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I Am Feeling Confused and Unsure

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    Do you get those feelings of uncertainty?

    In which you just can't explain all the confusions that is going on in your mind? because I sure have that feeling right now. I don't know what's gotten into me. Every time the two of us get really close with each other, I always end up ruining the mood by dropping questions...
    smilemelove smilemelove 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 7

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    I so confused - sometimes he's sweet

    and nice and most sometimes he's being a jerk who doesn't care.
    LexiGray LexiGray 22-25, F May 3

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    What's the best part in kentucky?

    Why ppl saying it's bad to stay up there omg I'm confused because some ppl say it's nice somebody please help me😩😩😩😩😩😩😩
    preciousdramafree preciousdramafree 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 5

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    Is There More to Life Than This?

    What if our lifes were not what we think. Imagine if we were all just living day by day trying to find love and contentment. You know trying to make life as comfortable as we can, when really there is much more to life than we think. Some of us suffer from self doubts and others...
    lyndal lyndal 36-40 2 Responses Oct 6, 2008

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    And I Thought It Was Over...!

    Lost in my tracks! I know I am being gamed! Don't like this game, nor do I like the changing rules of the game! I love the way they don't follow the rules they themselves make but expect me to follow them..Guess what... I followed them and now I am at a point where I don't have...
    Michhhhnat Michhhhnat 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 12, 2011

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    Is feeling confused and angry

    and unsure. My boyfriend likes to drink he knows I have lost a lot in my past marriage because of alcohol. He started drinking quite a bit. So I sent him a text stating I will not tolerate this. He has agreed to stop. He seems pouty now I just feel so pissed and hurt. Why am I...
    jackiesc jackiesc 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 19

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    I Have A Lot Going Through My Mind......

    Well here's the thing. I am 18 now and my boyfriend and I are planning on going to college next year. I am pretty much set financially. In fact today, I found out I was just awarded a $2,500 scholarship for the university I plan to attend. My boyfriend however, wasn't so lucky...
    thesuitelife285 thesuitelife285 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 1, 2010

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    me and a friend who have an intimate past well

    he came around a couple months ago and we were hanging out again a couple weeks ago 2 nights in a row he made a lot of intimiate moves on me while we were alone and now for the past week he hardy has talking to me seen me or text me, but 2 nights ago in a txt he said he wanted...
    bates2 bates2 31-35, F Jun 15

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    LOV3L33 LOV3L33 18-21, F Jun 25

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    Hurt And Unsure About Relationships

    Unsure what to do with my life. I am so chill with most guys in real life, but im unsure as a human that is enough to make me want to continue living for much longer. I mean i got a lot to live for at the moment and realize women are not everything, but to be honest at 26 and...
    startingpointguard33 startingpointguard33 26-30, M 3 Responses Dec 7, 2012

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    Idreamtowaketofindthefate Idreamtowaketofindthefate 18-21, F Jul 4

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    UltraCerulean UltraCerulean 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 11

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