I Am Going Through a Break-up

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    Today is the end my three year,

    on and off, accidental relationship with the only boy I have ever loved. I will NOT be your girlfriend at your convenience. I will NOT be led on with your false promise of a future together. I will NOT be your dirty secret any longer. I DESERVE BETTER. I am ending this...
    Alibooksaplenty Alibooksaplenty
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 11, 2015

    I've broken up with my fiancee (we have child

    together too). Its a pretty complex situation, and there is fault and difference on both sides - but in a nutshell you'd call my side a semi-abusive cycle, plus I cheated on her; yet her side comes with communication issues she passed off as a cultural difference but was like me...
    trentley trentley
    31-35, M
    1 Response Sep 27, 2015

    On my way to work, I couldn't bear the inequity

    of our relationship any longer and with all of my previous attempts of an honest conversation ending in being belittled, I knew I couldn't handle an interactive break up. Without giving it a second thought, I typed the following at a red light "Congratulations on your new life...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses May 29, 2015

    Im going thru a break up !

    My boyfriend says . That sexually we are not compatible because i havent ****** him . He says its been 2 months that he feels like this . What should i do .
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jun 25, 2014

    I Should Have Trusted By Guts..

    Am in the process of a break up,with a girl who would rather listen to her parents than fight for out love. She is a single mum (26),central Asian Muslim...am an african (27) and not religious. She basically said she doesn't want to fight with her parents,who would never accept...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Sep 22, 2013

    My boyfriend dumped me 3 months ago,

    we were still living together and working together which made life extremely hard! We had good days and some **** ones but over all it was all just a mind **** i didnt actually know what he wanted at all. He kept asking when i was going to leave and move out but i didnt want to...
    selena1806 selena1806
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 22, 2013

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    chriscc11 chriscc11
    26-30, F
    Jul 21, 2015

    I'm going through a break up

    and it's the worst ever. Not the first time as I was in a on/off relationship of 5 years. What's hurting me is that my ex is behaving like I was such a terrible person. We broke up over a stupid argument and I tried fixing things and he wasn't having it. It wasn't over cheating...
    Sunshine009 Sunshine009
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Aug 17, 2014

    I'm having a hard time adjusting.

    One day we're together and the next day we're not. I miss you so much and I hate myself for even caring.
    codelle1 codelle1
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 3, 2014

    I just realized I've been doing this.

    Noting how many days it's been since we last spoke. Today makes 16.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jun 12, 2015

    I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 6

    months because he went out to a night club and ended up cheating on my with a married woman.. Days after we broke up he begged for a second chance. I told him that I needed time to think about it and that I would get back to him. I took a few days and decided to forgive him.. He...
    sarrahhh33 sarrahhh33
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 27, 2014

    So my boyfriend of 8 months broke up with me

    out of nowhere yesterday. Previous to this, we'd had almost a perfect relationship, we hardly argued and laughed together all the time. Then he went away on a training course, we had our first argument over the phone and it seems like he's completely changed. He ignored me for 4...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Sep 20, 2015

    Finally got a PROPER break up with my ex

    boyfriend Haha No BS excuses, just plain feelings :) It doesn't feel "good", just different. Like breathing different air. What's the next chapter got in store for me? Anyone single out there? :D Anyone want to be friends? I have a bunch of stories to tell all :) It's going...
    chrisisyourfriend chrisisyourfriend
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Aug 22, 2014

    I Sold My Soul I was a fool lost in my love of

    you I sold my soul to lay down with you I gave all of myself away Now I have to get it back without you I know, it is all in me, lost on me The failure in me has resurfaced So weak, lost, tired, and scared I want you and always will I am so sorry for this But I can't stay in...
    OkayBut OkayBut
    51-55, M
    1 Response Nov 11, 2014

    Recently went through a break up with a great

    person. Apparently we both needed some growing up to do and things just didn't work out because of how damaged we both are emotionally. Going through a tough time and jut looking for a friend to talk to. Preferably someone who can relate...
    MonsieurKJ MonsieurKJ
    18-21, M
    1 Response Mar 3, 2014
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Sep 3, 2015

    we had a mutual break-up last year,

    today she told me that she likes a guy. she also told me "sorry, i hurted you." i know that its okay but 'being replaced is bad'
    sid726 sid726
    22-25, M
    1 Response Sep 26, 2015

    Today is thanksgiving,

    by definition it's a day to be thankful for what we have. Today I'm thankful to my ex-boyfriend. Our breakup is new and painful and last night we got to have a long conversation and I went to bed happy for the first time in weeks. Today I wake up happy and it is thanks to him...
    lizwrites lizwrites
    22-25, F
    Nov 26, 2015
    tran1101 tran1101
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 3, 2014

    10 days after our one year anniversary I wake

    up from a nap and he is not home, my friend who was staying there on our couch during a move to a new home for her said all he said was he was going down to the storage basement of our building. He did, he just left. he wouldn't answer phone, emails and left no note. Being...
    AaSavage AaSavage
    36-40, F
    1 Response Dec 21, 2015

    Tryler my boyfriend : this is

    for you ::::: im breaking up.with you. Im chatting with someone that gives me the best fealing in my heart and i love talking to him so im sorry but im breKing up with you ..,.. i think im on love you the guy im chaatting with and goodbye tyler...... from,,,,,elisabeth
    lovebug1073 lovebug1073
    13-15, F
    1 Response Mar 28

    Tonight Is the End.

    The last straw has been had. I need what she can't give. Tonight will be the night I tell her good-bye. Sounds easier than I know it'll be. We've been together almost 6 very trying months. Another hopeful relationship  bites the dust....It will probably take awhile to...
    QueenOfHearts QueenOfHearts
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Sep 21, 2009

    I miss you and I hate you

    for not wanting the something as me sometimes I feel like it's my fault because I got attached to soon I should of known better and there's nothing you would do because you just don't care anymore it's easier that way isn't it. Like you said you have enough on your plate, you...
    Francoise25 Francoise25
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 18

    I don't know what to do with myself.

    I want to sleep forever,to never wake up. I want to die,to be dead,not to feel. I want to travel back in time and never meet you. I want to wake up in a time where I no longer feel this pain. I want to be numb,dead. To not exist because I feel like without you I don't.
    TheGirlFromJupiter TheGirlFromJupiter
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 4, 2014

    All relationships end at some point.

    Some end with death after 50 years of happy marriage, and some end after a few months, weeks, days or even hours. They will all end; that’s just a fact. But we don’t want to face that. We have this belief that we not only have the ability but some kind of responsibility to...
    Clairedove Clairedove
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jul 16, 2015

    I can't stop crying. I can't eat.

    I can't sleep...when is this going to get better....
    jessipanda jessipanda
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Sep 25, 2015

    I went through a break up with my girlfriend

    Priscilla even though me and her went out a couple of times though out the past we went through a long lasting relationship we have not been seeing each other in a long time and while we was at the mall I found out that this guy has been talking to her on her Facebook page...
    Johnny1446 Johnny1446
    18-21, M
    Oct 27, 2015

    "I live each day with questions in my head.

    One eye forward, the other looking back Across the miles and the moments fled, In everything I've built I see a crack. It's taking time to let the light shine through, And yet, that's what life is, and what cracks do." (DG, 2012-13) I worry that I will always be looking at...
    slightlylost slightlylost
    31-35, F
    Feb 4, 2014

    Well, it's all over. After a month

    and a half of torture by telling me it could work out and then telling me it wouldn't, he finally ended things. I am relieved because now I have a final answer, but still devastated and hurt. I want to stop feeling this pain.
    WhoIsTroy WhoIsTroy
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Jul 20, 2015

    number one rule when you're going through a

    break up... DO NOT.. i repeat DO NOT! listen to sad songs.. that's a big no no
    sabbracaddabraa sabbracaddabraa
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Jun 26, 2015

    So I feel like an ***.

    Yesterday I told me boyfriend of almost 6 years that I wanted to split up. In the beginning of our relationship it was like most, the honeymoon phase, constantly thinking about them, butterflies, etc. He took my virginity and I took his. We have only had sex with each other then...
    Kelsiefae Kelsiefae
    22-25, F
    Sep 17, 2015

    What sucks most about break-ups is

    when you give your all and your heart to the person and you love them so much but it just wasn't working. It's heartbreaking.....
    AwkwardTomboy AwkwardTomboy
    18-21, F
    Sep 8, 2015

    Dear Aiysha, My heart aches

    for you. It's beating too hard and too slow and the thought of not having you in my life is tearing me apart. I realize now that maybe we weren't meant to be together. I know you'll never see this, but God knows I'd take back everything I said if I could have you back. Maybe...
    chelsey7 chelsey7
    18-21, F
    Dec 20, 2015

    My boyfriend of 6 years just broke up with me

    even though he's the one who cheated on me I don't know what to do now
    AlainaMcKinely AlainaMcKinely
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 19

    It true. My husband

    and I are getting a divorce. We have been wed for 6 years, the last two have been abusive for me. I have finally made the decision to leave and ask for a divorce- let's just say that's not going over we'll. My husband is mentally unstable and untreated (up until now.. Trust me...
    Calbie5 Calbie5
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 12

    How do I get over a break up

    that was unfair on my behalf? Its been a week and I feel crushed, deflated, lonely and sad. I deleted my other Halfs number so I couldn't ring or text because doing that I am making a fool out of my self so I have some sort of self control but all I am doing is thinking of him...
    Sunseekerx Sunseekerx
    36-40
    Jan 3

    Yesterday was my boyfriend's birthday,

    although I had the time and the means to go (we live four hours apart but used to live together) i didn't. I also didn't bother to get him anything. Last week i was giving him the cold shoulder. I'm just so pissed off at him because he's been a bum for 8 months now and he's...
    recoveringzombie recoveringzombie
    22-25, F
    Sep 21, 2015

    I initiated the break up.

    And it has been real hard. Real real hard to deal with. But I know I have to do it. If I don't, it'll be at the expense of my sanity and I can't let that happen to myself. There are days where I can't function fully. And days where I'm okay with thjngs. It's draining for...
    HeyHiHelloOla HeyHiHelloOla
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 6, 2014
    abbbbbby abbbbbby
    16-17, F
    Sep 10, 2014

    Day 2. I sent her a morning text

    and she replied with a smiley. We are just talking like friends. I miss calling her baby, miss having her in my arms, miss being mistreated by her, miss kissing her.. now it's night time we havent talked in 6 hours. I wonder how's she doing and if she's feeling ok... I...
    Jamesthellama Jamesthellama
    22-25, M
    Feb 29

    I Ended things this past Saturday afternoon

    and haven't said a word to him until today. He kept trying to message me and call me and keeps telling me loves me and only wants to be with me. We've discussed things like marriage for a while now and honestly he wasn't just my boyfriend he was truly my best friend. Today I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses May 5, 2015

    Dated a guy and we spent everyday together,

    it was like we were meant to be. We never fought about anything and we're best friends too. He randomly ended things with me because he said that he doesn't know if he will be able to return the feelings I had. I was his first serious relationship and I told him I didn't care if...
    Summergurl889 Summergurl889
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 6
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Nov 13, 2014
    alwayswinter alwayswinter
    16-17, F
    1 Response Apr 15, 2015

    My boyfriend of 8 months basically told me

    that he doesn't want to bother with me anymore. We got in fights a lot lately but I still loved him so much, I just thought he would try for me. I guess he didn't care that much. I've been crying non-stop since. I want to send him a million messages but I can't bother, I know...
    allidoisread allidoisread
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jul 31, 2015

    I'll try and keep it short.

    I'm at the lowest point in my life and I have no one to talk to. About 2 months ago my gf/fiancé broke up with me. We lived together for 3 months and dated on and off for 3 years. I thought this was it because we were finally together. Her reason for dumping me was that she...
    DistantTraveler DistantTraveler
    22-25, M
    1 Response Oct 26, 2015

    He did it yesterday. We dated

    for 4 months, then I broke up with him. I regretted it so I started talking to him again & he admitted he wanted me back. We tried again just before Christmas, and I thought things were going so much better. We get along on a spiritual level & I thought we had similar morals...
    Fiftypercent Fiftypercent
    18-21
    1 Response Jan 1

    So my now ex girlfriend

    and i decided our relationship should end about two weeks ago or so. We were together for about a year. Shes not even allowed to date so it got to the point where i would only see her in between classes at school. Day in, day out. Same thing. Over and over. We say hi, walk...
    PainIsPeace PainIsPeace
    16-17, M
    1 Response Sep 3, 2015

    Breaks up suck!! But in the end it all makes

    you stronger and it builds you up tougher, and makes you realize what you don't want in the next relationship with someone else, so stand tall because you can conquer that wall of fear loneliness ... Sadness whatever it is your facing that person isn't worth anymore of your...
    freespiritgal2777 freespiritgal2777
    26-30, F
    Mar 3, 2014

    After 3 years this relationship is coming to an

    end. I think it was obvious it won't work out from the beginning. She was 15 years older than me. I don't believe age matters, however she was very insecure about it. We had our ups and downs in this relationship, however it came to a point in which it is toxic for both of us. I...
    SoulCoffee SoulCoffee
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jul 27, 2015

    I need to be strong. 6 months have passed

    and I'm still not over it completely... I don't understand why the ghost of his love keeps haunting me.
    American19 American19
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 11, 2015

    We completely ended it about 3 weeks ago,

    or more. I am so numb that I even ignored the date and everything related, so I can't give an exact measure of time. Truly, it feels like this relationship was over a very long time ago maybe months or over a year, who knows. I think the worst thing you could do to another...
    Safetysuit96 Safetysuit96
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 11, 2014

    So my bf rather ex just called me

    and ended things. He called me because my parents are getting divorced and little did I know he had a surprise planned for me too. Now I'm sitting in shock unable to even cry and confused as to what happened. I keep playing all our conversations over and over in my head and...
    nastlover nastlover
    26-30, F
    10 Responses Jan 30

    broke up yesterday. even with no contact she s

    still in my life. in everything i love, do and think . hurts. sucks. brakes me
    lilith6the6siren6 lilith6the6siren6
    22-25
    3 Responses Jul 20, 2015
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