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I Am Finally Over My Ex

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 60 People

    No More Waiting For Him To Fix His Brokeness

    I watched him leave town twice...it hurt me...twice. He has mental health issues...and it turns out that he is a prolific womanizer.  His idea of a strong woman is a woman that will take care of him and cater to him. He has me so F****D up...there is NO WAY i will become his...
    greatestmiracleitw greatestmiracleitw 31-35 1 Response Jun 25, 2011

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    After All This Time

    After almost two years I'm finally over the first man who I truly loved and who in turn broke my heart. It happened just the other day that I was looking at a picture of him, he was holding the baby he had with the girl he cheated on me with and something inside of me just...
    Klong91 Klong91 22-25, F 3 Responses May 29, 2013

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    I Used to Love Him

    Now I dont... After 3 years of make ups and breakups, pain and forgiveness, heartbreaks and TWO KIDS...my ex went on his way with another woman. I cried, and cried and hated him and prayed for us to get back together and fasted and hated men for a long time. I hated her. I...
    soulspin27 soulspin27 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 3, 2007

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    Me and my best friends cousin were in a on

    and off relationship and now it's finally over. I guess im just feeling like the world just lifted some weight off my arms (not all though). Should i feel bad for being so happy about this?
    arRushing arRushing 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 30, 2014

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    Finally after the past few months iv come to

    realise what is more important in a relationship; ME!:-) It's about how you feel. You shouldn't feel dominated in a relationship! Love is about receiving and giving energy which makes the energy a WHOLE instead of just a 1/2. I'm finally free, I feel happy to be alone. I'm...
    Rubyalexander Rubyalexander 18-21, F Nov 19, 2014

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    After months of depression

    and heart break I have finally realized that he is no longer important. Finally realizing he won't come back I have decided to move on. It is more important to focus on me rather than focus on someone who is in my past. Heartbreak sucks especially when you thought he was the...
    BrittanySue96 BrittanySue96 18-21, F Nov 28, 2014

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    I Am Finally Over My Ex

    my ex is a stalker, a life ruiner. he made my friend think that i called her aunt a b***h but i really didnt when it was him i tried to explain it to her but she didnt care we havent talked since then but im over him once and for all
    corkeybaby08 corkeybaby08 16-17, F Jul 6, 2008

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    Wow...

    i used to harbor all of this hatred and ill will towards my ex. it was something foreign and completely new to me....i couldn't stand the way it made me feel. it was a full time job to hate that way. i learned today that his house of cards is falling down. the four women he was...
    WoobieTuesday WoobieTuesday 36-40, F 8 Responses Apr 13, 2011

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    I Want You To See

    I want you to see how happy i am without you I want you to see the way i look at him I've never looked at you like that before I was never happy with you You brought out the monster i have tried for years to hide I know it still lingers inside of me The monster still chews holes...
    RedHotCheerios RedHotCheerios 18-21, F Mar 24, 2012

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    Where Is The I Wish He Didn't Love Me Groups?

    just wondering...my ex showed up at the house the other day. He was worried when i didn't answer the phone...i was out and left the phone at home. Here is the thing, he left me and the kids for another women, he has been living with this person for 9 months now and he said...
    phoenix2011 phoenix2011 36-40, F Sep 14, 2011

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    So Happy

    He actually started talking to me about starting things up again and I couldn't believe it but I flat out said he had his chance and now it's too late because I've moved on  I was so proud and the look on his face was just priceless wish I had a camera I bet he was thinking...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 3, 2008

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    To Him

    Talking to you last night really helped. I finally got to tell you how im feeling. I finally got to get it all out there. You know ill always love you but im not in love with you no more. Your just another chapter in my book. Id used to dwell on the past and just the good times...
    biibabi biibabi F 1 Response Apr 7, 2008

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    The Notebook

    Nobody knew about my notebook of my ex's hook-up stories. This was my secret shame when I was with him and even for the past one year and three months, the exact amount of time since I and him had broken up. During our entire relationship, I avoided asking him about the sordid...
    runawayme runawayme 22-25, F 2 Responses May 25, 2012

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    OKKKKKK!

    ONE NIGHT IM FINE NOW IM NOT! THOUGHT I WAS DONE WITH HIM THNE ONE PHONE CALL MADE ME RELIZE ILL NEVER BE OVER HIM!
    biibabi biibabi F 2 Responses Apr 8, 2008

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