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I Am Going Through a Break-up

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    My girl friend texted me today

    and asked me if I liked anyone. We're both polyamorus so I asked her if she meant for both of us. She said no you personally and I said no one except her, why? When she didn't respond I asked her if she liked anyone and she said a guy from her church. I asked her if she was...
    cyraalana2000 cyraalana2000 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    NeeverForget NeeverForget 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    My boyfriend dumped me 3 months ago,

    we were still living together and working together which made life extremely hard! We had good days and some **** ones but over all it was all just a mind **** i didnt actually know what he wanted at all. He kept asking when i was going to leave and move out but i didnt want to...
    selena1806 selena1806 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 22, 2013

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    I feel like I'm grieving over a family member

    who passed away. It hurts so much. And it was all my decision too. I decided to end an eleven month, 6 hour long distance relationship with my best friend. I felt like I was settling because what he had to offer wasn't fulling my main needs in being in a relationship. I'm...
    twentyonetales twentyonetales 18-21, F 1 Response May 3

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    I don't know what to do with myself.

    I want to sleep forever,to never wake up. I want to die,to be dead,not to feel. I want to travel back in time and never meet you. I want to wake up in a time where I no longer feel this pain. I want to be numb,dead. To not exist because I feel like without you I don't.
    TheGirlFromJupiter TheGirlFromJupiter 18-21, F Aug 4

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    Nope this just isn't

    for me,I'm going back to him. This hurts too much,I miss him too much. What was I even thinking! All the problems we have seem so dumb right now,so insignificant.
    TheGirlFromJupiter TheGirlFromJupiter 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    It's strange because I miss him all the time.

    I miss waking up to his GM texts, I miss calling him to say GN. I miss being alone with him. I even miss not being able to sleep because of his snoring. I wish I could see him again, hear his voice, laugh at his stupid jokes. It's strange because I haven't had a single dream...
    codelle1 codelle1 22-25, F May 1

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    i still want my ex back.

    she left me for her friend that randomly kissed her, just because she "felt" something..after we've been together for over a year..and she stays with him, even when she sometimes says she regrets leaving me..we're still friends but i cant help but want her back..does it make...
    jmsinnyc jmsinnyc 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    The break-up was mutual,

    he needs time to figure things out and we might touch base in the future in terms of a relationship. He really wants us to remain friends, I can tell he feels bad, but I am pretty bitter over the whole thing. I keep picturing him with other people. I think I have a lot of...
    JoeKalfern44 JoeKalfern44 22-25, F Jul 27

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    I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 6

    months because he went out to a night club and ended up cheating on my with a married woman.. Days after we broke up he begged for a second chance. I told him that I needed time to think about it and that I would get back to him. I took a few days and decided to forgive him.. He...
    sarrahhh33 sarrahhh33 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 27

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    tran1101 tran1101 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 3

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    I'm having a hard time adjusting.

    One day we're together and the next day we're not. I miss you so much and I hate myself for even caring.
    codelle1 codelle1 22-25, F 1 Response May 3

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    My boyfriend just packed his things

    and left. I kicked him out. Two months ago I found his mothers underwear in his bag in a secret pocket. He said when he left her house after visiting and staying a few days he accidently packed it with his clothes.... ...I let it go. Then weeks later I found pics of my moms butt...
    sarahhunnix3 sarahhunnix3 18-21, F 2 Responses May 20

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    We would have been together

    for four years in a couple of weeks- all of a sudden he became very distant and cold right before christmas and yesterday he broke up with me. I dont know what to think or do.
    Ann0430 Ann0430 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    "I live each day with questions in my head.

    One eye forward, the other looking back Across the miles and the moments fled, In everything I've built I see a crack. It's taking time to let the light shine through, And yet, that's what life is, and what cracks do." (DG, 2012-13) I worry that I will always be looking at...
    slightlylost slightlylost 26-30, F Feb 4

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    So we just broke up. I feel kind of better

    because he had cheated on me. But I feel sad and scared. I don't want to think of not being able to talk to him or be with him. I just need strength.
    ashleystaton ashleystaton 18-21, F May 15

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    My ex & I dated for almost a year.

    We broke up 2 months ago & haven't spoken since. Last time I checked - which was a month ago - she was seeing someone. At that time, they weren't in a official relationship, but she was very interested in him and wanted to be with him. Mind u, we haven't spoken in two months. So...
    alegarde0 alegarde0 26-30, M Aug 3

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    I'm going through a break up

    and it's the worst ever. Not the first time as I was in a on/off relationship of 5 years. What's hurting me is that my ex is behaving like I was such a terrible person. We broke up over a stupid argument and I tried fixing things and he wasn't having it. It wasn't over cheating...
    Sunshine009 Sunshine009 22-25, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I just want someone to love me.

    Why are men such ********?
    clichechick clichechick 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 12

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    I'm So Hurt

    It would have been 6 years in December. He ended it just 9 days ago. I'm in such a dark place right now. I didn't see it coming. I didn't know how to react. I cried and cried. I'm still crying now. I know everyone says that time heals everything but right now this is so hard. It...
    Willow87 Willow87 22-25 3 Responses Oct 9, 2011

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    I Want The Love Of My Life Back

    I was dumped the other day and my ex... it hurts to call him my ex... he said he will speak to me in a few days and in the same message he asked me not to contact him.... do you think he will speak to me? I have not been able to stop thinking about him and I made one mistake and...
    LittleMissDaredevil LittleMissDaredevil 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 15, 2013

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    Breaks up suck!! But in the end it all makes

    you stronger and it builds you up tougher, and makes you realize what you don't want in the next relationship with someone else, so stand tall because you can conquer that wall of fear loneliness ... Sadness whatever it is your facing that person isn't worth anymore of your...
    freespiritgal2777 freespiritgal2777 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 3

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    Recently went through a break up with a great

    person. Apparently we both needed some growing up to do and things just didn't work out because of how damaged we both are emotionally. Going through a tough time and jut looking for a friend to talk to. Preferably someone who can relate...
    MonsieurKJ MonsieurKJ 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 3

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    Everyday Is Different, I Never Know What to Expect.

    Three months ago, I broke-up with my live-in boyfriend of six years.  Our relationship had gone to nothing more than two strangers saying hi to eachother as they passed in the hallway.  He didn't make any time for me.  He lived in front of the computer...
    Jackers Jackers 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 19, 2008

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    You found out the truth of

    who he is. Would've happened anyway, better sooner than later. You know who he is now. He didn't fight for you, that's who you want?? Think about your future babies, you want a protector and a provider. That's your job, to give them the best father possible. You would do...
    codelle1 codelle1 22-25, F Apr 30

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    My best friend and now ex girlfriend just broke

    up yesterday. Maybe we'll get back together. Maybe not. I'm holding out hope. I don't really feel worthy to have a relationship..
    dacraww dacraww 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 30

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    He threw a pack of cigarettes at me

    and kicked my head with his foot as I blocked the door trying to stop him from leaving me. I called my mom for help and that's when he went berserk dragging me through the ground, choking me and hitting me. I held on to him with all that I could. He has left. And I blame myself...
    Lovechriscornell Lovechriscornell 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 8

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    Not The Easiest Thing I've Ever Done.

    We were together for 9 months and he was my first serious relationship. We just broke up a couple of days ago, and it was partly my own fault. We aren't speaking right now which I guess makes it easier on both of us in some ways. I do miss him quite a bit, but I also feel that...
    LovingLeila LovingLeila 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2010

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    I Should Have Trusted By Guts..

    Am in the process of a break up,with a girl who would rather listen to her parents than fight for out love. She is a single mum (26),central Asian Muslim...am an african (27) and not religious. She basically said she doesn't want to fight with her parents,who would never accept...
    code254 code254 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 22, 2013

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    Where Did It All Go Wrong?

    when we met, i knew that he was the one i wanted. he's still the one i want, but just want him to want things for himself, not just to want wht i want. if i'm gonna make all the choices and decide where to go, what movie to watch, top or bottom, what's for dinner, and just...
    Amberlin420 Amberlin420 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 29, 2009

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    I tried so hard to help him

    but he just keep pushing me away. I feel so bad for leaving him in the state that he is in, but I don't really have any more options. I am so tiered of crying over him. Its hard to make a relationship work when both people are so severely broken.
    lostandlonleysoul lostandlonleysoul 16-17, F Jun 6

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    I feel like I'm always the "last one standing"

    in a relationship. Like, I'm always the only one who means it when I say "forever". Recently broke up with someone I haven't been with for a while but felt completely close & myself with. They said they weren't happy & needed to get their priorities straight. They said it wasn't...
    YaGurlFromNY YaGurlFromNY 18-21, F Mar 6

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    I stopped calling my girl cuz we lost each

    other. Its funny cuz we were getting tight but she never has time for me so i stopped calling and she stopped too. Anyone wanna talk to me about this? I have mixed feelings about all this and its driving me nuts. i wanna just move on with life with my head high and find a girl...
    RealTalkFriend RealTalkFriend 26-30, M Jul 23

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    My world came to a shattering end.

    ...1 and a half years of marriage vanished in a blink of an eye. What a big fat lie for better or worse... What a sad trade off to divorce a loving husband for 2 days of fun. She use to be such a good girl and now partying it up in the LA clubs dressed half naked with a bunch of...
    itslife925 itslife925 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 17

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    It hurts to go through the memories to write

    this post. A friend of mine recommended it to get my emotions out. Recently, I've been battling my ex's infidelities. He's been cheating for a while and hope that he would change and told myself it was a phase. It kept going on until I suggest we have an open relationship. I...
    roeypoo1 roeypoo1 26-30, T 4 days ago

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    I Thought She Loved Me.

    I'm single again. Unexpectedly. She broke up with me 3 days ago. She had been told that this entire time we've been together, that I was still somehow seeing my ex. She claims I've been cheating on her. I could never do that. I love this girl too much. I've been in love with...
    nosamason nosamason 22-25, M Sep 6, 2013

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    I broke up 2 days ago.

    I dated for about two years, but we never really counted it. When we began, I was very afraid of commitment, I was sleeping around and just hooking up every weekend downtown after drinking jagger bombs as if they were water. One drunk night I met my now ex boyfriend when my...
    lost1001 lost1001 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 19, 2013

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    Tonight Is the End.

    The last straw has been had. I need what she can't give. Tonight will be the night I tell her good-bye. Sounds easier than I know it'll be. We've been together almost 6 very trying months. Another hopeful relationship  bites the dust....It will probably take awhile to...
    QueenOfHearts QueenOfHearts 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 21, 2009

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    Im going thru a break up !

    My boyfriend says . That sexually we are not compatible because i havent ****** him . He says its been 2 months that he feels like this . What should i do .
    yogibear70 yogibear70 26-30, M 4 Responses Jun 25

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    All the things that make me wrong

    for you is what brought you to me. We would've never met if I was Indian. I'm a trini girl with dark skin and a ****** attitude but I'm also smart, because I grew up in Trinidad with a smart trini mommy and a strict education system. You won't admit it but you love how smart I...
    codelle1 codelle1 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 25

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    My ex and I broke up a couple months back,

    and I'm having such a hard time moving forward from it. I feel as if it was my fault that we broke up. I was so angry at first, but as a couple weeks went by, I tried so hard to mend the pieces. It's so difficult not to fight for something that felt so real for three whole years...
    boomkimchaloy boomkimchaloy 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    My girlfriend wants to break up with me.

    The reason being is we have a huge age gap. We are both in love with each other and seriously can't stand a day without her. We had an intense intimate relationship for 6 months and today she wants to break up with me. I'm 17 and she's 25. But I found out that age doesn't matter...
    iwannabeyou iwannabeyou 16-17, M 3 Responses Jun 3

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    And now I'm alone again.

    **** your 25 characters
    CaptainBenza CaptainBenza 18-21, M Jun 12

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    Had To Let Go...

    Breaking up is never easy, but in today's modern age of always being 'connected' it makes keeping sane for the hurt party ever more difficult. Recently I had noticed I was going batshit crazy, pure anxiety, only to realize that I spent a large part of my day looking t my ex's...
    SingleDad2013 SingleDad2013 31-35, M Oct 28, 2013

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    So a guy I was with ended things with me about

    a month ago, but recently came into my work and talked crap about me to my coworkers...should I say anything to him or just let it go?
    Lmarie91 Lmarie91 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 27

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    Still Hurts Like Hell..what A Silly Girl I Am

    The first month of the big B is approaching so here's the progress so far of how I spent it... Good Bits 1. Walked out on my job which was just driving me to be an insecure bat (hence affecting the 'put together' image my ex adored me for) 2. Went totally mental in any club...
    Fishtar Fishtar 26-30 1 Response Feb 5, 2012

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