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I Am Feeling Confused and Unsure

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    Is feeling confused and angry

    and unsure. My boyfriend likes to drink he knows I have lost a lot in my past marriage because of alcohol. He started drinking quite a bit. So I sent him a text stating I will not tolerate this. He has agreed to stop. He seems pouty now I just feel so pissed and hurt. Why am I...
    jackiesc jackiesc 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 19, 2014

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    Is There More to Life Than This?

    What if our lifes were not what we think. Imagine if we were all just living day by day trying to find love and contentment. You know trying to make life as comfortable as we can, when really there is much more to life than we think. Some of us suffer from self doubts and others...
    lyndal lyndal 36-40 2 Responses Oct 6, 2008

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    What's the best part in kentucky?

    Why ppl saying it's bad to stay up there omg I'm confused because some ppl say it's nice somebody please help me😩😩😩😩😩😩😩
    preciousdramafree preciousdramafree 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 5, 2014

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    Do you get those feelings of uncertainty?

    In which you just can't explain all the confusions that is going on in your mind? because I sure have that feeling right now. I don't know what's gotten into me. Every time the two of us get really close with each other, I always end up ruining the mood by dropping questions...
    smilemelove smilemelove 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 7, 2014

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    I Have A Lot Going Through My Mind......

    Well here's the thing. I am 18 now and my boyfriend and I are planning on going to college next year. I am pretty much set financially. In fact today, I found out I was just awarded a $2,500 scholarship for the university I plan to attend. My boyfriend however, wasn't so lucky...
    thesuitelife285 thesuitelife285 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 1, 2010

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    And I Thought It Was Over...!

    Lost in my tracks! I know I am being gamed! Don't like this game, nor do I like the changing rules of the game! I love the way they don't follow the rules they themselves make but expect me to follow them..Guess what... I followed them and now I am at a point where I don't have...
    Michhhhnat Michhhhnat 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 12, 2011

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    Today is the day I get a chance at freedom

    again, waiting for them to bring my new wheelchair and see if I will be able to use it, here is to hoping at the chance to get out of the bed I have been trapped in for months
    SarahCider SarahCider 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    me and a friend who have an intimate past well

    he came around a couple months ago and we were hanging out again a couple weeks ago 2 nights in a row he made a lot of intimiate moves on me while we were alone and now for the past week he hardy has talking to me seen me or text me, but 2 nights ago in a txt he said he wanted...
    bates2 bates2 36-40, F Jun 15, 2014

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    I so confused - sometimes he's sweet

    and nice and most sometimes he's being a jerk who doesn't care.
    LexiGray LexiGray 22-25, F May 3, 2014

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    Hurt And Unsure About Relationships

    Unsure what to do with my life. I am so chill with most guys in real life, but im unsure as a human that is enough to make me want to continue living for much longer. I mean i got a lot to live for at the moment and realize women are not everything, but to be honest at 26 and...
    startingpointguard33 startingpointguard33 26-30, M 3 Responses Dec 7, 2012

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    LOV3L33 LOV3L33 18-21, F Jun 25, 2014

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    I don't know where I want to go with my life in all honesty. I am going for environmental science soon, and I do like the environment . It just feels like I am meant for something...
    BrightAurora BrightAurora 16-17, M Jan 4

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    My relationship has been great so far. But we still have arguments which yes are normal:/ but he says silly things that upset me. I like to spend time in my room, or if I walk out...
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    Looking back at when I was younger, I remember kissing a few girls & it never felt wrong to me but I never had a crush on a girl. I remember this one time where this boy and I were...
    MJay087 MJay087 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2014

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    Sometimes my feeling start killing me.... sometimes i just had lovable feelings.... i dont know how do i get them and how do i get rid of them but i know i got those feelings when...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 31, 2014

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    i hate this feeling. oh well off to bed to be even more confused I guess lol
    RememberingSunday22 RememberingSunday22 36-40, F Jan 1

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    Ever since middle school I felt like I wasn't just attracted to guys but girls as well. I also lack sexual desire unless I've developed close romantic relations with them. But on...
    KimmiNinja KimmiNinja 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    am not confused i love girlsss bcuz they eat me good
    sexyloveles sexyloveles 18-21, F Jan 5

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    Or lack of for that matter. (This is pretty long, I'll summarize at the end) You see, I think I may be asexual or something of a similar variant. I have never once felt sexual...
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    So confused. Why does it have to be that way
    Dotcom2 Dotcom2 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 10

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    So if you've read stuff on my profile then you know I've been through seriously bad stuff. My friend asked, have you ever just sat down and cried? No I have not. I have added...
    mslvr01 mslvr01 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 12

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    Wow.. I thought I had overcome so many things. I feel like I'm falling apart again. Can I be sad? I mean I don't think I can put on a tough act for long. Sometimes I don't even...
    SleepyRose22 SleepyRose22 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 14

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    I'm confused about a boy. My situation is that this guy who I've been friends with for a guy has gotten really close to me and we've kissed/made out and now whenever we hang out I...
    glomilk glomilk 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 16

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    I think i am about to hurt the sweetest man i've ever met, we been together for 8 months now and he is just great and on top of that he a great father to his daughter too ( he have...
    InTheJungle InTheJungle 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I almost forgot about this site. I feel highly confused and empty and apathetic. I'm confused about life choices. I need some peoples attention but I feel ignored. I hate it...
    luvsoylatte luvsoylatte 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    I'm a 14 year old teen, I'm in a long distance relationship with a girl who self-harms, is depressed ect. We've been together for 3 months and I helped her get through stuff. I...
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    December 26. Growth. Just as when we were children and grew out of favorite toys and clothes, we sometimes grow out of things as adults - people, jobs, and homes. This can be...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Dec 26, 2014

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    December 28. Panic. Don't panic! If panic strikes, we do not have to allow it to control our behaviors. Behaviors controlled by panic tend to be self-defeating. No matter what...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2014

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    It is over between me and this guy I have been seeing before it has even begin. Let me start at the beginning. We went to the same schools and was always friendly with each other...
    gettingtolove gettingtolove 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    im always lost in my feelings and never no what to do
    tylerstevens031397 tylerstevens031397 18-21, M Dec 30, 2014

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    I know why I'm feeling down, it's ok I guess. I just want to get drunk and forget. So many things in my head. Not even sure I want to talk about it. :-( just feel lost and confused...
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    i was such a carefree person before i stepped into my university life i wish i had been all that simple without all the boys drama in my life , i wish would have stayed feelingless...
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