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I Am Frigid

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 28 People

    Or Am I?

    The only sexual experience I've had was with my ex-boyfriend.  I was always really nervous and uneasy about it; I was terrified of getting pregnant, to the point that I refused to let him go all the way, even with a condom.  I didn't like having him watching me; it...
    GuinevereGradual GuinevereGradual
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 20, 2009

    I Have A Problem With This.

    When I first enter a relationship with a man, everything is great, sex etc is good. Then as the relationship wears in, I cannot stand them touching me, I dont want anything sexually do do with them, I feel dirty and way too vunerable, I actually cringe when they try to touch me...
    bubblegum84 bubblegum84
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 27, 2010

    Maybe I'm Frigid

    I've been married for four years, I love my husband but I hate having sex. He is the first and the last man in my life, i don't know if it matters. i'm confused, My husband knows that i don't feel anything while having sex with him. pls HELP
    Tatiko Tatiko
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Jun 14, 2010


    Last night my boyfriend and I were fighting because he says I'm frigid. He told me there's a coldness about me. I don't see it and have never been told this before. He said that when we go out or to the store, I'm not as friendly as him. He'll ask people how they're doing and...
    peppermintwind peppermintwind
    31-35, F
    Aug 7, 2010

    Im a 25 Yr Old Male Who Is Extremely Frigid , Help !!!

     About 6 years ago , the lady that i thought would be the one , broke up with me . Naturally i was heartbroken . When I was going out with this girl I wasn't frigid at all . But now 6 years on with no girl friend since , I am extremely frigid . It's really starting to bug me...
    shecomb shecomb
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Apr 26, 2008

    My Secret

    It is a little hard to start...but I think I had my secret for a long time...Ever since I got married almost 15 years ago...I do not feel anything when I have s*x with my husband....I've never told I have to pretend I enjoy it as much as he does....I have never had the...
    osito osito
    36-40, F
    1 Response Apr 11, 2008

    I Struggle With My Desires

    I find I have many many fantasies and I do even struggle with self stimulation at times... I enjoyed it a lot as a child... but I find that there is this part of me that feels very uncomfortable with my body, sex and men and sexual conversations... I am odd I don't want to share...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals
    36-40, F
    Aug 6, 2011

    Am I Frigid

    i've sexual problems since i married my husband. I was virgin till marriage but i had some interest in sex, I even felt some kind of sexual desire, but i don't feel any pleasure now, i don't like kissing, touching and so on. what's wrong with me?
    Tatiko Tatiko
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jul 7, 2010

    Being Frigid

    i joined only for this one thread though you obviously never know i really just want peoples opions to see if i am frigid or not. ok here goes... i dont like saying words such as penis outloud and would refer it to be called down below (im a girl btw) i very rareily...
    vampireslayer2010 vampireslayer2010
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Dec 31, 2009

    I Am 22 And I Am Still A Virgin

    That is not the problem itself.... I mean I never even wanted sex with a man... I can do it on my own but every time I'm trying to imagine myself doing it with a man I feel that I just can't... I used to live in Moscow and thought it was the problem of the city but since I moved...
    MayyaT MayyaT
    26-30, F
    Jun 28, 2013

    It's Embarrassing

    I miss out on hot guys cuz I am so shy and frigid.  it was worse years ago when I was in my teens and early twenties I never touched men because they seem to send of an message to me that I was ugly to them, or below them. I think it is due to the sex abuse as a child from...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals
    36-40, F
    May 25, 2010


    I am not defined by my genitalia and I refuse to be a sex doll. Get the **** over it. 
    Mdear Mdear
    18-21, F
    Mar 2, 2012

    What Is Wrong With Me?

    Ok so I never thought about it this way but the other night I was talking to a friend and I was complaining about not having anyone. She told me that all the guys we know think I'm very pretty but that I'm also frigid and picky. Thaht statement kinda shocked me cos I always...
    redlipsticks redlipsticks
    1 Response Feb 18, 2012

    Frigid Mate

    I am in a relationship.  We have been living together for almost two years.  He have no interest in sex.  He is kind, considered, wait on me hand and feet, but when it comes to the bed he is dead.  He promises to work on the problem but he is satisfies with sex once or twice...
    ajjohnson ajjohnson
    Jun 10, 2011

    Tangled Issues

    I've been single for almost a year now. I decided to break up with my last boyfriend after realizing that I needed a lot of time to fix myself up. I've been to four consecutive relationships in two years which were all very sexual and not really meaningful and satisfying in ways...
    wildice wildice
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 26, 2010

    I Finally Put An End To It...

    A few months ago, just on a whim, I cybered with a guy I was acquainted with on IRC.  After that, he decided he wanted to KEEP cybering me and started hanging around, always PMing me, saying he wanted to be my "friend". Not, of course, that he generally bothered to...
    GuinevereGradual GuinevereGradual
    31-35, F
    Mar 7, 2010
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