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I Am Fed Up With Being Told Whats Good For Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 372 People

    swaged104 swaged104 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 21

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    I Hear These the Most...

    I'm worried about you...I only have your best interest in mind...You aren't yourself lately...Are you sure that's the best decision?...Maybe you should think about it a little longer before you make up your mind...I only want what's best for you... So, who are you to tell me...
    purpleriz purpleriz 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 27, 2009

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    YES I Am

    i am fed up with being told what to eat what to drink how much i should drink for my size and sex how many vegetables i have to eat five a day..i am rebelling and tonight im gonna eat chocolate drink wine and sing at the top of my voice. Just because i can!.
    thehippy thehippy 41-45, F 8 Responses Jun 9, 2009

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    I'd never force my children to do things they

    don't want to. Maybe school isn't for everyone. Maybe it's their life and you shouldn't try to live vicariously through them. Tired of people telling me what I should want & what's going to be best for me. You aren't me. -_-
    AEHeroine AEHeroine 18-21, F 17 Responses Feb 9

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    "It's For Your Own Good"

    Yeah, right..... Sometimes it's for my "own good" to make the mistake. Don't you think? So how about getting off your high horse & stop assuming you know anything about me or what's good for me? K, thanks!
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 23, 2009

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    You Know, I Can Think For Myself...

    Sigh, I'm tired of having others assuming that I'm mentally incapable of making my own decisions. I'm twenty-two-years-old, an adult, who's more than capable of making my own decisions. I'm not going to do something just to appease someone else. No way. That's not how I roll.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 26, 2011

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    Disabled Cant Win

    because i am disabled i use a disabled scooter , if i ride it on the road i get abuse from passing motors if i drive it on the foot path i get abuse from people. i went into a super market shopping was stopped at the milk counter when the stores own scooter hit me from the...
    auntfanny auntfanny 61-65, F 3 Responses Apr 16, 2010

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    Bad Times Ahead and I'm Happy...

    I want to be free, I want to run away. I will close the door on that dingy unit I survive in and never come back. Me and Motley cat are G-O-N-E... "I don't know where I'm goin', but I sure know where I've been." Whitesnake, Here I go Again To my love, you'll get...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 24, 2009

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    I'm Sick Of Others Telling Me What To Like Etc

    like to begin with .... I NEVER WANTED TO SLEEP WITH KEN.... rick kept telling me I should just get laid with just anyone and I didn't want that, katy tried to line me up with a few weirdos and so did Joyce ... one night this old guy of 60 Joyce knew was asking me a lot of...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Mar 11, 2012

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    In Search of Roots .....

    I was drawn to Belfast Northern Ireland. A child born in the famine years set  across the water to Glasgow my great great Grand father no less a trail not easily followed by myself some one hundred and fifty one years later . In keeping with my nature I did exactly...
    salar1 salar1 51-55, M 11 Responses Jun 6, 2009

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    No More !!!!!

     Ok that's it I have had enough ..... no more ....No more dumbing down of our brain function , soon we wont have to think at all just be told by the creators of the global nanny state whats good for us and whats bad example..... Label spotted today "...
    salar1 salar1 51-55, M 14 Responses Mar 23, 2009

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    Sooooo

    Shut the eff up and leave me alone. I am an adult and I know what is best for me.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F Mar 25, 2010

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    All my life all I heard from family is 'We are

    only doing what we do for you is for your own good!' I never had any control over my money, my life, and that they always screwed any jobs I got, they always said it was for my own good... 'bullshit' I said, so that's why I left and cut them off for ever
    theghostofsabotage theghostofsabotage 22-25, M Nov 27, 2014

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    I Am Fed Up With Just That

    I eat mostly junk food. I don't shower or shave if I don't have to go to work. I'm generally unhealthy and obscene. And I'm enjoying myself.
    thedorkking thedorkking 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 14, 2012

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    I don't speak to most of my family. I am one of 7 children. Every single one of my siblings have been scarred by my dysfunctional parents and it's bizarre that they know our...
    silvercoatedbrass silvercoatedbrass 26-30, F 10 hrs ago

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    I would really appreciate it if you don't grab me or try to convince me to calm down when I'm clearly upset it will only escalate the situation.
    shericka1992 shericka1992 22-25, F 19 hrs ago

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    This is going to be very long winded and I'm posting this because I need to vent and need to know who else is going through something similar and how they're handling it. Here goes...
    Kristy37 Kristy37 36-40, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I hate being a step mother!!! I hate it! I hate it! I hate it! I know that blending families is a hard thing to do, and I love all of my children. I am tired of feeling wrong...
    Wzv63w Wzv63w 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I was attached to you because you were sweet to me. You were the sweetest of all guys I knew. I thought no one could be sweeter. I went online again and I realized that I have...
    jwl9119 jwl9119 22-25, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    Hi, I have been straight all my life and still desire to stay that way but one day a year ago i started working my first job away from self employment i was 22. I've never had a...
    undecidedbi undecidedbi 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I don't worry about my incontinence any more in fact I like being incontinent. Somehow it defines me. I like having to wear nappies. If someone has a problem with it then it is for...
    Stillwetshisbed Stillwetshisbed 46-50, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Seriously there is nothing wrong with crying. Its a way to let out emotion and a form of release. Especially at memorial services.
    rorytheawesomeboy rorytheawesomeboy 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I do not even know how to start. I am so scared. I am 21and in college and have been feeling kind of depressed lately. I have really bad ocd related to being gay and it killing me...
    cooper4545 cooper4545 18-21, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    https://youtu.be/n1Te-3gZFLI great song for anyone who had ever felt angry, lost, betrayed, broken, anything negative. this song is for you helped me in my darkest hours. WARNING...
    pandaangel pandaangel 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    A lonley beach...I.....walk a-lone by the sea...... Thinking of you...of.... U and.....of me Whats one sweet kiss...one.. Tiny ...little ....touch Dont these sad eyes.....tell U...
    Infectual Infectual 31-35, M 5 days ago

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    An ear. My own, of course, but I mean someone who takes the time to listen. It sucks to feel unheard and it's no good being told you don't have a right to feel a certain way or...
    TheBadgeringWitness TheBadgeringWitness 31-35 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    i love being told how much of a remarkably fat, heavy lardass ive become. how i've fattened myself up, so incredibly morbidly obese that none of my clothes fit over my big bloated...
    MilkMassacre MilkMassacre 16-17, T 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I never knew that who I cared about so much was really just a sad sack of ****. We became friends, and then we were both at a point in our lives to begin to date. I had kept my...
    heyashree heyashree 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    In my childhood, I cry easily. My mom hate it, she told me to stop crying. Crying is only for babies. I'm not a baby anymore. I know the way she said that to make me independent...
    yumemi yumemi 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My mom always compares me to... Herself. That's right. My mother compares her daughter to herself. She always says that she knows best, she's always right, she knows how to do...
    salmon140301 salmon140301 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    I don't know if that says something horrible about me but I have mastered it, I can have sex w someone & have no attachment what so ever. Plenty of times at that.
    Giselle1231 Giselle1231 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    I have been struggling with dermatillomania for the past six years. I always thought something was wrong with me. I was the only onein my family to do it and no one could...
    liquideyeliner liquideyeliner 16-17, F Jun 22

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    I'm a 23yr old guy who till this point haven't dressed in a female attire except for nighties. I'm grieves with this pretty girl named Bhasi with whom I can share anything and...
    RabiyaLove RabiyaLove 22-25, M 5 Responses Jun 22

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    My biggest weakness is probably not allowing myself to be vulnerable around people that genuinely care about me. I can cry in public surrounded by strangers or by myself, but if I...
    SapphicMinion SapphicMinion 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 22

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    You don't get "over it." You deal with it,day by day,minute by minute. The trick is to deal with it in an effective and productive manner for YOU and you only. There are those...
    lonelybutok lonelybutok 46-50, F Jun 21

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    I can deal with SS14, I like him, but this time since he's been here this summer he's very awkward... I get it he's 14 but he acts like he can't talk, he mumbles never answers...
    MommyToMine MommyToMine 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 21

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    You know what they say, forgiveness doesn't mean that you are giving a free pass to the people who hurt you. Rather, we forgive people because we deserve to be free from the pain...
    Alyyeska Alyyeska 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    I lost my virginity to a guy I feel nothing for. And it wasn't even beautiful, it even hurt a lot ..
    Giyy Giyy 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 21

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    I honestly can't see nothing wrong with swear words. they're words. we have to use words. it's freedom of speech, so why can't we use swear words? there's nothing wrong with...
    YINYANGINSANE YINYANGINSANE 13-15, F Jun 21

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    He was my teacher in junior school, now I'm 17. He lives in the neighborhood. We became friends after I graduated from junior high, we have MANY things in common. He introduced me...
    Riikka Riikka 16-17, F Jun 19

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    I hate being single I've never had a girlfriend, never even had a female friend tbh I suffer from social anxiety so I hate being round lots of people plus I'm super shy and I just...
    ajit1995 ajit1995 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 19