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I Am Falling In Love With Someone I Cant Have

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    Shame On Me I Guess

    I've fallen for someone that I know I could never have.  It's my delusions of grandeur again that makes me actually believe that I could have her.  I cannot understand why I do this to myself.I'm going to stop though, I do know that.  It's pointless to fall for someone that I...
    RagingSkillet RagingSkillet 31-35, M 1 Response Feb 5, 2012

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    Having a crush on a straight guy in the grade

    above me. WHY?! He's cute tho...
    JacobTConner JacobTConner 13-15, M 2 Responses May 7

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    Stupid Girl

    He put his arm over my shoulder, and held me close. Smiled, and we laughed at the ridiculous discovery we made. Nothing mattered at that moment, but just that. That moment. What surrounded us was a blur. The only thing clear… was us. She looked over her shoulder, and saw what...
    jojichoji jojichoji 26-30 1 Response Jul 21, 2012

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    I'm scared he is hot

    and he knows I like him so he acts silly but he hangs out and talks to my other friend and I just get sad because the first I saw him I loved him.how should I be closer to him
    Houri Houri 26-30, F 1 Response May 13

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    I have been talking to this guy

    for 11 months straight, but he last four years on and off. In the 11 months we dated but we have just decided that it's easier that we don't but be or act as if we are. Also my older cousin is dating his older brother.. his older brother isn't bad but didn't go to collage and...
    lilly2136 lilly2136 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    I really like this guy from another town,

    but he says that we can not date due to us living in different towns. I have never felt more comfortable around anybody before him. So what do I do?... Do I sit back and let him get away, or do I run after him and do everything I can to make this work?
    morganne206413 morganne206413 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    maplegirl maplegirl 26-30, F Feb 5

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    Meh Story Of My Life.

    True true I don't know if I would call it love but I like her alot o____o 
    Jnrx Jnrx 18-21 4 Responses Mar 2, 2011

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    Recently, there's this girl

    that I really like. And she likes me too.. But, (there's always a but when it comes to things like this. ) she says she feels like I'm too perfect for her? Like she doesn't deserve me? What the ****?! That's like going to a restaurant and ordering this perfect plate of food...
    Lonelyniceguy1 Lonelyniceguy1 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I Think I'M Falling In Love

    I think I'm really falling for this guy. I think about him everyday, I look forward to his calls and texts and get the butterflies when he does. Being around him, I feel somewhat whole. I'm a secretive person and he knows it. He wants to know all of my secrets, but I can't tell...
    Justblendingin Justblendingin 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 7, 2013

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    I met him in early December on-line at a game

    site. We became fast friends sharing stories about our lives and families. We usually met in the early mornings always having fun enjoying one another. Things began to change when he suspected his wife (who is 12 years younger than he is) was cheating. He was so upset. All...
    Itsjustadream247 Itsjustadream247 51-55, F 4 Responses Apr 1

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    Like many can relate.

    .. I had a crush on my 9th grade english teacher. But she was someone else's girl. Lucky guy, but sometimes I wonder...
    Mojo51 Mojo51 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 9, 2013

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    In fact, Wendy his her name,

    she's physically so far from me that I can't even imagine waking up next to her... Both of us are married but we definitly have a big crush together. Physically n our souls seem just to get along so well..... This stage of mind make us weak ! ...
    erg500 erg500 46-50, M 2 Responses Jun 13

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    Happily Ever After Is A Moot Point When You Aren't Sharing It Together.

    I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for three years. Before I started dating him I was bisexual and leaning towards dating women exclusively, and had had relationships with only women. We met and fell in love and are living our happily ever after, but now someone new...
    xjustxanotherx xjustxanotherx 22-25 1 Response Dec 20, 2010

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    I really just wish she would stop giving me

    mixed signals. And that she would stop calling for my attention and stop sending me letters in my locker and hug me and touch me and making me expect just for nothing. Because I know you'll take me for granted eventually.
    blueisacoolcolor blueisacoolcolor 16-17, F Oct 8

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    I believe I am getting really strong feelings

    form someone I can't have. I know there is no way or chance for us he is the first person I think of when I get up and I dream of him every night. When we chat he know exactly what to say to make me feel so so special. If I could have one wish it would be to be with him just...
    Byebyebabe Byebyebabe 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 4

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    Why He Ignore Me???

    The guy who liked me and because of my stupidity i lost him,,, then i realized his value and now i want him back but i cant. when i messaged him from facebook he didn't replied me, i thought he would be busy but i noticed later that he was trying to ignore me, everywhere whether...
    CuteButterflyGirl CuteButterflyGirl 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 28, 2013

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    Just Why?:0

    Whyyy, damn heart? Why do you always have to complicate things? Do I not have like, a lovely boyfriend that loves me and I should be grateful? Well, I am. Thing is, I'm beginning to fall for his best friend. My best guy friend. I can't help it and don't know what to do. He likes...
    LittleMissDimples LittleMissDimples 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 18, 2012

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    I can't help it I love her!

    There I said it now what? I know she likes or liked me but I blew it and now I'm crazy for her. It's not meant to be but I can't change what I feel.
    IamaKhaleesi IamaKhaleesi 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 18

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    there is this nice young lady [silent laugh]

    footballgir1 . I had a evil sick life intill this person changed my life I wish I could meet her in real life 1 because I need friends 2 I need a better life ... [sighs] oh I wish you were here ... and yet here i am in the corner of my room crying wishing that you were here
    RAVEandWARRIORfurry RAVEandWARRIORfurry 13-15, M 2 Responses Dec 31, 2013

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    I was falling In love with a man whom I can't

    have forever. I having a relationship with a man whom wanted to be part of my life. But sad to say he will just passed by after six months. Yes, its happened that we having our love making. But we cannot show to others, we cannot express our loved because of his co.police and...
    Anjelay Anjelay 22-25, F Jul 4

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    I have a deep crush on another girl

    who I know does not feel too fond about me.
    awholenewthing awholenewthing 18-21, F 1 Response May 7

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    I have only met him once

    and it was for a short amount of time but we have recently been brought together by friends and I can feel chemistry between us I just don't know if he feels the same I haven't seen him in person in over a year but even talking over text I can feel something special is this...
    MEGH0119 MEGH0119 13-15, F Oct 13

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    i used to date a guy

    for a year till we broke last year after my parents disagreed on the r/s. we were really stable, although stuff like holding hands and all didn't happen. After we broke i was sad and confuse. Get over it was what i thought. He hated me bc i didn't tell him the reason why we...
    kellynm kellynm 13-15, F 1 Response May 7

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    He's the best friend I always wanted.

    We have everything in common and he is the sweetest most loving guy ever But he's out of my league and I think he's realized that because now we have stopped talking I can't have him because he is way too good for me
    katedavy12 katedavy12 16-17, F Jun 18

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    It sucks... I'm 15, gay,

    and the guy I've loved for 5 years now is straight, and about 67 years old. I know that he's way to old for me, but I can't help but love him. That's the longest I've ever had a friend. To top it off, I see him once a week and each time I see him, I try to suppress my feelings...
    Kyros09 Kyros09 16-17, M 3 Responses Jun 23

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    He is a boy that I met

    when I pretty much grew up with and he had a crush on me but when I moved from my mom to my dad we didn't see each other and it's just this year that I knew he loved me and now I'm falling for him but the problem is that I can't reach him . That's why I'm scared of falling in...
    Ummaperson Ummaperson 13-15, F 1 Response May 24

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    My best friend and I are typical players,

    never satisfied. We get together with girls for one night stands all the time. Or well I used to. About half a year ago we had a conversation about treating girls better and leaving that life behind us. Anyway, about a month before I joined his friends circle, he started going...
    diegosauns diegosauns 16-17, M 1 Response Jun 3

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    I fell in love with my sisters best friend

    but I know I can't have her because she is straight and a senior and I am just a freshman.
    bisexuallover15 bisexuallover15 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 12

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    Although loneliness has always been a friend of

    mine I'm leavin' my life in your hands People say I'm crazy and that I am blind Risking it all in a glance And how you got me blind is still a mystery I can't get you out of my head Don't care what is written in your history As long as you're here with me I don't care who you...
    nealbrute nealbrute 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 3

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    I just can't fall in love with him.

    .he's my best friend and he's in love with someone else...
    JalenFrankie616 JalenFrankie616 13-15, F May 7

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    A guy liked me for three months

    and asked me to be with him. I rejected him. But everyday in the past three months i was falling in love with him. When i realized it, it was too late. He has already changed and hes dating another girl now. I am in depression everyday now i donno what to do...
    missavayang missavayang 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    The person is amazing,

    and perfect. I could go on and on but I'm not gonna. I don't know what to do. They say the love me but they can't... Their in love with someone else. They drive me crazy, they always flirt and they're just perfect...
    AlexisKratina AlexisKratina 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 16

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    I feel in love with a co worker

    and seeing her on an almost daily basis is the hardest thing I have to endure. I think of nothing else but being able to pin her against the wall and kissing her. He smile is so hypnotising... God help me.
    tannush tannush 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 8

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    I can't have him because I am already in a

    relationship; and he lives 3000 miles away from me. He wrote me this poem: You are stuck within my head Without you my soul is dead I can not get you from my mind Our hearts are intertwined I will always be near, even though I'm so far I look up and hope to meet you, I...
    anonomyouslybroken anonomyouslybroken 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 18

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    Fell For A Man That Is Already Married.

    Like an Earth quake when I fell in love for this man that I later found out is already married it shook then shattered me. Why is it that when men that are so amazing, sweet and charming always happen to be married. am I blindly looking in all the wrong places? my heart melts as...
    meztly meztly 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 22, 2012

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    He's sooo amazing but I'll never have him he's

    gorgeous to me and funny and sweet and just plain amazing but other than that I'm bored someone hmu
    DannyEck9264 DannyEck9264 13-15, F Jun 23

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    I don't understand why I get sad

    when I think about her. We're friends and I have no reason to be sad I don't understand whats wrong with me lol does anybody know a psychologist xD
    CheeseBomb500 CheeseBomb500 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 15

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    Dont Know Why I Still Love Him

    I only know him on the Internet, and i am aware the danger that lays when you love someone you never actually have met, or probably never will. I was not looking for love when i came the cyber world, but love has found me . I know we are different, I am Muslim he is not, I am...
    lonesomedove80 lonesomedove80 31-35, F 7 Responses Aug 15, 2009

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    This feeling is heartbreaking.

    Well, I don't know if what i am feeling for him is love or just nearly love. Any difference? Haha I am his adviser and shoulder to lean on whenever he have problems especially if it is regarding his girl. We are facing same problem for he can't also have that girl as his partner...
    iamblue1234 iamblue1234 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    This is the story of my life ^_^ Sometimes I

    wish I was an emotionless robot XD
    Ultimatedorktroid Ultimatedorktroid 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    freesoul22 freesoul22 22-25, F May 13

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    I actually fall in love quite easy.

    But when I love someone I only love one person until she loves me and even more. Recently I keep falling for people who I haven't even seen. I don't know even why I like those people. But I know I could never have them.
    Zim0 Zim0 18-21, M 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    I been with this girl

    for 6 months then we broke up but yet I still love her and care so much about her she hates me now I broke up with her because she flirts with a lot of people this happy on 2012!! Help
    jonathanlolx jonathanlolx 16-17, M Apr 1

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    Although I speak about you

    so much Although everyone can see it I would never admit it Admit how I feel When I first met you I just thought it was a silly crush Over time it grew on me; you grew on me I found myself smiling, then I found myself thinking of you I tried not to cry, but tears still broke...
    ErenJ ErenJ 18-21, M 5 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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