I Am Feeling Lost And Confused

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 293 People

    Months have passed by

    and my ex hasn't contacted me. We had a very destructive relationship. He has anger issues amongst many other faults led to me ending things. I still love him but I worry if he has changed. He claims that he has but we have done this dance too many times. He just went back to...
    BreakingTheRules BreakingTheRules
    36-40, F
    Aug 13, 2015

    15 years ago I fell in love with a guy who's

    cheated on me and got married. 6 month ago he came to see me but didn't say anything. Recently I found myself thinking about him, a lot. I miss him...
    Desire83 Desire83
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 11, 2014

    I recently got diagnosed with mono I'm

    exhausted all the time and depression has taken over my life. I feel like I lost myself. I've thought of suicide because I just want all the pain to stop. It hurts because I know this isn't me, and there's nothing I can do about it. I don't know what to do..
    sammylynn333 sammylynn333
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 11, 2014
    Spencer024 Spencer024
    26-30, F
    Apr 12, 2015

    I am feeling lost, i dont know

    where is the right direction of life. I dont know why i feel like there's always something missing in me. And i dont know what it is and how to find it. -really confused whats going on in my life-
    mhyne mhyne
    26-30, F
    Apr 9, 2014

    I just want to help him.

    ... to be with him. something. He is just pushing me away and telling me to leave him alone. Why doesn't he see that I can't. He was there for me and never left when I wanted him to send I'm glad. But how do I stay when he wants me gone so much... it hurts being told to stay away...
    KeKeNae KeKeNae
    22-25, F
    Mar 1, 2015

    Need some advice on what to do.

    So I have wanted to move for a long time. And I got offered a job over in a another state. Now I have the opportunity to have the fresh start I wanted. I am having second thoughts. I am thinking what if I put that effort into staying and improving the life I have now.
    Crystalclear91 Crystalclear91
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jul 20, 2014

    My boyfriend has been pressuring me to set a

    date for our wedding. So finally, I did. Within minutes, while talking about wedding ideas, he's barely listening and browsing Facebook. He accidentally comes across his ex wife's Facebook. (They have been divorced for 20 years). He inhales sharply, like he just got startled...
    DreamChristine DreamChristine
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Aug 18, 2014

    So I made a post a few days back about how I

    didn't even have a crush. Recently I've realized that this isn't really true, in a rather painful way. A girl who I've been talking with for a while now stopped completely talking with me for a whole week. She saw my messages, but never responded. Before this break in...
    dabram71 dabram71
    18-21, M
    1 Response Dec 10, 2014

    I dont know if Im really sad

    or if sadness just became my habit.
    Spencer024 Spencer024
    26-30, F
    Dec 6, 2014

    I miss my ex he was so nice caring

    if I needed something he'd do it for me in a split second. We only been together for 2 months a few days ago I had to break it off I never realized how much he drinks I told him many times I am not going through a relationship where my boyfriend is drunk every chance he gets he...
    Dayday4204 Dayday4204
    22-25, F
    Jan 12, 2015

    My boyfriend and were together

    for 4 years and we broke up 3 month ago, he said we weren't the right fit. We didn't talk for about a month and then started talking agin, I found out that he was already seeing someone new, he lies to his new girl friend that we even talk as far as she knows we have no contact...
    key07 key07
    31-35, F
    Jun 8, 2014

    What else is there to say.

    (Not looking for sympathy or attention... Just wanted to post my current feeling)
    Clairebear95 Clairebear95
    22-25, F
    Mar 28, 2016

    I'm a newbie. Confident

    and outgoing professional but feel a bit lost and soulless on the inside. Surrounded by people but feel lonely a lot of the time. Some times you can't talk openly to the people closest to you.
    moniqueantoinette moniqueantoinette
    51-55, F
    May 10, 2014


    MOVE ON when the one person who you trusted faithfully and blindly hurts you beyond words my soul cries and feels as if can never be truly happy again My husband cheated on me after 11 years together and he is doing everything I can think of yo show me how deeply sorry he is...
    brokenconfusedwoman brokenconfusedwoman
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Apr 10, 2014

    ................. :( .

    stallionblack stallionblack
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jun 28, 2015


    I'm not a poet, nor do I rhyme sentences but I know whats in my heart.  And i'm lost.  I try so hard everyday to be happy and to feel satisfied with my life.  When really I just want to break down.  On the outside it seems like I have a lot but how is it that I have so much...
    ec424 ec424
    26-30, M
    2 Responses May 26, 2011

    I failed my driving test,

    i'm failing my classes, i'm traumatized by my lifeguarding job, my friends somewhat bully me or hate me, my family criticizes me a lot, people tell me i'm annoying. So what am i supposed to do then? How can i move forward if something is always in the way or pushing me down? I...
    ohayomegu ohayomegu
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 28, 2016

    My boyfriend broke up with me And it's been

    one day and his saying how much he loves and misses me
    crazyminds crazyminds
    22-25, M
    Jul 26, 2014

    Lost And Confused

    Sometimes I'm not sure if I am coming or going, because of my past. I know that I shouldn't let my past run my life, but because of all the abuse and pain that I have had in my life. I feel like it is time for a change. The hurt and pain have made me stronger in some ways but in...
    KajonLover51 KajonLover51
    51-55, F
    Apr 18, 2011

    I have a guy best friend,

    and he's married, (bad marriage) but he sometimes asks to see my eyes, asks how old I am (only since I turned 18) and occasionally gives me pats on the head and back. He tells me lots of things about him, and last time he gave me a hug, he initiated it (and I was remembering the...
    zydeko zydeko
    Apr 12, 2015

    This is my experience with love

    and doubt (read on- it's not all rainbows and butterfly's, there's a twist). I welcome all of your feedback (and ridicule) and would love to know if anyone has been in a similar dilemma that I am facing. I am in love with a wonderful man- he is thoughtful, gentle, and kind; we...
    HopefulLovelyLioness HopefulLovelyLioness
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 9, 2014

    My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship

    for over a year now. And I brought up the discussion about future plans such as getting a place together Although I'm still young and not ready for that just yet, I want to know where we are at in 3-5 years time. And he says he won't move in with me . I do love him but I don't...
    crazyminds crazyminds
    22-25, M
    Feb 5, 2015

    Right now I am a senior

    and only have about a month until graduation. I have so much going on and it feels like it's closing in, chocking me. All my life I have dreamed of being a veterinarian. But reality kicked in the past two years and I've doubted myself. Thinking that it's too much responsibility...
    rainabaina rainabaina
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 9, 2014

    I don't like the person

    that I'm becoming
    dylannnnn dylannnnn
    18-21, M
    1 Response Apr 11, 2014

    I'm just feeling sick in the stomach

    and I hv no idea why I wrote exam the other day pass all my subjects with great grades everyone is happy for me but I'm just not feeling it idk there are certain things u just can't explain rite?
    Degeneralfuqu1 Degeneralfuqu1
    18-21, F
    Aug 16, 2015

    I'm not sure how to start off,

    I'm not the best when it comes to communications, but I want give this a try. I'm not sure how this will come across, but I want to give this a try. This is for anyone who is depressed, feeling like a failure, who has losing hope, or has just given up hope. You are probably...
    BudBorden88 BudBorden88
    26-30, M
    Jun 7, 2014

    I met this guy not intentionally off this app 2

    months ago as a joke and everything was a joke and somehow I've managed to change his views and he actually genuinely really likes me and I don't like him like that because he's not my type and we are just 2 very different people.. I've tried several approaches to get rid of him...
    sourwatermelon sourwatermelon
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 30, 2014

    So. My dad died when I was younger like 7 I

    don't remember him much or his family. But yesterday night his sister was looking for me and found me on facebook!!!!!!!! Like wtf lady I am 20 years old why look for me now? Anyways she was telling me stuff about my dad and how he died and stuff she was asking me about my life...
    Dayday4204 Dayday4204
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 29, 2014

    Been separated for the past 10 months from my

    wife. I felt betrayed and was angry when she first left. My heart was slowly healing, I tried dating but something just didn't feel right. When I was with the lady I was dating, nothing else seemed to matter, I felt so alive but empty inside. We broke things off since she...
    Jar92380 Jar92380
    36-40, M
    Jun 24, 2014

    I'm just so confused right now

    and can use some advice for liking someone and this may sound weird but also some tips for getting someone to keep liking you but not ask you out.... If that makes sence
    alotofquestions891 alotofquestions891
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 11, 2014
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