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I Am Gender Neutral

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 111 People

    Where Do I Belong?..

    So where to begin... Well physically I am female, (although I don't look it.) I'm 25 years old this coming december and lastly, I am a gender neutral Lesbian. I won't go into detail as I am typing on my cell phone (a massive pain in the Rear end) so anyway, howdi everyone! I am...
    twospirited twospirited 22-25 4 Responses Jun 27, 2011

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    Happy And Androgynous!

    I suppose I couldn't be considered TRULY androgynous since I am more likely to identify as female, but the truth is that I've never felt very "female." I'm not just talking about "girly" because I know plenty of Tomboys that identify as strongly female... I mean, that in my...
    Voodoolou Voodoolou 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 13, 2011

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    Okay, just to get thing s clear,

    I identify as a panromantic demisexual and was born female. But, I've never really felt like a "real woman". I was raised in a way that allowed me to experiment with who I was, and was even encouraged for my "boyish behavior" at times. I never saw people for their gender...
    IcyPants IcyPants 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    I was born a female,

    but for a long time I felt like my body was wrong, therefore I assumed that I was transgender M2F. I was introduced to the idea of being gender neutral recently, and I have since realized that gender specific pronouns put someone in a box, and that makes me really uncomfortable...
    exchangingsmokerings exchangingsmokerings 16-17 Jan 23

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    My Name Is Charlie And I'm Gender Neutral...

    Hey there. I came out about my gender last year, to be honest I'm struggling with it. I have a very feminine body shape. I am working on losing some more weight. I find when my depression comes back it makes it worse. Me and my girlfriend broke up four weeks ago and she really...
    punkwendyhouse punkwendyhouse 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 29, 2010

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    New Eyes

    Not sure where to start exactly. I'll try to keep this brief. My given name is Cheyenne... I go by Chey (pronounced like shay). I came out as a lesbian when I was 12 and proceeded as such until about a year ago when I started to become more aware of myself and becoming more...
    Chey22 Chey22 18-21, F Feb 26, 2013

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    I Don't Seem To Fit The Words "gender Neutral" But Here Is My Story:

    I am a girl, if that is what you can call me, I do have sex with men, have not been with a women. Any ways, was a cop 17 years, retired on disability, have loved guns since very young, had to have big pick up truck, and now though thin, can kick some arse, unafraid of any man or...
    KrazyCoyoteKim KrazyCoyoteKim 46-50, F 22 Responses Nov 13, 2011

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    I don't care if people think of me

    as a guy or a girl, I'm still the same person. Currently I'm a girl because I live with my grandma and she doesn't understand a lot of the LGBTQ community. It's not that I don't want to be identified as a girl, it's that I feel more comfortable when I'm not trying to fit into...
    brokenbutalive brokenbutalive 13-15, T Jun 16

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    Stuck In Neutral.

    Hey everyone, my real name is Brittany, but I have recently changed it to Riley. I am a 23 (biologically born female) year old Gender Neutral person from Ontario Canada. I have just recently came out as Gender Neutral, but I have always know I was not your typical "girl" I...
    genderless genderless 26-30 6 Responses Apr 11, 2010

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    ????????

    Sometimes I feel like a teenage boy. Sometimes I feel like an adult woman. Sometimes I feel like a femme lesbian. Sometimes I feel like an andro. I look femme but feel gender-ambiguous.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 6, 2010

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    Why Is It This Way

    as I sit here thinking about all the close mind people in this world that judge and make judgment on others , yet in my eyes there is know gender or race just people , with hopes and dreams yet there are those that just likes those that just like to shatter them just...
    erin1960 erin1960 51-55, T 1 Response Jun 18, 2013

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    What And Who Am I?

    Firstly I'd like to congratulate all those brave souls out there sharing their stories. Secondly I don't know where to start. Looking back into my 22 years of life I notice that I have never really been either gender. I grew up mostly on farms so I've always been the typical...
    krazykat90 krazykat90 22-25 Nov 4, 2012

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    I might be. I'm still confused on what I am

    and what qualifies as being gender neutral. I was born female but always felt more male, though I don't think I'm trans. I do sometimes wish I had been born male though. there's no chance of coming out because I still live with my parents, and even once I move out, I may not be...
    tigerandmagpie tigerandmagpie 18-21 1 Response May 27

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    No Gender Binary For Me

    Though I am biologically female, I have never identified as such. Nor have I identified with being male, bi, or any genderqueer category. I simply feel as though gender doesn't apply to me.
    spookym spookym 22-25 Jan 30, 2013

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    I Had A Dream

    For the past few days, I've been missing on sleep. Last night, the lost hours caught up on me and I fell into the deepest slumber of the week. I also had the strangest dream in months.It started out with me being in the "real" version of my body : biological female. I was in a...
    netherlander netherlander 22-25 Mar 11, 2011

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    I want to tell my friends

    and family am gender neutral but I'm scared about how they will respond. I don't care if people call me by my actual gender, I just don't have any regards for my gender. I wish I could tell someone, maybe it will be nice just to tell someone get it off my mind.
    TwiistAndShout TwiistAndShout 18-21 Apr 16

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    What Am I?

    I never felt comfortable with the "limits" of being a biological female when I was a child. And yet, when I envisioned myself as a boy, I knew I wouldn't have felt comfortable as a boy either. There were times when the gender issue affected my young mind so much that I felt...
    netherlander netherlander 22-25 4 Responses Jul 10, 2010

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    I Wonder What Neutrality Is?

    It's a big conundrum for a lot of trans/gender queer and androgynous people, finding what you call yourself, and how to present. The binary is so deep that too many feel obliged to "become the other", when really they should stick to what feels right. Maybe I'm still not...
    Fullcircle Fullcircle 51-55, F 1 Response Jan 27, 2012

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    S.A.G.E. Test Results

    The results are pretty accurate for me...hmmm Your Raw Score is: 325, which indicates that overall you are Androgynous Your appearance is Androgynous Your brain processes are mostly that of a Androgynous person. You appear to socialize in a feminine manner. You believe you...
    1freespirit926 1freespirit926 46-50 1 Response Jun 20, 2013

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    I've only just come out saying it without fear

    and confusion. I'm not coming out of the closet, I like men and women, I'm pansexual in that sense, I like the person regardless of gender. I've just come into my own skin and giving people the label they needed for me. Lot's of people weren't sure on me. Girls like me, men...
    segreti segreti 22-25, F Jul 22

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    Aha Maybe Thats The Term For Me!

    Well ive classed myelf as androgynous for so many years now. It fitted ok but it wasnt quite my size, it was a little to big on me. I knew about this term but i was kinda half beliving i was a lazy transgender that wouldnt bother with transitioning. However i realised that ive...
    Tuklr Tuklr 16-17 Mar 22, 2013

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    Medication Made Me Female

    Before my doctor prescribed me Abilify (by itself) for anxiety disorder, I felt gender neutral. Once the Abilify was fully in my system, I felt...female! I wore dresses, skirts, and would not even think about wearing heels that weren't 5 inches tall or higher. I was the epitome...
    findingeirene findingeirene 18-21, F Feb 12, 2013

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    Off The Charts...

    I don't even know where to start. I've never joined a group like this before. I've never made a strong declarative statement to people I know and love. My closest friends (no relatives) know that I am painfully uncomfortable with my biological sex (female), but they don't know...
    b1acksheep b1acksheep 22-25 4 Responses Feb 23, 2011

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    I'm gender neutral and ive told a few people

    but I'm not sure why I am gender neutral. Can anyone help me???
    Charl3yB0y Charl3yB0y 16-17, T 1 Response Oct 10

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    Well, I suppose I'm writing this hoping to reach out to someone else. Sometimes being myself is scary. Especially because I care too much about what the people around me think. I...
    PeterPansexual PeterPansexual 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 2

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    I've always been a "tomboy" I guess. I was sexually molester at the age of 7-8 by a boy child on child molestation, At age 11. Then 15. And I used to pretend to be trans because of...
    K1PST3R K1PST3R 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 6

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    Is referring to yourself while being gender queer as "they " the only way to do it other than "z " or. "ZE "? As in , your friend that happens to be gender queer us coming over to...
    ArtsyFaerie32 ArtsyFaerie32 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 8

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    Doesn't matter what sex or sexuality you claim. Tranz-genders especially, I support you all. Your all my brothers and sisters. I could care less what you think you are as long as...
    silverthewulf silverthewulf 16-17, M 2 Responses Nov 29

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    How do I deal with being genderfluid? I can't wear dresses because I hate them, and that's the least of my issues. My mother won't tolerate "difference". My father is a Christian...
    FynnEvian FynnEvian 16-17, F Nov 30

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    I was born a female but consider myself genderless. The only thing that gives me away is my high pitched voice:/ but I'm very pleased, I looked very nutural with my flannel shirt...
    DorchaCraven DorchaCraven 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 1

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    Being born female, but genderfluid, I generally feel like the 'wrong' stereotypes are pushed on me. Sometimes I just want to scream at people to **** off, because the only person...
    iFortiTude iFortiTude 31-35 2 Responses Dec 18

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    being genderqueer can be hard when It comes down to life but we can support eachother and help the world understand us for the people we are
    ShadowWolf01 ShadowWolf01 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I've recently realised that I may be genderfluid... my first problem is that I can't be sure because I'm too scared to express myself how I want to be. any suggestions, on how I...
    misguidednightmare misguidednightmare 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    It is possible..................
    MorbidPeaches MorbidPeaches 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 27

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    Men around the world wear skirts. In the Far East, in Africa, and of course in Scotland. I've seen Scotsmen in non tartan kilts. I can't see a problem with it! Some men get women...
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 27

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    If women expect to be treated like queens, shouldn't we treat our husbands like kings? I love that my husband feels like the king of his castle. I take care of him, our children...
    TheLittleMrs TheLittleMrs 31-35, F Nov 28

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    I completely support them.. You didn't/don't feel like who you were born as is who you are. What's the big deal about wanting to be what makes you happy? That makes you truly feel...
    naco26withcheese naco26withcheese 13-15, M 2 Responses Nov 29

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    She's been their for me so many times I can't count she is an amazing person heart is filled with the kindest words she has a way to make you see everything positively and she is...
    Richard1970 Richard1970 41-45 Nov 29

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    Someone's always watching me. Someone's always there. When i'm sleeping he just waits and, he stares. Someone's always standing in the darkest corner of my Room. He's tall and...
    Colourfi Colourfi 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 1

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    I believe that if you truly love someone then there is no real reason you shouldn't be with them unless they turn out to be someone you thought they weren't. But even then you can...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 2

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    The only difference between a man and a woman is their genitals! >:0
    PartyPat2336 PartyPat2336 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 4

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    Fun fact: Colourfi giggles in her sleep. And she talks too. I was never on her account, ya'll haven't seen anything. -B
    Colourfi Colourfi 13-15, F Dec 4

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    One of my friends has recently decided on a transition (FtoM so now a he). A very nice person with a great sense of humour. Sometimes telling a few jokes about his sexuality...
    all2livefor all2livefor 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 6

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    I am very...different. I've been able to no problem accept people's preferred pronouns and clothing styles. I've called them the way they wish treat them the way they wish...so...
    K1PST3R K1PST3R 16-17, F Dec 6

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    I'm so glad I found this. It finally fits. I finally fit. Somewhere. I'm neither. I'm both. I'm me. I'm just me. My friends accept it, but my problem is finding a over who will...
    K1PST3R K1PST3R 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 6

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    "Taken a back" is the best way I explain my most recent experience. I was at a holiday party on Friday night with many old friends from college. A great time in all. My friend...
    kellysimon kellysimon 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 7

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    I really hate this right now. I've never dressed more masculine at school and at school I'm known as a girly ish person. So due to that I'm sitting here wearing leggings and a tank...
    LostWanderer97 LostWanderer97 16-17