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I Am Gender Neutral

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 103 People

    Where Do I Belong?..

    So where to begin... Well physically I am female, (although I don't look it.) I'm 25 years old this coming december and lastly, I am a gender neutral Lesbian. I won't go into detail as I am typing on my cell phone (a massive pain in the Rear end) so anyway, howdi everyone! I am...
    twospirited twospirited 22-25 4 Responses Jun 27, 2011

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    Off The Charts...

    I don't even know where to start. I've never joined a group like this before. I've never made a strong declarative statement to people I know and love. My closest friends (no relatives) know that I am painfully uncomfortable with my biological sex (female), but they don't know...
    b1acksheep b1acksheep 22-25 4 Responses Feb 23, 2011

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    Medication Made Me Female

    Before my doctor prescribed me Abilify (by itself) for anxiety disorder, I felt gender neutral. Once the Abilify was fully in my system, I felt...female! I wore dresses, skirts, and would not even think about wearing heels that weren't 5 inches tall or higher. I was the epitome...
    findingeirene findingeirene 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 12, 2013

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    Stuck In Neutral.

    Hey everyone, my real name is Brittany, but I have recently changed it to Riley. I am a 23 (biologically born female) year old Gender Neutral person from Ontario Canada. I have just recently came out as Gender Neutral, but I have always know I was not your typical "girl" I...
    genderless genderless 26-30 6 Responses Apr 11, 2010

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    I Don't Seem To Fit The Words "gender Neutral" But Here Is My Story:

    I am a girl, if that is what you can call me, I do have sex with men, have not been with a women. Any ways, was a cop 17 years, retired on disability, have loved guns since very young, had to have big pick up truck, and now though thin, can kick some arse, unafraid of any man or...
    KrazyCoyoteKim KrazyCoyoteKim 46-50, F 22 Responses Nov 13, 2011

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    No Gender Binary For Me

    Though I am biologically female, I have never identified as such. Nor have I identified with being male, bi, or any genderqueer category. I simply feel as though gender doesn't apply to me.
    spookym spookym 22-25 Jan 30, 2013

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    Why Is It This Way

    as I sit here thinking about all the close mind people in this world that judge and make judgment on others , yet in my eyes there is know gender or race just people , with hopes and dreams yet there are those that just likes those that just like to shatter them just...
    erin1960 erin1960 51-55, T 1 Response Jun 18, 2013

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    My Name Is Charlie And I'm Gender Neutral...

    Hey there. I came out about my gender last year, to be honest I'm struggling with it. I have a very feminine body shape. I am working on losing some more weight. I find when my depression comes back it makes it worse. Me and my girlfriend broke up four weeks ago and she really...
    punkwendyhouse punkwendyhouse 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 29, 2010

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    I was born a female,

    but for a long time I felt like my body was wrong, therefore I assumed that I was transgender M2F. I was introduced to the idea of being gender neutral recently, and I have since realized that gender specific pronouns put someone in a box, and that makes me really uncomfortable...
    exchangingsmokerings exchangingsmokerings 16-17 Jan 23

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    Okay, just to get thing s clear,

    I identify as a panromantic demisexual and was born female. But, I've never really felt like a "real woman". I was raised in a way that allowed me to experiment with who I was, and was even encouraged for my "boyish behavior" at times. I never saw people for their gender...
    IcyPants IcyPants 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    I've only just come out saying it without fear

    and confusion. I'm not coming out of the closet, I like men and women, I'm pansexual in that sense, I like the person regardless of gender. I've just come into my own skin and giving people the label they needed for me. Lot's of people weren't sure on me. Girls like me, men...
    segreti segreti 22-25, F Jul 22

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    Happy And Androgynous!

    I suppose I couldn't be considered TRULY androgynous since I am more likely to identify as female, but the truth is that I've never felt very "female." I'm not just talking about "girly" because I know plenty of Tomboys that identify as strongly female... I mean, that in my...
    Voodoolou Voodoolou 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 13, 2011

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    I lean toward both genders,

    mostly male, but people who don't know me would think I am a female. I have very feminine traits, but I also have uh, male parts. I would say I'm neutral and would never want to pick one or the other!
    xhet xhet 18-21, T May 28

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    I don't care if people think of me

    as a guy or a girl, I'm still the same person. Currently I'm a girl because I live with my grandma and she doesn't understand a lot of the LGBTQ community. It's not that I don't want to be identified as a girl, it's that I feel more comfortable when I'm not trying to fit into...
    brokenbutalive brokenbutalive 13-15, T Jun 16

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    I Wonder What Neutrality Is?

    It's a big conundrum for a lot of trans/gender queer and androgynous people, finding what you call yourself, and how to present. The binary is so deep that too many feel obliged to "become the other", when really they should stick to what feels right. Maybe I'm still not...
    Fullcircle Fullcircle 51-55, F 1 Response Jan 27, 2012

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    I want to tell my friends

    and family am gender neutral but I'm scared about how they will respond. I don't care if people call me by my actual gender, I just don't have any regards for my gender. I wish I could tell someone, maybe it will be nice just to tell someone get it off my mind.
    TwiistAndShout TwiistAndShout 18-21 Apr 16

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    New Eyes

    Not sure where to start exactly. I'll try to keep this brief. My given name is Cheyenne... I go by Chey (pronounced like shay). I came out as a lesbian when I was 12 and proceeded as such until about a year ago when I started to become more aware of myself and becoming more...
    Chey22 Chey22 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 26, 2013

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    I might be. I'm still confused on what I am

    and what qualifies as being gender neutral. I was born female but always felt more male, though I don't think I'm trans. I do sometimes wish I had been born male though. there's no chance of coming out because I still live with my parents, and even once I move out, I may not be...
    tigerandmagpie tigerandmagpie 18-21 1 Response May 27

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    What Am I?

    I never felt comfortable with the "limits" of being a biological female when I was a child. And yet, when I envisioned myself as a boy, I knew I wouldn't have felt comfortable as a boy either. There were times when the gender issue affected my young mind so much that I felt...
    netherlander netherlander 22-25 4 Responses Jul 10, 2010

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    I Had A Dream

    For the past few days, I've been missing on sleep. Last night, the lost hours caught up on me and I fell into the deepest slumber of the week. I also had the strangest dream in months.It started out with me being in the "real" version of my body : biological female. I was in a...
    netherlander netherlander 22-25 Mar 11, 2011

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    What And Who Am I?

    Firstly I'd like to congratulate all those brave souls out there sharing their stories. Secondly I don't know where to start. Looking back into my 22 years of life I notice that I have never really been either gender. I grew up mostly on farms so I've always been the typical...
    krazykat90 krazykat90 22-25 Nov 4, 2012

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    S.A.G.E. Test Results

    The results are pretty accurate for me...hmmm Your Raw Score is: 325, which indicates that overall you are Androgynous Your appearance is Androgynous Your brain processes are mostly that of a Androgynous person. You appear to socialize in a feminine manner. You believe you...
    1freespirit926 1freespirit926 46-50 1 Response Jun 20, 2013

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    ????????

    Sometimes I feel like a teenage boy. Sometimes I feel like an adult woman. Sometimes I feel like a femme lesbian. Sometimes I feel like an andro. I look femme but feel gender-ambiguous.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 6, 2010

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    Aha Maybe Thats The Term For Me!

    Well ive classed myelf as androgynous for so many years now. It fitted ok but it wasnt quite my size, it was a little to big on me. I knew about this term but i was kinda half beliving i was a lazy transgender that wouldnt bother with transitioning. However i realised that ive...
    Tuklr Tuklr 16-17 Mar 22, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I didn't realize that there are people who think this is an idea that should be propagated. Children are not gender neutral: they're born with a gender, therefore they're not...
    LifeDispenser LifeDispenser 31-35, M 3 Responses Sep 11

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    I'm pansexual, I am capable of loving any gender. I also tend to fall in love for personality, not just looks. I'm capable of bring sexually attracted to someone with just a...
    ponycupcake ponycupcake 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 12

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    genderfluid? no, you misunderstood me. i am gender fluid. *melts into a puddle of liquified gender*
    InhuldibleCrelk InhuldibleCrelk 36-40 4 Responses Aug 22

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    I've come to understand that gender is a social construct. I consider myself genderfluid
    AndroTaylor AndroTaylor 18-21 Aug 21

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    My ex girlfriend still calls me a lesbian woman even though I was very clear with her that I'm bisexual and genderqueer. You would think she could maybe understand, given the fact...
    teawithharry teawithharry 18-21, T Aug 23

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    I am really tired of being labeled a cross dresser. There is nothing wrong with wanting to cross dress, if that is your thing. But seriously… I do not cross dress. My gender...
    InhuldibleCrelk InhuldibleCrelk 36-40 5 Responses Aug 23

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    My gender? That will be for you to decide, I don't mind either one really and I don't really care enough to pick a gender tag.
    Although Although 13-15 3 Responses Aug 25

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    I was a girl until the end of my childhood, then the whole "female" spectrum didn't feel right. I experimented with being "male" but it didn't feel right either. It felt like I was...
    Hakbae Hakbae 18-21, T 1 Response Sep 6

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    I came across this term about a week ago, and I think it might have been my "aha!" moment. I've been trying to find myself lately, and a lot of mornings I wake up and I feel like...
    laurynnm43 laurynnm43 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I found freedom in my own genderfluid life so of course I support everyone else. Just be who or what you want
    AndroTaylor AndroTaylor 18-21 3 Responses Aug 21

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    Dear gods this is true!! Gender is not binary in any way!!
    Abilohman Abilohman 26-30 1 Response Aug 21

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    Why do some people immediately ask what is your gender? It is as if people are animals whose greetings are smelling on another's back sides to simply say Hello? Do you speak or...
    Moca2014 Moca2014 26-30 1 Response Aug 25

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    I don't understand why boys and girls can't be best friends without everybody thinking that something's going on. It's really annoying. There's nothin wrong with having a best...
    Brokenheart06 Brokenheart06 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    The Title of this group sort of explains it all :) I have a lot of issues with gender identity, and right now I am settled on fluid, but I am still not sure if that is right...
    WidowedNerdyNurse WidowedNerdyNurse 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 7

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    If you haven’t read Every Day by David Levithan, I’d highly recommend it. It’s narrated by A, who is seemingly non-binary.
    InhuldibleCrelk InhuldibleCrelk 36-40 Aug 29

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    Helps that I am bigendered :-)
    Abilohman Abilohman 26-30 1 Response Aug 21

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    Nothing can be more absurd than the practice ...of men and women not following the same pursuits with all their strengths and with one mind, ...the state instead of being whole is...
    Moca2014 Moca2014 26-30 1 Response Aug 22

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    Makes me think of all the possibilities in the world
    psycopower90 psycopower90 22-25, M Aug 25

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    I'm a 18 year old girl but I guess you can say I sometimes have my "manly" ways. I've been in a relationship with a guy who sometimes has his "feminine" ways. We both see eachother...
    Unicornwarrior724 Unicornwarrior724 16-17, F Aug 27

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    When I was a kid, i used to have a ton of friends, then i moved.... Everyone i knew was gone. After that i never really had any friends. I would always just get through school...
    Snsndmdmam Snsndmdmam 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    There's this guy that I met in 7th grade, and soon after we quickly became best friends. Then on valentines day that year he told me that he liked me. I didn't know how to respond...
    Littlemonkey2 Littlemonkey2 16-17, F Aug 29

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    Everyone always thinks we go out but we don't. I have a feeling he thinks I like him 'in that way'. I always have my arm around him or hold his hand but this is just simply...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F Aug 29

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    If you haven’t read Every Day by David Levithan, I’d highly recommend it. It’s narrated by A, who is seemingly non-binary.
    InhuldibleCrelk InhuldibleCrelk 36-40 Aug 29

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    If you haven’t read Every Day by David Levithan, I’d highly recommend it. It’s narrated by A, who is seemingly non-binary.
    InhuldibleCrelk InhuldibleCrelk 36-40 Aug 29

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    67% female, 33% male little lower than I thought but not surprising seeing as how I love dressing as a women.
    sissymichelle6996 sissymichelle6996 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 30

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    I've only came across the term this week, so I don't know that much about it. But I felt like I could relate to it. I'm biologically a girl, and sometimes I feel like one but...
    faithandfree faithandfree 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 31