contact her.  I have spoken with Diane many times and if it weren't for her, I am not so...
    one4soxfan one4soxfan 46-50 Mar 17, 2012

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    My Husband Was A Customs Officer

    When I met him he had bullet holes in his car,a white sports coupe. I was not interested in him, so he resorted to calling me 16 times a day and stalking me. I kept seeing him everywhere I went. He would show up with flowers presents and an attitude saying " I am here you can't...
    gypsygirly gypsygirly 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 22, 2010

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    Cant Find Help For The Abused

    I AM GOING THROUGH A DIVORCE. My estranged husband took my children. We had split up many times before and he never asked for the kids to come visit him. I thought even though him and I were not getting along that he would never hurt me like that because we both loved our...
    MHRUIZ MHRUIZ 31-35 May 30, 2012

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    In Need Of Finacial Help And Support In My Divorce From My Abusive Police Officer Husband

    I have been married to my husband for 20 years.  He was a police officer when we met at the local police department.  I was working in the records department.  A friend got us together.  I got pregnant after only a few months of dating but I did not expect him to marry me...
    mychipolta mychipolta 46-50 5 Responses Mar 19, 2011

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    I Should Have Seen The Signs!!

    I wish I had followed my intuition. Not sure why I didn't. There were so many signs in the beginning. We were only together about 4 years. Married almost 2. Why the heck did I marry this man? I thought I had enough love to help him remove the hatred from his past wives...
    cherbearrr cherbearrr 46-50 May 8, 2013

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    How Much More?

    Well I finally got the restraining order. It only took four tries and a year and a half. The judge told him he believes my husband has a pill problem, and is violent, and the restraining order he filed against me was a preemptive strike so the judge dismissed his. My husband's...
    atotaltrip atotaltrip 41-45, F Nov 22, 2012

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    I'm not exactly divorcing him

    but he is emotionally and mentally abusive. His kids have been trying to break us up for years. I think I might have hit my breaking point
    ahuken ahuken 46-50, F 1 Response May 22, 2014

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    I read about yet another police violence. In this particular instance, it was about the UC police shooting DuBose. After reading the policer and his lawyer accounts, and watching...
    AbrahamL AbrahamL 41-45, M 17 hrs ago

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    I think the vast majority of policeman are awesome! How many would like to do their job and literally put their life at risk everyday? It's too bad that certain people push them to...
    Thia999 Thia999 56-60, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half. He moved an hour away to begin the police academy 3 months into our relationship. We had our rough moments with the...
    Levi8a Levi8a 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I need to get this out. I am home visiting family right now. I have finally come to terms that I do not have an emotional connection with my birth mother. I thought that was the...
    RoyalTeee RoyalTeee 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    I was in an emotionally abusive relationship. I got out, but he keeps contacting me and saying all these things that sound good, but I know he doesn't mean it... It is sad when you...
    ImConvinced ImConvinced 31-35, F 8 Responses 3 days ago

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    I work on Fort Myer as a MP and it's near Arlington National Cemetery. We patrol there as it's part of our jurisdiction. Someone actually called and asked if the foxes in the...
    frank0314 frank0314 22-25, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm planing on becoming a police officer (Britain) any 1 pm me tell me about it plz
    nbdash nbdash 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I've always had joy and took pleasure in helping others out, so why not be a cop since that's the best way to help out others. I'm also going to college to major in Criminal...
    MegaManX97 MegaManX97 16-17, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Throughout my life, i have encountered the police many times, but usually involving other people. I found it wrong. They just assume they know the situation without any compassion...
    ForgedFromFire ForgedFromFire 16-17, M a week ago

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    i feel like my mom is emotionally abusive. she gets mad at litterally the smalest things, and then she will cuss me out, yell at me, and make me feel like nothing. sometimes she...
    bunnycheer36 bunnycheer36 16-17, F Jul 22

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    Not necessarily abusive, I guess? My dad just "over" did the whole discipline thing. I used to be terrified of my dad, because I knew anytime he yelled at me, he'd hit me. I...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 5 Responses Jul 21

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    Soo umm I was in an abusive relationship...I couldn't get out for the longest time..I was scared to tell anybody..I finally told my best friend last week and she called the cops...
    DitzyBlonde DitzyBlonde 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I was in a relationship for 5.5 years.... Engaged and all. He broke up with me. For nothing . In the end thanks to work my best friend I got out of a abusive relationship. Don't...
    cnabri92 cnabri92 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 21

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    From July 20th, 12:00am to 3:30am I have the craziest story of how I played cat and mouse with a police officer. 12:00am I was in my room, drifting into sleep, when I got a...
    COMMA6 COMMA6 13-15, M Jul 20

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    While growing up I was verbally abused and physically abused. maybe thats why all my exs were drawn to me. they all were abusive also. One reason I fear people these days.
    Averageguy41011 Averageguy41011 41-45, M 4 Responses Jul 19

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    maybe i do as i have a twig of a police officer following me around i want to smash that ***** face in with a base ball bat. she is not doing her job i hope i can have a one on...
    Multicolour12 Multicolour12 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    My uncle is a police officer, and two years ago he had to pick me, one of my sisters and all my cousins up, but he was running late, so he broke protocol abd used his squad car. He...
    matt224 matt224 16-17, M Jul 18

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    I remember the first time I got in trouble with the cops, funny story, to me at least. My friends and I were pretty young 10-11ish I think, and there was this ***** who lives in...
    TheSturgeonGeneral TheSturgeonGeneral 18-21, M Jul 17

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    one day a cop came to my school to talk about safety and things like that and he let us all in the back of his police car and it was kinda cool
    XxmadyyXX XxmadyyXX 18-21, T Jul 17

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    I want to be a Police Officer. It's been my dream my whole life. I'm just confused because I want to be a Police Officer and I also want to join Sheriff's Explorers. What I'm...
    Jgummy123 Jgummy123 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 17

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    ChiefofEPpolice ChiefofEPpolice 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 16

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    I need help. When I was 13 I was with a 25 year old who was physically, mentally and sexually abusive. I anonymously contacted the police and he was sent to prison for drug dealing...
    ally96 ally96 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 16

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    When I was young and dumb, I once drove a VW off the side of the road , coming to rest between two trees about fifteen feet off the ground. I was drunk and lived in a small...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 16

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    For the entire month of July, I have been spending my time in Tennessee to visit my father's side of the family. I've been living inside of my father's house for the most part...
    PianoChan PianoChan 18-21, M Jul 14

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    my mother isnt abusive. however, i added this because i noticed quite a few people are having problems with abusive mothers or fathers. if you need someone to talk to or a shoulder...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 14

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    Between February 10 thru April 23 i was in an emotionally abusive relationship. Because of that one relationship I am afraid to get into another because i dont want it to happen...
    fallenone2401 fallenone2401 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    Well kinda more been stuck in the middle of them. For the past several months I have been stuck in an odd situation where I know one of my siblings was in an abusive relationship...
    Sportser Sportser 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    Hi... I think I have an Abusive Mother. My mom always gets angry at me, for the most stupid reasons; I have always felt like I am walking on eggshells around her. I just don't know...
    Littlewolf1562 Littlewolf1562 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    My sister was in a abusive relationship. She just wouldn't stay away from him. He said she loved him but he tried to kill her. I was so mad at her. I cried for weeks & just tried...
    Jessicajoyy Jessicajoyy 22-25, F Jul 13

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    I have a friend who was telling me about undesirable family member and why she has to put up with all the crap for ? My other friend comes from a family with alcoholism and mental...
    Bella70 Bella70 41-45, F Jul 13

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    It's been 11 months. Looking at it now I have come such a far way from the person I was 11 months ago but today I am ANGRY with him. He left me with so much of his debt and this...
    cloudedsky cloudedsky 26-30 5 Responses Jul 11

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    I just realized my mother is using me. She used to just call me names and yell and cuss at me, and I always new she was obsessed with her money but I never thought it would go this...
    vchavez7 vchavez7 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 11

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