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I Am Feeling Confused and Unsure

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    And I Thought It Was Over...!

    Lost in my tracks! I know I am being gamed! Don't like this game, nor do I like the changing rules of the game! I love the way they don't follow the rules they themselves make but expect me to follow them..Guess what... I followed them and now I am at a point where I don't have...
    Michhhhnat Michhhhnat 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 12, 2011

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    I Have A Lot Going Through My Mind......

    Well here's the thing. I am 18 now and my boyfriend and I are planning on going to college next year. I am pretty much set financially. In fact today, I found out I was just awarded a $2,500 scholarship for the university I plan to attend. My boyfriend however, wasn't so lucky...
    thesuitelife285 thesuitelife285 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 1, 2010

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    Super confused- my crush doesn't mind cuddling

    on the couch while watching a movie, holding hands, or kissing. But ever since my drunken stupor I feel like now he's pulling away. We've cuddled and kissed but it feels different. My brother says if that's all it takes to push him away he's not worth my time.... Idk. *sigh*
    Peanutnumber22 Peanutnumber22 22-25, F Mar 21

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    Hurt And Unsure About Relationships

    Unsure what to do with my life. I am so chill with most guys in real life, but im unsure as a human that is enough to make me want to continue living for much longer. I mean i got a lot to live for at the moment and realize women are not everything, but to be honest at 26 and...
    startingpointguard33 startingpointguard33 26-30, M 3 Responses Dec 7, 2012

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    Is There More to Life Than This?

    What if our lifes were not what we think. Imagine if we were all just living day by day trying to find love and contentment. You know trying to make life as comfortable as we can, when really there is much more to life than we think. Some of us suffer from self doubts and others...
    lyndal lyndal 36-40 2 Responses Oct 6, 2008

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    I met this guy a while ago and we started texting and flirting. We even hung out once. I catched feelings and so did he (as he told me) I even asked his bestfriend if it was true...
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    So a guy I've liked for a long time now wants to kiss me, but he doesnt want to have any commitment. He just wants to kiss me, period. I've never had my first kiss, and he said he...
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