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I Am Divorcing An Abusive Police Officer

You thought it took strength to be married to an officer? Try divorcing one. 39 People

    Abuse Of Power.....diane Wetendorf

    Anyone who is looking into getting help in a domestic violent relationship/marriage........PLEASE look up Diane Wetendorf on the internet.  She has her number and e-mail listed for you to contact her.  I have spoken with Diane many times and if it weren't for her, I am not so...
    one4soxfan one4soxfan 46-50 Mar 17, 2012

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    I Survived A Divorce From A Police Officer

    I was married to a police officer for 23 years which ended in a divorce. Even my lawyer commented on how hard it would be. I survived, but he played every mind game and dirty trick and more. I feel sorry for his new woman, she doesn' know what she is letting her self in for. He...
    larky73 larky73 51-55, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2012

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    Cant Find Help For The Abused

    I AM GOING THROUGH A DIVORCE. My estranged husband took my children. We had split up many times before and he never asked for the kids to come visit him. I thought even though him and I were not getting along that he would never hurt me like that because we both loved our...
    MHRUIZ MHRUIZ 31-35 May 30, 2012

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    In Need Of Finacial Help And Support In My Divorce From My Abusive Police Officer Husband

    I have been married to my husband for 20 years.  He was a police officer when we met at the local police department.  I was working in the records department.  A friend got us together.  I got pregnant after only a few months of dating but I did not expect him to marry me...
    mychipolta mychipolta 46-50 5 Responses Mar 19, 2011

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    My Husband Is A Police Officer

    We met about seven years ago. He was already a police officer when we met. We fell in love quickly and got married six years ago. My husband is a corporal for the local police department and works shift work. When he is home, he seems disconnected and grouchy. He says it's...
    timidzero timidzero 36-40 45 Responses Jan 27, 2011

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    I'm not exactly divorcing him

    but he is emotionally and mentally abusive. His kids have been trying to break us up for years. I think I might have hit my breaking point
    ahuken ahuken 51-55, F 1 Response May 22, 2014

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    I Should Have Seen The Signs!!

    I wish I had followed my intuition. Not sure why I didn't. There were so many signs in the beginning. We were only together about 4 years. Married almost 2. Why the heck did I marry this man? I thought I had enough love to help him remove the hatred from his past wives...
    cherbearrr cherbearrr 46-50 May 8, 2013

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    How Much More?

    Well I finally got the restraining order. It only took four tries and a year and a half. The judge told him he believes my husband has a pill problem, and is violent, and the restraining order he filed against me was a preemptive strike so the judge dismissed his. My husband's...
    atotaltrip atotaltrip 41-45, F Nov 22, 2012

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    My Husband Was A Customs Officer

    When I met him he had bullet holes in his car,a white sports coupe. I was not interested in him, so he resorted to calling me 16 times a day and stalking me. I kept seeing him everywhere I went. He would show up with flowers presents and an attitude saying " I am here you can't...
    gypsygirly gypsygirly 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 22, 2010

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    I know there are nice,

    honorable police officers out there who don't abuse their badge or cheat on their wives; sadly I wasn't married to one of them.
    saturnfish saturnfish 36-40, F May 22, 2014

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    Sunrise13 Sunrise13 36-40, F 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    don't skip school to go get pizza then go as street racing, then get caught having sex in the back of a truck by the officer who you know so well you can call him greg when his...
    dailyguyboyjr dailyguyboyjr 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    wife leaving me after 3 years marriage, so confused not sure what happened. Could use a friend to talk to
    SamB66 SamB66 46-50, M 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm feeling...numb, to be honest. I broke up with him, failed at going No Contact, spent two HORRIBLE months considering going back together and suffering from worse abuse than...
    womaninchains womaninchains 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Mine finally walked out on me, after I called the police over his threats to trash my travel trailer. He started out as a nice guy. He was pleasant, fun, and I really liked him...
    ToolshedCat ToolshedCat 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    When I see white police in public - I will give them the Nazi salute. Just paying my respects to Neo-Nazis in blue uniforms. (NWA) "Ice Cube will swarm on any Mother-f**ker in a...
    expandy21 expandy21 31-35 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am Afraid of him now I don't feel like me or my family is safe around him . He threatened to beat me and my family up if I laid hands on him again .. It was my birthday all I...
    ForYouIWillWait ForYouIWillWait 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    It hurts mostly everyday I still get emotional I can still picture everything that happened I can still feel her hands banging against my head. How the first month's it was just...
    Introvertedchild18 Introvertedchild18 18-21 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I dated a diagnosed psychopath. He showered me with love and affection and showed so much interest in me from the start that I was smitten. Also he was very charming and handsome...
    AnonymousKCQ AnonymousKCQ 22-25, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    Understanding why and how we let these people in our lives is the only way to break the chain of abuse. These behaviors are modeled for us by our parents and we follow suit, but...
    lexingtonjane lexingtonjane 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I am and I am so ready for it to be over with. I just pray it turns out better than I am expecting and my children adjust as well as can be expected.
    EarnMe EarnMe 41-45, F 9 Responses Jan 30

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    The father of my child is abusive And he makes everyone around us believe he's a good guy . We're not together I finally put him out but I'm scared I might take him back somebody...
    Kaseysmommy Kaseysmommy 18-21, F Jan 30

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    There's no such thing as an abusive parent "meaning" well. You're either hurting the person or you're not. Nothing more, nothing less.
    Calamityy Calamityy 22-25, M Jan 29

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    The guy I was with recently dumped me and I realized that all the significant, romantic relationships I have been in have been abusive in some form. They've either flat out abused...
    terrywill15 terrywill15 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    I've been in love for over a year with someone who is abusive. He's recently been diagnosed bipolar, which explains a lot. He has assault charges from a fight we got in a few...
    ltw1016 ltw1016 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    The hardest thing is all the different courses you have to take at college, and some of them are hands on!
    squishysaget squishysaget 18-21, M Jan 29

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    What life is it to come home to a very abusive father? What is the point of coming home when I don't want to live after he is through with his rage? When you cry yourself to sleep...
    Harper101 Harper101 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    I was vacationing in Colorado with some friends. We had just finished a week of snow skiing and decided to stop at Red Rocks on the way back to Denver airport. As we were walking...
    Fatherofthedaughter Fatherofthedaughter 51-55, M 4 Responses Jan 28

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    I've never really talked about it except to people I'm closest to, so here goes nothin. When we started dating he treated me like I was precious and gave me attention i had never...
    SnowWhite87 SnowWhite87 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 27

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    I have been through two abusive relationships, I am out now and safe. I want to tell everyone out there that no abuse is exceptable no matter if it's emotional physical or sexaul...
    chockywhockydoda chockywhockydoda 51-55, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    I'm almost out. I have an escape plan and I have support. But I'm too scared to even sleep because I know he still has a key... I just have to get through this weekend and then it...
    biscuitstiq biscuitstiq 26-30, T 6 Responses Jan 26

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    I have the twice, once my dad was being arrested and I was getting took home to my mom. the 2nd time it was me and I am only 12
    laurenplus laurenplus 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    But never arrested. Was given a ride with my girlfriend from cuz we were walking home from a reggae concert in the middle of the night. A hippie said we could sleep in his tent but...
    DoIknowmenow DoIknowmenow 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    Twice now, and I really really hope it's NEVER AGAIN
    Katy2003 Katy2003 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 26

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    Today, I had another conversation with my mom. Yes, I love her. Yes, she was there and saw (all of the abuse of me and my siblings.) Hard for her. She spends her days trying to...
    frspch frspch 51-55, F 6 Responses Jan 25

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    I Got Flowers Today..... I got flowers today... It wasn't my birthday or any other special day. We had our first argument last night, and he said a lot of cruel things that...
    legzydawlyy legzydawlyy 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 25

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    She always tells me what to do also physically and emotionally abuses me frequently. She even read my diary and from that day she started to hit me more frequently
    Agugu Agugu 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 25

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    I'm happy that I can be free now. So the first thing I did was go in my fridge & ate a big piece of red velvet cake lol. but I guess I'm okay. I have to find my confidence again...
    FreeSpirit02 FreeSpirit02 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 24

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    I support cops but I hate the corrupt, racist ones. One of the greatest people I've met is a police officer who has been working for pretty much as long as I've been around.
    Rockandrollfan Rockandrollfan 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 23

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    Not me.. But someone very close to me.. I knew there was abuse.. But yesterday was the first time he hit her.. Open hand-> face.. Like a slap.. Twice.. And pulled hair.. I told her...
    caramellacrisby caramellacrisby 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 23

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    So I'm driving to the nude beach earlier today just wearing a tank top. Loe and behold there's a random breath test up ahead, stopping and testing most of the cars. Of course, they...
    KSPerson KSPerson 46-50, M 3 Responses Jan 23

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