I Am Fine With Being Alone

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    On My Own

    like being on my own. can do whatever I want.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Oct 23, 2013

    I know that I will be fine.

    I have food on the table and a shelter above my head. I don't live in a third world country where wars break out. I have a bed that keeps me warm, school to keep me educated even though I hated it. There's no one to talk to ,but I will be fine. Because I am alive
    Jodiewallace Jodiewallace
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 30, 2014

    I can't imagine my life with anybody.

    I used to daydream for a while about having a husband who loved me just as I am, having children, a lovely house, but that remained just a dream. I fell in love with a boy before I learned that he is gay. I worked to much with forgetting my feelings and at the end I felt that...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 2, 2014

    Happy

    I love being alone because I don't have to worry about people and their drama. Is that selfish? I use to be in the military and I was surrounded by women and men all day, everyday. Imagine sleeping in a closet with 5 other girls. Now imagine 20 of those closets bunched up...
    Losinggame2 Losinggame2
    26-30, F
    Jun 13, 2013

    “I wanted a perfect ending.

    Now I've learned, the hard way, that some poems don't rhyme, and some stories don't have a clear beginning, middle, and end. Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing what's going to happen next. Delicious Ambiguity...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 22, 2014

    I've never understood wanting to be with

    someone merely for the sake of loneliness. I've loved one person completely in my life and I don't fall in love easily. I've loved someone who deserved it in every way... Once you've experienced that, it's impossible to settle for less. I don't mind being alone. I think that...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Aug 14, 2015

    Sometimes Other People Are Just Annoying...

    And then sometimes they are fun to hang with. Probably depends on my mood though and sometimes I really do have to psych myself up and force myself out to hang with people. The good news is it usually turnabout surprisingly well...usually. There is one new friend that I have...
    silentbanter silentbanter
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 24, 2013

    Einsamkeit

    More than being alone, I enjoy solitude. I've lived by myself for three months as of this writing and I'm enjoying the peace in my house. For almost a year it was constant turmoil from the others who lived here with me. It was such a relief when they moved out! I don't feel the...
    bitabyss bitabyss
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Oct 13, 2013

    Self Discovery In Being Myself

    You know what? I used to think I need a man, some kids, a house to rely on in order to be happy and complete in life as a woman. Since my breakup which had been three months' time now, I met a man whom I was supposed to know much earlier than my ex bf but had missed the chance to...
    sunnyagain sunnyagain
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Oct 23, 2013

    I find it quite peaceful.

    ..not deal with others around me in my world, one in particular..I am with my self when am alone, fling of self and my mind relaxes for those moments, where it is not always on guard, always on the defence always reading for a issue coming up, one a another.Some days I just want...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 18, 2015

    Replay

    School started again a few weeks ago. I've been observing people more. I've been learning, not school smarts. I've been learning that I'm even more different than I thought. That's not bad, it's good. I started cutting myself again. I'm very careful now, much more than I...
    akkikitsune akkikitsune
    22-25, F
    Oct 11, 2013

    I Never Thought

    things would be this way for me as an adult. I never pictured myself being alone EVER! because I came from such a big family. the last one out of four kids, with lots of uncles, and aunts from both mom and dad's side and of course lots of cousins around my age. as a child family...
    veronica4ever veronica4ever
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jun 14, 2013

    Hated On

    Y do people hate me seriously y I'm not A bad guy but my family hates me and all so y was I put on this earth??? I need someone to talk to
    nathan76500 nathan76500
    18-21, M
    1 Response Nov 18, 2013

    I'm fine with it... Just bored.

    I miss the mental stimulation that comes with a good relationship. I miss the excitement of holding hands and displaying affection. I miss it all. But at the same time I miss none if it because I still feel the pain after the fall.
    SunlilySky SunlilySky
    22-25, F
    Mar 13, 2014

    I like time alone but I don't particularly like

    being lonely. I don't have many friends because I have a hard time talking to people. I don't like to ramble on about unimportant things. I find it hard to meet new people but hopefully I'll learn to socialise better, I'm getting there.
    minizooks minizooks
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jun 19, 2014

    Alone-Ness

    I enjoy the peace of just being alone sometimes. Away from the world, where you can finally just be on your own and not have to worry about pleasing or getting attention from anyone. It allows me to think and get my mind in order; and honestly it stops me from going crazy...
    23kk23 23kk23
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 26, 2013

    I need to be alone. And I think I will be

    even better than now.. stuck in this miserable relationship.
    krazykaylove krazykaylove
    22-25, F
    Sep 25, 2014

    It's been 2+ years since I've been alone,

    but I'm ready for it. I will embrace it. I know I can depend on myself. And I'd rather let myself down than always being let down from someone else.
    krazykaylove krazykaylove
    22-25, F
    Feb 8, 2015

    Well

    I can't actually say that I'm fine with being alone but..... I got used to lonliness, also when I try meeting new people or when I'm "out in the society", I just wish people will never have any contact with me ever again. Other than my bestfriend, I just feel like I hate them...
    ImissThat35 ImissThat35
    26-30, F
    Oct 27, 2013

    There will be times when you'll feel ignored

    and alone just keep moving forward don't rely your happiness on others. Do things for yourself, it won't be their downfall but yours if you entertain your loneliness and despair.
    thelittlemonster thelittlemonster
    22-25, F
    Mar 14, 2015
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