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I Am Feeling Confused and Unsure

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    Today is the day I get a chance at freedom

    again, waiting for them to bring my new wheelchair and see if I will be able to use it, here is to hoping at the chance to get out of the bed I have been trapped in for months
    wheelchairwonder wheelchairwonder 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 1

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    Is feeling confused and angry

    and unsure. My boyfriend likes to drink he knows I have lost a lot in my past marriage because of alcohol. He started drinking quite a bit. So I sent him a text stating I will not tolerate this. He has agreed to stop. He seems pouty now I just feel so pissed and hurt. Why am I...
    jackiesc jackiesc 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 19

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    I so confused - sometimes he's sweet

    and nice and most sometimes he's being a jerk who doesn't care.
    LexiGray LexiGray 22-25, F May 3

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    Do you get those feelings of uncertainty?

    In which you just can't explain all the confusions that is going on in your mind? because I sure have that feeling right now. I don't know what's gotten into me. Every time the two of us get really close with each other, I always end up ruining the mood by dropping questions...
    smilemelove smilemelove 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 7

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    Is There More to Life Than This?

    What if our lifes were not what we think. Imagine if we were all just living day by day trying to find love and contentment. You know trying to make life as comfortable as we can, when really there is much more to life than we think. Some of us suffer from self doubts and others...
    lyndal lyndal 36-40 2 Responses Oct 6, 2008

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    I Have A Lot Going Through My Mind......

    Well here's the thing. I am 18 now and my boyfriend and I are planning on going to college next year. I am pretty much set financially. In fact today, I found out I was just awarded a $2,500 scholarship for the university I plan to attend. My boyfriend however, wasn't so lucky...
    thesuitelife285 thesuitelife285 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 1, 2010

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    And I Thought It Was Over...!

    Lost in my tracks! I know I am being gamed! Don't like this game, nor do I like the changing rules of the game! I love the way they don't follow the rules they themselves make but expect me to follow them..Guess what... I followed them and now I am at a point where I don't have...
    Michhhhnat Michhhhnat 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 12, 2011

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    Hurt And Unsure About Relationships

    Unsure what to do with my life. I am so chill with most guys in real life, but im unsure as a human that is enough to make me want to continue living for much longer. I mean i got a lot to live for at the moment and realize women are not everything, but to be honest at 26 and...
    startingpointguard33 startingpointguard33 26-30, M 3 Responses Dec 7, 2012

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    me and a friend who have an intimate past well

    he came around a couple months ago and we were hanging out again a couple weeks ago 2 nights in a row he made a lot of intimiate moves on me while we were alone and now for the past week he hardy has talking to me seen me or text me, but 2 nights ago in a txt he said he wanted...
    bates2 bates2 36-40, F Jun 15

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    What's the best part in kentucky?

    Why ppl saying it's bad to stay up there omg I'm confused because some ppl say it's nice somebody please help me😩😩😩😩😩😩😩
    preciousdramafree preciousdramafree 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 5

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    August 31. Denial. I've been recovering many years. I've used denial many times. It has been a defense, a survival device, a coping behavior, and, at times, almost my undoing. It...
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    I am so confused I love my Husband but I know he is toxic for me and he lies and sleeps with other people. I have proof of one person but not others. I feel it with all my being...
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    CaliforniaPsycho CaliforniaPsycho 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 23

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    FluttershyBaby FluttershyBaby 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    I was with my boyfriend for four years, we broke up less than a month ago because he said he had feelings for someone else. About two weeks ago he came back to me saying he wants...
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    I got broken up with a week before our 6 year anniversary. My best friend (male) developed feelings for me. My ex started dating another girl, he was already friends with her, in...
    poptarteater poptarteater 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    Control...being in charge of a situation. I have no control in love. I have plenty of love to share but confused. I have no control over portions of my life. Areas which I'd...
    desirabledreams desirabledreams 46-50, F 6 days ago

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    My head hurts a lot and I have some OCD. The OCD has improved somewhat so that is a good thing. I still obsess over certain things. Just a lot of issues I am feeling sad about.
    cottonbreeze cottonbreeze 41-45, F 2 hrs ago

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    Some days ago, while I was studying Italian, my mom noticed and told me to do something useful like to study for IELTS (an English exam). I asked my dad to break open the box...
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    August 25. Willing to Make Amends. The Eighth Step is talking about a change of heart, a healing change. This attitude can begin a great chain of repair and healing in our...
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    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Aug 19

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    I've been posting about the same topic for a while, and I feel like posting again so I can ventilate as I'm having a terrible morning. Nearly two months ago, my ex-girlfriend broke...
    xSundip xSundip 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    You see, this may sound stupid because I'm very young but I feel like if I don't say this I will keep thinking it over and over and just get more stressed. I am fourteen and I...
    ValeriyaIvanov ValeriyaIvanov 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 4

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    eyeslikeacarcrash eyeslikeacarcrash 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    I can share my feelings with a thousand internet strangers but not with the people closest to me. Cool.
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