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I Am Gender Neutral

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    I was born a female,

    but for a long time I felt like my body was wrong, therefore I assumed that I was transgender M2F. I was introduced to the idea of being gender neutral recently, and I have since realized that gender specific pronouns put someone in a box, and that makes me really uncomfortable...
    exchangingsmokerings exchangingsmokerings 18-21 Jan 23, 2014

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    New Eyes

    Not sure where to start exactly. I'll try to keep this brief. My given name is Cheyenne... I go by Chey (pronounced like shay). I came out as a lesbian when I was 12 and proceeded as such until about a year ago when I started to become more aware of myself and becoming more...
    Chey22 Chey22 18-21, F Feb 26, 2013

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    I've never felt that the description girl

    or woman could describe me. I've always wanted to be part of the guys but romantically I want to be considered a girl. when you do nice things for new I want it out of kindness not just because I'm a lady. I like to hold doors and carry stuff for anyone. I hate the natural bias...
    queenjellyfish queenjellyfish 18-21, F Jun 6

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    I'm gender neutral. I don't quite feel like a

    boy or a girl. I don't like to identify if I'm male or female (epically on sites like this, or anonymous ones where you have that choice because harassment is abundant.) I find in most cases its irrelevant. Sometimes i think my brain is something like a boy and my heart is like...
    hellokitty206 hellokitty206 18-21 May 25

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    Where Do I Belong?..

    So where to begin... Well physically I am female, (although I don't look it.) I'm 25 years old this coming december and lastly, I am a gender neutral Lesbian. I won't go into detail as I am typing on my cell phone (a massive pain in the Rear end) so anyway, howdi everyone! I am...
    twospirited twospirited 22-25 4 Responses Jun 27, 2011

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    Aha Maybe Thats The Term For Me!

    Well ive classed myelf as androgynous for so many years now. It fitted ok but it wasnt quite my size, it was a little to big on me. I knew about this term but i was kinda half beliving i was a lazy transgender that wouldnt bother with transitioning. However i realised that ive...
    Tuklr Tuklr 18-21 Mar 22, 2013

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    ????????

    Sometimes I feel like a teenage boy. Sometimes I feel like an adult woman. Sometimes I feel like a femme lesbian. Sometimes I feel like an andro. I look femme but feel gender-ambiguous.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 6, 2010

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    No Gender Binary For Me

    Though I am biologically female, I have never identified as such. Nor have I identified with being male, bi, or any genderqueer category. I simply feel as though gender doesn't apply to me.
    spookym spookym 22-25 1 Response Jan 30, 2013

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    S.A.G.E. Test Results

    The results are pretty accurate for me...hmmm Your Raw Score is: 325, which indicates that overall you are Androgynous Your appearance is Androgynous Your brain processes are mostly that of a Androgynous person. You appear to socialize in a feminine manner. You believe you...
    1freespirit926 1freespirit926 46-50 1 Response Jun 20, 2013

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    Medication Made Me Female

    Before my doctor prescribed me Abilify (by itself) for anxiety disorder, I felt gender neutral. Once the Abilify was fully in my system, I felt...female! I wore dresses, skirts, and would not even think about wearing heels that weren't 5 inches tall or higher. I was the epitome...
    findingeirene findingeirene 18-21, F Feb 12, 2013

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    I Had A Dream

    For the past few days, I've been missing on sleep. Last night, the lost hours caught up on me and I fell into the deepest slumber of the week. I also had the strangest dream in months.It started out with me being in the "real" version of my body : biological female. I was in a...
    netherlander netherlander 26-30 Mar 11, 2011

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    Well, I am coming to terms with this.

    By birth, I am female. But, I don't really see myself as a 'boy' or a 'girl'. People have always referred to me as a girl, and that was fine and I rolled with it. But, how I choose to refer to myself, I just don't refer to myself as female. In terms of traditional gender...
    JadedDivinity JadedDivinity 18-21 6 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    What Am I?

    I never felt comfortable with the "limits" of being a biological female when I was a child. And yet, when I envisioned myself as a boy, I knew I wouldn't have felt comfortable as a boy either. There were times when the gender issue affected my young mind so much that I felt...
    netherlander netherlander 26-30 4 Responses Jul 10, 2010

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    Stuck In Neutral.

    Hey everyone, my real name is Brittany, but I have recently changed it to Riley. I am a 23 (biologically born female) year old Gender Neutral person from Ontario Canada. I have just recently came out as Gender Neutral, but I have always know I was not your typical "girl" I...
    genderless genderless 26-30 6 Responses Apr 11, 2010

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    I might be. I'm still confused on what I am

    and what qualifies as being gender neutral. I was born female but always felt more male, though I don't think I'm trans. I do sometimes wish I had been born male though. there's no chance of coming out because I still live with my parents, and even once I move out, I may not be...
    tigerandmagpie tigerandmagpie 18-21 1 Response May 27, 2014

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    Happy And Androgynous!

    I suppose I couldn't be considered TRULY androgynous since I am more likely to identify as female, but the truth is that I've never felt very "female." I'm not just talking about "girly" because I know plenty of Tomboys that identify as strongly female... I mean, that in my...
    Voodoolou Voodoolou 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 13, 2011

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    I don't care if people think of me

    as a guy or a girl, I'm still the same person. Currently I'm a girl because I live with my grandma and she doesn't understand a lot of the LGBTQ community. It's not that I don't want to be identified as a girl, it's that I feel more comfortable when I'm not trying to fit into...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 16, 2014

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    I'm gender neutral and ive told a few people

    but I'm not sure why I am gender neutral. Can anyone help me???
    Charl3yB0y Charl3yB0y 16-17, T 1 Response Oct 10, 2014

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    Why Is It This Way

    as I sit here thinking about all the close mind people in this world that judge and make judgment on others , yet in my eyes there is know gender or race just people , with hopes and dreams yet there are those that just likes those that just like to shatter them just...
    erin1960 erin1960 51-55, T 1 Response Jun 18, 2013

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    What And Who Am I?

    Firstly I'd like to congratulate all those brave souls out there sharing their stories. Secondly I don't know where to start. Looking back into my 22 years of life I notice that I have never really been either gender. I grew up mostly on farms so I've always been the typical...
    krazykat90 krazykat90 22-25 Nov 4, 2012

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    Off The Charts...

    I don't even know where to start. I've never joined a group like this before. I've never made a strong declarative statement to people I know and love. My closest friends (no relatives) know that I am painfully uncomfortable with my biological sex (female), but they don't know...
    b1acksheep b1acksheep 22-25 4 Responses Feb 23, 2011

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    My Name Is Charlie And I'm Gender Neutral...

    Hey there. I came out about my gender last year, to be honest I'm struggling with it. I have a very feminine body shape. I am working on losing some more weight. I find when my depression comes back it makes it worse. Me and my girlfriend broke up four weeks ago and she really...
    punkwendyhouse punkwendyhouse 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 29, 2010

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    I've only just come out saying it without fear

    and confusion. I'm not coming out of the closet, I like men and women, I'm pansexual in that sense, I like the person regardless of gender. I've just come into my own skin and giving people the label they needed for me. Lot's of people weren't sure on me. Girls like me, men...
    segreti segreti 26-30, F Jul 22, 2014

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    I Don't Seem To Fit The Words "gender Neutral" But Here Is My Story:

    I am a girl, if that is what you can call me, I do have sex with men, have not been with a women. Any ways, was a cop 17 years, retired on disability, have loved guns since very young, had to have big pick up truck, and now though thin, can kick some arse, unafraid of any man or...
    KrazyCoyoteKim KrazyCoyoteKim 46-50, F 22 Responses Nov 13, 2011

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    I Wonder What Neutrality Is?

    It's a big conundrum for a lot of trans/gender queer and androgynous people, finding what you call yourself, and how to present. The binary is so deep that too many feel obliged to "become the other", when really they should stick to what feels right. Maybe I'm still not...
    Fullcircle Fullcircle 51-55, F 1 Response Jan 27, 2012

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    I want to tell my friends

    and family am gender neutral but I'm scared about how they will respond. I don't care if people call me by my actual gender, I just don't have any regards for my gender. I wish I could tell someone, maybe it will be nice just to tell someone get it off my mind.
    TwiistAndShout TwiistAndShout 18-21 Apr 16, 2014

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    Okay, just to get thing s clear,

    I identify as a panromantic demisexual and was born female. But, I've never really felt like a "real woman". I was raised in a way that allowed me to experiment with who I was, and was even encouraged for my "boyish behavior" at times. I never saw people for their gender...
    IcyPants IcyPants 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 1, 2014

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    I let them rest as they are. I'll never really get my mind around the whole transgender thing enough to truly understand, but it's no reason to hate either. And I wouldn't urge...
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    Can someone explain to me more about the genderqueer spectrum? I support it of course, but there's some things that I don't understand about it. thanks in advance!
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    I don't know if I am trans- I don't think I am. But sometimes I get incredibly bothered by my sex. I just don't feel like my gender. I have gotten to the point where in my head I...
    petrichoreographed petrichoreographed 16-17 1 day ago

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    Whats up? My birth given name is Jordan. I feel my gender is beyond male or female. I refuse labels. Wanna chat?
    Earthdaughter Earthdaughter 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    I'm weird. I'm a woman, a mom even. Very happily married to my best friend who is a mtf CD. I like being a woman but really struggle with it, more comfortable dressing and acting...
    herjonny herjonny 36-40, T 2 days ago

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    i don't think i'm a girl but i don't think i'm a boy either. i suppose i enjoy being feminine but i just don't feel like an anything?? it's strange and i worry a lot about how...
    caity16 caity16 16-17 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I agree. I don't really think about my gender often unless it comes up in debate or discussion. In fact, I prefer to base my identity around other things that don't relate to...
    LittleMidnight LittleMidnight 18-21 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm now interested in possibly having a Roleplay with someone about swapping bodies (of course), interested?
    That18YearOld That18YearOld 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    I hate it when websites or airline companies ask you for a gender pronoun. "Would you like to be referred to as ms, mrs or mr?" Now you are asking. Too bad nobody asked for my...
    aersibeth aersibeth 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Things have gone really up and down and I think I'm in a pretty crucial time, because before school ended things really changed a lot. I missed around two months because I couldn't...
    Mjaah Mjaah 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    The body is just the car. The soul is the driver. Sad and mad come from roles. Roles forced. Sad and mad come from no caring Or deprivation Which is oppression. But...
    Converted Converted 46-50, M 3 days ago

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    There is no gender. Its fiction. There is only soul. Caring Or angry. Why angry. Roles. Lol.
    Converted Converted 46-50, M 3 days ago

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    I look through the Stories and Questions on here and I see alot of hate on guys. Guess what, not every guy on EP wants to get in your pants, or see whats in there. I have been on...
    ThePiggycorn ThePiggycorn 13-15, M 1 Response