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I Am Gender Neutral

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    Happy And Androgynous!

    I suppose I couldn't be considered TRULY androgynous since I am more likely to identify as female, but the truth is that I've never felt very "female." I'm not just talking about "girly" because I know plenty of Tomboys that identify as strongly female... I mean, that in my...
    Voodoolou Voodoolou 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 13, 2011

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    Where Do I Belong?..

    So where to begin... Well physically I am female, (although I don't look it.) I'm 25 years old this coming december and lastly, I am a gender neutral Lesbian. I won't go into detail as I am typing on my cell phone (a massive pain in the Rear end) so anyway, howdi everyone! I am...
    twospirited twospirited 22-25 4 Responses Jun 27, 2011

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    Medication Made Me Female

    Before my doctor prescribed me Abilify (by itself) for anxiety disorder, I felt gender neutral. Once the Abilify was fully in my system, I felt...female! I wore dresses, skirts, and would not even think about wearing heels that weren't 5 inches tall or higher. I was the epitome...
    findingeirene findingeirene 18-21, F Feb 12, 2013

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    New Eyes

    Not sure where to start exactly. I'll try to keep this brief. My given name is Cheyenne... I go by Chey (pronounced like shay). I came out as a lesbian when I was 12 and proceeded as such until about a year ago when I started to become more aware of myself and becoming more...
    Chey22 Chey22 18-21, F Feb 26, 2013

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    Aha Maybe Thats The Term For Me!

    Well ive classed myelf as androgynous for so many years now. It fitted ok but it wasnt quite my size, it was a little to big on me. I knew about this term but i was kinda half beliving i was a lazy transgender that wouldnt bother with transitioning. However i realised that ive...
    Tuklr Tuklr 16-17 Mar 22, 2013

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    I Had A Dream

    For the past few days, I've been missing on sleep. Last night, the lost hours caught up on me and I fell into the deepest slumber of the week. I also had the strangest dream in months.It started out with me being in the "real" version of my body : biological female. I was in a...
    netherlander netherlander 22-25 Mar 11, 2011

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    What And Who Am I?

    Firstly I'd like to congratulate all those brave souls out there sharing their stories. Secondly I don't know where to start. Looking back into my 22 years of life I notice that I have never really been either gender. I grew up mostly on farms so I've always been the typical...
    krazykat90 krazykat90 22-25 Nov 4, 2012

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    Why Is It This Way

    as I sit here thinking about all the close mind people in this world that judge and make judgment on others , yet in my eyes there is know gender or race just people , with hopes and dreams yet there are those that just likes those that just like to shatter them just...
    erin1960 erin1960 51-55, T 1 Response Jun 18, 2013

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    I Don't Seem To Fit The Words "gender Neutral" But Here Is My Story:

    I am a girl, if that is what you can call me, I do have sex with men, have not been with a women. Any ways, was a cop 17 years, retired on disability, have loved guns since very young, had to have big pick up truck, and now though thin, can kick some arse, unafraid of any man or...
    KrazyCoyoteKim KrazyCoyoteKim 46-50, F 22 Responses Nov 13, 2011

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    ????????

    Sometimes I feel like a teenage boy. Sometimes I feel like an adult woman. Sometimes I feel like a femme lesbian. Sometimes I feel like an andro. I look femme but feel gender-ambiguous.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 6, 2010

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    I want to tell my friends

    and family am gender neutral but I'm scared about how they will respond. I don't care if people call me by my actual gender, I just don't have any regards for my gender. I wish I could tell someone, maybe it will be nice just to tell someone get it off my mind.
    TwiistAndShout TwiistAndShout 18-21 4 days ago

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    Okay, just to get thing s clear,

    I identify as a panromantic demisexual and was born female. But, I've never really felt like a "real woman". I was raised in a way that allowed me to experiment with who I was, and was even encouraged for my "boyish behavior" at times. I never saw people for their gender...
    IcyPants IcyPants 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    I was born a female,

    but for a long time I felt like my body was wrong, therefore I assumed that I was transgender M2F. I was introduced to the idea of being gender neutral recently, and I have since realized that gender specific pronouns put someone in a box, and that makes me really uncomfortable...
    exchangingsmokerings exchangingsmokerings 16-17 Jan 23

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    Off The Charts...

    I don't even know where to start. I've never joined a group like this before. I've never made a strong declarative statement to people I know and love. My closest friends (no relatives) know that I am painfully uncomfortable with my biological sex (female), but they don't know...
    b1acksheep b1acksheep 22-25 4 Responses Feb 23, 2011

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    My Name Is Charlie And I'm Gender Neutral...

    Hey there. I came out about my gender last year, to be honest I'm struggling with it. I have a very feminine body shape. I am working on losing some more weight. I find when my depression comes back it makes it worse. Me and my girlfriend broke up four weeks ago and she really...
    punkwendyhouse punkwendyhouse 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 29, 2010

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    What Am I?

    I never felt comfortable with the "limits" of being a biological female when I was a child. And yet, when I envisioned myself as a boy, I knew I wouldn't have felt comfortable as a boy either. There were times when the gender issue affected my young mind so much that I felt...
    netherlander netherlander 22-25 4 Responses Jul 10, 2010

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    Hm

    Can I really live outside the gender boxes and without a label? Sometimes I just want to fit in and other times I'm glad I don't! I'm most happy with androgyny I think. Sometimes I feel the need to be male or female or both. But why put a label on it? I can't seem to.
    Goslyn Goslyn 31-35, T Aug 1, 2013

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    S.A.G.E. Test Results

    The results are pretty accurate for me...hmmm Your Raw Score is: 325, which indicates that overall you are Androgynous Your appearance is Androgynous Your brain processes are mostly that of a Androgynous person. You appear to socialize in a feminine manner. You believe you...
    1freespirit926 1freespirit926 46-50 1 Response Jun 20, 2013

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    Stuck In Neutral.

    Hey everyone, my real name is Brittany, but I have recently changed it to Riley. I am a 23 (biologically born female) year old Gender Neutral person from Ontario Canada. I have just recently came out as Gender Neutral, but I have always know I was not your typical "girl" I...
    genderless genderless 26-30 6 Responses Apr 11, 2010

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    I wish I could just be me instead of being a girl. I wish people could not try to put a gender on me and expect me to act that way. Yeah, I hate the little amount of boobs that I...
    BeingInMonochrome BeingInMonochrome 16-17 2 Responses Mar 22

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    drlucy2 drlucy2 56-60, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    For me, I've always felt different, like I didn't fit or belong. I was my parents first born daughter, and they loved their beautiful baby Bethany. My mom in particular has always...
    Shawn71090 Shawn71090 22-25 Apr 5

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    After successfully hiding from myself my whole life the reality that I do not understand my gender identity, I have awoken in the past few years. I realise since I was a small...
    Dooogles Dooogles 36-40 a week ago

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    I am a genderqueer male. more accurately, I am a bi gender, gender fluid person in a male body. I like what I have, im not complaining, its awesome, but its hard to express...
    ThrillOfTheHunt ThrillOfTheHunt 22-25 1 Response Mar 23

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    Honestly, I'm so unsure about my gender. I've started to really think about it, and I'm not completely happy with it... I'm pretty much baffled. I've never really felt like a "boy...
    quietbones quietbones 16-17 2 Responses Mar 25

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    Hello my name is Jonathan, and I am proud to say I am Genderfluid. It means even though my body and name are male, my inner self, personality and hormones are apt to change at a...
    NateTron NateTron 18-21, M Apr 10

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    Be all the genders and be attracted to all the genders - what's not to like? You'd think with so many options I'd get lucky, but no. Still a virgin. :( Still, it's incredibly...
    NateTron NateTron 18-21, M Apr 10

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    Your Brain is 80% Female, 20% Male Your brain leans female You think with your heart, not your head Sweet and considerate, you are a giver But you're tough enough not to let...
    RobertaS RobertaS 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I'm not sure what I am honestly. But I'm defiantly don't fit in just the female category. I'm uncomfortable the female pronouns and even being called by my birth name. It's...
    lovelyalchemy lovelyalchemy 16-17 1 Response Mar 25

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    S.A.G.E. Test Results Your Raw Score is: 335, which indicates that overall you are Androgynous Your appearance is Masculine Your brain processes are mostly that of a Androgynous...
    pattyhard pattyhard 51-55, T 1 Response Mar 29

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    For the past 7 or so years I have been stuck in a strange cycle of internal feelings. there will be periods where I feel natural in my own body as a young male and attracted to...
    elementzero elementzero 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I am 16 years old and I am physically female but recently I have begun to question my gender identity. I was hoping someone could message me to talk about how they realized they...
    catsforever27 catsforever27 16-17 Apr 1

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    I want to dress like a boy (i do when no one is home) some times or a girl. I find boys and girls physically attractive. But not sexuality. I have zero clue to what my...
    Mybiscuits Mybiscuits 16-17, F Apr 2

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    I have taken the test. My score is given below:S.A.G.E. Test ResultsYour Raw Score is: 655, which indicates that overall you are FeminineYour appearance is AndrogynousYour brain...
    susmithax susmithax 31-35 1 Response Apr 2

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    Really confused about my gender and feel all alone. I was born a boy however I have always been called gay or a sissy since childhood. I wonder if any guys are attracted to a...
    FemGayBottom FemGayBottom 26-30, T Apr 3

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    I am a feminine sissy boy bottom who just wants to get married to a masculine top who will treat me like a princess and wears the pants! I am Genderqueer or Pansexual or...
    FemGayBottom FemGayBottom 26-30, T 1 Response Apr 3

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    Coming to this conclusion with certainty, from being confused about being FTM then realizing I'm genderqueer has been amazing. I feel at such a relief.
    GQftw GQftw 22-25, T Apr 3

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    Growing up I was an EFFEMINATE GAY or TG (Transgender) Boi who was mostly friends with girls or other gay men who were out. Being an ADORABLE SUBMISSIVE BOTTOM/TG who really needs...
    FemGayBottom FemGayBottom 26-30, T Apr 5

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    Proud to be genderqueer! Used to think I was FTM but realizing I'm GQ has made me feel great. Like a little more stable. (done)
    CatsCantHoldLimes CatsCantHoldLimes 22-25, T Apr 6

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    your inner gender is female You're sensitive, caring, and willing to connect with anyone who's open to you. You make friends easily, and you enjoy all sorts of conversations. You...
    ib14fun ib14fun 41-45 Apr 7

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    Who cares what your gender is and who you should be or shouldn't be. Who you should love and not love. How you should live and not live.
    Maurelle Maurelle 22-25 Apr 8

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    Why do we follow these damn things? Why do guys now have to get girls by being strong and having cash? What happend to getting people by being kind? Why are girls told to keep...
    LizWasNotHere LizWasNotHere 13-15, F Apr 9

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    I told my mother, whom I don't have a very close relationship with, that I am Gender fluid. She told me she accepted me. Sometimes she denies that I am fluid in ways that I mostly...
    n00d13 n00d13 13-15 1 Response Apr 11

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    Proud if this because for many years I thought I was M2F TS however I am TG or Genderqueer. Now that I have this figured out I need to make sure that I am seeking a Pansexual Man...
    FemGayBottom FemGayBottom 26-30, T 1 Response Apr 12

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    Everyone is their own interpretation of gender. That is what makes sense to me. Be yourself and see others as the individual they are.
    BlueCedarTree BlueCedarTree 46-50 a week ago

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    I really wish I could have daily conversations about gender with someone who experienced it similarly.
    mTaraj mTaraj 18-21, T 1 day ago

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    Would love to meet a real man who will pamper me and make me his princess!
    PrettySissyBoiTG PrettySissyBoiTG 26-30, T 3 days ago

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    I think love does'nt defines restriction,laws, rule the thing that matters is how honest and good could u be to be in love...we should't judge people based on their sexual...
    openheart92 openheart92 18-21, F Mar 21

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    Known her for 20 plus years, been through thick and thin, laughed together, cried together, been in totally opposite ends of the world, moved countries, been in and out of...
    callsign29 callsign29 36-40, M Mar 26

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    Fear of coming out! It took a life time to come to the point of accepting myself. Fear controlled me. Don't make the same mistake I did. This is something that I have written on...
    Trisha60ts Trisha60ts 61-65, T 1 Response Mar 26

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    Been friends for seven years and going on strong. She calls me all the time anytime she needs someone to talk to when she's stressed or worried, and I love being that kind of...
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 26

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    My beat friend is a lesbian who I call my African goddess... Except she isn't from Africa and slaps me playfully every time I say that in front if her face. We met in college. She...
    mybonerandme mybonerandme 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 27

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    But the problem is, I really want to. I hope someday, it happens :'(
    VinceOfOhio VinceOfOhio 16-17 Mar 28