I Am Going Through a Breakup

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    I feel my boyfriend is going to break up with

    me. I am so upset and distraught because he said I was his girl and that he would never ever leave me.. but this morning, he told me that he needed space and now I am so devastated... he told me that he needed today to think about things.. and that he still loves me very much...
    kissmequick14 kissmequick14
    46-50, F
    1 Response Jul 20, 2015

    Healing. ♥

    So I recently left my abusive, cheating, sex addict, suicidal and controlling boyfriend. He is now just another ex. Moving on has been hard because we broke up around august...But because we "loved" each other so much, we wanted to stay friends. It has been hard and he's...
    LuisaLemon LuisaLemon
    Jan 18, 2013

    Had enough of my Gf. I confided to her about a

    family problem that made me feel like ****. suddenly it became all about her, how i dont understand her point, the point shes imposing that i should think. ive been enduring her insensitivity, her verbally abusive ways, being so judgemental, unreasonably jealous and inability...
    Mateom93 Mateom93
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Oct 13, 2015

    You said you loved me

    but you can't even give me the decency of calling me but instead texted it. Wow I thought u were better than that.i can't even confirm that was you texting me, all I know it could b a imposter.
    martinez1993 martinez1993
    22-25, M
    1 Response Apr 1

    People say that writing a letter

    but not actually sending helps.. So here goes nothing.. Dear Benjamoo, These 2 years and 7 months that we've spent together haven't all been good memories.. There has been upset, anger but also happy tears, love and passion.. It's been nearly 2 weeks since we broke up and...
    Victoriaa95 Victoriaa95
    18-21, F
    Jul 30, 2015

    I recently broke up with my boyfriend

    that I was dating for almost 4 1/2 years. You would expect that I would be in tears and just extremely sad. I was at first but now I'm perfectly fine. I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulder. I don't regret it at all & I highly enjoy only caring about myself. Yes, I...
    Psychlover16 Psychlover16
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 23, 2015

    How does someone love you

    so much and takes care of you and in a short period of time they just stop all of that?? I never thought I was the one to catch feelings in the first place and now that we're tearing apart I know it's better for us to be broken up but I can't stop thinking of him. I hate being...
    mariaababieexo mariaababieexo
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 27

    This Is The End Of The End

    So my bf (father of my son) and I just broke up today and it just dragged on and on about how much we hate each other. He's abusive when we get into heated arguments and I'm just glad that it's all over now. I've waited to long to break up with him and now I feel so relieved. I...
    xoxoluvu xoxoluvu
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Nov 6, 2013

    I hate breakups so much.

    (I need to vent)I feel like I totally wasted my time and energy on this guy. I broke up with him today because I know I deserve better. He never did anything for me, he wouldn't communicate if there was a problem...he wouldn't even check on me if I had a bad day. He was never...
    VirgoBeauty VirgoBeauty
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jun 18, 2015

    I feel like I'm not ready to let go,

    but I know if I never did he never would and neither of us would've ever even given ourselves the freedom we need to find happiness. Still... it's a lot to let go of.
    NotFirstNotLast NotFirstNotLast
    22-25, F
    Jun 7, 2015

    Feeling abit delicate right now.

    . Yesterday would have been our 2 year and 9 month anniversary.. And as per usual you probably haven't even realized.. Keep thinking about you a lot recently again which is annoying, really miss you and miss talking to you.. I hope things are well.. *sigh* this is so much harder...
    Victoriaa95 Victoriaa95
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 29, 2015

    I hate this so much I miss him everyday

    and he moved but I didn't
    andersonemily andersonemily
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Oct 26, 2015

    We Were Moving Too Slow

    That's what he told me. Translation- he found agirl that would let him go all the way. She was easy, I wasn't. He likes easy apparently. We broke up two days ago. Yesterday I found out in the course of our year realashinship he cheated on me, with three different girls, one of...
    BRandy208 BRandy208
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 23, 2011

    It's not a break up in a conventional sense

    but it sure does feel like one
    thetvison thetvison
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 18, 2015

    Wow, 2 years and it's over.

    I don't know what to feel. This pain is just unreal.
    cnguyen138 cnguyen138
    18-21, M
    Dec 27, 2014

    My boyfriend has extreme anger issues

    and last week was so bad that I am about to give him an ultimatum. We have been together for 15 months, he's a good person when he's not being crazy mad. But I'm about to text him and say that if he's not gonna get help for his anger that I have to leave him. What should I...
    Babyk14 Babyk14
    18-21, F
    10 Responses Oct 8, 2014

    I've read a few of the posts on here

    and the general trend seems to be that people are angry because they were dumped in a horrible fashion at the worst possible moment. Mine is a bit different. It's barely been a day and a half since it happened and I'm already on here. Coz I can't do the things I normally do. I...
    Kaylors Kaylors
    22-25, M
    Aug 3, 2015

    I called you today but with no caller ID.

    . You answered in your normal happy peppy voice and I just froze.. I wasn't planning on saying anything anyway but I couldn't even breathe.. I just hung up. You would have had no idea it was me, I don't know why I did it but now I feel even worse than before
    Victoriaa95 Victoriaa95
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 4, 2015

    I haven't texted in 4 days

    and to be honest, I feel like I'm actually getting over him :)
    jellyycook jellyycook
    18-21, F
    Jun 6, 2015

    I was in a serious relationship with a girl,

    but she broke up with me to be with her friend. She started dating him within a week of breakup. I felt rejected and replaced. It's been three months now and i still miss her and cry sometimes, out of nowhere. We were living together for 10 months and I bought a car for her...
    xxwishxx xxwishxx
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jun 6, 2015

    The worst part was waiting

    for my flight at the airport. It was Saturday evening when she told me it wouldn't work anymore. We spent Saturday night holding each other and falling asleep. We spent Sunday all day holding each other and crying. We said goodbye in the afternoon around three. She left for her...
    Kaylors Kaylors
    22-25, M
    Aug 4, 2015

    Me and my boyfriend broke up in January,

    it wasn't a bad break up he is just younger than me and after several pointless arguments he called it a day, I don't think he was ready for commitment, we recently got in contact and we both said how we felt, bare in mind I'm such a soft person I haven't fallen out of love with...
    sb99 sb99
    22-25, F
    Jul 15, 2015

    I miss you dearly. Maybe its a matter of pride

    that I don't come running back to you. Maybe its just because my subconscious knows that I truly deserve someone better.
    kronovide kronovide
    26-30, M
    1 Response Sep 25, 2015

    It's been 4 hours since I got dumped by this

    girl I've been dating for 2 months now. I thought we had a connection and I thought it was going somewhere, but apparently it didn't. She's a very sexual person from what I've seen and I'm not so. It's not like I have low libido, but I just haven't had much sex in my life. I'm...
    lonewolf2002 lonewolf2002
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 1

    Everytime I see her I lose my breath

    and it has been 3 months now, I work at a bar and she was there a few days ago with her girl friends. I noticed she was looking at me but I also know that another guy has taken my spot... We were together for a year and she was my first real love. I am lost and need help
    understandmeagain understandmeagain
    18-21, M
    1 Response Sep 22, 2014

    I thought I was doing well

    but I saw you today.. You walked right past me, you didn't see me sat there because I put my head down.. I watched you walk away.. It brought everything back to me and now I just feel like **** again.. Even though the state you were in was just disgusting.. I once loved you and...
    Victoriaa95 Victoriaa95
    18-21, F
    Oct 1, 2015

    Going Through A Breakup

    I am going through a breakup, and even though it is not my first one, I don’t know how to cope with my feelings. I am trying to keep it together, but inside I am falling apart. I feel lonely, scared, depressed, confused and angry. I can’t stop thinking about him and our...
    YellowFly YellowFly
    1 Response Jun 30, 2011

    It's been over 3 weeks now.

    .. My ex seems to be plodding along as usual acting like he's fine and has no care in the world.. Makes me feel like I was a nightmare to be with and now he's finally free.. Was I really that bad? I think there's a very small part of me that won't let go and is hoping that one...
    Victoriaa95 Victoriaa95
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 10, 2015

    I really loved this guy

    and we were so close. I dont what suddenly changed but I had a doubt he was cheating on me and after few days he broke up with me. Its been going on for last 2 months and its complicated. I dont know if he ever loved me or just played with me. I feel horrible all the time. How...
    nishat123 nishat123
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 5, 2014

    It feels weird not having someone to talk to.

    You kinda just feel lonely. Used to having someone you can call and now, you realize she was the only one you talked to because her opinion was the only one that mattered. Even though i get approached by females, I just, idk.
    cnguyen138 cnguyen138
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jan 6, 2015

    Stubborn Vs. Insecure

    My recent ex girlfriend is intelligent. She is curious. She inspires me to actually want to converse about a wide range of subjects. She is attractive. She is kind and caring. She has common sense. But her insecurity just is too much. She texts and calls me several times daily...
    NonExistX NonExistX
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Mar 24, 2012

    Whether this was a good idea

    or a terrible idea.. I texted him today basically saying that I feel I don't know the real reason why we broke up and I have still have so many things to say to him and I have unanswered questions still... My mum is furious with me and reckons I'll be back to square one again...
    Victoriaa95 Victoriaa95
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 26, 2015

    Last night I dreamt about him again.

    We both performed at a concert last night, so in my dream he texted me later saying, "hey babe, nice job! I like the boots and legs, keep it up" so I replied "thanks? Why did you just give me three compliments?" And he didn't respond. It was a weird dream. That's an out of...
    BroguesAndJeans BroguesAndJeans
    16-17, F
    Jan 8, 2015

    I keep finding myself keep going on his Facebook

    and Twitter profiles all the time and it's doing my head in because he's acting normal like nothing's wrong.. And this little slag keeps liking his profile pictures too and that's ******* me off even more!! I wish I didn't care >:O
    Victoriaa95 Victoriaa95
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 23, 2015

    I just broke up with my boyfriend today,

    we've been together for nearly 3 years but the last 6 months or so have been horrible, he hasn't treated me right and he's very selfish, heartless and emotionless.. He told me that he doesn't feel pain or emotion and that's the way he is, he wants an easy life
    Victoriaa95 Victoriaa95
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 18, 2015

    surely its normal to break up

    and to wake up the next day and immediately feel guilty about things you did wrong for the relationship to fail? i left to pursue happiness as i was far from happy. the worst thing is, i still love him
    ElleeC83 ElleeC83
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 8

    Trysheema baby. I love you

    so much and I miss you more than you’ll ever know. Apologizing does no justice as to say how angry I am in myself for hurting you and Zephaniah both. My drinking did get way outta hand. You know I know you baby. I know you better than you think and I believe that scares you a...
    TaurasiWade TaurasiWade
    22-25, F
    Aug 10, 2015

    I saw this on Tumblr tonight

    and wanted to share ;)
    GypsyMiss GypsyMiss
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Nov 25, 2014

    Monday was my first day back to school

    after winter break, and it went pretty well for the first day at school after my breakup. Yesterday was a snow day. Today was not so good. I thought about him so often, and it hurt. I miss him, I miss hugging him and I miss talking to him and I just miss everything about being...
    BroguesAndJeans BroguesAndJeans
    16-17, F
    Jan 7, 2015

    Have you ever wanted to be free from a

    relationship because it began to feel repetitive and boring? But you so deeply loved the person because they were your first love, your first to take your virginity, & your bestfriend? Maybe you haven't been in this situation particularly, but I need help.. And at this point I...
    kelsey9317 kelsey9317
    18-21, F
    Jan 14

    Is there just any advice someone could give me

    on moving on? I'm feeling so empty right now and it scares me. I know breakups are something everyone goes through, but right now I'm feeling really alone 😥
    hayleydarien hayleydarien
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 29, 2015

    We both knew that there was a difference in

    terms of how much one cared for the other (me caring for him more), but I wasn't sure to what extent he cared for me. I asked to have a "serious talk" with him ASAP, and he said that he had also been wanting to do that, so we went to the park and sat down. I brought up the...
    SkyouInSpace SkyouInSpace
    16-17, F
    1 Response Mar 24

    It's been just over 2 months

    now since I broke up with my ex.. I was doing really well keeping busy and getting through it.. Life was turning out pretty positive for a change.. But recently I feel like I'm taking a step back, memories we had together are making reappearances in my mind managing to slip...
    Victoriaa95 Victoriaa95
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 13, 2015

    I don't know how to let my feelings out.

    All i can think about is what happened and things that were said. Its killing me inside. It's just funny how you can trust someone one second and the next thing you know they back stab you and tell you a bunch of stuff that you weren't expecting and that just tears you down. It...
    rd936 rd936
    18-21, M
    Jul 5, 2015

    My relationship of two years ended around 2

    months back. What hurts even more is that she loves someone else now. It's especially hard to accept since i am depressed for past sometime and emotionally dependent on her. What hurts me is that i supported her for past two years when she was depressed and now when i am going...
    blad3runn3rr blad3runn3rr
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jan 3

    A knife is forced through my chest Fiery With

    the blood of your lust Piercing into the marrow of my bones Into the softness of my flesh It is bulging Like the eyes of the dead Wide and open as ever Pushing into the crevices of my neck Choking up My breath is deep and labored Heart Pounding From the struggle The pull The...
    ethereal101 ethereal101
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 8, 2014

    It's been 4 days since I broke up with my ex.

    . I was feeling really positive and strong but now I'm starting to feel depressed and sad and I don't want to feel this way.. I constantly keep thinking what is he doing, what is he thinking? Has he bitched about me to his slutty friends from college? And I wish I could just stop...
    Victoriaa95 Victoriaa95
    18-21, F
    Jul 22, 2015

    Three days has passed

    for me ever since i let her go.I was in a long distance relationship. I cant sleep. I cant eat. I still want her but all i can do is let her live without me because i know that she doesnt want me anymore. I have suicidal tendencies but i need to live to support my mom and my...
    deadbeat27 deadbeat27
    22-25, M
    1 Response Feb 24
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