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I Am Gender Neutral

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 107 People

    What Am I?

    I never felt comfortable with the "limits" of being a biological female when I was a child. And yet, when I envisioned myself as a boy, I knew I wouldn't have felt comfortable as a boy either. There were times when the gender issue affected my young mind so much that I felt...
    netherlander netherlander 22-25 4 Responses Jul 10, 2010

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    Off The Charts...

    I don't even know where to start. I've never joined a group like this before. I've never made a strong declarative statement to people I know and love. My closest friends (no relatives) know that I am painfully uncomfortable with my biological sex (female), but they don't know...
    b1acksheep b1acksheep 22-25 4 Responses Feb 23, 2011

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    I've only just come out saying it without fear

    and confusion. I'm not coming out of the closet, I like men and women, I'm pansexual in that sense, I like the person regardless of gender. I've just come into my own skin and giving people the label they needed for me. Lot's of people weren't sure on me. Girls like me, men...
    segreti segreti 22-25, F Jul 22

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    I don't care if people think of me

    as a guy or a girl, I'm still the same person. Currently I'm a girl because I live with my grandma and she doesn't understand a lot of the LGBTQ community. It's not that I don't want to be identified as a girl, it's that I feel more comfortable when I'm not trying to fit into...
    brokenbutalive brokenbutalive 13-15, T Jun 16

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    I Had A Dream

    For the past few days, I've been missing on sleep. Last night, the lost hours caught up on me and I fell into the deepest slumber of the week. I also had the strangest dream in months.It started out with me being in the "real" version of my body : biological female. I was in a...
    netherlander netherlander 22-25 Mar 11, 2011

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    I Wonder What Neutrality Is?

    It's a big conundrum for a lot of trans/gender queer and androgynous people, finding what you call yourself, and how to present. The binary is so deep that too many feel obliged to "become the other", when really they should stick to what feels right. Maybe I'm still not...
    Fullcircle Fullcircle 51-55, F 1 Response Jan 27, 2012

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    Stuck In Neutral.

    Hey everyone, my real name is Brittany, but I have recently changed it to Riley. I am a 23 (biologically born female) year old Gender Neutral person from Ontario Canada. I have just recently came out as Gender Neutral, but I have always know I was not your typical "girl" I...
    genderless genderless 26-30 6 Responses Apr 11, 2010

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    What And Who Am I?

    Firstly I'd like to congratulate all those brave souls out there sharing their stories. Secondly I don't know where to start. Looking back into my 22 years of life I notice that I have never really been either gender. I grew up mostly on farms so I've always been the typical...
    krazykat90 krazykat90 22-25 Nov 4, 2012

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    I Don't Seem To Fit The Words "gender Neutral" But Here Is My Story:

    I am a girl, if that is what you can call me, I do have sex with men, have not been with a women. Any ways, was a cop 17 years, retired on disability, have loved guns since very young, had to have big pick up truck, and now though thin, can kick some arse, unafraid of any man or...
    KrazyCoyoteKim KrazyCoyoteKim 46-50, F 22 Responses Nov 13, 2011

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    ????????

    Sometimes I feel like a teenage boy. Sometimes I feel like an adult woman. Sometimes I feel like a femme lesbian. Sometimes I feel like an andro. I look femme but feel gender-ambiguous.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 6, 2010

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    Aha Maybe Thats The Term For Me!

    Well ive classed myelf as androgynous for so many years now. It fitted ok but it wasnt quite my size, it was a little to big on me. I knew about this term but i was kinda half beliving i was a lazy transgender that wouldnt bother with transitioning. However i realised that ive...
    Tuklr Tuklr 16-17 Mar 22, 2013

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    My Name Is Charlie And I'm Gender Neutral...

    Hey there. I came out about my gender last year, to be honest I'm struggling with it. I have a very feminine body shape. I am working on losing some more weight. I find when my depression comes back it makes it worse. Me and my girlfriend broke up four weeks ago and she really...
    punkwendyhouse punkwendyhouse 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 29, 2010

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    No Gender Binary For Me

    Though I am biologically female, I have never identified as such. Nor have I identified with being male, bi, or any genderqueer category. I simply feel as though gender doesn't apply to me.
    spookym spookym 22-25 Jan 30, 2013

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    S.A.G.E. Test Results

    The results are pretty accurate for me...hmmm Your Raw Score is: 325, which indicates that overall you are Androgynous Your appearance is Androgynous Your brain processes are mostly that of a Androgynous person. You appear to socialize in a feminine manner. You believe you...
    1freespirit926 1freespirit926 46-50 1 Response Jun 20, 2013

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    Happy And Androgynous!

    I suppose I couldn't be considered TRULY androgynous since I am more likely to identify as female, but the truth is that I've never felt very "female." I'm not just talking about "girly" because I know plenty of Tomboys that identify as strongly female... I mean, that in my...
    Voodoolou Voodoolou 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 13, 2011

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    I might be. I'm still confused on what I am

    and what qualifies as being gender neutral. I was born female but always felt more male, though I don't think I'm trans. I do sometimes wish I had been born male though. there's no chance of coming out because I still live with my parents, and even once I move out, I may not be...
    tigerandmagpie tigerandmagpie 18-21 1 Response May 27

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    I want to tell my friends

    and family am gender neutral but I'm scared about how they will respond. I don't care if people call me by my actual gender, I just don't have any regards for my gender. I wish I could tell someone, maybe it will be nice just to tell someone get it off my mind.
    TwiistAndShout TwiistAndShout 18-21 Apr 16

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    Medication Made Me Female

    Before my doctor prescribed me Abilify (by itself) for anxiety disorder, I felt gender neutral. Once the Abilify was fully in my system, I felt...female! I wore dresses, skirts, and would not even think about wearing heels that weren't 5 inches tall or higher. I was the epitome...
    findingeirene findingeirene 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 12, 2013

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    Where Do I Belong?..

    So where to begin... Well physically I am female, (although I don't look it.) I'm 25 years old this coming december and lastly, I am a gender neutral Lesbian. I won't go into detail as I am typing on my cell phone (a massive pain in the Rear end) so anyway, howdi everyone! I am...
    twospirited twospirited 22-25 4 Responses Jun 27, 2011

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    Okay, just to get thing s clear,

    I identify as a panromantic demisexual and was born female. But, I've never really felt like a "real woman". I was raised in a way that allowed me to experiment with who I was, and was even encouraged for my "boyish behavior" at times. I never saw people for their gender...
    IcyPants IcyPants 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    I'm gender neutral and ive told a few people

    but I'm not sure why I am gender neutral. Can anyone help me???
    Charl3yB0y Charl3yB0y 16-17, T 1 Response Oct 10

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    New Eyes

    Not sure where to start exactly. I'll try to keep this brief. My given name is Cheyenne... I go by Chey (pronounced like shay). I came out as a lesbian when I was 12 and proceeded as such until about a year ago when I started to become more aware of myself and becoming more...
    Chey22 Chey22 18-21, F Feb 26, 2013

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    I was born a female,

    but for a long time I felt like my body was wrong, therefore I assumed that I was transgender M2F. I was introduced to the idea of being gender neutral recently, and I have since realized that gender specific pronouns put someone in a box, and that makes me really uncomfortable...
    exchangingsmokerings exchangingsmokerings 16-17 Jan 23

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    Why Is It This Way

    as I sit here thinking about all the close mind people in this world that judge and make judgment on others , yet in my eyes there is know gender or race just people , with hopes and dreams yet there are those that just likes those that just like to shatter them just...
    erin1960 erin1960 51-55, T 1 Response Jun 18, 2013

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    I find gender dysphoria can be very hard to cope with. I cringe at being called Mister. I feel sick when someone mentions the word 'man'. To be shoehorned into a gender role that I...
    tesseract49 tesseract49 18-21, T 1 Response Oct 31

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    So Many Shades of Gray - in a world that demands black and white. I spent most of the first 30 years of my life totally confused about my gender and sexual preference. I was...
    AlbertSAT AlbertSAT 66-70, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    How could I not be? They face unimaginable discrimination.... and it breaks my heart. These are ******* people, but society is so woefully far behind. To be born with a mind...
    effervescence effervescence 26-30, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I believe in strict gender roles, as the women and the man have different roles. For example, the woman serves the man his plate of food, brings him his drink, does his laundry...
    cycoeva cycoeva 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 30

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    I absolutely despise gender stereotypes. I think they are outdated, illogical, stupid and harmful to society. By gender stereotypes, I mean the idea that men and women should act a...
    spacepixie spacepixie 26-30, F 7 Responses Oct 31

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    Why do men go out to work while women are housekeepers? Historically men went out and hunted for food because they are larger and that made them better hunters. Additionally...
    CarmenBear CarmenBear 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 1

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    Hi, my name is sissy. I was born a male, but have always known inside of my heart that I'm a female. When I was a child, I would play house with my female cousin, and she would be...
    sissymary4 sissymary4 56-60, T Nov 3

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    The short of it is that continuing to identify and represent as my birth sex while still trying to "be myself" about my interests, emotions, physical mannerisms, and opinions is...
    LBDsandLeaves LBDsandLeaves 31-35 2 Responses Nov 15

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    Yes to comfort. It has been my experience that skirts and dresses are so much more comfortable than pants and shorts. However, as a man they are not accepted as men's wear. So...
    Adam59 Adam59 56-60, M Nov 19

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    Yes I believe in gender equality. Men are human males. Women are human false. Both are human. Both have emotions, cares, concerns, and desires. Both have equal rights. We have said...
    Adam59 Adam59 56-60, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I can't stand the word gender queer. I can't stand labeling myself as male female OR Tranny. Why can't we make this term more widely known! It describes so much about me!
    audreyxx audreyxx 26-30, T 6 Responses Oct 27

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    It doesn't change the person they are. I basically mean that if one person has a wonderful personality but is a boy, i wouldn't mind. I don't prefer any gender...which is ironic...
    TheKidInTheCorner TheKidInTheCorner 13-15, M Oct 28

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    My best friend since I was one is a boy. I think it is ok to have a best friend from an opposite gender it's actually fun!
    JordynRenee1023 JordynRenee1023 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 29

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    I guess this is where I should start.... I'm 19 and I was born male, I've been dressing up since I was at least 8 possibly younger. When I was little dressing up was something I...
    ACuriousCrossdresser ACuriousCrossdresser 18-21, T 2 Responses Oct 31

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    I dislike the fact that men usually get the upper hand in most situations. Football for one. I hope that in the future they have a women NFL. Also, there are stereotypes against...
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 31

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    I told my boyfriend and sister that I am gender fluid today and they both fully accepted it :)
    ricequeenn ricequeenn 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 1

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    I don't know if I am pansexual or gender fluid. I am just questioning a lot of things. It's all very new to me. Help?
    Gregarious16 Gregarious16 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 4

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    I feel like i'm 40% woman, 60% something else that i can't describe yet, and i'm only attracted to women and people with woman-alligned genders.
    coloroutofspace coloroutofspace 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 6

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    I have a best friend of the opposite gender, who I adore, who means the world to me, who I know would do anything to see me smile, like I would see him smile and he is really...
    amazingmoment90 amazingmoment90 18-21, F Nov 8

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    I"m start to learn that I"m PAnsexual and gender Fluid. HAS Not been easy but that is coool.
    jamieso jamieso 46-50, M 2 Responses Nov 9

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    I Am In Support of Transgender and Genderqueer People Defining Support From My Point Of View We have always managed to accept boys as boys and girls as girls, but I have always...
    JesseLeeJames JesseLeeJames 46-50, M 2 Responses Nov 10

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    I have issues dealing with ignorance: I recently sent a friendly greeting to a new member on EP who promptly responded by saying: "Sorry i dont add or have any interest in...
    necxo necxo 18-21, M 5 Responses Nov 10

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    I got really mad at my mom the other day I went into the boys section of a store and she said she's tired of buying boys stuff I almost cried because well most days I feel like a...
    snowlilly53 snowlilly53 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 16

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    Every time I think about gender equality I think about an imaginary conversation between a man and a woman, where he asks her what she's good at? And she says well, I can take...
    hpesoj88 hpesoj88 26-30, M Nov 18

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