I Am Falling In Love With Someone I Cant Have

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    He isn't in a relationship

    but he's in a different country. I can't imagine relocating and it wouldn't make financial sense for him to live in my country
    powerStorm powerStorm
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 31, 2015

    Twice I´ve felt in love.

    But both of those men are married and have children. Especially the last man is very sympathetic, funny, handsome and empathetic. But thank goodness I know how to hide my feelings very well because I don´t want to destroy his family. (He is married and proud father of a very...
    Loretta78 Loretta78
    36-40, F
    1 Response Nov 5, 2015

    I hate the fact that I think about this female

    all the time, and I know I can not have anything to do with her.. I Just can not get her out of my mind. She is the prettiest person at work, at least in my mind she is.. :)
    marriedguy67 marriedguy67
    46-50, M
    Jan 17, 2016

    In fact, Wendy his her name,

    she's physically so far from me that I can't even imagine waking up next to her... Both of us are married but we definitly have a big crush together. Physically n our souls seem just to get along so well..... This stage of mind make us weak ! ...
    erg500 erg500
    51-55, M
    1 Response Jun 13, 2014
    loveleej loveleej
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 19, 2016

    I fell in love with my sisters best friend

    but I know I can't have her because she is straight and a senior and I am just a freshman.
    ARos54 ARos54
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 12, 2014


    :( I know you don't know I'm gay and I love you but it hurts
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jan 1, 2016

    This is the story of my life ^_^ Sometimes I

    wish I was an emotionless robot XD
    Ultimatedorktroid Ultimatedorktroid
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 10, 2014

    If dreaming about someone,

    and your heart beats fast, sometimes feeling like its rising/flying but cant, isnt love, then i dunno what is. We were close one time and i felt this connection, and then one day, all that... Snapped. It was literally, great one day, and then - gone. We just stopped talking and...
    Emerald98 Emerald98
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 31, 2015
    IszRichardson IszRichardson
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 18, 2015

    I can't help it I love her!

    There I said it now what? I know she likes or liked me but I blew it and now I'm crazy for her. It's not meant to be but I can't change what I feel.
    IamaKhaleesi IamaKhaleesi
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 18, 2014

    Although I speak about you

    so much Although everyone can see it I would never admit it Admit how I feel When I first met you I just thought it was a silly crush Over time it grew on me; you grew on me I found myself smiling, then I found myself thinking of you I tried not to cry, but tears still broke...
    ErenJ ErenJ
    18-21, M
    5 Responses Dec 27, 2013

    You took took my breath away

    and I can't have you. You make me feel things I've never felt before and I can't have you. I'm losing sleep over you and I can't have you. I wish you knew how much I want you but I can't have you.
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Feb 3, 2015

    Should I smile because we are friends?

    Or cry because we'll never be anything more? :(
    riya101 riya101
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 6, 2015

    I fell in love with someone over Facebook

    but she is married and lives over 2000 miles away.. She defriended me for about 3 months, then out of the blue messaged me wanting to be friends again... Things are totally different between us now we hardly ever messaged each other, she says its because of attachment issues...
    jaxon38 jaxon38
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Mar 2, 2015

    I think I'm falling for him!

    so i only met him 9 months ago when i started my job, he works there too, i thought nothing of it until about 4/5 months ago where we finally had a proper full on convocation and i realised how different he is from every other guy i've talked too, i felt a connection straight...
    BarbiesAreFake BarbiesAreFake
    22-25, F
    Mar 30, 2016

    Usually happens online.

    Or with someone I can't always see. I hate it but at the same time love it. Don't take off/delete your online photos. Some may enjoy seeing them. Hehe
    Sebastian10 Sebastian10
    18-21, M
    Oct 24, 2015

    Haha I think it's like what maybe I like

    setting myself up for disaster.. Every bone in my body tells me to leave her alone but I don't understand why I just can't say goodbye I mean she doesn't even love me..
    avo3 avo3
    22-25, M
    Jan 15, 2015
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    Mar 7, 2015

    I just realized I've given up my much break two

    days in a row just to come see you. I'll probably do it again tomorrow. I'm ok with this, this torture.. I wound starve for days just sto I could look into your eyes. one. more. time. I love you Kiana.
    ClarityDawn ClarityDawn
    26-30, M
    Sep 3, 2015

    Why does this happen?

    Why does our heart have to betray all we knew?
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Aug 11, 2015

    This feeling is heartbreaking.

    Well, I don't know if what i am feeling for him is love or just nearly love. Any difference? Haha I am his adviser and shoulder to lean on whenever he have problems especially if it is regarding his girl. We are facing same problem for he can't also have that girl as his partner...
    iamblue1234 iamblue1234
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 3, 2014

    Been there, fought it,

    tried not to but it happened. Won't make that mistake again.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 5, 2016

    So i kept refreshing my inbox,

    just to see if she's online or I get any messages from her..
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 4, 2015

    I really don't want to,

    but it seems like I just can't help it anymore. Every time I convince myself that it's time to forget him, he suddenly turns up with his smile and his jokes. I know nothing good will come from it, which is what makes it even worse for me.
    The2ndLaw The2ndLaw
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 19, 2015

    just a girl.. for people she may be just a girl.

    but for me, she is the world.. she is the air.. she is my everything.. but am not her everything.. some other guy kinda has her heart.. but yeah that's the bad thing about love.. sometime it can give u everything, but that everything can hurt a lot...??
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Nov 1, 2015

    I'm in love with a lesbian

    who is also my best friend and has everything in common with me When I tried to kiss her she squirmed away, when I get flirty and touchy she says "I don't roll that way" why can't I get her to play on my team for one game??
    seabreezy seabreezy
    22-25, M
    May 14, 2015
    Sashimi21 Sashimi21
    22-25, F
    Aug 29, 2015

    Yeah that's very true!

    I can't take it>.<
    deleted deleted
    Sep 11, 2015

    I've been thinking about her again.

    seems like not a moment goes by when she isn't occupying some corner of my mind. I have this doomed love song, the one from the star wars prequels, stuck on repeat in my head, I catch myself whistling it throughout the day. The irony of the fact I'm whistling it isn't lost on...
    ClarityDawn ClarityDawn
    26-30, M
    1 Response Sep 2, 2015

    love is a wonderful feeling,

    am living the life i meant for me.thanks to dr faust a spell caster i met here..my love life is back..thanks Faust..if u are having issues in any issues of life.......thanks to him my husband came back.give him a try +447035914441
    rosemyers rosemyers
    51-55, F
    Aug 17, 2015

    Feeling in love but scared of how it's going to

    end. . . Feels too great to make myself leave him. And he loves me too much to stay away. We are slowly making plans for an unsteady future we probably won't have. It's an overwhelming doomed forbidden kind of love.
    WhoseMe WhoseMe
    22-25, F
    Sep 22, 2015
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    Mar 5, 2016

    I met him in early December on-line at a game

    site. We became fast friends sharing stories about our lives and families. We usually met in the early mornings always having fun enjoying one another. Things began to change when he suspected his wife (who is 12 years younger than he is) was cheating. He was so upset. All...
    Itsjustadream247 Itsjustadream247
    56-60, F
    4 Responses Apr 1, 2014
    anthea15 anthea15
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Sep 21, 2015

    Yet it happens again,

    I know the consequences, yet I can't help it. I can't turn off love... :(
    justinbartolome justinbartolome
    18-21, M
    Sep 20, 2015

    In love with a boy that I used to be friends

    with but I fell out with his best mate and now we don't even talk. My best friend told him last week in graphics that I like him but he just laughed. Worst thing is he dates my friend Danielle
    theoriginaldisneyprincess theoriginaldisneyprincess
    18-21, F
    Nov 4, 2015

    You just can't make it easy,

    can you? The way you know how to comfort me. The way you're calm, almost for me, when I can't be. Everything you do, a reminder. Every word that you speak, every act of compassion, every display of empathy. You ceaselessly shake the very ground that I stand upon. This silly...
    ClarityDawn ClarityDawn
    26-30, M
    1 Response Aug 31, 2015

    i think i have fall in love with you :) it is

    not important how long our distance . but i feel comfortable when i am with . i love to be who i am when i am with you . it is a short conversation . but i do love that . love every single word that came from your lips
    callmeANN3101 callmeANN3101
    26-30, F
    Sep 28, 2015

    He defended me today

    and he could have just looked out for himself but he thought of me instead.
    WhoseMe WhoseMe
    22-25, F
    Aug 31, 2015

    3 year ago, he was my first crush.

    He is a hottie in high school: handsome, smart, dynamic and a true gentleman. His class is opposite mine, so I often watched him secretly from windows ( creepy, I was such a stalker back then) I never confessed, but words spread fast, so he probably knew I had a real boyfriend...
    shygirl2506 shygirl2506
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 1, 2015

    Dear Louie I thought maybe writing a letter

    might help with whatever I'm feeling, because as we know I don't talk much. But with writing I get it all out before I even think. So I guess I will just start. I think I'm falling in love with you. I don't know how it happened or why and I have never experienced this before but...
    WhoseMe WhoseMe
    22-25, F
    Sep 1, 2015

    ok he's straight I'm gay we've met some says ago

    after texting on facebook (he needed some help with his university exams ) he asked me to have a coffee and had fun together the things is that the last days were texting a lot and in fact today we've met together again. Tomorrow gonna meet him and we ate gonna subscribe to the...
    kostas77 kostas77
    22-25, M
    1 Response Sep 24, 2015
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Dec 18, 2014

    I am falling in love with someone I can't have!

    Even though he doesn't have a girl friend I can never meet him! That person is the one and only Niall Horan! Who wouldn't love him? He is kind and selfless. He loves food. He laughs at everything. Even Harry's jokes. He plays the guitar. He is out going. I love his pride for...
    AngelsAgainstUs AngelsAgainstUs
    18-21, F
    Feb 7, 2015

    I hate this feeling. I don't want to want him

    anymore. I had a chance and I ruined it.. Now he's in love with someone else.
    Redluca Redluca
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 20, 2015

    I like my best freind

    and she is at my house and I like her a lot
    kirtypop kirtypop
    13-15, F
    1 Response Mar 6, 2016

    My heart hurts so much sometimes I feel like I

    can't breath. Then I see him again and my heart aches from beating so hard. I feel like the happiest version of myself with him.
    WhoseMe WhoseMe
    22-25, F
    Aug 26, 2015

    oh boy. not your average situation!

    when I do things, I tend to do them in spades, not teaspoons. unsurprisingly, there's a girl. I am not allowed to like her, obviously, my fiancee would kill me. But there I am, falling head over heels for her, she can't put a foot wrong, in my books. she's everything I ever...
    jahosijhs jahosijhs
    31-35, M
    1 Response Mar 6, 2016
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