I Am Finally Over My Ex

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    I Used to Love Him

    Now I dont... After 3 years of make ups and breakups, pain and forgiveness, heartbreaks and TWO KIDS...my ex went on his way with another woman. I cried, and cried and hated him and prayed for us to get back together and fasted and hated men for a long time. I hated her. I...
    soulspin27 soulspin27
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Nov 3, 2007

    Wow...

    i used to harbor all of this hatred and ill will towards my ex. it was something foreign and completely new to me....i couldn't stand the way it made me feel. it was a full time job to hate that way. i learned today that his house of cards is falling down. the four women he was...
    WoobieTuesday WoobieTuesday
    36-40, F
    8 Responses Apr 13, 2011

    No More Waiting For Him To Fix His Brokeness

    I watched him leave town twice...it hurt me...twice. He has mental health issues...and it turns out that he is a prolific womanizer.  His idea of a strong woman is a woman that will take care of him and cater to him. He has me so F****D up...there is NO WAY i will become his...
    greatestmiracleitw greatestmiracleitw
    31-35
    1 Response Jun 25, 2011

    I Want You To See

    I want you to see how happy i am without you I want you to see the way i look at him I've never looked at you like that before I was never happy with you You brought out the monster i have tried for years to hide I know it still lingers inside of me The monster still chews holes...
    RedHotCheerios RedHotCheerios
    18-21, F
    Mar 24, 2012

    I am finally over Lauren.

    **** that ho lol. I missed her so much yesterday that I creeped on her EP profile. Only to find out she was feeding the same BS lines about being unhappy in her marriage and loving this other guy (Same thing she told me). I can't believe I fell for that. If she was willing to...
    TheIdealisticRealist TheIdealisticRealist
    22-25, M
    Feb 15

    To Him

    Talking to you last night really helped. I finally got to tell you how im feeling. I finally got to get it all out there. You know ill always love you but im not in love with you no more. Your just another chapter in my book. Id used to dwell on the past and just the good times...
    biibabi biibabi
    F
    1 Response Apr 7, 2008

    Never expect joy when you surprise visit your

    girlfriend in a long distance relationship. But you do get an education on the true nature of someone you thought you knew and trusted.
    HPIII HPIII
    56-60, M
    1 Response Apr 9

    Finally after the past few months iv come to

    realise what is more important in a relationship; ME!:-) It's about how you feel. You shouldn't feel dominated in a relationship! Love is about receiving and giving energy which makes the energy a WHOLE instead of just a 1/2. I'm finally free, I feel happy to be alone. I'm...
    Rubyalexander Rubyalexander
    22-25, F
    Nov 19, 2014

    I Am Finally Over My Ex

    my ex is a stalker, a life ruiner. he made my friend think that i called her aunt a b***h but i really didnt when it was him i tried to explain it to her but she didnt care we havent talked since then but im over him once and for all
    corkeybaby08 corkeybaby08
    16-17, F
    Jul 6, 2008

    Where Is The I Wish He Didn't Love Me Groups?

    just wondering...my ex showed up at the house the other day. He was worried when i didn't answer the phone...i was out and left the phone at home. Here is the thing, he left me and the kids for another women, he has been living with this person for 9 months now and he said...
    phoenix2011 phoenix2011
    36-40, F
    Sep 14, 2011

    The Notebook

    Nobody knew about my notebook of my ex's hook-up stories. This was my secret shame when I was with him and even for the past one year and three months, the exact amount of time since I and him had broken up. During our entire relationship, I avoided asking him about the sordid...
    runawayme runawayme
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 25, 2012

    After months of depression

    and heart break I have finally realized that he is no longer important. Finally realizing he won't come back I have decided to move on. It is more important to focus on me rather than focus on someone who is in my past. Heartbreak sucks especially when you thought he was the...
    BrittanySue96 BrittanySue96
    18-21, F
    Nov 28, 2014

    Me and my best friends cousin were in a on

    and off relationship and now it's finally over. I guess im just feeling like the world just lifted some weight off my arms (not all though). Should i feel bad for being so happy about this?
    arRushing arRushing
    16-17, F
    1 Response Apr 30, 2014

    So Happy

    He actually started talking to me about starting things up again and I couldn't believe it but I flat out said he had his chance and now it's too late because I've moved on  I was so proud and the look on his face was just priceless wish I had a camera I bet he was thinking...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Sep 3, 2008

    OKKKKKK!

    ONE NIGHT IM FINE NOW IM NOT! THOUGHT I WAS DONE WITH HIM THNE ONE PHONE CALL MADE ME RELIZE ILL NEVER BE OVER HIM!
    biibabi biibabi
    F
    2 Responses Apr 8, 2008

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