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I Am Gender Neutral

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    I'm gender neutral and ive told a few people

    but I'm not sure why I am gender neutral. Can anyone help me???
    Charl3yB0y Charl3yB0y 16-17, T 1 Response Oct 10, 2014

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    Well, I am coming to terms with this.

    By birth, I am female. But, I don't really see myself as a 'boy' or a 'girl'. People have always referred to me as a girl, and that was fine and I rolled with it. But, how I choose to refer to myself, I just don't refer to myself as female. In terms of traditional gender...
    JadedDivinity JadedDivinity 18-21 4 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    I was born a female,

    but for a long time I felt like my body was wrong, therefore I assumed that I was transgender M2F. I was introduced to the idea of being gender neutral recently, and I have since realized that gender specific pronouns put someone in a box, and that makes me really uncomfortable...
    exchangingsmokerings exchangingsmokerings 16-17 Jan 23, 2014

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    I might be. I'm still confused on what I am

    and what qualifies as being gender neutral. I was born female but always felt more male, though I don't think I'm trans. I do sometimes wish I had been born male though. there's no chance of coming out because I still live with my parents, and even once I move out, I may not be...
    tigerandmagpie tigerandmagpie 18-21 1 Response May 27, 2014

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    S.A.G.E. Test Results

    The results are pretty accurate for me...hmmm Your Raw Score is: 325, which indicates that overall you are Androgynous Your appearance is Androgynous Your brain processes are mostly that of a Androgynous person. You appear to socialize in a feminine manner. You believe you...
    1freespirit926 1freespirit926 46-50 1 Response Jun 20, 2013

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    Off The Charts...

    I don't even know where to start. I've never joined a group like this before. I've never made a strong declarative statement to people I know and love. My closest friends (no relatives) know that I am painfully uncomfortable with my biological sex (female), but they don't know...
    b1acksheep b1acksheep 22-25 4 Responses Feb 23, 2011

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    I Had A Dream

    For the past few days, I've been missing on sleep. Last night, the lost hours caught up on me and I fell into the deepest slumber of the week. I also had the strangest dream in months.It started out with me being in the "real" version of my body : biological female. I was in a...
    netherlander netherlander 22-25 Mar 11, 2011

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    What Am I?

    I never felt comfortable with the "limits" of being a biological female when I was a child. And yet, when I envisioned myself as a boy, I knew I wouldn't have felt comfortable as a boy either. There were times when the gender issue affected my young mind so much that I felt...
    netherlander netherlander 22-25 4 Responses Jul 10, 2010

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    Aha Maybe Thats The Term For Me!

    Well ive classed myelf as androgynous for so many years now. It fitted ok but it wasnt quite my size, it was a little to big on me. I knew about this term but i was kinda half beliving i was a lazy transgender that wouldnt bother with transitioning. However i realised that ive...
    Tuklr Tuklr 16-17 Mar 22, 2013

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    ????????

    Sometimes I feel like a teenage boy. Sometimes I feel like an adult woman. Sometimes I feel like a femme lesbian. Sometimes I feel like an andro. I look femme but feel gender-ambiguous.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 6, 2010

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    I want to tell my friends

    and family am gender neutral but I'm scared about how they will respond. I don't care if people call me by my actual gender, I just don't have any regards for my gender. I wish I could tell someone, maybe it will be nice just to tell someone get it off my mind.
    TwiistAndShout TwiistAndShout 18-21 Apr 16, 2014

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    No Gender Binary For Me

    Though I am biologically female, I have never identified as such. Nor have I identified with being male, bi, or any genderqueer category. I simply feel as though gender doesn't apply to me.
    spookym spookym 22-25 Jan 30, 2013

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    Where Do I Belong?..

    So where to begin... Well physically I am female, (although I don't look it.) I'm 25 years old this coming december and lastly, I am a gender neutral Lesbian. I won't go into detail as I am typing on my cell phone (a massive pain in the Rear end) so anyway, howdi everyone! I am...
    twospirited twospirited 22-25 4 Responses Jun 27, 2011

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    New Eyes

    Not sure where to start exactly. I'll try to keep this brief. My given name is Cheyenne... I go by Chey (pronounced like shay). I came out as a lesbian when I was 12 and proceeded as such until about a year ago when I started to become more aware of myself and becoming more...
    Chey22 Chey22 18-21, F Feb 26, 2013

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    Stuck In Neutral.

    Hey everyone, my real name is Brittany, but I have recently changed it to Riley. I am a 23 (biologically born female) year old Gender Neutral person from Ontario Canada. I have just recently came out as Gender Neutral, but I have always know I was not your typical "girl" I...
    genderless genderless 26-30 6 Responses Apr 11, 2010

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    I don't care if people think of me

    as a guy or a girl, I'm still the same person. Currently I'm a girl because I live with my grandma and she doesn't understand a lot of the LGBTQ community. It's not that I don't want to be identified as a girl, it's that I feel more comfortable when I'm not trying to fit into...
    brokenbutalive brokenbutalive 13-15, T Jun 16, 2014

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    Why Is It This Way

    as I sit here thinking about all the close mind people in this world that judge and make judgment on others , yet in my eyes there is know gender or race just people , with hopes and dreams yet there are those that just likes those that just like to shatter them just...
    erin1960 erin1960 51-55, T 1 Response Jun 18, 2013

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    I Don't Seem To Fit The Words "gender Neutral" But Here Is My Story:

    I am a girl, if that is what you can call me, I do have sex with men, have not been with a women. Any ways, was a cop 17 years, retired on disability, have loved guns since very young, had to have big pick up truck, and now though thin, can kick some arse, unafraid of any man or...
    KrazyCoyoteKim KrazyCoyoteKim 46-50, F 22 Responses Nov 13, 2011

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    Happy And Androgynous!

    I suppose I couldn't be considered TRULY androgynous since I am more likely to identify as female, but the truth is that I've never felt very "female." I'm not just talking about "girly" because I know plenty of Tomboys that identify as strongly female... I mean, that in my...
    Voodoolou Voodoolou 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 13, 2011

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    Medication Made Me Female

    Before my doctor prescribed me Abilify (by itself) for anxiety disorder, I felt gender neutral. Once the Abilify was fully in my system, I felt...female! I wore dresses, skirts, and would not even think about wearing heels that weren't 5 inches tall or higher. I was the epitome...
    findingeirene findingeirene 18-21, F Feb 12, 2013

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    I've only just come out saying it without fear

    and confusion. I'm not coming out of the closet, I like men and women, I'm pansexual in that sense, I like the person regardless of gender. I've just come into my own skin and giving people the label they needed for me. Lot's of people weren't sure on me. Girls like me, men...
    segreti segreti 22-25, F Jul 22, 2014

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    I Wonder What Neutrality Is?

    It's a big conundrum for a lot of trans/gender queer and androgynous people, finding what you call yourself, and how to present. The binary is so deep that too many feel obliged to "become the other", when really they should stick to what feels right. Maybe I'm still not...
    Fullcircle Fullcircle 51-55, F 1 Response Jan 27, 2012

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    What And Who Am I?

    Firstly I'd like to congratulate all those brave souls out there sharing their stories. Secondly I don't know where to start. Looking back into my 22 years of life I notice that I have never really been either gender. I grew up mostly on farms so I've always been the typical...
    krazykat90 krazykat90 22-25 Nov 4, 2012

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    Okay, just to get thing s clear,

    I identify as a panromantic demisexual and was born female. But, I've never really felt like a "real woman". I was raised in a way that allowed me to experiment with who I was, and was even encouraged for my "boyish behavior" at times. I never saw people for their gender...
    IcyPants IcyPants 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 1, 2014

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    My Name Is Charlie And I'm Gender Neutral...

    Hey there. I came out about my gender last year, to be honest I'm struggling with it. I have a very feminine body shape. I am working on losing some more weight. I find when my depression comes back it makes it worse. Me and my girlfriend broke up four weeks ago and she really...
    punkwendyhouse punkwendyhouse 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 29, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    Hi there, I'm Kilo. I am looking for other gender variant folks who might be interested in being friends. I could really use someone to talk to, ask questions and bounce ideas off...
    KiloKasakon KiloKasakon 22-25, T 2 days ago

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    Being born trans* at all is hard enough. Being born genderfluid specifically can be even harder. For me, when I was a little kid, I was sure I was a transguy. I wanted to...
    sethdots sethdots 18-21, T 2 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    Every time it comes to a sexual EP user, they ask me what gender I am. Isn't that very rude if I kept my gender undecided for a reason??? Why is that always the first question? You...
    ResidentGoddessAstraea ResidentGoddessAstraea 18-21 3 Responses Jan 1

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    I love stereotypical feminine things. I don't really feel 100% comfortable wearing a frilly dress, but I still love them anyway. I love magical girls and frills and fuzzy animals...
    magicalenby magicalenby 16-17, T Jan 6

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    My genderfluidity is not very simple, to be quite honest. I identify as female, but my gender expression and desired titles can vary quite a bit. For example, I prefer to be...
    Moomooing Moomooing 18-21, F Jan 11

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    After gender counselling I've identified as bi gender and looking meet meet other bi-gendered people
    DrewB1974 DrewB1974 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 12

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    Yes, I of course currently manifest through a specifically sexed body. But when the realisation finally dawned that I am not the body and that I am in fact pure consciousness (a...
    Ashanti Ashanti 51-55, T Jan 17

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    Hi, so I was born in a female body, but throughout my life I've never especially thought of myself as a girl. I've grown used to the idea of being a girl because that's what I've...
    ThunderMuffin ThunderMuffin 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I identify as a butchandro person, and I'm mostly attracted to guys. I worry that the types of guys I'm into won't look at me the way I look at them due to my gender identity and...
    MyImmortalHDizzle MyImmortalHDizzle 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    I was born female but was a tom boy when I was younger and it was honestly the only time in my life that felt correct. I am older now and have been living the female life having...
    sabbrinalindara sabbrinalindara 16-17, F Jan 3

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    hi everyone. i'm a 22 years old cisgender female. first of all, i apologyze for my english. lately i've been questioning my gender a lot. When i was a child (actually until I was14...
    finnien finnien 22-25, T 1 Response Jan 6

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    Hey all, My name is Chris, I am a 23 year old biological male who just recently began questioning my own gender identity! Hurray me! This whole experience has turned me whole...
    ReassessingSelf23 ReassessingSelf23 22-25, M Jan 8

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    After years of confusion I decided to have gender counselling. I was always torn between am I transgendered, fem boy or a transvestite. Well I'm third gender. My male name is Drew...
    DrewB1974 DrewB1974 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 13

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    Haiii I am GenderFluid. Born female I just don't like acting like it. Most of the time I dress and feel male. I even *cough* get off like a male and as a male. I'm more attracted...
    Briikachu22 Briikachu22 22-25, F Jan 19

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    Hi everyone, I just want to share what I'm feeling right now. Actually this past few months, I became confuse about my gender. I used to have a guy crush before but I don't know...
    confusePLLady confusePLLady 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    I guess I've finally come to the realization. I'm in a female body. But who defines when a mind is female or male? There are some people who have a sense of what their mind makes...
    Gab1331 Gab1331 16-17 1 Response Jan 1

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    Meant for students to focus on their studies properly where there isn't distraction from other gender within the school(except teachers). But I have a boyfriend, so yea. I'm still...
    iTetra iTetra 13-15, F Jan 6

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    I was born female but never fit in so I tried to be a guy I didn't fit in there either now I can act either but I'm not labeld as one or the other but I am still scared to come out...
    sadnesskillsme sadnesskillsme 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 6

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    And are not in all honesty I believe love is love no matter what it doesn't know gender race age or even how many I know this to be true for myself at least me and my girlfriend...
    Lookingupalways Lookingupalways 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    I am male. I have feminine features and people often mistake me for a girl. Sometimes (about half the time) I wear my hair long and I wear nail polish. Sometimes I wear simple...
    namelessentity namelessentity 13-15, M 2 Responses Jan 6

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    hi everyone. i'm really confused about my gender. lately i started identify as demisexual, but i'm not to sure.. i need somebody to talk to.. can you help me? (sorry for my english...
    finnien finnien 22-25, T 3 Responses Jan 7

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    hi guys. i need somebody to talk to. i'm having a lot of doubt about my gender and i don't know what to do.
    finnien finnien 22-25, T 2 Responses Jan 7

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    I don't believe in gender, just like I don't believe in ghosts or goblins, and I don't get why after thousands of years of civilization and intellectual growth, humankind is still...
    astrophobia astrophobia 26-30 Jan 9

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