I Am Getting Over An Affair

...I just spent an evening on the phone with him. He was calling from his office where he has the freedom to talk. Still, it wasn't our typical conversation of late with him trying to sweet talk me into asking him over. Instead, he...

...calling me, texting me, emailing me, and showing up on my door.

Last night he called me but I didn't answer. He e-mailed me but I didn't respond. He texted me and said if I didn't answer my phone he was going to come over. I...

It's been a while since I mentioned him. Him being the married man whom I allowed to consume my life for four years. Still, not a day passes that he doesn't cross my mind. I don't pine for him or miss that relationship in any way. I...

i was the lady at the lunch table that always said her husband would never cheat. he wasnt raised that way. boy was i naive....i found out 2 months ago that my husband had cheated on me. i feel like every morning i wake up i relive that...

Had a girlfriend for about 4 years. Looking back on it, she was the worst girl I've chosen to share my life with, but we all live and learn. We moved in with each other after a couple years of dating, and all our bad habits...

My husband and I have been together for 5 years and have an 17 month old daughter. We just moved to a new town where my husband got a new job. Three weeks after moving, my husband called me from work to tell me he was staying late. A...

I was getting over it or at least thought I was.  It started up again.  It was fast this time around.  We saw each other a few times had sex once spoke to each other one time after having and haven't spoken since...

It's been 2.5 months since we ended a five year long affair. I was unable to pull the trigger and leave, despite an all nighter telling my spouse I wasn't in love with her anymore. The plan was to execute a separation and be with the...

I am reminded from time to time (quite often) that I am not over it. I don't even know if I can claim to be in the process of getting over it.

I'm a walking contradiction. I go from having this inner strength to resist him that seems...

We really can take control of our own lives and move forward. There are old doors that not only need to be closed and remain closed but they need to be completely removed and a wall put in their place. We can open shut doors and walk...

I am one week into attempting to get over an affir that I had with a married man. The affair lasted 4.5 years. We started off as friends on the job but it became much deeper than that. We became physically, emotionally and mentally...

I'm getting over it.  It has taken a long time to even be able to say that.  Going on 7months now when it ended.  The worst part is how it ended.  We didn't say bye or even choose to end it.   My husband...

...I've filled my heart with someone else..

who...

spent New Year's Eve with me...
spent Valentine's Day with me...
spent St. Patrick's day with me...
spent Easter with me...
spent Memorial Day with me...
spent my brithday with me...

Hello, I am a woman married.....found myself very unhappy in my relationship. I started just staying busy....worked more...became more active in church. Started hanging with a man at church on business ventures...and yes one thing led...

Simply it was/is a tremendously emotional connection. not so many words were ever spoken as it was awkward for me being a married woman and him a married man and feeling this incredible infatuation with him at work. there was always a...