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I Am Fat and Hate Myself

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    Fat Because My Parent Is Fat? - Do you look at your overweight parent and think, "that's going to me someday?" Or, is your mom super-thin and makes you feel bad about your weight...
    janesmith12 janesmith12 36-40, F Apr 24, 2013

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    Fatalicious - where do i begin...i feel like life of a big woman is far more difficult then anything in this world. we always have to put ourselves out there and prove to the world...
    badness911 badness911 26-30, F 8 Responses Jan 13, 2013

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    Eew, Why Am I Doing This? - i am so disgusted with myself! I let myself go. I eat just because i can. Today i consumed 4000 calories. It makes me wince thinking about it. I am...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 15, 2011

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    My Name Should Be Fat Girl - Hello everyone my name should be fat girl. I am so fat that i cant stand to look at myself in the mirror. I wish God had made me thin thin I would be...
    thealoneone39 thealoneone39 36-40, M 8 Responses Apr 30, 2009

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    I Am Afraid My Weight Will Cause Me Never To Have A Boyfriend And Get In The Way Of My Success - I originate from a country where everyone is skinny. This is no exaggeration...
    hayliegreen hayliegreen 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 22, 2010

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    Talking about how fat I am and the diet I'm gonna try.... While eating Oreos....
    SummerLove13 SummerLove13 16-17, F Dec 22, 2013

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    Faaattt - okaay soo im 5'3ft and 8.6 stone.. i hate my body :/ it makes me feel sick :S i was always friends with skinny people, they never slagged me but i always felt fat...
    lovelybones2223 lovelybones2223 13-15, F 2 Responses May 21, 2012

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    So Over Being Overweight - Hello all,Im struggling so bad cause im fat. I try dieting and exercise and i fail constantly and i wanna just give up! I have had ppl tease me my entire...
    braxsmamma braxsmamma 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 26, 2012

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    I Tired Of Starting Over - I've been trying to lose weight and I can't seem to stick to it.I eat and eat and eat.I think I have a problem.Why do I eat when I'm not hungry? I don't...
    Jesshp31 Jesshp31 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 22, 2013

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    Sick Of Being So Disgusting - I'm 5''8 and 179lbs and I couldn't hate myself more. I've suffered with food for years and I'm 16. Since I was 12 I've been bulimic and for 3 years...
    hanabell11 hanabell11 18-21 Mar 28, 2013

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    Hopeless...? - i'll be 35 on wednesday and i've been 60 pounds overweight for the past 5  years after having to take effexor for mood swings and panic attacks. i have two...
    Cristina74 Cristina74 31-35, F 7 Responses May 3, 2009

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    Motto Fatty - My boyfriend calls me "motto" or "motti" and it makes me feel really insecure. These are Punjabi/Hindi words for fat which have recently become my nicknames. He calls...
    LeMadCat LeMadCat 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    Painful Numbness - I've been fat since I was about 11 or so but I told myself that I was fine with it. I've never been one of those people that attract guys so I'm use to that but...
    fatcorpse fatcorpse 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 22, 2013

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    The Fattest Ballerina You'll Ever Meet - I'm 5'2" and 115 lbs. I've never hated myself more in my life. I'm ashamed of my weight and my body.
    saoirsespointe saoirsespointe 13-15 1 Response Aug 14, 2013

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    Looking For Love - Fattie - I am 86 year old. I weight 642 pounds but I am anorexics. Plus I am the bulimic. I love chicken fried rice. I love watching Yugio. I have almost all of...
    fattyasian fattyasian 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 6, 2013

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    Why Cant I Just Be Happy To Be Me - I am 5ft 160lbs i hate myself i hate everything about myself im bigger than everyone i see well thats how i feel i feel like i never look good...
    anastasiaperkins1995333 anastasiaperkins1995333 18-21 2 Responses May 4, 2013

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    I am hoping to find some relief in venting about my personal war on fat. I feel a bit narcissistic posting about vanity, but it goes deeper than my exterior appearance. My self...
    peacockskeleton peacockskeleton 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I Hate My Life - I'm 13 and i'm fat. I don;t know really when i became fat, i guess i always was. but when i got into middle school it got worse. I always feel not good enough and...
    sarahforsyer sarahforsyer 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 1, 2012

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    Done With Fat - my husband told me last night that he isn't physically attracted to me. i'm fat and i have no idea what to do about it. this morning i ran until i threw up my half...
    PurpleLady23 PurpleLady23 18-21, F 9 Responses May 2, 2012

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    Lately - iv'e been having self harming problems for going on 2 years now. i'm only 14 but i feel like i have no choice but to do it. i'm constantly called fat or a dirty **** etc...
    nonameqwertyuiop nonameqwertyuiop 18-21 1 Response Nov 8, 2013

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    This Is Why I Hate Myself -   Most people will never understand what it’s really like for someone who carries extra weight around with them their whole lives. I am...
    nomorefatty nomorefatty 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 24, 2009

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    Cant Stop The Tears - i have just found this site...... i ti am as desperate as others on here, i am 42 and 175lbs but i feel like a freak. i haver to buy clothes 16 on the top...
    fattiefattie fattiefattie 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 6, 2009

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    Pffft Please!! - You are not fat! You say you are 5'1 and weigh 150 lb im 5'3 and weigh 206 lb
    JustFloating JustFloating 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 3, 2013

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    I Am So Fat - i am so fat i want to kill myself, all my class mates tell me that i am fat and that i have do cut my fat off to be pretty, i am so fat that i almost cant see my abs...
    fatso123321 fatso123321 18-21 2 Responses May 31, 2011

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    I ate so much today, I wanna kill myself.
    missfatpants missfatpants 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 12

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    16&298 - hate my life. i eat well, not a lot, & i exercise. no matter what i do i can never lose weight. i either stay the same or gain more. im hopeless and i wanna die. i...
    fmlyupp1997 fmlyupp1997 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 17, 2013

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    I'M Kinda Fat... And Hate My Chubbyness! :( - I've added a few extra pounds and I'm what some may consider a little thick, but I still have a small frame and I'm hating the extra...
    EsaNenaMala EsaNenaMala 26-30, F 7 Responses Feb 22, 2013

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    Cheerleading - Im currently a high school cheerleader. I am always around super skinny girls. You know, the ones who wear jean size zero. I know they dont make fun of me or...
    itsmedani itsmedani 16-17 1 Response Jul 18, 2013

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    They Made Me Hate Myself - I was a little overweight and ok with it. until my family started taunting me on how fat i was. especially my dad. i would get so mad and purposely stuff...
    raysHVG raysHVG 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 30, 2013

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    I Hate My Fat Body - i am on medication that is making me put on weight i hate myself for taking them wish i had the strenght to but them in the bin and suffer i go to the gym i...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 10, 2011

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    TRYING to End My Circle of Self-loathing - I have struggled with my weight my whole life.. and frankly I don't remember a time where I was ever TRULY happy with my body. I first...
    ButterflyKisses ButterflyKisses 21-25, F 4 Responses Mar 2, 2008

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    Fat.com - Due to the numerous times and words that have been thrown at me by people im actually considering to ask oxford to make a special dictionary for curse words to fat people...
    badness911 badness911 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 14, 2013

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    I Gained 45 Pounds... - im twenty years old and i weigh aprox. 180 lbs. i hate it. it makes me so self consious that i dont even want to go out into public anymore. i hate that...
    trustme6660 trustme6660 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 26, 2009

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    Im Fat And Im Tired Of That - im 16 years old and my weigh is 77,all my friends are thin and small but im big i think of it everyday its getting me . i lost my confidence.every...
    neginsh neginsh 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    Fatty Asian - I am 4"1 and I weigh 79 pounds. I am the fattiest asian in my whole world (family). Please help. My doctors tell me to eat. SO I DO! And I just keep getting fattier...
    fattyasian fattyasian 31-35, F Nov 6, 2013

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    Advocare 24 Day Challenge(Its Time For A Change!) - My name is Alan, and I have witnessed many people around me struggled to lose weight and stay in shape. Many good friends of...
    AdvocareAlanP7 AdvocareAlanP7 22-25, M Sep 4, 2013

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    Will It Ever Change? - I have never really wrote much about how i hate myself, I try to look positive for everyone else. Now I can't take it anymore. I see myself in the mirror...
    TheRainbowBitMe TheRainbowBitMe 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 10, 2010

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    I Relate. - It's 4 am where I am Right now and I can't seem to pass out, I typed into google "I hate myself because" and sure enough "I'm fat" came up which led me here. I'm so...
    Lolalamb Lolalamb 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 14, 2013

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    The Occasional Morning... - ...I get up a little early, feeling the sun's heat lightly on my face through the window next to my bed. I get out of bed, stand up, and stretch. I feel...
    sub4subsandwich sub4subsandwich 16-17, M Jul 8, 2013

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    I'M So Sad - ok so.....I'm 28 yrs old and am 5"2 and weigh 225 pounds ya,I know I'm fat! my life has been a roller coster. I got pregnant with my first child at the age of 17 and I...
    MayraEliza MayraEliza 26-30, F 2 Responses May 8, 2013

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    I Feel So Ugly - I am 22, 5ft 9 and weigh 252lbs. It's never really bothered me before but being single for 2 years now i'm thinking is it my weight? Plus i have two young kids, i...
    Whybepretty Whybepretty 22-25 2 Responses Jan 7, 2013

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    I used to be small until i got married at 19 now i cant stand to look in the mirror have my photo taken or even go out anywhere unless i really have to. I'm 22 years old no kids...
    YoungByAgeOldFromExperience YoungByAgeOldFromExperience 22-25 3 Responses Jan 31

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    16 Years Of Hell - Hi! When I was 12 I was a passenger in a really bad car accident where I nearly died. My neck was broken and my teeth were uprooted in my mouth. My jaw was...
    pinkmilk3 pinkmilk3 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 15, 2013

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    I Hate Myself. If Only I Could Cut Out All Of The Fat In My Body I Would Be Really Glad To Do It. - I hate myself. I miss highschool. I was really vain back then. I dont actually...
    purplesprinkles purplesprinkles 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 21, 2013

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    I Am Getting Fatter But Dontvknow Why.. - a couple mos. ago I only weighed 128 I'm 5'2. I was comfy then. recently diagnosed bipolar. Invthe last co. months I have gained 11 lbs. I...
    Swingle4 Swingle4 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 2, 2013

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    A Lifelong Battle. - I started noticing I was getting heavier than other kids my age when I was in fourth grade. It did not really bother me then because I was so young. When I was...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Nov 24, 2008

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    Midnight Self Hatred - I'm fat, a size 26/28. And I lay in bed at night hating myself. I'm a helpless romantic and I feel that because of my weight I will be alone forever. I blame...
    fateblitz fateblitz 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 30, 2012

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    Lifelong Struggle - I've never posted here, but I just feel like you guys will get it.  I have never been able to talk to anyone about being fat, and the true self-loathing I...
    poes poes 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 17, 2009

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    I Don't Know What To Do Anymore... - I've always been overweight. There was never ever a time in my life where I can say, "Wow look how skinny I was there." I recently had lap-band...
    unfortunatelyblondie unfortunatelyblondie 18-21 6 Responses Jan 9, 2012

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    cutekittycat cutekittycat 13-15, F 5 Responses Mar 27

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    I'm so ******* fat I'm like a balloon I hate myself so much I seriously have jiggle every where and I wish I could just lose the weight already 😖
    picKLe47 picKLe47 18-21, F Apr 4