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I Am Financially Insecure

for those who are teetering on financial disaster 3 People

    I Know I Am Not Alone....

    I have never known a time, since I left my parent's home, that I felt financially secure for any length of time. I used to be on disability for bipolar disorder-SSI--for many years--until I was able to feel like I could work a job--at which point I got one and kept it for almost...
    greenlionburning greenlionburning 41-45 Dec 21, 2010

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    lauracejaa lauracejaa 13-15, F Mar 26

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    yepperz. one thing i'm most insecure about? My Body. i am a natural slim lady, who eats healthy and junk food at times. sounds fun? not really. for the past 3 years i've been...
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    MorbidRainbow MorbidRainbow 13-15, F 9 Responses Mar 23

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    Apparently, people want more pictures of me... I'm extremely insecure with how I look, talk, think, and move. I understand I'm not pretty but please don't call me ugly.
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    I can't even walk down the hallways at school without thinking that everyone is looking at me and seeing all the flaws I see in myself. I'm so insecure about every single part of...
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    Ever since I was little I've been super insecure about my body. No matter what anyone says, I still wish I could change how I look everyday. Sometimes I wish I could change my...
    nordicgirl nordicgirl 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    Everyone has their insecurities, so do I, but i spend time trying to hide them. I dont like being perceived as weak, an insecure little girl with issues. I don't want to be seen...
    AlluringRose AlluringRose 16-17 Mar 30

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    Haha. Weird mix right? We'll yes I am both of those. Confident in what I do. And my body but also insecure of what others think about me.
    Leilani19 Leilani19 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I don't know how to get over it - I'm extremely insecure about myself being good enough for anyone when it comes to relationships. When I was with my ex she cheated on me behind my...
    mwp483 mwp483 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 4

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    Some days I'm on top of the world but most days I'm insecure. I'm not saying this to get attention but that's just how I always been. When people make mean comments I don't even...
    ThisAsianLovesYou ThisAsianLovesYou 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    Is there a pill I can take for this? Heh. I've been so busy. That time of the year. John wanted to go out for dinner and drinks last night, and I hadn't seen him since Sunday. God...
    CaptainHowdy21 CaptainHowdy21 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    and it ******* ruins everything. i want to dress the way i want without feeling lile a bloated wale. i want to look in the mirror and see a beautiful lively girl with glowing skin...
    bongripper1 bongripper1 16-17, F Apr 12

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    I know my boyfriend isn't hiding anything but I will always have this fear of him hurting me. I have been hurt before and i never want to feel that pain again. I know I am crazy. I...
    Mangocupcakes Mangocupcakes 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    Today is my daughters bday, she's 2. I couldn't throw her a party or buy her anything because all my money had to go towards rent. Smh. I feel so bad. I feel I should have done...
    TheOriginalBadGirlBGC TheOriginalBadGirlBGC 26-30, F Mar 24

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    We are Financial Institution situated here in the United States. We have branches located in the United Kingdom, Australia and China. I am a financial clerk and we all find...
    Jamie2012 Jamie2012 36-40 Mar 25

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    i am looking for men who turn on about giving money and gifts to ladies. not looking for a romance or relatiosnhip just someone who gives me money and gifts
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    With low earning potential and three kids, I don't see how to get out of it. I don't see any way to get help either. Sometimes I try to wrap my head around and settle into being a...
    SashaAmazon SashaAmazon 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    u see i have a ft job but all my paycheck per month goes to bills and it doesn't really leave anything for food , gas for the car and meds and essentials and on top of that i need...
    pprice0315 pprice0315 41-45, M 6 days ago

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    I miss when I didn't care. Now I can't leave the house without doing my makeup and putting in extensions, I think my hair is too short and there's so many girls here that look the...
    NonexistantSoul NonexistantSoul 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    Having some tough feelings now.
    eccentricpython eccentricpython 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 24

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    I think I am so ugly 😢😢 I can't even look myself in the mirror.
    Diamond1029 Diamond1029 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    I am about to go swimming with my friends and I'm so scared. I'm afraid people will think I'm fat. I'm really nervous
    xSweetPea xSweetPea 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    been 3 days feeling so , I want some shoulder to lean on and just feel safe again .. god I'm so lost
    castaway07 castaway07 26-30, M Apr 8

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    This is probably the main reason that I quit trying to find my true love. I always feel like I don't have anything to offer a woman that she couldn't find elsewhere. As soon as...
    solojo solojo 31-35, M 3 Responses Apr 8

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    ok welll this is me... lol I know, a lot of filter but oh well XD
    kidrawrr kidrawrr 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    Every day I cry about how pathetic I am. I just can't take this anymore. I really hate myself. Why can't I be the perfect daughter to my parents? They deserve a break from all...
    wretchedgirl wretchedgirl 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    I feel like I don't let people get to close to me because I assume that they will just leave in the end anyway. I feel like I'm the type of person people eventually get bored of...
    xSweetPea xSweetPea 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    I especially worry about my appearance when I'm dating someone. Why do you think this is? Who else feels the same?
    kmiaz kmiaz 31-35, F Apr 13

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    I often wonder what other people think of me, people that have no bearing on my life whatsoever. It shouldn't matter but the insecurity is often there. particularly when it comes...
    Hidebehindtherain Hidebehindtherain 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 14

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    Call me shallow but I've just always wanted
    chaarmaine chaarmaine 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 15

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    I think I'll just let it go. I could never quite put my finger on it. But thats ok. It might have just been me. But something always bugged about it... Lack of respect.. Or was...
    Shoutittotheworld23 Shoutittotheworld23 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    So many insecurities, such little self esteem 😔
    ItsDawnHeree ItsDawnHeree 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    Extremely, but I try to keep it to the back of my mind as much as I can.
    ImChelsea ImChelsea 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Okay so like every person in my grade has an iPhone and I don't. It's not enough for my parents to tell me that I only go to school to get an education and I can get one once I...
    kdemora kdemora 16-17 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I think insecurity is the root cause of all my problems. If I can get over this, then I will feel as though I can overcome anything.
    crypticcrime crypticcrime 18-21, F 18 hrs ago

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    why did I use to cut myself? Because I was crazy and stupid? Why do I care about my looks? Because I'm ugly
    babygirl189960 babygirl189960 13-15, F 13 hrs ago

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    I will help anyone just messages me 😘
    babygirl189960 babygirl189960 13-15, F 13 hrs ago

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    When will looks not matter ?
    babygirl189960 babygirl189960 13-15, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I have lived a long struggle when it comes to relationships. Have been through heartache as many have. At 41 I'm feeling my heart sinking as I think my girlfriend is pulling away...
    PeterBGood PeterBGood 36-40, M Apr 10

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    My name is Daniel, I am 24 years old. I grew up living with my grandparents in the Florida Keys before moving to rural Indiana around 10 years old, I've never met my father, and...
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    Some of my "friends" who I live with sent me a message together saying that they feel I am insecure and don't consider me that close of a friend and there's nothing they can do...
    goldenwings17 goldenwings17 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 13

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    I guess to understand the full depth of my story, it's best to start at the very beginning It all started when I turned 7. Up until that age, I has a great family. My mom and dad...
    heartsofgold22 heartsofgold22 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I guess to understand the full depth of my story, it's best to start at the very beginning It all started when I turned 7. Up until that age, I has a great family. My mom and dad...
    heartsofgold22 heartsofgold22 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    Seeking advise from those who have had an abortion. I just found out I'm pregnant. I'm 25, no kids, finishing my first year back at college, living at my grandparents house. I work...
    SoTorn18 SoTorn18 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I just found out I'm pregnant. I'm 25, no kids, finishing my first year back at college, living at my grandparents house. I work part time and my grandparents help me out a ton...
    SoTorn18 SoTorn18 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    I want to divorce my husband but i am too weak to do so.Firstly because our son is attached to him secondly he has become financially successful.I sacrificied my career and moved...
    kimlife kimlife 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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