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I Am Gender Neutral

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    Well, I am coming to terms with this.

    By birth, I am female. But, I don't really see myself as a 'boy' or a 'girl'. People have always referred to me as a girl, and that was fine and I rolled with it. But, how I choose to refer to myself, I just don't refer to myself as female. In terms of traditional gender...
    JadedDivinity JadedDivinity 18-21 6 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    I don't care if people think of me

    as a guy or a girl, I'm still the same person. Currently I'm a girl because I live with my grandma and she doesn't understand a lot of the LGBTQ community. It's not that I don't want to be identified as a girl, it's that I feel more comfortable when I'm not trying to fit into...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 16, 2014

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    I want to tell my friends

    and family am gender neutral but I'm scared about how they will respond. I don't care if people call me by my actual gender, I just don't have any regards for my gender. I wish I could tell someone, maybe it will be nice just to tell someone get it off my mind.
    TwiistAndShout TwiistAndShout 18-21 Apr 16, 2014

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    I Don't Seem To Fit The Words "gender Neutral" But Here Is My Story:

    I am a girl, if that is what you can call me, I do have sex with men, have not been with a women. Any ways, was a cop 17 years, retired on disability, have loved guns since very young, had to have big pick up truck, and now though thin, can kick some arse, unafraid of any man or...
    KrazyCoyoteKim KrazyCoyoteKim 46-50, F 22 Responses Nov 13, 2011

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    Okay, just to get thing s clear,

    I identify as a panromantic demisexual and was born female. But, I've never really felt like a "real woman". I was raised in a way that allowed me to experiment with who I was, and was even encouraged for my "boyish behavior" at times. I never saw people for their gender...
    IcyPants IcyPants 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 1, 2014

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    ????????

    Sometimes I feel like a teenage boy. Sometimes I feel like an adult woman. Sometimes I feel like a femme lesbian. Sometimes I feel like an andro. I look femme but feel gender-ambiguous.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 6, 2010

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    Where Do I Belong?..

    So where to begin... Well physically I am female, (although I don't look it.) I'm 25 years old this coming december and lastly, I am a gender neutral Lesbian. I won't go into detail as I am typing on my cell phone (a massive pain in the Rear end) so anyway, howdi everyone! I am...
    twospirited twospirited 22-25 4 Responses Jun 27, 2011

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    Aha Maybe Thats The Term For Me!

    Well ive classed myelf as androgynous for so many years now. It fitted ok but it wasnt quite my size, it was a little to big on me. I knew about this term but i was kinda half beliving i was a lazy transgender that wouldnt bother with transitioning. However i realised that ive...
    Tuklr Tuklr 18-21 Mar 22, 2013

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    I was born a female,

    but for a long time I felt like my body was wrong, therefore I assumed that I was transgender M2F. I was introduced to the idea of being gender neutral recently, and I have since realized that gender specific pronouns put someone in a box, and that makes me really uncomfortable...
    exchangingsmokerings exchangingsmokerings 18-21 Jan 23, 2014

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    New Eyes

    Not sure where to start exactly. I'll try to keep this brief. My given name is Cheyenne... I go by Chey (pronounced like shay). I came out as a lesbian when I was 12 and proceeded as such until about a year ago when I started to become more aware of myself and becoming more...
    Chey22 Chey22 18-21, F Feb 26, 2013

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    I Had A Dream

    For the past few days, I've been missing on sleep. Last night, the lost hours caught up on me and I fell into the deepest slumber of the week. I also had the strangest dream in months.It started out with me being in the "real" version of my body : biological female. I was in a...
    netherlander netherlander 22-25 Mar 11, 2011

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    I might be. I'm still confused on what I am

    and what qualifies as being gender neutral. I was born female but always felt more male, though I don't think I'm trans. I do sometimes wish I had been born male though. there's no chance of coming out because I still live with my parents, and even once I move out, I may not be...
    tigerandmagpie tigerandmagpie 18-21 1 Response May 27, 2014

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    Off The Charts...

    I don't even know where to start. I've never joined a group like this before. I've never made a strong declarative statement to people I know and love. My closest friends (no relatives) know that I am painfully uncomfortable with my biological sex (female), but they don't know...
    b1acksheep b1acksheep 22-25 4 Responses Feb 23, 2011

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    What Am I?

    I never felt comfortable with the "limits" of being a biological female when I was a child. And yet, when I envisioned myself as a boy, I knew I wouldn't have felt comfortable as a boy either. There were times when the gender issue affected my young mind so much that I felt...
    netherlander netherlander 22-25 4 Responses Jul 10, 2010

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    S.A.G.E. Test Results

    The results are pretty accurate for me...hmmm Your Raw Score is: 325, which indicates that overall you are Androgynous Your appearance is Androgynous Your brain processes are mostly that of a Androgynous person. You appear to socialize in a feminine manner. You believe you...
    1freespirit926 1freespirit926 46-50 1 Response Jun 20, 2013

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    My Name Is Charlie And I'm Gender Neutral...

    Hey there. I came out about my gender last year, to be honest I'm struggling with it. I have a very feminine body shape. I am working on losing some more weight. I find when my depression comes back it makes it worse. Me and my girlfriend broke up four weeks ago and she really...
    punkwendyhouse punkwendyhouse 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 29, 2010

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    Stuck In Neutral.

    Hey everyone, my real name is Brittany, but I have recently changed it to Riley. I am a 23 (biologically born female) year old Gender Neutral person from Ontario Canada. I have just recently came out as Gender Neutral, but I have always know I was not your typical "girl" I...
    genderless genderless 26-30 6 Responses Apr 11, 2010

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    I'm gender neutral. I don't quite feel like a

    boy or a girl. I don't like to identify if I'm male or female (epically on sites like this, or anonymous ones where you have that choice because harassment is abundant.) I find in most cases its irrelevant. Sometimes i think my brain is something like a boy and my heart is like...
    hellokitty206 hellokitty206 18-21 May 25

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    Medication Made Me Female

    Before my doctor prescribed me Abilify (by itself) for anxiety disorder, I felt gender neutral. Once the Abilify was fully in my system, I felt...female! I wore dresses, skirts, and would not even think about wearing heels that weren't 5 inches tall or higher. I was the epitome...
    findingeirene findingeirene 18-21, F Feb 12, 2013

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    No Gender Binary For Me

    Though I am biologically female, I have never identified as such. Nor have I identified with being male, bi, or any genderqueer category. I simply feel as though gender doesn't apply to me.
    spookym spookym 22-25 1 Response Jan 30, 2013

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    I Wonder What Neutrality Is?

    It's a big conundrum for a lot of trans/gender queer and androgynous people, finding what you call yourself, and how to present. The binary is so deep that too many feel obliged to "become the other", when really they should stick to what feels right. Maybe I'm still not...
    Fullcircle Fullcircle 51-55, F 1 Response Jan 27, 2012

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    What And Who Am I?

    Firstly I'd like to congratulate all those brave souls out there sharing their stories. Secondly I don't know where to start. Looking back into my 22 years of life I notice that I have never really been either gender. I grew up mostly on farms so I've always been the typical...
    krazykat90 krazykat90 22-25 Nov 4, 2012

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    Why Is It This Way

    as I sit here thinking about all the close mind people in this world that judge and make judgment on others , yet in my eyes there is know gender or race just people , with hopes and dreams yet there are those that just likes those that just like to shatter them just...
    erin1960 erin1960 51-55, T 1 Response Jun 18, 2013

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    I've never felt that the description girl

    or woman could describe me. I've always wanted to be part of the guys but romantically I want to be considered a girl. when you do nice things for new I want it out of kindness not just because I'm a lady. I like to hold doors and carry stuff for anyone. I hate the natural bias...
    queenjellyfish queenjellyfish 18-21, F Jun 6

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    I'm gender neutral and ive told a few people

    but I'm not sure why I am gender neutral. Can anyone help me???
    Charl3yB0y Charl3yB0y 16-17, T 1 Response Oct 10, 2014

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    Happy And Androgynous!

    I suppose I couldn't be considered TRULY androgynous since I am more likely to identify as female, but the truth is that I've never felt very "female." I'm not just talking about "girly" because I know plenty of Tomboys that identify as strongly female... I mean, that in my...
    Voodoolou Voodoolou 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 13, 2011

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    I've only just come out saying it without fear

    and confusion. I'm not coming out of the closet, I like men and women, I'm pansexual in that sense, I like the person regardless of gender. I've just come into my own skin and giving people the label they needed for me. Lot's of people weren't sure on me. Girls like me, men...
    segreti segreti 22-25, F Jul 22, 2014

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    I love being gender fluid tbh. I get to experience both sides of life. I like being able to be a girl one day then be a boy the next day. Just feels right to me
    sailorindigo sailorindigo 13-15, F 4 hrs ago

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    So, I recently got moved to the female dorms due to a small incident, in my opinion it was small, that got blown up into something huge.
    StrangeMargo StrangeMargo 18-21, T 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I don't think there are two genders. I have a feeling it might be a spectrum. I was born a female, but don't quite feel like a girl or a boy. I dress androgynously but sometimes...
    Annaelaine Annaelaine 16-17, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I was born a man, I sometimes feel manly, sometimes I feel girly, sometimes I feel neutral idk what to do. I think I might be gender fluid :S
    riverapon357 riverapon357 18-21, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I too have always felt that I am female. I freaked out my wife by going to see a sex change counsellor once. Our relationship was hit badly however it has now nearly recovered...
    dommac dommac 46-50, M 1 day ago

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    I'm a biological female, who is in love with a Transgender girl, who has not transitioned yet. for a long time, I thought I was transgender, and wanted to be masculine, but now I...
    oliviairene47 oliviairene47 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    That is my ideal atleast, something I want to keep in mind. By gender I dont really mean gender stereotypes and such, but just my body and that I am a male by all accounts...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    I don't exactly know sooooo here's a bunny but SERIOSLY I don't know my gender
    Andersander Andersander 13-15, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    13 month waiting list to start gender counselling 😫
    abbieapple abbieapple 41-45, T 5 days ago

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    I first I thought I was transgender but then my friends helped me realize that I am Genderfluid.
    deleted deleted 26-30 a week ago

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    I would love being the opposite gender forever. Being a boy is so much easier than being a girl. I wish I was a boy :/ xC
    cute4me cute4me 16-17, T 1 Response a week ago

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    Hello there i am Michael/Kaitlynn and most of my life i have just considered myself a cross dresser but more recently as i have have looked around on tumblr and learned more about...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 19

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    I am a male genderfluid person. I don't understand gender neutral pronouns b/c I want to be referred to as the gender I am at that time. I just recently learned what genderfluid...
    Mk1720 Mk1720 16-17 1 Response Jul 17

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    I would like to say a bit about this topic because it seems to be like a hot topic right now. I do not believe you can be born the wrong gender. I believe that if you were born a...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    My name is Shannon, and much like my name, I am Genderfluid. It's been about 3 months since I first even heard of the term. I have always been genderfluid but I only recently...
    Shaneless Shaneless 16-17 Jul 16

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    To me it doesn't matter if you are black or white, male or female. I respect everyone and I can be friends with just about anyone regardless of their race or gender. Who am I to...
    jillmyers91901 jillmyers91901 13-15, F Jul 14

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    Ok, I need some advise. About gender, yes it's a really awkward thing to ask about :/ I am born a female, I had thought I was a boy 100% from the ages of 6-11. When I was 12, I...
    AudioTravylerRavenwolf AudioTravylerRavenwolf 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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