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I Am F Full Time Care-giver To My Wife

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    It's My Turn , Now

    My wife took care of me for along time. During the first few years of our marriage,she took care of me. She cleaned , cooked and took care of me when i was drinking. I quit drinking along time ago. I suffered with depression and anger problems back then and still do. She stayed...
    cindyloulove cindyloulove 56-60, M 4 Responses Apr 13, 2011

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    Emma, Mom!

    Mom developed dementia/ Alzheimers one year after Dad died, they were in love every day married, she was absolutely lost without him. Us three bothers took care of he 4 hard years in a very expensive nursing home, 70K. First two years wear smooth and last two were a slow decline...
    louisprofeta50 louisprofeta50 61-65, M 4 Responses Dec 31, 2011

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