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I Am Feeling Confused and Unsure

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 196 People

    I Have A Lot Going Through My Mind......

    Well here's the thing. I am 18 now and my boyfriend and I are planning on going to college next year. I am pretty much set financially. In fact today, I found out I was just awarded a $2,500 scholarship for the university I plan to attend. My boyfriend however, wasn't so lucky...
    thesuitelife285 thesuitelife285 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 1, 2010

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    LonelyRollingStar LonelyRollingStar 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 6

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    Is it weird that I no longer experience any

    stress? I do have very rare moments where I feel overwhelmed, but honestly, that has only happened once so far this year. Is it weird that I feel different about love? Sure, I have a few crushes, people that I am interested in and would date, but at the same time, I'm okay with...
    bkf2 bkf2 22-25, M Mar 5

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    me and a friend who have an intimate past well

    he came around a couple months ago and we were hanging out again a couple weeks ago 2 nights in a row he made a lot of intimiate moves on me while we were alone and now for the past week he hardy has talking to me seen me or text me, but 2 nights ago in a txt he said he wanted...
    bates2 bates2 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 15, 2014

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    I so confused - sometimes he's sweet

    and nice and most sometimes he's being a jerk who doesn't care.
    LexiGray LexiGray 22-25, F May 3, 2014

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    Is There More to Life Than This?

    What if our lifes were not what we think. Imagine if we were all just living day by day trying to find love and contentment. You know trying to make life as comfortable as we can, when really there is much more to life than we think. Some of us suffer from self doubts and others...
    lyndal lyndal 36-40 2 Responses Oct 6, 2008

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    I feel so confused of my feelings

    and absolutely unsure where Im heading.
    goodwitch011070 goodwitch011070 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    I hate this kind of feeling.

    Why do I always feel unsure of things? I don't know exactly why. Even I myself is unsure and can't get myself sometimes. I don't know why I'm writing this tho. I just want to let it out. Why all of things are confusing? Grrrrr
    RedHwaiting RedHwaiting 18-21, F Mar 6

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    What's the best part in kentucky?

    Why ppl saying it's bad to stay up there omg I'm confused because some ppl say it's nice somebody please help me😩😩😩😩😩😩😩
    preciousdramafree preciousdramafree 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 5, 2014

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    Hurt And Unsure About Relationships

    Unsure what to do with my life. I am so chill with most guys in real life, but im unsure as a human that is enough to make me want to continue living for much longer. I mean i got a lot to live for at the moment and realize women are not everything, but to be honest at 26 and...
    startingpointguard33 startingpointguard33 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 7, 2012

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    looking at that engagement ring brings hella

    good memories but at the same time bring pain n sadness. it was an easy decision to get it for her but now idk if it was a mistake getting it:'(
    arias831 arias831 22-25, M May 10

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    I'm always texting this guy

    but he never texts me back but every time I see him he complains that no one ever texts him. I just don't get it. He also says that no one ever wants to hang out with him, but I ask him to stuff with me almost every other day. Is it me am I the problem?
    Brimwalker Brimwalker 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 12

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    Today is the day I get a chance at freedom

    again, waiting for them to bring my new wheelchair and see if I will be able to use it, here is to hoping at the chance to get out of the bed I have been trapped in for months
    SarahCider SarahCider 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 1, 2014

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    LOV3L33 LOV3L33 18-21, F Jun 25, 2014

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    And I Thought It Was Over...!

    Lost in my tracks! I know I am being gamed! Don't like this game, nor do I like the changing rules of the game! I love the way they don't follow the rules they themselves make but expect me to follow them..Guess what... I followed them and now I am at a point where I don't have...
    Michhhhnat Michhhhnat 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 12, 2011

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    Is feeling confused and angry

    and unsure. My boyfriend likes to drink he knows I have lost a lot in my past marriage because of alcohol. He started drinking quite a bit. So I sent him a text stating I will not tolerate this. He has agreed to stop. He seems pouty now I just feel so pissed and hurt. Why am I...
    jackiesc jackiesc 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 19, 2014

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    Do you get those feelings of uncertainty?

    In which you just can't explain all the confusions that is going on in your mind? because I sure have that feeling right now. I don't know what's gotten into me. Every time the two of us get really close with each other, I always end up ruining the mood by dropping questions...
    smilemelove smilemelove 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 7, 2014

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    especially lately I've felt this way. I'm unsure of how to cope and I'm losing sight of the light I've created. My heart feels so heavy and I can't get it to stop. I want to scream...
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    At the beginning I would like to apologize for the long post I'm about to write, and for any mistakes (English isn't my first language you see) I'm going to make, writing this. I...
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    Feeling unsure about myself right now ...
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    I'm at my best female friends house and I can't stop thinking of the things that happened a while back and the things that I wish would happen with her. And I'm texting a male...
    llovinlife2011 llovinlife2011 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 28

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    so I came from a 6 months relationship, everything seems so perfect. I met his family and close friends. we always had fun when we are together. we never had big agruments, but...
    tameasian tameasian 31-35, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    This person has been my friend for half of my life, within the last couple of years, I've realized my feelings are stronger and that i love her; that I want more. She lives 6 hours...
    v30a84 v30a84 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 26

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    My mind is racing, it's buzzing. I can't clear it. It makes my head hurt, so I cry. I don't like to cry so I try and stop myself. I guess I'm overwhelmed. Thoughts of School...
    MDCollegeMan MDCollegeMan 18-21, M Apr 27

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    First and foremost, I would like to admit that I have failings as a human being, like we all do. I have my ego issues, I have my temper issues, I live with the consequences of...
    anarane anarane 26-30 May 16

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    so yesterday dad calls n say all this nasty things which I reply to wth simple okay now instead of the yelling n blaming I used to do. n then call me today n tell hey I will come...
    candles700 candles700 22-25, F 4 Responses May 3

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    Most times, I am confused about my feelings and how to approach certain things, so I often need time to myself to reflect and digest everything... However, I would most likely...
    RocaAzul RocaAzul 18-21, F May 5

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    I think I'm bi-curious.. Like I'm attracted to guys and I've only been with guys but I also find girls really attractive but I'm not sure if that would ever be an option so I've...
    Imjustme73 Imjustme73 16-17, F 4 Responses May 1

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    I met someone from online. We are from different place. We chat all day and never stop. Except when sleep or he play games. Im in love with him. Bcs he is really nice and funny...
    ochamr ochamr 16-17, F 2 Responses May 3

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    I am feeling lost so two days ago I decided to cut myself. I always thought that people who cut themselves are a bit crazy but when I did it the first time I felt relief. It's a...
    jennygranger jennygranger 16-17, F 5 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    Today I saw my best friend from high school for the first time in years. Completely out of the blue. And we weren't on amicable terms when we last talked. It was a bit of a shock...
    ACrueljape ACrueljape 22-25 1 Response May 8

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    I was in a relationship with this boy for two months. he asked me to be his girlfriend on the first date. and he left me because of our religion differences. He says he would need...
    solisortum solisortum 18-21, F 1 Response May 1

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    yes I am. very. much. confused. at times I don't even want her anymore even if she wanted me back... but so far she doesn't want me... so.... I don't know what to feel .
    meetmeinthepouringrain meetmeinthepouringrain 22-25, M 1 Response May 3

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    So I found the man of my dreams, & the way life is, I knew there'd be bumps in the road. He's kind, sweet, handsome ', smart, funny, & spiritual. Before he met me, he decided to...
    TheRightFitforLife TheRightFitforLife 46-50, F 4 Responses May 6

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    I met a cute girl last year in a summer camp. We suddenly clashed and talked much about stuff in our lives. Months passed and we used to talk via fb and sms, oneday she told me...
    SPieterse SPieterse 18-21, F May 14

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    i'm so confused these day. :(
    gracemoemoe gracemoemoe 22-25, F 1 Response May 17

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    I need you to pay attention. Everything is going to be okay. I know it’s hard for you right now. It hurts just to think about it and that isn’t the easiest thing in the world...
    BlackSeoul BlackSeoul 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I have a set goal of what I don't want in a partner . I do have high standards I don't want to be with the person for the heck of it . I want it to be going somewhere with a mature...
    lola94dreams lola94dreams 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    well who am I, I'm just a confusing teen going through what life have to offers, grew without a mom, and a dad who is on and off never been for me anywhere in life, graduation...
    tishev210 tishev210 13-15, F 22 hrs ago

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    Hi, I am Julieta, a 20 year old, and I am currently dating a 24 year old guy I met in college. Something has happened that I need advice on, but I would like to first give you some...
    Julieta30 Julieta30 18-21, F 4 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    I honestly don't know how I feel anymore. Feeling rejected sucks.. when you feel like you're the only one trying to talk to the person you like. Its not like I don't have a reason...
    Vanessyi Vanessyi 18-21, F May 2