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I Am Falling In Love With Someone I Cant Have

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    Shame On Me I Guess

    I've fallen for someone that I know I could never have.  It's my delusions of grandeur again that makes me actually believe that I could have her.  I cannot understand why I do this to myself.I'm going to stop though, I do know that.  It's pointless to fall for someone that I...
    RagingSkillet RagingSkillet 31-35, M 1 Response Feb 5, 2012

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    I met him in early December on-line at a game

    site. We became fast friends sharing stories about our lives and families. We usually met in the early mornings always having fun enjoying one another. Things began to change when he suspected his wife (who is 12 years younger than he is) was cheating. He was so upset. All...
    Itsjustadream247 Itsjustadream247 51-55, F 4 Responses Apr 1, 2014

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    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    I am in love with my younger friend he is cute

    but I am 22 years old but we like to message each other
    StayingStrong21 StayingStrong21 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    I really just wish she would stop giving me

    mixed signals. And that she would stop calling for my attention and stop sending me letters in my locker and hug me and touch me and making me expect just for nothing. Because I know you'll take me for granted eventually.
    blueisacoolcolor blueisacoolcolor 16-17, F Oct 8, 2014

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    True... Like my previous post.

    .. Im in love with my best friend and im only admitting it now... I thought we were only platonic but now i just realised how much i truly like him. However for him im just a little sister and he actually likes someone else who im aware of hahaha and he talks to me about her and...
    appetanc3 appetanc3 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 18, 2014

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    I don't understand why I get sad

    when I think about her. We're friends and I have no reason to be sad I don't understand whats wrong with me lol does anybody know a psychologist xD
    CheeseBomb500 CheeseBomb500 16-17, M 1 Response Oct 15, 2014

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    So i kept refreshing my inbox,

    just to see if she's online or I get any messages from her..
    JamesLindberg JamesLindberg 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 4

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    I was falling In love with a man whom I can't

    have forever. I having a relationship with a man whom wanted to be part of my life. But sad to say he will just passed by after six months. Yes, its happened that we having our love making. But we cannot show to others, we cannot express our loved because of his co.police and...
    Anjelay Anjelay 22-25, F Jul 4, 2014

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    I actually fall in love quite easy.

    But when I love someone I only love one person until she loves me and even more. Recently I keep falling for people who I haven't even seen. I don't know even why I like those people. But I know I could never have them.
    Zim0 Zim0 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 23, 2014

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    But instead of bitching maybe I should just be

    grateful that she's in my life anyway, even though she's just a friend..... The point is: I have feelings for her and I should stop denying it. I should acknowledge that loving someone is not some kind of betrayal or deadly sin. Period. I should stop beating myself up over this...
    styxc styxc 18-21, M 4 Responses Jan 15

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    I fell in love with my sisters best friend

    but I know I can't have her because she is straight and a senior and I am just a freshman.
    ARos54 ARos54 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 12, 2014

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    I been with this girl

    for 6 months then we broke up but yet I still love her and care so much about her she hates me now I broke up with her because she flirts with a lot of people this happy on 2012!! Help
    jonathanlolx jonathanlolx 18-21, M Apr 1, 2014

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    I've set myself up for heart break.

    no strings attached. sex that's it no feelings nothing. ......this is gonna be the end of me.
    ooak67 ooak67 22-25 1 Response Dec 19, 2014

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    I really don't want to,

    but it seems like I just can't help it anymore. Every time I convince myself that it's time to forget him, he suddenly turns up with his smile and his jokes. I know nothing good will come from it, which is what makes it even worse for me.
    The2ndLaw The2ndLaw 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    Having a crush on a straight guy in the grade

    above me. WHY?! He's cute tho...
    JacobTConner JacobTConner 13-15, M 1 Response May 7, 2014

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    minnieccaa minnieccaa 26-30, F Jan 19

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    To my best friend: “Meeting you was fate,

    becoming your friend was a choice, but falling in love with you I had no control over.” - Unknown. I was with you one day, and it hit me. You're more than just a friend. I like you. You're there for me when I need someone. And I'm there for you. I can tell you anything. We...
    PhilosophicalCoder13 PhilosophicalCoder13 16-17, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have only met him once

    and it was for a short amount of time but we have recently been brought together by friends and I can feel chemistry between us I just don't know if he feels the same I haven't seen him in person in over a year but even talking over text I can feel something special is this...
    MEGH0119 MEGH0119 13-15, F Oct 13, 2014

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    He is a boy that I met

    when I pretty much grew up with and he had a crush on me but when I moved from my mom to my dad we didn't see each other and it's just this year that I knew he loved me and now I'm falling for him but the problem is that I can't reach him . That's why I'm scared of falling in...
    Silentsuffer Silentsuffer 13-15, F 1 Response May 24, 2014

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    He four years younger

    and only interested in me for sex. I'm not the picture perfect girl so I'll never do. Hello heartbreak
    lehcar1977 lehcar1977 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 19, 2014

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    nialler14 nialler14 13-15, F Sep 3, 2014

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    Although loneliness has always been a friend of

    mine I'm leavin' my life in your hands People say I'm crazy and that I am blind Risking it all in a glance And how you got me blind is still a mystery I can't get you out of my head Don't care what is written in your history As long as you're here with me I don't care who you...
    nealbrute nealbrute 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 3, 2014

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    I have been talking to this guy

    for 11 months straight, but he last four years on and off. In the 11 months we dated but we have just decided that it's easier that we don't but be or act as if we are. Also my older cousin is dating his older brother.. his older brother isn't bad but didn't go to collage and...
    lilly2136 lilly2136 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 23, 2014

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    Meh Story Of My Life.

    True true I don't know if I would call it love but I like her alot o____o 
    Jnrx Jnrx 18-21 4 Responses Mar 2, 2011

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    Recently, there's this girl

    that I really like. And she likes me too.. But, (there's always a but when it comes to things like this. ) she says she feels like I'm too perfect for her? Like she doesn't deserve me? What the ****?! That's like going to a restaurant and ordering this perfect plate of food...
    Lonelyniceguy1 Lonelyniceguy1 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 22, 2014

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    The person is amazing,

    and perfect. I could go on and on but I'm not gonna. I don't know what to do. They say the love me but they can't... Their in love with someone else. They drive me crazy, they always flirt and they're just perfect...
    AlexisKratina AlexisKratina 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 16, 2014

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    Haha I think it's like what maybe I like

    setting myself up for disaster.. Every bone in my body tells me to leave her alone but I don't understand why I just can't say goodbye I mean she doesn't even love me..
    avo3 avo3 18-21, M Jan 15

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    In fact, Wendy his her name,

    she's physically so far from me that I can't even imagine waking up next to her... Both of us are married but we definitly have a big crush together. Physically n our souls seem just to get along so well..... This stage of mind make us weak ! ...
    erg500 erg500 46-50, M 2 Responses Jun 13, 2014

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    I fell in love with someone I can't have.

    But I've moved on even though sometimes I struggle, I'll never forget him. I just learn to live with it
    ElissaAcosta ElissaAcosta 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 16

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    We fell on the same place.

    Last night he texted me that for sure nwxt life we will be with each other no matter what. :)))
    nightfurydoodie nightfurydoodie 18-21, F Dec 18, 2014

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    ActuallyGrace ActuallyGrace 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 18, 2014

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    Although I speak about you

    so much Although everyone can see it I would never admit it Admit how I feel When I first met you I just thought it was a silly crush Over time it grew on me; you grew on me I found myself smiling, then I found myself thinking of you I tried not to cry, but tears still broke...
    ErenJ ErenJ 18-21, M 5 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    leanncc11 leanncc11 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 18, 2014

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    Dont Know Why I Still Love Him

    I only know him on the Internet, and i am aware the danger that lays when you love someone you never actually have met, or probably never will. I was not looking for love when i came the cyber world, but love has found me . I know we are different, I am Muslim he is not, I am...
    lonesomedove80 lonesomedove80 31-35, F 7 Responses Aug 15, 2009

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    IszRichardson IszRichardson 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 18

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    so many barriers between us.

    ..he is already in relationship... he is quiet famous in college so he don't deserve someone not bright like me. Futhermore I'm a loser compare to him so practically I'm not the right person. it sucks when u fall in love with someone that u will have chance to be with culture...
    FelixFelicity03 FelixFelicity03 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    I can't help it I love her!

    There I said it now what? I know she likes or liked me but I blew it and now I'm crazy for her. It's not meant to be but I can't change what I feel.
    IamaKhaleesi IamaKhaleesi 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 18, 2014

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    he is so sweet to me.

    but my dad wont allow us to see each other :'( it's killing me.
    christina123456098 christina123456098 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    Happily Ever After Is A Moot Point When You Aren't Sharing It Together.

    I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for three years. Before I started dating him I was bisexual and leaning towards dating women exclusively, and had had relationships with only women. We met and fell in love and are living our happily ever after, but now someone new...
    xjustxanotherx xjustxanotherx 22-25 1 Response Dec 20, 2010

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    Father23 Father23 22-25, M 2 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    This is the story of my life ^_^ Sometimes I

    wish I was an emotionless robot XD
    Ultimatedorktroid Ultimatedorktroid 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 10, 2014

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    This feeling is heartbreaking.

    Well, I don't know if what i am feeling for him is love or just nearly love. Any difference? Haha I am his adviser and shoulder to lean on whenever he have problems especially if it is regarding his girl. We are facing same problem for he can't also have that girl as his partner...
    iamblue1234 iamblue1234 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 3, 2014

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    maplegirl maplegirl 26-30, F Feb 5, 2014

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    I Think I'M Falling In Love

    I think I'm really falling for this guy. I think about him everyday, I look forward to his calls and texts and get the butterflies when he does. Being around him, I feel somewhat whole. I'm a secretive person and he knows it. He wants to know all of my secrets, but I can't tell...
    Justblendingin Justblendingin 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 7, 2013

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    Why He Ignore Me???

    The guy who liked me and because of my stupidity i lost him,,, then i realized his value and now i want him back but i cant. when i messaged him from facebook he didn't replied me, i thought he would be busy but i noticed later that he was trying to ignore me, everywhere whether...
    CuteButterflyGirl CuteButterflyGirl 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 28, 2013

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    basically.. he's my ex.

    . that I never got over.. I tried dating other people and I felt bad for wasting their time but they just..weren't him.. you know those guys who act all complex and confusing he's like that and I can't stop thinking about him. he's dating his other ex now..I don't know if I...
    blweh blweh 18-21, F Jan 15

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    there is this nice young lady [silent laugh]

    footballgir1 . I had a evil sick life intill this person changed my life I wish I could meet her in real life 1 because I need friends 2 I need a better life ... [sighs] oh I wish you were here ... and yet here i am in the corner of my room crying wishing that you were here
    RAVEandWARRIORfurry RAVEandWARRIORfurry 13-15, M 2 Responses Dec 31, 2013

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