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I Am Gender Neutral

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    New Eyes

    Not sure where to start exactly. I'll try to keep this brief. My given name is Cheyenne... I go by Chey (pronounced like shay). I came out as a lesbian when I was 12 and proceeded as such until about a year ago when I started to become more aware of myself and becoming more...
    Chey22 Chey22 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 26, 2013

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    Okay, just to get thing s clear,

    I identify as a panromantic demisexual and was born female. But, I've never really felt like a "real woman". I was raised in a way that allowed me to experiment with who I was, and was even encouraged for my "boyish behavior" at times. I never saw people for their gender...
    IcyPants IcyPants 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    Where Do I Belong?..

    So where to begin... Well physically I am female, (although I don't look it.) I'm 25 years old this coming december and lastly, I am a gender neutral Lesbian. I won't go into detail as I am typing on my cell phone (a massive pain in the Rear end) so anyway, howdi everyone! I am...
    twospirited twospirited 22-25 4 Responses Jun 27, 2011

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    No Gender Binary For Me

    Though I am biologically female, I have never identified as such. Nor have I identified with being male, bi, or any genderqueer category. I simply feel as though gender doesn't apply to me.
    spookym spookym 22-25 Jan 30, 2013

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    What And Who Am I?

    Firstly I'd like to congratulate all those brave souls out there sharing their stories. Secondly I don't know where to start. Looking back into my 22 years of life I notice that I have never really been either gender. I grew up mostly on farms so I've always been the typical...
    krazykat90 krazykat90 22-25 Nov 4, 2012

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    I might be. I'm still confused on what I am

    and what qualifies as being gender neutral. I was born female but always felt more male, though I don't think I'm trans. I do sometimes wish I had been born male though. there's no chance of coming out because I still live with my parents, and even once I move out, I may not be...
    tigerandmagpie tigerandmagpie 18-21 1 Response May 27

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    I Don't Seem To Fit The Words "gender Neutral" But Here Is My Story:

    I am a girl, if that is what you can call me, I do have sex with men, have not been with a women. Any ways, was a cop 17 years, retired on disability, have loved guns since very young, had to have big pick up truck, and now though thin, can kick some arse, unafraid of any man or...
    KrazyCoyoteKim KrazyCoyoteKim 46-50, F 22 Responses Nov 13, 2011

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    I've only just come out saying it without fear

    and confusion. I'm not coming out of the closet, I like men and women, I'm pansexual in that sense, I like the person regardless of gender. I've just come into my own skin and giving people the label they needed for me. Lot's of people weren't sure on me. Girls like me, men...
    segreti segreti 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    Off The Charts...

    I don't even know where to start. I've never joined a group like this before. I've never made a strong declarative statement to people I know and love. My closest friends (no relatives) know that I am painfully uncomfortable with my biological sex (female), but they don't know...
    b1acksheep b1acksheep 22-25 4 Responses Feb 23, 2011

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    Medication Made Me Female

    Before my doctor prescribed me Abilify (by itself) for anxiety disorder, I felt gender neutral. Once the Abilify was fully in my system, I felt...female! I wore dresses, skirts, and would not even think about wearing heels that weren't 5 inches tall or higher. I was the epitome...
    findingeirene findingeirene 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 12, 2013

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    I lean toward both genders,

    mostly male, but people who don't know me would think I am a female. I have very feminine traits, but I also have uh, male parts. I would say I'm neutral and would never want to pick one or the other!
    xhet xhet 18-21, T May 28

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    I Wonder What Neutrality Is?

    It's a big conundrum for a lot of trans/gender queer and androgynous people, finding what you call yourself, and how to present. The binary is so deep that too many feel obliged to "become the other", when really they should stick to what feels right. Maybe I'm still not...
    Fullcircle Fullcircle 51-55, F 1 Response Jan 27, 2012

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    I Had A Dream

    For the past few days, I've been missing on sleep. Last night, the lost hours caught up on me and I fell into the deepest slumber of the week. I also had the strangest dream in months.It started out with me being in the "real" version of my body : biological female. I was in a...
    netherlander netherlander 22-25 Mar 11, 2011

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    Happy And Androgynous!

    I suppose I couldn't be considered TRULY androgynous since I am more likely to identify as female, but the truth is that I've never felt very "female." I'm not just talking about "girly" because I know plenty of Tomboys that identify as strongly female... I mean, that in my...
    Voodoolou Voodoolou 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 13, 2011

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    What Am I?

    I never felt comfortable with the "limits" of being a biological female when I was a child. And yet, when I envisioned myself as a boy, I knew I wouldn't have felt comfortable as a boy either. There were times when the gender issue affected my young mind so much that I felt...
    netherlander netherlander 22-25 4 Responses Jul 10, 2010

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    ????????

    Sometimes I feel like a teenage boy. Sometimes I feel like an adult woman. Sometimes I feel like a femme lesbian. Sometimes I feel like an andro. I look femme but feel gender-ambiguous.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 6, 2010

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    Stuck In Neutral.

    Hey everyone, my real name is Brittany, but I have recently changed it to Riley. I am a 23 (biologically born female) year old Gender Neutral person from Ontario Canada. I have just recently came out as Gender Neutral, but I have always know I was not your typical "girl" I...
    genderless genderless 26-30 6 Responses Apr 11, 2010

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    I don't care if people think of me

    as a guy or a girl, I'm still the same person. Currently I'm a girl because I live with my grandma and she doesn't understand a lot of the LGBTQ community. It's not that I don't want to be identified as a girl, it's that I feel more comfortable when I'm not trying to fit into...
    brokenbutalive brokenbutalive 13-15, F Jun 16

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    S.A.G.E. Test Results

    The results are pretty accurate for me...hmmm Your Raw Score is: 325, which indicates that overall you are Androgynous Your appearance is Androgynous Your brain processes are mostly that of a Androgynous person. You appear to socialize in a feminine manner. You believe you...
    1freespirit926 1freespirit926 46-50 1 Response Jun 20, 2013

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    I want to tell my friends

    and family am gender neutral but I'm scared about how they will respond. I don't care if people call me by my actual gender, I just don't have any regards for my gender. I wish I could tell someone, maybe it will be nice just to tell someone get it off my mind.
    TwiistAndShout TwiistAndShout 18-21 Apr 16

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    My Name Is Charlie And I'm Gender Neutral...

    Hey there. I came out about my gender last year, to be honest I'm struggling with it. I have a very feminine body shape. I am working on losing some more weight. I find when my depression comes back it makes it worse. Me and my girlfriend broke up four weeks ago and she really...
    punkwendyhouse punkwendyhouse 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 29, 2010

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    I was born a female,

    but for a long time I felt like my body was wrong, therefore I assumed that I was transgender M2F. I was introduced to the idea of being gender neutral recently, and I have since realized that gender specific pronouns put someone in a box, and that makes me really uncomfortable...
    exchangingsmokerings exchangingsmokerings 16-17 Jan 23

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    Aha Maybe Thats The Term For Me!

    Well ive classed myelf as androgynous for so many years now. It fitted ok but it wasnt quite my size, it was a little to big on me. I knew about this term but i was kinda half beliving i was a lazy transgender that wouldnt bother with transitioning. However i realised that ive...
    Tuklr Tuklr 16-17 Mar 22, 2013

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    Why Is It This Way

    as I sit here thinking about all the close mind people in this world that judge and make judgment on others , yet in my eyes there is know gender or race just people , with hopes and dreams yet there are those that just likes those that just like to shatter them just...
    erin1960 erin1960 51-55, T 1 Response Jun 18, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    *clears throat* hey guys, everyone out there curious about gender queer people I am here to help! My name is Marley, though naturally that's just the name that I chose for myself...
    Cryingsmile Cryingsmile 16-17, T 1 day ago

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    I think we Should feel as we want and dont let conservative and unwritten rules steer our lives. We are many on this earth anyway so we might aswell embrace the diffrences and...
    vickepicke vickepicke 16-17, M Jul 13

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    I am a transgender boy myself, and I believe everyone is equal and deserves equal rights regardless of gender or anything else!
    Robotboy100 Robotboy100 13-15, M 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    This is sort of getting out of hand. I can't control it any longer. It seems that my efforts to appear as normal and okay as can be are... failing. Never in my entire life have I...
    minecrafter4343 minecrafter4343 13-15, T 6 days ago

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    I am not sure if it was because of how I was raised, or because I am biologically born this way or a combination of the two, but I am a traditional girl who is most comfortable...
    abigailc abigailc 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    Gender is like a warzone for me. I'm A female attracted to females.. I don't always feel like a girl though. I got my hair cut short to feel more like myself recently. I just...
    lostwonderingsoul lostwonderingsoul 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    I'm new here. I'm sorta confused about my gender. Sometimes I can just be me but other times, my gender matters because the bathrooms and locker rooms are segregated and when I...
    thunderstruck14 thunderstruck14 18-21 2 Responses Jun 25

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    Alright, this became a thing recently. Why does it matter if I am male or female. I believe in gender non-binary, a thing where I refuse to conform to the gender roles & stigma...
    RokerVazi RokerVazi 18-21 2 Responses Jul 6

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    This might seem like it has no relevance to the subject, but its why i hesitate with decision concered with gender identification,,,, Right ive wrote several stories that are...
    pascal2012 pascal2012 18-21 5 Responses Jul 8

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    If anyone can relate to this, its never been easy to explain and has left counsellors blank with no clue what im talking about when ive tried,,bare with me>>>> The majority of my...
    pascal2012 pascal2012 18-21 2 Responses Jun 29

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    i completely support transgender people. i just feel it must be wierd for OTHER people to dispute over YOUR gender. when people think of transgender they think all technical and...
    nobumbump nobumbump 13-15, M 2 Responses Jun 29

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    When people ask your gender and you explain you're genderqueer and they still want you to pick male or female #thestruggleisreal
    kyleishellagay kyleishellagay 13-15 3 Responses Jul 1

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    I tried to tell my mom that I was genderqueer but she can't wrap her head around it. I keep explaining that there are more than two genders but she thinks that I'm pretending to be...
    StrangeDarkSecrets StrangeDarkSecrets 13-15 1 Response Jul 9

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    i feel cis less and less each day and i can say ive felt this way for a long time but i never really figured out my gender. i think im starting to identify more as genderfluid. im...
    mataro mataro 13-15 Jul 11

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    None of this is a surprise to me. S.A.G.E. Test Results Your Raw Score is: 955, which indicates that overall you are Feminine Your appearance is Feminine Your brain processes...
    DawnR59 DawnR59 51-55, T Jul 11

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    No real surprise here S.A.G.E. Test Results Your Raw Score is: 955, which indicates that overall you are Feminine Your appearance is Feminine Your brain processes are mostly...
    DawnR59 DawnR59 51-55, T 2 Responses Jul 11

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    Found this test interesting as I've always been more of a tomboy S.A.G.E. Test Results Your Raw Score is: 435, which indicates that overall you are Androgynous Your appearance...
    crochet4fun crochet4fun 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I'm am so very confused about my gender. I was born in a male body. Grew up male, but started to crossdress at a young age 5ish, I'm now married 21 years to kids, I love my wife...
    DawnR59 DawnR59 51-55, T 2 Responses Jul 13

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    I am straight. But often question gender roles. Why do many people think that you are gay if you have long hair as a man? Also in the summer, when it is 90 degrees, I often envy...
    Sake1008 Sake1008 13-15, M 4 days ago

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    I am by nature a very sexual being. I can be the most sensual and submissive female in bed but truthfully in my everyday life I am more masculine. I naturally attract men who are...
    bytemyascii bytemyascii 36-40 Jun 30

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    I'm quite confused about my gender. I was born female but some days I feel like being a girl and sone days I feel like being a boy (to the point of wearing wigs and talking in a...
    Areiaado Areiaado 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 30

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    The worse prejudice is the one for wanting, doing or liking something associate with the opposite gender.
    InsanelySaneGuy InsanelySaneGuy 18-21, M Jul 3

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    I was born a female. Sometimes I feel like a girl, other times like a boy. But I mostly feel like a guy. I like to dress in clothes that hides my gender, I feel uncomfortable...
    faithandfree faithandfree 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    Your Raw Score is: -330, which indicates that overall you are Androgynous Your appearance is Androgynous Your brain processes are mostly that of a Androgynous person. You appear to...
    StrangeDarkSecrets StrangeDarkSecrets 13-15 Jul 10

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    I'm so confused about my gender and have been for a long time. I started putting my mom's stuff around 4 or 5, I battle the desire to dress all the time . Then growing up I liked...
    DawnR59 DawnR59 51-55, T 1 Response Jul 11

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    Your brain gender is: 31% Male, 69% Female. I think this is remarkable. It is most likely close to being right. I have been told by my ex that I think and act more like a woman...
    dianecarr dianecarr 61-65, T Jul 11