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I Am Experiencing A Change

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    I Have Decided To Change.

    It took me so long to make this decision even at this age of 61 yrs.I have been hanging on to my past and let current painful issues hit me real hard.THEN ENOUGH IS ENOUGH HAPPENS.Joining EP and reading sharings has been a great help.Everyday i am experiencing some changes...
    unshakable unshakable 61-65, F 24 Responses Nov 13, 2009

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    Sick of truth,assumptions

    and so called sanity.If reality is this,i would better choose lies and become insane.its inexplicable when people changes right in front of our eyes.Grown-ups are always so cactus-like creatures.Thats why i dont want to grow up.The things which were abnormal till yesterday...
    Revika Revika 13-15, F Apr 15

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    On Workers Comp!

    Can't take much more, bad enough to be injured but fighting the system is worse than the pain from my injury. I am at the end of my career, but never intended to go out this way! I loved my employer and my job. I know I can not do my job but I feel like I have to Constantly...
    Jeantalk Jeantalk 61-65 3 Responses Feb 13, 2012

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    A Good One

    When I signed up to this website I was un happy with my life. I wanted to know why I was so shy at 21 it didn't make much sense to me because I got it in my head that everyone my age was outgoing and "loud" so I went to google and it brought a link to someones story on this...
    RHSK143 RHSK143 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 15, 2011

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    Wtf?

    I don't know if it is permanent. I don't know if I am getting old, or complacent, or what. But my life, my daily feelings, my mind, all my black and twisted hate, it's changing. I've mellowed before, and that might be it again, the testosterone level in my body dropping. Or my...
    Socklord Socklord 31-35, M 8 Responses Oct 24, 2009

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    "Late night convos with the right person" No.

    Its not about the right person. Its just another late night and you're up and chatting with a random person who happens to be awake at the same time and BANG! You decide to put your heart out to that person as if you couldn't do it in daytime. And then starts another saga of...
    mishtysona mishtysona 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 5

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    12th Story-i Am Experiencing A Change.

    EP is a wonderful site.It came so timely for me.I was so engrossed in self pity and my health challenges that my depression was gettiing worse.Having no one around makes my day harder to pass.I stunbled into EP and it has change my life gradually till now.Its an eye opener to...
    unshakable unshakable 61-65, F 4 Responses Jun 6, 2010

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    Remember

    This is my new attitude: "I will do whatever my heart truly desires. No longer will I let others control my life, because this is my life, and no one elses."
    BellaFairy BellaFairy 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 15, 2011

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    Ever Since New Years....

    First let me start by stating: I'm one of those people who could spend his entire life living in his own head. I enjoy dreams, and fantasies, thinking about things that will never ever happen. Things that are so amazing and beautiful, there's no place for them in this world. I...
    TheDarkTower TheDarkTower 31-35, M 29 Responses Feb 9, 2012

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    CinderellaInWonderland CinderellaInWonderland 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 14

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    I can not change my lack of motivation as I have depression and that's super annoying
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    I've been with my kids mom for 7 years and have 2 kids,a 4 year old and a 1 year old. We had an up and down relationship because when we first started she didn't have an idea what...
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    If there's one thing in my life that's missing It's the time that I spend alone Sailing on the cool and bright clear water Lots of those friendly people And they're showing me ways...
    jml2000 jml2000 56-60, M 2 Responses Jul 28

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    I believe people can change good and bad. My ex is a great example of this. We dated all threw high school and we had a great relationship we had a lot of things in common as far...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    Well there's many things I can't change. Like I can't change who a person is, I can't change what someone believes I can't change anything about anyone honestly... I've had a...
    chooseyourpath chooseyourpath 13-15, M 3 Responses Jul 29

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    My life has changed in the last three years four years even five years. It is still changing. Last night for the first time I hit the ignore button on a call from someone I really...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    It's hard to be stuck in a place in life that you just do not want be in. And look back and beat yourself up for choices that got you there. Well. I've done this for years and...
    Ludavin Ludavin 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 14

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    Change calls for a new plan of action. You simply cannot operate in the old ways manufacturing old ideas, reproducing old habits, and maintaining current mental patterns. With...
    AquariusLife AquariusLife 26-30, F Aug 13

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    Change - All great change in America begins at the dinner table. Ronald Reagan - If you’re in a bad situation, don’t worry it’ll change. If you’re in a good situation...
    jml2000 jml2000 56-60, M 2 Responses Jul 28

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    I used to be the devil himself but I've changed. Even though I've changed I'm not no where near the person I want to be. I've hurt people emotionally and physically. I knew at...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    When I was 17 I was a very bad person. I talked back to my parents, I was very disobedient and I had 5 piercings in my right ear without parental permission, I didn't care what my...
    1993george 1993george 18-21, M Aug 6

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    When I was 17 I was a very bad person. I talked back to my parents, I was very disobedient and I had 5 piercings in my ear without parental permission, I didn't care what my...
    1993george 1993george 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 6

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    My friend Bridget and I had a dance that just ended. We were going to hang out at a mutual friend's house after so we needed to change into regular clothes from our formal dresses...
    PeaceSign69 PeaceSign69 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 13

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    I can't change my attitude. I can't change the mole on my neck. I can't change my parents divorce. I can't change a lot of things. And I'm learning that it's better to let them be...
    KaylaJackie KaylaJackie 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    I am making changes in my life, for the betterment of a new life. I shall keep this old life that I lead but I have grown tired of the routine. So I make the change where needed...
    XnOXnO XnOXnO 18-21, M Jul 30

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    I've been with my partner now for over 15 years, married for 5 years. I do love my wife, but over the years she has become so controlling and has over-ruled my decisions too many...
    PaulSm68 PaulSm68 46-50, M Aug 1

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    Excerpt from Ch. 17 of OnenessIt will take much courage, on the part of some of you who consider yourselves to have a great deal at stake, to make a radical deviation from your...
    findmeholdmeloveme findmeholdmeloveme 18-21 2 Responses Aug 1

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    I don't want people to recognize me for who I am right now. I want to make huge changes that will shock people and make them wish they stayed by my side. I'm done being treated...
    Diamondgirly Diamondgirly 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 4

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    There are only a few people who have been through what I have been through but with society today many more people will be like me. I'm going to use fake names. So heres my story...
    lifeislife99 lifeislife99 16-17, M Aug 5

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    I met someone who has change me for better and worse. She was funny and dangerous and so was a we were bad together and I mess but an some why she change me she awaken this part of...
    vertffy vertffy 16-17, F Aug 5

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    Just wanna say I used to be a cheater the. Smartened up and changed. From the point I change my life got better. I became true to myself and more confident and my lady loves me...
    rambo2828 rambo2828 26-30, M Aug 5

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    Fact: I can't change the past Option: but I can change the future You have to take your mistakes for what they were in the past and use by not making the same ones in the future...
    germany100 germany100 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    We grow older and perhaps even wiser but that wisdom just means we understand even more how much we can't change but somehow must accept. Our youthful selves tells us we can change...
    lllewyd lllewyd 56-60, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Change is something thats inevitable. I guess I should really have to believe it myself. Its something that you can't avoid no matter how hard you try to run away from it. And I...
    sayangeiram sayangeiram 22-25, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    It's so difficult to change the elements I want to change. Which is predominately finding work and meeting people I actually have a connection with. But I won't give up.
    Reallifeperson Reallifeperson 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 28

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    That one smile can change a persons outlook on the day, It can change a mood from depressed to touched, that smile can do wonders to a person who has nothing to look forward to...
    Gabbygirl123 Gabbygirl123 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    There is so much pain and suffering in the world, an we the people of free will can make a change every day with simple actions for the betterment of the world. We can change this...
    Shinesaathlove Shinesaathlove 46-50, M Jul 31

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    My username used to have my real first name in it. After finding out this site was pervert central, I didn't really like that anymore. I was ecstatic when I found I could change it...
    ShimmerSquirrels13 ShimmerSquirrels13 22-25, F Aug 1

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    I can't take back what has been done, I can't take back the words I said or the actions I did. But I'm done being depressed now, I had my time of crying and drowning myself in...
    AriaDream AriaDream 13-15, F Aug 1

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    Officially decided to ditch my pre law major and pursue something I'm passionate about and talented in. I feel free and more enlightened. Hooray for change and making (surviving...
    Cory45 Cory45 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 1

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    Regreating for all the lies which i had told just to hide one lies :( ...want to change past and change the word what i have said to others.. :'(
    Zarina23 Zarina23 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 3

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    Yes indeed I want to change some aspect of my life. My outlook on life,the person I aspire to be,the way I live my life. I am realizing some things I thought I love is harming me...
    temptedtotouch temptedtotouch 16-17, F 6 Responses Aug 4

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    I'm not gonna mention the messy break up but it changed me completely, it's not just one thing that changed either I am a completely different person than I was when I was dating...
    Franchise1107 Franchise1107 16-17, M Aug 4

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    I love how one person can change your life and he changed it for the better :) xxTemixx
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 5

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