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I Am Extremely Lonely

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    My Complicated Life

    Life sometimes is really being unfair.  But if you're going to discover more about life, you can say that it's just full of wonders.  I can still remember those days when I first told her that I love her more than as friends.  Everytime I look on her eyes I would...
    agony79 agony79 26-30, F May 4, 2010

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    So So Lonely

    I'm so lonely. I have no one to talk to. I have no friends. I feel like crying right now because I'm so lonely. I just want someone to talk to, someone to hang out with. My cousin And I used to be best friends but we barely talk anymore. And when we do she always talks about her...
    Brittnose Brittnose 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 4, 2013

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    I Am A Social Person Yet I'm Still Lonely

    I am by far the most outgoing social person in the world!!! Yet some how I'm still lonely :/ I don't know how that could happen. I've been told I'm funny, I do stand up and ppl seen to like it. They laugh very hard. I even had a person after an amateur night at a comedy club tell...
    birdman246 birdman246 26-30 3 Responses Aug 20, 2013

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    I Need Help

    im so lonley i dont want to talk, eat ,i just want to stare at the tele. i have 5 kids you would think that id have so much to do i wouldnt have time to just be a corpse. i know its nnot healthy for them but the depression has set in. i feel like a robot, breakfast, dinner, tea...
    saz33 saz33 31-35, F 8 Responses Aug 2, 2009

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    Word Forward

    "Years that I've wasted these I.O.U.'s. I meant every word forward" - Foo Fighters
    birdman246 birdman246 26-30 Aug 21, 2013

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    Tears On My Keyboard

    I have reached my end of this month long journey with my friend I can't do it anymore. My heart aches so bad right now because I really gave it my all to try to be with him. I am 43 years old and never married, I sleep every night alone and wake up alone. I use to...
    lonelycoolchick lonelycoolchick 41-45 4 Responses Aug 18, 2009

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    Tired Of The Worse

    I am 21 with two kids no friends just had a devistating break up and on top of that I am pregnant. My ex wants me to get an abortion and I hate him. All I have is my two kids he was my only friend I am just about homeless my mother is deceasec and my only friend moved away just...
    Angry123 Angry123 18-21 2 Responses May 23, 2012

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    What To Do?

    It's sunny outside but I am very wary of going out without a preset goal--food, or coffee, or books, or... I don't have much money to buy any of that stuff, and shopping around seems to be the only reason to go out, so I won't.I'm sitting here on my ***, paralyzed again by...
    Wonderatrix Wonderatrix 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 19, 2011

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    This silent and still darkness covers every

    square inch of this run down room and slowly seeps into every fiber of my being. I am left with nothing but the flashes of memories that my consciousness so wistfully provides. I fumble around to find my half empty pack of cigarettes I bought not even 2 hours ago and the lighter...
    korifrancis korifrancis 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 3

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    The Realty Of Me Being Lonley

    WHO I'VE BECOME IS UNREAL!! I AM A YOUNG 19 YEAR OLD, DANCER, DANCE TEACHER, COLLEGE STUDENT, WORK STUDY WORKER, HAPPILEY TAKEN, LIVING IN A STUPID DORM STYLL SNEEKING AROUND WITH MY BOYFRIEND JUST FOR KICKS. MAKING MY OWN $ MY OWN SUCESS, MY OWN MISTAKES!!! LOVING MY LIFE SOUND...
    Pure712 Pure712 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 11, 2012

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    I Just Wanna Cry

    I just wanna cry.  And I want to do it everyday.  If its the only way to overcome everything, I better begin doing it now.  Why would I wait for infinity if I can put an end to it?  if I could offer my tears in exchange for her own happiness and mine as well...
    agony79 agony79 26-30, F 2 Responses May 4, 2010

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    Sam

    sorry u lost your cat.id be realy upset if i lost my cat,hes 15 and his names sam.hes my baby.he comes to bed with me every nite,and sleeps up against my leg.during the day when im sitting at the table he will climb on the table and then come and sit on my sholders.he rules the...
    seb1964 seb1964 41-45, F May 5, 2010

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    I Yearn For the Little Things

    For as long as I can remember I was not the girl that the guys wanted to commit too. I had been single for the last 4 years or so. I recently started seeing a guy 14 years my junior and I have to say it was not what I expected. Not only was it not the right thing to do but it...
    lonelycoolchick lonelycoolchick 41-45 8 Responses Jul 25, 2009

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    Breaking Point

    At this point I'm so alone that the person I talk to most is my therapist who I only see an hour a week. Oh yeah, and my cats. Everyone that was in my life is so involved in their own and my family is a mess. It got so bad a few months ago I had to be admitted for self harm...
    sm22rign sm22rign 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 21, 2012

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    I Miss My Poor Little Kitty Cat!

    I had a cat aswell as my chihuahua puppy, when I lived on my old house, before I recently moved here 5months ago. We brought the puppy with us as he can stay indoors and can be walked with a lead (obviously) but we could not take the cat, as she would have been too use to living...
    TiarnaEllen TiarnaEllen 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 24, 2009

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    I'm Trying and Failing At the Same Time

    Hey Guys, Today was not a good day for me at all. Tomorrow I will have been seeing a guy I like for a month. We met via online and we talked and connected I think. He of course has some faults but I am willing to accept them and try to be supportive and express true feelings...
    lonelycoolchick lonelycoolchick 41-45 9 Responses Aug 6, 2009

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    Ive Had Enough!

    EP friends i need some advice. ive been with my partner for 6 years and he has always been affectionate, until one day 3 weeks ago he just turned round and said he didnt love me. i was devasted we have 5 kids together. so we talked and i cried and he turned into sum1 i dont know...
    saz33 saz33 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 7, 2009

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    Failed At Friendship Once Again

    Recently someone really tried hard to be my friend. No romance, just friendship. I was really wary at first, because I didn't believe her. She kept at it and eventually I gave in. We hung out a few times and really had a lot of fun. No tense moments, just lots of laughing...
    Tlacatecatl Tlacatecatl 56-60, M Jan 22, 2010

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    I Need Professional Help

    I think it's time that I seek some professional help... I have been so upset today and I've been crying so much I can't see. I so hate this part of me I hate that I started a thing with a guy this year. I have been single for a very long time and as...
    lonelycoolchick lonelycoolchick 41-45 3 Responses Aug 1, 2009

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    Its Too Much

     I really have not one person i can trust without being judged or being controlled because i am in a vunerable position. The lonliness is killing me slowly, from head to toe. 
    bubblegum84 bubblegum84 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 3, 2009

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    Sick Of Feeling

    hi, im 38 years old an probably made every mistake there is 2 make in life, its not that im stupid im just well a bit easily led i suppose an due 2 that wen i go dwn i dont do it by half ...i nose crash an burn or so my dad tells me. i had a strict up bringing an wether that led...
    pollyannah pollyannah 36-40, F Mar 7, 2012

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    Feel Ashamed Of This......

    Ever since I lost all my friends just over a year ago, I have been extremely lonely. Allow me to have a rant but I am sick of the usual platitudes of which "join a club" seems to be a frequent one. I know people mean well but until they have been in my position you can see that...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 2 Responses May 18, 2012

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    Wanderer

    I have a girlfriend... but I am lonely. She doesn't trust me and she says she loves me, but I'm afraid it is superficial. I am afraid that our relationship is in trouble. I'm afraid because it has been so long and never once have I felt loved. I'm so very lonely and I think it is...
    rand07 rand07 18-21 Jul 22, 2010

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    Some people aren't content with a large group

    of friends supporting them. Some people only need one person to accept them. I am one of those people who feel alone in a room crowded with people. All of them hurrying along with their life while you stand among them. And they swirl around you like you're a rock in the river...
    Chloe8888 Chloe8888 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 12

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    Sometimes, i lay down at night.

    In my dark, cold room. & i think about the men i've had & how they tore me in half. How everyone just wants my body, Not me. & i lay there, alone, crying, wishing i wasn't alone at that very moment
    Adaptationn Adaptationn 16-17, F 9 Responses Feb 27

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    Another Lonely Day....

    Whomever said that the 40's are the new 20's should be hunted down like the lying dog he/she is. Ha, I bet that is going to be your first response to this newest story. Last week I turned 43 and lets see if the 40's are the new 20's then my knees would not bother me when the...
    lonelycoolchick lonelycoolchick 41-45 3 Responses Jul 27, 2009

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    Lonely

      I feel really lonely at times, mainly because I find people cant meet my needs. I am a deep person and I do work in mental health so I have lots of tools as to say but inside I can be lonely. I suppose I analasy myself lots and cant just go accept things always in my life...
    amylee12 amylee12 46-50, F 3 Responses Mar 27, 2012

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    Being alone is sitting in a room full of people.

    Talking, being superficial. But being ALONE on the inside. No one can get inside the solitude you've created. No one will break your walls.
    Adaptationn Adaptationn 16-17, F Feb 20

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    Theory To The Test.

    I'm curious of putting the theory to the test.According to Buddhism, we shouldn't seek fulfillment from others... Not seek acceptance, validation, love from anyone but realize that we have everything we need already present within us.Other than sunshine, which is somewhat a...
    Wonderatrix Wonderatrix 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 12, 2011

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    me2you2me me2you2me 18-21, M Mar 29

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    Last year my girlfriend suddenly broke the relation, my parents were away from me, I live in the city alone. Feeling lonely, can't find anyone to talk, make love.
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    bblahb bblahb 22-25, M 1 hr ago

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    WARNING. EXTREMELY USELESS RANT. I need someone here for me. However, the misconception that the world has instilled into my mind (sorry if that's not the right context I'm...
    Prodigy457 Prodigy457 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 8

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    Nowadays everyone would rather have a million different fake friends than a few close ones. It's become the norm, or at least where I live. People consider me a "loner" because I...
    holdontilmay holdontilmay 18-21, F 12 Responses Mar 29

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    I am lonely, depressed and looking for hope. 10 years ago I was young, thin, beautiful, successful and strong. 9 years ago I was diagnosed with cancer. Now I am 250lbs...
    anm52309 anm52309 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    I recently lost my boyfriend of 2 and a half years, we had lived together for two of those years. I now live alone. The problem is, I have a horrible relationship with both my...
    skybutton skybutton 22-25, F Mar 29

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    I am freaking out right now. I can't take it anymore. I asked him to seriously leave. I think he finally sees how much pain I am in. But is this really what I want? I have been...
    confusedmajorly confusedmajorly 36-40, F 26 Responses Apr 3

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    I feel like no one cares anymore. My mom doesn't show up to my events and activities that are EXTREMELY important to me and my dad is more concerned about my other 2 sisters.
    TheCupcakeQueen TheCupcakeQueen 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    On this site, there are so many people feeling lonely already, that means there are much much more people feeling lonely in this world. So actually we are not lonely in feeling...
    OTIOSUM OTIOSUM 18-21, F Mar 31

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    I feel so lonely without you I lay in bed just waiting for you Wishing that you where here with me Holding me closely as I fall to sleep I feel so lonely in everything I do Cause...
    nivanvc nivanvc 36-40, M Mar 23

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    Today I came to the realisation that I don’t matter. I mean people see me and enjoy my company they compliment me. Oh I’m pretty or oh I’m funny, you’re cool they can even...
    AwkwardnessCentral AwkwardnessCentral 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    Why do so many people say they are lonely , why do people need other people to make there life happy & what is lonely ? . If something is making you lonely then change it after...
    tom1851 tom1851 46-50, M 3 Responses Mar 26

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    hi friends i am lonely and want a friend for ever hi friends i am lonely and want a friend for everhi friends i am lonely and want a friend for everhi friends i am lonely and want...
    kashish0077 kashish0077 31-35, F Apr 10

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    It's Rare that I feel this way. I try to notice my emotions. When I feel them, why, if certain people trigger it. I'm trying to notice these kinds of things so I can be happy and...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Mar 31

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    Lonely. Everyday I feel lonely. I do everything by myself and no one understands me. I don't have friends and I just feel so isolated from other people my age. I deserve to be...
    FightingForRecovery FightingForRecovery 16-17, F 14 Responses 6 days ago

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    From the day I was born, I started to drift away from other people. In the beginning I didn't have much to say, and toddlers don't tend to care what you wear as much, so social...
    TragicMonkey TragicMonkey 31-35, M 6 Responses Mar 26

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    its an unending circle. i am depressed because i am lonely and i feel i am alone because i am depressed. I can start any conversation you want online. i feel ok to be me online...
    confused623 confused623 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 26

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    I don't show it but I am lonely. People think Im weird because I don't socialize and I'm always by myself. People try to talk to me and befriend me but I just push them away. Ive...
    cat1024 cat1024 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 30

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    Actually I am not! I have my family and my friends but I still feel so lonely! I trusted a few but what happened? YES They broke my trust! Its sooooooooo difficult for me to trust...
    HariMi HariMi 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 1

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    I am lonely because I don't feel that I connect completely with anyone in my life on a mental level. I enjoy mental stimulation, and I like learning about others. I do enjoy...
    misscoffee misscoffee 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 1

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    I feel so lost and confused. Im studying architecture and i dont like it, even one bit. I want to change my course to mass comm but im afraid. Im afraid that it'll turn out the...
    Llamadelrey95 Llamadelrey95 18-21, F Apr 4

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    I don't feel lonely relationship-wise (as in I'm single but not necessarily looking for a boyfriend). I'm lonely because I feel unwanted by my "friends". I'm only close with about...
    mblo2984 mblo2984 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I thought moving away from my tiny little home town to a bigger city would be fun and exciting, but most of the time it's just lonely. I live close enough to drive home and visit...
    kinders92 kinders92 18-21, F 17 Responses Mar 19

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