I work out with a set of dumbbells and I work my mind by stimulating it on a daily basis.
The music I listen to also makes my mind work and I feel myself getting stronger daily.
Strength has to be met on several levels for me.
Three months ago I never thought or believed the pain would lessen but it is slowly. I was in an intense relationship for a year with someone who I thought was my soulmate. Then nothing, no emails, nothing, no reply to me, he just stopped. No word nothing.
I know that he is ok...