I Am Faithfully Standing By My Soldier

For Military Girlfriends, Fiancee and Wives to talk and be a support to others. Anything you want to discuss or vent about is completely welcomed !! 590 People

    Hello, my name is Kelsey

    and my boyfriend is in the United States Army. He is stationed at Ft. Bliss in Texas, while I am going to college in Ohio. I am only a freshman. Though my college is very important to me and I plan to get a degree in something, I also love my soldier and once I finish my year...
    Vianna1217 Vianna1217
    18-21, F
    Oct 8, 2014

    Sort of...Here's my story.

    I live two hours away from a military base and my guy friend introduced me to this man on base about five months ago. I immediately fell for him, not knowing he was being deployed. We texted, Skyped, and then finally met up. Everything was perfect until three days before he...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Sep 23, 2015
    effy130 effy130
    18-21, F
    Jun 10, 2014
    elliehill33 elliehill33
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 8, 2014

    I'm always asked why I date a Military Man.

    ..people always have so much crap to say when you tell them about your solider. I get the classic "oh hes prob cheating on you like all military men do, or hes a douche bag or who have you cheated on him with" As tempting as it is to blow up on them I've learned to just stand...
    Hmsurf24 Hmsurf24
    18-21, F
    Jan 27, 2014

    Navy Life

    I have been friends with this guy for several years, and a few months ago we decided to become involved. He's all the way across the US from me and I won't see him for another 3 months! Although he's extremely far away, he still finds little ways to make me feel special :) it's...
    QueenTay QueenTay
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 3, 2013

    It's been 11 days since I last heard from my

    marine I miss him!!! :( I'm not use to this right now I just hope he's just working a lot. Good morning to everyone though
    caligurl1231 caligurl1231
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 25, 2014
    LindseyMonet LindseyMonet
    22-25, F
    Dec 18, 2014

    My soldier and I have been doing much better

    lately we worked through a lot of our problems we had. I'm trying to plan a trip to go see him this summer but none of my friends want to crank out a ton of money for a plane ticket and hotel! Missing my soldier while he is out in the field this week! stay strong milso's! one...
    Hmsurf24 Hmsurf24
    18-21, F
    Feb 24, 2014

    I thought him being deployed

    and away would bring us closer and in the beginning it was but now it seems like he's starting to pull away again and I'm not liking it :(
    caligurl1231 caligurl1231
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 28, 2014

    Baked my man his favorite cookies to send to

    him. I know this will brighten his day.
    MrsMarvinWilson MrsMarvinWilson
    18-21, F
    May 26, 2015

    Here's A Little Poem For All The Army Girlfriends Out There !

    (My boyfriend put this on my FB wall so I decided to share) There's an American Girl Doing the best that she can Taking her Rank Along side her man She wears no dog tag Don't carry a military ID She gets no recognition upon the T.V She carries A badge that no other possess its...
    Leeyah59 Leeyah59
    18-21, F
    10 Responses Apr 23, 2012

    So Relieved!

    So it ended up being true. I got my wish! My boyfriend will be staying "close" to home (4 hours away) and won't be traveling half way around the world. I honestly thank God for this because it could have been bad. He's only going to be in New York at Fort Drum and I couldn't be a...
    VCA1993 VCA1993
    18-21, F
    Mar 19, 2013

    I need help dealing with him leaving.

    He leaves in one week. I need someone to talk to
    Dobermeier Dobermeier
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Mar 9, 2014

    Welcome Ladies !!

    I'm new to this whole blogging thing, so here's a little background on me and my soldier. My boyfriend is in the Army (duh!) and he's in AIT at Fort Gordon, GA. We only been dating for three months (Four, on the 25th). But I've known him since I was 14 (I'm 19 now). Everything in...
    Leeyah59 Leeyah59
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 17, 2012

    I got a letter today!

    !!!!! ☺️☺️☺️ He doing so good & I'm so happy now!!!! Love you baby!!!
    dnichholee7 dnichholee7
    18-21, F
    Mar 15, 2014

    Not Ready

    My names Kelsey and my boyfriend just recently signed up for the marines, we have been together for over a year now and he leaves in 119 days... Although I may only be 17 (18 6 days after he leaves) We have already decided to get married after he gets back from Basic... I'm...
    kelseymaggi15 kelseymaggi15
    16-17, F
    May 29, 2012

    Can anyone help me I am happy in my

    relationship we have our up and down but last night my ex email talk about he miss me and still love me want to see me I know I don't want get back with him but what should I do I still care about him but I love my man and we have two beautiful babies together
    Jamila112 Jamila112
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 9, 2014

    But I don't think he is to me.

    I met him about a month before he got deployed. I fell hard. He stopped talking to me 3 days before he deployed and then reached out and apologized once he arrived. He was a great guy when we hung out, but once he got over seas he changed. He was all sweet and then become rude...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Sep 25, 2015

    I hope my soldier knows how much I miss him.

    I went and had a bunch of pictures developed today to send to him.
    tianahull tianahull
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 27, 2014

    I Am New

    i am so proud of my boyfriend we are both 18 and have been together for a year it breaks my heart to know what he is missing he left to basic on Monday i never thought that it would be this hard. i have never been more lonely in my life. i feel like i just lost my best friend. I...
    christinaleeherrera christinaleeherrera
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 18, 2013

    I have no idea why but

    for some reason I woke up to realize that I have this huge feeling in my heart that makes me feel like I'm even more in love with my boyfriend now then I have ever was before and more than I have ever been with anyone else. I can't wait until he comes back from deployment <3...
    caligurl1231 caligurl1231
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 25, 2014

    6 Weeks And Counting!!!

    Hello lovely strong ladies! I haven't been on here for a while, mainly because I have been going sooooo well! My soldier and i are the strongest we have ever been... I got to spend a precious 2 weeks with him 3 months ago, made us both stronger, because not a thing had changed...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 24, 2012

    My parents and friends keep trying to convince

    me to leave my soilder and to date around since he is across seas and it is getting to me. I want to beable to talk to my family about the love of my life but nobody supports the relationship because to them it isn't a real relationship. We've been together for 2years and he has...
    A1Csladiie A1Csladiie
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jul 26, 2015

    I write you everyday.

    .. I miss you. Your hugs & kisses. Your smell & that smile. The words that you speak about me. I can't wait until you're home!!!!! I love you..
    dnichholee7 dnichholee7
    18-21, F
    Mar 13, 2014
    SkyeFoster SkyeFoster
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 16, 2015

    I am 18 years old and have a boyfriend that's

    in the army. He finished AIT and all his training and is now stationed in Colorado. Since he's stationed and have more responsibilities, and more freedom, I feel scared he's slipping away. We both love each other and are fully committed but I'm scared of losing him. I'm half way...
    angelbeaner angelbeaner
    18-21, F
    Feb 25, 2014

    Hi I'm a marine girlfriend

    and I was wondering what was your experience when your significant other went to MCT & MOS? Also which base were they?
    careuhambur careuhambur
    18-21, F
    Apr 14, 2015

    Waiting.

    My Boyfriend and I have been together for just over two years, and he's been gone since August. He got to come home for Christmas shortly after starting AIT, and I went to his Graduation in February. Aince August, We've spent a total of 26 days together. Which isn't very much...
    SPiFF96 SPiFF96
    16-17
    Apr 24, 2013

    I hope he knows how much I love him.

    Can't wait to hear from him!
    whileimwaiting011715 whileimwaiting011715
    22-25, F
    Jul 30, 2014

    What's Your Favorite Qoute

    Does anybody have any Quotes that they will like to share ?? List as many as you like. List some funny ones too lol :) Here's my Favorite : Missing someone gets easier everyday because even though you are one day further from the last time you saw them, you are one day closer to...
    Leeyah59 Leeyah59
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 30, 2012

    Life As I Knew It...

    I am a military girlfriend. I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year, we met whilst he was on tour in Afghanistan. We have lived, like many, most of our relationship through FaceTime, text messages, emails and calls. Thank god for modern technology is all I can say! He...
    lilypops lilypops
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jun 13, 2013

    I find that dealing with my boyfriends

    deployment has me feeling lonely at times well most times but being unfaithful is not an option👎any advice on how to deal with this
    constancelake constancelake
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 22, 2014

    I can't need him the same way I did

    when we saw each other everyday. I can't need him for a hug to get through the day, even the hard ones. I can't need him to take to when everything goes wrong. I have to need him, but for different things. Like a letter when I least expect it but need it the most. Or a secret...
    DJSoundHoff DJSoundHoff
    18-21, F
    Jul 21, 2015

    I Am A Military Girlfriend

    I am a military girlfriend. I hold no formal recognition with the powers that be I am at the bottom of the chain. I hold no Military ID card; I am not a dependent or a parent. The man I love may face unspeakable dangers and I am at the mercy of those who possess this recognition...
    Leeyah59 Leeyah59
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Apr 17, 2012

    50 days until my husband comes home.

    Counting down the days. :)
    MrsMarvinWilson MrsMarvinWilson
    18-21, F
    May 25, 2015

    The Whole "How Can You Deal With That"

    When people find out I'm dating someone in the service, I get the usual response, "OMG, I wouldn't be able to do that" or "how can you stand being away from each other so long". Well I always give a a simple answer, "I love him". We grew up together, he lived 2 houses down from...
    Jassy1211 Jassy1211
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 6, 2013

    Roll Call Ladies :)

    Just trying to get to know everyone so....... Name/Age/Branch/Location/Relationship Status Mine: Leah/19/Army/Fort Gordon/ Happily Dating
    Leeyah59 Leeyah59
    18-21, F
    21 Responses May 1, 2012
    StacieJaxx StacieJaxx
    22-25, F
    May 15, 2014

    Hey milso's my solider

    and I are having problems again and I could really use some advice from other milso's on what to do right now. I am going through a really rough time and I'm not sure what to do.
    Hmsurf24 Hmsurf24
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 5, 2014

    My soldier want to get a tattoo

    that say my names and it crazy bc it his first tattoos love my soldier
    Jamila112 Jamila112
    26-30, F
    Mar 16, 2014

    Hello everyone:) I would just like to start of

    by thanking all American and Canadian soldiers and marines and pilots who are serving and who have served in the past:) I am a military girlfriend and it is hard but I am so thankful for my boyfriend for his service:)
    KatAttack91 KatAttack91
    22-25, F
    Sep 23, 2014

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