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I Am Forgiving No Hate In My Heart

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 48 People

    I Find It Healthier...and Easier

    As I’m sure just about everyone else I have been hurt by others throughout my life. I don’t think there is now or has ever been a person I actually hated.  But quite a few I truly held some resentment for.    I remember that while going through my...
    Lexus Lexus 36-40, F 10 Responses Dec 9, 2007

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    Love Thy Enemies

    Over the past couple of years I have grown alot and have learned not to hate anyone or anything. I have forgiven anyone who has wronged me and I feel better for doing this. It was I that held all that bitterness inside of me not them. Who am I to judge them for their actions...
    cinfullynn cinfullynn 46-50, F Feb 12, 2008

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    Love-so Many Obsticles

    I always seem to be the type of person...who just can let go of grudges or wrongs others have attempted  towards me. Usually these people are the closests ones to my heart...i just don't understand why they want to hurt me in the first place. I know if the shoe was on the...
    jetblackcat jetblackcat 21-25, F Sep 12, 2007

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    No Hate

    There is no hate to my heart but i will be happier to see the persons that caused me problems to have also problems that they can't solve,i suppose this is revenge...and i will wait to see it and hear it gladly!
    blackweirdcat blackweirdcat 46-50, F Aug 19, 2013

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