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I Am Getting a Divorce

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    She moved on and I feel sorry

    for you because she overlooked your flaws, your temper, your selfishness, your inability to love anyone but yourself.   She could have anyone in the world but she still chose you every time.  All you are now is a crease in...
    ImKeepinItReal ImKeepinItReal 41-45, F 6 Responses Aug 20

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    and all i want to do is **** her,

    i imagine break up sex must be awesome!
    brad13227 brad13227 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    Has any of you feel sad

    even you are the one wants the divorce? I see the house where the children grew up and they still are young. My decision is going to change their lives - their current life And that's what they know for most of their lives. I also had some good memories from early on in my...
    lostfoundusa lostfoundusa 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 21

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    Tomorrow is the date set

    for mediation. As much as I welcome getting this next step over and done, I am also dreading it. On Friday, my lawyer sent his attorney and the mediator a settlement offer. Though a reasonable offer, I know he will not accept it. My lawyer keeps reminding me to think of this...
    BeachGypsy BeachGypsy 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 17

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    There are numerous older men in the world

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    alicacc11 alicacc11 26-30, F Aug 19

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    Insight From My Kitchen......

    I woke up today and was surprised by the urge to cook.  While I enjoy cooking and love see my friends and family enjoy what I’ve made, the desire hasn't been there for quite some time.  I’ve got my staple weeknight meals that I know everyone in the house will eat, but...
    goddessone goddessone 41-45, F 95 Responses Jul 6, 2008

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    Has anyone gone through a DivorceCare support

    group program? In the bulletin at church yesterday there was a notice that my church was going to offer it in September. I'm seriously thinking of signing up for it.
    BeachGypsy BeachGypsy 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 17

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    My divorce is done. What an experience.

    I feel like I've beaten cancer, been to war, lost at sea, and lived to tell about. I loved my wife more than anything on this earth and it was hard letting her go. But man, once I did life became exciting again! There are so many silver linings that I'm standing in awe over...
    fundrummerdad fundrummerdad 41-45, M 8 Responses Mar 21

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    Moved out. Starting fresh again.

    No more being treated like a second-class citizen. Here's to getting my life back.
    bipolarPeter bipolarPeter 31-35, M 4 Responses Jun 7

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    I'm in the middle of a separation with my wife

    of ten years im a recovering alcoholic and have been sober for a year and a half.i also cheated on her rite out of rehab and finally realized what a peice of **** I was being.i have changed my whole life for the better.i was there for her through all the aftermath of my cheating...
    truedad truedad 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 23

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    It feels so stupid and petty.

    We are throwing away 12 years of marriage and destroying the world of 2 beautiful children over money and sex. I hate it, I still love her and want her but she drives me crazy. She spends money we don't have but then justifies it with good reasons but that still remains, we...
    Brianst Brianst 41-45, M 8 Responses Apr 26, 2014

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    Finally think I have mustered the courage to

    set boundaries with my emotionally abusive STBX. Tired of him still having control over me even though I left almost 2 years ago.
    bcali bcali 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    Today has been a whirlwind

    and I feel emotionally drained, but thankful to have this day behind me. My husband's lawyer was supposed to have discovery items to my lawyer ten days ago. Last night, at 6:39pm she sent over the discovery that we asked for with a response to our proposed settlement agreement...
    BeachGypsy BeachGypsy 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 18

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    Now That I'm Separated, I'll Start Wearing My Wedding Ring

    This is my first post to this group. I am sure some of you have encountered this problem while going through a divorce. The news of your divorce spreads and suddenly a friend from the opposite sex whom you've never considered sexually starts making themselves "available", or...
    SleeplessKnight SleeplessKnight 41-45, M 12 Responses Jul 28, 2013

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    You Really Don'T Know Who You Marry ...

    ... Until trouble hits.After 10 years together I hit an emotional low. Real bad.She filed for divorce and in the past 8 to 10 months hasn't even attempted any type of contact or an attempt to reconcile. Nothing, notta ...Why then am I still broken up about it?She obviously...
    Dainbramadge Dainbramadge 46-50, M 11 Responses Apr 23, 2013

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    Sometimes I think it's harder

    when he's nice to me. I have no doubt that this needs to happen, but the roller coaster of emotion while you go through it is overwhelming.
    LivvyMonroe LivvyMonroe 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 24

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    I don't really have any other place to process

    this, so I'll just do it here. This has got to be the craziest Rollercoaster of emotions I've ever experienced. When we finally made the decision, I fell apart. I was devastated. I wasn't ready. It was the right thing to do, but it killed me inside. Five years ago his...
    mg75 mg75 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 22

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    today is the big day!

    !!!!! Yay!!!!!
    lovabledoll lovabledoll 26-30, F 17 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    Boxes are being packed

    and my new apartment is waiting for a fresh coat of paint. I got the keys today. It's scary yet exhilarating at the same time.
    Daydreaming2 Daydreaming2 41-45, F 10 Responses 6 days ago

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    Today marks 12 years of marriage.

    I really hoped the divorce would be final before now. I didn't want to celebrate another anniversary. ( not that there will be any celebration ) I was anxious about today... But sticking to the advice from those that love me, " it's just another day." Shopping and lunch with a...
    kitticat007 kitticat007 31-35, F 11 Responses Apr 17

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    The process starts next week.

    I know I have a storm to ride to get to the sunshine and beautiful rainbow. I'm just hoping I survive the storm and don't become a victim.
    2findme 2findme 46-50, F 5 Responses Mar 21, 2014

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    I am divorcing a good man.

    We met, fell in love...I was 20 years old. The relationship ran its course in the very beginning like many young romances do...for whatever reason I refused to let it go, to say "time to move on" and I forced it for the next 7 years, even through marriage and having a child...
    carriem3 carriem3 26-30 216 Responses Jan 10, 2014

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    sadwife82 sadwife82 31-35, F 8 Responses Aug 24

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    Damn. Divorcing is hard

    and depressing and devastating....but... One morning at a back to school event having to listen to that know-it-all and it is a solid reminder why this is happening.
    Hopefool Hopefool 36-40, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    After 11 years of marriage I am getting a

    divorce. The part that hurts the most is that I won't get to see my 3 kids everyday anymore. We have decided on split custody. I will be relieved when I don't have to put up with her lying, cheating, or just flat out lack of responsibility for her own actions. I had been...
    fishin4eyes fishin4eyes 31-35, M 11 Responses Jul 18

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    I haven't cried in weeks.

    .. today I did. He's been out of the house for a little over a month and even though I'm the wanting the divorce I'm still saddened by this whole thing. I still miss certain things about him. He wasn't a monster. I suppose I'll always question myself if there was anything we...
    2findme 2findme 46-50, F 11 Responses Jun 29, 2014

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    Although I left my x 7 years ago.

    I'm not divorced yet. I literally got fed up with his games. At first he wanted custody and alimony. Which I found hilarious. The girls refused to even speak to him and I barely made enough to support myself let alone pay him. Then he lied to the courts. He said he did...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 11 Responses Apr 21

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    Another painful night of talking.

    He finally said he's ready to let me go. He said he'll move out this weekend. It feels like this is what I've been working towards for the past 6 months. It was still hard and emotional, but today I feel my energy returning. I feel my motivation coming back. I feel hopeful again...
    allycatii allycatii 36-40, F 41 Responses Feb 5

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    what are the checklist of stuff I need to

    remember before leaving our house..i let him keep the house.. I will just start over my life..
    sadwife82 sadwife82 31-35, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Come To Terms Emotionally. It Is Much Better That Way.

    It is a funny thing. I was dreading getting a divorce. I know how ugly it can be and I really did try to convince my X that it would be better for everyone, including our son, if we just used a mediator. She refused. I tried to work with her, she still would not. I gave up and...
    FlauntTheImperfections FlauntTheImperfections 41-45, M 6 Responses May 17, 2013

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    Hi All. Well, after 16 years of marriage I have

    decided to leave. I am tired of being verbally abused by a drunk. My marriage is sexless, depressing and not worth fighting for any more. We haven't slept together for over 2 1/2 years and I've had my own room for over five. I own a rental property across town, I feel bad...
    Dewdrop034 Dewdrop034 41-45, F 8 Responses a week ago

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    I am sadly getting a divorce.

    .. Never thought I would ever be in this situation. I just got married this past March. My husband is in the Army so we have been on and off for four years dating. I moved to be with him in May after I graduated grad school. In the first month of me living here I have been...
    unreachablex0x unreachablex0x 26-30, F 16 Responses Jul 6, 2014

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    I moved out 8 months ago

    and have never looked back... even with the pain of being alone, it is still better than the loneliness and hopelessness in the marriage I was in... after trying with 3 different therapists in 5 years, I am confident and happy that I took the leap... still a lot to finalize but...
    76fearless 76fearless 36-40, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    In a few weeks the decree will be final.

    I has been such and intense emotional journey. Not one I ever thought I would take when I got married. But years changed us, and with time marriage became a prison, and a very uncomfortable one. For many years I chose to remain in this unhappy marriage, to be with my children...
    MrSquishy MrSquishy 41-45, M 17 Responses Aug 28

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    I Am Getting a Divorce

    i met him when i was 17 and fell madly in love.  little did i know his recreational drug use would turn to full blown addiction.  at 21 we were engaged, married at 22.  i had my doubts but pushed them away.  he always put his friends before me and i had no one...
    lennox lennox 18-21, F 28 Responses May 7, 2007

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    I have started the separation to a divorce

    process. There were a couple of things that could have been handled differently. However. I'm happy now.
    chickenandribs chickenandribs 31-35, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Finally

    Yesterday, I realized that it had been one year since I removed my wedding ring.  Last night was another night spent with the marriage counselor.  Last night, my husband finally gave in and said he was ready to go through with a divorce.  He even verbalized...
    goddessone goddessone 41-45, F 78 Responses Sep 5, 2008

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    He Cheated Again

    We just celebrated our 26 year anniversary. We have 4 children together, two of which are still home (16 & 21). I was contacted by a woman about 7 months ago saying she had a 3 1/2 year affair with my husband and that she was ending it. He said she was a stalker and a liar...
    LifeGaveMeLemons LifeGaveMeLemons 51-55, F 3 Responses Nov 23, 2013

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    I think I'm going to start.

    . Tales of the Newly Divorced Girl... Things I'm figuring out to do on my own.. Lol.. OK, so here's the deal: he always did the lawn work. I never thought twice about it (he also was lazy about lawn work so if I needed something more than cutting the grass, I hired someone...
    mg75 mg75 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 23

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    I am leaving in 2weeks.

    Job or no job. When you you reach the point of, " I cannot tolerate this aching, broken, hurt another ******* day" you know you are done. No separation and let's try again. There is nothing left for me to try for...not even for my child's sake. 15 years later, millions of...
    SoulSurfing SoulSurfing 46-50, F 10 Responses 6 days ago

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    Well it's all done with

    now except getting joint custody of the kids. The divorce wasn't as bad as I thought it was going to be. I was served the divorce papers December 11th 2012 and I was pretty depressed about it. I wrote a bunch of poor me posts on here about how sad I was and how abandoned...
    Dainbramadge Dainbramadge 46-50, M 12 Responses Jan 10, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    earthlingcc11 earthlingcc11 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Humorous Best Divorce Letter :)

    (I did not make this letter up but a long time ago I found it online and loved it.. wanted to share this laugh with everyone :)] Dear Wife: I'm writing you this letter to tell you that I'm leaving you forever. I've been a good man to you for 7 years & I have nothing to show for...
    wendysosa wendysosa 22-25, F 14 Responses Aug 4, 2012

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    My sister and I went out today,

    we picked up a bunch of boxes from the market and we headed on over to my rental. The grass in the back is 4 ft. high...ugh, I has no idea no one was taking care of it. My BIL said he will bring his mower down and do it, not to worry. I'm home now, couldn't get a hold of the...
    Dewdrop034 Dewdrop034 41-45, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    bluesteelj bluesteelj 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 26

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    ~Good Riddance~

    Another turning point a fork stuck in the road Time grabs you by the wrist directs you where to go So make the best of this test and don't ask why It's not a question but a lesson learned in time It's something unpredictable but in the end It's right I hope you've had the time of...
    Evangeline1985 Evangeline1985 26-30 10 Responses Sep 7, 2012