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I Am Forgiving No Hate In My Heart

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    Love Thy Enemies

    Over the past couple of years I have grown alot and have learned not to hate anyone or anything. I have forgiven anyone who has wronged me and I feel better for doing this. It was I that held all that bitterness inside of me not them. Who am I to judge them for their actions...
    cinfullynn cinfullynn 46-50, F Feb 12, 2008

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    No Hate

    There is no hate to my heart but i will be happier to see the persons that caused me problems to have also problems that they can't solve,i suppose this is revenge...and i will wait to see it and hear it gladly!
    blackweirdcat blackweirdcat 46-50, F Aug 19, 2013

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    I Find It Healthier...and Easier

    As I’m sure just about everyone else I have been hurt by others throughout my life. I don’t think there is now or has ever been a person I actually hated.  But quite a few I truly held some resentment for.    I remember that while going through my...
    Lexus Lexus 36-40, F 10 Responses Dec 9, 2007

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    Love-so Many Obsticles

    I always seem to be the type of person...who just can let go of grudges or wrongs others have attempted  towards me. Usually these people are the closests ones to my heart...i just don't understand why they want to hurt me in the first place. I know if the shoe was on the...
    jetblackcat jetblackcat 21-25, F Sep 12, 2007

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    What the hell is this... It's killing me 😂😂😂
    fashionanxiety fashionanxiety 16-17, F Jun 30

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    And just like that 4 years of my life learning to trust you was just like a person taking the gum out of it's wrapper only to take the gum , and what was protecting it gets thrown...
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    Since I was a little girl I never really fit in with everyone.I always felt something was wrong with me.I couldn't ever figure it out and still never have and I don't think I...
    oceanwaves1989 oceanwaves1989 22-25 1 Response Jul 13

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    Let's be real. This states the obvious. Of course if an incident between you and someone occurred that requires forgiveness on your part, you're not gonna forget about the incident...
    mandyg14 mandyg14 22-25, F Jul 6

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    a lot of people I meet say they have a broken heart because of love.. that's not my case, well part of my case is love, is that I love people too much.. but in return I do not feel...
    Starz93 Starz93 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    I feel like everyone I talk to is a fake, untrustworthy person. It's getting more harder to find a true person that has morals. If you are a true person at heart, talk to me on...
    carroyo18 carroyo18 22-25, M 5 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I have dealt with liars my whole life just like most have. If you talk to me on here there's no reason to lie to me I'm not the judgmental type . I just want someone that I can...
    carroyo18 carroyo18 22-25, M 9 hrs ago

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    It feels like the Devil cracked open my chest, dropped a flaming deuce on my heart, then sewed me back up with rusty barbed wire, and pizzed acid on me to sear the wound closed.
    SShawnO SShawnO 41-45, M 9 hrs ago

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    Robbed. No legal voice. Wanted help with depression. Family wanted me on disability. Finally caved and asked for that help. Got worse on meds. Heart attacks and...
    converted converted 46-50, M 4 hrs ago

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    My mum and I were in the bathroom and she asked me if I'd thrown up, I said no; then I left. I could hear her checking the bathroom making sure I was telling the truth and I just...
    EvaSFenty EvaSFenty 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    Been with my boyfriend for 6 years. Dated for 3 years then we moved in together and have lived together for 3 years. Since the minute we moved in together he has not been the same...
    JJP36 JJP36 22-25, F 1 hr ago

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    sometimes we think all negatives, so that we feel the pain. Is't right? but you know guys, the pain in our heart is so easy and fast to throw if we think the positives, and forgive...
    narajanelle narajanelle 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Alright so, Forgiveness - the art in which we "Allow oneself to overlook something someone has done" I've spent weeks, months, years even...talking to people researching, trying to...
    OGPrefix OGPrefix 26-30, M Jul 11

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    My earliest memory of this self hate is when i was 5 years old, and i got a secret diary. One of the first entries was, 'on my 18th birthday i want to change my face'.. i just...
    Gallowbaby Gallowbaby 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    No matter how many times people are cruel to me I always seem to give them more chances then they deserve. I don't know why. I can't help it. My heart hurts when I try to hold a...
    felicitymadore felicitymadore 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 11

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    Yessssss. Big time. My brain wants their weapons in my trash. My brain say protect others by attacking. My heart says its a trap. To stay free and heal victims...
    converted converted 46-50, M Jul 11

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    Funny how when you give advice, you actually end up giving yourself advice. I've read some stories on EP and have sought after answersvto my own problems currently in the zone of...
    defconfigueroa defconfigueroa 22-25, M Jun 29

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    I don't know what to say, I don't know what to think, I don't know what to do anymore. Maybe I fell in love with you early in my life for a reason and maybe I don't love you at all...
    brandon1841 brandon1841 18-21, M Jul 13

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    Hi, I'm 16 this year. I just really need someone who can relate to me. I hate myself so much. I hate everything about myself. And this is why. I'm Asian so ever since I was young...
    jyjho jyjho 16-17, F 7 Responses Jul 14

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    I hate hate hate my neighbors! They are the loudest most inconsiderate people on the planet. They work on their car right next to my bedroom window and honk their horn through the...
    irritatedtothemax irritatedtothemax 22-25, F 43 mins ago

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    I always knew I had a big heart but didn't know how big until today after the results of my chest X-Ray. It's not too bad, moderate to medium but doesn't explain why it keeps...
    Kindal Kindal 46-50, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I am completely devastated and heartbroken. I have a partner, we have been in a relationship for 5 years now and last March, she proposed to me in our holiday trip. It was going...
    Oblivion111 Oblivion111 26-30, F 4 hrs ago

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    rachelharperr rachelharperr 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I completely hate the look. I'm ugly, gross, disgusting, fat, etc. I hate my face so much. I should just have a bag over my head for the rest of my life.
    CarsonKid14 CarsonKid14 13-15, M 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    Life sucks. I feel like I have no purpose here. I want to die on the floor. If I had acess to a gun, I would be dead. I hate the fact that I can't like myself. I hate that whenever...
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    I'm young I was never raised to hate anything i have a very caring heart I don't have a lot if hate in me so when I say I hate someone with all my hate that's Amazing There are...
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    Life itself takes effort and wisdom; patience and self control. Some people have mastered self discipline while others are slaves to every desire even though they find themselves...
    Mirandaluvslife Mirandaluvslife 36-40, F 5 days ago

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    I really don't know why I'm about to go on this holiday, I hate flying :/
    Verix Verix 18-21, M 19 hrs ago

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    F0REVERY0UNG23 F0REVERY0UNG23 22-25, F 3 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    I hate thunder ahh plz help 😭😭
    crazywolf5683 crazywolf5683 13-15, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    :(I hate thunder!!!! (WHEN THE SOUND OF THUNDER DONT BE SCARED...GRAB UR THUNDER BUDDY AND SAY THE MAJIC WORDS!!**** YOU THUNDER U CAN SUCK ME ****!!!)
    ELKANAH880 ELKANAH880 13-15, F 19 hrs ago

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    I hate it when someone messages me FIRST and then ignore me after i reply ;-;
    ShyProdigy ShyProdigy 13-15, M 19 hrs ago

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    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 18 hrs ago

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    nanaof6 nanaof6 51-55, F 12 hrs ago

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    Not really...... I just hate it when she says she'll do something and then change her mind on it on the last minute......... It feels like she still keeps a big barrier distance...
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1 13-15, M 9 hrs ago

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    Why do Republicans come back, over and over, to this kind of thing, to peddling a cocktail of fear mixed with hate? They've got nothing else. They can't sell their right-wing...
    Mrperfectstranger Mrperfectstranger 51-55, M 10 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I hate when it hurts and I don't know why. And there's no way to stop it. It just keeps hurting and drives so many people to escape it through drugs, alcohol, or suicide. It seems...
    Darkanddesolate Darkanddesolate 16-17, F 8 hrs ago