I Am Falling In Love With Someone I Cant Have

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    Why does this happen?

    Why does our heart have to betray all we knew?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Aug 11, 2015

    I keep trying new ways to show her how much I

    love and care for her. But she still hasn't noticed. I kills me whenever she talks about her significant other. But I would rather her be happy with him than without him. He makes her really happy
    Pink808 Pink808
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 30, 2015
    marvelchic88 marvelchic88
    26-30, F
    Jul 19, 2015

    I love my best friend,

    but she likes me only as a best friend. When I tried to mention it, she said I will always be too good for her. and she said i'm afraid to lose you. im confused
    pslover89 pslover89
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Jul 18, 2015

    I have been falling in love with someone

    who can never love me back. ??
    tawless tawless
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jun 1, 2015

    I love my best friend,

    but she likes me only as a best friend. When I tried to mention it, she said I will always be too good for her. and she said i'm afraid to lose you. im confused
    designer89 designer89
    26-30, M
    May 25, 2015

    I love the same guy as my best friend.

    She doesn't know. He loves her. I could never tell her ... I need to forget him, but I don't know how. This drives me crazy...
    lulusworld lulusworld
    22-25, F
    May 25, 2015

    I've fallen in love with my brother's best

    friend but at least I won't see him this summer..
    icdta icdta
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 16, 2015

    I'm in love with a lesbian

    who is also my best friend and has everything in common with me When I tried to kiss her she squirmed away, when I get flirty and touchy she says "I don't roll that way" why can't I get her to play on my team for one game??
    seabreezy seabreezy
    22-25, M
    May 14, 2015

    Im falling in love with my friend,

    we both studied together in same class and now i met her after 12 years,for me she's the most beautiful girl on earth.But the main problem is im afraid that she might reject me i really dont know what to do i hope she accepts my proposal.But i dont know when and how to propose...
    Roadguy Roadguy
    26-30, M
    1 Response May 14, 2015

    I fell in love with some one

    who I cannot have and I have had to leave him through not faults from either of us His mother just caused so many problems I had to break things down to zero. ONE WEEK ON AND HEART BROKEN.?? I wanted to marry him to keep him safe. safe from abuse from his mother, but his...
    gallagher1969 gallagher1969
    46-50, F
    May 14, 2015
    1000yellowdaisies 1000yellowdaisies
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 15, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 7, 2015

    too late not falling fell.

    it's horrible. I hate it. he could care less doubt he has given me much of a second thought and my life, I've been throwing up on its end doing everything to distract my brain from obsessing about him but all that is really happening is my life is spiraling out of control...
    jaxpdx jaxpdx
    41-45, F
    1 Response Mar 3, 2015
    ThisGirlShania ThisGirlShania
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 3, 2015

    I fell in love with someone two years ago

    who believed in a religion I didn't believe in. He was also three years older than me. I reminisce on that time as the happiest I've ever been
    littljay littljay
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 2, 2015

    I fell in love with someone over Facebook

    but she is married and lives over 2000 miles away.. She defriended me for about 3 months, then out of the blue messaged me wanting to be friends again... Things are totally different between us now we hardly ever messaged each other, she says its because of attachment issues...
    jaxon38 jaxon38
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Mar 2, 2015

    I am falling in love with someone I can't have!

    Even though he doesn't have a girl friend I can never meet him! That person is the one and only Niall Horan! Who wouldn't love him? He is kind and selfless. He loves food. He laughs at everything. Even Harry's jokes. He plays the guitar. He is out going. I love his pride for...
    AngelsAgainstUs AngelsAgainstUs
    18-21, F
    Feb 7, 2015

    Should I smile because we are friends?

    Or cry because we'll never be anything more? :(
    riya101 riya101
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 6, 2015

    I wish you realised that I don't just have a

    small 'crush on you' as I get the impression you think that I wish you realised how much I think about you Or that the second I wake up I check to see if I have a message from you Or that I want to speak to you so badly but I feel like I bother you I wish you'd realise the...
    rosexoo rosexoo
    16-17, F
    Feb 6, 2015

    few months back i had sex

    for first time . now i fell to have sex every night
    priyanujdev priyanujdev
    26-30, M
    Feb 4, 2015

    I love you but you belong to my best friend.

    but I can't stop thinking about you.
    alexisrondan alexisrondan
    16-17, F
    Feb 3, 2015

    You took took my breath away

    and I can't have you. You make me feel things I've never felt before and I can't have you. I'm losing sleep over you and I can't have you. I wish you knew how much I want you but I can't have you.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Feb 3, 2015

    To my best friend: “Meeting you was fate,

    becoming your friend was a choice, but falling in love with you I had no control over.” - Unknown. I was with you one day, and it hit me. You're more than just a friend. I like you. You're there for me when I need someone. And I'm there for you. I can tell you anything. We...
    PhilosophicalCoder13 PhilosophicalCoder13
    18-21, M
    Jan 24, 2015

    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    minnieccaa minnieccaa
    26-30, F
    Jan 19, 2015

    I really don't want to,

    but it seems like I just can't help it anymore. Every time I convince myself that it's time to forget him, he suddenly turns up with his smile and his jokes. I know nothing good will come from it, which is what makes it even worse for me.
    The2ndLaw The2ndLaw
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 19, 2015
    IszRichardson IszRichardson
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 18, 2015

    basically.. he's my ex.

    . that I never got over.. I tried dating other people and I felt bad for wasting their time but they just..weren't him.. you know those guys who act all complex and confusing he's like that and I can't stop thinking about him. he's dating his other ex now..I don't know if I...
    blweh blweh
    18-21, F
    Jan 15, 2015

    Haha I think it's like what maybe I like

    setting myself up for disaster.. Every bone in my body tells me to leave her alone but I don't understand why I just can't say goodbye I mean she doesn't even love me..
    avo3 avo3
    22-25, M
    Jan 15, 2015

    So i kept refreshing my inbox,

    just to see if she's online or I get any messages from her..
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 4, 2015

    I am in love with my younger friend he is cute

    but I am 22 years old but we like to message each other
    StayingStrong21 StayingStrong21
    22-25, M
    Dec 29, 2014

    so many barriers between us.

    ..he is already in relationship... he is quiet famous in college so he don't deserve someone not bright like me. Futhermore I'm a loser compare to him so practically I'm not the right person. it sucks when u fall in love with someone that u will have chance to be with culture...
    FelixFelicity03 FelixFelicity03
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Dec 29, 2014

    He four years younger

    and only interested in me for sex. I'm not the picture perfect girl so I'll never do. Hello heartbreak
    lehcar1977 lehcar1977
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Dec 19, 2014

    I've set myself up for heart break.

    no strings attached. sex that's it no feelings nothing. ......this is gonna be the end of me.
    ooak67 ooak67
    22-25
    1 Response Dec 19, 2014
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Dec 18, 2014

    We fell on the same place.

    Last night he texted me that for sure nwxt life we will be with each other no matter what. :)))
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 18, 2014

    True... Like my previous post.

    .. Im in love with my best friend and im only admitting it now... I thought we were only platonic but now i just realised how much i truly like him. However for him im just a little sister and he actually likes someone else who im aware of hahaha and he talks to me about her and...
    appetanc3 appetanc3
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 18, 2014

    he is so sweet to me.

    but my dad wont allow us to see each other :'( it's killing me.
    christina123456098 christina123456098
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Dec 18, 2014
    Father23 Father23
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Dec 18, 2014

    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    leanncc11 leanncc11
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 18, 2014

    Recently, there's this girl

    that I really like. And she likes me too.. But, (there's always a but when it comes to things like this. ) she says she feels like I'm too perfect for her? Like she doesn't deserve me? What the ****?! That's like going to a restaurant and ordering this perfect plate of food...
    Lonelyniceguy1 Lonelyniceguy1
    22-25, M
    1 Response Oct 22, 2014

    I don't understand why I get sad

    when I think about her. We're friends and I have no reason to be sad I don't understand whats wrong with me lol does anybody know a psychologist xD
    CheeseBomb500 CheeseBomb500
    18-21, M
    1 Response Oct 15, 2014

    I have only met him once

    and it was for a short amount of time but we have recently been brought together by friends and I can feel chemistry between us I just don't know if he feels the same I haven't seen him in person in over a year but even talking over text I can feel something special is this...
    MEGH0119 MEGH0119
    16-17, F
    Oct 13, 2014

    I fell in love with my sisters best friend

    but I know I can't have her because she is straight and a senior and I am just a freshman.
    ARos54 ARos54
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 12, 2014

    I really just wish she would stop giving me

    mixed signals. And that she would stop calling for my attention and stop sending me letters in my locker and hug me and touch me and making me expect just for nothing. Because I know you'll take me for granted eventually.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Oct 8, 2014
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Sep 3, 2014

    The person is amazing,

    and perfect. I could go on and on but I'm not gonna. I don't know what to do. They say the love me but they can't... Their in love with someone else. They drive me crazy, they always flirt and they're just perfect...
    AlexisKratina AlexisKratina
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Aug 16, 2014

    I was falling In love with a man whom I can't

    have forever. I having a relationship with a man whom wanted to be part of my life. But sad to say he will just passed by after six months. Yes, its happened that we having our love making. But we cannot show to others, we cannot express our loved because of his co.police and...
    Anjelay Anjelay
    26-30, F
    Jul 4, 2014

    I have been talking to this guy

    for 11 months straight, but he last four years on and off. In the 11 months we dated but we have just decided that it's easier that we don't but be or act as if we are. Also my older cousin is dating his older brother.. his older brother isn't bad but didn't go to collage and...
    lilcharlotte lilcharlotte
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jun 23, 2014

    It sucks... I'm 15, gay,

    and the guy I've loved for 5 years now is straight, and about 67 years old. I know that he's way to old for me, but I can't help but love him. That's the longest I've ever had a friend. To top it off, I see him once a week and each time I see him, I try to suppress my feelings...
    Kyros09 Kyros09
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Jun 23, 2014

    He's sooo amazing but I'll never have him he's

    gorgeous to me and funny and sweet and just plain amazing but other than that I'm bored someone hmu
    DannyEck9264 DannyEck9264
    16-17, F
    Jun 23, 2014

    I can't help it I love her!

    There I said it now what? I know she likes or liked me but I blew it and now I'm crazy for her. It's not meant to be but I can't change what I feel.
    IamaKhaleesi IamaKhaleesi
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 18, 2014

    He's the best friend I always wanted.

    We have everything in common and he is the sweetest most loving guy ever But he's out of my league and I think he's realized that because now we have stopped talking I can't have him because he is way too good for me
    katedavy12 katedavy12
    18-21, F
    Jun 18, 2014

    I can't have him because I am already in a

    relationship; and he lives 3000 miles away from me. He wrote me this poem: You are stuck within my head Without you my soul is dead I can not get you from my mind Our hearts are intertwined I will always be near, even though I'm so far I look up and hope to meet you, I...
    anonomyouslybroken anonomyouslybroken
    22-25, F
    Jun 18, 2014

    In fact, Wendy his her name,

    she's physically so far from me that I can't even imagine waking up next to her... Both of us are married but we definitly have a big crush together. Physically n our souls seem just to get along so well..... This stage of mind make us weak ! ...
    erg500 erg500
    51-55, M
    1 Response Jun 13, 2014

    My best friend and I are typical players,

    never satisfied. We get together with girls for one night stands all the time. Or well I used to. About half a year ago we had a conversation about treating girls better and leaving that life behind us. Anyway, about a month before I joined his friends circle, he started going...
    diegosauns diegosauns
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jun 3, 2014

    Although loneliness has always been a friend of

    mine I'm leavin' my life in your hands People say I'm crazy and that I am blind Risking it all in a glance And how you got me blind is still a mystery I can't get you out of my head Don't care what is written in your history As long as you're here with me I don't care who you...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jun 3, 2014

    He is a boy that I met

    when I pretty much grew up with and he had a crush on me but when I moved from my mom to my dad we didn't see each other and it's just this year that I knew he loved me and now I'm falling for him but the problem is that I can't reach him . That's why I'm scared of falling in...
    Silentsuffer Silentsuffer
    16-17, F
    1 Response May 24, 2014

    I'm scared he is hot

    and he knows I like him so he acts silly but he hangs out and talks to my other friend and I just get sad because the first I saw him I loved him.how should I be closer to him
    Somotha Somotha
    26-30, F
    May 13, 2014
    freesoul22 freesoul22
    22-25, F
    May 13, 2014
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