I Am Getting Over Him

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 74 People

    It's been about... 6-7 months now?

    I still do think about you but not as much as before. Maybe like once or twice a day, sometimes I don't throughout the whole day. I've really been keeping myself busy with uni and the gym, going out with friends and spending time with family. I felt like I was suffocating...
    beautiifulsoul22 beautiifulsoul22
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 15, 2014

    You are belligerent. You are arrogant.

    You masquerade yourself as a misunderstood intellectual, but really you're a self-centered ***** who only cares about himself and then wonders why people don't give you the time of day. You think it has something to do with other people being superficial, and that it's your...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 22, 2015

    The worst part of your past,

    is living with the scars that scare you away from even wanting to get back on the horse, or let someone in... cj.
    Chabelle Chabelle
    26-30, F
    Mar 28, 2014

    Me + Him= Heartbreak

    ok so, we've been goin out for a few months and people a t school are giving us grief about kissing. i decided i needed a break from dating and he is pissed at me. i was talking to one of his friends and his friend says they are all calling me a *****. i haven't talked to him...
    crazymonkey97 crazymonkey97
    13-15, F
    Mar 7, 2010

    I Know What He Does But I Just Deny It All

    Been going out for a while now... i have never felt so strongly about someone. I may be young but let me live. He smokesl... I dont know what to think about that. He cheated onme... came to school wiff hickeys froma seventeen year old...pretty grody if you ask. me. I know and...
    xcloverforev xcloverforev
    13-15, F
    Oct 12, 2009

    I'm over you, I just need to stop talking about

    you, I can't say I forgive you and still bad mouth you. Knowing you so long made me feel a way when you did what you did. But it's okay because I have to love and let those bad feelings go. I know you probably don't care regardless but I'm doing this for me.
    staytrue123 staytrue123
    18-21, F
    Jan 5, 2015

    Not Sure How I Feel

    My boyfriend and I had been together for 9 months. He was my first long term relationship and the first guy I ever loved. We had a rocky start to our relationship. We met at a college party and he knew he liked me right away. However, it took some time for me to realize I felt...
    jeanshimmy jeanshimmy
    1 Response Dec 27, 2010

    A Laundry List…

    Moving on… Brayden – You are engaged with a child and living in a different country now. Nothing to be said there, but congrats. Oh, and you were the inspiration for my first tattoo. #noregrets.   Markus – I have no idea where you are these days. Last I heard you went back...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 6, 2013

    It just occurred to me that

    for the past week he hasn't been the first thing on my mind when I awake.... Him and I have been over for more than a month... Today I told someone that I didn't want to pursue any kind of relationship with them, because I need to work on me. I am weak... Because of my weakness...
    Orangerocket Orangerocket
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 24, 2015

    I can Honestly say, I'm almost 100% back to my

    old self :) listening to same old songs, talking to everyone about anything lol, and most important... I'M HAPPY :D
    Chabelle Chabelle
    26-30, F
    Apr 5, 2014

    My bf has been cheating

    for the last 3 months. It just sucks because he really led me one but I guess it was good lesson to learn. Oh well.
    LittleFlower36 LittleFlower36
    18-21, F
    Dec 9, 2014

    I Don't Wanna Lose Him

    We've been together for more than 2 years, he was my first love and the nicest guy I even known, I really wanna spend the rest of my life with him, but the problem was that we had to break up despite the strongest love we shared, and it was outta our hands, I'm thinkng somtimes...
    heartabused heartabused
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 24, 2008

    Ok ... I'm gonna be honest Yes I look strong.

    . and I am brave lol... thats true... But.. inside I am weak, sensitive, and vulnerable... yes just like a ballon hahaha :p when he broke me in pieces...all i wanted was to hide.... I came running home 2,000 miles away just wanting to hide in my room in my house alone.. I...
    Chabelle Chabelle
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Apr 5, 2014
    Youresocreepy Youresocreepy
    16-17, F
    Oct 8, 2014

    I deleted this story

    because I was getting over him and thought I didn't need it there.. but you know what.. I'm posting it again.. because life is a handful of bad and good experiences even though I am not sad or think of my ex.. this is the story of my life and what happened to me.. (maybe someone...
    Chabelle Chabelle
    26-30, F
    Mar 24, 2014

    He called me today. Every time I hear his voice,

    my heart literally aches. I wish I could be his friend like he wants, but my ego wont' let me. I know he's suffering, missing our friendship, but making him happy will make me miserable. I prayed today for the ability, to take the power of love I feel for him, and turn it...
    TheRightFitforLife TheRightFitforLife
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Oct 25, 2015


    I can say I'm getting over him, but it's only in small bits at a time.
    mistressmonique mistressmonique
    46-50, F
    Sep 10, 2012

    I don't like him as much

    as I used to, for many reasons... recently I wrote like 4 huge paragraphs telling him my dream with him and he just replied with a "lol". It ****** me off how he doesn't care, why care about someone that doesn't care about you??
    victoriaalvarez victoriaalvarez
    16-17, F
    1 Response Nov 7, 2014

    I met this guy, he was wonderful at first,

    kind, sweet and different. He used to give me this sweetest smile whenever we walked by or saw each other. He told me that I was beautiful, he was the first guy to say that, he actually showed an interest in me. He made me feel so happy and alive, and less alone. I just couldn't...
    Kiwijee Kiwijee
    18-21, F
    Jan 31, 2015

    Wow... It's amazing how his kind of cold

    response is making it so much easier for me to move on. Thank you, dear sweet a--hole!
    Orangerocket Orangerocket
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Oct 10, 2015


    I dated this guy for 6 months.  The minute I met him I knew in an instant that he was differant from any guy that I had ever been with.  First of all he was attracted to me and I was at a really un attractive point.  I had been playing soccer earlier and I was...
    sglotzba sglotzba
    2 Responses Sep 16, 2008

    so in like February I was dating this guy

    [we'll call him James] and at first I reallyyyy liked him. a lot. then when we started dating, it was cool at first. but then he started getting really annoying, he tried texting me 24/7 and even when I did and didn't look at the message 10 seconds after he sent it, he would...
    mahogany2136 mahogany2136
    16-17, F
    Apr 7, 2014

    I Am Over Him

    I think I am truly over him...for the most part that is. how it all went down: read this story..too much of an lazy *** to re-write this experience. EP Link if you read it, then you understand ^^ anyways, i remember i was crying over him every night, and he was the first i...
    PrincessKitana PrincessKitana
    18-21, F
    Aug 2, 2012

    I finally getting over him.

    I am seeing this other guy and he gives me another reason to love myself again. my ex he loved me don't get me wrong but when i told him i got molested he went off and said he only wanted someone pure. he never understood. actually i don't believe he did love me , but now im...
    hannahlovesu hannahlovesu
    18-21, F
    Jun 17, 2014

    Its About Time

    I'm really starting to look at things in reality and i'm realizing he never did love me. I thought it was love but now I see it wasn't. So here I am now rethinking everything thats happened pick up the pieces of my heart and move on
    staytrue123 staytrue123
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 29, 2012

    -Doesn't matter how much it hurts

    or you think you're right.. Just stay strong don't look back.. cause at the end of the day reality is a different deal, you'll find what you didn't lose, and it'll hurt 10 times worse. Trust me you are better off not knowing and moving forward.. Cj
    Chabelle Chabelle
    26-30, F
    Mar 17, 2014
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