I Am Gender Neutral

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    No Gender Binary For Me

    Though I am biologically female, I have never identified as such. Nor have I identified with being male, bi, or any genderqueer category. I simply feel as though gender doesn't apply to me.
    spookym spookym
    1 Response Jan 30, 2013

    Need input please! I'm not sure what I am.

    . Hopefully this is okay to put here. I'm just feeling really confused right now. I'll try to make it brief because I'm sure you've heard it all before... I'm 24 years old, biologically female. As long as I can remember, I've never really felt like a girl. In childhood I...
    brokencompass24 brokencompass24
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 14

    I don't care if people think of me

    as a guy or a girl, I'm still the same person. Currently I'm a girl because I live with my grandma and she doesn't understand a lot of the LGBTQ community. It's not that I don't want to be identified as a girl, it's that I feel more comfortable when I'm not trying to fit into...
    deleted deleted
    Jun 16, 2014

    Well, I am coming to terms with this.

    By birth, I am female. But, I don't really see myself as a 'boy' or a 'girl'. People have always referred to me as a girl, and that was fine and I rolled with it. But, how I choose to refer to myself, I just don't refer to myself as female. In terms of traditional gender...
    JadedDivinity JadedDivinity
    6 Responses Dec 30, 2014

    My Name Is Charlie And I'm Gender Neutral...

    Hey there. I came out about my gender last year, to be honest I'm struggling with it. I have a very feminine body shape. I am working on losing some more weight. I find when my depression comes back it makes it worse. Me and my girlfriend broke up four weeks ago and she really...
    punkwendyhouse punkwendyhouse
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 29, 2010

    What Am I?

    I never felt comfortable with the "limits" of being a biological female when I was a child. And yet, when I envisioned myself as a boy, I knew I wouldn't have felt comfortable as a boy either. There were times when the gender issue affected my young mind so much that I felt...
    netherlander netherlander
    3 Responses Jul 10, 2010

    I'm a girl. But I'm in love with the idea of

    gender neutrality. Love names that fit both genders and that kind of stuff. I identify as a girl but find myself wearing "boyish" clothing? My mom refuses to get me clothing I want because it's not "girly" enough. She wants me to wear things I don't like. I even wear my older...
    secrets1can2be3told secrets1can2be3told
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 12, 2015

    I might be. I'm still confused on what I am

    and what qualifies as being gender neutral. I was born female but always felt more male, though I don't think I'm trans. I do sometimes wish I had been born male though. there's no chance of coming out because I still live with my parents, and even once I move out, I may not be...
    tigerandmagpie tigerandmagpie
    1 Response May 27, 2014

    I really don't care if you call me a he

    or a she. I have no gender.
    DreamOfAFox DreamOfAFox
    13-15, F
    1 Response Mar 15

    Where Do I Belong?..

    So where to begin... Well physically I am female, (although I don't look it.) I'm 25 years old this coming december and lastly, I am a gender neutral Lesbian. I won't go into detail as I am typing on my cell phone (a massive pain in the Rear end) so anyway, howdi everyone! I am...
    twospirited twospirited
    4 Responses Jun 27, 2011

    I've never felt that the description girl

    or woman could describe me. I've always wanted to be part of the guys but romantically I want to be considered a girl. when you do nice things for new I want it out of kindness not just because I'm a lady. I like to hold doors and carry stuff for anyone. I hate the natural bias...
    queenjellyfish queenjellyfish
    18-21, F
    Jun 6, 2015

    I Wonder What Neutrality Is?

    It's a big conundrum for a lot of trans/gender queer and androgynous people, finding what you call yourself, and how to present. The binary is so deep that too many feel obliged to "become the other", when really they should stick to what feels right. Maybe I'm still not...
    Fullcircle Fullcircle
    51-55, F
    1 Response Jan 27, 2012

    Off The Charts...

    I don't even know where to start. I've never joined a group like this before. I've never made a strong declarative statement to people I know and love. My closest friends (no relatives) know that I am painfully uncomfortable with my biological sex (female), but they don't know...
    b1acksheep b1acksheep
    4 Responses Feb 23, 2011

    I've only just come out saying it without fear

    and confusion. I'm not coming out of the closet, I like men and women, I'm pansexual in that sense, I like the person regardless of gender. I've just come into my own skin and giving people the label they needed for me. Lot's of people weren't sure on me. Girls like me, men...
    segreti segreti
    26-30, F
    Jul 22, 2014

    Stuck In Neutral.

    Hey everyone, my real name is Brittany, but I have recently changed it to Riley. I am a 23 (biologically born female) year old Gender Neutral person from Ontario Canada. I have just recently came out as Gender Neutral, but I have always know I was not your typical "girl" I...
    genderless genderless
    6 Responses Apr 11, 2010

    Medication Made Me Female

    Before my doctor prescribed me Abilify (by itself) for anxiety disorder, I felt gender neutral. Once the Abilify was fully in my system, I felt...female! I wore dresses, skirts, and would not even think about wearing heels that weren't 5 inches tall or higher. I was the epitome...
    findingeirene findingeirene
    18-21, F
    Feb 12, 2013

    Why Is It This Way

    as I sit here thinking about all the close mind people in this world that judge and make judgment on others , yet in my eyes there is know gender or race just people , with hopes and dreams yet there are those that just likes those that just like to shatter them just...
    erin1960 erin1960
    51-55, T
    1 Response Jun 18, 2013

    I'm gender neutral and ive told a few people

    but I'm not sure why I am gender neutral. Can anyone help me???
    Charl3yB0y Charl3yB0y
    18-21, T
    1 Response Oct 10, 2014

    I want to tell my friends

    and family am gender neutral but I'm scared about how they will respond. I don't care if people call me by my actual gender, I just don't have any regards for my gender. I wish I could tell someone, maybe it will be nice just to tell someone get it off my mind.
    TwiistAndShout TwiistAndShout
    Apr 16, 2014

    I Had A Dream

    For the past few days, I've been missing on sleep. Last night, the lost hours caught up on me and I fell into the deepest slumber of the week. I also had the strangest dream in months.It started out with me being in the "real" version of my body : biological female. I was in a...
    netherlander netherlander
    Mar 11, 2011

    My childhood wasn't the best

    so I repressed a lot of things including my gender identity. A month or two ago a friend was making fun of me for being a girly girl and I accidentally let out 18 years worth of repression and depression (oops). I came out the same day because arguing with my friend made me...
    lolurface69 lolurface69
    18-21, T
    Mar 11

    Aha Maybe Thats The Term For Me!

    Well ive classed myelf as androgynous for so many years now. It fitted ok but it wasnt quite my size, it was a little to big on me. I knew about this term but i was kinda half beliving i was a lazy transgender that wouldnt bother with transitioning. However i realised that ive...
    Tuklr Tuklr
    18-21, M
    Mar 22, 2013

    I was born a female,

    but for a long time I felt like my body was wrong, therefore I assumed that I was transgender M2F. I was introduced to the idea of being gender neutral recently, and I have since realized that gender specific pronouns put someone in a box, and that makes me really uncomfortable...
    exchangingsmokerings exchangingsmokerings
    Jan 23, 2014

    S.A.G.E. Test Results

    The results are pretty accurate for me...hmmm Your Raw Score is: 325, which indicates that overall you are Androgynous Your appearance is Androgynous Your brain processes are mostly that of a Androgynous person. You appear to socialize in a feminine manner. You believe you...
    1freespirit926 1freespirit926
    1 Response Jun 20, 2013


    Sometimes I feel like a teenage boy. Sometimes I feel like an adult woman. Sometimes I feel like a femme lesbian. Sometimes I feel like an andro. I look femme but feel gender-ambiguous.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Apr 6, 2010

    Happy And Androgynous!

    I suppose I couldn't be considered TRULY androgynous since I am more likely to identify as female, but the truth is that I've never felt very "female." I'm not just talking about "girly" because I know plenty of Tomboys that identify as strongly female... I mean, that in my...
    Voodoolou Voodoolou
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 13, 2011

    New Eyes

    Not sure where to start exactly. I'll try to keep this brief. My given name is Cheyenne... I go by Chey (pronounced like shay). I came out as a lesbian when I was 12 and proceeded as such until about a year ago when I started to become more aware of myself and becoming more...
    Chey22 Chey22
    22-25, F
    Feb 26, 2013

    Okay, just to get thing s clear,

    I identify as a panromantic demisexual and was born female. But, I've never really felt like a "real woman". I was raised in a way that allowed me to experiment with who I was, and was even encouraged for my "boyish behavior" at times. I never saw people for their gender...
    IcyPants IcyPants
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 1, 2014

    What And Who Am I?

    Firstly I'd like to congratulate all those brave souls out there sharing their stories. Secondly I don't know where to start. Looking back into my 22 years of life I notice that I have never really been either gender. I grew up mostly on farms so I've always been the typical...
    krazykat90 krazykat90
    Nov 4, 2012

    I Don't Seem To Fit The Words "gender Neutral" But Here Is My Story:

    I am a girl, if that is what you can call me, I do have sex with men, have not been with a women. Any ways, was a cop 17 years, retired on disability, have loved guns since very young, had to have big pick up truck, and now though thin, can kick some arse, unafraid of any man or...
    KrazyCoyoteKim KrazyCoyoteKim
    46-50, F
    22 Responses Nov 13, 2011

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