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I Am Fed Up With Being Told Whats Good For Me

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    No More !!!!!

     Ok that's it I have had enough ..... no more ....No more dumbing down of our brain function , soon we wont have to think at all just be told by the creators of the global nanny state whats good for us and whats bad example..... Label spotted today "...
    salar1 salar1 51-55, M 14 Responses Mar 23, 2009

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    I'm Sick Of Others Telling Me What To Like Etc

    like to begin with .... I NEVER WANTED TO SLEEP WITH KEN.... rick kept telling me I should just get laid with just anyone and I didn't want that, katy tried to line me up with a few weirdos and so did Joyce ... one night this old guy of 60 Joyce knew was asking me a lot of...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Mar 11, 2012

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    "It's For Your Own Good"

    Yeah, right..... Sometimes it's for my "own good" to make the mistake. Don't you think? So how about getting off your high horse & stop assuming you know anything about me or what's good for me? K, thanks!
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 23, 2009

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    In Search of Roots .....

    I was drawn to Belfast Northern Ireland. A child born in the famine years set  across the water to Glasgow my great great Grand father no less a trail not easily followed by myself some one hundred and fifty one years later . In keeping with my nature I did exactly...
    salar1 salar1 51-55, M 11 Responses Jun 6, 2009

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    All my life all I heard from family is 'We are

    only doing what we do for you is for your own good!' I never had any control over my money, my life, and that they always screwed any jobs I got, they always said it was for my own good... 'bullshit' I said, so that's why I left and cut them off for ever
    theghostofsabotage theghostofsabotage 22-25, M Nov 27, 2014

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    YES I Am

    i am fed up with being told what to eat what to drink how much i should drink for my size and sex how many vegetables i have to eat five a day..i am rebelling and tonight im gonna eat chocolate drink wine and sing at the top of my voice. Just because i can!.
    thehippy thehippy 41-45, F 9 Responses Jun 9, 2009

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    You Know, I Can Think For Myself...

    Sigh, I'm tired of having others assuming that I'm mentally incapable of making my own decisions. I'm twenty-two-years-old, an adult, who's more than capable of making my own decisions. I'm not going to do something just to appease someone else. No way. That's not how I roll.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 26, 2011

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    Disabled Cant Win

    because i am disabled i use a disabled scooter , if i ride it on the road i get abuse from passing motors if i drive it on the foot path i get abuse from people. i went into a super market shopping was stopped at the milk counter when the stores own scooter hit me from the...
    auntfanny auntfanny 61-65, F 3 Responses Apr 16, 2010

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    My Hate

    Is what i feel when people say i dont need somethingone day my mom said to put me on a damn tutoringprogram and today she said why botheri never study and it would be a waste so why eventell me i need itthen my dad said i need a theripistand liedhe said today that i dont need...
    crepesaredelicious crepesaredelicious 18-21, F Oct 5, 2011

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    Sooooo

    Shut the eff up and leave me alone. I am an adult and I know what is best for me.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F Mar 25, 2010

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    I Hear These the Most...

    I'm worried about you...I only have your best interest in mind...You aren't yourself lately...Are you sure that's the best decision?...Maybe you should think about it a little longer before you make up your mind...I only want what's best for you... So, who are you to tell me...
    purpleriz purpleriz 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 27, 2009

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    Bad Times Ahead and I'm Happy...

    I want to be free, I want to run away. I will close the door on that dingy unit I survive in and never come back. Me and Motley cat are G-O-N-E... "I don't know where I'm goin', but I sure know where I've been." Whitesnake, Here I go Again To my love, you'll get...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 24, 2009

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    I'd never force my children to do things they

    don't want to. Maybe school isn't for everyone. Maybe it's their life and you shouldn't try to live vicariously through them. Tired of people telling me what I should want & what's going to be best for me. You aren't me. -_-
    AEHeroine AEHeroine 18-21, F 18 Responses Feb 9

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    I Am Fed Up With Just That

    I eat mostly junk food. I don't shower or shave if I don't have to go to work. I'm generally unhealthy and obscene. And I'm enjoying myself.
    thedorkking thedorkking 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 14, 2012

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    First of all, can someone else start posting here too, I'm starting to look whiney, lol. So it seems like my life is an exercise in Murphy's Law as of late... So the guy I slept...
    RobertE22 RobertE22 31-35 3 Responses Apr 24

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    And you shouldn't either. this statement will make address what im about to say...."The way you perceive life is how your life will be defined". I made the transition into a bad...
    theplanofaction theplanofaction 22-25, M Apr 28

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    I prefer you not to tell me to calm down it will only make the situation more worse than it already is let me vent and get my point across and I'll be good
    shericka1992 shericka1992 22-25, F Apr 30

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    I'm the opposite, I do like to be told to get over it. I wish people would say that more often. That's why I couldn't go to counseling - one session and I knew I'd never go back...
    CrazyKid4 CrazyKid4 16-17, F 1 Response May 1

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    My Mom agreed to come pick up Murphy (my dog ☺️) and take him to daycare bc I have a stiff neck and didn't want to drive. When she got here, she asked if she could have some...
    AlieVerde AlieVerde 26-30, F 3 Responses May 11

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    Please do not tell to get over it. . . I grew up training myself to go into robot mood, because I had witnessed a violent childhood. I was never taught to release my feeling an...
    RebekahWriter13 RebekahWriter13 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 30

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    I just really do. I think that's mainly because everyone I know blames everything on me? Granted, a lot of my life is my fault, but I didn't //completely// screw my life up by...
    DementedKarkat DementedKarkat 13-15, T Apr 26

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    I cried and I crumbled in you're arms, I was broken and lonely, my heartache had grown, I trusted you to catch me when I fell so low, how can you tell me to get over this blow. My...
    traceyannmay traceyannmay 22-25, F May 1

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    12monty 12monty 51-55, M May 10

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    well iv finely accsepted im gay i want a man in my life not just a boyfriend but my best friend has well we can tell each other everything and anything we can laugh and cry...
    12monty 12monty 51-55, M 2 Responses May 11

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    Being suckled regularly can make breasts grow larger. Popping a baby into your womb, especially a first baby, will make them even larger. Mmmmmmm.
    BlueSkiesNoVa BlueSkiesNoVa 51-55, M 1 Response Apr 27

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    nicegirlinaz nicegirlinaz 36-40, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    So, after some thinking, I'm going to take the next 2 1/2 months and be completely non sexually or romantically involved. Not that I would be involved with anyone and not tell...
    RobertE22 RobertE22 31-35 Apr 25

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    5 big advantages : 1. Can focus on work 2. Saves money because no longer have to buy more dresses for dates 3. Can watch whatever movie I like 4. Can meet different men 5...
    thousandcuts thousandcuts 22-25, F 3 Responses May 2

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    i alway knew there was something diffrent with me i had girlfriends but it never felt right im a 50years old when i was at school i was bullied it knock my confidence so i kept...
    12monty 12monty 51-55, M 2 Responses May 4

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    I have struggled with this for many years. Not the concept but the actual connotations attached to it. In todays modern age it is not really a huge problem, but I will still...
    wanker1953 wanker1953 61-65, M 2 Responses May 6

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    I have a major problem with my best friend he's heterosexual and I'm homosexual but I have really gotten to know him over the past few months during lunch at school and I like him...
    nathan5081 nathan5081 16-17, M 4 Responses May 7

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    I still dont feel comfortable in my skin. I feel so different still..even though my sexuality isnt usually an issue with people.
    jtymez4 jtymez4 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    I fought for two and a half years to be able to move. My landlord sabotaged several of my attempts to get out. I finally got out, and now she is trying to sue me for fake damages...
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    Kisses on the forehead, I enjoy them so much. A silent moment, yet it leaves one feeling so loved.
    AngelicHalo AngelicHalo 36-40, F 14 hrs ago

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    I slept with four people in a week. I'm so mentally unstable.... completing my thesis, dealing with other issues. I'm ruining myself.
    Adam4u Adam4u 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 27

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    Not my prouder moments. Life lesson for whomever reads this: sex is pointless if you don't like the person and the best is with someone you love.
    omutsukimi omutsukimi 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 27

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    Nothing more than a warm hole to stuff and fill up with my j.izz
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    Don't you think that if it was that easy to "just get over it" I'd be over it by now...like really just get over it?? Wow I haven't tried that yet -_-
    irreelevance irreelevance 16-17, F 2 Responses May 2