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I Am Feeling Confused and Unsure

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    Is There More to Life Than This? - What if our lifes were not what we think. Imagine if we were all just living day by day trying to find love and contentment. You know trying to...
    lyndal lyndal 36-40 2 Responses Oct 6, 2008

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    Hurt And Unsure About Relationships - Unsure what to do with my life. I am so chill with most guys in real life, but im unsure as a human that is enough to make me want to continue...
    startingpointguard33 startingpointguard33 26-30, M 3 Responses Dec 7, 2012

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    I Have A Lot Going Through My Mind...... - Well here's the thing. I am 18 now and my boyfriend and I are planning on going to college next year. I am pretty much set financially...
    thesuitelife285 thesuitelife285 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 1, 2010

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    And I Thought It Was Over...! - Lost in my tracks! I know I am being gamed! Don't like this game, nor do I like the changing rules of the game! I love the way they don't follow the...
    Michhhhnat Michhhhnat 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 12, 2011

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    Super confused- my crush doesn't mind cuddling on the couch while watching a movie, holding hands, or kissing. But ever since my drunken stupor I feel like now he's pulling away...
    Peanutnumber22 Peanutnumber22 22-25, F Mar 21

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    They say feelings change and that if you feel down that its okay because feelings are not permanent. They fluctuate. Well, today I have felt down. confused. puzzled. Every time I...
    moorelove3168 moorelove3168 18-21 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    April 15. Communication. Part of owning our power is learning to communicate clearly, directly, and assertively. We don't have to beat around the bush in our conversations to...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 21 hrs ago

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    Honestly, I'm so unsure about my gender. I've started to really think about it, and I'm not completely happy with it... I'm pretty much baffled. I've never really felt like a "boy...
    quietbones quietbones 16-17 2 Responses Mar 25

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    i'm in quite a complicated situation so i'll explain from the very beginning. i'll change the names because i want this to stay confidential. i am a girl currently aged 17, and...
    e197x e197x 16-17 Mar 23

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    I have always refused to label myself as anything but had only been with guys aside from one experiment but lately I've been thinking more and more about girls. And it doesn't feel...
    zoee9633 zoee9633 18-21, F Apr 4

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    Hi there, sorry if this post is a bit long, I feel like there's a lot to explain so 1st of all thank you if you take the time to read this! Here goes... So basically i've always...
    pinkdiamondxo pinkdiamondxo 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I met this guy a while ago and we started texting and flirting. We even hung out once. I catched feelings and so did he (as he told me) I even asked his bestfriend if it was true...
    unthinkablesoul unthinkablesoul 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I admire people who are able to be honest about their feelings and tell me how they really feel. It takes courage to express yourself, especially when you are unsure of how the...
    smhinterrupted smhinterrupted 36-40, F 6 Responses Mar 22

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    I am quite confused over a few things that may be relatively difficult for me to explain. In the past few years life has been... odd. I say this not because I am struggling with...
    pneumaGrey pneumaGrey 16-17, T 1 Response Mar 29

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    Confused confused. I know this is not a good idea. But i even think on marrying someone for visa and to just get far away from my family as soon as I turn 18.
    zhaneylhuv zhaneylhuv 16-17, F Apr 2

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    So a guy I've liked for a long time now wants to kiss me, but he doesnt want to have any commitment. He just wants to kiss me, period. I've never had my first kiss, and he said he...
    defi4nce defi4nce 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I am so confused about my ex. We've been separated for just over a year. I left him but I don't regret that decision. He was an alcoholic and it got to the point that he was...
    FreedomtoFly FreedomtoFly 26-30, F Apr 6

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    I thought I was sure of myself but I guess I'm not. I was so sure I wanted to date a guy and start to be happy but tonight I was talking to a girl and the feelings I felt for her...
    ColdDayMemory ColdDayMemory 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    April 9. Giving. Learning to be a healthy giver can be a challenge. Many of us got caught up in compulsive giving - charitable acts motivated by uncharitable feelings of guilt...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 6 days ago

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    I am feeling lost, i dont know where is the right direction of life. I dont know why i feel like there's always something missing in me. And i dont know what it is and how to find...
    mhyne mhyne 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I didn't expect to be 30 yrs old and still feeling so lost n confused.. What's going on???
    Kathyis30 Kathyis30 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    I recently got a job. Some job fest was organized in my college and I participated in it thinking that I will learn something new. But, I got selected and got this job. It pays me...
    Simple4me Simple4me 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I hate being unsure about myself As a person. Having no confidence in any of my Abilities is crippling in so many ways...what can I do
    Jvibes Jvibes 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    I say I'm straight, but i always get these feelings for girls. Im currently in a relationship with a male. I had a drunken night with a friend way back she stayed over.. Ended up...
    Ohxoxo Ohxoxo 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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    I can not stand cold iron, My skin turns red, and starts to peal. I can not stand the sun, its too warm and gives me headaches. Yet I can not stand the full moon, its to bright in...
    Silversyn Silversyn 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    April 3. Acceptance. Surrender to the moment. Ride it out and through, for all it's worth. Throw yourself into it. Stop resisting. So much of our anguish is created when we are...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Apr 3

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    April 7. Those Old Time Feelings. "I still have bad days. But that's okay. I used to have bad years." —Anonymous Sometimes, the old feelings creep back in. We may feel...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    March 17. Empowering. You can think. You can feel. You can solve your problems. You can take care of yourself. Those words have often benefited me more than the most profound and...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Mar 17

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    April 6. Patience. How sick and tired we may become of people telling us to be patient or to learn patience. How frustrating it can be to want to finally have something, or to...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Apr 6

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    I was once confident and outgoing with girls. Not that I was a player, but I could easily maintain a conversation with them and flirt every now and then. When I reached my freshman...
    PrepubescentStranger PrepubescentStranger 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 7

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    I feel like I've spoken about this in a previous story, but then again maybe I haven't. Most of the times I'm a carefree happy person. I try to laugh or make others laugh by making...
    lifesize lifesize 18-21, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    Hi, I would just like to share about my past feelings with my best friend. She wouldn't want to be asked about too many questions. It came to me as if she wanted to pull away, as...
    MarcyMichelle MarcyMichelle 31-35, F Mar 16

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    There are time when she just doesn't understand. I mean how could she? She did so much for me. Alot. I want her but the slightest thing gives her the thought that I want another...
    mkenzi0924 mkenzi0924 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 18

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    I am so confused about so many things. I am so uncertain about so many things: who I am, why my friends like me, my abilities, things I like... I feel so empty like I'm just going...
    ayang1150 ayang1150 16-17, F Mar 23

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    It all started six years ago. This girl and I became friends when we're on our senior year in high school but before, we barely talk to each other and we're not even that close...
    myheartscore myheartscore 22-25 Mar 30

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    I usually am,I dont know that I feel like writing all the nitty gritty details etc but Im confused at the moment about a situation..maybe im afraid of being honest with myself...
    seeminglypossible seeminglypossible 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    boy, this is defiently an experiment for me.. putting my bussiness out in the open for the world to see.. haha here goes nothin.. well i am married for litttle over 3 years...
    brebsky brebsky 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 7

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    Right now I am a senior and only have about a month until graduation. I have so much going on and it feels like it's closing in, chocking me. All my life I have dreamed of being a...
    rainabaina rainabaina 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm just so confused right now and can use some advice for liking someone and this may sound weird but also some tips for getting someone to keep liking you but not ask you out...
    alotofquestions891 alotofquestions891 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Feeling upset about myself. Trying to understand what my flaws are and why I may be a bad choice for people to have as a "special someone".I used to be very quiet and shy when I...
    Shiznitone Shiznitone 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I get confused so easily when it comes to guys, I just pretend to understand so I don't annoy them
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    So I have PTSD I watched my mother get rapped and beaten, I watched her battle with heroin addiction, my father is dead, my little brother has a brain problem causing him to have...
    melaniemay4 melaniemay4 13-15, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Feeling..inspired....because of some one so adorable..I met & talked on ep......I had met her..here..on ep..for quite 2/3 months.......as I had....chances..to know her ....more...
    bgupta766 bgupta766 31-35, M Mar 19

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    March 20. Releasing. Let fears slip away. Release any negative, limiting, or self-defeating beliefs buried in your subconscious too. These beliefs may be about life, love, or...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Mar 20

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    March 27. After-Burn. How could I do it? How could I say it? Even though I meant it, I still feel ashamed, guilty, and afraid. This is common reaction to new, exciting recovery...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Mar 27

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    I had a boyfriend. We had been dating for 4 years, which is pretty long to me. I loved him, but I was not happy oftentimes. We practically could not get along we did not have the...
    nyssasaber nyssasaber 22-25, F Apr 1

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    My husband works from home. I am also home a majority of the time so we see a lot of each other. We have separate interests in terms of exercise. We holiday separately most of the...
    Mehndigirl Mehndigirl 36-40, F Apr 1

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 3

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 3

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    So this is what i recently got from this French Girl. Hello Monic When I think of you My heart explodes with a thousand words Running through my body To my right hand and...
    BSIMTC BSIMTC 18-21, F Apr 3

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 7