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I Am Gender Neutral

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    Medication Made Me Female

    Before my doctor prescribed me Abilify (by itself) for anxiety disorder, I felt gender neutral. Once the Abilify was fully in my system, I felt...female! I wore dresses, skirts, and would not even think about wearing heels that weren't 5 inches tall or higher. I was the epitome...
    findingeirene findingeirene 18-21, F Feb 12, 2013

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    I'm a girl. But I'm in love with the idea of

    gender neutrality. Love names that fit both genders and that kind of stuff. I identify as a girl but find myself wearing "boyish" clothing? My mom refuses to get me clothing I want because it's not "girly" enough. She wants me to wear things I don't like. I even wear my older...
    secrets1can2be3told secrets1can2be3told 16-17, F Nov 12, 2015

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    My Name Is Charlie And I'm Gender Neutral...

    Hey there. I came out about my gender last year, to be honest I'm struggling with it. I have a very feminine body shape. I am working on losing some more weight. I find when my depression comes back it makes it worse. Me and my girlfriend broke up four weeks ago and she really...
    punkwendyhouse punkwendyhouse 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 29, 2010

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    No Gender Binary For Me

    Though I am biologically female, I have never identified as such. Nor have I identified with being male, bi, or any genderqueer category. I simply feel as though gender doesn't apply to me.
    spookym spookym 22-25 1 Response Jan 30, 2013

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    I've never felt that the description girl

    or woman could describe me. I've always wanted to be part of the guys but romantically I want to be considered a girl. when you do nice things for new I want it out of kindness not just because I'm a lady. I like to hold doors and carry stuff for anyone. I hate the natural bias...
    queenjellyfish queenjellyfish 18-21, F Jun 6, 2015

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    I don't care if people think of me

    as a guy or a girl, I'm still the same person. Currently I'm a girl because I live with my grandma and she doesn't understand a lot of the LGBTQ community. It's not that I don't want to be identified as a girl, it's that I feel more comfortable when I'm not trying to fit into...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 16, 2014

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    Why Is It This Way

    as I sit here thinking about all the close mind people in this world that judge and make judgment on others , yet in my eyes there is know gender or race just people , with hopes and dreams yet there are those that just likes those that just like to shatter them just...
    erin1960 erin1960 51-55, T 1 Response Jun 18, 2013

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    I Wonder What Neutrality Is?

    It's a big conundrum for a lot of trans/gender queer and androgynous people, finding what you call yourself, and how to present. The binary is so deep that too many feel obliged to "become the other", when really they should stick to what feels right. Maybe I'm still not...
    Fullcircle Fullcircle 51-55, F 1 Response Jan 27, 2012

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    I'm gender neutral. I don't quite feel like a

    boy or a girl. I don't like to identify if I'm male or female (epically on sites like this, or anonymous ones where you have that choice because harassment is abundant.) I find in most cases its irrelevant. Sometimes i think my brain is something like a boy and my heart is like...
    hellokitty206 hellokitty206 22-25 May 25, 2015

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    Well, I am coming to terms with this.

    By birth, I am female. But, I don't really see myself as a 'boy' or a 'girl'. People have always referred to me as a girl, and that was fine and I rolled with it. But, how I choose to refer to myself, I just don't refer to myself as female. In terms of traditional gender...
    JadedDivinity JadedDivinity 18-21 6 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    I'm gender neutral and ive told a few people

    but I'm not sure why I am gender neutral. Can anyone help me???
    Charl3yB0y Charl3yB0y 18-21, T 1 Response Oct 10, 2014

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    I might be. I'm still confused on what I am

    and what qualifies as being gender neutral. I was born female but always felt more male, though I don't think I'm trans. I do sometimes wish I had been born male though. there's no chance of coming out because I still live with my parents, and even once I move out, I may not be...
    tigerandmagpie tigerandmagpie 18-21 1 Response May 27, 2014

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    Where Do I Belong?..

    So where to begin... Well physically I am female, (although I don't look it.) I'm 25 years old this coming december and lastly, I am a gender neutral Lesbian. I won't go into detail as I am typing on my cell phone (a massive pain in the Rear end) so anyway, howdi everyone! I am...
    twospirited twospirited 22-25 4 Responses Jun 27, 2011

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    I was born a female,

    but for a long time I felt like my body was wrong, therefore I assumed that I was transgender M2F. I was introduced to the idea of being gender neutral recently, and I have since realized that gender specific pronouns put someone in a box, and that makes me really uncomfortable...
    exchangingsmokerings exchangingsmokerings 18-21 Jan 23, 2014

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    Stuck In Neutral.

    Hey everyone, my real name is Brittany, but I have recently changed it to Riley. I am a 23 (biologically born female) year old Gender Neutral person from Ontario Canada. I have just recently came out as Gender Neutral, but I have always know I was not your typical "girl" I...
    genderless genderless 26-30 6 Responses Apr 11, 2010

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    Happy And Androgynous!

    I suppose I couldn't be considered TRULY androgynous since I am more likely to identify as female, but the truth is that I've never felt very "female." I'm not just talking about "girly" because I know plenty of Tomboys that identify as strongly female... I mean, that in my...
    Voodoolou Voodoolou 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 13, 2011

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    New Eyes

    Not sure where to start exactly. I'll try to keep this brief. My given name is Cheyenne... I go by Chey (pronounced like shay). I came out as a lesbian when I was 12 and proceeded as such until about a year ago when I started to become more aware of myself and becoming more...
    Chey22 Chey22 22-25, F Feb 26, 2013

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    S.A.G.E. Test Results

    The results are pretty accurate for me...hmmm Your Raw Score is: 325, which indicates that overall you are Androgynous Your appearance is Androgynous Your brain processes are mostly that of a Androgynous person. You appear to socialize in a feminine manner. You believe you...
    1freespirit926 1freespirit926 46-50 1 Response Jun 20, 2013

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    What And Who Am I?

    Firstly I'd like to congratulate all those brave souls out there sharing their stories. Secondly I don't know where to start. Looking back into my 22 years of life I notice that I have never really been either gender. I grew up mostly on farms so I've always been the typical...
    krazykat90 krazykat90 22-25 Nov 4, 2012

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    I Had A Dream

    For the past few days, I've been missing on sleep. Last night, the lost hours caught up on me and I fell into the deepest slumber of the week. I also had the strangest dream in months.It started out with me being in the "real" version of my body : biological female. I was in a...
    netherlander netherlander 26-30 Mar 11, 2011

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    What Am I?

    I never felt comfortable with the "limits" of being a biological female when I was a child. And yet, when I envisioned myself as a boy, I knew I wouldn't have felt comfortable as a boy either. There were times when the gender issue affected my young mind so much that I felt...
    netherlander netherlander 26-30 4 Responses Jul 10, 2010

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    I want to tell my friends

    and family am gender neutral but I'm scared about how they will respond. I don't care if people call me by my actual gender, I just don't have any regards for my gender. I wish I could tell someone, maybe it will be nice just to tell someone get it off my mind.
    TwiistAndShout TwiistAndShout 18-21 Apr 16, 2014

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    ????????

    Sometimes I feel like a teenage boy. Sometimes I feel like an adult woman. Sometimes I feel like a femme lesbian. Sometimes I feel like an andro. I look femme but feel gender-ambiguous.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 6, 2010

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    I've only just come out saying it without fear

    and confusion. I'm not coming out of the closet, I like men and women, I'm pansexual in that sense, I like the person regardless of gender. I've just come into my own skin and giving people the label they needed for me. Lot's of people weren't sure on me. Girls like me, men...
    segreti segreti 26-30, F Jul 22, 2014

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    Off The Charts...

    I don't even know where to start. I've never joined a group like this before. I've never made a strong declarative statement to people I know and love. My closest friends (no relatives) know that I am painfully uncomfortable with my biological sex (female), but they don't know...
    b1acksheep b1acksheep 22-25 4 Responses Feb 23, 2011

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    Aha Maybe Thats The Term For Me!

    Well ive classed myelf as androgynous for so many years now. It fitted ok but it wasnt quite my size, it was a little to big on me. I knew about this term but i was kinda half beliving i was a lazy transgender that wouldnt bother with transitioning. However i realised that ive...
    Tuklr Tuklr 18-21, M Mar 22, 2013

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    I Don't Seem To Fit The Words "gender Neutral" But Here Is My Story:

    I am a girl, if that is what you can call me, I do have sex with men, have not been with a women. Any ways, was a cop 17 years, retired on disability, have loved guns since very young, had to have big pick up truck, and now though thin, can kick some arse, unafraid of any man or...
    KrazyCoyoteKim KrazyCoyoteKim 46-50, F 22 Responses Nov 13, 2011

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    Okay, just to get thing s clear,

    I identify as a panromantic demisexual and was born female. But, I've never really felt like a "real woman". I was raised in a way that allowed me to experiment with who I was, and was even encouraged for my "boyish behavior" at times. I never saw people for their gender...
    IcyPants IcyPants 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 1, 2014

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     i have been stuggling with gender identity for a while. I wanted to be a boy, then i wanted to be a girl. I LOVE wearing guy clothes and going by guy pronouns and a guy name...
    cigarettedaydreams0523 cigarettedaydreams0523 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I tend to change genders a LOT and my appearance and voice could go either way, so no one really knows if I'm a boy or a girl haha.
    BennettStark BennettStark 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Just saw the Danish Girl yesterday, and although it had a tremendous emotional impact and was very psychological in some aspects, i feel like there was some awkwardness. And i mean...
    Noodlepudding666 Noodlepudding666 16-17, F a week ago

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    so today I realise I am 35 male, could be straight/gay/ bi/ wanna be cross dresser. who loves heels, women's clothes painting my nails and generally exploring what it is too be an...
    janeinchains janeinchains 31-35, M 6 Responses a week ago

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    a am 100% female. for those of you who don't exactly know what gender fluidity is and may think it's something else but sometimes I feel more masculine and sometimes I feel more...
    Kornisone Kornisone 26-30, F 13 Responses a week ago

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    I have recently been torn between looking at very attractive women and wanting to be with them, love the way they look very hot and wanting to look the same way myself!!! ahhhh...
    janeinchains janeinchains 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 28

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    I hate how men are told to not complain or man up when their girlfriend/wife does stuff that upsets them, and how sexist women call them abusers if they complain... smh
    ThrBlueDragonISuckYourCock ThrBlueDragonISuckYourCock 16-17, M 2 Responses Jan 28

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    This is a NY Times article that I found a very good read. It's the closest dissertation that I have ever found that treats gender as non binary. http://www.nytimes.com/2012/08/12...
    JoanieNewHampshire JoanieNewHampshire 61-65, T 2 Responses Jan 28

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    I don't know what I exactly am. Sometimes I feel like a man and I behave like one. I'm not like a woman. And I hate it mostly to wear female clothes... they feel weird. I like wide...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jan 28

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    maybe not mine, exactly, but i'm always confused about gender in general: i'm glad i was assigned as i was, but it's more of a matter of thinking it's the best fit. i often...
    astrifer astrifer 22-25, F Jan 27

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    I just came out as trans. Would like to talk about it with someone
    tyguy21 tyguy21 18-21, M 3 Responses Jan 27

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    Hi, my name is Peyton. I 've struggled my whole life with my gender and sexuality. Recently, I have realized that, even since a young age, I have always been attracted to anyone...
    SimpleSiezures SimpleSiezures 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    i am a guy basically but i kinda wish i was more female but still me like if i had breasts and curves but can still have my full facial hair if I want and also still be male down...
    PurpleMonkey34 PurpleMonkey34 22-25, M Jan 27

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    i hate gender stereotypes because in society if a girl acts like a girl and a boy acts like a boy everybody is fine with that but when a girl acts more like a guy they say why can...
    PurpleMonkey34 PurpleMonkey34 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 27

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    I have a 1 year old son. Everything I do is wrong to family, I can't get him cute snow boots because they are in the girl section. They were black, and the only reason the Dads...
    TellyLuv TellyLuv 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 26

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