I Am Genderfluid

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 393 People

    so this is actually both sexuality

    and gender identity related. I find that for me they influence eachother quite a bit, despite being independent and separate for many. for some reason every time I meet a cute guy i wish i were one. It's rarely the same with girls, when I'm not self-conscious or anything, anyway...
    Noodlepudding666 Noodlepudding666
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 10, 2016

    For a while I thought I was transgender

    but I didn't feel like I was completely a girl (I was born male). And I now think I may be genderfluid.
    drChampster drChampster
    18-21, T
    1 Response Oct 13, 2015

    I am genderfluid, and I've finally come to

    terms with myself. I mean, of course it's still confusing here and there, but hey I'm still young ^^ So as a female, I am Quinn, and as a male I am Jackson. I mean there's upsides, you understand both gender perspectives for examples (psychologically, emotionally at least...
    Nexhon Nexhon
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jan 6, 2016

    Most days I'm neither gender,

    then some days I'm both genders, then either a girl or a guy on others. I'm having a being a guy day today and it's one of those time where I want to just stay a guy because, even though I'm labeled as a female, I'm rarely ever a girl. I was a tomboy growing up, never liked...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 24, 2015
    jaebirda jaebirda
    18-21, T
    1 Response Nov 9, 2015

    I can't stand the word gender queer.

    I can't stand labeling myself as male female OR Tranny. Why can't we make this term more widely known! It describes so much about me!
    audreyxx audreyxx
    31-35, T
    9 Responses Oct 27, 2014

    I am really tired of being labeled a cross

    dresser. There is nothing wrong with wanting to cross dress, if that is your thing. But seriously… I do not cross dress. My gender identity is fluid & I express this through my own personal style. Pretty simple stuff. I don’t JUST wear women’s clothes. In fact, I don’t...
    InhuldibleCrelk InhuldibleCrelk
    5 Responses Aug 23, 2014

    And no one knows ... they don't

    even guess at it despite how I introduce myself some days as Moe. I spent my entire childhood calling myself a tomboy and enjoying it because then I could be both a girl and yet also a boy.... I haven't known for very long and honestly I'm terrified at what people will say...
    Karmickitten Karmickitten
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jan 2, 2015

    Yes hello here I am. My name is Charlie,

    and I’m a sixteen year old genderfluid person. People at my school don’t really know what that means, mainly because there are literally two of us in my entire four hundred person highschool. I was really lucky to be given the name Charlotte, because people don’t really...
    sweay sweay
    1 Response Jan 29, 2014

    I have recently come to the realization

    that I am genderfluid. I identify as male most of the time. That is what my genitalia/birth is. I have a few supporters but some people I don't want to tell or who don't understand. More on that later:) I am tight for money and being a girl is expensive if you can help great...
    jonjacque jonjacque
    26-30, M
    1 Response Dec 23, 2015
    ChromesmasherXx ChromesmasherXx
    2 Responses Dec 17, 2015

    I did my nails the genderfluid flag,

    and told one cousin. I have no dysphoria, but I feel frustrated about not getting to dress as girly as I wanted to today. I ended up in my casual clothes and those are for "guy days" and it SUCKS. I kinda wanna tell my younger cousin who is also genderfluid, but I'm so nervous...
    VeraFiora VeraFiora
    22-25, F
    Dec 14, 2015

    I lost so many friends

    after coming out as genderfluid and got so much hate. It really sucks that so many people are against other people being themselves
    Creed333 Creed333
    16-17, F
    1 Response Oct 29, 2015

    I'm biologically female

    but have always leaned more towards being neutral. Had I been born male, I don't think being male would have bothered me enough to want to transition to being female. As a female, I feel juuust female enough to be okay with how I was born. However, I don't feel female "enough...
    faustangel faustangel
    41-45, F
    Dec 30, 2015

    Please help me if you can,

    thanks. https://www.gofundme.com/9xgcgtgs
    drChampster drChampster
    18-21, T
    Dec 25, 2015

    So I have been crossdressing

    since I was like 7 or 8, I've had my moments with it, like when I was around 13 or 14, I started searching the Internet for crossdressing stories and photos, that's when I found the term "transgender," and for a while I thought about what it would be like to be a girl, and...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 21, 2016

    I actually identify as a demigirl,

    meaning that while it does sway, my feeling is usually that of a female person. And that's hella. I mean, there are days that I do identify as male, where I put my hair up and wear my binder and people either know and call me male pronouns because that's what I prefer, or they...
    colaut colaut
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 27, 2014

    Well, I suppose I'm writing this hoping to

    reach out to someone else. Sometimes being myself is scary. Especially because I care too much about what the people around me think. I was born a woman, but I have always felt in the middle. After time passed and I researched, I realized I was genderfluid. Even though I haven...
    PeterPansexual PeterPansexual
    22-25, F
    Dec 2, 2014

    My genderfluidity is not very simple,

    to be quite honest. I identify as female, but my gender expression and desired titles can vary quite a bit. For example, I prefer to be called "handsome" because "pretty" feels... wrong, yet I still do not really see myself as a boy. I call myself a twink instead of something...
    Moomooing Moomooing
    18-21, F
    Jan 11, 2015

    My parents were relatively okay with me getting

    my ear pierced. I don't like that they might be less ok with it if they knew what it represents to me.
    jackk225 jackk225
    22-25, M
    1 Response Sep 8, 2015

    Mentally, my gender is always changing,

    one day I feel like a Man, the next I feel like a Woman and then other days like I don't have a gender at all. I've felt like this since I was 5, but it's only recently that I've discovered that I'm genderfluid. I never knew there was a term for it until now.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jul 31, 2014

    Life Of A Teenage GenderFluid #2 Reflecting

    back I remember when I first realized I liked girls. I originally liked girls before guys even, I remember I had a crush on one of my playmates in 2nd grade but by then I was getting really fat and was severely bullied for that so my friends I once had left me. If you could...
    ImInLoveWithMySins ImInLoveWithMySins
    18-21, T
    Mar 18, 2016

    Came out today as Genderfluid/Lesibian today.

    I just had one negative comment and that was it. Love being out now. I wore girls jeans, panties and a bra to work yesterday and no one said anything. Some of my Co workers are giving me clothes and makeup advice. I can't wait to express my feminine side more ofter now.
    RachelHill RachelHill
    1 Response May 6, 2015

    Life Of A Teenage GenderFluid #1 My name is

    Max. Maxwell, but mother would flip if I put that on Facebook, So Max is a good compromise. I'm Genderfluid, and I get alot of crap for that. Especially by my family. Except for the open minded ones. I'm also Bisexual (pretty much lesbian, but there's the occasional dude...
    TeenMax2017 TeenMax2017
    18-21, T
    Mar 18, 2016

    I asked my mom if I can legally change my name

    and she said yes. So now I have to raise $800. I hope I can do it.
    Creed333 Creed333
    16-17, F
    1 Response Oct 30, 2015

    So I thought I was genderfluid

    but something is still so unsettling. I feel like I'm not right...something not right. I always believed I was a boy or that I was born in the wrong body, but I don't want to just give up my feminine side/the part of me I've been trained to be my whole life. I don't want to...
    ryuichibecca ryuichibecca
    4 Responses Jan 25, 2016

    I am so so so glad that the app let me sign up

    as trans, most places don't even give the option. Though I don't really identify as either gender, it is so liberating that there is actually another option. The world is finally making progress, I think.
    siannarose siannarose
    18-21, T
    Aug 10, 2014

    Alright well uh lets start off by saying my

    name is Collin but you can call me by that or Colleen any day. Ive known im genderfluid for about a month now and so far, i havent had anyone give me any negative comments about it. Currently i am out to everyone but my family and im okay with that. Chances are my family wouldnt...
    genderfluidandproud genderfluidandproud
    16-17, T
    Aug 4, 2015

    when you are feeling feminine

    but can't be because you haven't come out to everyone yet...the struggle
    jonjacque jonjacque
    26-30, M
    1 Response Dec 23, 2015

    Dysphoria. When I am a girl i like my hair

    long (how it is) When i am a boy i only want it short When i am in between/neither it doesn't usually matter I am tired of always having to wear a beanie just to make my hair seem short (especially because it's summer) Don't get me wrong I love my beanies but I would like to be...
    skinnylove14 skinnylove14
    18-21, T
    6 Responses Jan 31, 2016

    Asexual? Biromantic? Now genderfluid?

    I'm as queer as they come!
    sassycastiel sassycastiel
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 7, 2015

    so I am an RA at school

    and I just came out to the rest if the staff. everyone is so supportive:) I am kind of thinking of doing the rest of training, today identifying female but may distract...any ideas?
    jonjacque jonjacque
    26-30, M
    Jan 8, 2016

    Hi, I'm a 17 year old person.

    ...I'd love to chat with people like me...prefer people with age 18 or younger....no that's not because I'm a pervert.....it's because my mental age is between the 3 years old and the 21 years old and I just feel more comfy with people younger then me.....idk why.... oh yeah, I'm...
    MoriyaSuwako MoriyaSuwako
    18-21, M
    1 Response Dec 10, 2015

    the hardest part about girls clothes is shoes.

    ..my feet are big and they are so expensive
    jonjacque jonjacque
    26-30, M
    1 Response Dec 29, 2015

    Growing up I always wanted to be a boy

    and by always I do mean always. In third grade I began dressing like a boy and by 5th grade bullying had got kinda bad so I went back to dressing like a girl. I would go home everyday right after school and change into basketball shorts and a tshirt and skateboard with the...
    brorodosako brorodosako
    18-21, F
    Oct 28, 2015

    Someone talk? im 15, id comment on my gender,

    but, im in this group, so you probably know
    pierce013 pierce013
    16-17, M
    Mar 12, 2016

    This whole concept of gender fluidity started

    with David Bowie Man's dress modeled by Bowie.
    pfuzylogic pfuzylogic
    56-60, M
    4 Responses Jan 11, 2016

    this guy who's pinning

    after me doesn't know I'm genderfluid, though he isn't repeled by that sort of thing, I'm still worried to tell him. hope he isn't any if I have a guy day on prom...
    Montana1Tanner2 Montana1Tanner2
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jan 22, 2016

    For years I have struggled with trying to search

    or seek out exactly what I am. I love being a boy but even at a young age I was drawn to feminine things. I think we all started in a very similar way, swiping our mom's pantyhose or shoes etc.. As I got older I was in the same cycle of buying and wearing when I could under...
    bethluvshose bethluvshose
    5 Responses May 10, 2015

    Haiii I am GenderFluid.

    Born female I just don't like acting like it. Most of the time I dress and feel male. I even *cough* get off like a male and as a male. I'm more attracted to bi/gay guys and any females. I have my girly times n wear makeup one day a month lol and I perfer to have my lady parts...
    Briikachu22 Briikachu22
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 19, 2015

    can I talk to someone?

    I need someone to talk to to get between my counciling sessions
    pierce013 pierce013
    16-17, M
    1 Response Mar 8, 2016

    update! :) like i said

    before i can out to the entire RA staff this past week. Friday i decided to go to training as Jacque. i was dressed the entire day and it was amazing! the only question i have is when dressed which bathroom? because i am not really a girl but i look a lot like one
    jonjacque jonjacque
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Jan 10, 2016

    I'm bi and I'm genderfluid

    so basically nothing gender or sexual wise matters to me unless you're a 50 year old creep and that's when I'm like :/
    Shadowknightt Shadowknightt
    16-17, M
    2 Responses Dec 3, 2015

    and technically "lesbian",

    and a "pagan" buddhist and going to "hell".
    BeSavage BeSavage
    26-30, T
    Mar 15, 2016

    a am 100% female. for those of you

    who don't exactly know what gender fluidity is and may think it's something else but sometimes I feel more masculine and sometimes I feel more feminine I have always been a tomboy jumping off the school roof with the boys and doing dangerous things almost killing myself for the...
    Kornisone Kornisone
    31-35, F
    10 Responses Jan 30, 2016

    Life Of A Teenage GenderFluid #2 Reflecting

    back I remember when I first realized I liked girls. I originally liked girls before guys even, I remember I had a crush on one of my playmates in 2nd grade but by then I was getting really fat and was severely bullied for that so my friends I once had left me. If you could...
    TeenMax2017 TeenMax2017
    18-21, T
    Mar 18, 2016

    I am genderfluid I was born male

    but prefer female most times. I just need someone who understands me to be my Freind or maby even bf or gf so please hmu
    Anabelle112 Anabelle112
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 30, 2015
    jonjacque jonjacque
    26-30, M
    Dec 25, 2015

    When I was 13 years old I started cross dressing

    as a guy. I would get my older brothers old clothes and at night wear them and pretend I was a guy. I have no idea why this began, but it felt so natural. Yet some days I would still feel comfortable as a girl. I was very very confused. This secret of my continued until high...
    Siouze Siouze
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 17, 2016

    Life Of A Teenage GenderFluid #1 My name is

    Max. Maxwell, but mother would flip if I put that on Facebook, So Max is a good compromise. I'm Genderfluid, and I get alot of crap for that. Especially by my family. Except for the open minded ones. I'm also Bisexual (pretty much lesbian, but there's the occasional dude...
    ImInLoveWithMySins ImInLoveWithMySins
    18-21, T
    Mar 18, 2016

    Typing on a phone (there will be typos.

    ) I am bi, demisexual, and genderfluid. My 14 year old cousin is bi, genderfluid, asexual, and pan. My 17 year old cousin is 17, is mtf transgender. None of our parents know, and we scheme behind everyone's backs, making plans to get male/female clothes, packers, binders, and...
    VeraFiora VeraFiora
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 13, 2016

    Why whole life I have always thought there was

    more to who I am, I do like some boyish stuff but most of the stuff I like is actually quite girly, though I find it difficult sometimes to embrace my girly side who I have given the name Regina, since my partner doesn't actually support that side of me so I have to hid it from...
    ArejayakaRegina ArejayakaRegina
    1 Response May 16, 2015
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