on 05:19PM at Sep 27th, 2008
I got back from a trip two days ago and my wife met me and said she was leaving me after 20 years. Since we met I put her though 5 school degrease and paying for the house and running my business. Yes she made money and helped me out hear and they with my business as a secretary. Not not what I made now she is at the start of making lots of money and a stable career. We have a house and 200K in equity. I ned some advice please help thanks.
on 08:48PM at Jan 23rd, 2011
I am so sorry to hear what you are going through. I too have been with my husband for 20 yrs. We just recently started having problems. It's hard to end a relationship after so long, as a woman I can tell you that you don't just wake up one day and decide you dont want to be with that person anymore. It's hard to give you advice b/c I dont know your situation. All I do know is that it's not easy for either of you to end the relationship after so long. I recently told my husband that I am not happy and I was thinking about leaving, I still love my husband and I know that he still loves me, but that just isn't enough with all the other problems we are having. We have to children that are only 11 and 7, we too own our own business so a split would be a long and painful process. My heart is breaking and I am scared sh**tless to be without my husband,,,but if one of yous are not happy it's not fair to stay together. On the other hand, if you believe there is any chance of fixing things you should do whatever it takes without sacrificing your happiness in the process.
on 09:28AM at Jun 23rd, 2012
My first question would be is there someone else?
My only advice get a good lawyer. That is what i did and it has saved me from his games
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